OVERLAY (What Prevents You From Having a Real Relationship) - Teal Swan

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  • Опубликовано: 18 май 2018
  • Teal Swan's video on Overlay explains some deep seeded reasons that prevent you from having a real relationship. This video is about reality and that you may be existing in a different reality from that of your partner or other half in the relationship. Teal dives into the how e can discover what reality we exist in, if there are things hidden to us in our own reality and how to effectively communicate with your partner.
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Комментарии • 663

  • @MD-jr4qc
    @MD-jr4qc 6 лет назад +407

    please do a video about loneliness, no friends, no relationships etc for long periods of time or even the whole adult life

    • @Newcreation1114
      @Newcreation1114 4 года назад +19

      As with Corona virus here it would be a good time to make a loneliness video

    • @lowbodycount
      @lowbodycount 4 года назад +3

      😔

    • @sll110
      @sll110 3 года назад +6

      do Little things to help yourself I saw other video

    • @donstarkey9896
      @donstarkey9896 3 года назад +11

      Awe that is so sad, no one should be alone

    • @Angelina123321
      @Angelina123321 2 года назад +3

      I agree to this

  • @mikeanelli4979
    @mikeanelli4979 5 лет назад +70

    Can confirm. I lived in an overlay until I was in my early 20's and when the real reality smashed me out of it, I fell into a massive depression. It took me years and years to recover.

  • @r.marian6277
    @r.marian6277 5 лет назад +49

    The concept of putting a situation on mute is genius!

    • @diddlina218
      @diddlina218 Год назад +2

      I have heard this suggestion from a life coach..put TV on mute and observe to practise

  • @dallymoo7816
    @dallymoo7816 6 лет назад +161

    this is for everyone and not just about romantic relationships

  • @Xianomega
    @Xianomega 6 лет назад +186

    Teal Swan routinely posts videos about what I'm thinking right after I figure out what I'm thinking. Literally ten minutes before this video was posted, I tweeted "To love a person is simply to delight that she is who she is. It's what happens when you enjoy what's real." Something cosmically beautiful is playing itself out.

    • @macoeur1122
      @macoeur1122 6 лет назад +6

      Ditto: These ideas were just going through my mind yesterday. "Collective Consciousness"?...."Attunement"?...

    • @Xianomega
      @Xianomega 6 лет назад +2

      MaCoeur I suspect God or Source or whatever values ideas that we come up with on our own more than ideas we just take on faith. Then they aren’t “tacked on” but something that’s a part of us, something alive. We know them from the inside, not just from the outside. It’s like God/Source says: “You finally figured it out! Now here’s some details!”

    • @macoeur1122
      @macoeur1122 6 лет назад +2

      I love that! I just left a comment under your "how I see the world" video. Check it out!

    • @nejczupan
      @nejczupan 6 лет назад +2

      it happens to me to. i started figuring something out,and soon after she makes a video about it :) amazing woman

    • @jovonzion
      @jovonzion 6 лет назад +1

      It could be possibly, that teal is studying astrology just to make it seem she is coincidentally dropping into our own specific life events?

  • @Danipieee
    @Danipieee 6 лет назад +130

    I’ve had relationships just like this and at a certain point I really had to take personal responsibility for projecting my overlays on to other people and expecting relationships to work out.
    And I love what you said about paying attention to how people treat other people. I dated a guy once that treated animals, waitresses, and even his own mother like complete crap and this might sound messed up, but at the time it actually made me feel special because he was sweet to me and not others, but over time he started treating me exactly the way he treated others with disrespect and so on. Taught me a good lesson!

    • @bunnyboo6295
      @bunnyboo6295 2 года назад

      That kind of dose give that feeling that they love you

  • @EmilyElizabethxox
    @EmilyElizabethxox 6 лет назад +87

    I'm dealing with this right now. I met a guy who seems perfect in every way but doesn't seem like he's really engaged in me as a person or interested in who I am. It hurts so bad to be alone. I'm 26 and scared I'll never find love and become an old maid. This video helped me realize I shouldn't waste my time...

    • @dallymoo7816
      @dallymoo7816 6 лет назад +6

      ya.. so sorry.. im focusing on me lately even the ones that say they love me betray me so its time to foucs on me finally

    • @taylormizen8892
      @taylormizen8892 6 лет назад +16

      That’s so young! Focus on the day ahead and on living authentically! That’s really the main goal of life. To be happy in the now. It’s the only thing we really have control over 💓

    • @abebber2008
      @abebber2008 6 лет назад

      Hey Emily, would you like to talk some time?

    • @noreshii
      @noreshii 5 лет назад +1

      Emily Elizabeth right there with you girl. Twice last year I did this! Glad it’s being shown to me.

    • @TruthQuest4700
      @TruthQuest4700 5 лет назад

      BINGO!

  • @brendanino6948
    @brendanino6948 5 лет назад +14

    The reality of relationships is scary. I have casted people in characters and than I myself act as a certain character. I am at a blank slate right now. I hate it sometimes but I am ready to meet my needs and accept people for who they are and choose consciously where I meet them

  • @jlgg-mr8xh
    @jlgg-mr8xh 6 лет назад +31

    Thanks for describing EVERY relationship I've ever had...the last one especially. I vow & promise myself to ALWAYS pay attention to the red flags & reality of the situation.

  • @warden835
    @warden835 6 лет назад +4

    I imagine dreams interacting. The more you get to know someone, the more you can pick up on their unique energy. As a humble and vulnerable human being, these connections are more valuable to me than material goods. I always appreciate your perspective, Teal.

  • @joshuhwah94
    @joshuhwah94 6 лет назад +59

    This video topic is soooo aligned with my current situation. I needed to hear this!! I did listen to my gut and stop a relationship that I was trying to mold into something that it wasn't. I do feel a bit sad but I know I am missing an imaginary version of this person.

    • @Funwinxpixee
      @Funwinxpixee 6 лет назад +5

      same here. Sometimes, I wonder about the point of this person entering into my life in the first place. Maybe it was a sign or something that we'll learn with time

  • @curtwilliams2606
    @curtwilliams2606 4 года назад +40

    LOL.
    "The adult version of 2 four year olds playing house"
    So Sad. but so true.
    See it too often

  • @ericaflak6525
    @ericaflak6525 3 года назад +20

    Nothing like a slap in the face on a Monday morning 😅🙏🏻❤️

  • @vixenvalenzuela
    @vixenvalenzuela 6 лет назад +3

    This was me and my ex boyfriend of the last 2& 1/2 years.. we “escaped” the reality of adult life with each other in a strange sense. We partied and did drugs, a lot of sex & admiration of each other. But at the end of the day he was an avoidant attachment musician type and I the anxious type starved to fill the emotional gap my dad did not even come close to filling... this is the hardest yet most relief filled time of my life. I’m seeing my life change before my eyes now that I’m focusing on myself & filling that love gap myself

  • @surfsailor2545
    @surfsailor2545 6 лет назад +35

    "Overlay" would also be known as the projection Carl Yung claimed to occur so frequently in early relationships; the projection of archetypes, namely the idealized animus/a.

    • @jelenaindharma6687
      @jelenaindharma6687 6 лет назад

      where i can learn more about this?

    • @KateLate____
      @KateLate____ 2 года назад

      I don't think so. Teal had a separate video about projection.

  • @ZackStudio
    @ZackStudio 5 лет назад +9

    I searched overlay for editing and this popped out

    • @Joejoyoyoyo
      @Joejoyoyoyo 3 года назад +2

      omg 😭😭😭 The universe called you to the Teal Tribe 😅

  • @tinavkris8394
    @tinavkris8394 4 года назад +4

    I feel like the twin flame dynamic fits well into this. We have to develop the discretion and the sensitivity to recognise the self-indulgent pattern in a perfect illusion of a potential future. I am still working in it

  • @moongarden9667
    @moongarden9667 3 года назад +8

    I'm thinking that this can be the same with overlaying our past traumatic experiences onto others. This seems to be like a ptsd response to triggers where we are "seeing" the past trauma happen over again and placing the other into the role that we recognize and respond to that overlay. This is where I get mixed up about red-flags . Noticing where the trauma overlay is happening and where reality is happening. Life's a trip, man.

  • @arbividz
    @arbividz 4 года назад +36

    Can someone please help me with this because I am confused. How is overlay a thing in a mirror-based universe? Because if overlay is seemingly just a layer on top of actual reality (which I would think is your reflection) then this universe isn’t entirely mirror based I would think.
    Edit:
    After watching this video and her reality video millions of times I've come to the conclusion that overlay is a cop out to facing your pain. It's an avoidance energy. Not a creation energy.

    • @Joejoyoyoyo
      @Joejoyoyoyo 3 года назад +3

      Mmhm, and the fact that others have you in their overlays too

    • @Moonbunny55
      @Moonbunny55 3 года назад +1

      YOU are adorable ☺️

    • @alisonnonemacher4972
      @alisonnonemacher4972 2 года назад +1

      Harsh truth to swallow😣

  • @TheSingingVocologist
    @TheSingingVocologist 6 лет назад +18

    Teal, you are so wise. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and insight with us. You have helped me (and I’m sure thousands of others) to heal and grow over the past two years. I’m so grateful that I “found” you. ❤️🙏

  • @dianedonofrio8724
    @dianedonofrio8724 6 лет назад +7

    This video is so fantastic....another reality check from Teal, regarding relationships....this has been an ongoing struggle for me, with people around me, treating me as their overlay and not as myself...it almost cost me my life, in fact.........being aware of this is key to having a healthy relationship with others, and to be able to recognize when you are nothing but someone else's overlay,...truly can save you the heartache later on when they 'reveal' to you, that this is who you really are to them...I experienced that, and it devastated me.....thank you Teal for acknowledging this....and for caring about the reality of this relationship issue..

  • @tatyanaangelitelove6076
    @tatyanaangelitelove6076 6 лет назад +10

    Exactly! In my past relationships I really believed I was in love with them but I was in love with what I wanted to be true, so much so that when one particular guy rejected me, I became so obsessed with the overlay of us that I thought my purpose on this planet was over or doomed. I didn't try to commit suicide but I imagined having failed the entirety of humanity on a cosmic level and ended up 5150 twice in the mental hospital. I eventually learned through those experiences and English 2: Critical thinking to question everything and to critique it in regards to thorough thought. Thank you Teal for this much needed insight.

    • @secretattractionna
      @secretattractionna 6 лет назад +1

      I had a similar experience! Minus the mental hospital, it was a suicide attempt 10 years ago...

    • @tatyanaangelitelove6076
      @tatyanaangelitelove6076 6 лет назад +3

      Joanna Santucci I am glad that you are still with us. Thank you for sharing. It is comforting to know that we are not alone. May all positivity come to you now.

  • @anneobrien6255
    @anneobrien6255 3 года назад +9

    Great content. I've struggled for years wondering why my relationships never work out. Have a lot of shame about not being true to myself. Struggled on how to move forward. Found someone older who I connect with. I hope its not an overlay!

  • @mie73
    @mie73 5 лет назад +3

    This is the best explanation I have ever heard of this type of relationship, having been the completely ignorant main character in someone else’s overlay. I’d love to see a follow up on how to disentangle oneself without destroying everyone and everything in the process 🙏🏼

  • @andrewkowalski3976
    @andrewkowalski3976 4 года назад +3

    I can really relate to this. We really have to find the way home to ourselves, get back in the body and discover our own mystical authority.

  • @souljacem
    @souljacem 4 года назад +4

    This is a great video to watch when you’re meeting someone new and you’re not sure whether you attracted that person just because of lack or because of actual authenticity leading that relationships formation.

  • @annastusser9181
    @annastusser9181 6 лет назад +11

    Thank you Teal, this was great. I’d been drugged by overlay my entire life! Time to go to rehab, baby!

  • @valentynabelofsky9374
    @valentynabelofsky9374 6 лет назад +14

    It helps me so much every day I see your videos. Can you discuss topics about unrequited love and rejection next?

  • @lalovelylenea
    @lalovelylenea 6 лет назад +22

    I needed this reality check. Thanks a lot.

  • @macoeur1122
    @macoeur1122 6 лет назад +11

    omg...Teal does it again...spells out another "elephant in the room (world)" Thank you, thank you, thank you! :) This is just yet another way of describing my upbringing. All of the females in the family (except me) just "went along" with the consensus "overlay".... I have not generally been susceptible to this myself because I could see it from a very early age and could see it's dysfunction, but can identify at least one time I began to slip into this pattern....after a lengthy period of literally all my focus going into my son while he was dealing with a health crisis... my usual practice of noticing these "overlays" that people use had gone un-exercised, and thus my guard was down when my son got better and I was in such a state of depletion that I unconsciously allowed myself to see certain situations as "more perfect" than they actually were....This was probably due to a combination of the period of singular focus on my son....the need to be fed with a more positive experience...and the sudden opportunity that his recovery provided for me to do so (it felt like a "slingshot" type of thing.....being held down and then "let go") Even while it was happening I was thinking to myself "I need to reign myself in here"..."slow down"....don't let your need for some joy steer you toward self deception"...etc...(saying no to water when I was dying of thirst). and THANK GOD, I was able....through what felt like a truly herculean effort....to untangle the realities from the overlays before I fell into a problematic situation. I would not have used the word "overlays" because I didn't have a word for this phenomenon, but was no stranger to the phenomenon itself. I just had to "enlarge" my focus again after having narrowed it down for so long and remind myself of what I already knew. BTW...don't you think all of our consensus reality is an "overlay" of sorts? Possibly a necessary one until such time as we (collectively) don't need it anymore? O.k...I'm digressing. My own "baseline" is to want a "real" relationship, and this means NOT pre-determining a specific picture of how it will be, but rather that mutually authentic love and attunement is the foundation from which there would be infinite potential "creative paths" that could be taken....It's only from that foundation, I believe, that true, healthy, creative, growing, dynamic relationship can occur.

  • @MrRicluv
    @MrRicluv 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Teal for your dedication and resolve to explain the most difficult emotional scenarios in a way that allows us to keep our dignity and build our desire to be more authentic. I wish you continued success, wholeness, and peace.

  • @CelticRaE19
    @CelticRaE19 6 лет назад +4

    Wow Teal great timing ! Just had a situation I got out of with a relationship built on deceit. You always have the right things to say to help me out.

  • @veganfire4218
    @veganfire4218 6 лет назад +1

    Teal, you're so amazing, I'm rooting for you!!! Your AskTeals and interviews gave me so much guidance that hardly any other teacher out there could give me (well, except my father). You are literally the reason I can get up in the morning and face the day. Were it not for you, I would be a mess. I have yet to find a human who is as authentic as you with so much spiritual insight at the same time. Thank you for putting yourself out there! I'm so grateful you're around! I'm indescribably grateful to you for opening up to me that a part within myself might actually be right about life and myself! It's so relieving having a bit of real self-trust finally. I want you to keep on going with anything you want to do and put out there. Epic stream of love sent your way!
    Alright, I hope that positive rant helped in a supportive way. No worries if it didn't : )

  • @juliagresco3875
    @juliagresco3875 6 лет назад +8

    The universe has been trying to teach me this lesson these past couple months and you explained it perfectly. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️

  • @adrenna1973
    @adrenna1973 3 года назад +1

    "You can be sure that if what they want is the same as our vision, you will see consistent efforts without any influence on your end to reach that state because it is their vision, not your vision for them. It is a good idea to ask yourself, If I was committing to this situation or this person EXACTLY as it is today, knowing it would not ever change, could I do that?" Hard to swallow but truth. It's better to let it be and accept them as instead of hoping their change will translate what you hope will work for you.

  • @timoverdier5577
    @timoverdier5577 6 лет назад +3

    You, continue to amaze me; are an incredible woman, doing so much to facilitate a greater and better humanity!! And I know you have paid a price to do so. Thank you Teal!

  • @polinaraw
    @polinaraw 3 года назад +3

    You keep saving me over and over again. Thank you with all my heart.

  • @NyxiiPyxii
    @NyxiiPyxii 6 лет назад +5

    That was so deep. And kinda hurt to accept. But it was exactly what I needed to hear. And might possibly change my life. Thank you Teal🖤

  • @karelhoogendoorn
    @karelhoogendoorn 3 года назад +2

    You touch on so many of my own psychological dynamics in a way that makes it so clear... wow! I realize that your videos only show up, because something in me is ready to see and hear them and is inviting them in. But having said this, a big thnx again for your presence, your wisdom and your infectious funny giggle when you're laughing about these sometimes stubborn patterns. I get where it's coming from and it adds a big part to the insights I get.
    Warm regards from The Netherlands ❤️

  • @pawan2647
    @pawan2647 3 года назад +1

    Teal swan has all answers to every question I ever asked in life. Much love ma'am.. may you blessed so much.

  • @barbpence8784
    @barbpence8784 6 лет назад +29

    Teal Swan and angel sent you to me thank you sister 💕❤️😇

  • @acornsoundsquirrel
    @acornsoundsquirrel 5 лет назад +1

    This video is one of my favorites of yours. So easy to understand, and an absolute home-run explanation of what I've been trying to figure out for a long time. Thank you.

  • @evelinperez5898
    @evelinperez5898 Год назад +1

    Thank you Teal for your help! Not just with this video but all of them! They have been extremely helpful and this one really hit home for me, I am doing my best to do my part in this life and I am deeply grateful for yours!!! ❤️💯

  • @auryn684
    @auryn684 3 года назад

    I think I knew this back when the video was first posted, but watching it again now I’m amazed at how much this seems to be about Teal and her relationship with Ale. I’ve said several times how Teal’s old blog (where she talked about the struggles she was personally facing) helped me and gave me courage. Knowing that someone as strong, smart, and beautiful as Teal faced hardships and seeing how she applied her own teachings to heal her own heart encouraged me to try her teachings. She leads by example and I really respect that. I wish she was still as open in her blogs, but I understand why she stopped. Anyways, the insight she gained from her relationship with Ale has helped me so much as a fellow “love addict.” That’s why I’m watching this again!

  • @constantine5767
    @constantine5767 6 лет назад +12

    I like all your content. Have been a long time subscriber. Your videos always make me look deeper into myself. I only have one note for you: get a mic. I'm sending you warm energy from New York.

  • @MysteryProductsLtd
    @MysteryProductsLtd 2 года назад +1

    It's my authenticity that's preventing relationships.

  • @jamic8074
    @jamic8074 6 лет назад +1

    Teal is so powerful i feel massive energy flowing threw me when ive watched some of her videos. It was amazeing how good it felt that i want it all the time now! ! !

  • @TheErika711
    @TheErika711 3 года назад +1

    I am literally sitting here in totally numbness THIS TRUTH IS MY CURRENT LIFE - you have literally WOKE ME

  • @miloradtrandafilovic6466
    @miloradtrandafilovic6466 Год назад +2

    Seening this video for the fisrt time today is q MAJOR wake up call for me Teal. Interesting how I find information at a time when I truly need it, that was made quite awhile ago but wasn't in the 'mental space' to find it. Thank you. All the videos of yours I've seen so far have hit my vore being and continue to do so. ❤

  • @Lsoty
    @Lsoty 6 лет назад +3

    Your videos upload at the best time for me 🙏🏽 thank you for all your help during my journey through life

  • @pepita3467
    @pepita3467 6 лет назад

    I like watching your videos because it's like you are intently describing these simple ideas so clearly it's nice to hear someone talking about this side of things

  • @curiouskatsayshello4673
    @curiouskatsayshello4673 6 лет назад

    Amen Sister! Teal, your words have a piercing truth. I love it! Much love to you and everyone looking for connection

  • @lylangel
    @lylangel 2 года назад

    I pulled the overlay card twice from your blindsight deck. This video was exactly what I needed!♡ Thank you for the wake up call

  • @Tinasmithwolfsirens
    @Tinasmithwolfsirens 5 лет назад

    This video should be compulsory viewing for all. I can't tell you how much I love this !! We all know people who fit this bill. Omg. Love u

  • @ShannenH7
    @ShannenH7 5 лет назад +7

    Brilliant! Teal Swan, please keep doing what you're doing. Your work is so insightful, candid and truly inspired!❤

    • @agnese2215
      @agnese2215 4 года назад

      Shannen Hendricks yes i like a lot her videos🤍

  • @Rosa29
    @Rosa29 6 лет назад +2

    Probably my favourite and most important Ask Teal ever. This so much described me (and some present sinchronicities) and therefore my last relationship, so much. This actually just came in perfect divine timing for me :-)

  • @veenelson2317
    @veenelson2317 4 года назад +2

    One of the best videos I’ve ever watched on you tube in my life.. I thank you for your knowledge

  • @creator8503
    @creator8503 6 лет назад

    Teal swan seems to be more on my side than the people in my life. Look at how she is always tipping us off to this information to use for our own good, regardless if we ever come to know her face to face. Is it like she cares so much for complete strangers?
    Its so ridiculous how something this nice can exist in todays world.
    I wanna join the community.

  • @MaireTreasa
    @MaireTreasa 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much! This was 100% on par with what I needed to hear today.

  • @tpriestess
    @tpriestess 6 лет назад +1

    I really resonate with the advice about stepping into the water, step away and integrating. Step in again, if it feels right. Integrate.
    So on....
    Too many of us are 'recovering' from desperate situations or upbringings...and it is important to engage in relationships and to do so with a great commitment to HONOUR.
    Also, as true friends or sisters or brothers, why are we not calling our loved ones into deeper truth about relationship, instead of uncaringly going along with supporting these lies, fantasies, illusions.
    The baby does not need to be thrown out with the bath water. We can get fresh bath water and clean up the baby and be true. Everyone will win.
    Sigh.
    Smile.

  • @HOLYGRAILSTONE
    @HOLYGRAILSTONE 6 лет назад +8

    Thanks for that excellent timing! !!!

  • @xenuburger7924
    @xenuburger7924 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love you = I love my idea of who you are. I needed to hear this.

  • @moonmistress3476
    @moonmistress3476 6 лет назад +3

    Excellent video, well said Teal!

  • @mikkovaan8636
    @mikkovaan8636 4 года назад +1

    You know Teal, chinese astrology Bazi has a concept about this, pretty central one too. If you have a too strong Day Master (unlucky element is too strong one), you will usually be more lonely, and are bound to have self-esteem issues and ego issues. I've found this to be very true in my life, never seen a chart with a stronger day master than mine, probably because those people are usually more lonely and dont draw others into their lives, unless they do more about it than your average person. I found this improved for me when I worked on my chi flow through five elements system, applied more of those weaker elements to my life.
    And I think I'm starting to connect a few dots here. Teal has already done that and so have probably many of you who follow her, so let me just confirm things. The idea that we are one, through the divine or "original" or universal or source in us, that idea is connected to how you treat other people. Teal said once that to really love is to love everybody, and it's been said that the society is only as good as its worst-off citizens, like inmates or the poor sick unemployed people. You can apply that societal thing to yourself, you being the society and all who you interact with, your citizens. So your true love is only as good as how you treat those who you dislike the most and have the least respect for. Because true love is from the source, and there's some of the source in all of us.

  • @caveymoley
    @caveymoley 6 лет назад

    My priestess!
    I just love how you "one, two punch" and "curb stomp finish" me EVERY TIME I watch you...
    Thank you soo much for posting this. I can sense I will be adding it to my ever growing list of must watch again videos.

  • @divinedeanna
    @divinedeanna 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks for teaching me how to read peoples energy! You are so spot on with every video; it's like those cartoons where the characters jaw drops to the floor and rolls across the room. xoxo

  • @angryangel3335
    @angryangel3335 5 лет назад +1

    I'm so grateful that I found you!! Been following Infinite Waters for a few months and it lead me to you! Only my 3rd video of you, and I'm infinitely grateful!! ☮💜😊♾

  • @mariarichards5221
    @mariarichards5221 6 лет назад +1

    So clear an explanation. Thank you for these beautiful truths.

  • @elevis8590
    @elevis8590 3 года назад

    I love this video. It is a good compass to re-watch now and then. Thank you for deliver this information to us

  • @mikeytobago
    @mikeytobago 6 лет назад +1

    people come in our lives daily , some stay for a short time , some stay for a long time, its all in our life's path

  • @Laura-ps3tb
    @Laura-ps3tb 2 года назад

    I needed to hear this. It was so perfect. Thank you Teal!

  • @CH-rs7cm
    @CH-rs7cm 6 лет назад

    This a ridiculously well timed upload for me. A person is thinking about something deeply and, a few days later, they look on their phone and browse through the You Tube notifications: I love it when that happens ;)

  • @medihatursunovic6446
    @medihatursunovic6446 6 лет назад

    This is.. very good topic. Thank you Teal! This helps alot. I also love the way you filmed this time... I could imagine you are sitting right infornt of me.. very relaxed and interesting. :) keep up the good work. Love you

  • @talitaevangelista8697
    @talitaevangelista8697 6 лет назад

    Wow that was mind blowing. Thank you. It really helped to figure out a lot of things that happened recently to me.

  • @DC502_
    @DC502_ 6 лет назад +4

    You look pretty in the flowery dress Teal and thanks for the talk about overlays.

  • @abundancevortex
    @abundancevortex 4 года назад +2

    One of the best videos ever created ever.

  • @tonykeane7524
    @tonykeane7524 Год назад

    I really appreciate you because you are present as in present in the moment you found how to let go and be present that deserve a massive respect. I only know because I'm present

  • @yohna33
    @yohna33 6 лет назад +1

    Wow this is powerful. I needed this so much today

  • @Kimmydo144
    @Kimmydo144 Год назад

    You are amazing ! That was exactly the message I needed to hear ! Lots of clarification

  • @tannaz3920
    @tannaz3920 4 года назад

    Omg! This is exactly what I’m experiencing at the moment, only to become aware of it and understand it now.

  • @sharankinakin2264
    @sharankinakin2264 5 лет назад

    What Teal presents in this is soooo true

  • @cer_eal
    @cer_eal 3 года назад +1

    This channel is like the Rosetta stone for my life experiences. Thank you so much for making these videos.

  • @sandyshorewalker5364
    @sandyshorewalker5364 6 лет назад

    Teal you bring up some good points. I sometimes tend to be idealistic when choosing. I can see the potential for Overlay and its true self awareness can correct that too. Good video. Dear old Dad was a Overt Narcissist. He had some very enduring qualities I liked however much acceptance was needed in the relationship. My HEAVENLY Father is so different.

  • @macoeur1122
    @macoeur1122 6 лет назад +4

    and NEXT.....I'd love to hear you untangle the differences between "pretending" and "transcending" I believe they can be confused, both by onlookers when observing the behavior of others and by ourselves (when spiritually bypassing) You may have done this in some previous video...If so, does anyone know which video? I suspect the difference is in fully acknowledging the realities at the human level, and "even though it may be true" that at another level these realities are not true Realities...it doesn't mean they aren't "real" at THIS level and thus must be acknowledged for what they are, rather than "pretend" that they don't really matter....or pretending that we are "immune" to them at this level.

  • @celark
    @celark 6 лет назад +1

    If anyone has played the game Persona 5 ....this sounds alot like the distortions in the metaverse and palaces that appear as a result. Great video as always and exactly what I needed to learn.

  • @clairmoreau2553
    @clairmoreau2553 4 года назад +2

    Oh my gosh, this is scarily accurate!!!!! And a real bummer!!!!!!!!!

  • @amyli5875
    @amyli5875 5 лет назад

    Thank you, this video has helped me reflect a lot of my relationship issue.

  • @caseymarlin1856
    @caseymarlin1856 5 лет назад +1

    this is so raw.

  • @ahlemana5273
    @ahlemana5273 2 года назад

    zo i can t believe i learned so much today
    first i had one wish that you could advice us on how to choose wisely and what to look before commiting into relationship. my wish became true.although i watched this video a couple of month before but never to the end .
    second i was passive to my life bc i never knew that even choosing what my soul desires there is still going to be bad consequences. i mean bad .and actually that fact that i don t desire enough to accept them both by just being being aware of them from the start.
    many videos of yours i ve watched today .. you are my saviour in every way! thank you for your teachings.you said your storry and you are very strong Tael dear Swan i am just happy and you make my day just seeing you smiling truly warm and bright . thank you for existing dear Tael Swan you make me stronger and better bc you are a great mentor and parent and friend. love from Romania
    i m glad my little sister presented you to(hihi your channel) me. if i would meet you in real life i will just burst out of tears bc of happiness ❤

  • @user-ur2wd8du4z
    @user-ur2wd8du4z 6 лет назад +5

    Oh my, the "Projection" video bringed me here 2 years ago.. and here I am today really really understanding all of what you saying, not in a conceptual manner but in a deeper, realest way. Thank you T.S. in the help of the evolution and expansion of my soul.

  • @marinaeller4757
    @marinaeller4757 6 лет назад

    your best video yet, forever grateful

  • @autisticsuicidal7054
    @autisticsuicidal7054 12 дней назад

    Thank you very much!
    I'm still amazed how are you able to extract so many information from reality.
    I will continue listening to you

  • @funkitupyo62
    @funkitupyo62 Год назад

    Thanks so much for pointing this out and explaining it so clearly i can actually now notice this and thanks for sharing tools to do something about it moving forward ❤

  • @fathervineyard9261
    @fathervineyard9261 6 лет назад

    Dude. You blew my mind! I needed this

  • @RachelHarvest
    @RachelHarvest 4 года назад +1

    you're my spirit animal! thank you teal

  • @namamoon3416
    @namamoon3416 5 лет назад +1

    Wow it like you were talking to me all 4 of my marriage I had red flags thank you for your light you have helped guide me out of the darkness 🐛💚🦋

  • @georgebaqleh7545
    @georgebaqleh7545 6 лет назад

    I appreciate your video you talked about some really interesting concepts that I will be excited to apply to my life thank you

  • @nelacizkova1940
    @nelacizkova1940 5 лет назад +9

    What is the difference between an overlay and a visualization, imagining what we want etc. - I mean if the people are able to think so intensely that they literally live their imagination, they should be emitting and thus attracting the vibrations of it and actually create that very thing , don't they?

    • @Moonbunny55
      @Moonbunny55 3 года назад +1

      Great question!

    • @apollofateh324
      @apollofateh324 3 года назад +1

      I have been wondering the same thing... :(

    • @Bubbles-ug3vr
      @Bubbles-ug3vr 3 года назад +4

      To manifest you need to fully accept your current circumstances first. The person who has an overlay does not.

    • @janinweinkauf5900
      @janinweinkauf5900 3 года назад +3

      Hi @Nela, when you are manifesting truly you are Not pretending, but you are truly being this Version you are wanting to manifest. That is also why manifestation often does not work because people just pretend, but Not listen to the truth in their heart and heal whats going on a feeling state and what attracts the unwanted Situation in the First place. Overlaying is more a mental Game then a truly healed and integrated Feeling state. Lets say we are desperate and we are trying to visualize how our Partner brings us flowers, spends time with us and appreciates us for what we truly are, but then he comes home brings no flowers, pays no attention and we are actually trying to supress the believe we have towards him or men in General that they disappoint, dont understand and everything is Always more Important to them then their Partners by continuing to Hope IT will Happen tomorrow and telling ourselves that He will Bring IT tomorrow without actually believing IT, because what we actually belive IS that He does Not Care about us. Overlaying as Teal says is telling yourself i am Not afraid, while you are, saying you are free, while you are Not ( Like in the prison scenario) . Manifestation comes First of all from a realization where you are right now f.e. Not free , Not appreciated. When you realize you are the creator you dont have to mentally Run away from what you have created. You will Look closly what got you here and Change what you want to be different. Somebody who tries to flee reality and who wants to hold on to the pretend Version is Not empowered and actually feels trapped in the Situation, Like a mother who pretends her husband is Not raping their daughter every night, because she does Not Know how to financially survive without him. That is an overlay, she is Not honest and her pretending mentally that it does Not Happen and that they are a Happy Family does Not change the fact that it is Happening. Manifestation is a highly empowered state, IT IS the realization to Know that we are creating our reality. If we feel rich, think rich, act rich, abundance has to come, but IT will only Work If IT IS Our truth on all levels. I am conviced a prisoner can through Integration and manifestion feel so free that physical reality will Aline. IT has to. IT IS a law, but IT Happens, when He IS Not pretending anymore, but he IS free on an emotional and mental Level. When you are rich, you are Not Desperate for Money anymore, so you do Not Care If it comes, because you have it already. To mentally and emotionally practise the states we want to be in is fantastic, but only then to truly live them. If we are only pretending to be free, because we Know we are not we entrappe ourselves even more and feel highly powerless, we are fleeing reality instead of creating a New one. How would a free Person ACT,feel, think? He would live IT/Be it and Not only pretend. You can be anything! There is No Limits, but are we truly Happy or are we Just making up a Story that we are so we do Not have to face the truth. If we are Happy or truly ready to manifest Something we will Go for it and IT will come to as Well, we dont have to pretend that Out Partner will Care, He actually does. Overlaying is playing mental movies because you do Not believe that it could actually be your reality. Its denying of how you truly feel. I Hope IT makes sense :) all the Love, Janin

    • @nelacizkova1940
      @nelacizkova1940 3 года назад

      @@janinweinkauf5900 So overlay is more related to the present and fully (not) accepting that and visualization is working with the future. Thanks for the clarification, I think I get it now.

  • @maryallisonmusic615
    @maryallisonmusic615 6 лет назад +1

    Omg this was so helpful and spot on. Thank you ☺️🌻

  • @lisafarrell5364
    @lisafarrell5364 6 лет назад

    Thank you Teal. It has been inspiring, educational and life changing listening to you. Do you have any videos geared towards teenagers?