I Can't Even Make The Minimum Payments! ($555,000 In Debt)

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  • @Nkdbattlerap
    @Nkdbattlerap Год назад +1589

    When I started watching Dave Ramsey it was the first time I realized rich people could be broke

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад +57

      Lol $200k is far from rich and it’s not a lot of money! It’s just decent money

    • @Nkdbattlerap
      @Nkdbattlerap Год назад +76

      @@reese85 yeah, watching Dave Ramsey is also when I realized 200k wasn’t rich too😂

    • @MichaelAnderson-wk1no
      @MichaelAnderson-wk1no Год назад +60

      @Reese I think it's more about people having land, nice cars, a nice house, etc. It doesn't necessarily mean anything because it's often all on debt. Owning nice stuff doesn't always mean people have a lot of money, it means they SPEND a lot of money lol

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад

      She's got a poor person mentality

    • @InternetUser._
      @InternetUser._ Год назад +29

      @@reese85 There’s a lot of people that think 10 a month is big money and end up broker than they would have been if they made 50k a year.

  • @tbrasc0
    @tbrasc0 Год назад +691

    $555k personal debt, $400k left on the mortgage, in their 50's.
    That's terrifying.

    • @frankish5314
      @frankish5314 Год назад +38

      Yup roughly a million dollars in debt.. Hard to believe

    • @kfitz192
      @kfitz192 Год назад +13

      I can't even begin to imagine what that must feel like. Crazy, over the top debt. No thanks.

    • @fieryjalapenos4442
      @fieryjalapenos4442 11 месяцев назад +30

      I’m gonna lose sleep over it and it ain’t even my debt.😅

    • @prevaloir5362
      @prevaloir5362 10 месяцев назад +4

      Might as well keep on racking it up!!

    • @fieryjalapenos4442
      @fieryjalapenos4442 10 месяцев назад +6

      @@prevaloir5362 worst financial advice ever…

  • @RaleighLink
    @RaleighLink Год назад +2032

    Her and her husband have a spending addiction. The way she says “and one day you look back and you’re $550k in debt” UMMMM NO, lol that’s insane to normalize.

    • @BabyGators
      @BabyGators Год назад +171

      I wish Dave had taken this call. He’d have ripped into her, especially with her flippant attitude.

    • @Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries
      @Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries Год назад +24

      Exactly!!

    • @jwebby85
      @jwebby85 Год назад +85

      The fact that she and her husband were apparently able to rack up half a million dollars in stupid debt with their eyes closed is astounding to me.

    • @Lon1001
      @Lon1001 Год назад +21

      but that's how it is, it's normal for a lot of people especially ones that the banks see have such a large shovel.

    • @random-nz7dy
      @random-nz7dy Год назад +9

      It reminded me of when Brian Regan the stand-up comedian jokes about when authors write one thing led to another and then all of a sudden it's some major thing

  • @ThatCho
    @ThatCho Год назад +1055

    the irony of her being a banker isn't lost on me.

    • @grimreaperkatsu
      @grimreaperkatsu Год назад +54

      the amount of people i encounter at work (accounting) with terrible personal finance skills is insane lol

    • @JP-uy9kq
      @JP-uy9kq Год назад

      Why bankers are dishonest crooks.

    • @AP-vo2mp
      @AP-vo2mp Год назад +29

      They should vet these people who work in these positions. She is a big liability for a financial organization.

    • @krogdog
      @krogdog Год назад +11

      Live by the bank, die by the bank

    • @gabrielachevalier3038
      @gabrielachevalier3038 Год назад +26

      The irony of her having taught Financial Peace University 10 years ago isn’t lost on me

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos Год назад +854

    I'm only $6k in debt and sweating bullets 😅 😂😂😂

    • @nancyt6895
      @nancyt6895 Год назад +28

      You're almost there!!

    • @kimmykero2421
      @kimmykero2421 Год назад +8

      You don't say!!😂😂😂😂

    • @ryandevlin3057
      @ryandevlin3057 Год назад +22

      3500 in debt 😅

    • @Teamster83
      @Teamster83 Год назад +26

      Ha I thought I was bad owing 400 on my capital one

    • @micahfarmerfilms
      @micahfarmerfilms Год назад +25

      I’m just north of $3k in dept and I’m living the most minimalist life I can right now

  • @michellewinkler3985
    @michellewinkler3985 Год назад +208

    You can buy a $300 designer handbag and have nothing in it, or you can buy a $10 handbag and have $290 in it!! :)

  • @Richie2k6
    @Richie2k6 Год назад +481

    The fact that she didn't want to get into specifics about what they've spent the money on is telling. It must be a lot of REALLY, REALLY bad decisions.

    • @gregorypaine513
      @gregorypaine513 Год назад +15

      LADY is milking the sysyem. Sad american!

    • @ps-yk8su
      @ps-yk8su Год назад +24

      Probably at Macys, Marshalls, Ashley Furniture, Academy, etc

    • @gregorypaine513
      @gregorypaine513 Год назад +3

      GUILTY / JAIL

    • @ToOpen6seven
      @ToOpen6seven Год назад +34

      Red bottoms, Birkin bags and other designer stuff -- that will make you run up a $550k debt easily.

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 Год назад +2

      @@ToOpen6seven
      Yes, for sure !!!

  • @chedbeckford8067
    @chedbeckford8067 Год назад +969

    She's pretty calm and nonchalant for being in 555k of debt. This is a prime of example of why you should never watch what people have. These are professionals making good money but living way above their means. It's never about how much money you make, it's how much you save and invest.

    • @richard3921
      @richard3921 Год назад +28

      and the caller is a banker....

    • @choicemeatrandy6572
      @choicemeatrandy6572 Год назад +11

      This show taught me this lesson hard-core.

    • @lelebella3252
      @lelebella3252 Год назад +14

      What is she supposed to be screaming on the phone?

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Год назад +12

      Trying to impress other people with what they have .

    • @taliarebeccastaub
      @taliarebeccastaub Год назад +2

      Well said darling!!! ❤

  • @HDawg26
    @HDawg26 Год назад +521

    Lol the way both of their jaws dropped when she said that the mortgage isn't part of the half a million debt. Yikes!

    • @powerhouse5853
      @powerhouse5853 Год назад +5

      😂

    • @funbunlol101
      @funbunlol101 Год назад +12

      I honestly thought it was gonna be a failed business at first

    • @rachelgee7894
      @rachelgee7894 Год назад +7

      She should sell the house and try to throw the equity at them

    • @gregorypaine513
      @gregorypaine513 Год назад +3

      LADY IS out of control!

    • @charleswright4742
      @charleswright4742 Год назад +1

      Yes, and that is exactly how MY jaw dropped at the same time while watching this video! 🤣

  • @chrismoreno589
    @chrismoreno589 Год назад +679

    It’s crazy how me and my wife are doing better with a 52K income then this couple making 200K 😵‍💫 that’s just insane 😂

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад +24

      52k combined income?

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 Год назад +77

      It is how you manage it, not the income.

    • @PInk77W1
      @PInk77W1 Год назад +100

      I’m a high school drop out and
      I’m retired. My pension is $50k
      No debt at all. $43k in savings.
      Travel the world.
      Life is good.

    • @neilsmith9066
      @neilsmith9066 Год назад +22

      There’s a ton more people like this in the world

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад +3

      @@stevenporter863 it’s both

  • @garnetkodo
    @garnetkodo Год назад +134

    The host: what kind of debt is it?
    Regina: yes

    • @westbccoast
      @westbccoast Год назад +7

      Exactly, so vague

    • @joimumu
      @joimumu 4 месяца назад +1

      To be fair she probably has every debt imaginable

    • @adammarkowitz7944
      @adammarkowitz7944 2 месяца назад +3

      Indeed, she was so unwilling to answer questions directly and specifically.

    • @lmfao69420
      @lmfao69420 2 месяца назад

      The everything bagel of debt

    • @victorkreitner754
      @victorkreitner754 8 дней назад

      @@lmfao69420 They have so much debt they couldn't even buy beans and rice, rice and beans. When this all unfolds down the road a smell a divorce in their future. Either they tackle this monster together or the debt escalates and choke holds their marriage. Bet their adult kids live far far away to avoid the poisonous atmosphere.

  • @marvinmerton5663
    @marvinmerton5663 Год назад +18

    She not telling the whole story.

  • @cgasucks
    @cgasucks Год назад +599

    The nonchalantness is strong in her.

    • @jeniecommeca1696
      @jeniecommeca1696 Год назад +17

      Lol, it just happens 🙈

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 Год назад +22

      Yeah, she doesn't seems scared enough to do anything about it. I would be freaking out having a fraction of that. But she seems like it's not a big deal by the way she responds.

    • @BabyGators
      @BabyGators Год назад +19

      You know, just one day you wake up and you’re half a million in debt. Happens to everyone I know. Wait, no nevermind, it doesn’t.

    • @brucefredrickson9677
      @brucefredrickson9677 Год назад +6

      Yeah, she laughs several times.

    • @patty109109
      @patty109109 Год назад +14

      She doesn’t really care. Probably went shopping by after the call.

  • @user-rw8zj1td9v
    @user-rw8zj1td9v Год назад +364

    "One day you turn around and you're in debt 555k". This sounds like a comedy skit. Giant OOF. Bankruptcy wont fix the bad habits.

    • @Jeff-xy7fv
      @Jeff-xy7fv Год назад +3

      The only way for that to happen that quick is for her to lose $555k day-trading.

    • @Vub.
      @Vub. Год назад +9

      Doesn't make sense. She made MANY decisions to get herself to this point.

    • @rory644
      @rory644 Год назад

      @@Vub. they did not she

  • @folan1974
    @folan1974 Год назад +67

    Gambling debts for sure. She was super evasive when asked what she spent the money on.

    • @constancerevoldt7651
      @constancerevoldt7651 Год назад +11

      Yes, I noticed that, too. She was very vague.

    • @ebo7310
      @ebo7310 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yup

    • @Whoopdido777
      @Whoopdido777 27 дней назад

      @@ebo7310 Without a doubt. She said that didn’t include her mortgage. She was very vague. She said the land was only at 100K they were trying to figure out where the other 400K+ in debt came from. Credit card debt was only 50K. So now we’re down to like debt of 350K right? Unless I’m misinterpreting this, that had to have been 350K in cash that they didn’t have right? The only thing cash is good for is gambling or drugs.

    • @sherrybendall5817
      @sherrybendall5817 4 дня назад

      I agree.

    • @Battleneter
      @Battleneter 22 часа назад

      Yep my feeling is she is hiding information, she could be the gambler.

  • @103realtree2
    @103realtree2 Год назад +365

    This call is the perfect example of how us Americans get into the mindset that if we have more than our neighbor, then we are living the American dream.

    • @mocheen4837
      @mocheen4837 Год назад +20

      My grandfather looks like the poorest man on the block and drives a 1980 Chevy. He owns several apartment buildings and is worth over $20 million. When he walks into the realtors office to ask for a flyer they do not even acknowledge his presence. He does not garner any special attention yet he can afford to pay cash for a new home. Some of his tenants drive Porsches or Range Rovers and pay rent.

    • @103realtree2
      @103realtree2 Год назад +4

      @@mocheen4837 I had a neighbor like that. Owned properties and drove an old Ford Falcon. Lived in the same house that looked like a dump. His grandson stole over 40k cash out of the trunk of his car. They caught him down in Florida with another woman I went to school with. My neighbors comment about the situation.. “I’m glad they didn’t find the other 100k I have stashed in the house”. 😂

    • @highlyfavored2434
      @highlyfavored2434 Год назад +5

      Yup I drive a 98 Ford $60 a month for insurance and always admire all the tesla, audi etc. My husband says they are all on debt

    • @SpencerKraisler
      @SpencerKraisler 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@mocheen4837 there's a term for that: "the millionaire next door" haha

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 10 месяцев назад

      It's not just comparing outselves to neighbors - it's the onslaught of brainwashing MARKETING! Or the habit of browsing through the mall every weekend.

  • @shanep2760
    @shanep2760 Год назад +153

    $555k is a lot of "not paying attention" 😆🤦

    • @thomasthumim7630
      @thomasthumim7630 Год назад +1

      😁

    • @aquabliss9194
      @aquabliss9194 Год назад +9

      But she just turned around and it was there

    • @thespicyonion
      @thespicyonion Год назад +1

      @@aquabliss9194 it was all her ! I’m sure none of it involved her husband !

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 Год назад +1

      Ray Charles and Steven Wonder would have seen it.

    • @nancydutt7520
      @nancydutt7520 4 месяца назад +1

      You would have to be unconscious not to see it.

  • @rachelharrison7961
    @rachelharrison7961 Год назад +179

    I bet they can’t sell all the stuff they bought because it was vacations and eating out and concerts, not tangible things.

    • @kimmykero2421
      @kimmykero2421 Год назад +14

      No kidding....exactly my thoughts!!

    • @gregorypaine513
      @gregorypaine513 Год назад +4

      RAP CONCERTS!

    • @danmeck5978
      @danmeck5978 Год назад +7

      I actually pictured they had landscaped the front and back, new kitchen, bathroom, vacations etc....just stuff they can't sell.

    • @Shortballa11
      @Shortballa11 Год назад +4

      they have a 580k house, im sure its filled with so much furniture and expensive items.

    • @Cookieboy70
      @Cookieboy70 Год назад +4

      Definitely my case, I make lots of money, but have very little assets, because I spent my cash on vacations, hookers, and blow for many years. It's nice to say I lived like a rock star for a few years, but to have nothing more than a small condo at my age asset wise is kinda sad when I think about it.

  • @rnt45t1
    @rnt45t1 Год назад +370

    Definitely more to the story than she is saying. There is no way you just accidentally go into half a million dollars in debt. Probably an alcohol, drug, or gambling problem somewhere.

    • @kagnewcobra5228
      @kagnewcobra5228 Год назад +21

      You beat me to it! Or another boy/girl friend!

    • @robertthompson5908
      @robertthompson5908 Год назад +35

      I had the same thought. Half a million dollars of debt doesnt “just happen”.

    • @kagnewcobra5228
      @kagnewcobra5228 Год назад +52

      @@robertthompson5908 Nope! Plus, you can hear it in her voice she isn't telling the whole story.

    • @copeyano718
      @copeyano718 Год назад +35

      Have you known somebody who gets iPhones and Gucci bags for the family as Christmas presents? She might be that kind of people.
      Hobbies, vacation, land and weapons for hunting:
      Most people I know spent money in that kind of things

    • @choicemeatrandy6572
      @choicemeatrandy6572 Год назад +19

      I used to work in accounting reconciling people's accounts and there was this one guy who spent $5k a month religiously on casinos. For the entire year of 2021 he just kept gambling away $5k

  • @r8alvar
    @r8alvar Год назад +122

    She is nonchalantly talking about her debt in the same way that some people on HGTV talk about their house budget. "Yeah my husband chases butterflies for a living and I am a skywriting proofreader. Our budget is about 700k".

    • @kstar1956
      @kstar1956 Год назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kimmykero2421
      @kimmykero2421 Год назад +10

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You totally made my day!! Its How I feel about some of the HGTV episodes!😂😂

    • @phylicia595
      @phylicia595 Год назад

      Lol

    • @emoryrubyg9631
      @emoryrubyg9631 Год назад

      😂😂

    • @AC-fy7pm
      @AC-fy7pm 9 месяцев назад

      😂

  • @JamarG
    @JamarG Год назад +370

    Another example of the importance of financial literacy.

    • @DisabilityExams
      @DisabilityExams Год назад +42

      This woman isn't illiterate, she's irresponsible.

    • @tonyahenry4167
      @tonyahenry4167 Год назад +29

      She’s in banking 😂

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад +4

      @@tonyahenry4167that’s means absolutely nothing! I see comments like this all time and just because someone works in banking! Doesn’t make them a financial expert

    • @tomenow8
      @tomenow8 Год назад +19

      She said she used to teach Financial Peace 😳

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 Год назад +4

      @@reese85 I agree. There are a lot of people in the financial industry that calls into this show having trouble paying their minimums.

  • @Azel247
    @Azel247 Год назад +105

    This is not just a money issue... there's an addiction issue here. She needs to get help for that.

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 Год назад +3

      Sounds like the husband has given up.

  • @candy2325
    @candy2325 Год назад +66

    I can’t believe her mortgage isn’t even part of the debt 💀 that is scary!

  • @freeamerican1565
    @freeamerican1565 Год назад +79

    This should have been a call for Dave….

    • @ClaxtonBay123
      @ClaxtonBay123 Год назад +5

      EXACTLY!

    • @mheninger99
      @mheninger99 Год назад +6

      That would have been a Loud Call! Now I'm imagining Dave on this call! 😀

    • @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN
      @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN Год назад

      Exactemondo

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 Год назад

      Yup! Having these two dudes was a waste of time honestly

  • @sherriemyles2776
    @sherriemyles2776 Год назад +78

    Careless spending, she embarrassed to tell them what she did.

    • @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN
      @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN Год назад +3

      Yup

    • @IHateNicolasCage
      @IHateNicolasCage Год назад +12

      “Just stuff for the house”
      Lady could’ve bought a house to put inside of her house for all we know

    • @Just...Peachy
      @Just...Peachy 6 месяцев назад +2

      Gambling and blow 😂

    • @CreativeProductions-
      @CreativeProductions- 3 месяца назад +2

      @@IHateNicolasCagewhat stuff for the house that she says cost more then a house is my question lmao

  • @westbccoast
    @westbccoast Год назад +83

    I love how she is been so vague about what they spent it on. She is just agreeing with them on what the debt is without telling them what it is.

    • @oldhag2881
      @oldhag2881 5 месяцев назад +12

      She's lying. She knows EXACTLY where it all went.

    • @joimumu
      @joimumu 4 месяца назад +3

      It’s the people like her that I have no sympathy for

  • @christy2235
    @christy2235 Год назад +80

    It’s not about how much income you have, it’s about how you manage it.

    • @firefly9838
      @firefly9838 Год назад +1

      Past a certain point I agree with you. If you have an abysmally low income then you can manage great but have almost no income and fail

    • @dbased1915
      @dbased1915 7 месяцев назад

      income is a force multiplier for good or bad decision making. This is why 7 figure NBA athletes with no educations go broke and average joes with decent jobs can become rich

  • @westonr4359
    @westonr4359 Год назад +66

    Sounds like there’s gotta be a shopping or gambling addiction or something, surprised Dr. Baloney didn’t ask about that.

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 Год назад +4

      Exactly. Sorry but where else could a half a million gone? She said not nice cars and owes $400k on house.

    • @shanep2760
      @shanep2760 Год назад +9

      Yeah I thought it seemed a little fishy when she wouldn't give specifics about where the money went.

    • @Barneyjo
      @Barneyjo Год назад +1

      Some of it probably went to cosmetic surgery or something like that. She didn’t fool me with wanting her husband to be the largest part of the problem.

  • @nicole4779
    @nicole4779 Год назад +165

    The fact she’s sounding so nonchalant about this and being ambiguous about what they spent their money on is giving me anxiety 🥴😵‍💫

    • @leadnsteel1428
      @leadnsteel1428 Год назад +11

      I'm so glad I live a frugal lifestyle. I'm 38 and I could retire if I wanted.

    • @HHHPedigrees
      @HHHPedigrees Год назад +3

      She probably wants privacy of what they bought.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 Год назад +2

      She’s probably embarrassed

    • @kaykark
      @kaykark Год назад +1

      She kept saying, “a whole bunch of stuff.”
      What the heck kind of answer is that?

    • @DoctorSmartyPants
      @DoctorSmartyPants Год назад +2

      It's probably spent on addiction(s).

  • @lakeseminole
    @lakeseminole 2 месяца назад +4

    No bankruptcy Judge is going to dismiss their debts when they earn $200,000 annually. It does not work that way.

  • @happyhippo1710
    @happyhippo1710 Год назад +65

    She did not say what she brought. She keeps laughing.

    • @MrFancyjohnson1
      @MrFancyjohnson1 Год назад +8

      She said just stuff…probably material things probably nothing valuable other than the land

    • @buddykerr1
      @buddykerr1 Год назад +16

      I'm guessing she plays the slots most of the weekend while he's down the hall at the $100 blackjack table

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Год назад +6

      Bags, shoes, designer stuff.

    • @Justrelaxx101
      @Justrelaxx101 Год назад +3

      Cruises

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh Год назад +10

      Cause it was stupid. Probably materialistic stuff and trips. 100%

  • @allisonmodaff5635
    @allisonmodaff5635 Год назад +68

    They’re in their 50s?! This made my jaw drop. I thought early 30s. I wonder if a lot of their debt is from spoiling their kids and trying to keep up with the Joneses? Twenty plus years of living like that could be why they’re over half a million in debt and barely have any equity on their home.

  • @NaNa-lt1po
    @NaNa-lt1po Год назад +23

    This needed THE Dave treatment..

  • @UsernamesSuckHere
    @UsernamesSuckHere Год назад +54

    If you been watching Ramsey for a while, you know there is something going on in this relationship that we have no idea about Gambling problems?

  • @rockymountainfacet5958
    @rockymountainfacet5958 Год назад +114

    Well this call made me feel better about my debt free life. Holy moly. I have a payed off house. Zero debt. Fully funded emergency fund. Retirements. And I only make 80k with my wife. Just because you make alot doesn't mean you know how to use that money wisely. Bankers are terrible with money.

    • @hermanrogers1325
      @hermanrogers1325 Год назад +7

      Well done

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan Год назад +9

      I’ve seen people that make $2M/yr desperate for loans.

    • @hugodaniel8975
      @hugodaniel8975 Год назад +1

      You should share your money and help others get out of debt

    • @surfdreamer918
      @surfdreamer918 Год назад +1

      Nope, staying debt free is a skill & is why a lot of lotto winners end up right back where they started or worse off. No handouts for people who don’t know how to manage their money.

    • @nicholasselke5214
      @nicholasselke5214 5 месяцев назад

      @hugodaniel8975 I’d never do that for two reasons. One, it’s my money and I earned it by working and being responsible with it. Two, it does nothing to change the behavior of people who get into massive debt in the first place; feeling some pain elicits change

  • @MrFancyjohnson1
    @MrFancyjohnson1 Год назад +38

    She’s not being honest which is why she’s still in debt…keep it 💯

  • @XXnickles
    @XXnickles Год назад +402

    The amount of irresponsibility I am hearing in this call is just insane. She knew a long time ago how bad this stuff is and didn't do much (the banker mentality could have been a problem here). Saying "yes" to a bad decision also makes you part of it. Her husband could be a major offender, but I will give her additional points as she has the knowledge and the tools to avoid the whole situation happening. I kind of feel she is trying to throw the husband under the bus to hide her responsibility in all of this (SHE IS THE BANKER)

    • @RelevantEd_DrHenderson
      @RelevantEd_DrHenderson Год назад +39

      It annoyed me that she wouldn't even tell him what she bought. They had to pull it out of her. They make 200k and can't make the minimum? BS.

    • @angel-ij4xv
      @angel-ij4xv Год назад +17

      she was trying to live that luxury lifestyle

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Год назад +19

      ​@@angel-ij4xv Poor people try to look rich; rich people try to blend in under the radar.

    • @sarahramnarine27
      @sarahramnarine27 Год назад +15

      Probably plastic surgery

    • @ASLANOV440
      @ASLANOV440 Год назад +5

      Don’t judge people, you know. It’s easy to look down on someone, but you never know where you could end up. You know what I mean?

  • @igot5onit423
    @igot5onit423 Год назад +98

    I feel 80% of these calls they know what to do it's more of just the motivation to do it..

    • @isaiahkinglj1148
      @isaiahkinglj1148 Год назад +5

      Def. It’s always motivation. Deep down all of us as human know what’s right.

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 Год назад +4

      Similar to when ppl hire a personal trainer

    • @johnz446
      @johnz446 Год назад

      Or just to get airtime

    • @zeuskronos2018
      @zeuskronos2018 Год назад +1

      I think it’s more of them wanting a confirmation from people.

    • @midkort
      @midkort Год назад

      That's how it is for many things in life.
      A lot of people know they should be working out, eating better, studying for exams, and so on, but lack either discipline or motivation.
      We need to stop thinking there is some magic recipe somewhere, not unless we have actually taken ACTION on the knowledge we already have.
      By the way discipline is better than motivation.

  • @matthewlucio4320
    @matthewlucio4320 Год назад +9

    When you think you have it rough.. come back and listen to this.

  • @adamseidel9780
    @adamseidel9780 Год назад +21

    In this fairly unique situation, divorce might indeed be cheaper than counseling 😂

  • @Mrquartermile
    @Mrquartermile Год назад +38

    This is the problem with society now. People think they can run up all sorts of debt and when it’s to much, file bankruptcy. Then after a few years they will be right back in the same spot. Like bankruptcy is a “get out of jail free” card. Absolutely ridiculous.

    • @James_36
      @James_36 Год назад +1

      I think it’s because it’s people want to appear cool like a celebrity so go around spending, honestly start talking about keeping your money to a bunch of people and they look at you like you are a loser, it must be what 95% of people do

    • @kibblenbits
      @kibblenbits 7 месяцев назад

      The thing is, they wouldn't be able to file Chapter 7, which is the one where you're absolved of the debt's, as they'd have to pay the entire fee up front, which would cost thousand's. They also have too much income, and you can never file bankruptcy on any student loan debt. They would have to file Chapter 13, which requires you to have your paycheck(s) garnished, by the court, to pay the monthly bankruptcy costs, the debt, and the court appoint's a Trustee to oversee the disbursement of funds to creditor's. They'd also have to meet the repayment plan required in the bankruptcy code's, which is under federal law, not state. So, if they qualified (I doubt they would), they'd end up with it showing on their credit report for 10 years (it would be hard to find any place that would rent to them, except a slum lord), and they'd be left with a lot less money to live on, along with having to still pay the student loan's. If she actually work's in a bank, as she stated, she should know this. I think this entire call is a bunch of BS.

    • @joimumu
      @joimumu 4 месяца назад

      The show John Oliver talk about that issue and it a lot more dangerous than people think

  • @thelovelykimmi7920
    @thelovelykimmi7920 Год назад +27

    It’s hard to get solutions and answers out of her because she has to be asked about her situation instead of telling it. This is an odd call

  • @ClaxtonBay123
    @ClaxtonBay123 Год назад +22

    I hate calls like this when Dave isn't around. I'm halfway through this call and they still haven't asked her how much money she makes.

    • @Charlay_Charlay
      @Charlay_Charlay Год назад +2

      They just said they have a household income of 200k on the call?

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад +1

      @@Charlay_Charlay it took them awhile to get to that is what he’s saying

    • @truckercowboyed2638
      @truckercowboyed2638 Год назад

      @@reese85 they literally asked in the first, two minutes and that was probably because of the sheer shock and magnitude of her debt situation...

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад

      @@truckercowboyed2638 you’re right! I didn’t catch that myself at 1st

  • @soni05131
    @soni05131 Год назад +17

    She said it "you stop paying attention". Ignorance is bliss as they say. Bless her heart.

  • @kate60
    @kate60 Год назад +13

    I see this madness in the car business everyday. There are many people like this.

  • @jelwy7
    @jelwy7 Год назад +54

    This couple is a prime example of why personal bankruptcy should not be allowed. Be responsible for your decisions!

    • @johnallen3497
      @johnallen3497 8 месяцев назад +2

      It won’t even happen with them making $200k

    • @joanncrimi
      @joanncrimi 6 месяцев назад

      They NEED to PAY UP!!!

    • @nicholasselke5214
      @nicholasselke5214 5 месяцев назад

      File for bankruptcy and anything that isn’t an absolute necessity gets seized to settle the debt. That’s what so many people fail to realize

  • @ginger6582
    @ginger6582 Год назад +8

    These are the kind of people that raise the prices for everyone else.

  • @siegfriedbraun5447
    @siegfriedbraun5447 Год назад +104

    Debtors prison sounds like A REALLY good idea for a woman like this! She is so flippant and so uncaring about her situation.

    • @gonzaga45377
      @gonzaga45377 Год назад +14

      She cared enough to call in. The husband is a huge problem as well.

    • @briandavis1115
      @briandavis1115 Год назад +1

      @@gonzaga45377 lol it really isn't that hard. Stop spending money.

    • @mikedoyle5901
      @mikedoyle5901 Год назад +1

      The first thing I thought about.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius Год назад +2

      @@gonzaga45377 They both are clueless and don't care.

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Год назад +1

      She called in

  • @bluestateconservative.4118
    @bluestateconservative.4118 Год назад +14

    This is what “keeping up with the Jones” looks like in real life.

  • @yodatwinkie
    @yodatwinkie Год назад +27

    It blows me away how people can go this far in debt 😮😮

  • @greggpurviance7252
    @greggpurviance7252 Год назад +4

    Materialism & greed puts one in this situation. A paradigm change is required

  • @jeanqbxx
    @jeanqbxx Год назад +7

    That's why I haven't remarried, I won't allow a person to ruin my life. I'm thriving in every aspect by being single.

  • @TheCbone1979
    @TheCbone1979 Год назад +28

    This gal is so nonchalant about her debt. She’s just livin’ her best life!

    • @deezelfairy
      @deezelfairy Год назад +3

      Yup, and soon gonna be living her worst.

    • @gregorypaine513
      @gregorypaine513 Год назад +4

      LADY DON T CARE!

    • @patriciabrant8037
      @patriciabrant8037 4 месяца назад +1

      The fact this lady works in banking is scary. I don't want her advice.

    • @ameliedebazouges9408
      @ameliedebazouges9408 3 месяца назад

      I would be terrified. She is cool about it.

  • @gonefishing11
    @gonefishing11 Год назад +35

    How can this lady sound so cheerful? Just by listening to her financial situation makes me feel like 😱!

  • @SnapszDuhh
    @SnapszDuhh Год назад +13

    This total made me feel so much better about my debt. Whew!! I almost fell off my chair when she said they are in their 50’s….

  • @Barneyjo
    @Barneyjo Год назад +193

    I get the feeling that she is responsible for most of this debt.

    • @chaosLord2105
      @chaosLord2105 Год назад +21

      True and that's probably why he won't say yes . Problem is they are married and now it's both of there problems

    • @doggymamadrama5881
      @doggymamadrama5881 Год назад +4

      That's the feeling I
      I got too.

    • @Hurtzilla
      @Hurtzilla Год назад +20

      Ding ding ding!
      Women make 85% or all the decisions in a household, including financial. The husband checked out cuz she put them in that position.

    • @corruptsociety9146
      @corruptsociety9146 Год назад +14

      Don’t get married folks

    • @briandavis1115
      @briandavis1115 Год назад +6

      @@corruptsociety9146 correct I learned that the hard way.

  • @thelogicaldanger
    @thelogicaldanger Год назад +150

    She actually taught Financial Peace???? Does Ramsey let anyone teach it these days????
    Regardless, I think her and her husband both *know* what they need to do, they just don't want to do it, and I doubt a free gift of FP will convince them to just do what they need to do.

    • @markg999
      @markg999 Год назад +18

      Seriously...thought the teachers were like audited some....can't imagine what horrible advice she was giving.

    • @MichaelAnderson-wk1no
      @MichaelAnderson-wk1no Год назад +18

      Why would you even teach the class if you're not bought in to the debt-free lifestyle that it's based on? Seems very hypocritical.

    • @rainacherienne1010
      @rainacherienne1010 Год назад +7

      One time one of those accredited Ramsey financial advisors called and also couldn’t solve a simple financial issue of his. Surprised they aired that, it’s a bad outlook on the business.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius Год назад +9

      @@markg999 She was probably giving good advice. They just weren't following it themselves.

    • @famousamos1
      @famousamos1 Год назад +5

      @@MichaelAnderson-wk1no yeah it’s like going to a weight loss trainer that is over weight and trying to learn to lose weight!! Smh 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @kchillhall1968
    @kchillhall1968 11 месяцев назад +3

    When you can’t and won’t explain what and how your not ready.

  • @Roccofan
    @Roccofan Год назад +22

    This is what happens when you grow up with nothing and work your way out of poverty to a good salary. Along the way you inflate your lifestyle. Along the way you help your parents and family. Along the way you decide that your kids are going to help you. Along the way you feel entitled to everything you see others with and so you get it. I was on that path for a very short period of time before I realized It was on a road to ruin.

  • @formula112967
    @formula112967 Год назад +13

    Caller: 'We just woke up one day and we owed $555K....I don't know what happened'

    • @nancydutt7520
      @nancydutt7520 4 месяца назад

      Scratches head and looks around in confusion 😂

    • @critterdude311
      @critterdude311 3 месяца назад

      “…And then this brick wall just came OUTTA NOWHERE…”

  • @sjaykay9884
    @sjaykay9884 9 месяцев назад +3

    Don’t call if you’re not ready to disclose. If you have a shopping addiction and you don’t disclose that, any information they give is just a band-aid on top of a gushing wound.

  • @timozuna
    @timozuna Год назад +6

    I don't understand how you can legally even get to this point.

  • @fortyseventhronin
    @fortyseventhronin Год назад +69

    To those of you saying it's bad for her to be so calm; panicking never helps anyone or anything

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 Год назад +4

      Correct.

    • @alanj9978
      @alanj9978 Год назад +4

      I dunno, I get pretty focused and productive when I'm panicking over something serious.

    • @highlyfavored2434
      @highlyfavored2434 Год назад

      Its not really panicking but I have a sense of urgency and worry with $4k in debt

    • @fortyseventhronin
      @fortyseventhronin Год назад +3

      @@alanj9978 Contrary to popular belief, "urgency" and "panic" aren't the same thing

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex Год назад +60

    When in doubt blame the husband. She's in banking of all things.

    • @critterdude311
      @critterdude311 3 месяца назад

      Yea I smell a good ole divorce card about to be played

  • @charlescurran1289
    @charlescurran1289 Год назад +14

    I can’t help but wonder if she can’t make the payments because the interest has built up to the point where it’s multiplied the original debt beyond their ability to pay.

    • @thecurrentmoment
      @thecurrentmoment 11 месяцев назад +1

      And actually you made me think that maybe a lot of this debt is actually interest, e.g. is it half of it or what? Would be interesting to know how much is interest

  • @FunandBudget
    @FunandBudget Год назад +8

    The fact that she refuses to get into specifics...'what did you buy'...ahhhh just a whole bunch of stuff - lawd - smh - and why did she even call

  • @andidede3653
    @andidede3653 Год назад +77

    She is the type that needs new pillows and furniture for all of the seasons of the year, all of the snacks in specialized containers that cost half of the kitchen and $50 of Starbucks a day.

    • @Elizabeth-uj8vn
      @Elizabeth-uj8vn Год назад +4

      😂😂 I always wondered about those people that can “afford” everything. I have seen people who bought houses in my neighborhood and fully furnished every room perfectly and still buy Starbucks everyday😮

    • @ladymb4237
      @ladymb4237 Год назад

      LMBO 😂😂

    • @Run4Ever77
      @Run4Ever77 Год назад +4

      @@Elizabeth-uj8vn Yes, you were smart to wonder! You might be interested in the book " The Millionaire Next Door". It was the original study on Millionaires in America and showed that most millionaires do not live like we imagine or how the marketing on TV/online portrays them. It is a great book, & was very eye-opening for me. Take care!

    • @yoleeisbored
      @yoleeisbored Год назад

      Live laugh love probably sends kids to a private school

    • @carltonthesponge
      @carltonthesponge Год назад +2

      She definitely has "Live, Laugh, Love" signs all over the house

  • @chasewrenn7109
    @chasewrenn7109 5 месяцев назад +3

    Don’t go broke trying to look rich. You have to fix the spending problem, bankruptcy won’t solve it, winning the lottery won’t solve it. You must fix the relationship with money

  • @westonr4359
    @westonr4359 Год назад +51

    There probably isn’t something new for them to learn, they just need to have the discipline to implement it

    • @elizabethashton9590
      @elizabethashton9590 Год назад +3

      Yes, there is STILL something for them to learn and that is FRUGALITY!!!!

  • @BagsNBaguettes_327
    @BagsNBaguettes_327 Год назад +10

    I’m hyperventilating while listening to this call. This woman is too calm, she’s drowning in debt!

  • @myownboss1
    @myownboss1 Год назад +2

    Perfect example of the saying, ‘it’s not how much you make; it’s how much you keep!’….

  • @zorin654
    @zorin654 6 месяцев назад +4

    The thing that most people forget is to be grateful. Sometimes we forgot how grateful our life is, we keep focusing on things that not necessary in life, impressing people for nothing.
    I've had a situation when I was left with 80$ in my bank account, I didn't have any debt, I'm living as frugal as I can, eating only cereal in the morning, skipping lunch, and eating a $3 burger for dinner. So, be grateful people, lesson learned.

  • @joefausti973
    @joefausti973 5 месяцев назад +5

    She carries a passive approach to this conversation in what is a serious personal problem in her life and marriage. She knows more than what she is willing to share. And if you're not willing to come clean than you can't possibly be serious about getting on the right track either.

  • @AmandaRogersarock1988
    @AmandaRogersarock1988 Год назад +5

    There's something seriously wrong if someone used to TEACH FPU and is half a million dollars in debt. WHAT?!

  • @eliot5220
    @eliot5220 Год назад +11

    They need to go and rent a studio apartment and sell everything they can including the house

  • @this_time_imperfect
    @this_time_imperfect Год назад +9

    At this point she’s basically committing fraud. Should be in jail.

  • @Nkdbattlerap
    @Nkdbattlerap Год назад +11

    George & John were all over the place. They weren’t speaking with certainty, and her husband will not be convinced after listening to this

  • @Ant0417
    @Ant0417 Год назад +8

    Her nonchalant attitude says that they will be drowning in debt until the day they die. With that massive debt number, she should be horrified and she’s just not.

  • @Themoomabides
    @Themoomabides Год назад +15

    They literally loaned themselves a great run and now won’t pay it back. They sound like awful people. She just laughed about the loans. Sounds like gambling debts to me.

  • @tiffanyroberts5993
    @tiffanyroberts5993 Год назад +15

    She will have a difficult time getting a new job at a different bank if she has a bankruptcy on her background. Financial institutions really frown upon blemishes like that.

  • @stevenmiddleton3766
    @stevenmiddleton3766 Год назад +4

    When you think you’ve heard it all but now you really have heard it all

  • @MissDuke2012
    @MissDuke2012 5 месяцев назад

    The man on the left is great! Great advice, great delivery, great compassion. Good job!

  • @cutlerylover
    @cutlerylover Год назад +15

    lol Id love to have enough money in order to get into 500K debt, us blue collar folk cant fathom that kind of money misplacement... 🤣 When I was in debt 10K it felt like I would NEVER pay it off...

    • @gregorypaine513
      @gregorypaine513 Год назад

      THIS LADY IS LAUGHING BECAUSE SHE IS TAKING THE EASY WAY OUT

  • @lkj0822g
    @lkj0822g Год назад +151

    Let me hazard a guess, the reason she is adamant about not filing bankruptcy is because she used her influence at the bank to obtain those $150k in personal loans and if she defaults, there are going to be some folks, including her, with their behinds in the blender.
    PS:
    And Baloney, enough with the "I can't breath, I'm skeered" schtick. It's like fingernails on a chalkboard at this point.

    • @jeffkline9191
      @jeffkline9191 Год назад +11

      Yes. He ruins it.

    • @thomasthumim7630
      @thomasthumim7630 Год назад +19

      That is a remarkable observation

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Год назад +12

      Ramsey wants a psychologist on the panel. But they should tell him he is not obligated to speak in every call.

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 Год назад +11

      Omg yes I cannot stand when Maloney does that! 😂 he doesn’t know what else to say so that’s his copy and paste response

    • @joshw7415
      @joshw7415 Год назад +13

      Agreed! They’re obviously not scared…more nonchalant than anything

  • @Jdonaleshen
    @Jdonaleshen Год назад +20

    Oh man, calls like this make me want to cry and also make me feel so glad we are down to our mortgage 😢

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius Год назад

      Keep working on it. It's a GREAT feeling.

  • @vchafab
    @vchafab Год назад +5

    Wow I’ve been stressed with the 90k of debt we have left, I can’t even imagine 550k 😮

  • @MyNameIsCorey
    @MyNameIsCorey Год назад +22

    There's a whole lot more going on than this half million of debt I hope she gets the help she truly needs....

    • @melody7779
      @melody7779 Год назад +8

      She is not being straight forward.

  • @danielsoosay1772
    @danielsoosay1772 Год назад +7

    She was so cool and calm on it, that’s amazing. Most of us will have cold sweats

    • @radiospank
      @radiospank Год назад +1

      Yea she was calm because she knew what was happening and she’s accepted it. She knows what to do but she wants an east fix hoping to get an easy answer on this show.

  • @jonquindiagan682
    @jonquindiagan682 Год назад +1

    Keep up the good work!

  • @donaldrichey3318
    @donaldrichey3318 Год назад +6

    Talk about living beyond your means. The arrogance necessary to accumulate this much debt is awesome.

  • @jeffreyblanton9877
    @jeffreyblanton9877 Год назад +5

    She’s in banking 😮. I need to avoid that bank.

  • @Pookie._.bear._.1
    @Pookie._.bear._.1 Год назад +3

    Should be a one year prison sentence for people that carelessly file for bankruptcy

  • @pangchang3332
    @pangchang3332 Год назад +2

    This kind of person is definitely the kind I thought was living the life and I wish I had what they had. Thank God I've come to my senses

  • @yep3172
    @yep3172 Год назад +2

    He said Camry people at 4:55. Proud owner of a Corolla LE here :)

  • @3-dreticle826
    @3-dreticle826 Год назад +4

    A BANKER is upside down in debt and CANNOT make minimum payments. Despite having a high income. This is disgusting. 🤮.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Год назад

      Her being in banking means absolutely nothing and $200k isn’t a high salary! It’s just very decent money

    • @3-dreticle826
      @3-dreticle826 Год назад

      @@reese85 it’s poor financial management that’s an excuse.

  • @user-dv2ji5ou7t
    @user-dv2ji5ou7t Год назад +13

    This show is teaching me so much about money and what not to do

  • @rogerwellington8829
    @rogerwellington8829 Год назад +1

    Every cent counts definitely learning so much from this channel. A$In N$Out

  • @pnwadventurist
    @pnwadventurist Месяц назад

    She speaks so casual about it. I really wish Dave took this call, he would've had a field day with it

  • @LocaW8ta
    @LocaW8ta Год назад +6

    The other thing is, they could downsize the house, sell the land, etc. AND BOTH OF THEM NEED TO GET SECOND JOBS. Hello.
    I get the impression that they are very well rooted in a comfort zone and won’t do what’s hard to get out of debt. I’m wondering if they have been so accustomed to pretending like they’re rich due to pride that they are not willing to humble themselves. Either way, I don’t think they’re gonna get out of debt.

  • @comment2250
    @comment2250 Год назад +10

    Unfortunately this show highlights just how serious the debt problem in America is and how many lives will be wiped out and destroyed financial if we ever have another serious financial crisis, or inflation gets even more out of control. What bothers me most is that these are ADULTS making such juvenile mistakes, but again, it's partly due to our buy and spend culture where saving money is not practiced seriously.