DAY IN THE LIFE OF A VERY TIRED MOM!

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @lorenaarias1952
    @lorenaarias1952 3 года назад

    I hadn’t seen your vlogs for a while due to some problems with my husband’s health (he passed away last July) so watching you again has made me feel happy again. You are a fantastic mom and feeling tired is all but normal. I love your family.
    You know, I taught my kids to put away their toys, I never did it for them. It worked out just fine.

  • @connierathbun4826
    @connierathbun4826 3 года назад

    You are doing an amazing job , Ashley. You are right , we all experience burnout, especially when you have young children. My children are grown now. When they were small , I always tried to make some time for myself. I am also a Woman of faith and God and the Bible is where I sought strength and renewal. I was part of a mom’s group at my church that was a great resource and help. There was built in childcare there. I know times are tougher than they were when my kids were small but God has never changed. We love all of you and I will pray that your strength will be renewed. Have a great week. FYI Dennis’ smile is so cute. Love the Rathbun Family😎

  • @Liz1610
    @Liz1610 3 года назад

    Such a beautiful vlog! Lee is SO GROWN UP oh my goodness - that knife for him to cut his own strawberries is so clever!
    Thank you for sharing a look into your gorgeous home - its been so wonderful having more of a connection over on mighty networks with everyone - such a fantastic idea!
    Dennis’ laugh throwing the stickers ❤️💕❤️💕

  • @onceupon_atraveler108
    @onceupon_atraveler108 3 года назад +6

    Lee's haircut makes him look like such a little man and Dennis' laugh is so sweet. You got this, thank you for sharing and for your positivity!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for the vote of confidence - it means a lot! I know right? They chopped off a couple inches of hair, but added on a couple of years. How is this possible?!

    • @onceupon_atraveler108
      @onceupon_atraveler108 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand I know, time goes by too fast! Your channel and your message always instills confidence in me, I've followed SYRS from the beginning and your positivity (as well as Joe's) has always been a shinning light! Hope everything is well with Joe this week.

  • @sabrinagehrke1663
    @sabrinagehrke1663 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this video and for your content on this channel. I’m a mom of two small kids as well and have experienced the mom burnout. It’s rough but I think you are just fantastic for being able to do all you do in a day and vlog.

  • @elizabethlittle3448
    @elizabethlittle3448 3 года назад

    That was a real video and one that ten years down the road you will be glad you have documented. I have so many memories/pictures/videos of outings and vacations and fun, but I wish I had more of everyday life! And yes, burnout here...day to day it changes from parent burnout, to pandemic burnout, to all sorts of others. But definitely there....

  • @bunsenhoneydew347
    @bunsenhoneydew347 3 года назад

    And...not doing bad as a mom?!?!....you are a FANTASTIC MOM!! You are a natural with those boys and they are wonderful kids...you’re doing so awesome Ashley!!
    And...I cracked up when you said in your not amused tone “Joe is so fun to play with” 😂🤣

  • @zahidamachan6345
    @zahidamachan6345 3 года назад

    Great video! My goodness your boys are so sweet. Lee's hair style and Dennis' goofy laugh. 😍 What an amazing mom you are. And that playroom is epic. You're right that they have the same playhouse as my daughter does in our back yard (just a different colour). I yawned with you along the way. Hope you get some rest soon, and hope Joe is doing well. Lots of love.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Hehe sorry for the yawns! Our basement playroom has been a life saver this winter - we're very fortunate! Thank you for your continuous love and support, my friend!

    • @zahidamachan6345
      @zahidamachan6345 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand always! ❤

  • @clairelucas6997
    @clairelucas6997 3 года назад

    Thank you for a great video! Absolutely loved watching Lee doing his hair....what a cool handsome dude! and Dennis is just so happy, I laugh whenever he laughs. Can not wait for mine to reach that stage. Thank you for the mention too, love chatting on Mighty Networks.

  • @vaughn7842
    @vaughn7842 3 года назад

    More days then not, I had days like the one you so honestly showed when my 3 kids were little and I was a full stay at home parent. I stayed at home full time for 11 years, but those younger years were the longest and best all at the same time. No matter what season, parenting is no joke and you are an amazing parent, wife, and person. I hope things can get back to somewhat normal soon as the weather gets warmer....that helped break up the week and days when I had ECFE (Early Childhood Family Education) classes and playdates with other parents at the park etc. It gets lonely and isolating....you are doing a great job, even during those countless long days. YOU GOT THIS!!!!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Thank you so much, Kim! So comforting to hear your experiences and I really appreciate your love and support. Moms lifting moms are the very best!!!

  • @karenlovetro7377
    @karenlovetro7377 3 года назад

    Your message at the end hit home - hard. I’m currently struggling through work-life-pandemic burn out big time and each day is a struggle.
    Hang in there - you’re doing great.
    Love all your videos especially a day in the life ones.

  • @heathergray3354
    @heathergray3354 3 года назад

    Omg, watching the boys is my favorite. I could use a weekly vlog of just them playing and being silly ❤ Also, Lee's quiet little voice was still enough for my Alexa to go off 🤣

  • @greekchic2009
    @greekchic2009 3 года назад

    Another wonderful video Ashley! You’re so right as a fellow mom I love just watching a regular day in the life! Kind of makes me want to just record one of my boys and I just go watch back on for memories. I take lots of pictures but often forget to take videos and like you said, looking back and even just seeing the simple moments are the best! I have very much felt this parent burnout. I really appreciated you sharing that not every day do you feel like you wake up happy and ready to tackle it with kids. It can be so easy to feel guilt with that, but in reality it’s normal and even moms are just human. Especially now when so much still a whole year later feels uncertain. Last week I felt burnout being down with seasonal allergies and we didn’t do our sensory play and my normal activities and I had to just be ok with it. Instead we just made some extra water beads threw in some spoons and also did an outside “car wash” which was just some dollar tree dish soap and hose haha! Sometimes what helps get me out of a burnout is to just lean in and accept I’m in it but it won’t last forever and to maybe try something new! Even yesterday I made a new treat which helped. And Starbucks runs are always a help too :). I got the latte you tried to get yesterday and it was pretty tasty! I deff would get it again, hope you still enjoyed the one they made for you! Anyways you’re deff not alone in the burnout right now, ❤️. Hang in there as we are all truly in this together and there are lots of mamas standing in it with you!!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      So happy to have crossed paths with you, Kassandra. I love sharing in mom life's ups and downs with you! I can't imagine the struggle of seasonal allergies. I'm glad you gave yourself some time and grace - those two sweet boys totally understand. AND it looks like its just what you needed because from what I've seen on instagram, you are back and better than ever with some awesome St Patty's activities - totally inspired! Thank you for the support, my friend, sending it right back to you!

  • @hillarysanz2652
    @hillarysanz2652 3 года назад

    My husband and I just watched that Seeyareelsoon video last week! Too funny. Lee looks so grown up with his haircut! You're doing great Ashley, you and Joe are awesome parents!

  • @xellent59
    @xellent59 3 года назад

    I can definitely relate to feeling burned out. I hope you find encouragement, Ashley! I find that adding new things, even something little, to my life helps with feeling burnt out. For example, it could be a simple change in routine or a new hobby. I do not have all the answers and it might not work for everyone, but it could be worth a try. Also, writing in a gratitude journal helps with feeling burned out. It helps when you change your focus from what you are tired of to what you’re blessed to have! just my two cents... :-) Have a great week everyone!!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      These are wonderful suggestions, Ellen, and I will definitely be implementing them into my routine. I agree - switching things up a bit, can really make a big difference and focusing back on gratitude is the ultimate mood booster. Thank you so much! Wishing you a great week as well!

  • @gabirela9
    @gabirela9 3 года назад

    I love how kind you were with the starbucks let down!! Thank you for being understanding ;D You are an absolutely incredible mom and thank you for sharing your essence with us. It's been tough, no doubt. Love to you and your wonderful family

  • @mermaid_and_jedi_adventure8704
    @mermaid_and_jedi_adventure8704 3 года назад

    Love these day in the life videos. Lee's haircut makes him look so grown up. ❤

  • @Lisa-vb3fu
    @Lisa-vb3fu 3 года назад

    Thank you for your honesty at the end. I feel the same way a lot times, and then feel guilty for feeling that way. Social media makes it worse, because so many other moms only put out the best parts of their life. It's refreshing to know I'm not the only stay at home mom that feels isolated and burnt out.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      I have been really struggling with seeing the "perfect" curated posts all over social media, but I'm doing my best to reframe my reaction to them and try to focus and follow more like-minded moms on those platforms. You are certainly not alone, Lisa! Thanks for keeping me company in this journey.

  • @DCElliott0422
    @DCElliott0422 3 года назад

    Thanks for the day in the life! It is quite familiar! And that flashing light on the iPhone is the infrared light pulses that flash when your phone is trying to use FaceID. Its pulsing the infrared light in short bursts to map your face. It's part of why infrared works in the dark! You can see remote control infrared light on cameras too, its how I test to see if the batteries of a remote are really dead or not.

  • @wbanzhof
    @wbanzhof 3 года назад

    The Tsum Tsums appearing made my day! I’m having serious burn out in general and struggling to just let the chores slide and get back to doing the things that are important to me like working out, eating healthy and spending time with my horses while not feeling guilty about leaving my husband to watch the kids or not putting in extra time at work.

  • @caseyann6479
    @caseyann6479 3 года назад

    Seeyareelsoon has been such a huge part of me and my fiancé’s relationship ever since we were dating. We were long distance and we would watch your vlogs together on FaceTime and laugh every night. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. It is so special to us ❤️

  • @lisapodjeski4905
    @lisapodjeski4905 3 года назад

    You’re such a good mama. Blessings on your family! ❤️

  • @dianecrawley5503
    @dianecrawley5503 3 года назад

    Beautiful video Ashley! I am dealing with burnout at the moment. I lost my parents this past year and because of the restrictions we were not allowed to have a service. Its been hard to work and grieve at the same time. Your family videos are such a joy so THANK YOU!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      I'm so sorry, Diane. I can't imagine the pain and isolation you've felt this past year. I just saw a viral tweet that was going around that said "when we look back on the pandemic in 10-20 years time, I think we're going to be absolutely astonished that throughout all of this pain, grief, and loneliness, our workplaces and educational institutions held us to exactly the same productivity standards as before." I'm sure you're feeling this pressure right now and I wish there was more I could do to help. I'm happy to know our videos bring you joy at least!

  • @wakko161
    @wakko161 3 года назад

    This is so wholesome. I had a smile on my face the whole time. And we have a little lefty there with Mr. Dennis. I love a lefty 💜🖤💜
    You’ve got this Mama! You’re a great mother.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Awww thank you so much!! Yes, we were wondering the same thing about Sir Dennis... no lefties in either of our families that I know of, so we would be quite surprised, but he definitely seems to favor it right now!

  • @staceylynch9751
    @staceylynch9751 3 года назад

    As the mom of a now 14yo dd, I remember the exhaustion well. Give yourself grace. The housework will wait. The days may be long but the years are short. I know it's cliche but you will look back one day and miss the hectic toddler years. You got this!

  • @shelbylewis1422
    @shelbylewis1422 3 года назад

    When you yawned I yawned along with you. I'm a tired mom right with you girl! I'm a stay-at-home mom of three, ages 5, 4, and 2 months. You are doing a wonderful job!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Oh my! I can imagine you are!!! Are the all home full-time or do you older ones go to school? We're in this together!!!

    • @shelbylewis1422
      @shelbylewis1422 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand the older ones just started back to school full time again, which makes it easier. It can get pretty lonely being a stay-at-home mom but it is totally worth it. Your little ones are so adorable and so smart.

  • @katelynneprosser1607
    @katelynneprosser1607 3 года назад

    Ashley, fantastic video! So fun to watch!

  • @debradesimone4849
    @debradesimone4849 3 года назад

    Check out the dollar tree store for buckets. Also for other bits and pieces you might need to get for the baskets!

  • @TheUrgos
    @TheUrgos 3 года назад +4

    Lee set off my Alexa and I couldn’t get Dino Dana to stop playing! 🤣 Be sure to look for Dino Dan, the original series .. soooo good!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Hahahaha sorry to laugh, but this always cracks me up! definitely checking out Dino Dan, too!!

    • @clairelucas6997
      @clairelucas6997 3 года назад

      Yes set mine off too, only thankfully, alexa didn't know what it was (maybe its not available in UK). Did make me laugh though. Our alexa plays up with us, but a 4yr old on TV she understands perfectly! 🙄🤣

  • @lynnfouts9785
    @lynnfouts9785 3 года назад

    This vlog was so good and honest. Thanks for sharing and it made me smile the whole time. ❤️

  • @addisonforgit734
    @addisonforgit734 3 года назад

    Thanks so much for sharing your day! I’m sure it’s very hard to juggle filming and momming. And yes the “normal” moments are so affirming to see. Sometimes it feels like the days should be super fun and flashy and sparkly, but they usually.... aren’t! And that’s ok! That’s great actually!!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Yes, especially when your youngest keeps wanting to get his grubby fingers on the camera!! haha In a world of perfectly curated moments, its difficult to find the courage to share the more mundane, but I'm so happy to see it was so well received and appreciated. Thank you!

  • @bunsenhoneydew347
    @bunsenhoneydew347 3 года назад

    OK...this only solidifies that Dennis is the most adorable baby EVER!! His laugh...oh my gosh...so adorable. And that smile! And he is such a big boy eating with his spork.
    This was a great video, I really enjoyed it! And I hate to tell ya...but I think the CIA is in fact watching you!🤪

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      It's that November 6th luck! :D Right?!

    • @bunsenhoneydew347
      @bunsenhoneydew347 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand Heck yeah!! November 6th babies unite!! I was watching this video with Jeff last night and when we were saying how radical Dennis is I said “From now on when people ask who shares my birthday, I’m going to say Dennis and then mention you (Jeff) second”😂😂

  • @greekchic2009
    @greekchic2009 3 года назад

    Oh! And We are deff gonna give Dino Dana a try! I ironically just saw it on the amazon app tonight and thought what is that?! It looks great! ☺️ Also love the Easter tags too! Hobby lobby is where I got the boys baskets this year ironically in the garden section haha but they were about 4.99 I believe ☺️.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Oooh! Hoping I can get away to Hobby Lobby!! They would totally have some great finds. Thank you!!

  • @thedaddylife5449
    @thedaddylife5449 3 года назад

    This vlog was so good. It was so honest and made me feel so better. I have hard days and don’t always feel present. Life with young kids is tough and some days you just have to get through the day.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      I know you get it, my friend! Always nice to hear you're not alone. Send my love to those two special ladies in your life!!

  • @SHIRLEYZAPORZON
    @SHIRLEYZAPORZON 3 года назад +4

    What is the name of the app for the grocery shopping list? Thanks !!

  • @haileymarkus3240
    @haileymarkus3240 3 года назад +2

    Lee looks very handsome with his new haircut

  • @jamesunt1
    @jamesunt1 3 года назад

    Great job on bringing up two great kids!

  • @jessd6393
    @jessd6393 3 года назад

    I love how Dennis thought about eating that crayon and then sounded like he said “no” to himself 😆
    Also wanted to add I appreciate you showing the good and the not so good! All moms relate!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Yeah, can you tell from that little mischievous face, he was seeing if I was looking? Hehehe Cutest little menace. I'm so glad you could relate!!

  • @MookieLee123
    @MookieLee123 3 года назад

    Dino Dan was the original! It’s good too! And there’s Treks adventures which is the second series. Lee would love them too.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Ohh!! So good to know there is more of the dino universe to enjoy!!! Thank you. I've never seen him so interested and inspired by a tv series, so I am running with it!!!

  • @mollym8678
    @mollym8678 3 года назад

    Love this video! So nice to see a real life day. You are doing amazing work! Also, what was the grocery app name?

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!! AnyList! Highly recommend.

    • @mollym8678
      @mollym8678 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand thank you! I will download it!

  • @alwaysabeliever108
    @alwaysabeliever108 3 года назад +1

    The best 39:54 of my day. Thank you for a very nice video and getting to spend some time with you guys. P.s. you can tell Lee to stop growing now ! :-)

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Awww this makes my heart happy! I don't like to make videos this long, but I had trouble editing it down, so I'm happy to hear you found the time spent watching worthwhile. Always love hearing from you!! P.S. Uhhh yeah, he WON'T LISTEN TO ME!!!! hehehe

  • @MarkieHayesMakeup
    @MarkieHayesMakeup 3 года назад

    My son use to love Dino Dan (the original show before the Dino Dana spin-off). It was on Nick Jr, super cute and he would love it if he likes Dino Dana.

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      I just heard about this for the first time during my Friday LIVE and then went down a google search spiral about it. Haha! I think he'd love Dino Dan, too, and once we finish these episodes, we'll definitely look into that series! I kind of love that he looks up to a strong and confident young girl though!

    • @MarkieHayesMakeup
      @MarkieHayesMakeup 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand I LOVE that they made the lead a girl. Not only because she’s strong and passionate, but because dinosaurs are always geared towards boys. It shows that it’s ok to be a girl and love dinosaurs! My son loves all kind of things that are typically thought of for only girls.

  • @IsabelleL18
    @IsabelleL18 3 года назад

    Love this video Ashley! Honestly, I feel like I’ve been experiencing a burnout for the better part of this crazy COVID year😂

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Thank you, Isabelle! Yes, everyone is experiencing burnout in someway this year, the more reason to lean on each other when we can!

    • @IsabelleL18
      @IsabelleL18 3 года назад

      Ashley's Lemonade Stand Yes exactly!

  • @brewcrew17
    @brewcrew17 3 года назад

    I thought I'd be safe across the room but Lee set of my Alexa too😆

  • @matertater2
    @matertater2 3 года назад

    Have you tried the dole whip Starbucks drink? It’s vanilla bean frapp with pineapple ginger syrup and whipped cream

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      I have NOT! Sounds DELISH! When the weather gets a little warmer, I'm definitely going to try this out. Thank you!

  • @ThatFLFeeling
    @ThatFLFeeling 3 года назад

    I really enjoyed this vlog! As a new mama to a 3 month old, I'm coming to terms that I won't get as much as I aspire to get done in a day. It's a tough realization, though. Which card game were you guys playing at the end?

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      I'm so glad! It's been over four years and as you can see it is still difficult to come to terms with, but there's no way around it. I often have to self-reflect and ask myself why it bothers me so much, is it for appearances? Well, get over yourself, Ashley. If its for your well-being and the well-being and function of your family and home, prioritize where you can and it will all work out. :)
      We're playing rummy! Have you ever played?

    • @ThatFLFeeling
      @ThatFLFeeling 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand I've played Rummikub, which is the board game version of the card game. You're making me want to break out the board game (or a deck of cards) and play again!

  • @ashleysosa5504
    @ashleysosa5504 3 года назад

    What card games do you and Joe play?

  • @brooken319
    @brooken319 3 года назад

    LOVE THAT YOU WERE WATCHING SEEYAREELSOON 😂

  • @anniejoyce7729
    @anniejoyce7729 3 года назад

    love lee s new haircut

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Thanks! It took us awhile to get used to it haha So used to our shaggy haired little boy.

    • @anniejoyce7729
      @anniejoyce7729 3 года назад

      @@AshleysLemonadeStand both look good, but "new" is always good

  • @sarairvine9622
    @sarairvine9622 3 года назад

    Um, when did Lee turn into a TEENAGER!!!!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад +1

      Uhhh I was hoping someone could answer that question for me! :)

  • @allisonwittner2111
    @allisonwittner2111 3 года назад

    Why does Lee look like such a big boy?!?!?!

    • @AshleysLemonadeStand
      @AshleysLemonadeStand  3 года назад

      Uhhh that's what I'VE been asking!!! It's my fault, I had his hair chopped off and it added like three years to him. My baaaabbbyyyy!!!

  • @ZulunationFamily
    @ZulunationFamily 3 года назад

    Good stuff I’m from South Africa 🇿🇦 but live in the United States 🇺🇸 and I love your content I hit the notification button I also have content of my own but it’s family and pets and pushing the narrative of life and positivity check it out and if you like it hit that button and welcome to the zulunation family we appreciate you . Siyabonga (thank you) peace and solitude ❤️🇿🇦