@@usercs_2682 Exactly, approaching is introduction part and chasing is when you happen to be the only one making the effort. Just learn to be unfazed and embrace rejection because let’s face it, pretty young women get endless attention from thirsty men and as long as you maintain your self discipline, confidence and respect, then sooner or later the right woman will sense that and you won’t have to try too hard to win them over because it will just happen naturally.
Take care of yourself, be easy going & fun, be a good person, and make moves on women. Chris is right; if you do all these things, you'll be surprised at how many women will find you attractive or maybe they never considered you a prospect but now will.
@@umair111 They do. But it all changes when a man approaches. The thing is, you approaching them turns them on. Confidence is key, and approaching is the best way to show confidence.
@@umair111 That’s true on dating apps. But, the number one thing women are attracted to is confidence, so the guy she instantly swipes left on, face-to-face even if she isn’t really attracted by his look straight off the bat, can increase her attraction towards him by initiating and approaching her. As long as she has a minimum interest straight off the bat (5/10), a man can raise this by acting in the correct masculine way. Women are automatically attracted to men who approach them in a calibrated and masculine way…. and they don’t actually realise this. That’s why you see ‘ugly’ guys punching and you’ll hear things from women like ‘there’s just something about him’. All about her feels.
Just make sure you don’t turn what is just the introduction part to chasing or displaying needy behaviour because that only pushes genuine women away. In other words, pay close attention to her body language because that tells you all you need to know whether or not she’s into you. If she is interested, then keep things short and sweet by asking her out on date by suggesting that she should come along with you to an event you will be attending and that she will like it or you just simply do it on the spot and go for a quick coffee and have a laugh. Don’t forget about your ambition, purpose and vision will always remain your number one priority. Less is more with women and not only do you want to be the first to introduce yourself, but be the first to conclude. Usually women who are interested will get in contact with you, but no harm in reaching out in 3-4 days if you haven’t heard from her and say you had fun during your short time together and if or whenever she responds, then don’t get into a deep conversation and just set up another date. It is worth remembering that women’s emotions go up and down. She may have other guys trying to get with her and you want to stand out from the rest by not appearing desperate or needy. If she truly likes you, then she won’t forget about you and will most likely to reach out to you when she sees you aren’t bothered by delayed response. As mentioned above, that is the best time to set a date because genuine women don’t want a texting buddy. Learn to embrace rejection rather than be fearful because sooner or later the right one will sense the confidence you display just like that.
@@DSILVAjeiy Thank you so much. I’ve seen some comments on Chris’s video and seems some men don’t understand there is a difference between introducing themselves and chasing women. Men have to make the first move, which is the introduction part and from then on you just allow things to happen naturally whilst not forcing or expecting anything. Men are straightforward by nature, whereas women’s go based on how they feel in the particular moment and understanding their body language is crucial because they aren’t going to tell you how much they are attracted to you. For instance, are they giving little hints like looking over and smiling and if so, then a man can always banter with them by saying something like I caught you looking my way and whether or not it leads somewhere, it shouldn’t matter. A man’s top priority should always be his ambition, purpose and vision and less is more with women.
Learn a thing very early about girls i stopped making them friends i just talk randomly to them and didn't even ask them their name or any personal info. Just random talks abd it helped me very much no attraction no attachment
I don't care what women want, I care about what I want. it is not my job to give women what they want. the society in which men were incentivized to make moves is over thanks to feminism, the destruction of traditional values and the war on men. they will have to take the initiative if they want relationships and marriage, the same way the will have to work hard if they want to survive. they made their choice, and now they will have to accept the consequences
So you’re going to let some feminists stop you from taking what’s yours? True man always take what’s theirs and don’t let some movement stop them. Or you will end up with someone you don’t wan to be with. The woman that approach men are going to be the one you don’t like but you will acccept them becaue you didn’t have the courage to go ask the one you do like.
@@knp4356 likewise, the men who approach them are going to be the players and bad boys they can't have relationships with. not to mention they are only 5-10% of the male population. it's a stalemate. the thing is, women have created this situation during the last 60 years, and it's not up to men to change it.
Women aren’t wired to initiate the approach. It’s a man’s job. After that let her pursue you, but, as a man you have to start things / make some sort of move. It won’t help your cause being bitter.
I will approach and pursue, no worries. But only for so long (not very) I believe it's upto the woman to now pursue a relationship or connection once interest has been expressed
You're dead wrong, bruh, when you persue a chick, she already knows you're interested in her, that putting the ball in her court to choose, if your're in a relationship with a chick you already have her, there's no need to compete, bruh
Never express feelings to a woman, bruh, you're acting feminine when you do that, you could show interest without letting her know, she 'll get the message and she'll be the one expressing her feeling to you, that way she's investing more in you which shows you're not chasing her, but her doing the chasing, you got to keep mystrious, which attracts her more to you, less will alwas be more with chicks, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 exactly telling a woman u like her makes you look weak just like another simp it doesn’t separate I don’t know why this video is sending the wrong message
@@AndyKirtland11 embrace rejection and talk to her like normal lol she will think ur still after her panties if u still talk to her after she rejected you common Man U can’t b so delusional…if a woman rejects u then u ghost her forever no attention period
Just ask them out for a coffee or an event. If I fancied a girl, I'd love to spend as much time with her as possible, same goes for them. If they will say they're busy and not offer any other alternative at least you know they don't like you.
I agree but I don’t agree about bold moves. Discreet is way better with the hotter ones. Everything should be done slowly and incrementally, at a slower pace than her. Bold moves signal you care too much, which will destroy the mystery and tension. The more energy/effort you give, the less valuable it seems
There is no explanations given by this guy for situations that you can foresee happening, in this case we are meant to go around accepting that a woman likes us if we approached them and they responded positively. So going by the information presented by this guy, we are meant to assume that the woman will like us-but at the same time she's not going to let us know since she is the woman who is meant to be having all femininity in the relationship? You will still be no wiser after getting this guys book and he knows this so he wants to arrange Skype calls that you will have to pay for to know the situation for EACH situation that you want to know the "correct way to behave" so that the woman won't be turned off......
I am tired of chasing. No more
Smart man!
There’s difference between approach and chasing
@@usercs_2682 Exactly, approaching is introduction part and chasing is when you happen to be the only one making the effort. Just learn to be unfazed and embrace rejection because let’s face it, pretty young women get endless attention from thirsty men and as long as you maintain your self discipline, confidence and respect, then sooner or later the right woman will sense that and you won’t have to try too hard to win them over because it will just happen naturally.
You shouldn't be chasing to begin with, bruh, you could persue but not chase
Take care of yourself, be easy going & fun, be a good person, and make moves on women. Chris is right; if you do all these things, you'll be surprised at how many women will find you attractive or maybe they never considered you a prospect but now will.
"More women are attracted to you than you could ever imagine"..... I shall find solace in these golden words and shall hit bed 😂
Hahahaha 😂
I saw one study which found that women find approx 85% of men unattractive
@Umair At least men are honest. Most women are just plain or unattractive without make-up. Only a small percentage is naturally attractive
@@umair111 They do. But it all changes when a man approaches. The thing is, you approaching them turns them on. Confidence is key, and approaching is the best way to show confidence.
@@umair111
That’s true on dating apps.
But, the number one thing women are attracted to is confidence, so the guy she instantly swipes left on, face-to-face even if she isn’t really attracted by his look straight off the bat, can increase her attraction towards him by initiating and approaching her. As long as she has a minimum interest straight off the bat (5/10), a man can raise this by acting in the correct masculine way.
Women are automatically attracted to men who approach them in a calibrated and masculine way…. and they don’t actually realise this.
That’s why you see ‘ugly’ guys punching and you’ll hear things from women like ‘there’s just something about him’. All about her feels.
I trust this Man's work. Thank you, Chris
Just make sure you don’t turn what is just the introduction part to chasing or displaying needy behaviour because that only pushes genuine women away. In other words, pay close attention to her body language because that tells you all you need to know whether or not she’s into you. If she is interested, then keep things short and sweet by asking her out on date by suggesting that she should come along with you to an event you will be attending and that she will like it or you just simply do it on the spot and go for a quick coffee and have a laugh.
Don’t forget about your ambition, purpose and vision will always remain your number one priority. Less is more with women and not only do you want to be the first to introduce yourself, but be the first to conclude. Usually women who are interested will get in contact with you, but no harm in reaching out in 3-4 days if you haven’t heard from her and say you had fun during your short time together and if or whenever she responds, then don’t get into a deep conversation and just set up another date.
It is worth remembering that women’s emotions go up and down. She may have other guys trying to get with her and you want to stand out from the rest by not appearing desperate or needy. If she truly likes you, then she won’t forget about you and will most likely to reach out to you when she sees you aren’t bothered by delayed response. As mentioned above, that is the best time to set a date because genuine women don’t want a texting buddy. Learn to embrace rejection rather than be fearful because sooner or later the right one will sense the confidence you display just like that.
Genius
Well said 🏆🍷
@@sisamc782 🙏
@@DSILVAjeiy Thank you so much. I’ve seen some comments on Chris’s video and seems some men don’t understand there is a difference between introducing themselves and chasing women. Men have to make the first move, which is the introduction part and from then on you just allow things to happen naturally whilst not forcing or expecting anything. Men are straightforward by nature, whereas women’s go based on how they feel in the particular moment and understanding their body language is crucial because they aren’t going to tell you how much they are attracted to you. For instance, are they giving little hints like looking over and smiling and if so, then a man can always banter with them by saying something like I caught you looking my way and whether or not it leads somewhere, it shouldn’t matter. A man’s top priority should always be his ambition, purpose and vision and less is more with women.
WTH?
A novel?
Learn a thing very early about girls i stopped making them friends i just talk randomly to them and didn't even ask them their name or any personal info. Just random talks abd it helped me very much no attraction no attachment
I don't care what women want, I care about what I want. it is not my job to give women what they want. the society in which men were incentivized to make moves is over thanks to feminism, the destruction of traditional values and the war on men. they will have to take the initiative if they want relationships and marriage, the same way the will have to work hard if they want to survive. they made their choice, and now they will have to accept the consequences
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Exactly never give free attention they get full of themselves women who r interested definitely approach iv been approached
So you’re going to let some feminists stop you from taking what’s yours? True man always take what’s theirs and don’t let some movement stop them. Or you will end up with someone you don’t wan to be with. The woman that approach men are going to be the one you don’t like but you will acccept them becaue you didn’t have the courage to go ask the one you do like.
@@knp4356 likewise, the men who approach them are going to be the players and bad boys they can't have relationships with. not to mention they are only 5-10% of the male population. it's a stalemate. the thing is, women have created this situation during the last 60 years, and it's not up to men to change it.
Women aren’t wired to initiate the approach. It’s a man’s job. After that let her pursue you, but, as a man you have to start things / make some sort of move.
It won’t help your cause being bitter.
I will approach and pursue, no worries. But only for so long (not very)
I believe it's upto the woman to now pursue a relationship or connection once interest has been expressed
As long as you made your intentions known to her, then the ball is in her court to either reciprocate interest or reject you, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 Nah, once you become intimate with a woman the ball is on her court, otherwise still on yours..
You're dead wrong, bruh, when you persue a chick, she already knows you're interested in her, that putting the ball in her court to choose, if your're in a relationship with a chick you already have her, there's no need to compete, bruh
I think what you meant was........UNTIL you become intimate with a woman, the ball's in her court. @@gab7670m
She send me indicators of interest I asked her out and then she rejected me. SMH
Men penetrate (initiate). Women receive. 💎
Great video, Chris. Thank you.
sorry bro, but i'm not doing all this bullsh*t. the juice is just not worth the squeeze.
always tell a broad how you feel, whether she rejects you or not. You don't want to be that dude wondering if she liked you or not lol
Yes and most importantly, just embrace rejection and be unfazed because that shows a high level of confidence.
Never express feelings to a woman, bruh, you're acting feminine when you do that, you could show interest without letting her know, she 'll get the message and she'll be the one expressing her feeling to you, that way she's investing more in you which shows you're not chasing her, but her doing the chasing, you got to keep mystrious, which attracts her more to you, less will alwas be more with chicks, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 exactly telling a woman u like her makes you look weak just like another simp it doesn’t separate I don’t know why this video is sending the wrong message
@@AndyKirtland11 embrace rejection and talk to her like normal lol she will think ur still after her panties if u still talk to her after she rejected you common Man U can’t b so delusional…if a woman rejects u then u ghost her forever no attention period
Just ask them out for a coffee or an event. If I fancied a girl, I'd love to spend as much time with her as possible, same goes for them. If they will say they're busy and not offer any other alternative at least you know they don't like you.
I'm not doing all the initiating F that.
I’m tired.
What about the dude that doesn't chase or give little to no attention? And a simple "hey" to the girl would make their day
You mean guys that she is attracted to?
@@Hhhh22222-w Sure, them.
Do the work... but also don't chase?? I'm confused.
I guess making a move means asking her out and/or flirting with her, touching her, kissing her.
Yes anything that's considered as 'moving things along' be it verbal/physical/both.
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Nope
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I don't know about that, Chris. I have a Pinay, Filipina gf for 2 years now. She loves pleasing her man. I take care of her as well.
Very passionate.
Filipina women are different. They are the easiest women in the world to seduce and keep happy
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I agree but I don’t agree about bold moves. Discreet is way better with the hotter ones. Everything should be done slowly and incrementally, at a slower pace than her. Bold moves signal you care too much, which will destroy the mystery and tension. The more energy/effort you give, the less valuable it seems
Bold moves only for intimacy and kissing. Otherwise you’re going to wait for the woman to make the move?
She has investigator following you. She comes to your bedroom window to look inside
Naah women break rules for Alpha
U must be alpha. U see what we all see from this end
How does this correlate with “Don’t chase!”
There is no explanations given by this guy for situations that you can foresee happening, in this case we are meant to go around accepting that a woman likes us if we approached them and they responded positively.
So going by the information presented by this guy, we are meant to assume that the woman will like us-but at the same time she's not going to let us know since she is the woman who is meant to be having all femininity in the relationship?
You will still be no wiser after getting this guys book and he knows this so he wants to arrange Skype calls that you will have to pay for to know the situation for EACH situation that you want to know the "correct way to behave" so that the woman won't be turned off......
QUESTION FOR ALL HERE
Would you date/marry a Bi women or be hesitant about not meeting her "other" needs in bed ???
My girl-friend always say she doesn’t like me and will never be my gf. Guess what I sleep with her
How exactly bro. You just start Kissing her, and it leads to sex?
Or you ask,. Do you wanna hookup?
@@User-7847 Sorry my bad eng. I mean she said she will never be my gf but finally we were together
@@Rawuna You should be suspicious about her intentions.
What are you talking about ??.. Lol...that's a beta male behaviour.
What exactly?
He's refering to persuing a chick thats sending signals to persue her, chasing her would be beta, not persuing there's a diffrence, bruh
That's what u call balance bro
@@oscargonza2748 😂🤣🤣
@@MSOTV-ug4ln you only dont Chase after she reject you and break up with you.
My buddies ex from over a decade ago has been trying to get me to hang out, i just keep curving her to the side 😂😂😂
Your a good friend to your buddies
Oh, they’ll make it easy for you…
Yes please!! Somebody needs to teach men how to wear the pants so they can earn respect!!
Guys are play it so cool, they turn into cold fish😅
Stop infantilizing them or they will never grow up
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