1. Responsiveness - Being too responsive and available will push away women. Too emotionally nurturing and caring. 2. Anxiety - If a girl becomes distant, and you react out of anxiety and neediness. She will be put off. 3. Insecurity - Constantly needing reassurance, you don't trust her 4. Jealousy - Get upset, try to chase her, beg and plead, or you become controlling and aggressive. Fundamentally weak, and not confident.
So if you have displayed all these traits n she left you, how long do you stay in no contact? Until she contacts you? Cos in this situation I made all these mistakes but that was after 6 years of a relationship and falling on hard times for a long period of time. Your advise will be surely appreciated. I’m 69 days into no contact by the way. I even went to her office n threatened her cos she was really disrespectful, yea I know I really blew it but hey shit happens. Thanks
Seems like basically we gotta be happy being alone in staying emotionally detached in prepared for the worse with women...no matter how much you like a girl never let her think you need her women get big headed quick in I learned this from experience.
That's been my experience too. You can't care much so you don't act needy and catch feelings. It's crazy you have to act this way, but it is what it is.
mac1bc agreed it is crazy that you have to do these things but you can never fully show your hand to a woman. She has to wonder so remain at least partly a mystery.
Being an introvert is best coz we are v happy with ourselves or if someone is freindly with us,then thats also v good and talks.But if she pulls away or dont want t talk, then we dont get needy.
It has nothing to do with introversion and extroversion. There are also many studies about it, that they are not interrelated, so stop spreading shit here and do your research before you talk. I was an introvert for many years, it depends on your self-worth and how confident you are, also how much you relate to that person. Being introverted doesn't define your confidence and self-worth.
so, pretend you don't care or try to get in a relationship with someone you really don't give a crap about...got it!Second one works perfect for me every time...
Spot on mark. It’s ridiculous! They walk around with their face glued to that damn iPhone! When I go on the train and see them all aimlessly scrolling how bad I want to walk up to them and snatch and smash that thing off the floor
For real dude, when im out in public(alot), I watch my surroundings, these females rarely come up for air! That friggen phone, texting , glued to it. It turns me the hell off!
From being cheated on in many past relationships I developed these types of behaviours. I also had a lack of my mother’s and father’s love as a child which also caused me to be needy etc. As a result I have been guilty of all of these things 🤦🏻 It has taken a lot of work to change 20+ years of these traits being ingrained into my mindset. healing and reprogramming has been my focus to move away from displaying these types of behaviours / characteristics. The human spirit is not to lose hope so I push on to being my best and maybe one day a good woman will appreciate and honour me. Thank you for the videos!
Remember what the Emperor said to Darth Vader in Return of the Jedi: He will come to you. Its the same with woman. Dont chase them, just let them know you exist and you are a catch.
So many of these videos boil down to stop acting feminine- all these traits are women’s traits and we wonder why things don’t work. Be a mature man. Best of luck gents
you right man i was with a girl she was love me so much but i show here all of this mistake after she turn off from me and right now i get another girlfriend but i still loving her
I am same as you I got gf too. I leave her alone. But now she's trying to get close to me n act how she was before ( I don't need her now she broke my heart so badly) ✌✌
Yeah that's cool but nobody's talking about the why you have to behave like that and where that is coming from. It's all the about the masculin energy. The Yang. In order to maintain attraction towards the feminin energy ( ying ) you have to master the yang . Working on your purpose in life will cause natural attraction. I think it's important to know that because a lot of ideas and opinion are thrown at us but what we have to know is the why and everything becomes clear and you can ultimately avoid the RAIJ 😉
The trick is that they have to need you for something, not the other way around. You need to give them something unique that cannot be easily found elsewhere. That is how you beat the competition and keep them around. Flip the script.
Hi Carlos I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym.. She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out I didnt like it and I didnt reply her She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply She text me Good Morning..I replied ... I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite... I will meeting her tonite ... What should I do .. Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately... I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup... So I let her say whatever she want... If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ? It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ... I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love .. If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
My ex girlfriend's boyfriend has all 4 of these. They've been dating for 2 months and he keeps doing all these 4 things and slowly the girl lose interest and she started contact me and said that she really miss me, I set up a date with her and we hangout normally and she said that with me she feel comfortable and happy unlike her BF. Later that day we have sex and she told me that whenever she sees her BF she feel disgusted but whenever she sees me she feel love, security and comfortable. They broke up like 1 week ago so she and I started dating. I almost fall on my last mistakes by showing her these signs. I gotta be careful now.
I am looking at turning 62 this September, and haven't really been with women, but I totally get the feeling they seem to be very macho no matter how pretty they look on the outside.
@@ChrisWilliams-ls7ue Nope. Not dead. Just not looking for women anymore and i feel better. The best way to stay happy or positive is to avoid dating sites, avoid thinking about women, and especially avoid porn. When you're on dating sites, you allow women to step on you, disrespect you and treat you like crap. The only logical solution is to avoid them. Or to be extremely detached when talking to them and not get upset when they ignore you or unmatch you for no reason. It's all a mindset. Focus on your goals instead. Go to the gym.
@@davidlee6117wow thanks for reminding me of this again. I gave dating sites a try after several years and again it's making me feel miserable. Definitely a waste of time and need to delete!
So, essentially: 1. Don’t be honest: women want mystery. Women want to chase. The grass is greener on the other side. 2. Don’t show emotion: Act like you don’t care, they love that.
I have all the traits in RAIJ but im really trying to work on them. I just cannot distinguish am I being assertive or being insecure? Or jealous? Or am I leading things in the right direction?
Bruh you need to not show any of the four traits. Most men do. Women EXPECT it. When they find a dude thats actually SECURE they want to keep him around. And if one day she decides to leave? You fucking let her! And she’ll be like wtf maybe i shouldnt let this guy go. Its all about mind set bro! And it makes all the difference in attraction. Women will never be attracted to someone who feels they dont deserve her. FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT
Then I lost a girl for me, She Invest On me and Gift me Every time and our Relationship Then suddenly Fade away Because Of my Anger And Hatred Anxiety To my Family.
trust me guys , i did all these mistakes (( i even didnt know before about this all , now my girl is too cold and distant , but i dont loose hope , any suggestion coach ? how i get her back ?
Hi I listen your videos..you Say that if I response her message quickly she will lose interest in my? I dont agree...I response when I see the message, or it supose I have to wait sistematicly to response every message...The lose of interest, i think, not depend on this...
The phone should be for setting dates only. If she's texting you in between dates, then respond sure. However, if she texts you at night, then wait till morning to respond. If you're working, then respond after work is over. Don't ignore her, but don't be too readily available either.
So all this y'all tryna say men shouldnt have any emotions in relationship....This is crazy how you gotta do all this just to keep a lady. You wake up and you gotta memorize all these steps??... True but smh...women are just not understandable
Dude I understand your frustration. You have to understand why this happens from an evolutionary psychology point of view. Women are attracted to strength because they want to ensure that their offspring are also strong. Men are attracted to beauty because we want our children to have these beauty qualities. Since women are attracted to strong men, it actually helps you improve your emotional strength because you want to be that guy who women love. This is a positive thing believe me. Where a man can work to improve his overall emotional strength, a woman cannot change her appearance too much. Would you want a relationship with a woman who is overweight and unattractive? The answer is *no* Canwell isn't telling you how attraction should be, but how *it actually is* . If you read Atomic Attraction you would know this by now. Be a 5% man and you will be rewarded.
Rain Rain women don’t even know what they want. They’ll post all these deep relationship quotes, and romantic pics with the title “Relationship Goals”, and then when they get all that plus some, they start disappearing. The guy who does the least gets the most. Happened to me now with 3 women in 2 years. It’s not a coincidence. So with the one I’m with right now, I’m following this guy’s advice to the T! Being a good guy failed every time, so time for something different.
@@TacticalxRecon No worth men . Quick question men are biologically program so sleep with many women even in a relationship. Is she going to take that as an excuse ??
So if you have displayed all these traits n she left you, how long do you stay in no contact? Until she contacts you? Cos in this situation I made all these mistakes but that was after 6 years of a relationship and falling on hard times for a long period of time. Your advise will be surely appreciated. I’m 69 days into no contact by the way. I even went to her office n threatened her cos she was really disrespectful, yea I know I really blew it but hey shit happens. Thanks
So because of these big 4s that women turn off will lead to other small things that make women turn off if we will compare it to covid 19 these big 4s are the mother of all women turn offers while the other small reason is just a variant or a mutation
now she is acting distant and that stuff and i have responded fast cuz i can and she is not the only one i respond to fast if a friend messages me if i see it i will respond fast and if im busy i will respond when im free
By your vibe. You need to subcommunicate your authority by being slightly less responsive than her, slightly less attainable and by leading the topics you two discuss. Like this she will automatically feel that you are most likely a man.of boundaries without you having to tell her one word of direct control because she will feel subconsciously pressured to.comply to your own exuded reality
True. But please keep in mind it's a subtle balancing art. Too much and you come across as too little masculine, too little jealous and she won't think you care about her
1. Responsiveness - Being too responsive and available will push away women. Too emotionally nurturing and caring.
2. Anxiety - If a girl becomes distant, and you react out of anxiety and neediness. She will be put off.
3. Insecurity - Constantly needing reassurance, you don't trust her
4. Jealousy - Get upset, try to chase her, beg and plead, or you become controlling and aggressive. Fundamentally weak, and not confident.
So if you have displayed all these traits n she left you, how long do you stay in no contact? Until she contacts you? Cos in this situation I made all these mistakes but that was after 6 years of a relationship and falling on hard times for a long period of time. Your advise will be surely appreciated. I’m 69 days into no contact by the way. I even went to her office n threatened her cos she was really disrespectful, yea I know I really blew it but hey shit happens. Thanks
@@agbordaniels you blew it. We all have at some point. Move on and learn from your mistakes.
@@agbordaniels No contact can last a lifetime. If she ever comes back, you have to let her. Go find new women in the meantime.
Can you actually trust a women ?
1. Responsiveness, 2. Anxiety, Neediness, 3. Insecurity, 4. Jealousy.
That's not R.A.I.J. That is R.A.N.IJ.
Seems like basically we gotta be happy being alone in staying emotionally detached in prepared for the worse with women...no matter how much you like a girl never let her think you need her women get big headed quick in I learned this from experience.
That's been my experience too. You can't care much so you don't act needy and catch feelings. It's crazy you have to act this way, but it is what it is.
Humble Soulja agreed
mac1bc agreed it is crazy that you have to do these things but you can never fully show your hand to a woman. She has to wonder so remain at least partly a mystery.
Well, if its what it is what can we do
Thank you brothers for reminding me
Being an introvert is best coz we are v happy with ourselves or if someone is freindly with us,then thats also v good and talks.But if she pulls away or dont want t talk, then we dont get needy.
some people are introvert and needy. I think it has nothing to do with each other
@@Medde3 no they are related.Introverts never seek attention.They r good with themselves i guess
It has nothing to do with introversion and extroversion. There are also many studies about it, that they are not interrelated, so stop spreading shit here and do your research before you talk. I was an introvert for many years, it depends on your self-worth and how confident you are, also how much you relate to that person. Being introverted doesn't define your confidence and self-worth.
I'm an extrovert
doesn't introverts get anxious like that
so, pretend you don't care or try to get in a relationship with someone you really don't give a crap about...got it!Second one works perfect for me every time...
Don't try to get in a relationship. She should be trying to get a relationship from you.
Give this guy a million subscribers . Very underrated hope every guy on this planet follow his channel
She's already married to her phone and social media. When she leaves its a blessing, so treat um like what she is.. temporary ...
Spot on mark. It’s ridiculous! They walk around with their face glued to that damn iPhone! When I go on the train and see them all aimlessly scrolling how bad I want to walk up to them and snatch and smash that thing off the floor
For real dude, when im out in public(alot), I watch my surroundings, these females
rarely come up for air!
That friggen phone, texting , glued to it.
It turns me the hell off!
From being cheated on in many past relationships I developed these types of behaviours. I also had a lack of my mother’s and father’s love as a child which also caused me to be needy etc. As a result I have been guilty of all of these things 🤦🏻 It has taken a lot of work to change 20+ years of these traits being ingrained into my mindset. healing and reprogramming has been my focus to move away from displaying these types of behaviours / characteristics.
The human spirit is not to lose hope so I push on to being my best and maybe one day a good woman will appreciate and honour me.
Thank you for the videos!
You will be ok dude, just keep it up
Remember what the Emperor said to Darth Vader in Return of the Jedi: He will come to you. Its the same with woman. Dont chase them, just let them know you exist and you are a catch.
Your such a fucking genius!!!!!!!!
So many of these videos boil down to stop acting feminine- all these traits are women’s traits and we wonder why things don’t work. Be a mature man. Best of luck gents
'I can't afford it' 4 words to get rid of 99% of them. The other 1% are worth another look..
You forgot to mention Boredom, you could be not doing all those things you mentioned but if she gets bored with you she will leave.
your book surely has best content atomic attraction changed my way of thinking
You bought paperback or kindle edition
you right man i was with a girl she was love me so much but i show here all of this mistake after she turn off from me and right now i get another girlfriend but i still loving her
I am same as you I got gf too. I leave her alone. But now she's trying to get close to me n act how she was before ( I don't need her now she broke my heart so badly) ✌✌
@@Sharivvv same suituation guys( i didnt get any girl after all , and she still cold and push me away( i love her soo much
This video was bang on true. Excellent points as I agree with every point...
Yeah that's cool but nobody's talking about the why you have to behave like that and where that is coming from. It's all the about the masculin energy. The Yang. In order to maintain attraction towards the feminin energy ( ying ) you have to master the yang . Working on your purpose in life will cause natural attraction. I think it's important to know that because a lot of ideas and opinion are thrown at us but what we have to know is the why and everything becomes clear and you can ultimately avoid the RAIJ 😉
Exactly.
The trick is that they have to need you for something, not the other way around. You need to give them something unique that cannot be easily found elsewhere. That is how you beat the competition and keep them around. Flip the script.
Hi Carlos I need advice about getting women into emotional and rollercoaster with us
Yesterday I was nearby my ex gf gym ...I pop in and take a look if she is there.....she saw me and unhappy saying I dont trust her that she is there for exercises and felt I was there to check if she with man in the gym..
She said she feeling stress if I dont trust her.. I told her if this goin to be our 3rd breakup ..I will not look back again and if me as The Man always listen to her ..I wouldn't like I am bound to her rules ... such as meeting her once a week for sex because she feel stress meeting me 4 times a week previously in our 7 years relationship it was only natural we text everyday but now she want to change the dynamics to what she want
Yesterday morning she text me to cancel our plan to go out
I didnt like it and I didnt reply her
She text me in the night that she Miss me..I didnt reply
She text me Honey Good Nite I didnt reply
She text me Good Morning..I replied ...
I think she is upset I didnt reply her last nite...
I will meeting her tonite ...
What should I do ..
Because last week she told me she broke up with me because I focus too much on her...she wanted me to focus on my job and told me she can text me but I cant text her ...she even told me reply her immediately...
I dont want another argument which cause our 2nd breakup...
So I let her say whatever she want...
If I dont reply or reply late is this going to make her love me more ?
It was a good get back together we went to eat and happy hour but now she want to only meet her once a week and I Ban from going to her gym or near her house ...
I think I will Not Care anymore on our 7 years relationship if she dont want me to grow the love ..
If I walk away I am depressed...and if I take her rule I am depressed I am not Man enough
1. Responsiveness
2. Anxiety
3. Insecurity
4. Jealousy
RAGE
*R.A.I.J
Important vid that all men need to watch. It’s harsh but it’s a must!! Great vid💯
You're great dude. Everyone of your videos has been spot on.
Coach redpill always mentioned. For men only " never let your emotions dictate your actions "..
the social media age is fcked up
R - responsiveness
A - anxiety
G - inseGuarity
E -jElousy
RAIJ
yeah ,,, well he already said this , so........
My ex girlfriend's boyfriend has all 4 of these. They've been dating for 2 months and he keeps doing all these 4 things and slowly the girl lose interest and she started contact me and said that she really miss me, I set up a date with her and we hangout normally and she said that with me she feel comfortable and happy unlike her BF. Later that day we have sex and she told me that whenever she sees her BF she feel disgusted but whenever she sees me she feel love, security and comfortable. They broke up like 1 week ago so she and I started dating. I almost fall on my last mistakes by showing her these signs. I gotta be careful now.
update?
Hey simp if she cheated on her boyfriend with you guess what she’s going to do the same
This was spot on Chris
I lost my love because of my anxiety and always needing reassurances 😊
same🤣
she didnt love you
@@lesiempipou27 It's been 7 months since she left but I still miss her
@@abrarrr2103 Did you go no contact? or try other mothods?
I am looking at turning 62 this September, and haven't really been with women, but I totally get the feeling they seem to be very macho no matter how pretty they look on the outside.
Desperate for them/neediness was in my mind already when I saw this title
God bless you Chris 👍👍
All your videos are priceless. I liked almost all of them.
Just got the book about a week ago thru Amazon so far right on the money 👍👍👍
Just live your life and deal with things as they present themselves while prioritizing your life. You need to be alive to live life.
Chris, can u please make a video on "why women fall for funny guys or guys with sense of humour?"
No one, men or women, likes to be around boring people.
Just don’t be a beta goof ball.
I have all of these and I'm having thoughts of ending my life. I feel like I will never be in a relationship.
Check out Joe Dispenza. Our thoughts create reality.
Damn its been 4 years, I hope you aren't dead
@@ChrisWilliams-ls7ue Nope. Not dead. Just not looking for women anymore and i feel better. The best way to stay happy or positive is to avoid dating sites, avoid thinking about women, and especially avoid porn.
When you're on dating sites, you allow women to step on you, disrespect you and treat you like crap. The only logical solution is to avoid them. Or to be extremely detached when talking to them and not get upset when they ignore you or unmatch you for no reason. It's all a mindset. Focus on your goals instead. Go to the gym.
@@jonblablabla1014 Good to hear that you're ok.
@@davidlee6117wow thanks for reminding me of this again. I gave dating sites a try after several years and again it's making me feel miserable. Definitely a waste of time and need to delete!
So, essentially:
1. Don’t be honest: women want mystery. Women want to chase. The grass is greener on the other side.
2. Don’t show emotion:
Act like you don’t care, they love that.
Don't show emotion? Really bro
I have all the traits in RAIJ but im really trying to work on them. I just cannot distinguish am I being assertive or being insecure? Or jealous? Or am I leading things in the right direction?
Bruh you need to not show any of the four traits. Most men do. Women EXPECT it. When they find a dude thats actually SECURE they want to keep him around. And if one day she decides to leave? You fucking let her! And she’ll be like wtf maybe i shouldnt let this guy go. Its all about mind set bro! And it makes all the difference in attraction. Women will never be attracted to someone who feels they dont deserve her. FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT
That's the hard part ... to be detached when wrapped in an attached environment.
Then I lost a girl for me, She Invest On me and Gift me Every time and our Relationship Then suddenly Fade away Because Of my Anger And Hatred Anxiety To my Family.
The guy at 4min08 probably vent off his jalousy on his phone xD
Soon 1 MILLION GO AHEAD MAN...SUPERB😃🎖️🎖️🎖️🇮🇳
Nice talk, l love that
trust me guys , i did all these mistakes (( i even didnt know before about this all , now my girl is too cold and distant , but i dont loose hope , any suggestion coach ? how i get her back ?
If she is sucking another mans piece forget about her..sry
Pull back and do no contact for 6 weeks
The main problem is... women have many options and are always with a guy...
I wish I knew this before
very insightful...thanks for sharing sir
Needed this man
You are a life saver 🙂
1:34
Brilliant.
Hi I listen your videos..you Say that if I response her message quickly she will lose interest in my? I dont agree...I response when I see the message, or it supose I have to wait sistematicly to response every message...The lose of interest, i think, not depend on this...
The phone should be for setting dates only. If she's texting you in between dates, then respond sure. However, if she texts you at night, then wait till morning to respond. If you're working, then respond after work is over. Don't ignore her, but don't be too readily available either.
@@andrebaxter4023 ok, you are right 👍🏼 saludos desde Argentina...
25 girls disliked the video....:)
If we display any of this and the girl leaves us on read, how do we recover from it?
Let her leave u on read. You want a girl like that. Not all women are good to have in you’re life. Make room for a better on
So all this y'all tryna say men shouldnt have any emotions in relationship....This is crazy how you gotta do all this just to keep a lady. You wake up and you gotta memorize all these steps??... True but smh...women are just not understandable
Dude I understand your frustration. You have to understand why this happens from an evolutionary psychology point of view. Women are attracted to strength because they want to ensure that their offspring are also strong. Men are attracted to beauty because we want our children to have these beauty qualities. Since women are attracted to strong men, it actually helps you improve your emotional strength because you want to be that guy who women love. This is a positive thing believe me. Where a man can work to improve his overall emotional strength, a woman cannot change her appearance too much. Would you want a relationship with a woman who is overweight and unattractive? The answer is *no*
Canwell isn't telling you how attraction should be, but how *it actually is* . If you read Atomic Attraction you would know this by now. Be a 5% man and you will be rewarded.
He is just trying to say that "don't get carried away with girls. "
Don'tcomplain like a woman, Rain Rain.
It is just disgusting to see "men" like you.
This is life and nature. If you don't like it, fuck off.
Rain Rain women don’t even know what they want. They’ll post all these deep relationship quotes, and romantic pics with the title “Relationship Goals”, and then when they get all that plus some, they start disappearing. The guy who does the least gets the most. Happened to me now with 3 women in 2 years. It’s not a coincidence. So with the one I’m with right now, I’m following this guy’s advice to the T! Being a good guy failed every time, so time for something different.
@@TacticalxRecon No worth men . Quick question men are biologically program so sleep with many women even in a relationship. Is she going to take that as an excuse ??
What if you do the total opposite wd it still be a turn off?
Pewdiepie from other version
I did all four
some gfs like when u show a bit of jealousy tho
Pasha Boss wussy
Doesn't matter what she likes
So if you have displayed all these traits n she left you, how long do you stay in no contact? Until she contacts you? Cos in this situation I made all these mistakes but that was after 6 years of a relationship and falling on hard times for a long period of time. Your advise will be surely appreciated. I’m 69 days into no contact by the way. I even went to her office n threatened her cos she was really disrespectful, yea I know I really blew it but hey shit happens. Thanks
HI Daniel
Did u get your ex back after No contact did she reach out to u ?
My girlfriend asked if I loved her and I said no, haha
I really like your videos.
fact 1000%, who careless win.
The more you care for her the less she care's for you.
Im not needy...not at all.
Whooo I made all these mistakes
1 Broke
2 Broke
3 Broke
4 Broke
Just subscribe to your amazing channel.😍.
rage amm not only for girls 2 . just like me idont talk or i tent to avoid angry people
Why is it so difficult to be a man?
Because sadly nobody cares for us men of today.
Caring😂
Kanye West needs to see this
So because of these big 4s that women turn off will lead to other small things that make women turn off if we will compare it to covid 19 these big 4s are the mother of all women turn offers while the other small reason is just a variant or a mutation
The girl im dating for 8 months now almost left me because I was not responding to her promptly. So... explain
"R.A.G.E No S....in rage...wtf
Ohhh okay 👌🏼
now she is acting distant and that stuff and i have responded fast cuz i can and she is not the only one i respond to fast if a friend messages me if i see it i will respond fast and if im busy i will respond when im free
they seem to dislike farting as well , strange creatures
Sometimes smells ok 😂😂😂
What the f*@££...let her go, period!
Thank God for this Relationship Jedi Master.
Of, course.. It's the guy who always makes mistakes
yeah and all this trouble for 🍑
@@Ezeroth so yeah, basically for nothing
5th mistake That Turn Women off is your wallet.
1st
👍💪
The solution in simple: you have never be in love.
@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Simp
examples of a woman investing in you?
They only invest in themselves. Thats why you never get a woman asking you out & paying for the full cost of a first date.
@@SunRise-ul7ko well i have a girlfriend who cook a lot for me very great food, always takes care of me
@@ComidaRapida12 Congratulations. A lot of woman just bitch about doing stuff like that.
@@SunRise-ul7ko but i dont know if im getting already used to it... seems like i want more women lol
@@ComidaRapida12 come back in 3 years and give us an update
My ex go after 5 ys. I try everything she not bk, I will wake away for ever not choice
Ya well i blew it.
Who cares ??
how do you set boundaries without showing jealousy or being controlling?
Don't check her chat...
By your vibe. You need to subcommunicate your authority by being slightly less responsive than her, slightly less attainable and by leading the topics you two discuss. Like this she will automatically feel that you are most likely a man.of boundaries without you having to tell her one word of direct control because she will feel subconsciously pressured to.comply to your own exuded reality
@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Thank you
show some jealous...otherwise they will cheat on u
Let em cheat. And when they do, kick their ass to the curb and get a new one. She wasn't worthy to have you to begin with then.
True. But please keep in mind it's a subtle balancing art. Too much and you come across as too little masculine, too little jealous and she won't think you care about her
Mistake 1, be a man.