This is simple, we are *always* being drawn to our wounds, if a person of EITHER GENDER is healed, they do not choose destructive partners because destructive partners bring us to our wounds, heal yourself and you will attract healed partners
I can't relate to this...? I will not chase, I will not fight or run so as to be to be chased/attended to. I will not play games. I totally respond to real relaxed easy love. I am attracted to kind caring people. I'm attracted a man who listens to who I am, who cares for me as I care.
Not always. Alternatly Teal Swan explained nice guys as men who don't allow a woman to feel safe and secure, borderline narcissistic. They will throw the woman under the bus come push to shove. A nice guy is not necessarily a kind man. A kind man is good to his woman and protective.
NO. If a woman’s nervous system rejects a man it’s bc she is picking up on his bad intentions. “Nice guys” that go around calling themselves “nice guys” are, more often than not, incels and rapists. Men who actually treat women well don’t have to go around announcing it, and women will innately feel comfortable with them.
@@bunnyboonot4u yes, and predators can pick us out. They know who to go after based on characteristics people who have been abused before display. Typically, they will act like the “nice guy” so we ‘don’t have an excuse to not give them a chance’. Then once they know they can manipulate & harm us, the ‘nice guy’ act slips and that’s what they do
That's not applicable to all, meeting a nice guy or lady may not make them a prospective candidate neither the bad one. Better to yield to lead of Holy Spirit for guidance and have peace of mind because persona could sometimes be deceptive Also a high valued/ evolved woman or man maybe looking for soul connection, more intangibles than lust. Longevity and beauty is skin deep, should come from within if intending for a long haul. Stay blessed 🙏 ✌
That is true and brilliant well said. Is it 65-year-old heterosexual I don’t think it’s just me…women aren’t the only ones who are guilty of that or something close to it.
But then there are the guys who call themselves "nice guys" who are narcissistic and self-serving. these "nice guys" are the ones who will take advantage of you when you're drunk in a bar. A good and kind guy doesn't feel the need to call himself "a nice guy" or doesn't need to convince a woman that that's what he is because his behavior says it for him
They also may mean people who are malleable as a survival instinct are not as nice as they seem and make them uncomfortable or just don't turn them on.
fathers. take care of your daughters.
This is simple, we are *always* being drawn to our wounds, if a person of EITHER GENDER is healed, they do not choose destructive partners because destructive partners bring us to our wounds, heal yourself and you will attract healed partners
True. And eloquently summed up. 🌹 Thank you ❤👍🏻
You're welcome, thank you for watching! 🧡
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Give me a nice guy every time. You can keep the bad boys! Let's hear it for the good guys! With my nice guy for years.❤
Sure you do😂😂😂
61 yo woman here…. You nailed it.
It was true back in my day and is only getting worse.
I can't relate to this...?
I will not chase, I will not fight or run so as to be to be chased/attended to. I will not play games. I totally respond to real relaxed easy love.
I am attracted to kind caring people.
I'm attracted a man who listens to who I am, who cares for me as I care.
Not always. Alternatly Teal Swan explained nice guys as men who don't allow a woman to feel safe and secure, borderline narcissistic. They will throw the woman under the bus come push to shove. A nice guy is not necessarily a kind man. A kind man is good to his woman and protective.
i always knew this, and my nervous system been telling me differently 😂
Same for men!!
NO. If a woman’s nervous system rejects a man it’s bc she is picking up on his bad intentions. “Nice guys” that go around calling themselves “nice guys” are, more often than not, incels and rapists. Men who actually treat women well don’t have to go around announcing it, and women will innately feel comfortable with them.
Women who are emotionally damaged at a young age causes us to be wired differently. This is what I've learned anyhow.
@@bunnyboonot4u yes, and predators can pick us out. They know who to go after based on characteristics people who have been abused before display. Typically, they will act like the “nice guy” so we ‘don’t have an excuse to not give them a chance’. Then once they know they can manipulate & harm us, the ‘nice guy’ act slips and that’s what they do
Yes. Let’s ask a dude what all women mean by a particular turn of phrase
Because we can't trust you gals to tell us. Making rules for some guys, breaking them for others.
You know who he is right?
@@alexmcelroy6783We know who he is and he's still wrong.
That's not applicable to all, meeting a nice guy or lady may not make them a prospective candidate neither the bad one. Better to yield to lead of Holy Spirit for guidance and have peace of mind because persona could sometimes be deceptive
Also a high valued/ evolved woman or man maybe looking for soul connection, more intangibles than lust. Longevity and beauty is skin deep, should come from within if intending for a long haul. Stay blessed 🙏 ✌
And,not surprising, he’s discussing HIS thoughts on what love is to HIM! Give me a break
this is so good ❣️
100 %
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That is true and brilliant well said. Is it 65-year-old heterosexual I don’t think it’s just me…women aren’t the only ones who are guilty of that or something close to it.
Why is it always men talking about what women want
But then there are the guys who call themselves "nice guys" who are narcissistic and self-serving. these "nice guys" are the ones who will take advantage of you when you're drunk in a bar. A good and kind guy doesn't feel the need to call himself "a nice guy" or doesn't need to convince a woman that that's what he is because his behavior says it for him
I don't trust anyone that says, "you can trust me".
Damaged, the word your looking for is Damaged.
They also may mean people who are malleable as a survival instinct are not as nice as they seem and make them uncomfortable or just don't turn them on.
That's me, but I'm a guy.
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This dude just described my ex to a T