Why Are Men Suddenly Attracted To Bigger Women?
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- Опубликовано: 7 май 2024
- Chris and Macken Murphy discuss why men are now more attracted to bigger women. What does a recession have to do with men's preferences for women according to Macken Murphy? Do men still prefer thinner women to bigger women according to Macken Murphy?
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Macken Murphy’s take on fat women is way too analytical…
@@gortys3929 take it with a pinch of salt.
(and a cheeseburger)
@@gortys3929 he's just desperate to justify his fetish. no I'm not wrong, it is everyone else who is just lying but secretly agree with me! that's gotta be it!
Counter Question: Is this the same for women in terms of preference towards men? 🤔
The majority of men are not.
INdeed ⚙️👍👍
Not really true, just look at marrieds couples
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 that's just called getting comfortable. Most happy marriages end up with both people gaining some weight, hence "dad bod". Doesn't mean that is how the men were starting out.
Ive been moving cargo crates in my pickup, and need a counterbalance up front.
I love you Bertha.
@@CertifiedLemonMan that's right. And many have left because a person lets themselves go and become fat.
He did a poor job defining heavy. Men have always been attracted to women with curves in the right places. Curvy and obese are obviously completely different.
surely you want a woman with childbearing hips ? there is a difference between strong muscly bulk and unhealthy fat and does anyone want to caress a 'bag of bones'? applies to men too?
@@susanlindaricehips are based on bone structure. The curves you want are the wide hips not fat. So I want wide hips with healthy body fat
We’re not.
They want us to be lol.
There is no way I’m spending 2+ hours a day in the gym just to date a Big Mac in a bikini.
A lot of gymbruhs date big girls
If you’re basing who you date on how long you spend in the gym, you probably aren’t getting women in the first place.
Big mac in a bikini is wild ngl 😂
gymcels out in full force today
We are, according to studies, if youd listen.
Our preferences change up and down, depending on production/economy.
I honestly don't know a single man who is "suddenly" attracted to bigger women
It wasn't suddenly for me. But i've always been attracted to them. I think part of this may just be that the men who are attracted to bigger woman are far more comfortable talking about it now than even 10 years ago.
@@theninjaofmusicI have to agree here; I've been into bigger women since puberty, but only now in my 30's do I feel comfortable expressing the preference.
@@theninjaofmusic This lines up with my experience.
My "type" is well within the healthy range, but was considered "big" when I was in high school and the standard was ridiculously thin. People legitimately gave me a hard time for it.
Now it's somewhat popular.
If I was into actually big women, I'd have kept that SILENT.
I’m a chubby chaser. Just a preference but I didn’t wake up one day, it’s been there as long I remember.
@@carninuz1 That's very interesting, I would think most men would feel less comfortable expressing preferences now because we're so often shamed for "fetishizing" now. I wonder how common it is to feel more comfortable.
To answer your question, no.
AGREE 👍👍
I would certainly reject that statement sir
Make this the top comment!
It depends
Seriously, the dude is talking out of his ass.
We're not
We are. If you read the title in the context of whats said. Its technically correct.
Although its a bit misleading. Thats to generate clicks.
@@tedcrilly46 Ask heavy set women how much attention they get compared to their peers.
@@davagevorriose8046 thats not the contention.
If youd watch the video you might understand.
@@tedcrilly46 Logic it out.
If you look up women’s bodies in art before the industrialization era none of them are obese or overweight. They’re all thin. This is fake science
I feel like many people in the comments mistake "bigger women" with literally obese women. I don't think that's the extent of "bigger" he's talking about at all, rather he is talking about women that don't have those instagram model kinds of bodyfat percentages but those in the higher end of normal weight or maybe the very low end of overweight (measured by bmi). Women with those kinds of bodies can still be very healthy and fit and in my opinion also look very good.
Dude is just incels getting angry at Chris because he doesn't perpetuate their echo chamber.
Not so sure I agree. He brought up the Jordan Peterson example, and iirc that model was pretty heavy. Medically, "obese" is a line a LOT of Americans (and westerners in general) cross without realizing it, it's not as heavy as I think most people would think.
You still make a good point though, the guest isn't giving "bigger" a precise, objective definition; it leave a lot up to our interpretation. Maybe not the best science.
Actually I think he’s the one trying to conflate the two.
Thick not fat.
@@davagevorriose8046 that model was pretty hot ngl
When 60%+ (and growing) of woman are fat, the choices are diminishing. Does not mean it's a new preference.
Ah, now we know why 30% of men don't want a relationship.....
@@theoutsider6191 Not going to say it's the only reason, but it is a big one. Pun intended.
You can only buy what's in stock or preorder
@@kh9242 Must be why purchasing is gonig off a cliff 🙂
The bigger they are, the more invisible they become 😅
It's a woman's superpower 💪🏻
😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
That was a good one 😂😂😂😂
Im not
Just because there is a grocery store down the street doesn't justify being fat, there is probably a gym down the street too.
A grocery store down the street gives you the luxury of being able to quick and easily pick up fresh food and vegetables. You don't need the prepackaged for longevity processed garbage that causes obesity.
Having a grocery store down the street is a reason you are thin, not fat. If they were fat, it would be that they are fat in spite of the fact that fresh and healthy food is nearly always available.
Food deserts...
@@elinope4745 I wouldn't say the grocery store down the street is the "reason" your thin. Whether your eating healthy foods or unhealthy foods, it all comes down to calories. You can eat junk food and still be thin if your in a caloric deficit.
@@RobG811 It's a reason you're thin in the sense that you don't need to bulk up fat in order to survive scarcity periods
There is a street. Just need a pair of good running shoes. No membership required
There's "bigger" as in nice and curvy and then there's just plain fat, The latter clearly says a person has no impulse control which is bad for a multitude of things nevermind just looking bad.
Yeah but too many seem to misunderstand his argument. He is clearly talking about curvier girls not really fat ones.
@@EbonyPopeno he’s not
@@mothegoat6865 kid get out the internet
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 what? 😂
Exactly. And everyone's standard for where the limit between curvy and fat varies by culture and individual. Almost no one from any culture thinks a sphere is sexy. (No, women, Lizzo is not sexy.)
Personally, my range of attraction seems to be wider than the average person (not intended as a pun) but there are limits in both directions.
Though, my tolerance for "a little too much" is greater than my toleration for "a little too little." A little too fat puts me off more on an intellectual level, while a little too thin puts me off on a visceral level. WAY too fat also puts me off on a visceral level.
If I were taking shots every time this dude says "Right?" I'd be fucking hammered by the 2 minute mark.
Right!
I can't stop hearing it now
General rule of thumb: if a feminist tries to make it a reality it's probably not true, on a fundamental level.
I'm truly baffled at how many times a guy cosplaying as a highly logical creature hurls out a knee-jerk emotional response to something factual because it offends them 💀
@@JoyfulSeal-sh9cw Wow, imagine if "a guy" said the same thing about "a woman." The hypocrisy is real.
Ermmm general rule of thumb wtf are u talking about none of this matter love who you want to love
@@chanchchanchellor1545 It matters. I wouldn't expect a self respecting woman to want to live with a misogynist, and I can't blame a man for not wanting to devote his life to a misandrist. You might fall in love with them, but I can't imagine the arrogant abuse that followed would be tolerable for long.
When you stop referring to people in generalizing terms such as "feminist", you’ll have something of value to say.
Nonsense. Absolute nonsense. Just saying.
Exactly! Pure personal projection onto other men.
@@Mr.Boring_Man other men keep dating big girls
A few drunk guys knocked down some chubbies during a dry spell and now everyone is losing their minds, lol!
As a guy who is attracted to bigger women. It's a huge advantage, because i had access to about 30% of the dating market that most men don't.
Says who ? The answer is no
Some men, like myself, most definitely like bigger chubbier women. You do you, no shame to whoever's likes whoever's, but many do. He is right about that
He said men pick bigger women out of scarcity. That is true.
@@Chiefmane1 not denying you there, you're right. My first girlfriend was a thin model like woman, I just prefer bigger girls, and there are people who always have and will
Funniest thing about this is that it explains the stereotype of black men being attracted to thicc women
Yup. Also he means thicker not fat. Of course men prefer more curves than less curves on average. You nee a certain percentage to have big boobs.
@@EbonyPopehe's explicitly talking about fat people, not slightly overweight.
@@acmhfmggru No just in the case of the Zulu. In general he was talking about the slight changes in preference during bad economical times. People don't just start dating super fat chicks all of the sudden. But there is definitely a less pronounced effect and they go for thicker women. That isn't something controversial for anyone who knows about evolutionary psychology. That is old news.
@@EbonyPope you didn't watch the interview?
@@EbonyPope the curves thing is also new
if you study mags from the 90s etc the women were SKINNY
Please watch for 30 seconds before commenting 😂 first words I say are that in Western countries (and wealthy nations generally) men prefer lighter women.
Yeah, hopefully your message isnt lost on people just because of the title on this clip...
It seems people don't have the ability to understand that what they've always known might not be what has always been before them
I think the title of the video is very misleading and doesn't fit to what you say.
Your comment should be pinned, sir. Thank you for an informative interview.
You are wrong on your theory. Healthy glow and beautiful natural colourful skin that makeup mimics is achieved through exercising and healthy diet. Universally that woman who looks like that is beautiful. Excess calories is not beautiful. Toned and lithe generates the beautiful skin that signals she is healthy enough to reproduce.
The curves are beautiful only when there is low fat.
Men know woman’s feelings are important however and so are willing to have a range of fat which is acceptable. But lower BMI without being unhealthy is better.
I disagree with the statements implying this is a growing trend among first-world countries with a preference towards bigger women. I think there is a lot of reaching here. Maybe people are just more unhealthy and settle with what they can get, more so than this being what men prefer.
I see it more times than not
People were healthier the last century and men preferred heavier women at least pre 70’s
True. Laziness is growing and people are getting fat.
Men who married a woman with a normal BMI who now have overweight to obese wives is pretty common. I don't know of any man who has divorced his wife for her weight. It happens, but I think he is more likely to stay married since he would be blasted as a complete a**hole if he did divorce her.
@@kollow Yeah men don't have a preference for fat women. They marry women with a normal BMI and then the women get obese over time. The men do too, hence "dad bod" so it is normal in a marriage for both people to get comfortable.
Absolutely not. Fat is gross. :(
There's a difference between fat and thick. They aren't talking about fat women.
@@art2736 they are absolutely talking about fat women
@@acmhfmggru yeah dnt know why I said that I think they are saying that thick women are fat. On that I disgree.
For me I've always found curvy women more attractive. My wife and I are polar opposites. I'm tall and slim, train every day, low body fat. She's short, heavier than me, doesn't train. Its personal preference for me, she's been like this as long as I've known her. I love the curves, what does it matter? Each to their own. I find skinny women unattractive. So what?
There's a difference between curvy and flat out overweight/obese.
A big reason (no pun intended) that guys prefer skinnier girls is because it means they're healthier, so no serious health issues in the near future, they can do things as a couple like hiking or tennis or whatnot, live longer together, and she can get pregnant without issues, too.
Skinny has never meant healthy only to ignorant
@@rodm1525 He said skinnier, Not skinny... reading comprehension matters. There are no benefits to having mounds of fatty tissue hanging off your body. It introduces health issues and also limits your lifestyle quality and definitely limits the things you can do with a potential partner. I know, I've been there.
@@Black_Void_ Yeah, and the video title also only says bigger, not big. Nowhere did anyone talk about women with "mounds of fatty tissue" being suddenly more attractive.
@@rodm1525exactly back in the olden days it meant they had diseases.
Because you live in the modern society he's describing. In a society with less and unpredictable food abundance, being fatter is the sign that she can get pregnant without issues and will have no health issues in the near future
we're still not.
Really think about it. What looks sexier? A super skinny girl with no titties or booty, or a more curvaceous woman who isn't fat but has fat on her. Even me being a woman who is straight understands that the more curvaceous woman is sexier to look at. The skinnier shape is more child-like while the curvy shape is womanly.
@@The-Oneness11 once again, your preference, not mine.
@TacoSupreme82
Talking about preferences, TacoSupreme82 is talking for TacoSupreme82 only!
The sentence above was rewritten at request of TacoSupreme82. The original sentence stated: "Talking about preferences, please talk only for yourself).
@@The-Oneness11TRUE!!!!!!!
@@McFedro as a trans man, my pronouns are we/us.
Umm, I don't think so. Health is important, especially at the age of 40+.
Lol. Watch the video before commenting
Not buying any of this lol
@@Rayzur99i watched the video and he's full of it. just wild speculation and projection from bargain barrel Steve Jobs.
@@acmhfmggru you cant prove him wrong
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 He doesn't objectively define anything; you can't "prove him wrong" if his conclusion is subjective view of weight.
I feel that modern day body positivity has made it impossible to discuss body types without any visual reference. I like somewhat curvy girls, but these days that's how obese women would describe themselves
I think the body positivity movement started as a good thing but now it's not doing good. It's legit glamorizing obesity... which is sad. Obesity kills...
“women engage in tons of caloric acquisition” made me giggle like I never have before
This Macken guy is cringe af.
I have no idea who he is. But a dagger arm tat proves total badassery in my totally sarcastic opinion.
He literally said in this podcast men don’t want women to have money. Wtf
@@kollow I remember he said women are attracted to tattoos because they're akin to having battle scars lel.
Why He is not wrong in anything he said
@@aronapple7760men aren't interested in women's money though
Juggernaut law - the theory that the very most unattractive women receive a surprisingly large amount of attention from men, sometimes more attention than women of average attractiveness.
There is a large contingent of incels whose approaches have largely consisted of juggernauting, as they feel they have no chance with women they find attractive.
The WHALE ON HIS ARM got me 💀💀💀
😂😂😂
Hints
As a former BGC (Big Girl Connoisseur), I can confirm it is a survival mechanism. Especially in college.
Southland: Dewey- "Fat chicks are awesome, they're just like mopeds. They're fun to ride until you're caught on one".
Fuck no
The media is pushing that preference. Men haven't just changed preference. Strong women and beta males is the goal.
Dude is projecting 3rd world desperation onto western countries. 😂😂😂
He never defines "heavier".
3rd world countries have less obese women than a lot of first world countries.
I already know that title is clickbait
Thanks for doing this. I'm on a health journey after a traumatic event and my BMI ballooned to over 52. With lots of support I hope to get down to a healthier BMI of 25-30. I needed to hear this even if it's just to encourage me. Really appreciate it🎉😊
When he is talking about higher BMIs having more sexual value, he isn't talking about women from my 600lb life guys. Those women are incredible outliers in every part of the world.
What he is talking about, I think, can be seen just recently in our culture, i remember in the mid to late 2000s that a huge thing for women was the thigh gap, being so skinny that your thighs dont touch each other while you are walking or you could see their ribcages. Girls were starving themselves on purpose to try and be what was seen as the most sexually attractive. These days, you dont see that as much, if at all. Models these days are much thicker and more curvatious than they were 15 - 20 years ago, and the economy has only gotten worse since then.
I am not saying it's an incredibly tight-knit theory, as it has only been researched for 20 years, and these kinds of theories take ages to lock down, but I can say that I have seen evidence to support it just in my own lifetime.
Being gay and coming from a family that hates fat people, I was shocked when I made straight friends in my neighborhood and found out they were all low key into big girls
This guy is saying the African Zulu tribe has a lot of obese women? I doubt this.
That's the thing. They don't have many. But the ones that are obese see a lot more attention
@@Rayzur99 prolly cause they are low hanging fruit lol
Bro. Imagine living in a primitive society. You don't have refrigeration. If there is a bad season and the crops dry out, people you know may die from starvation. Meanwhile the village elder has a couple daughters with fat thighs. The smart man wants to know their secret.
No but that wasn't the question. It was about what they think is sexy. And yes that a lot of Black men find thicker women more attractive is old news.
That's a misunderstanding at best, and an intentional misrepresentation at worst
The people in the comment section didn't listen to the guy. He's saying that poor societies like fatter women and wealthier societies like skinner women. This totally makes sense because Western societies hit their peak in the 2000s and now we're spiraling into poverty. His logic makes total sense.
If you are becoming more poor why would you want someone who eats too much?$$$$. Why date a real meat and potatoes girl who like gravy on the side AND on the spuds?
@@BPrim-ce5zw Probably because it means more food for yourself as well LOL
I gotta hand it to Chris he does a good job of getting people with the absolute worst take on things.
😂😂😂
Has it gotten worse since he started wearing shorts during interviews and violating the guests personal space with the spacing of the chairs??
The fact that at least 90% of male celebrities aren't dating or married to plus size women proves Murphy's theory. As a black man I know all too well about the stigma that we like bigger girls, but all the black entertainers I see are never around them.
Define bigger, because as a latino I admire fit women and Curvy woman. I wouldn't consider the curvy woman to be obese but I do know that they obviously have more fat on them as compared to the other more fit women. And amongst latinos and black Americans we can see them same leaning towards Curvy women. But i will admit that fat/obese are off-putting to me.
Desperation is the answer.
We are?
Yes
No.
I don't think men are. Men will always be more attracted to slimmer women in general the same way women are attracted to tall healthy somewhat muscular men. I think what's going on is because men aren't as shy about saying what they like versus women, the outliers of men that like bigger women became more vocal about it during that time where SI and other magazines were starting to put plus sized models on the cover of their magazines, so it made it seem like most men prefer bigger women to slimmer women which isn't the case.
women are attracted to tall healthy somewhat muscular men??? I just see women liking pretty boys, kpop idols, etc
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644I forgot to put status, so you are sort of right about the k pop boy band types of guys women are into. I also didn't really specify age as well, younger women may be more attracted to the boy band type of guy verses older women who may be attracted to more rugged older looking types of guys. There's always exceptions like this but in general, most women like guys that are at least taller and bigger than them muscular wise, at least to an extent.
Agreed. Aragon over Legolas any day.
Completely ignoring the big boobs phenomenon and big butt phenomenon. Bigger typically doesn’t mean tub of lard it means curvier with the distribution mainly going to those spots. Nobody likes apple shape
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644The girls who like that are on birth control. On e they get off, they’re more likely to be attracted to more masculine features.
There are several studies on birth control and its relation to attraction.
That’s a hard no.
Women didn’t accept or want me when I was just a little obese. I remedied that through diet and exercise. So why exactly should I accept an obese partner myself? What he is talking about Seems more like wishful thinking.
TBF, women hold fat much differently than men. For men it usually goes to their stomach first.
With women it could mosty go to thighs, butt or boobs first and that's way more attractive IMO
@@m.czandogg9576 the crazy thing is, I had previously never cared about shallow things like looks until quite a few of them started rejecting me in vile ways and vicious language I won’t repeat here. Losing weight taught me so many lessons. Now I’m rejecting those same types of women and apparently I’m the bad guy for putting standards on them. Accountability really does seem to be a lot of women’s kryptonite😂
@@konsolennerd Genuine kudos to your improving yourself. I'm not sure what you or the women you rejected looked like but looks matter to a certain extent.
@@konsolennerd do you mean the slim women were vicious before your weight loss?
@@mpatrick8673 yeah and even those with a clearly raised BMI had some pretty rude verbal putdowns
I listened to the whole video, he said generally men pick bigger women out of scarcity. Men with options tend to go for women in shape. Thats 💯.
A lot of women are aware that men with resources prefer skinnier. That's why we are always dieting and trying to lose weight.
Do they?
I don't believe it for a second.
This guy thinks boobs were made for guys, you may like them chaps, but they're mammary glands not sexual organs. Smh.
Without defining “Bigger Women” the question is meaningless.
Personally I don’t find skinny women attractive. Touching them is even worse. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with skinny girls and plenty of guys love that but it’s not my thing. That’s doesn’t mean I’m attracted to obesity though. My girl is far from obese but she has bigger thighs, butt, and hips than she’d prefer. I absolutely love it. I find that extra cushion very feminine and it just feels good.
I’m not a big jacked body builder type dude but people give me compliments on my physique. I don’t know about bf% but nothing is soft and I have a 6 pack. A hard body pressing or bouncing against a hard body isn’t my thing. She loves how solid and masculine I feel and I love how soft and feminine she feels.
There’s a lid for every pot I guess.
Gluttony, and other deadly sins, are making a comeback thanks to wokethink.
I have lived in a communist country when food scarcity was a real problem (during communism and a few years aftewards). Almost no guy in my school/highschool was into fat girls. Also, I haven't changed my preferences after 5 days of full-fasting (only water). Just because you can concoct an evolutionary-based explanation doesn't make it correct.
All the men I know that has ever said they are attracted to bigger women are just coping. How do I know? Every time after they level up, gets in better shape and/or obtain higher status, their "attraction" to bigger women is suddenly gone. What a mystery huh? 😂
A lot of you guys didn't pay attention to the dude. His answer to the question is that it depends on your environment and what you're going through (even e.g. his miniscule example of before vs. after a meal): it's not a simple "Yes." or "No."
JFC.
Anytime someone brings up "evolution" I tune out .
lol - no men with options are "into bigger women"
We should differentiate when we say "bigger." A woman with a bit of body fat who is otherwise in decent shape, that's sexy. A woman who looks like Gorlock the Destroyer...that's utterly disgusting (though I'm sure there are a few dudes out there who prefer women at that size). So I think the hypothesis generally holds up, but fails hard toward the extremes.
A woman with a BMI of 38 is what I would consider morbidly obese--at least at or near average height levels (BMI skews heavily against taller folks). At that level, one's body is having to compensate for its extra weight, and on a long enough time line will begin to suffer chronic health issues.
The problem with evolutionary psychology is that we are trying to explain the present via a past we know even less about.
We are NOT attracted to large women.
Some men might settle since so many women are large.
(Did not watch, just responding to the title. Not worth my time)
We’re not. Bigger women just approach us guys. The reason we won’t approach women is out of fear of being accused of something or of rejection. It depends on the dude, but most of the time these are contributing factors
This is where it's useful to have a woman involved in the conversation. Sometimes men can't see the forest for the trees. When speaking of thick or heavy women, one must consider shape first. If a woman has a relatively smaller waist with wider hips and thighs, she's still desired by men. That's why Zulu men still want their women. They tend to be hourglass and pear shaped, even as they gain weight.
This is NOT true for rectangle and apple shaped women-the women built like SpongeBob SquarePants. Those women are not the preference, even amongst men who like heavier women. Just look at a catalogue or online shop and you'll see what shape is heavily favored even in plus-sized clothing.
I am. Death by Snu Snu.
EDIT: Oh wait, he said body fat? Meaning fat? What is this guy on about? Lol.
Bigger as in well developed round large glutes, yes. Bigger as in it looks like someone poured pantyhose full of cottage cheese, hell no. Bigger as in still a mesomorph, yes. Bigger as in either pear or apple endomorph, he’ll no.
"Fatty boom boom"
Is a celebration of big women. It's a reggae song.
Jamaica is a resource poor country.
The hypothesis is spot on.
Just looked at the BMI chart and my preference in women's body types confirms that I have caveman brain
Nope! Since when is being overweight and out of shape sexy?
those men are just desperate most of the time, no attraction there
Nah...
Speak for yourself.
I love that the comments under this are all just " We're not".
😂😂😂
From Americas, Rome, Saxony, Poland, to the Scandinavias, arabic, and Proto-Slavic countries, as well as Asia, this was NOT the case. I have thousands of historical resources depicting the opposite of what he’s suggesting.
In addition, obese women have significantly higher risks during pregnancy. There are plenty of studies on this, and most prospective parents learn about this when they have their first kid.
Maybe in some African hunter-gatherer societies it’s corollary, but I’m not convinced it’s a general rule.
Where do I find that thing used on the walls for isolating sound echo? What is it called?
acoustic panels
The ratio of likes vs dislikes speak for itself
I think that it’s CONFIDENCE that’s attractive and the movement of women feeling BEAUTIFUL in their own bodies irrespective of what men think is what’s leading to men approaching bigger women these days. Cultures change. And so do preferences. Images of beauty have always been fluid. Long, thick hair, short, bobbed hair, large breasts, small breasts, etc, etc. Now, finally….women just don’t care anymore. We’re enjoying the body we were given. Period!
Not to mention low body fat wrecks a woman's estrogen and ability to concieve.
Maybe some guys can see their altered, photoshopped pictures online and think they look good.. but i guarantee you, face to face, they will not be attracted to them
It depends
i must have missed this update..
I wish there was some pictures of the women in the video or a link leading to the pictures in the description.
No. 99.9% are not. If you give the mic to the 0.01%, they'd make you believe that all men are attracted to bigger women.
Am wrong in assuming that what I need in a time of scarcity vs what I value in a partner are different? Yes I may need food in times of scarcity but I shouldn’t over eat it when it isn’t scarce. Not sure if that makes sense or not.
It's probably that the majority of men in the West date the women that are present, and those women tend to have higher BMIs today. Meanwhile, men with the means to leave the West don't take that "bigger is better" beauty standard with them.
How big are we talking about here? If you're talking about voluptuous women or thicc women with curves then this makes sense.
He’s talking BS.
" I really wanna take 1 for the team !"said no man EVER !...
I think there is a huge argument for what's attractive verses what's accepted for or settled for
They aren’t. It’s a lack of options. If over half the female population is overweight or obese and you aren’t one of the in demand 10%ers getting the “hotties” you take what you can get.
Nope, i prefer a fitter woman as do most.
Short answer: We aren't.
People tend to conflate this with being thick lol. Men typically love an hourglass shape with extra junk in the trunk- but not obesity.
I'm not (not going to say "we" as I will only talk for myself) and I find it interesting that the comment section is full of people trying to gaslight the people who think similarly to me. I have plenty of friends who are into thin women. As there are less and less skinny people (regardless of gender) men might have to settle for less. As there are less and less "smaller" women, more and more men will do so. (The men are, of course, also becoming bigger at the same time.)
I've stayed in shape into my 30s and actually started going for slimmer women as my self-confidence grew. Since my evidence is anecdotal, I will not refute what they say about the general trend in the video. But this is for the dudes who are trying to convince me that I'm into bigger women: nope, sorry. I tried more than once, but nope. If you are into them, that's fine. Why do you want to change my mind? As long as there are guys who aren't into your preference, that leaves more potential mates for you.
Why are women getting bigger?
"It's not my style to comment on specific women's bodies" three seconds after giving a judgement on the attractiveness of a woman's body. Smooth.
I've been plus most my adult life and most of the men I dated are similar to Chris. I'm married going on 8 yrs my husband could be a CK model and has never had a problem with my size.
I usually range 14-18
No
but wouldnt you rather choose a mate that is more on the lean side in a scarcity period because it would be fatal to have a person that needs a lot more resources than the rest of the group?
The devil is a liar.