5 Tips To Improve Your Public Speaking - How To Speak Professionally - Speech Speaker Tips

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  • @RealMenRealStyle
    @RealMenRealStyle  6 лет назад +41

    What are the mistakes the best speakers avoid?
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    • @robinhoodatyourservice3467
      @robinhoodatyourservice3467 5 лет назад

      I LOVE YOUR VOICE AND THEY WAY HOW YOU SPEAK. I WANT TO MEET YOU AND BE MY MENTOR.

    • @suhailkamarudin3858
      @suhailkamarudin3858 5 лет назад

      thanls

    • @suhailkamarudin3858
      @suhailkamarudin3858 5 лет назад

      thanks

    • @ileardgz7691
      @ileardgz7691 4 года назад

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    • @marlonsitoprunita7436
      @marlonsitoprunita7436 4 года назад

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  • @Protokjax
    @Protokjax 9 лет назад +600

    For those whom don't have time:
    1. practice
    2. Listen
    3. Record and watch
    4. Be honest with yourself
    5. Know your audience and subject

  • @Gio-vf1zf
    @Gio-vf1zf 8 лет назад +277

    extra tips
    a. fix your posture
    b. don't soft speak
    c. look confident
    d. interact with the audience
    e. get the crowd to laugh (have a good sense of humor)

    • @darkeyedgirl005
      @darkeyedgirl005 8 лет назад +14

      For the last one, engaging the audience is key. Whether it's with a sense of humor or a new perspective on the topic, a sharp wit can engage the audience in ways a sense of humor might not. Talking from a place of genuine care and respect will also keep an audience in the conversation.

    • @thekristoflewispodcastcrea6983
      @thekristoflewispodcastcrea6983 5 лет назад

      Good recap!

    • @happybhai2455
      @happybhai2455 4 года назад +2

      Could you please explain the 2nd point

    • @lalalllakwikwi2792
      @lalalllakwikwi2792 4 года назад

      Very relevant!

  • @ryannleader3663
    @ryannleader3663 8 лет назад +83

    I'm doing a public presentation tomorrow and I've been stressing soo much. Definitely not as nervous any more. Thank you!!

    • @stephanefernandez9530
      @stephanefernandez9530 8 лет назад +7

      Stay focused on the thinks U wanna share.
      Accept that we R human, so we can fail and none will kill U for this.
      Get in touch with people, they are here "just for U" so take a deep breath stand tall and be confident!
      ENJOY your the moment

    • @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1
      @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1 7 лет назад +1

      I do too. Although watching this made me have a panic attack... Lol hope tomorrow I get hit by a bus on the way to class.

    • @sandwich3075
      @sandwich3075 6 лет назад +1

      How did it go?

  • @adjovi10
    @adjovi10 10 лет назад +3

    After years of gaining business through telephone calls, I realized my strengths were more in public speaking. I'd love to now apply that to earning a living. I will be starting a video/audio blog for men, women. Dealing with self esteem issues, relationships, and what men REALLY want. This video was definitely a big help Thanks, Style-Guy! Rock on,man!
    -Adjovi Alakoye

  • @PimpMatt0
    @PimpMatt0 6 лет назад +4

    For once, in my 24 years of lurking in the dark that I am now ready to take public speaking seriously. It's a skill that's is applicable in almost everything we do and it opens up a lot of opportunities. Your introvert story has inspired me to put practice in how I speak and present myself. It's going to be a long journey to recondition myself but I have confidence that I can do it.

  • @Artzyim
    @Artzyim 11 лет назад +16

    I did a presentation in english class and this info really does help! I sill get a bit shakey the longer it takes and the longer i talk and start to talk faster towards the end but their was a huge improvement. Thanks

  • @raffleszhu6027
    @raffleszhu6027 10 лет назад +10

    This video is awesome. Practise is the key. I should watch all your videos, not just for learning how to dress but also for learning your way of putting the words. Besides, it is crazy that you are responding to almost all the comments. I have never seen anyone who has done such a good job!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +1

      Raffles Zhu awesome - thank you for the kind words sir

  • @devilsadvocate9793
    @devilsadvocate9793 4 года назад +1

    I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty ty man

  • @ChrisRedfieldFan503
    @ChrisRedfieldFan503 11 лет назад +9

    i was planning to watch the begining of your video, but i couldn't stop! what you are talking about is really what im looking for! thank u!

  • @anirudh3004
    @anirudh3004 10 лет назад +1

    The 6th point-Carrying Notes was so good for me...I was always feeling shy on carrying notes to the school speeches I do.. But now I feel confident on carrying the notes... Yeah, we are human beings... And we tend to forget.. Thanks for this great video..

  • @fritziemanalili4780
    @fritziemanalili4780 9 лет назад +76

    There is no traffic on the extra mile. Well said! :)

    • @Lili_china
      @Lili_china 7 лет назад +1

      please what does it mean ?

    • @NTEDOG561
      @NTEDOG561 7 лет назад

      I like that lol I'm gonna start using this

  • @abiyazhrajin
    @abiyazhrajin 4 года назад +9

    Every great speaker be like ,” I was an introvert in my high school “. So moral of the story is be an introvert in your school and one day you will be a good speaker 😑

  • @vicrod74
    @vicrod74 9 лет назад +4

    You're body language is amazing. The way you speak and use your hands to communicate is on point.

  • @r3dbut3r45
    @r3dbut3r45 10 лет назад +1

    I have watched quite a lot of dealing with speaking in public, because I get so nervous and when I get up to the front of the room I start getting scared and embarrassed, it makes me fiddle with things, move my feet around or all my confidence drops. This video and others have giving me points on how to deal with it.

  • @passionatechef
    @passionatechef 8 лет назад +67

    practice,practice,practice ,practice and again practice that makes perfect....

  • @Ramal26
    @Ramal26 10 лет назад +2

    Great Lesson!! I think practicing your speech in a mirror or video recording is under valued today. I've met many sales people that just "wing it" but when I met a seasoned sales person and to hear his presentation it turned my mind around. I'm an analytical person and to hear a well practiced speech fits my style. I'll be looking for more of your videos, thanks for the contribution!

  • @rainierjaeg587
    @rainierjaeg587 10 лет назад +4

    I am a Network Marketer and i do presentation a lot and this video is a big help for me. Thank you!

  • @Matt-hx3hd
    @Matt-hx3hd 10 лет назад +2

    I just want to say a quick thank you. I watched this video last Monday and I have had two presentations since then. I've always had a massive fear of public speaking and your explanation of how you need to practice, practice, practice and record yourself so you can play it back really helped me a lot. Both presentations went really well, they were peer marked and most of the people I spoke to marked them highly :P Thanks again for the advice.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +2

      You are welcome sir! Appreciate the kind words

    • @636Knight
      @636Knight 3 года назад

      Hey Matt! How is your life now?

  • @Zimmermania
    @Zimmermania 10 лет назад +15

    What about thinking while speaking? I was looking for you to say something about that. Thinking quickly on your feet and practicing the way one thinks while professionally giving a speech or a talk. It's different than everyday life thinking

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +3

      Zimmermania, this takes a lot of practice and eventually, once you're used to speaking in public, it'll be just like having regular conversations and you'll be quick on your feet :)

    • @Zimmermania
      @Zimmermania 10 лет назад

      I can sense this in my imagination. I want to start giving talks on holistic cures for cancer and degenerative diseases to groups. I am getting requests to speak but I never spoke in front of people. I'm not terribly shy but I forgot my lines in a play in 3rd grade and that ended my hollywood career... LOL I'll check out more of your stuff / vids and study up. Thanks

    • @Zimmermania
      @Zimmermania 10 лет назад

      BTW I love mens fashion. I could design cool stuff for men all day long. Project Funway... San Diego style. But I'm just a computer geek with a twist for health and wellness. I'd like to take my camera out and talk to well dressed people about their unique choices in fashion. How cool would THAT be?

    • @JoyteGotame
      @JoyteGotame 6 лет назад

      Okay I noted it that you are saying listening and talking .. last week I talked to with one person face-to-face.. and I clarify my option.. and that person agreed to me. Some point few days later that person return back to me. Did demanding before the appointment time we we agreed that make me so disappointing upset when people broke the word..how can this fix ?

  • @NicolasKanefer
    @NicolasKanefer 10 лет назад +1

    Thank you Antonio. I use to record myself and, to be honest, i felt a bit embarrassed. Now I'm trying to get into the "extra mile". Listening, watching, practicing and learning as much as I can. Thank you again. You are doing a great job. Cheers from Argentina!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      ***** thank you very much. I appreciate the kind words

  • @mschristina2355
    @mschristina2355 10 лет назад +4

    Yesss, like TOTALLY loved it! Especially, about the Cali Doctor! So true, didn't realize it, until I went to college, Out of State! It definitely matters who's your audience! Another thing which i try so hard to work on too are, Hand Gestures during a speech, as well as Eye Contact , and Smiling! Errrrr
    Thank You For Your Informative Tips, Keep Up the Good Work!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Christina Lucas thank you for the feedback Christina :) appreciate the enthusiasm

  • @thecrippler555
    @thecrippler555 10 лет назад +2

    I really think that you should add another tip, one which I've really found useful in improving my public speaking. It is increasing your vocabulary, your arsenal of words when describing how you feel. I used to use the word "nice" a lot as a reaction to a lot of issues coming up to me. After a long time, when I've become self aware of it, I forced myself to stop using it and to describe myself with other meaningful words. It really helped me a lot.

  • @harikrishnank7681
    @harikrishnank7681 11 лет назад +3

    Wow....you were crisp and to the point. You kind of make me go out and talk.
    Thank you for sharing these wonderful clips.

  • @rogerbuan7484
    @rogerbuan7484 9 лет назад

    before, i can't express myself to other people because i am not knowledgeable of the English language. What I did is I KEEP on practicing everyday. I listened to English podcast 2 hours a day then speaking in front of the mirror at least 30 minutes a day! I've been doing it almost 1 year. Now, i can talk and freely expressed my ideas or anything inside my mind to anyone.I become fluent in English as my second language. People started to ask me how did i make it! and I told them just give enough time, be serious and passionate on what you are doing. Now i'm enjoying myself talking to some native speakers of English! Thank you for this video! very cool and helpful!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад

      +Roger Buan Hey good job! Just continue practicing and apply what you have learned. :)

  • @fitmommyformarissa9249
    @fitmommyformarissa9249 11 лет назад +6

    Amazing video, very well spoken, cant wait to see more of your videos!

  • @albyfarris1779
    @albyfarris1779 10 лет назад +2

    Thank you for your video. I am a lecturer in social sciences in New Zealand and this has helped my students a lot.

  • @kavalence
    @kavalence 10 лет назад +4

    My sophomore speech is tomorrow and .. I'm Beyond nervous! This helped a lot. Thank you!

  • @robertyoung4389
    @robertyoung4389 8 лет назад +1

    good points. I have been in the position of public speaking for several years, and I try to use each of these. I feel comfortable speaking and that is from practice. so very well said, good video.

  • @truthpsychology9415
    @truthpsychology9415 8 лет назад +22

    1/ Practice. Put as many videos as possible. He has put well over 200 videos, plus he has deleted other hundreds and hundreds that he didn’t like.
    2/ Listen. Read every single comment, people and learn from them.
    3/ Record and Watch. We are our worst critic, and its going to be painful at first. Be aware of the crutch words that you use, etc.. and improve.
    4/ Be honest with yourself.
    5/ Know your audience and subject. Don’t let this hold you back, but learn as much as possible.
    6/ Carry Notes. You can use a white board in front of you for the main points or some notes if necessary.

  • @dessertdeer9273
    @dessertdeer9273 10 лет назад +1

    I remember my first time speaking into a mike in my school hall to around 100 people. I stared at the paper the whole time and dared not look at audience. Now I joined a MUN conference and I found you youtube channel. Thanks for the tips!! I hope that you succed in all your ventures!! Do post more videos.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Dessert Deer You are welcome - watch out for my upcoming videos :)

  • @markh.2899
    @markh.2899 5 лет назад +4

    I like to watch what speakers/presenters do with their hands, and you articulate and express very well with yours. Interestingly, I noticed that when your hands are momentarily at rest, you go for your ring - I'll call it, "putting on the ring." Is this an intentional rest point for your hands, or is it a subconscious go-to pause-spot? Thanks for the video and take care!

  • @nrdycreathor
    @nrdycreathor 8 лет назад

    I just started watching your videos today. The first video I watched which was "What does your Facial Hair signal?" really grabbed my attention after watching it which led me to instantly clicking the subscribe button then moved on to watching more of your videos. Now I came across this video! I don't know what it is but you just came across as such a humble genuine being, so down to earth. But apart from that I really enjoyed the outcome of the video and the tips that were given! Stay warm, Stay healthy, PEACE!

  • @adam_anon2196
    @adam_anon2196 11 лет назад +4

    Thank you very much, I for one do not like hearing myself on recording ,I have not had as of yet a presentation ,But I am working on a youtube video. I find it hard to talk to a camera and still keep in mind on what I want to say, Thumbs UP!

  • @fernandolabdacida3340
    @fernandolabdacida3340 8 лет назад

    It's funny to see that people who have the same problem usually arrive at the same solutions to that problem. I was very shy and that was a big problem for me at university. Unfortunately we all have what here in Portugal we call "amigos de Peniche" or translated "friends from Peniche" meaning those people that linger around us but don't want that good things happen to us. Probably there is a similar expression in English. Well these friends from Peniche - by the way Peniche is a very lovely town in Portugal - gave me wrong advice to deal with this problem and I fell hard on the floor and damaged my grades. I started to read a lot in front of a mirror and correcting my movements, my expressions and posture. I evolved and got really good but I think there's always space for improvement. You're doing a great job with your videos. Don't stop!

  • @MerioM
    @MerioM 9 лет назад +7

    Really interesting video, i think these kind of skills should be taught at school... be able to talk in public w/o feeling fear or stressed is a thing that help your self esteem and make you feel a better person !

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +1

      Merio M exactly!

    • @MerioM
      @MerioM 9 лет назад

      Real Men Real Style Thanks for the reply and keep up the good work !!!

  • @albertorueda7869
    @albertorueda7869 9 лет назад

    5 Tips To Improve Your Public Speaking - How To Speak Professionally, Breif
    1. Practice
    2. Listen
    3. Record and Watch
    4. Be Honest with Yourself
    5. Know you audience and Subject
    6. Carry Notes (Bonus)
    Nice Tips, Thanks a Lot

  • @philanddeb818
    @philanddeb818 10 лет назад +4

    Very well done. Thank you for this video. You're effective and natural. All the right stuff to be a polished speaker.

  • @Jason-hh6zu
    @Jason-hh6zu 7 лет назад

    Thanks for the tips!!! I have recently signed up for debate in High school and my goal is to become a lawyer, so I wanna increase my ability to talk to people, talk in groups, and have a more confident voice.

  • @heavymetalhead94
    @heavymetalhead94 11 лет назад +27

    skip to 0:46 to learn the 5 tips...

  • @jerilayneburnett5811
    @jerilayneburnett5811 11 лет назад +1

    I teach public speaking in colleges and universities. Your tips are "right on"...in agreement with most communication text books and concisely stated.

  • @brittanih4688
    @brittanih4688 10 лет назад +5

    You are great at this. I'll be taking your advice and I'll begin to work on myself ASAP! Please keep doing what you're doing! :)

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +1

      Brittani Harris thank you for the kind words - this just makes my day. Appreciate your comments

  • @thejdocrealminute4648
    @thejdocrealminute4648 8 лет назад

    Excellent. I am a Professor and a Doctor with hopes to become a Public Speaker. These videos are very helpful. I am comfortable being in front of a crowd......my problem......'slow down my talking'.. Very helpful

  • @ajnaskp
    @ajnaskp 11 лет назад +7

    I belive that its the first step for how to speak professional

  • @michaelmontlouis7000
    @michaelmontlouis7000 8 лет назад

    I'm a toastmaster and I think public speaking is fun. However, I would like to improve on my grammar and literary devices . I know you have some ideas to share. You're an asset to the world.

  • @DrLakeishaMcKnight
    @DrLakeishaMcKnight 10 лет назад +16

    Great speaking tips my friend. I appreciate what you do.

  • @SamahLattakia
    @SamahLattakia 10 лет назад +1

    Great tips...I will bring them to my classrooms...Thanks

  • @gangzhang3343
    @gangzhang3343 11 лет назад +4

    Good Sharing and Clear Message.

  • @Spooms1961
    @Spooms1961 10 лет назад

    Well done. I'm suitably impressed with this video. Both from a stylistic standpoint - good lighting, good audio, good personal styling - and from an information perspective. As an English teacher in Melbourne, Australia, and a fairly confident man, I have no trouble with public speaking at all. I also have a degree in theater studies. So standing in front of an audience is no trouble for me. Your points are clear, straight forward and do-able. The point about pactise is spot on. You yourself come across clearly and I actually enjoyed watching this video to the end. Well done and keep up the good work.

  • @nkc7123
    @nkc7123 9 лет назад +10

    Every time whenever i speak in front of audience , I get nerversed. So at every moment in the speech , I pronounce awe,awe..... for a break. So help me in this regard.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +6

      Nalini Kanta Choudhury I would say practice, practice and practice in front of the mirror to see how you look and also you can ask a friend to give you a feedback on a mock presentation

  • @likhithamanikonda523
    @likhithamanikonda523 8 лет назад +2

    Thank u very clear how to improve.

  • @jaspreetsingh2930
    @jaspreetsingh2930 9 лет назад +3

    Very well said "no traffic on the extra mile".
    So work hard and get lucky :)

  • @palmettopark9547
    @palmettopark9547 9 лет назад

    No more visual aid needed, less is more!
    Your presentation is clean and effective. Well done!

  • @starxtraders
    @starxtraders 10 лет назад +3

    This was amazing, I have thought waht you said for years, but because it was me thinking it, I thought, arr man Conrad who are you kidding?! But now hearing someone else actually say it, it has made me feel a lot lot more confident...Thanks a lot my friend!!! (-:

  • @DonnaC7071
    @DonnaC7071 7 лет назад

    your #4. I had to laugh because I feel I am the worst! I have always been the one to "be the background worker, don't put me in the spot light AT ALL" type of person but now the Lord seems to be pushing me to public speaking to reach such a huge amount of people for such a wonderful cause. So your video is helping me already. I tend to freeze up on top of being from the south doesn't help much. lol. I do pretty well on the phone but again I'm from the south! I am very conscious of my accent because everyone I speak with can hear my accent and this does bother me a great deal. YES WOMEN NEED HELP WITH THIS ALSO!!
    One last thing I've learned from a good friend is to BREATHE! I tend to hold my breath when I'm nervous and speak really fast. I need alot of work. "BIG HUGE SIGH". THANKS AGAIN!!

  • @mathewchan7125
    @mathewchan7125 10 лет назад +4

    It's such a good remind of me to practice more in daily life. i am not well in speaking, less organized. I have got tips from you. Thanks for sharing and look forward to your audio lessons more.

  • @eliskatesarova3104
    @eliskatesarova3104 10 лет назад +1

    Wow, you're great! I normally cannot concentrate on such videos all the time (it might be because English is not my mother tongue) but this really drew my attention and I just listened till the end. I'm going to try to find some of your older videos but I'm sure you did improve a lot - at the end, it's the practice that makes masters of people. To be honest, I'm an introvert too and until my third or so grade at high school I was terrible at giving presentation. By the way, talking in front of public has a lot to do with self-confidence, I think confident people have more potential to speak better. On the other hand (and I'm a great example of it), if you practise speaking and become good at it, your confidence will probably rise. Anyway, I hope you finished this long message and I'll be back to watch your other videos soon for sure!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Eliška Tesařová yes - practice doing it and you perform better. Thank you Eliska

  • @kvwaterhouse
    @kvwaterhouse 8 лет назад +24

    Awesome video and I have subscribed , thank you

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  8 лет назад +5

      +katherine waterhouse Great to have you here! You're very welcome.

    • @johnjohnson4610
      @johnjohnson4610 8 лет назад +4

      +Real Men Real Style thanks a lot buddy! I had to watch this because I am also a person who is not a big fan of public speaking. I have a presentation next Tuesday and I am slightly nervous. watching this video made me calm down some and feel confident about myself. so again, thank you.

    • @FluffyPE
      @FluffyPE 8 лет назад +1

      +john johnson I have a speech tomorrow (when postin this comment) and I'm kinda freaking out.

  • @mdodesignz
    @mdodesignz 8 лет назад +1

    Great tips! I find Connecting with the audience is always the challenge but 98% of the time I have overcome that by simply being myself and not over thinking it. I will definitely check out more of your videos and pass them along to others!

  • @kalvinkuek3987
    @kalvinkuek3987 9 лет назад +38

    you talk professionally and manly

  • @bellab8945
    @bellab8945 10 лет назад +2

    Your so helpful thank you for the great advice ! You've gained a new subscriber !

  • @DkKombo
    @DkKombo 10 лет назад +5

    Thanks!

  • @Lalamotionpictures
    @Lalamotionpictures 10 лет назад +2

    I am gearing up for a student council campaign and I am just observing and taking notes for future reference.

  • @pietrooliva7813
    @pietrooliva7813 9 лет назад +3

    Bravo Antonio, I love following your great RUclips channel!!Ciao from Italian Gentleman!!

  • @VishalSharma-eu8pe
    @VishalSharma-eu8pe 11 лет назад +4

    Great tips. But whenever I go in to public I even forget the subject.
    As you guide I wil practice a lot

  • @mannybauti
    @mannybauti 9 лет назад +3

    Bro, you're a beast.

  • @Tboorohn
    @Tboorohn 10 лет назад +1

    Antonio..Thank you brother. you are a cool guy helping other men get ahead in life. great advice. Let me share this with you; My father died when I was 9 months old and I wish I would have had this videos when growing up to help me "man up" in life. growing up with out a dad is tough.
    I am saving all these videos that I thinks are very helpful..(and most of them are) and eventually will send them to my son so he can get the benefit from them as well.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Tboorohn so sorry for your loss - I appreciate the support. Thank you for sharing your story

  • @sarathj
    @sarathj 11 лет назад +3

    Very helpful!

  • @joshuapayne3937
    @joshuapayne3937 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks a lot for the video. I have a speech tomorrow for my college class and it's gonna help me a lot.

  • @MrMirazakon
    @MrMirazakon 11 лет назад +5

    nice tips. can u please make some videos for interview preparation?

  • @bethanyrose435
    @bethanyrose435 5 лет назад

    I can't wait to be a better public speaker! And what stood out to me in the video was not be afraid to check my notes.

  • @RedGallardo
    @RedGallardo 10 лет назад +6

    I think it's important to stay natural and not try to do "clean" what you haven't practiced enough. Everyone remembers how irritating it is to listen to someone who's jumping out of his socks to get you on his side. It opens a whole specter of negative impressions like brown-nosing, demagogy, suppression, desperation or fogginess. When people get this bit of idea you're trying to brain-wash them they turn seriously negative. So it's barely possible to get people on your side with a speech but it's very easy to lose trust hearing any false notes caused by orator's attempts to needlessly improve his words.
    So I think for public speaking it's important to stay simple, informative and, to not have problems with repeating words, using crutch words or stumbling, try to speak slow and clear.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +2

      RedGallardo great point there!

    • @Marin6991
      @Marin6991 10 лет назад +1

      You are right. As simpler your words are , easier to listen and understand your words become.

    • @PimpMatt0
      @PimpMatt0 6 лет назад

      Ever met a pyramid scheme spokesman that is very loud and overly enthusiastic? I don't trust people that are like that.

  • @erikaz6934
    @erikaz6934 7 лет назад +1

    Really like the way he talks and his voice is so gentle.

  • @kayyy94
    @kayyy94 10 лет назад +3

    I am scared to death for this public speaking class I'm about to take next month.I'm trying to prepare now.I have really bad panic attacks and I tend to laugh a lot as they occur.I'll try to make a speech or something and record myself just to we where I stand,

  • @obaidmohammed6836
    @obaidmohammed6836 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks a lot... Gonna share with friends... inspirational.

  • @mugubimoses4214
    @mugubimoses4214 10 лет назад +5

    i was told when speaking i tend not pronounce words well. what should i do!!!!!!??

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +2

      mugubi moses Just keep on practicing! :)

    • @paulfogartysongs
      @paulfogartysongs 10 лет назад +5

      Slow down your speaking. Work on individual sounds and words. Break down sentences into small groups of two or three words. Work on each group of words separately… through repetition, exercising your tongue and your mouth as muscles, to make them fit. Then gradually join the word groups together, two groups, then three groups etc. Slowing down is important and lets you hear everything you are doing, so you can decide what your problem is. Then work on the exercises - single words, pairs of words, etc etc all the way up.

    • @abhayrajsinghchauhan1182
      @abhayrajsinghchauhan1182 9 лет назад +1

      Real Men Real Style

    • @KenjiNitta
      @KenjiNitta 9 лет назад +2

      Recite poetry out loud and over-enunciate the words. I'm a preacher and I had the same problem. This fixed it.

  • @KenriqueMaling
    @KenriqueMaling 10 лет назад +1

    I'm a undergraduate student still struggling with communication skill,but your video is very helpful enough and i really liked it.

  • @coocoocol25
    @coocoocol25 8 лет назад +14

    666,555 subs. Illuminati confirmed

  • @orieansorie4823
    @orieansorie4823 10 лет назад +1

    Awesome video! Very helpful, thank you very much! :)

  • @ammouri13
    @ammouri13 9 лет назад +5

    i'm looking for a partner to practice my English? anyone?

  • @williebarkley7046
    @williebarkley7046 4 года назад

    Thank you for listening to us.
    It makes this channel so personal in my opinion,
    Awesome job you're doing.
    I look forward to your vids. Always learning and improving.

  • @TheAlanakane
    @TheAlanakane 10 лет назад +22

    He uses far to many hand gestures...that's distracting!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +25

      TheAlanakane Thanks for your feedback! :)

    • @TheAlanakane
      @TheAlanakane 10 лет назад

      You're Welcome!

    • @roughryder5
      @roughryder5 10 лет назад +11

      Nothing bad about that.

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross 10 лет назад +5

      Real Men Real Style
      Your hand gestures are very natural. I wasn't distracted.

    • @vma1030
      @vma1030 10 лет назад +4

      hand gestures works for me.. it eases you when you're in the crowd or presenting something.. its really distracting when you're in a 1 on 1 conversation though but hey this is youtube..

  • @cesgar7994
    @cesgar7994 10 лет назад

    I have been terrified of public speaking. Sometimes I had panic attacks. When I feel confident I am an excellent speaker but is HARD to take control of this fear. The fear will sometimes make my mind go blank. Thank you for your video! (Subscribed)

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Ces Gar That is great! Just practice every chance you get before a presentation so you'll feel more confident and prepared.

  • @ericfriedman5055
    @ericfriedman5055 11 лет назад +1

    Great tips mate! Suave style too. It's a shame many men out there don't take after people like us. It really should be common decency.

  • @soukaya8573
    @soukaya8573 8 лет назад

    The reason I watched your video because I want to improve my communication. I like the idea of creating something to help men speak well . Looking forward to it

  • @amir1abd
    @amir1abd 10 лет назад +1

    I have presentation about Italy's economy next week. Very useful tips! Thank you!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Amir Abdullaev You are welcome. Good luck to your presentation

  • @DTGill28
    @DTGill28 10 лет назад

    When I first read the title of this video I was leery, but after hearing you speak, your advice and your complete honesty, you really won my subscribe. Thank you very much and I look forward to listening to the rest of your videos.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      DTGillaird Really appreciate it sir - I find being honest is easier on the memory :)

  • @ALTalkshow442
    @ALTalkshow442 10 лет назад

    Hi my name is Andrew and I am a member of Queanbeyan Toastmasters in Australia. We all learn roughly say the same things you're talking about. I like the way you conduct yourself in the presentation. Well done!!

  • @mightee9569
    @mightee9569 9 лет назад +2

    Thank you💙

  • @bhaddiyabhikkhu4632
    @bhaddiyabhikkhu4632 6 лет назад

    I also practice the same ways you suggested here. After watching you I got more confident that I'm practicing in the right way. I do record my speech and find my fault etc etc...
    Thank you so much

  • @sampathedirisinghe1734
    @sampathedirisinghe1734 10 лет назад +1

    Good advice to improve your self. Thank you very much.

  • @rezamehedi
    @rezamehedi 10 лет назад +1

    I like the way you speak as well as your attitude. This is a great video. Thanks

  • @rajivnair831
    @rajivnair831 11 лет назад +1

    That actually helped me, one of my goals for myself is to enter into the finance field, I am also studying marketing on the side; eventually, I would like to consider being a financial analyst/manager, or even a marketing manager. I don't usually have problem speaking to crowds in a comedic tone, but often my professional presentation skills could use a refresher. This was helpful in that process, Thanks.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Rajiv Nair good luck! glad to hear that people like you are using the information I put out :)

  • @AditiParida
    @AditiParida 10 лет назад +1

    very well presented. i'm a school student going to give a talk in front of many students and teachers ...so this video helped me a lot.

  • @jt_3232
    @jt_3232 9 лет назад

    For my summer college bridge program, I had to deliver a presentation in front of the other campers, counselors, and professors. I made a really strong powerpoint with all my points on it and it looked wonderful. However, I did not practice speaking my presentation and I ended up freezing and stuttering and just blowing it. Personally, I felt like a failure and I still have nightmares about that experience.
    Please everyone, learn from my mistake. Practice your presentation, it is not worth the embarrassment to just "wing" it.
    I will now use these 5 points to make myself a stronger, more fluid, and overall a more confident public speaker. Thanks for the video.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +1

      knightkiller23 great to hear - keep it up. Learn from your mistakes and move on :)

  • @Alan-pr5wn
    @Alan-pr5wn 6 лет назад

    Body language is very important, ​too. Watching how you present yourself in front of your audiences in this video is very helpful, thanks for uploading this video!

  • @Finance_Worklife1207
    @Finance_Worklife1207 9 лет назад +1

    I actually spoke one in a big audience, I don't have any clue what was wrong with me that night but i gave a long speak like i was talking to my friends which i didn't expect. i am just concerned about career and after i graduate. English isn't my first language but was my language for three years. I put on to work and learn every day.

  • @raymondgcomeau
    @raymondgcomeau 4 года назад

    Good, even better than GOOD! i'M JUST STARTING OUT AND i CAN SEE THAT PRACTICE is the main action needed to get your SPEECH down PAT! NO ah and um's, NO you knows! I am going to download your 47 page guide. I need all the help I can read. THANKS so much. Ray

  • @Birendraart97
    @Birendraart97 10 лет назад +2

    really helpful video

  • @Skfunnyx
    @Skfunnyx 10 лет назад +1

    Very few people able to explain there success and you are one of them Thank You Antonio Centeno