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  • @akeeperofoddknowledge4956
    @akeeperofoddknowledge4956 8 лет назад +463

    So the corporate world prefers clean-shaven because they are less agressive, more compliant. No surprises there.

    • @SplitWasTaken
      @SplitWasTaken 6 лет назад +44

      Evan Paluch the man who refuses to shave the beard is always more dangerous to his superiors

    • @dirtybird1933
      @dirtybird1933 6 лет назад +29

      Split Was Taken yes, because they have the brass balls to take a risk

    • @andyn6053
      @andyn6053 4 года назад +40

      yeah they prefer to hire beta males that they can boss over. They never gonna boss over a full bearded, mature, aggressive man as myself :)

    • @khalilelfakhri8243
      @khalilelfakhri8243 4 года назад +14

      @Mohamed Ali Yes it does.

    • @g9312
      @g9312 4 года назад +16

      @Mohamed Ali Beard or no beard u are still the same person but beard looks more intimidating

  • @PermanentHigh
    @PermanentHigh 8 лет назад +707

    I bet this guy is wearing basketball shorts, sandals with socks underneath but has a blazer and shirt up top lol

  • @davedrace9959
    @davedrace9959 5 лет назад +41

    When I was 16 I was able to grow a beard. Like most people at that age, I resided at home with my parents. My parents hated beards and was always bullied to shave it off and forced to listen to their snide remarks like, you must be trying to hide something. Usually I simply ignored them. Finally, Dad kicked me out of the house untill I shave. I asked why. He said We didnt raise you ' That way'. Equaiting beards with Hells Angels and Fidel Castrol. I never shaved. I was able to return home after 3 days as my Mom talked Dad into letting,me return. No, I never shaved. I have a beard to this day, albiet its gray unlike the dark brown it used to be. Im 65yrs old now and never shaved. Its ok to shave or not. Just dont do it for the wrong reasons.

    • @Blinkers2007GameDev
      @Blinkers2007GameDev Год назад

      Same I also have a full beard

    • @Blinkers2007GameDev
      @Blinkers2007GameDev Год назад +3

      Also you must have had a horrible dad. I’m sorry for you.

    • @Colinnn.
      @Colinnn. 11 месяцев назад +2

      What a crazy story, thanks for sharing and good on you for staying true to yourself

    • @OhDearBabajan
      @OhDearBabajan 8 месяцев назад +1

      That’s intense
      Glad it all worked out for you

    • @Rodrigo-tk2fm
      @Rodrigo-tk2fm 7 месяцев назад +2

      Wow, so they equated beards to communism or some sort of anarchism 😮

  • @misho129
    @misho129 8 лет назад +1097

    A lion will never shave his mane.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  8 лет назад +78

      +Omar You're comparing humans to lions? :)

    • @misho129
      @misho129 8 лет назад +180

      Real Men Real Style A chicken will never pluck it's feathers.

    • @cuauhtemocmorisco3493
      @cuauhtemocmorisco3493 8 лет назад +81

      +Omar a whale will never stop blowing through its blow hole

    • @misho129
      @misho129 8 лет назад +97

      A unicorn will never stop eating rainbows for breakfast.

    • @cuauhtemocmorisco3493
      @cuauhtemocmorisco3493 8 лет назад +17

      Omar a dream catcher will never stop catching dreams :0

  • @temporaryspacestudios
    @temporaryspacestudios 8 лет назад +734

    This guy doesn't have a beard. I'm not sure I can trust his beard advice.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  8 лет назад +116

      +Temporary Space Studios My wife prefers me without it :)

    • @sirwooley
      @sirwooley 8 лет назад +21

      +Real Men Real Style Touche. Mine likes both, but hates the in between because it's "too scratchy" haha.

    • @Shredderundergod
      @Shredderundergod 8 лет назад +20

      +Real Men Real Style
      Happy Wife = Happy Life

    • @mmmkeklol
      @mmmkeklol 8 лет назад +10

      +Temporary Space Studios Some people cant grow a beard, and those who cant grow it, have the biggest interest in it.

    • @noeljonsson2183
      @noeljonsson2183 8 лет назад +3

      He doesn't have a brain either 🙄

  • @ChrisPugh
    @ChrisPugh 9 лет назад +101

    it signals that I haven't shaved in a while.

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 7 лет назад +54

    The way I see it, a man's beard is a symbol of his masculinity, just as a woman's long hair is a symbol of her femininity.
    Most women would never dream of shaving their heads, but rather they go to great lengths to care for and nurture their hair. So why would a man shave his face, why not embrace his beard and maintain it?
    And in the professional world, a woman is never asked or expected to cut her long hair, so why are men more often than not expected to shave their beards?
    The way I see it, as long as a beard is well trimmed, there is no sense in shaving it off. Now I'm not saying every man has to have one if he doesn't want too.
    But what I am saying is, if any guy on here is thinking about growing a beard, but has been hesitant, as a bearded man; let me just encourage you at least try it. Give it a chance, and if you don't like it, you don't have to keep it.
    Good luck, and keep on truckin'!

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol 5 лет назад +2

      I have had beards for past 22 years. Recently i took it to a new length spurred on by woman i was seeing who preferred big beard or at least she said she did. Strangely enough i feel like i lost myself in process, not being able to look at my face at all for so long (as opposed to a short beard that enhances face). I became more irritable i think and felt unkempt particularly bc i also have dreadlocks again and combination of 2 didnt match my self image at professional workplace setting. Id walk by a mirror and wonder who was looking back at me. But i kept it bc she said she liked it. Strangely tho the "you're so handsome/hot" compliments became less and less frequent and i began to wonder if request was to make me less appealing to other women (as i was concident in my appearance when i met her and she knew i got a lot of female attention at that time). But it may have had unexpected effect of making me less attractive to her too. Anyway i felt controlled and 2 wks after we broke up i trimmed it down yesterday and got undercut, leaving about an inch everywhere and 2 for stash and i feel like myself again. A change in appearance was needed. Why i didnt like big beard? I just think i look my best with a short one n so why hide it. It's like a girl with large perky chest wearing hoodies everyday. Am i egotistical or does that make sense as realistic experience bc well it was my experience with giant beard

    • @mewasin1
      @mewasin1 3 года назад +1

      Long hair in my opinion, is boring, unless it’s curly. East Indian woman keep their hair very long and straight. To me that’s so old fashion

    • @sakhtlaunda2.032
      @sakhtlaunda2.032 2 года назад +2

      @@mewasin1 na they look great. Very appealing, feminine and beautiful.

  • @BIGSNAKE16
    @BIGSNAKE16 8 лет назад +622

    The ladies love my extra long full beard. It gives them a soft, comfortable place to sit.

    • @AuslaenderTV
      @AuslaenderTV 8 лет назад +29

      haha, best comment.

    • @piyushrai7370
      @piyushrai7370 6 лет назад +1

      😂👍🏼

    • @mollkatless
      @mollkatless 6 лет назад +4

      hellraiser - that is only funny if you are 14 or younger.

    • @johnkaboly5313
      @johnkaboly5313 6 лет назад +38

      mollkatless no not really you just lost your sense of humor

    • @mollkatless
      @mollkatless 6 лет назад +9

      john kaboly - no, not really. It is not about "losing my sense of humor" it has more to do with growth, maturity, and level of sophistication we, most of us, go through. by the way, I also don't laugh at knock-knock jokes, or someone pretending they pulled my nose off of my face and hold it between their middle and index fingers - understand?

  • @isaiahjones711
    @isaiahjones711 10 лет назад +72

    Interesting.. Amazing how simple corporate society rules facial hair as a sign of lazyness, when in truth I spend more time growing or planning my beard and mustache than it would take to shave everyday.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +9

      Isaiah Jones Yeah! Haha The irony!

    • @HDKillerPanda
      @HDKillerPanda 9 лет назад

      Don't believe everything somebody tells you on the internet.

    • @PASCHDigiMedia
      @PASCHDigiMedia 9 лет назад

      The problem is that exceptions are made on the basis of membership in a protected class. Religion is semi-protected, so religious beards have less protection when not coupled with other visible immutable characteristics. I tell people who tell me that "oh, the 1960's called..." I respond with "Oh, the 1980's called, it wants its 'female hygiene bladder' television money show *white supremacist* look back." Shut up, shut down!

    • @michaelmurdoch5019
      @michaelmurdoch5019 7 лет назад +5

      PASCHDigiMedia So your saying your gay?

  • @PaulPierceCeltic
    @PaulPierceCeltic 7 лет назад +165

    im black and my father told me to never trust a brotha without facial hair

  • @ranker4
    @ranker4 8 лет назад +280

    415 disliked cuz they are undeveloped and can't grow hair.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  8 лет назад +1

      +ranker4 :)

    • @sarfrazmomin4341
      @sarfrazmomin4341 8 лет назад +2

      hahaha baby faces

    • @ItsNikoHIMself
      @ItsNikoHIMself 8 лет назад +1

      Or because we don't give that huge fucks about a friggin beard.. ;-)

    • @ranker4
      @ranker4 8 лет назад +4

      ItsNikoHIMself Or maybe because jealousy for being undeveloped.

    • @ItsNikoHIMself
      @ItsNikoHIMself 8 лет назад +1

      ranker4 Maybe. I just talked my pov

  • @KingdomDreamss
    @KingdomDreamss 7 лет назад +63

    When you have a beard you have the right to own a crossbow.

  • @6237352
    @6237352 8 лет назад +450

    All Prophets had beards.

    • @michaelsmith3929
      @michaelsmith3929 8 лет назад +19

      Amen.

    • @Danny-qb3mk
      @Danny-qb3mk 8 лет назад +15

      Ameen

    • @Razovllay
      @Razovllay 8 лет назад +41

      All Prophets were phonies.

    • @shameermalik5540
      @shameermalik5540 8 лет назад +82

      That's mainly cz they didn't had Gillette Mach 3 Sensitive with a good Shaving Foam.

    • @Razovllay
      @Razovllay 8 лет назад +9

      Shehmeer Malik True, shaving must have been a bitch back then xD

  • @TheOriginalBendejo
    @TheOriginalBendejo 9 лет назад +49

    It's kind of obvious that facial hair on a man puts out a sense of aggression and dominance, I mean it's almost like a Lion getting his mane. When a boys starts growing a beard it's a sign that he is becoming a man, readying himself to perhaps lead his own pride of lions some day, so to speak. It's a flag that says "hey ladies, look at my face, look at my hairy face! Look how thick my beard is! Just think of how much testosterone I have circulating in my veins! You will want to have my babies!". It also says "hey asshole, step away from my bitches and look at my face, look at my hairy face! Look how thick my beard is! Think of how much more manly I am than you are because of all that testosterone circulating in my veins! You will want to leave because I could easily kick your ass!". It's a primitive yet beautiful part of every man's existence. I think growing a beard (or a "yeard") is something every man should try, provided they have good beard growing genes.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +7

      Trevor Philips makes sense

    • @larzkivic
      @larzkivic 9 лет назад

      Holy shit it's you!!! THE Trevor Philips

    • @TheOriginalBendejo
      @TheOriginalBendejo 9 лет назад +5

      larzkivic You know it cupcake!

    • @larzkivic
      @larzkivic 9 лет назад +4

      Trevor Philips Haha , how are Michael and Franklin doing?

    • @carnavian13
      @carnavian13 9 лет назад +3

      larzkivic
      hangin in strip club

  • @AaronMetallion
    @AaronMetallion 8 лет назад +140

    I didn't have a hair on my body but then I started listening to metal. I have a beard now, I have beard everywhere.

    • @yashagarwal8249
      @yashagarwal8249 8 лет назад +1

      hey there fellow metalhead, any unknown bands you recommend?

    • @rw6783
      @rw6783 8 лет назад

      The Devil In California

    • @yashagarwal8249
      @yashagarwal8249 8 лет назад

      ***** Too hardcore for me :s

    • @iamalmetal
      @iamalmetal 8 лет назад

      Sanctuary and Nevermore ..they're not unknown but they're awesome bands.

    • @CluthuMcJulian
      @CluthuMcJulian 8 лет назад +3

      Septic flesh/ rotting christ /amon amarth / debauchery/ ne obliviscaris/ inflames/behemoth.

  • @Live-Life-Freely
    @Live-Life-Freely 8 лет назад +55

    All of this gets trumped by confidence and humor. Guys work on your confidence, not cockyness and don't take yourself too serious.

    • @darkreign8081
      @darkreign8081 8 лет назад +7

      What you talking about, most girls love a bit of cockiness... it follows with a bit of cock! Not that I'd advise against the genuine type of confidence. But for most people, they need to get over their issues first.

    • @anonchen7656
      @anonchen7656 8 лет назад +1

      ..finding confidence IS getting over issues. Get your head straight soldier, you keep it hanging and that cockyness will dickslap you in your face. It's hard to keep it up - your head that is. Can't always be on par.. and that's when you get crushed without confidence. Cockyness is for everyone, but confident people can stomach the echoe, fools being cocky get lucky or schooled. Yapp, that was your own dick slapping you in the face right there.. stop it..that's embarassing :D just kidding, you get my point?

    • @MrZeedo8
      @MrZeedo8 8 лет назад

      +anonchen but even confident people are called cocky because the hater always sees the bad and opposing side to make then selfs feel better

    • @rastaheadant9017
      @rastaheadant9017 7 лет назад

      What do you mean don't take your self to serious

    • @devilgene3154
      @devilgene3154 7 лет назад +3

      RastaheadAnt901 it means just that. the greatest mistake of my life was treating life like a game. I got too competetive and overthought everything before the game had started.

  • @vicrod74
    @vicrod74 8 лет назад +68

    In my opinion a well kept 5'clock shadow or stubble is the way to go with the girls, but being well dressed with a full beard sends a signal of power and confidence like a boss. The key here is keeping your beard well groomed and neat.

    • @IsraelOzeri
      @IsraelOzeri 8 лет назад +2

      Well.said

    • @Scuddleston
      @Scuddleston 8 лет назад +2

      +Victor Rodriguez I agree!

    • @chrisd2051
      @chrisd2051 8 лет назад +2

      +Victor Rodriguez True in the summer I grow a viking beard (my family calls it the terrorist beard) and no one fucks with me when I have it. Then again I'm 6'2" 230 lbs of muscle on top of that

    • @mylordsarentino4402
      @mylordsarentino4402 6 лет назад

      Nik Kingman all of us do on the internet

    • @bryanfinkell5184
      @bryanfinkell5184 Год назад

      Most women do not like beards. Beards can also be very "and are" unsanitary. The safety razor at the turn of the century changed all that. There are so many males that keep a over grown and unkempt beard. They don't seem to care about their appearance. Or what anyone else thinks of them. And wearing a baseball cap with the beard makes it worse! It's just a excuse not to shave. I know this sounds very harsh. And I'm sorry. But we are going backwards in time! 🧔

  • @breakdancerQ
    @breakdancerQ 9 лет назад +140

    It's true when Im clean shaven I feel like a lion without his beard, like a little boy or somethin. With a beard I feel like true man, a true warrior like my ancestors before me when they would ride out in the frontline of war,swinging a pickaxe, that's how I feel.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +6

      Powermove Promotions nice!

    • @maryam1399
      @maryam1399 9 лет назад +12

      that is marrihuana not beard

    • @as_the_turntables
      @as_the_turntables 9 лет назад

      Tilmond Urse
      nah man, nah.

    • @user-em8do1kw9v
      @user-em8do1kw9v 9 лет назад +9

      You'd go into war with a pick axe?! Have to admit, that's pretty manly!

    • @breakdancerQ
      @breakdancerQ 9 лет назад +3

      ***** Maybe they did die they from getting shot by arrows but there's is no shame in that, they died like true warriors on the battlefield, there's not a bigger honour for a man than to die that way, mate.

  • @PhenomProductions23
    @PhenomProductions23 8 лет назад +20

    Without my Beard, or at least a Stubble, when I'm clean Shaven, I feel NAKED.

    • @imablazeuonfiya
      @imablazeuonfiya 3 года назад +2

      i know man. clean shaven look is not me.

    • @sakhtlaunda2.032
      @sakhtlaunda2.032 2 года назад

      Oh good I hate it. I feel like my clothes are bring snatched.😣

  • @TheOldGunsmith58
    @TheOldGunsmith58 8 лет назад +21

    ive had a beard for over twenty years , and have never really thought about it other than what is comfortable and easy for me . i let it grow when i want . i trim it when i want. i turn it into a goatee when i want. i have never really changed it for any body but myself. partly out of laziness and partly out of money reasons . ive never made a lot of money . and razors are money i dont have to spend.

    • @TheOldGunsmith58
      @TheOldGunsmith58 8 лет назад +1

      yeah i remember dry shaving in the marines . not fun.

    • @tshegomokonoto
      @tshegomokonoto 8 лет назад +2

      20 years? wow. I am so keeping mine. I used to cut it every 3 months, now I am motivated to just keep it for ever. I mean who cares right, it's my face.

  • @WalterLevine
    @WalterLevine 9 лет назад +54

    I have been growing a beard most of my life. I'm 74 and started shaving when I was 13. It wasn't pleasant. Never enjoyed. Had a heavy growth. So just not shaving was most comfortable for me. Keeping it trimmed, of course. Last year i tried shaving again and people said I looked younger, etc. But it was a chore. It lasted 10 months and was a relief to not shave again. Never grew a beard to be anything other than what I am. Never related it to masculinity, aggression or whatever. I am what I am and that's all I ever can be.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +4

      Walter Levine well said

    • @causes3424
      @causes3424 2 года назад

      This thing dating coaches call Alpha males is mostly unknown to the alpha males. Alpha males don't go around calling themselves that. They don't even think about it. Alphas are quite confident with their masculinity. So confident that they don't even think about if they're confident or not.

    • @micahbell5871
      @micahbell5871 2 года назад

      I Hope you’re doing well an understand that we are not Good as we are. In fact, we need to be Holy to make It to Heaven. The Only Way to be Holy is accept Jesus’s punishment as our punishment and God will Only see His Son’s Holiness when He sees us. Repent and Trust Christ!

    • @overaxel9498
      @overaxel9498 2 года назад +3

      @@micahbell5871 bro what does this have to do with god? And what if I’m not holy? I just go to hell?

    • @micahbell5871
      @micahbell5871 2 года назад

      @@overaxel9498 no one is holy. We are all on the way to HELL. But if you trust Jesus as your sacrifice and cry it out to God, you will be seen as holy by HIM

  • @AlexanderHL1919
    @AlexanderHL1919 10 лет назад +47

    Thank you sir. Finally someone that does justice to the manly art of facial hair.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +7

      AlexanderHL You're welcome!

    • @bucketrance
      @bucketrance 9 лет назад +2

      Real Men Real Style you're welcome with a complete shave

  • @tillman002000
    @tillman002000 8 лет назад +35

    Grow your beard if you can. Society has a campaign to continue to emasculate men..sounds like he can't grow one..jusy saying

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  8 лет назад +4

      +Chris Tillman Here's my take on how to grow an awesome beard: www.realmenrealstyle.com/how-grow-beard/

    • @glynpickering1003
      @glynpickering1003 8 лет назад +2

      +Real Men Real Style
      Here's my take, don't shave and never, ever spend any money on 'beard' products.

    • @sleepymonk.
      @sleepymonk. 8 лет назад

      i think you know best you havea awesome beard

    • @dapper_gent
      @dapper_gent 8 лет назад

      +3LILJoK A beard make you looks gay, like a fat gay bear.

    • @denxero
      @denxero 8 лет назад +2

      wonder how dappergen got to be an expert in distinguishing gay bears.

  • @andreashykade2352
    @andreashykade2352 8 лет назад +38

    Dude made a video about pros of having a beard - but is still clean shaven. xD

  • @ArghCake
    @ArghCake 10 лет назад +46

    why am i watching this???

  • @travis9190
    @travis9190 9 лет назад +5

    This guy is spot on, I cant tell you the difference in my life since growing my beard out. Remarkable

  • @electricsheep7633
    @electricsheep7633 8 лет назад +90

    I make 180k a year and have a beard. Just be yourself. People will appreciate it more.

    • @rgdaretochange335
      @rgdaretochange335 8 лет назад

      Thanks

    • @UndeadBed
      @UndeadBed 8 лет назад +6

      What do you do for work, I want to make 180k a year...I topped out something like 25k last year, supporting my family (spouse, two kids), living in expensive ass Cali. Put my name in at the company.

    • @Agent.K.
      @Agent.K. 8 лет назад +4

      +Transmortify
      Why do you have kids if you can't feed them?!

    • @Agent.K.
      @Agent.K. 8 лет назад +1

      Do you have a business? cuz that's a lot!

    • @Agent.K.
      @Agent.K. 8 лет назад

      +Transmortify
      Actually 25k is decent in my country. Not the best, but a good starting point.

  • @VFG204
    @VFG204 7 лет назад +2

    Thanks a lot Real Men Real Style. You really do help me a bunch. I was very insecure about my appearance and just myself in general. I am very happy to have people like you on RUclips you really help me a lot and you really got my life together. Thank you so much Antonio!

  • @danageberten
    @danageberten 10 лет назад +8

    EVERY man looks better with a beard!

  • @Kombaiyashii
    @Kombaiyashii 10 лет назад +21

    I have trouble growing a beard, so I glue on a fake one everyday.

    • @BMoscow
      @BMoscow 10 лет назад +10

      i got some on my back i do not want, i can give it to you.

    • @Kombaiyashii
      @Kombaiyashii 10 лет назад +2

      Dodgy Shoe Lace
      yes please.

    • @michaelmurdoch5019
      @michaelmurdoch5019 7 лет назад +2

      Kombaiyashii I have tons in my ass crack, Christmas is comming up would you like it

  • @royerdelisle
    @royerdelisle 8 лет назад +85

    When I'm 50 I'm gonna start growing a Dumbledore beard!

  • @KyleKartan87
    @KyleKartan87 8 лет назад +13

    In a nutshell: beards are friggin' awesome!

  • @AndreasFilms
    @AndreasFilms 10 лет назад +218

    Then why don't you grow a beard? :s

    • @albundy5746
      @albundy5746 6 лет назад +17

      It's not his style or maybe he can't? I used to work for Goldman Sachs and while it was never explicitly stated, we had to be clean shaven.

    • @Z45HR4
      @Z45HR4 6 лет назад +5

      I worked for UPS for a bit and they had a strict "no beards" policy.

    • @davidthomas9190
      @davidthomas9190 6 лет назад

      Zashra even for muslims ??

    • @zuiverbloed7163
      @zuiverbloed7163 6 лет назад +12

      David Thomas Nobody in the business world seriously cares about what religions prescribe. So, yes, even for Muslims.

    • @davidthomas9190
      @davidthomas9190 6 лет назад

      Nasir V great 😁

  • @-HRH
    @-HRH 10 лет назад +5

    Very well-balanced analysis, Antonio. So glad to see someone stick up for us beardies for a change.

  • @KingsCrossVIP
    @KingsCrossVIP 7 лет назад +176

    jesus had a beard

    • @krisidreamer2708
      @krisidreamer2708 7 лет назад +8

      BlueSeas Jesus is not real

    • @argenus
      @argenus 7 лет назад +9

      Cesare Bogia is falsly depicted as Jesus. We actually don't have a real picture of Jesus. But most likely he also had one.

    • @lincolnpaul1814
      @lincolnpaul1814 6 лет назад +1

      BlueSeas he lived 2000 years ago

    • @williamjc7195
      @williamjc7195 6 лет назад +1

      and look what happened to him!!!

    • @williamredfern5504
      @williamredfern5504 6 лет назад

      Terrorists have filthy nastie beards,,

  • @tabbyclawproductions7943
    @tabbyclawproductions7943 7 лет назад +6

    I do not care for sex appeal. I am trying to look like a gentleman. Professional, classy, and add in a bit of wisdom.

  • @violian5
    @violian5 10 лет назад +10

    I'm SE Asian and what I notice is, if I'm clean shaven, I never get attention amongst women in public. When I have a stubble, like literally, I get a lot of glances. I can't keep it long because facial hair kinda bothers me. Stublble is fine.

    • @laillosidgar
      @laillosidgar 10 лет назад +1

      Lucky you! Im SE Asian, and have no beard.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +1

      violian5 Yep! Stubble is just fine.

  • @qbinn
    @qbinn 8 лет назад +50

    My experience in construction sites is when I have a beard I get taken seriesly(prob spelled wrong) especially when I'm not having a good day.
    When I'm clean shave I get talked down to.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  8 лет назад +7

      +qbinn interesting.

    • @akfanfortyseven8375
      @akfanfortyseven8375 6 лет назад +9

      Ive had the same experience at virtually every job I've had and out and about in society over all

    • @Bng210
      @Bng210 6 лет назад +4

      This is true, people were more intimidated by me when I had my viking beard...I get beard envy when I shave it off and now will have to wait several months to grow it back. It is good to change your style up too because it helps with your confidence as you get different reactions based on how you look.

    • @za9462
      @za9462 5 лет назад +2

      Having a blue collar job with a beard is a benefit. Shows who the alpha male is upfront.

    • @thomasshort1784
      @thomasshort1784 3 года назад +2

      @@za9462 At the very least, the man you might not want to trifle with!

  • @edgar_investor
    @edgar_investor 8 лет назад

    This is why I love this channel! You sir hit the nail right on the head with this post.

  • @pavy415
    @pavy415 8 лет назад +8

    I only grow a beard and mustache because it makes me feel like a wild man and I love it because I am a wild man !

  • @Gh0st3mpire
    @Gh0st3mpire 8 лет назад +109

    i can't grow facial hair so i watch videos like this.

    • @FaedAhmedArnob
      @FaedAhmedArnob 8 лет назад +5

      hi five

    • @TheAdvenCast
      @TheAdvenCast 8 лет назад +4

      +Faed Ahmed Arnob can i join the #team !?

    • @TheAdvenCast
      @TheAdvenCast 8 лет назад

      ***** shout out the place and time homy :P

    • @jimweidema3668
      @jimweidema3668 6 лет назад

      Can grow a moustache since I was 14 only can grow a circle beard since 19 no full beard tho :(

    • @alfredosegura1251
      @alfredosegura1251 6 лет назад

      If you want to grow bear just take testathastrone

  • @kirixen
    @kirixen 8 лет назад +59

    i want my 7 minutes back.

  • @garrettburton5509
    @garrettburton5509 8 лет назад +1

    Wow thanks for the insight. I just started to grow mines. And the reaction from the ladies is such a plus. Didn't know it would have such an effect. Again thanks

  • @danseabreeze1404
    @danseabreeze1404 8 лет назад +2

    After around a year of having facial hair always kept neat and trim, I'm amazed at the positive reactions when out and about with strangers. I do have a baby face when I have no facial hair since my lips are narrow and my chin is pointy. The facial hair makes my lips look wider and my chin larger. I chose to always shave off the long lines of hair from lip to chin on either side which most goatees have since I feel they make a guy look sad or angry and also to give it a customized look.

  • @ericawesome2033
    @ericawesome2033 9 лет назад +3

    I can't grow a full beard but the hair I do grow gives me confidence and most women I talk to prefer me with hair rather than clean shaven

  • @damonwereman9297
    @damonwereman9297 8 лет назад +5

    I like my beard; it keeps my face warm when it's arctic cold in Montana in the seemingly never ending winters here. I have been considering Arizona in the winter, maybe.

  • @phukque9801
    @phukque9801 4 года назад +3

    Santa is aggressive because he has a beard lmfao. Santa is definitely outside the box Hahaaha

  • @gaminghero109
    @gaminghero109 7 лет назад +44

    Studies also show as long as people like how they look, whatever others say doesn't matter :)

  • @FrancisRoyCA
    @FrancisRoyCA 9 лет назад +7

    Some interesting insights can be extrapolated from point 3: the more that men signal typically masculine traits, the traits that are derived from the natural biological progression/maturing of men, the more people respond with a sense that the individual is aggressive, isolated and less collaborative. The less a man emits these signals, the more like a woman his appearance (less facial hair) the more he is assumed to have typically designated female attributes: low threat, more collaborative.
    From my point of view, when I review my past, I find that such responses are rarely thought-though, but merely _responded to._ Based on that, I think I'd classify these as instinctive responses.
    The trouble comes when we start inserting symbolic meanings and interpretations of simple responses rather than keeping the responses within the stimulus-response scope of "red means stop," "green means go."

  • @sezrules
    @sezrules 8 лет назад +81

    he kinda looks like Stiffler

  • @caboose2163
    @caboose2163 7 лет назад +10

    I was gonna shave, but then I decided I like the way my legs look....

  • @russbogrett680
    @russbogrett680 8 лет назад +1

    Hi Antonio I am a master barber and have been for almost 40 years. Beards and facial hair in general have been on the steady increase within the past five years. I find myself doing more work on facial hair than the hair on their heads. Some look good and some dont. As for myself my head and face are always clean shaven and have been that way for 20 years.

  • @00great226
    @00great226 9 лет назад +26

    it's better to have a beard says the man without one.

  • @wendeln92
    @wendeln92 6 лет назад +14

    The beard signals masculinity. Having a beard (keep in well groomed) = sign of authority, age & wisdom. I am usually clean-shaven (and up to 2 days stubble) and I recently started growing out my moustache & chin (aka circle beard or goatee) and found that many women love it. This is not the reason I grew it but it is definitely nice.

    • @bobbyguzman3058
      @bobbyguzman3058 2 года назад

      Mask mandates ended in LA recently. Popped out with a clean cut beard and mustache and women instantly complimented me and tell me I’m handsome. Female coworkers much more into me. Rn imma go through trying to let the full face grow, bout to look sloppy for a bit.

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 2 года назад

      Lol should I stop shaving sometimes it gets in the way if Im eating some heavy food or rice, should I just cut it a little if it gets in the way slightly?

  • @scotteggers5183
    @scotteggers5183 8 лет назад

    hey recently found your videos and i have been enjoying the info and tips you are giving specifically advice on keeping well groomed. thanks and keep the videos coming!

  • @Tim4706
    @Tim4706 6 лет назад +1

    I agree with you 100% for me specifically. I wanted to change my style as you can see in my profile picture. I was clean shaven but now I have a goatee and I'm trying to grow a beard that attaches to my sideburns it may be looked upon as aggressive and assertive but I'm studying hard to become a paraprofessional and I want to send that message that I'm serious about what I want to accomplish and I'm willing to work hard to achieve what I want. I always keep it well-groomed and maintained to keep that professional appearance.

  • @12markito
    @12markito 9 лет назад +7

    It's no shave November and I've never ever grown a beard. I thought this was the perfect excuse to do it. I've never known how perfectly shaped my beard grows. It's like discovering a long lost brother or something lol

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +2

      Sergio Flores haha!

    • @L2PlayRunescape
      @L2PlayRunescape 9 лет назад +2

      Lol hold out to the rest of the month no matter how you feel about it. Itll make you forget about your looks for awhile and enjoy life.

    • @JohnSmith-gr7iz
      @JohnSmith-gr7iz 9 лет назад +6

      If you can keep it for 4 weeks, keep it forever ! I'm at 9 weeks right now, and it only gets better

  • @GreatYue
    @GreatYue 9 лет назад +4

    Agreed. I feel that a guy with beard presents assertiveness and aggression even he has not shown them out yet. It's just how average person in this society is trained to think and feel.

  • @JBuddy-cz1if
    @JBuddy-cz1if 8 лет назад

    I'm learning so much on your videos. Thank you for doing this. I've not been successful in obtaining information about the topics you've discussed. Again, thank you!!!!!

  • @bormanquinonez1109
    @bormanquinonez1109 8 лет назад

    Great content! I like the fact that you are not overly arrogant and/or cocky. You seem genuine and that makes me want to listen. Ehhhh Yeee! Good job big doggie.

  • @MrXalan
    @MrXalan 10 лет назад +66

    Grow and groom your beard and trim your mustache - Prophet Mohammed.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +28

      He said that? Cool!

    • @MrXalan
      @MrXalan 10 лет назад +11

      Yes, sir he did. There are many things in your subject you can look up to. Dress code, appearance, hair styles, way of walking and talking, wearing perfume.
      I really enjoy, study and learn from your videos. It has helped me a lot.

    • @YounanPhoto
      @YounanPhoto 10 лет назад +1

      Xalan Mustafa Right you go to an interview with a beard and no mustache and see how that goes mate.

    • @Reskoe20
      @Reskoe20 10 лет назад +5

      yfzi, I think you misinterpreted the statement Xalan made. It doesnt say shave or remove your mustache. It says trim. A mustache can be well groomed or sloppy too. Like being too long and going over your lips or something like that.

    • @stankina1
      @stankina1 10 лет назад +9

      pbuh

  • @TacticalTimmy12
    @TacticalTimmy12 9 лет назад +22

    As for the hipster, he grows a beard as a fashion accessory. As soon as a new trend comes along he will shave and probably wear matching sox.
    As for the beardsman...Often there is one who's mere mortal body cannot contain the shear epic awesomeness of his soul, and, unable to be contained, his glory bursts and spouts forth through his face in majesty and splendor, where all may bask in the majestic beauty of...the beard.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад +2

      TacticalTimmy12 true!

    • @TacticalTimmy12
      @TacticalTimmy12 9 лет назад +1

      The way I've heard it explained is men is Islam are not commanded to grow beards, they are just commanded not to shave. That is how it was explained by an Islamic scholar.

    • @yunus1338
      @yunus1338 9 лет назад +1

      TacticalTimmy12 Lol, was his name Weisel or Sharon by any chance?! Why the fuck do you guys open your mouth to spew shit and nonsense?! Oh wait, we're on the internet!

    • @lightisgreaterthandarkness
      @lightisgreaterthandarkness 6 лет назад +1

      TacticalTimmy12
      YES... This man gets it!
      Only those who can take the time and effort to properly grow, groom and maintain a real full beard would understand this. Why some people think a beard makes people look homeless I'll never understand. I take more time cleaning and maintaining my beard than most women take on their bathroom habits!
      Also, the only women I am interested in are those who appreciate what a real man looks like. If I go looking for a woman, it will be a woman of virtue who looks further than "skin-deep". I would treat her like a true man would and my faithfulness would never fail. Beauty flows from the inside-out people, NOT the outside-in... If you have "superficial standards" you reap vanity. A relationship like that is bound to end in infidelity...
      For the women out there... Look INSIDE the man and stop judging by outward appearance. Learn to love your man for WHO he IS instead of HOW he LOOKS!
      Peace...

    • @lincolnp
      @lincolnp 6 лет назад

      TacticalTimmy12 spoken truth

  • @scottconger1266
    @scottconger1266 4 года назад +1

    That was alot of good information, thanks for the great video.

  • @andyn6053
    @andyn6053 4 года назад +2

    Lol Antonio, "baby face is rated lowest" but you have it yourself :D

  • @iSlaughterx
    @iSlaughterx 10 лет назад +3

    Salute Antonio, I was nervous watching this one thinking you would troll us beard folk, being a clean shaven chap. Pleasantly surprised at your objectivity. I do wear a goatee or a balbo style of beard, primarily to complement my bald head, short chin and also to indulge in the empowerment it gives.
    To add, I have found that shaving my mustache improves the perception of my beard to the corporate world of how groomed I am.
    Great vid, Cheers!

  • @Alagboriel
    @Alagboriel 10 лет назад +5

    There will always be exception on every rule and I just realized it watching this video, on the part that it talks about sex appeal: I actually dont like beards. I go always for the clean face guys.

    • @russkate88
      @russkate88 5 лет назад

      Erika Fiore I wouldn't be comfortable with facial hair. Unless I'm at home and not going anywhere, I'll always shave.

  • @adrianwhitmire5270
    @adrianwhitmire5270 5 лет назад

    As soon as you said you have an article on artofmanliness I liked and subscribed. Haha!

  • @snortchgortch4253
    @snortchgortch4253 5 лет назад +1

    This man is a perfect gentlemen. Great channel

  • @audrey1053
    @audrey1053 10 лет назад +3

    My husband is my bonsai.
    I can confirm the correlation between full beard and assertiveness. I didn't realize it until I watch this video. But the influence is huge. You can go from baby to grizzly with those!
    Beards FTW!!!

  • @trinarystarsystem
    @trinarystarsystem 10 лет назад +13

    That drawing of a male face looks like Channing Tatum.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      trinarystarsystem Haha! I didn't notice!

    • @maryam1399
      @maryam1399 9 лет назад

      Real Men Real Style You are awesome

    • @Forbelicious
      @Forbelicious 9 лет назад

      That's exactly what I thought.

    • @teakey
      @teakey 9 лет назад

      I sure it is

    • @Pikachunify
      @Pikachunify 9 лет назад

      MY Name IS jibbb

  • @abdurahmanhaji4938
    @abdurahmanhaji4938 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the great talk. I really appreciate it. Have a great day.

  • @timpowell489
    @timpowell489 8 лет назад

    That's cool stuff man! Thanks for sharing!

  • @ps3bandit8
    @ps3bandit8 10 лет назад +11

    this video would be so much more better if it had more visuals $$$$

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад +10

      Travis Evans thanks for the feedback

    • @liljuanito123
      @liljuanito123 9 лет назад

      Yea I was expecting some side by side comparison but I got the point. You can definitely inflict more aggression with a beard.

  • @zibby43
    @zibby43 10 лет назад +3

    This dude is well prepared. Subscribed.

  • @mayhem-method-5450
    @mayhem-method-5450 8 лет назад +1

    Very interesting study!! I'd like you to do one on facial hair color. I'm Irish so my beard is red. I've never given having a beard much thought and would be highly interested in how color affects the appeal or lack.

  • @manfromnantucket9544
    @manfromnantucket9544 8 лет назад +1

    Been rocking the stubble for awhile now. Definitely getting more attention from the ladies vs. clean shaven.

  • @SniperZero
    @SniperZero 10 лет назад +23

    I grew a beard, but i keep it neat and trimmed. Everyone loves it lol

  • @MrAustinValentine
    @MrAustinValentine 8 лет назад +4

    6:07 how old were the females on average who said that men with stubble are more sexy?

  • @GUARDIANPRINCE44
    @GUARDIANPRINCE44 7 лет назад

    Thank you for the awesome video! My Man!

  • @rodrigodrago2138
    @rodrigodrago2138 4 года назад

    Best video on the matter in all of RUclips. Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @manslifemagazine470
    @manslifemagazine470 9 лет назад +3

    Facial Hair can be an asset to your Style if you follow the guidelines........like in this video

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  9 лет назад

      MANSLIFE Magazine thank you! :)

    • @manslifemagazine470
      @manslifemagazine470 9 лет назад

      Like us on face book and we would love to coordinate some material if you like
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  • @UnderFrozenSun
    @UnderFrozenSun 10 лет назад +8

    Psychology behind my beard: too lazy to shave

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  10 лет назад

      Ελλάς ή Τέφρα Haha!

    • @rockandstroll
      @rockandstroll 9 лет назад

      Lol, same here, i can only be bothered to shave twice a week.

    • @argenus
      @argenus 7 лет назад

      I shave like once in 2 weeks (maximum) or even longer time. I just regard a bit, if my mustache is growing over my lips. It is much easier this way for me, too. No need for more, and it is also good for your skin anyway, not to shave too often.

  • @sargenco4174
    @sargenco4174 5 лет назад

    Tuesday next week I got interview it's a good thing I watch you RUclips just learned you open my eyes and it's good advice to give it to us thank you I have beard but then I realize myself about it but thank you

  • @jesuscarrillo3705
    @jesuscarrillo3705 8 лет назад

    very interesting and helpful video it makes a lot of sense and actually some of the points I had experienced myself in the past, like it or not we do live in a society where the way we look the way we get treated.

  • @57HEMIviken
    @57HEMIviken 8 лет назад +18

    coming from a guy with no facial hair......

  • @LaserTSV
    @LaserTSV 8 лет назад +3

    What beers should I take to a job interview? I think a Pabst Blue Ribbon sends a different message than a Heineken. Based on this video I am thinking the 8oz beer is better to bring to an interview instead of a 16oz can. Thanks!

  • @christianwarrior1971
    @christianwarrior1971 8 лет назад

    Good talk. I'm a beard wearing professional and agree with your points.

  • @commandZee
    @commandZee 7 лет назад

    I find the key to rocking stubble is to groom it so it's not misshapen, in the wrong places, and/or patchy. Running a clipper over it so it's all at an even length helps too.

  • @LuffyDaGoat
    @LuffyDaGoat 9 лет назад +3

    The way of the beard. The way of life.

  • @meachy
    @meachy 8 лет назад +8

    Tell the truth man. This whole video was created just so you can show off your "Degrees of Channing Tatum Beards" fanart.

  • @krauser8429
    @krauser8429 8 лет назад +1

    I knew this guy sounded familiar. I love the art of manliness. Great podcast

  • @christopherhauser1376
    @christopherhauser1376 6 лет назад +1

    Free advice on man grooming videos abound, however, Antonio, your brief article including different perspectives on what facial hair signals is worth internalizing. As a fellow who is confident in growing and grooming his first beard, ever, it's a personal journey. Beards won't get boxed in and fade out anytime soon, don't really see that happening. I don't see men without beards as necessarily being in a box either, it's all in how you internalize and present your alpha traits.

  • @ricsmith5730
    @ricsmith5730 8 лет назад +200

    Real men have beards

    • @etet3020
      @etet3020 8 лет назад +37

      real men have sex with other men.

    • @ricsmith5730
      @ricsmith5730 8 лет назад +3

      +Et Et lmao you mad though?

    • @floyddango
      @floyddango 8 лет назад +39

      Real men have hair on their head.

    • @ricsmith5730
      @ricsmith5730 8 лет назад +7

      +floyddango lmao a lot of mad hurt people about beards. you gon be okay?

    • @floyddango
      @floyddango 8 лет назад +2

      Ha, I'm just kidding mate :). Didn't wanna appear aggressive there. Judging by my familys genetics i might be bald in a few years myself.

  • @druboy7201
    @druboy7201 8 лет назад +20

    what do they signal? that i don't want to shave...THAT'S IT!!

    • @druboy7201
      @druboy7201 8 лет назад +1

      oh, and another thing...GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELF!!! IT'S JUST FACIAL HAIR.

    • @HateTheBearsFTWbcYOLO
      @HateTheBearsFTWbcYOLO 8 лет назад

      +Patrick Bertlein being that guys has me rollin in it tbh. beards are great but I'm only 20 so it's kinda out of reach at the moment. I have at least $100 worth of hair product in my cabinet. as much as some people would have you think it's lame or gay to groom yourself I honestly look like I belong in 1920 but I smell nicer and have more modern clothes lol

    • @Chance57
      @Chance57 8 лет назад +1

      How close minded and ignorant of reality. Everything signifies something to someone. People are very prejudice, and that's not a bad thing. People form opinions, like your own opinion they're lazy, without thought. Your view isn't the only one, and far from the most popular obviously.
      Pretending it's all because they're lazy while disregarding the fact that a well maintained beard is by far harder to manage than shaving every morning, or more than likely in your case, once a week.

    • @poiuytrewq11422
      @poiuytrewq11422 7 лет назад

      Patrick Bertlein I'm too lazy too shave. I don't care if it looks like glued pubes, I'm too lazy.

  • @Mr-Tibbster
    @Mr-Tibbster 8 лет назад

    Having a well kept beard I feel can be a sign of someone who is dedicated and takes care in what he does and in himself as its more work to maintain a well kept beard than to just regularly shave.

  • @woogdesigns
    @woogdesigns 7 лет назад

    Awesome video!

  • @TheRay1j
    @TheRay1j 8 лет назад +10

    Be your own boss

  • @TpXThinner
    @TpXThinner 7 лет назад +40

    "A man without a beard is the same as a woman with a beard" (Afghani Proverb)

    • @priya-rj9nc
      @priya-rj9nc 6 лет назад

      merely a teacher osho also said this.. Lol

    • @jacrispy3275
      @jacrispy3275 4 года назад

      Bing bong, that opinion is wrong.

  • @jaythejovial
    @jaythejovial 8 лет назад

    Great stuff. He's a good communicator as well.

  • @jimellison777
    @jimellison777 6 лет назад +1

    GREAT VIDEO......... I've had a full BEARD for almost 50 YEARS!!!! I even worked for the Fire Department & retired recently!!!!!!