Surgical Transition: Underlying Issues, Ethics & Regret (Dutch Documentary - English Narration)

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  • Transgender people are becoming more widely seen and accepted. There are many positive and celebratory stories about medical and surgical transition in the media. What is less commonly seen are the stories of individuals who transition and then realize that it was not the right choice for them after major and irreversible changes have been made to their body.
    In many cases, these regretters originally presented with multiple complex underlying psychological issues - however the affirmation-only model of treating these individuals leads to their gender issues becoming the priority, rather than first addressing such co-morbid conditions as depression, PTSD, anxiety or body dysmorphic disorder among other considerations.
    Stories of regret and detransition should provide important information to doctors and institutions about the ethics of these interventions and the criteria for recommending patients to surgery without first addressing underlying issues. This type of reflection and revision of clinical criteria, protocols and policies does not appear to be happening, however, possibly due to strong pressures made by activist forces both inside and outside of the medical profession.
    In 2018 a Dutch documentary aired which looked into one such story of regret and examined the medical institutions and clinical culture which led to the tragic outcome for this individual. Also examined are the influences of social media and the phenomena of regretters who disappear from the view of clinics and the public due to the irreversible harm they experienced as well as ethical considerations in selecting patients for surgery and even the ethics of allowing euthanasia for patients harmed by this therapeutic pathway.
    The documentary is presented here with english voiceover based on the original captions.
    Originally aired in December 2018
    Original Source: www.bnnvara.nl...

Комментарии • 348

  • @jwhite5396
    @jwhite5396 Год назад +137

    Cutting off healthy functioning body parts to help a mental issue makes no sense.

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад +10

      It represent a huge fall backwards in modern psychiatry, back to the barbaric days of lobotomy.

    • @jwhite5396
      @jwhite5396 Год назад +6

      @@aethylwulfeiii6502 I’m listening to John Uhler LPC and Dr Ann Gilles Ph.D. , unmasking dangers of the trans movement. Good discussion.

    • @KK-mm8ms
      @KK-mm8ms Год назад +7

      I agree. I'm appalled, especially on the pediatric front. It's inconceivable.

    • @paulj0557tonehead
      @paulj0557tonehead Год назад +4

      @@jwhite5396 Thanks for sharing. I think ultimately transgenderism will do away with surgeries. The elephant in the room is most people are more sexually creative with what we were born with than all the negatives that come with body alteration.

    • @jbw53191
      @jbw53191 Год назад +6

      Let's include circumcision

  • @mortagon1451
    @mortagon1451 Год назад +117

    I know this is a very serious topic, but the way the Serbian doctor talked about collecting penises cracked me up. It just shows how utterly bizarre the world of transgender care is. I wonder what else goes on in the medical world that we aren't aware of.

    • @frusia123
      @frusia123 Год назад +36

      Same here. It's not normal. What would be normal is a situation where no surgeon would agree to remove healthy body parts, because that would go against his work ethics. But I guess work ethics isn't something very trendy among plastic surgeons.

    • @goldie862
      @goldie862 Год назад +10

      God gave us a sense of humor to help us deal with difficult things. Don't be hard on yourself for being human 🙂

    • @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
      @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 Год назад

      Feminine men will never become woman

    • @goldie862
      @goldie862 Год назад +2

      @@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 No kind of man will.

    • @mortagon1451
      @mortagon1451 Год назад

      @@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 no man can ever become a woman only a faximile of one. The only humans that can become a woman are girls.

  • @hyacinthlynch843
    @hyacinthlynch843 Год назад +102

    Changing the outer you will not cure the inner you.

    • @margomcdaniel5445
      @margomcdaniel5445 Год назад

      correct

    • @SeekAfterGod
      @SeekAfterGod Год назад +2

      the world always focuses on the outer.

    • @genalee5211
      @genalee5211 Год назад +1

      Bullseye !!!

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад +2

      The best psychiatrist know they have no cures, and all their treatments are somewhat inadequate.

    • @ellyw7201
      @ellyw7201 Год назад

      Hyacinth Lynch, your comment is an excellent one-sentence statement of a critical truth. We need powerful statements like this to counter the trans activists' propaganda.

  • @panninggazz5244
    @panninggazz5244 Год назад +86

    Thank you for bringing us English speaking versions of reports we would not have seen otherwise.

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere Год назад

      Being a Christian (the follower of Christ):
      - calls upon the name of THE LORD: Psalms 145:18 ,
      Psalms 55:16 ,
      Isaiah 55:6
      - coming to repentance,
      Luke 5:32
      - going through new birth (baptized by the SPIRIT and by the water), 1 Corinthians 12:13 , John 3:7
      - coming out from Babylon (the city life), Revelation 18:4
      - flees from fornication: 1 Corinthians 6:18 ,
      1 Thessalonians 4:3
      - analysing their own life and life in general, 2 Corinthians 13:5
      - have their Inner mans eyes and ears open: Mark 8:18 , 2 Chronicles 7:15 , Matthew 13:16
      - Judges - judges - judges, themselves and life in general in: John 7:24
      - seeks out 1st the KINGDOM OF GOD: Matthew 6:33
      - have no worries nor thoughts about what they shall eat or wear: Matthew 6:31 ,
      Luke 12:22 ,
      Matthew 6:25 ,
      Luke 12:29
      - is not a friend with the world, but exposes the wicked: Ephesians 5:11 , Psalms 26:5 , James 4:4
      - goes through the persecution: Luke 6:22 , Matthew 5:44 ,John 15:18 , 1 John 3:13
      - has outworldly peace: John 14:27
      - fears not any man, but has the sobering fear of GOD in him: Matthew 10:28 , 1 John 4:18
      - rightly dividing the word of truth: 2 Timothy 2:15
      - is both, the believer of the word and the doer of it also:
      James 1:23 ,
      Matthew 7:21

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob Год назад +2

      Peachyyoghurtgenderfree has had this up on her channel for a while.

    • @juliefreds4594
      @juliefreds4594 Год назад

      @@MustyUnderboob I love your username!!! 😂

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob Год назад

      @@juliefreds4594 ;) thank you!

  • @NuitHadit
    @NuitHadit Год назад +85

    It must be devastating to be on a receiving end of the treatment that is justified as avoiding suicide, and ends in euthanasia

    • @aidananstey9848
      @aidananstey9848 Год назад +13

      Exulansic covers a lot of horror stories regarding SRS, phalioplasty has especially high complication rates with absolute horror stories of repeated "corrective" surgeries that go on for YEARS, colostomy bags, MULTIPLE catheters, constant leakage of pee, they go in ABLE to pee, with the goal of standing up to pee, and end up NEVER being able to pee again (without catheter and pee bag) and at the end she says "SUICIDE PREVENTED".
      What happened to DO NO HARM?
      I see it as a catch 22, anybody wanting their vagina "Jacko lanterned" (like a pumpkin) and a piece of flesh from their arm fashioned into a fake PENIS sewn in its place is OBVIOUSLY mentally unwell and should not be operated on.

    • @justnataliek
      @justnataliek Год назад +4

      Per a study about people who are post gender affirmation care and still committed suicide states the reasons:
      The psychological autopsy of the completed suicides among transgender persons has revealed that the factors such as break-up of love relationship initiated by the partner (64.3%), serious altercations with family members (14.3%), refusal of gender/sex reassignment by the family members (9.5%), financial problems (9.5%), being diagnosed with HIV positive in the past few days/weeks (2.4%) have triggered the act of suicide among the victims.

    • @ApacheMagic
      @ApacheMagic Год назад +1

      @@justnataliek how do you ask dead people the reasons?

    • @justnataliek
      @justnataliek Год назад +4

      @@ApacheMagic First, thank you for believing that I single handedly produced a scientific study that was not only recognized but published by my peers. Secondly, there are many ways they can get the information for a study of this nature such as interviews & therapy notes from the individual, interviews with the family, su*cide notes, videos or social media posts from the person. In one recently I saw from the Netherlands, the person was seeking out physician assisted su*cide and had a file that was about 8 inches thick that had to be reviewed by five separate doctors. There are many ways to get this information. Also De-transitioniers have given a ton of information about how they felt post surgically. But if you don’t believe me, Google how a suc*de study is conducted. Because they have done them for other reasons and topics before.

  • @maryjo3550
    @maryjo3550 Год назад +74

    Its amazes me that doctors do these operations! There like dr Frankenstein!

    • @maryjo3550
      @maryjo3550 Год назад +14

      @@Serendipity-gj2me IThink the whole thing is barbaric! It should be criminal.

    • @Serendipity-gj2me
      @Serendipity-gj2me Год назад

      These doctors don't care. They're creating patients for life and taking advantage of anyone with mental issues.

    • @mortagon1451
      @mortagon1451 Год назад +20

      Whatever happened to "do no harm"? Cutting off healthy bodyparts isn't considered doing harm? I have no idea how these sort of procedures are accepted by the medical community. I guess there's a lot of money in it.

    • @MariaTorres-hc5uq
      @MariaTorres-hc5uq Год назад +2

      I would call it more Dr Mengele like. Frankenstein was fictional. This is, unfortunately, real.

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 Год назад

      @@mortagon1451 Doctors stopped taking that Hippocratic Oath. Now they take a variety o other oaths, many of which do NOT include "Do no harm."

  • @heavenlymilano
    @heavenlymilano Год назад +101

    I am so sorry for Patrick :(( Dear Patrick, please keep trying. Don't give up. Life is much more than our gender. Please find other joys in life💓

    • @laikanbarth
      @laikanbarth Год назад +8

      I agree. Patrick will have to just come to terms with it since there is no going back. I hope he makes peace with the past and does not let it destroy his future happiness.

    • @goldie862
      @goldie862 Год назад +9

      I am so tempted to say something similar but how "easy" it is for us, who don't have this particular problem, to say this. But either way, I send my very best to Patrick and all who have been through something similar. I'm afraid we're not going to see the whole havoc for many years. Also, I'm not one who normally cries "sue their asses off", but this is such a clear case, with such devastating results, that I hope he does exactly that.

    • @schiffelers3944
      @schiffelers3944 Год назад +8

      You do realize Patrick has a lot of problems psychologically, not just because of his mistake/regrets.
      The way you talk doesn't sound like you understand this part also explained in the Dutch documentary, his psychology.
      If he really wanted to die - he could, euthanasia and suicide... People regret nose jobs and BBL - but we don't have the same conversations here. He also could get a re-reassignment, but that would also not fix his personal and psychological problems. He wasn't trans to begins with!

    • @aidananstey9848
      @aidananstey9848 Год назад

      @@schiffelers3944 Oh, the old "true trans" arguement.
      You do realise that it makes NO difference if a person is TRUELY trans or not, doctors should NEVER be allowed to mutilate someone's genitals, because they are selling a LIE, you can never be that which you are not.
      Not to mention the FtM phalioplasty is pure Frankensteinery, full of guaranteed failure and medical complications, and anyone wanting this is CLEALY mentally ill.

    • @JensAWorkInProgress
      @JensAWorkInProgress Год назад

      I feel so sorry for Patrick.. it ‘s so hard to live and enjoy life when you're in constant pain. I wish him happiness still :(

  • @Awebreeze-zm3st
    @Awebreeze-zm3st Год назад +155

    It's frightening how many parents are pushing this confusion on their children. These documentaries are so important. With some doctors in this field it's about money and not the person.

    • @michellezoske7581
      @michellezoske7581 Год назад

      Yes it is

    • @lbrowning2543
      @lbrowning2543 Год назад +7

      @@michellezoske7581 the kids are pressuring parents as well. I know some parents who went through horrible pressure from kids and others. It’s trendy in schools, and they don’t take no for an answer.

    • @alexispaterson814
      @alexispaterson814 Год назад +5

      A lot of the children are testing their boundaries asking if the parents love them enough to say No. They are all feeding off each other that is why they all say the same arguments. I'm a grandmother so I've had alsorts Verbals, tantrums from my own 3 Children.

    • @sheilasmith7779
      @sheilasmith7779 Год назад

      Awe breeze 0353: Your comment,
      "Parents pushing this...." is not true. Parents rely on the "experts," opinions on their children's behavior, just as humans relied on the experts regarding Covid death risks, masks, and the efficacy of lockdowns and vaccines.
      Let's be accurate and fair in our finger-pointing or blame.

    • @algazac
      @algazac Год назад

      Couldn’t agree more.

  • @frusia123
    @frusia123 Год назад +44

    I hope Patrick gets real help that he deserves. After all this, they offer him euthanasia?? The doctors, psychiatrists and surgeons need to be held responsible. The legislators who allowed a removal of healthy organs, need to be held responsible too.

    • @laikanbarth
      @laikanbarth Год назад +1

      He should sue the doctors and spend his time speaking out against these barbaric practices and surgeries. It will give meaning to his life and help so many others who are struggling. Don’t you just love how the doctors put all the blame on Patrick?? Patrick who they knew was severely mentally ill. They are the professionals so why didn’t they make him wait to see if this mindset he had would have passed? He could’ve been in the middle of a maniac episode or had lost all sense of reality but instead they just rush to put him on hormones and cut off his body parts. It’s so crazy to me and certainly sounds like malpractice. These patients need to start suing the crap out of these doctors. Then when the insurance companies get tired of paying out these huge settlements they will stop covering these surgeons and surgeons can’t practice medicine without malpractice insurance in America.

  • @pathacker4963
    @pathacker4963 Год назад +22

    Hair, makeup and clothes don’t make you something you are not. And surgery will never accomplish it either.
    Sterility and lack of sexual pleasure can’t possibly solve anything. Why do we now think it can?

    • @subliteral1380
      @subliteral1380 Год назад

      I'm not one for conspiracy theories, but I can't help but notice that transitioning effectively removes gay people from society (as well as the gene pool). This is exactly how they eliminated homosexuals in Iran...

  • @sheilasmith7779
    @sheilasmith7779 Год назад +20

    The trans medical community has violated a basic rule of diagnosis determination. And that is the "rule out," all other possibilities of other diagnoses.
    The medical participants have NO excuse.
    Shame on them!

    • @tonyhoffman3309
      @tonyhoffman3309 11 месяцев назад

      What is the criteria for ruling transition procedures in? Surely the belief one is in the wrong body is always a delusional one and indicative of mental distress and vulnerability

  • @insidiousmischka
    @insidiousmischka Год назад +25

    How can anyone, who is claiming that being called 'she' and being called the name they were given at birth is 'murdering them,' be taken seriously and not placed immediately in a straight jacket and whipped away into a ward? This girl needs some serious therapy and perhaps even medicating, not having her body butchered. This is absolutely mind boggling.

  • @michellehudson6865
    @michellehudson6865 Год назад +57

    Abigail Shrier & Helen Joyce. Two masterpieces on this subject.

    • @Sophie20237
      @Sophie20237 Год назад +2

      Definitely, and Kathleen Stock too

  • @shirleyross6037
    @shirleyross6037 Год назад +33

    The main issue is encouraging young children and teens to change their genders. Yet they have to wait until maturity for many items ( military service, any other medical procedures, marriage). Age causes maturity, waiting until they can determine whether it’s really what they want. Our brain is still developing for such a Monumental decision.

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад +1

      Age also causes loss of innocence. The adults sculpting these barbaric procedures are not innocent.

  • @lorendjones
    @lorendjones Год назад +11

    Surgical mutilations to treat a mental disorder should be criminal.

  • @goldie862
    @goldie862 Год назад +66

    Jordan Peterson has said that the literature has been quite clear for many years that for nearly 90% of these younger sufferers, the problem works itself out by the age of 19 or so.

    • @skeptigal2785
      @skeptigal2785 Год назад +4

      At puberty, actually, if left alone.

    • @uswruser7996
      @uswruser7996 Год назад

      It's not true, sorry

    • @goldie862
      @goldie862 Год назад +3

      @@uswruser7996 It's not true ALL of the time but the research is long established and well established that it is in fact true.

    • @uswruser7996
      @uswruser7996 Год назад +1

      @@goldie862 this is fact : It's a minority, that's always forgotten
      Young people face the inner abyss - I know what I'm talking about
      Only recently, when countless women wanted to become men and were frustrated by the result, did it become widespread in the media
      It is the fate of these unbalanced women who cannot come to terms with their female roles as recipients and birthers
      They don't have the right to force real transsexuals to take on a role they hate deeply....
      At 90% is a matter of life or death..
      They happily take full responsibility like I did 41 years ago

    • @upnorth2421
      @upnorth2421 Год назад

      Peterson is inaccurate as he always is. Desisting rate is very difficult to study. Figures that are estimated are around 60%

  • @joyceyoungblood7927
    @joyceyoungblood7927 Год назад +10

    What a racket. ..."Let us cut it all off and save it....store it and then we can .....put it on someone else" ! Look at how much money we can make off these people !

  • @mammothworks
    @mammothworks Год назад +5

    Self-inflicted eugenics...never would've guessed it'd become anything much less 'trendy'..everyone wants to be an 'influencer' and self mutilation seems to be the quickest way to get internet infamy.

  • @laikanbarth
    @laikanbarth Год назад +24

    These doctors know they are dealing with mentally ill people then act like they are surprised when a person has regrets. Gender dysmorphia in itself is classified as a mental disorder and if a psychiatrist cannot determine the difference between someone having a manic episode or some other kind of break with reality and genuine body dysmorphia then how can the patient decipher between the two? There needs to be a consensus between medical professionals instead of just doing what the patient wants them to do. In what other medical practice can a patient come into a doctors office and tell them what their own treatment should be? They can tell a doctor but that doesn’t mean the doctor will agree. In these transgender clinics and hospitals it seems the doctors just agree to whatever diagnosis the patient wants to give themselves and their own treatment and surgeries. It sounds ludicrous when you actually think about it. Imagine a patient coming into a doctors office with anorexia and demanding that the doctor give them a Sleeve Gastroplasty? Or someone that has Body Integrity Disorder and a doctor cutting off their healthy limbs. Sounds insane doesn’t it?? Well, this is exactly what these doctors are doing to patients and people are celebrating it. I’m not a psychic but I can see in the future a lot more people coming forward with regrets. I think there are probably more people right now then these doctors want to admit to. I feel sorry for these people. I’ve heard of young people being told on forums that if they are feeling depressed or have anxiety it might be gender dysmorphia and that surgery and hormones will cure depression. Of course these people will feel duped and ashamed and when anyone does come forward to tell their story the trans activist brutally go after them and shame them and guilt them into staying quiet. The bravest thing you can do in this culture of craziness is to speak out. Don’t let other people go through what you went through. Having true body dysmorphia is very rare and I believe that there are really people who have this illness and need treated but doctors also know that gender dysmorphia is very rare so seeing a significant spike in numbers like this should have given them pause. They should have waited to see what was really happening in our culture instead of jumping on the trend just to make a lot of money. They are ruining people’s lives. They are tearing out and cutting off healthy organs. They will gladly give these young people a lifetime of pain to line their own pockets and when the 💩 finally hits the fan and I promise you it will eventually hit the fan they will make all kinds of excuses and justify their reasons for doing what they have done but make no mistake it was all about the money for them. They are no better than any other horrible doctor that did “research” and experiments on healthy people in our past. We look on them as horrible people now.

    • @laikanbarth
      @laikanbarth Год назад +5

      Btw, thank you for making this video. I know it must be tough in today’s climate. It was done really well and I shouldn’t generalize all doctors. I know there are some that disagree. I’m just angry and annoyed at the ones who just want to line their pockets. It’s not all doctors. I’m angry for the young people who are being hurt, medicalized for life and sterilized.

    • @immasehgemini496
      @immasehgemini496 Год назад

      My sentiments exactly, the illness is of the mind and not the body

    • @dreamsandshadows582
      @dreamsandshadows582 Год назад

      The problem is that lots of people are making lots of money in the medical field with this trans movement. And the Media is bought and paid for by the activists.

  • @DeathValleyDazed
    @DeathValleyDazed Год назад +49

    This series is in depth, timely, sensitive and should have thousands more views. Just when I think I’ve got a grasp of the issues more information arrives. Thank you Jonathan!

    • @laikanbarth
      @laikanbarth Год назад +6

      They did a really good job.

    • @catatetherat5138
      @catatetherat5138 Год назад

      Cut this nuts off no f##king way no matter what I feel like. 😵😵😵

  • @britinokinawa
    @britinokinawa Год назад +6

    "After years of therapy, Patrick became hopeless." He applied for euthenasia. Doesn't say much for psychiatry, does it? They really don't have a clue what they are doing.

  • @markshepperson3603
    @markshepperson3603 Год назад +10

    The trans movement is vile. They even turn on their own ‘kind’ after regret.

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад +1

      Exactly. They encourage you to cut off all your friends and family if they don't fully agree with your t identity and lifestyle, they tell you they will be your "chosen family", until you step out of line even a tiny bit. Then you become outgroup and will have no one left. And no way would I take a former friend or partner back when they've cut me out of their life for questioning their new identity when they first came out.

    • @markshepperson3603
      @markshepperson3603 Год назад

      @@billmartins5545 classic cult control. Will destroy itself no problem.

  • @877swissmiss
    @877swissmiss Год назад +18

    I‘m relieved that there still are some concerned caring psychiatrists who get that correlation! ( Many mental issues as underlying disorders in „transpeople“ who are not trans but think they can enter the „happy world of trans“ and all other suffering will be gone. That‘s how it‘s often presented and that‘s very dangerous for vulnerable people as we can see. Why are people so against thoroughly exploring, questioning, diagnosing ?!
    Those „real trans“ should be happy about it if they are so sure about themselves bc it will free the way for them to get treatment, so what‘s the problem. Don‘t you want people to be happy? Do you feel better when many suffer from the overly affirming care? People who think they are trans because they hear about that as it were the only cause for feeling unwell and uneasy in body&mind will be misdiagnosed in huge numbers if we don‘t change the system NOW!
    What I also think needs to change: Every patient who is a candidate for surgeries ( SRS) has to be informed that they never will have real functioning organs and that there are huge health risks. They need to be told that they will never feel physically and sexually like people of the other sex. It‘s an imitation and not a good one bc there‘s no technology that could offer it at this point. That‘s reality and if someone still likes to go along, have surgery, they at least know a bit better what they are going to deal with. It‘s only fair.
    For Patrick I feel very sorry. How could that happen when he wasn‘t even diagnosed as trans and obviously had many other issues mentally?! That is horrible. I‘m worried that happens a lot these days. These are real people, not „cases“, please dr‘s and therapists, be aware of that!!
    Thank you to the caring psychiatrist!

  • @mammothworks
    @mammothworks Год назад +5

    Her old name was "murdering" him? I think the kid needs a reality check of what murder actually is..and its not hurt feelings..

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад

      Yeah Tiuri is clearly heavily influenced by social media.

  • @skeptigal2785
    @skeptigal2785 Год назад +14

    It's interesting that two say they had to stop hormone treatment because they gained between 30-50 pounds on it... Jazz Jennings has gained over 100 pounds and is clearly depressed, yet I don't see anyone suggesting stopping or detransitioning?

  • @ARenewedmind
    @ARenewedmind Год назад +17

    My heart goes out to Patrick and others like him. I pray that Patrick will accept the love that God has for him and allow Jesus Christ to make him a new person from the inside out. I was in tears when I heard he has opted for euthenasia... Please don't do it Patrick! Your life is precious and you were created for a purpose. Give Jesus your life and you will see! Praying for you.

  • @DennisNeijmeijer
    @DennisNeijmeijer Год назад +11

    Hiding the fact you're trans to prevent people from not wanting a sexual relationship with you, IS WRONG! Sex that happens in this situation is sex without proper consent and it's a crime.

    • @yvonnedyer5371
      @yvonnedyer5371 Год назад

      A sociopath

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад +3

      Trust me, we all know. It’s like the uncanny valley. There is always the marks of the surgeons “work”.

    • @emelson
      @emelson Год назад

      In welk land? Waar is dit een crime? Gaat toch om de persoon. Je gaat toch niet zomaar met iemand het bed in. Alleen als je diegene al wel enigszins leuk vond.

    • @autumn111155551
      @autumn111155551 Год назад

      @@emelson I think the trans person should be upfront about being trans from the get-go though

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад

      In the UK it is indeed a crime. It's called rape by deception.

  • @davidgillette7109
    @davidgillette7109 Год назад +7

    Dr. Mengele would have been proud.

  • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
    @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Год назад +26

    I just saw comment from a 70 year old who said the surgery was 50 years ago, said he completely regrets, is detransitioning.

  • @sharonc9259
    @sharonc9259 Год назад +3

    Drs Mengele worldwide.

  • @abbiejones1843
    @abbiejones1843 Год назад +7

    I am transgender female and had surgery and never been happier. In my life . But you got to do transactioning for the right reasons and so many don't and find out they have made a big mistake. And it's to late. So thinnk carefully. But for me personally it's the best I ever did.

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад

      So you are a male? Stay out of female-only spaces.

    • @KatMoore-ih6mw
      @KatMoore-ih6mw Месяц назад

      How can making an aesthetic change to your body ever be the best thing you ever did for it?

  • @Whatsyournarrative
    @Whatsyournarrative Год назад +5

    So here in the Netherlands, it is impossible to get be referred to the hospital for minor issues. You are seen by the Huisarts, bur these people are being given gender realignment willy-nilly? Gosh!

  • @brianeduardo1234
    @brianeduardo1234 Год назад +9

    My goodness what are the medics doing - is part of their oath not to do harm? The world will regret this

  • @ЕленаЛазарова-и2л
    @ЕленаЛазарова-и2л Год назад +3

    The way this surgeon talks about this topic is scary.

  • @wt460
    @wt460 Год назад +47

    I’m so sorry for your regret. That said, if you didn’t get the surgery would you have reacted like almost every other trans-wannabe and called the doctor transphobic? Would you have also tried to destroy the doctors’ practice because he wouldn’t give you what you wanted. It seems like every time a reasonable person advises to wait - the childish trans-impatience they try to destroy the doctor(s). This leaves me with little or more likely no sympathy for the problems that could have been prevented if they had actually taken the doctors orders. Good luck my friend…

    • @MrLibtard
      @MrLibtard Год назад +17

      My ex use to threaten suicide every time I left her and shocker, she's still alive.

    • @BadcatV
      @BadcatV Год назад

      Heck, no - most of the sycophantic victims of trans affirming medicine are TERRIFIED of upsetting their surgeons - they'll
      have no-one to do the corrective surgeries!

    • @MrLibtard
      @MrLibtard Год назад

      @@BadcatV
      You can't correct it, once you get your genitals mutilated there's no way back

    • @Gingerblaze
      @Gingerblaze Год назад +8

      For some patients seeking "affirming" surgeries, and their surgeons it seems that one or both are both suffering from narcissitic personality disorder. The patient seeks the affirmation of the medical team and the medical professional seeks the affirmation from the patient that his surgical prowess is the superb solution. It is problematic when either patient or surgeon is NOT narcissitic or sociopathic. It seems inevitable that people will be harmed.
      The idea that the medical establishment is selling is ultimately a false one and for this reason, it appears there are more surgeons and medical doctors suffering from this trait than the other way around. Those seem to be the ones directing the current guidelines from above.

    • @Gingerblaze
      @Gingerblaze Год назад

      Gay rights activists fought for the right to tell the truth about themselves. Trans rights activists and the medical teams affirming them, via these treatments and surgeries, are fighting for the "right" to lie about themselves and to force everyone else to lie to them as well.

  • @tracymoore6821
    @tracymoore6821 Год назад +7

    Follow the money.

  • @mirellaczajkowska-turek5819
    @mirellaczajkowska-turek5819 Год назад +6

    Everyone with gender dysphoria should be psychiatrically examined. Juvenile surgery should be banned! You must be old enough to get a driver's license, buy alcohol or cigarettes or to get married, but you can change sex as a child. The consequences are irreversible. For me, it's a crime

    • @alisonf6478
      @alisonf6478 Год назад

      Guess what? People with gender dysphoria ARE examined by mental and medical health professionals.

  • @albertschulz5575
    @albertschulz5575 Год назад +3

    Conchita Wurst - the bearded singer in the golden dress - isn't trans though. He's more of a drag queen and trolling closed-minded gender stereotypes. 😂 It's no secret he lives as a gay man.

  • @Mrs.TJTaylor
    @Mrs.TJTaylor Год назад +23

    No Patrick! Don’t do this. Try one last thing. Listen to Jordan Peterson and his daughter Mikhalia. Listen to Dr. Chris Palmer. Try this one last intervention. I see your suffering and I hate it, but you’re a wonderful soul and the world needs you here. Please.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Год назад +4

      And try out somatic movement work, such as Feldenkrais physical therapy. They all seem so unhappy, a decade out.

  • @lovepeaceempathy6698
    @lovepeaceempathy6698 Год назад +5

    How is Patrick doing now? I really hope he recovers. He is such a beautiful man.

  • @deborahvretis3195
    @deborahvretis3195 Год назад +6

    This is extremely sad. My heart breaks for them. Have we lost our minds?

  • @sl-yn5qz
    @sl-yn5qz Год назад +16

    Thank you for your posts on transgender issues. 🙏

  • @mammothworks
    @mammothworks Год назад +4

    If a patient went to a doctor and said, "I dream that I shouldn't have any legs, I want to amputate my legs, I want to be a paraplegic." Used to, the doctor would refuse a patients wishes that would cause harm, be detrimental to their health, and get them psychiatric help..not anymore. Forget the "shall first do no harm" oath..Now the oath is only to money. "Shall first make money and make life long patients for more money"...

  • @therealdeal3672
    @therealdeal3672 Год назад +12

    I disagree with the idea of assisted suicide for depressed people. As a depressed person I don't need any encouragement in that direction. I think that's criminal. A dear friend of mine lives in the Netherlands who suffers from Parkinson's disease. He plans on taking advantage of euthanasia when he's tired of dealing with his disease progression. He is depressed too, but thankfully he hasn't taken that route for depression.

    • @y2ksurvivor
      @y2ksurvivor Год назад +6

      He had sexual reassignment surgery. The side effects of this butchery are painful and difficult to live with. I think it's a bit more complex than depression. Read up on these surgeries and the lifelong physical suffering they experience, you might then understand why someone would want to self delete.

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад +1

      Some people have such severe and persistent depression that doesn't respond to medication or any of the other treatments available. They should try psilocybin though, because that seems to help in some of those cases but is still taboo. But it's cruel to not help someone end it when they've been living in hell for decades without a light at the end of the tunnel. It's very sad but these people clearly have something wrong with them that can't be fixed at this point.

  • @904daniela
    @904daniela Год назад +15

    Life is a gift. Don't throw it away. :(

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад

      The ability to create life with fun adult activities is also one too, don’t let some sad excuse for a doctor scrape it away.

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 Год назад

      Life is like a box of chocolates -- once it's been opened, it's non-returnable. 😞
      People really need to THINK before they run the risk of creating a child. Because for many of us, life is a carelessly-bestowed and unwanted and non-returnable "gift" for which we never asked, but now are stuck with. Most countries don't offer euthanasia, you know?

  • @CognitiveDiscussion
    @CognitiveDiscussion Год назад +2

    Children are the most vulnerable group in society. Regardless if you’re a man or a woman, puberty is essential for adulthood. Not just sexual reproduction, but vertical growth, bone density, lung capacity, brain chemistry, organ growth, etc.
    Let’s talk about hormone consumption from teen to adulthood. There are no studies showing long term consequences of hormone therapy when taken by the opposite sex.

  • @stephenhussey4918
    @stephenhussey4918 Год назад +5

    A medical ethicist suggesting that the patient bears co-responsibility for his mis-treatment? Who are the professionals in this situation? "Affirmative care" which is what overturned Patrick's 1999 assessment, is an abandonment of the admittedly difficult work of critical professional judgment. "Doctors" who cling to the metric of affirmative care clearly, and routinely, violate the Hippocratic oath, to do no harm, and then attack doctors, like Joost A Campo, who point out the egregious failures of their practices.

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад

      Tranny stuff is just very violent self harm with extra steps.

  • @inekeaknoeff7761
    @inekeaknoeff7761 Год назад +4

    And these operations with the procedure goes on and on..... Sponsored by the government..... And then make regular healthinsurance for others unpayable......so we all sponsor the way this goes.

  • @craigime
    @craigime Год назад +3

    i really hope Patrick changes his mind and chooses to live. this is terrible

  • @kham6006
    @kham6006 Год назад +6

    Patrick -people have failed you , please don’t let them win -I pray for you - life is not easy -I hope you are alive 🙏🏻

  • @autumn111155551
    @autumn111155551 Год назад +2

    Instead of that “general” genitalia organ bank that the Serbian doctor mentioned, maybe people undergoing a sex change should have the option to freeze their own genital organs, with their own ID attached to it. That way, if they regret the surgery, they could have their own organs put back again, instead of some rando’s organs lol

  • @dianekrstulovich1582
    @dianekrstulovich1582 Год назад +3

    Trans crippled in the future when their bones dissolve

  • @ARenewedmind
    @ARenewedmind Год назад +5

    A thought: Can Patrick not take the hospital and the medical team to court and eue for compensation because no one told him that his evaluation showed he was not transgender? Surely he should be compensated?

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад +2

      He doesn’t live in America. In America you can sue a ham sandwich. Also none of these hormones are approved or even marketed for these purposes.

  • @christie4004
    @christie4004 Год назад +10

    Excellent work.

  • @algazac
    @algazac Год назад +5

    Regrets are NOT rare because I have seen many videos where it shows just the opposite.

    • @upnorth2421
      @upnorth2421 Год назад +3

      In the so-called old school transitioning regrets were indeed rare and those numbers are often used in wrong context.
      Transition used to take years, involve psychotherapy and thorough clinical evaluation -> decent medical process with adults, less regret.

    • @algazac
      @algazac Год назад +2

      @@upnorth2421 Yes, the regrets are usually when they do it in childhood; less regrets when done as adults, according to the videos I have seen.

  • @gaylecheung3087
    @gaylecheung3087 Год назад +4

    And you’re surprised compare the assignment surgery to a car. You can return it. You can resell it once a sex change your sex orientation physically there’s no changing it back.

  • @davidgillette7109
    @davidgillette7109 Год назад +2

    The psychiatrist will just bury the mistake. Some MD will also charge for the suicide.

  • @jerrybrickley2115
    @jerrybrickley2115 Год назад +2

    Pretty sick medical system.
    Dr. to patient: "You're depressed, so you're okayed, by us, for us, to kill you."

  • @redremi83
    @redremi83 Год назад +6

    In Europe these cases are generally rare since the screening takes 1 year in most countries. Not anything like the US. We do not do gender affirming care here (yet). Also sex operations are getting more rare. Gender psychology has come quite a long way. As long as we keep the activists out of it. BPD should be a HUGE red flag with the identity problems and suicidality (not due to gender dysphoria) especially in young females, and there should be attention for paraphilia's as autogynephilia in grown men, which can be addressed by occasionally wearing women clothes. I do no understand how the doctor missed this.

    • @nocontabanconlasmadres4457
      @nocontabanconlasmadres4457 Год назад +2

      Europe? Which country do you mean? Here in Spain we have this affirming care in most autonomies of the country. Schools are using the chosen name of the child without informing the parents….

    • @redremi83
      @redremi83 Год назад

      @@nocontabanconlasmadres4457 Belgium...too bad Spain has taken that route

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob Год назад +1

      ​@@redremi83 If you don't think it's this bad everywhere you are very misguided.

  • @Lolly1122dooda
    @Lolly1122dooda Год назад +2

    The worst thing I heard in the whole documentary was that he has been approved for euthanasia. What a horrible idea.

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад

      Patrick is severely mentally ill and already had these issues before he transitioned. He now has pain and discomfort in his pelvic area due to the vaginoplasty surgery that they can't fix/he's not willing to risk it because it could get even worse. I honestly think that he would still be severely mentally ill had he not gone through transition, but at least he wouldn't have had the medical damage/trauma and the psychiatric care he got for transition could have instead been used to work on his real issues.

  • @armidadesumala8931
    @armidadesumala8931 Год назад +1

    Life is very hard sometimes, but with God's grace, there is hope and will to be joyful and happy. Seek and reach out to God, whatever happens. He is the answer to all our problems if only you knew... just be truthful and be patient ...

  • @monikamichaelis-iw3to
    @monikamichaelis-iw3to Год назад +1

    I could not care less about what they cut off or add to their bodies. They must be masochistic to maim their body.

  • @Historyprops
    @Historyprops Год назад +2

    Just in wow about the transgender people to lay their cases open!

  • @anonleeleichner3915
    @anonleeleichner3915 Год назад +2

    How did we end up here?

  • @ytsm
    @ytsm Год назад +4

    Hey, TOTAS do you do the narration yourself? It's really good.

  • @EmiraXX
    @EmiraXX Год назад +2

    @08:13 what the hell are these psychiatrists getting paid for??

  • @raptoress6131
    @raptoress6131 Год назад +4

    Bottom surgeries should just be banned. Therapy is the only sensible solution for that.

    • @michellezoske7581
      @michellezoske7581 Год назад

      Yes

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад +2

      They are orchiectomies, phalloplasties, and oopjerectimies and hysterectomies, on healthy organs. Not “bottom” surgeries.

    • @TheSuperHarrygeorge
      @TheSuperHarrygeorge Год назад

      @@aethylwulfeiii6502 generally those who under go such surgeries refer to it as bottom surgery. Those are medical terms which you have written and rarely used outside of medical circles.

  • @waynemcauliffe2362
    @waynemcauliffe2362 Год назад +3

    More madness

  • @AmyS197
    @AmyS197 Год назад +2

    Please don't do it Patrick! There is a plan for you & a purpose.

  • @maisie6904
    @maisie6904 Год назад +2

    This is so fecked up - I’m so sad for these individuals 😢

  • @Mollydev64
    @Mollydev64 Месяц назад

    people who don't want surgery don't get surgery. people who don't want to transition don't transition. this is a purely fabricated conflict and a fruitless discussion.

  • @Mrs.TJTaylor
    @Mrs.TJTaylor Год назад +13

    I wouldn’t let a kid of mine get a tattoo, much less take hormones or remove or add body parts. They’d need to have a fully developed healthy brain and body before making those kinds of decisions and that doesn’t happen until a person is in their early 20’s. Then, if he/she wanted to transition, I’d do everything in my power to help. And I have no issue with any kid living as another gender.

    • @andydufresne5297
      @andydufresne5297 Год назад +6

      I hope you don't live in the U.S. or send your kids to public schools. There's a concerted effort by U.S.. schools and the healthcare system to provide what they euphemistically call "gender affirming care" for young people who claim to be transgender. (It's not clear to me what credentials or experience public school counselors and other school staffers have that qualifies them to diagnose a teen or young 20s student who is unhappy with her life/body as "transgender" and not, say, troubled by other issues that have nothing to do with transgenderism.)
      For example, in my state, there is an effort to withhold from parents that their minor female children in school are binding their breasts or involved in other potentially unhealthy practices, in the name of "gender affirmation". (In my state, a public school staff member recently wanted to know if parents had to be notified that their "transgender" daughter was binding her breasts _if_ that daughter fainted in PE or music class.) In other states, teens, even minor teens, can receive services that will permit them to start taking hormones--or hormone blockers--without parental consent.

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 Год назад +2

      Homeschool 🙏

  • @hydraxisfrimon9785
    @hydraxisfrimon9785 Год назад +6

    Terrifying that euthanasia is available for unhappiness!!! Have psychiatrists and related professionals thrown in the towel on helping depressed/traumatised/deluded people or are they just being denied access/the language to discuss these problems? Is so-called "transphobia" deemed such a crime that it is denying the distressed a greater number of approaches to help them?

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Год назад

      Honestly most psychiatrists know the rooms in their tool back are basically band aids on broken bones, with discovery of diseases like anti nmda Receptor encephalitis there was some hope. But now this tranny stuff retreats a slip backwards.

  • @michalplatek2061
    @michalplatek2061 Год назад

    This was .. wow.
    So.. at the very end.... am I to understand that according to Gert Bakker, Patrick is not "ready" for de-transition surgery, "now;" but that he does have approval for euthanasia?

  • @Huntngame
    @Huntngame Год назад +1

    Patrick…. No… there is hope.

  • @nawgra8455
    @nawgra8455 Год назад +1

    This is crazy.

  • @nonayobiznez5311
    @nonayobiznez5311 Год назад +1

    Legalized murder is even worse ... good Lord.

  • @paulj0557tonehead
    @paulj0557tonehead Год назад +1

    I have Dissociative Identity Disorder. Fortunately I have control over my 6 alters and few are even aware I have it. However I know when someone is out. "I" is the sentry, always present, but not my core being. My core being, or the 'original' has at times been absent. Once for nearly two years. It's my observation that some transitioners might suffer from complete dissociation of an undiagnosed DID alter. As far as children go, I'm fully against surgery! You know why! Kids don't know if they are gay until puberty!

    • @CaseyJohn-ki8eo
      @CaseyJohn-ki8eo Год назад

      You have demons. You need to come to the Lord and be baptized. God bless ☦️

  • @sarada3162
    @sarada3162 Год назад +1

    how come Tiyuri on the canal boat doesnt have severe acne from taking testosterone ???

  • @ACB2K
    @ACB2K Год назад +1

    Indoctrination and delusion.

  • @megsley
    @megsley Год назад

    14:47 its very telling this person thought they didn't need to go thru the proper counseling over time because it was "so obvious".

  • @ACB2K
    @ACB2K Год назад +1

    How come mothers are so naive?

  • @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
    @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 2 месяца назад

    Femininity in males needs acceptance not dangerous surgery

  • @hhuodod2209
    @hhuodod2209 Год назад

    Lol. People decided to play life in nightmare mode and are now upset its hard to play the game x

  • @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894
    @hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894 2 месяца назад

    Primary sex characteristics are more important than secondary

  • @ACB2K
    @ACB2K Год назад +1

    using. Confidence , fake self love.

  • @ioannaperdikidou1221
    @ioannaperdikidou1221 Год назад

    We are living in a very confusing times. Who is in his right mind that throws away his penis.

  • @AztlanOz
    @AztlanOz Год назад +1

    It’s a catastrophe, end it now

  • @Thatsbannanas-d8c
    @Thatsbannanas-d8c Год назад +1

    This is one screwed up planet.

  • @gillmahoney4742
    @gillmahoney4742 Год назад

    Id ask a male did you play with dolls? Like pink a lot, like dresses and pretty things, dislike toys normwlly associated with boys. I never hear that these questions are asked.

    • @mjones8170
      @mjones8170 Год назад

      Are you wanting to turn gay boys into transexuals, because that's what those questions would do.

  • @Tracey..H
    @Tracey..H Год назад

    These drs think they’re God?

  • @pabs5270
    @pabs5270 Год назад

    The world has gone MAD

  • @ioannaperdikidou1221
    @ioannaperdikidou1221 Год назад

    Above souls are money.

  • @tommyorange4270
    @tommyorange4270 Год назад

    Some transition to align physical appearance with behaviour, preferences and thought process. They probably understand their chromosomal sex won't change, but the transition will at least alleviate their gender dysphoria.
    Some transition hoping to become a woman in the process. :(
    I guess they are actually looking for a fix to an underlaying problem. Sooner or later they will feel regret. Must be awful to come to terms with this.. Wish all detransitioners the best and hope those considering to transition, carefully evaluate their options.

  • @OGMann
    @OGMann Год назад

    Critical judgement is compassion and mercy. A rush to affirmation deprives patients of time to think and reason hopefully using the observations of truly compassionate people experienced and skilled in helping patients determine a deeper truth about themselves. $$$$

  • @veronicabatteham9864
    @veronicabatteham9864 Год назад

    Isn't it asking the impossible ,to make a rational decision ,when dealing with insanity

  • @zgobermn6895
    @zgobermn6895 Год назад +1

    This is a must see!

  • @JudelovesRiver12
    @JudelovesRiver12 Год назад

    My heart breaks for Patrick 💔 this is a crime against humanity.

  • @colleenvozella4401
    @colleenvozella4401 Год назад +1

    Who pays for all this surgery?

    • @billmartins5545
      @billmartins5545 Год назад

      In the Netherlands, it's private insurance that's subsidised by taxpayer money.

  • @emd1494
    @emd1494 Год назад

    Cutting out the middle man with now helping them take their life. . . This keeps getting darker and darker.