It’s not Roses & Butterflies: LETTING MY MIRACLE DAUGHTER GO!
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Working 2 successful youtube channels, plus growing your brand on all social media platforms,schooling full time, wife duties, 4 children with new born included.
Neze please, i beg you!!! take your flowers!!!!!🌸
you are something!
How she combines beauty, character, intelligence and hardwork is a MIRACLE!!!
This is like one person being a FULL PRODUCTION CREW
1) Script writer
2) Actor
3) Director
4) Producer
5) Costumier
6) Make up artiste
7) Editor
8) Background & Effects.
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10) Promoter at once!!
Doing this everyday and doing it on 2 youtube channels!!!!!!
And with the level of your consistency and the quality of your works, its only a terribly clueless person that will say you have time and its not work because if you put them there, they cant even do the half of it.
What!!!!! Plus You are schooling with 4 children & a new baby in addition.
You are not only super human, you are unbelievable!
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that's crazy
Working 2 successful youtube channels, plus growing your brand on all social media platforms,schooling full time, wife duties, 4 children with new born included.
Neze please, i beg you!!! take your flowers!!!!!🌸
you are something!
Hi Neze 👋 well done! Take your flowers 🎉🎉 but I just wanted to add that you're NOT an International student 😜 You're a home student! If you know you know! #kinedian ❤❤
That’s why i have so much respect her so much! And so much success will follow her. Stay healthy and stay well. 🙏🏾🤗
Neze,u are my super hero 🎉🎉🎉 I adore you and I love you
Neze, trust me, I can relate 💯 with everything you've said. I'm a single mum working full time as a registered nurse in the UK. My son started going to nursery from the age of 7 months old. I used to drop him off at 6am at the nursery and pick him up at 6 pm after my shift. I used to cry on my drive to work. It was so painful leaving him in the hands of strangers .He's 8 years old now. Looking back, i can't believe we survived that era. It was tough. I can hear the pain in your voice, and I can see you fighting those tears.
You're doing a great job, Mama.
The hussle abroad is real.
Thanks for your honesty, that's why we follow you.❤
I just love you and your stories. I love your bubbly personality, your wisdom and your sense of humor. You are indeed a superwoman.
I'm just so proud of you,sis.
You deserve a crown.
You're doing an amazing job in all spheres of your life.
God bless and keep you in Jesus ' name.
Love always
Honestly a stay at home mum deserves her crown.
Is not easy with kids here at all. God have mercy on stay home
Kudos
More blessings
Because you do in-depth research, that’s why i started following you. You are doing a great job.
I had twins abroad. No help.
My husband was working night everyday except Sundays. It was crazy.
As soon as they turned one year, we started looking for crèche. I didn't get a daycare home but we got a crèche. 3 precious hours of me just being. Have my bath and do one or two things before they get back and the craziness continues.
Now, they are 4. I have another baby who's 10months old and we are already booked for daycare in 3months' time.
The biggest challenge abroad is childcare.
I totally can relate, Chineze, with the constant cleaning almost every second. Plus ur other engagements of work and school.
I had same headache too. Mine will radiate to the centre of my back as if it's touching my spinal cord.
I'm happy you are taking it calmly.
I tell myself to take each day as it comes. One day at a time.
You are definitely not alone and thanks so much for sharing this vulnerable part of your life❤
I always give every mother her crown. The biggest job for a woman is a HOMEMAKER.....
That's why I don't understand why we are judged when we opt to not have children. Abroad is not easy. In South Africa, the story of daycare were horrendous that I decided that in this life, until money works for me, I don't want kids.
I wish you the very very best, Neze. She will adjust and the dayhome will do her well. So glad that you have all the support of a wonderful husband.
Twin mum here it's crazy decided to stay and hustle from home as looked after my babies it does get easier but oh my! I had a toddler before I had them as well hihi precious memories
Are u telling me !!! 6 research assignments to submit every week........surviving on coffee at work. 2 hours sleep daily.Thank you for sharing .I was almost giving up.I'm encouraged.
Before this video, i had thought about the stress you go through... Omo you need to be crowned 💪. I'm a mum with children plus 9 to 5 job. When i return from work, will start with reviewing homework and cooking.... Many times, i feel like i was going to pass out. I totally relate with your experience. Well done Neze! God bless you.
I admire your dress. It really sits well on you.
Day homes are also registered and regulated, usually smaller settings might be better for your princess.
Well done mama, x
I respect you Neze. The way you carry yourself with so much grace amidst everything has really helped me personally. I give you your flowers and crown 100 times
hi Neze, i am ghanaian living in Accra, i enjoy watching your videos, you have a great personality!!!
i dont have my own amilly yet but i am a workaholic, 7 days a week!! this video was for me!
i really need to make time for myself and just rest!!!
thank you!!!!
Hi Nez, thanks for sharing this emotional side of you. 💌 You really encourage me and others in a special way. 👍🏼 You put so much effort into your work and life, it's by the grace of God. 💯 You will be fine, Nenye is your miracle it is well. You and your family are blessed! 🙏🏼
You are a real strong woman. Pls take your 🌹 🌺 e no easy
You are truly gifted with your work Neze, I agree when you say it takes a lot to prepare. Beautiful baby❤❤❤❤❤.
You are truly gifted with your work Neze, I agree when you say it takes a lot to prepare. Beautiful baby❤❤❤❤❤.
Neze, I understand fully. The only difference with my story is, I was a single mother with 2 children. I will never forget, when I had my daughter in a home daycare and I came to pick her up one day early. The lady at the daycare was changing her diaper , on top of the kitchen table, legs all open, while she was in deep conversation with some man I've never seen before. Well, that was the last day my daughter was there. My daughter is now 39, she survived.😊
Well done for realizing it was time to slow down. You are great at what you do and you will grow greater but most importantly live long to enjoy the fruit of your labor.
Big Thumbs up dear, keep up the happy, good spirit. Real hardworking Babe.
Omo I opened my mouth when you added the schooling own. Ehhhh, you never add Oga own responsibility. Abeg take your Crown, you deserve it 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I totally sympathize with you on this stressful journey. Giving yourself a big break at weekends is a great relief. I don't go to Church anymore. My niece close to 5 years old is more attached to me than her Daddy. I work from home.
Allll I can say is that you are a VERY VERY strong woman.
I appreciate your right attitude to life. You have a very positive disposition to life. I love & appreciate you.
Very intelligent video ❤. Not everyone realises that they need a break out here until we reach breaking point. So thanks so much for sharing this!❤
Self care both mental and physical is very important especially in these environments.
You are doing great and may God always grant you the strength ❤
Neze you're a strong,hardworking,intelligent woman. Keep ignoring the ignorant people who have no wisdom. Some people are not wise they are selfish and very ignorant. Nobody has an easy life you're right we all face challenges.
I was doing this, studying like crazy, a perfectionist, clean this that, got masters. PhD, write papers and more. Aahh, I told myself one day, enough!!! No more. Relax!!! If you go, you go!!! I advised myself o.
What did you do?
Waww 👏👏👏 Neze you're a super woman... Take your flower 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌹🌹🌹
Thank you Neze. You are talking to me. Listening to your advice now, I will make adjustments to myself
The day I banged my laptop shut and shouted "ahn ahn, what is it sef? Who will beat me if I don't post video today?! Please let me focus on the job they gave Eve to do!" that is the day I knew my own don pass 'be careful' 🤣🤣🤣
Nne, this is the downside of "doing what you love". Sometimes we just don't know when to stop. I had to tell myself it is time to get an actual hobby and make RUclips strictly a job so I can derive joy from achieving something else.
Nne jisike o. Please no white hair o abeg o. We are still 16, please. 😭
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Neze you don’t even have to explain,we luv all ur videos and we know how much efforts you put in,Thanks alottttt
Neze we share so much in common. I'm so exhausted to even type what I have in mind but I am proud of you.
Take your crown my dearest Neze. You're a hard worker indeed.
Indeed ❤
You are really a strong woman more grace my dear sister
Wow. I am so proud you shared this your story. It will go a long way in helping people not to kill themselves with work. My mum told me when I got married newly, 'what you can not do today, you can do it tomorrow'
I am proud of you. God bless you ❤
I agree with you on the grey hair. When I got instantly depressed in 2020 in my late 20s, I began seeing grey hair within the first month. In 3 months, i had several grey hairs at the front of my head. My friends too also got grey hair during their master thesis writing and job search period.
Your hubby is such a blessing to you and your family. May you continue to support each other through it all.
My sister, i live in Germany. When i saw two Gray hair on my head. I told abroad thank you.
Well done my dear. You are so good at what you do and I love you for that. I am giving you a standing ovation here in Ghana. Strong woman! There will always be people who just comment on things they have no idea about. I appreciate you for all you do.
My comrade I salute,I worked with diamond for 6 years before Access took over I salute you again ❤❤❤❤❤
You make it really easy with your smile and brightness. Every mother feels guilty letting go of her baby to another child provider. She will be okay. God will bless and protect her.
Not all heroes wear capes.
Take your crown 👑 Mama.
You are too much 😊
Well done Nne.
Nenye nwa will be just fine at daycare.
New subscriber here i love your content
That’s why I appreciate you so much neze, anybody that has negativity to drop in your comment section should get lost.
You and your hubby are blessed to have each other. Lovely video . Neze you are an inspiration
Aunty Neze ,how I love you so much.
Whenever I watch your videos,I tell myself "I want to be like this lady".
Your intelligence and your fluent speech ,among others is really worthy of emulation.
I love everything about you ma'am 💗 keep being you.God is your strength.
I really love you genuinely..❤❤❤
People who say those hurtful comments are myopic. You are doing well sis
Even listening to this is overwhelming .
Yes let alone her doing it, I started feeling emotional for her because I know for someone who lived abroad for over 25 years and relocated back to Ghana 🇬🇭
And there's no place like home Ghana or Africa in general!!!!
Thank you for making out time to bring us stories, God bless you.
Youre such a strong woman with so much positive energy. You deserve much more than a crown Neze. Much love❤❤❤❤❤
Neze, you are equally a lecturer with a cheerful spirit! You don't have to give your ears to naysayers! Thanks for what you do!! Kudos from a sister -to- a sister
This made me cry 😢
So relatable. This abroad life is not for the faint hearted.
I was also schooling (full time), working, taking care of kids, barely having time, no longer able to “find time” to work out, somehow, EVERYTHING gets done, asides the things that concern me or are for me.
I swear this was (and still is) me. But like you said, a 9-5 where you start and finish isn’t anything close to creating content like you do.
I thank God my husband is very hands on and helpful as well. There’s no other way to do it out here with no help.
Well done mummy.. God bless you and your family❤
You are so strong❤
You are doing a great job!!!!
You are excellent at what you do. It’s amazing how you are able to juggle all these❤
😂😂😂the gray hair attacked me too. Take care of yourself Neze. We move.
Neze, I understand you very very well & your experience resonates with mine when I moved here (US)several years ago with my hubby & 2 toddlers. I often wonder how you do it with 4!! The culture shock was not easy to get over at all! Take it easy girl. You are still going to enroll the boys in games like football, baseball etc, if you haven’t done that already. & you & your hubby need to share the responsibility of taking them to & from games. Very necessary for them. Get a professional cleaner once or twice a month to clean the house. You can actually hire a housekeeper but the pay may be high. You will agree on her duties in the house which may include driving the children to & f from school. giving them lunch, taking them to games etc while you do your stuff. Like I said the pay may be high hourly or monthly salary.
For me, Dayhome is the best for the little ones. My Toddler turned 2 last weekend and she attends a LICENSED Dayhome (So you can still get subsidy for licensed day home) She had previously attended a daycare so I can compare both. Dayhome’s have fewer kids as such, much attention is given to the kids for better learning… My 2 year old is on the same standard as a 4 year old here (I guess this has to do with the educator too.. My child’s educator is Jamaican). When she attended a daycare, they don’t even do anything. They just leave them to play and eat when it’s time. I can go on with lots of difference. But I prefer a Dayhome.
Wish you the best and hope you get a really great Educator.
Welldone!
Hello beautiful Neze, please keep your smile…. I was like you and today my daughter is in grade 2 , I’m running a day home in Calgary here. For the constant headache you need to know about the chinook wind 💨 in Alberta gives headache. Please don’t give and I’m glad you husband is helping. Love you dear
Thanks for this wonderful advice. You just spoke to my heart.
Welcome to obodo Oyibo where you are the maid, mother, student, wife and full time worker. You are doing absolutely amazing.
NNE YOU HAVE SAID IT ALL.😢I'M STARTING BUT I CRY SO MUCH AT A POINT I FEEL DISCOURAGE TO CONTINUE.
That's the best way out.Self-Care🎉🎉.Africans don't have time to take care of themselves. Only,work work,work. I hope viewers who are workaholics will learn. One life,one love.
God is your strength. I have been living in the USA for 40 years. I understand. Pray God hears us. Amen
You are indeed my role model ma. Your kind is rare. Always smiliny even when you're overwhelmed with activities. God bless you and all your labour shall not be in vain. AMEN. I really like your person.
My dear you are a supper woman
The lord is ur strength. Thanks alot for all the work
I just love u. If it's not Nzevile, I dnt stress my self for information. U give the real gists as e dey hot. Weldone
Mmmh...you can see that natural motherly instinct, the instantaneous brief pause that came immediately Neze heard her baby's voice. She almost stood up but remembered that she was shooting. God bless mothers
Thank you for your explanation, it’s very important you let your baby go ,to be with other children, you will be surprise to see her ,makes progress as well,don’t worry too much for her,when you get her back in the evening , it will be soo sweet as always,take care, love you neze😍😍
You’re a superstar 🎉
Weldone Neze! I love you 💕
Honestly, Neze, I really appreciate your storytelling skills, and I can really relate to your situation, I have 3 children, I work as an engineer, I run a church, i have a big home to run and being a clean perfectionist kind of person, I had to learn to find the right people to delegate some tasks to just supervise them, teaching them how to get it right the way I like it and be patient with then as well, it hasn't been easy, but gradually it's working and I get more time to take care of me as well. Thank you for sharing your story. Much love to you and your family.❤❤❤❤
You just gave me energy to keep keeping on. Juggling similar to you and today i almost cried because it got a little too overwhelming. Especially with a baby that cant do much for herself.
Thank you for being vulnerable to us and motivating us❤
Neze,you are doing an amazing job. I have learnt a lot from you. Keep up the amazing work you do. Love everything you do. God blessings upon you and your family.
Neze, please ignore those making those silly comments. You are a supper star. I schooled with my two children and support of my husband lovely husband.
My dear, its tough but you're so brave to embark on this combination with a one year old toddler. Please take it easy. Europe is stress. I wish you all the best my dear. You can do it 🎉
Leaving the stove for 2 weeks and leaving the toys on the floor was a difficult decision. But i did.
Now i am thinking of day care for my miracle daughter; extreamly attached too...hmm...timely video. Thank you
Neze the super woman👏👏👏This is really a full time job it’s not easy at all. Well done mama,the lord is your strength o
My dear, i can relate. In fact, i have been asking myself how you do it and still come out looking so beautiful, so gorgeous and upbeat, especially trying to settle down in a new country, far away from home and no support system per se. The Lord is your Strength my dear.
❤❤,ma you are just one in a million,I hail you,well done 👍👍 but your health first,find a way to balance this whole work,we are here to support your channel,no leave no trasfer ❤❤❤
Wow, i did not even know you edit your videos yourself!
like allll these back to back videos you post daily on both channels???😮
That's a lot!
editing is hard and time consuming !
plus these other things combined.
You are really a SUPER WOMAN. more feathers on your cap Neze.
i learnt a lot from this video.
Wow how did you get all this done?
May God give you strength.
More grace to you and family. THE LORD IS WITH YOU. Hallelujah!!! Shalom.
And you make everything look easy. Take your 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹.
Ine, the Lord is truly your strength. You equally manage to be cheerful which is now part of your brand. And your laughter totally mask all these challenges. You are really one in a million dear sister.
Thank you Neze for sharing. You are really a strong woman....weldone.
Well done. That's a lot of work ooo
Take your flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌷🌷🌷🌷my dear you're a strong women.
First time commenting
😂is the "Aye le ibosi ooo!' for me.
I can relate with what you are saying.....
House chores...no dey finish....!👌
Welldone.... 👍🏼💪
God bless all mothers 🙏
Neze you see those headache I had them constantly last year, I stood in my bathroom one day and felt a sharp pain from my head down to spin. I knew it was time to Pause. I told someone that content creation is one of the hardest jobs out there so when you see people that juggle it with every other thing including a 9-5 raise your hand and salute them instead of talking down on them. Bless you Neze please easy on yourself ❤
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Don’t worry Neze she will be fine, I know exactly how you feel, Abroad is not easy, I’m a mother of four. Working so I totally understand. Jisike. Please don’t do home, not too professional.
You are right,i like your news because they well researched and real.I believe only your stories because you engage your audience
Thanks babe. Maybe this is the motivation I needed, to go back to my channel and start again. I abandoned everything I went AWOL 😢😅
I relate with everything you said Neze. That's how I developed gray hair on my head and even prïvate when I arrived Germany one year later as an International student. The stress was so much that I even feared for my life. Later on (2022) I had my daughter with no one to help me as husband and I live continents apart. At this point I experienced hell. I was almost losing my memory. Will go to a shop and buy items but will forget the items and return home. Will only realised at home. Even my ability to see changed. I could barely see from afar.
Now I am working and she's 1 year 5 months now and I have no option to work from home so she's in a daycare.
As for daycare, my daughter started day care at 10 and half months old and she's doing very well. She was a mummy's daughter too since we are just two of us but she is very friendly and sociable. So she likes going to the daycare. Between daycare and care homes each has advantages and disadvantages. For day care one advantage is that if a staff is on sick leave even for two weeks or more other workers will be there for your kid. Also, it is like a semi school for your child as she gets to learn so much interacting with the native children and staff. For example I only speak English to my daughter because I know by default she will know German as her first language instead. She is just 1 year 5 months and barely 6 months since she started darycare but the level of German she already speaks amazes me. Daycare is the only place she hears German because I don't speak German to her. To add , they always have a lot of tools that children can learn even broadly .But one major disadvantage of daycare is that children there get sick often because of the crowd. So airborne diseases spead there easily.
As for care homes, the major advantage is that your child will not be too exposed to airborn diseases but many disadvantages which include little or no room for the child to learn. Also, if the care giver takes a sick leave of one to two weeks for example then you have to be with your child at home.
I dont know when I am going to recover from the stress of living in Europe, working and raising a child all alone. It's harder than being talked about.
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Thanks so much Neze for sharing…this is definitely helpful 🥰🇬🇲
Wow. I have a similar story. I use a dayhome and all is going great. Content creation is not easy. Thanks for sharing
I give your crown Barrister, you are so positive unique and strong. Muchlove❤❤❤❤
Your a good & hardworking woman . I admire & I wish i would be like you one day. Am just a young Cameroonian girl and I admire you. From Cameroon wt love ❤
Sending you love Neze, just listening to your Story is overwhelming 😅even though I’m a mum of 2, I still can’t fathom how you hold it all together ,I’m happy you’re finding some form of resolution as a family ❤
kuddos Neze! you are really doing well! whattttt
Nne, the Lord is your strength. It's not easy at all.