I've started wearing hijab since last year. Before that, I always used to get stares; people would call me pretty and admire my beauty. After wearing hijab I definitely don't get those praises and like I know this was my purpose for wearing hijab so that random people in the class and work workplace won't look at me that way but now I've started to feel ugly and unsmart for some reason. See it's natural for a woman to want to be called pretty and when they don't feel pretty it hurts their confidence or at least it's hurting mine. I'm not married, so I don't have any mahram to tell me that I'm beautiful to him. I know I shouldn't seek validation from others and I know that I'm pretty just the way I am but as someone who got a lot of praise every single day and now it's almost zero, It's a little bit hard to deal with. I hope no one will judge me. I felt like I needed to say whatever I was feeling and I believe y'all will be kind if you wanna replay. Thanks for reading, have a good day. ♥
Salam aleikoum sister, don’t give up, some days are harder than others, but the reward will be sooo worth it inshAllah. 🤍 Remember that Allah subhana wa ta’ala loves us more than we could ever comprehend. May He facilitate us to only seek His validation and to keep wearing the hijab inshaAllah, amiin.
@@yasminebidiga8469 walikum assalam, ameen sister. I don't think I'm going to stop wearing hijab but yes as you said, some days it's just hard. But in shaa Allah I'll try to continue by the mercy of Allah SWT.
Assalamu Alaikum sister. I really can relate to everything you've said, because that was my struggle too. I am wearing the hijab for over a year now, walhamdulillah and trusssst meeee it'll get better 💗. I've never felt more beautiful , confident etc. than I am right now, Alhamdulillah. What helped me was learning more about the hijab, why Allah swt. wants us to wear it etc. and also learnt more about the deen and overall the role of a woman in Islam. I also learnt more about the lives of the first wife and the daughter of our prophet sas, the role models for us women. Also always always remind yourself why and for whom you're doing it. It will get better in sha Allah and you won't need/seek that validation anymore. You'll learn to love yourself and appreciate the hijab and modesty even more. And I am pretty pretty sure, you look beautiful in your hijab. 💗
Ask Allah to replace it with something better. The random compliments will not benefit you in your life at all but Allah can replace it with something better like a loving husband.
Hijab is not for mattrr of beauty and ugly, it should be habit all lady to pleasure of Allah, Do don't think what people thinking and saying just think what r u doing for Allah
Mihed I swearrrrr you are the Most BEAUTIFUL hijabi Girl without Make Up I EVER SAW!!! Allahumma Barik! I alwayssss Tell my friends about Ur beauty in and OUT!!
This is such a beautiful and necessary reminder sis. I also want to say tho that you don’t have to completely give up feeling pretty. Especially as a married woman, I feel like your husband should be validating your beauty on the daily basis. Also invest in your at home closet. Wear nice clothes at home and go to more all-girls parties and events. Get your hair done! Also spending less time on social media really helps. The issue is more about not beautifying yourself in public and around non-mehrem men. May Allah reward you for your efforts and keep you steadfast. Ameen
THISSS!! I'm not married but that point is extremely valid especially since we as women have that desire to look and feel beautiful. But I love your take on it with not beautifying ourselves in public etc because instead we should do all these things for ourselves, big on self-care which can look like as you said invest in making yourself look cute/pretty at home, skincare, do make up for yourself or around the girlies etc. Even like lingerie, do it FOR YOURSELF!
I love this, as a hijabi in college, I find it very hard to quit makeup, I’ve tried for a whole semester n succeeded but the second Eid hit I decided to put it on because everyone else was looking gorgeous n going all out for Eid and ever since it’s been hard to go makeup free again. I think it’s because of how normalized the Muslim community has made it be and I’m sometimes thinking, if I lived in a Muslim country it would be easier. But we really need to work on our faith because our faith should come from within us and not from the environment. And I feel like the second the environment dictates our fate and what’s normalized and what’s not, that’s when we have started making partners with Allah. Because we should truly just follow the rules that the most perfect, most high has set. May Allah make it easier for us 🩷 Also don’t apologize for not going straight from point to point, it feels more cozy and personal when you’re just speaking ur thoughts cuz trust I think the same.
I feel like crying after watching this. I am so thankful to Allah for making me stumble across this video. This is the first episode I’ve watched of yours and I have to say this is the best podcast I’ve ever listened to. I feel like we are exactly the same person it’s crazy 😭😭😭 I related to EVERYTHING so so much. From attachment to beauty to resetting intentions, this was such a unique niche struggle which I felt so alone in and have never heard anyone talk about. The desire to be pretty is so overwhelming and this is just what I needed to hear. Thank you so so much for speaking about this. May Allah bless and elevate you abundantly. Ameen 🤍
just finished listening, and I have to say, you're the only person who can make me laugh, cry, and feel so many emotions in just an hour. this episode couldn’t have come at a better time subhanAllah. it’s so reassuring to know I'm not alone in thinking this way as I'm sure so many muslimahs feel the same exact way. thank you for always reminding us of Allah, and I pray that this podcast becomes one of the many reasons you enter jannah.
I watched/listened to this with tears in my eyes because I have honestly been feeling so alone and almost crazy for having these same exact thoughts. It really has become a time where doing the right thing feels like the wrong thing because no one else seems to be doing it etc. Holding onto our faith is like holding onto a hot coal, but alhamdullilah for the strength to continue holding on. May Allah (swt) make it easy for us to continue striving for His sake. May He guide us & our ummah because our society has changed so much recently. Thank you for sharing! I hope we can all shift to the better and help each other get back to the straight path. It doesn’t feel so hard when you have someone to do it with you. If you ever come down to NY we can grab coffee and appreciate the fall leaves together ♥️
I appreciate your take on the subject Mihed and I think almost all hijabis share this struggle. Imagine how brutal it is out there when you don’t have a husband to get that « pretty validation » from 😂 ( may Allah bless yours) For my single ladies ( and married ofc), my advice is to really beautify yourself at home it’s life changing. I mean not staying in random pjs the whole day if you are at home , no you choose a dress or smtg you wouldn’t wear outside, also makeup etc and making this a routine so that when you do go outside you don’t need to prove anything to anyone, you already see yourself as pretty and not everyone gets to see that only the people who deserve it 🫶 This really has helped me as a new hijabi , also focus on personal and feminine hygiene since people care about fits etc and forget the absolute basics. May Allah make it easy for us 🫶
cl i used to do this n it would lowkey trigger me LMAO. I would lit look at myself and be OMG IF ONLY I DIDNT WEAR THE HIJAB I WOULD EATT IF ONLY I WORE MAKEUP W MY HIJAB. But it may totally work for u jst my experience lmao
@@balsammohammed9140 yess I completely get you ! I used to and still think like this sometimes however if I do have this mindset , that means I will never see myself « beautified » 😭 so I just talk to myself and say who do I want to look pretty for ? ( also thinking about a potential husband InchAllah who will have all of this makes it worth it😂) and slowly you stop caring about what absolute strangers have to think about you because that way you are giving them so much power etc It’s a never ending battle with the nafs and shaytan but I’m sure we can make it inchAllah 🫶
@@balsammohammed9140 I have these thoughts sometimes as well but i know if i think this way I will not see myself beautified 🥲 I was mainly talking about about indoor clothing and less about makeup ( i only put a touch of lipstick or smtg) because why do we feel the need to dress up for others but for ourselves/family we accept looking below average ? That’s what always motivates me : I have more right over myself than others. Also the choice of pyjamas etc more feminine and less childish (although those too can be fun too😅) or the dresses and skirts I had before Hijab , now I wear all of them at home Anyways May Allah make it easy for all of us in this journey🫶
15:31 "i hope he doesn't look at me from the right side cuz that's my bad side" guess im not the only one who thinks like that😭😭. I loved this episode sm may الله bless you Mihed!!❤❣
Mihed don’t worry girl, you’re not the only one on this no makeup journey! It’s so refreshing to see others who are also perfecting their hijab for the sake of Allah 🤍
Attention can be one hell of a drug, so for many women, this might be our test. Let us recognize that many of the problems that we are going through as Muslims (for example, the Palestine genocide) are because we Muslims are starting to cave into the Western culture. We must adhere to our principles and improve so our ummah can strengthen again. Life goes in a flash; Jannah is eternal.
you don’t know how much it means to me that you posted this video. when you say you don’t have someone to compare to, that’s exactly how I felt until you posted this and you worded everything I feel so perfectly. shoukran bzef bzefff from your algerian sister. also your face card neverrrrr declines allahumabarik
again „I hate to hear my voice“ I can to 10000% understand it and as support: *your* voice is absolutely nice to hear! this is how it sounds to me personally - absolutely good
miheddd subhanAllah. i can't express to u how much i appreciate your transparency about this topic. i watch your videos and see you speaking about not wearing makeup, which is one of the goals i'm struggling with and as someone who's not conventionally attractive, barely got any compliments or felt pretty my whole life - i used to think "it's easy for her to say" not in a negative way, but in a way that i always thought how could she have any negative thoughts about herself without makeup, because in my eyes you were always so beautiful without it allahuma barik. so to hear you speak about this, it made me feel less alone, your perspective on how these thoughts are not us and are actually shaytaan helped change my mindset so much. i pray Allah makes it easy for you and I and every muslim girl that is struggling to accept the beauty Allah has naturally bestowed upon us. i think it's soooo important to recognize that the world and society we live in doesn't make it easy and i just wanna give u a big hug for addressing this and being honest with ur audience. may Allah bless you always, allahuma Aameen
Mihad! Your words struck a cord! the part about feeling like the only one who is doing the bare minimum and it’s so hard to let go of beautifying yourself when it is in our fitrah. 😫 at the end, it’s the fight against nafs. And the reward is with Allah. none of us ladies are alone 😭 May Allah accept our efforts. 🩵
Girl this podcast was amazing since I only follow u on ytb I didn’t even know you made podcasts , I feel like I’ve found my people , I don’t even know you but im really proud of the way you’re trying to stop tabarruj even if there is nobody doing it around you may Allah reward us in this dunya and the other life You are really inspiring keep going I’m enjoying these podcasts
Sis you question yourself and wonder if any of it makes sense…allahuma barik you’re amazing at explaining your thoughts and it really resonates with me. Especially the feeling pretty on social media part! I love your podcasts as they’re so relatable ❤
Gurl, I loved this episode so much!! It was so raw and relatable, felt like I was listening to a friend. Us girls literally go through the same struggles and hearing you talk about them openly really makes us feel as though we're not alone in our struggles. May Allah reward you so much xx
MashAllah TabarakAllah I love your delivery when you speak because it just gives me a boost of energy and makes me want to be a better Muslim SubhanAllah
I lovedddd this video. This is such a necessary conversation and it made me feel so seen 😭🩷 I think that many people shame Muslim women for wanting to feel pretty or have your beauty be acknowledged by other people, even though this is a totally natural thing, we’re still people at the end of the day. Because so much of our value in society is placed in our appearance, it’s not easy to unlearn that, and it’s only natural to struggle with these feelings. It shouldn’t be something that people shame others for. I’m so glad you decided to share this, and you’re definitely not alone !! Thank youuu 💖
I get this so baddds, if I don’t feel good or confident or comfortable in what I look like that day, my whole day is ruined 😭 it’s all I think about, and sometimes if I don’t wear makeup I regret and am like I SHLDVE worn it, then when I wear makeup I feel like I’m wearing too much 😭😭😭😭
I am kind of shocked hearing you talking about face card. Habibti your smile is breathtakingly beautiful! Just smile, whenever you feel insecure about not wearing make up.
Mihed you’re so beautiful, truly. I’m not just saying it to say it. Also thank you for this. We don’t speak enough about the hijabi beauty standards. I tried being the classic vela girl, hijab loose with neck & hair showing, cute earrings and It looked so good ahh 😂 But then I thought wait am I really going to lose myself and get sins for a trend. On social media the hijabi “it girl” is the one wearing makeup, tighter clothes, and loose scarf, hair showing. But what grounds me is reminding myself that this is all dunya. And you know what it’s a form of Ibadah.. tightening your scarf, choosing the abaya. I don’t know when we all took a turn and the loose scarf + hair showing became a global trend for us hijabis. Not judging, but I empathize with anyone struggling. It’s so real. And it really doesn’t help that people actually treat you differently when you look pretty and “put together”
Adding to this I’ve recently figured social media is really what lowers my iman. We’re fed so much content that contradicts our purpose here. And we fall into it. Sometimes I want to just delete all socials and live under a rock in a farm. But then we’re just girls. And we want to be on the latest trends and it’s all just a struggle 😩
The problem isn't you, and you're definitely not alone in feeling this way-many women feel the same, even if it seems like you're the only one. The real issue is that social media often encourages us to compare ourselves with others. If you realize that it's something you can't handle well, it might help to take a break from social media. There's also a dua you can recite when you see worldly things that your nafs desires: لَا عَيْشَ إِلَّا عَيْشُ الْآخِرَةِ (La aisha illa aishul-akhira), which means "There is no life except the life of the Hereafter." Also, make dua that Allah brings righteous sisters into your life, better than you, so that you can learn from them and feel strengthened in what you're doing. If you're only surrounded by people doing the opposite, it can have a negative effect on you. May Allah make things easy for you and give you strength.
Multiple times during this I tried subconsciously pressing the like button. Jazkallahu khaira Mihed, may الله عزوجل make these videos heavy on your scales you don’t know how much you’re doing for us girlies !!!!!!!! 💗💗💗💗
I donˋt know if yoùre going to see this, but wallahi in the name of Allah for me yoùre one of the most beautiful hijabi/ woman i see on social media. Yesterday i saw a girl in our masjid who looks just like you. I couldnˋt get my eyes of her beauty and you are just like her in my eyes. You are such a beautiful woman may Allah bless your beauty, your inner beauty , marriage , iman and health. Amin
Mihed I absolutely love you and this. May Allah reward you and give you sabr. I totally understand and this won't change your mind because you don't see it yourself but you are truly so beautiful :)
Wanting to look good is something that is in our fitrah. Using these feelings in a halal circle will be useful. And thank you Mihad it was a beneficial video ♡
I've been struggling with this exact feeling and wondered where it's stemming from. Just this week i avoided an event I was really looking forward to because I felt "what's the point of going if I'm just going to spend the whole time feeling ugly?" This podcast made me realise I've been spending way too much time on social media and I haven't been intentional enough about what I consume. May Allah make it easy for us and reward you❤
20:40 it's like I just wanna be part of your symphonyyyy when it comes to seeing mostly everyone looking pretty on social media those days 😭 we got this bestie may Allah make it easier for us 💗
Girl, we understand you at least I thoroughly did! I undersatnd exactly how you feel about the hijabi and makeup thing. No need to over explain yourself
Heyy Mihed! Ur prob not gonna read this but if you do girl I jst want to tell you wallah you are so pretty mashallah. Like I know where you’re coming from I also wanna wear my hijab tight and don’t wear makeup but I look so ugly with it. I jst wanna tell you like u mashallah have literally nothing to be insecure abt seriously. I literally made dua to look beautiful jst like u when I’m not wearing makeup 😭😭 may Allah put baraka in the work you do I really appreciate these podcast I haven’t watched all of them yet but I saw the title and I has to click on it but thankss. ❤️❤️❤️
i finally feel understood after hearing you talk about getting overwhelmed easily, and thank you so much for talking about the internal struggles of staying true to islam
Wow mihed.. I love your words so much subhanallah you just have such qubul and acceptance whenever I hear your words I just feel so understood and SO grateful that somebody is also on the same track as me. genuinely we need more hijabis like you that promote true modesty because i also struggle with feeling like the only one that wears abayas khimars and no makeup to college 😭love you SO much mihed and I truly ask that Allah gives you every last bit of happiness in this dunya and the akhira and rewards you immensely for this🤍and girl idk what you’re ON, you are a NATURAL DROP DEAD BEAUTY- there’s nothing but pure nur I can see radiating from your face and that’s the best beauty habibti 🥺🌹COURAGEEEE mon amie
Girrrl i just paused the video and i wanna tell u that first off u are extremely pretty mashaallah, secondly I SEE myself in you because I always tend to feel like im not explaining that well and so I need like an hour to get my point across & its literally what u just said but i hoooneslty understood you very well and i feel like u express urself very clearlyyyy allahuma bariik.. so yeaa just wanted to tell you that, keep going i love the topics u talk about and have a nice day ❤
Alhamdulillah im so so glad u had those tangents because omg the relatability just making me feel so seen and it brought comfort and the whole video was just like big sis advice ,wallah i appreciate this video so much JZK
I love your podcast so much. You are so relatable I have the same thoughts trying to wear my hijab right with no makeup I constantly feel ugly and that I don’t fit in. I literally feel like an auntie lol when I wanna be that cute vela girlie 😭 hearing your thoughts are honestly so refreshing. May Allah Swt bless you and make hijab easy for you. Honestly such an inspiration Allahuma barik
girl im five minutes in and let me tell you i relate to the rebrand thing SO MUCH. i thought it was just me, ill always be changing aesthtetics and my room so often to feel 'fresh' 😭 JazakAllah Khair for this, it has been soso helpful and insightful sis
I am literally tearing up rn ive been feeling the same exact way about obsessing over beauty and this video was what i needed im also a new hijabi like ive been strugglingggg 😭
im so glad you mentioned farahs video you don't have to be pretty because that video alone made me put on hijab! I already gave up makeup years before finding islam because I already accepted that I am beautiful inside and I just generally worked on loving myself for a long time to get there
SubhanAllah, I'm going through this exact same thing. I quit makeup not too long ago and whilst at the time it felt like it was going good because I done it for the right intention, for the sake of Allah swt and it felt like I was getting A LOT less attention which meant I wasn't getting the sins, this feeling of wanting to feel pretty again just came back. I just kept comparing my past self to my present self and caught myself focusing on other external things other than makeup to emphasise my beauty (my outfit, hijab style etc.), and I felt like I was constantly trying to get the approval of others by always thinking "does everyone still think I'm pretty?" Even when you mentioned feeing left out, it reminded me on Eid where everyone is getting all dressed up and it's like you want to do the same but know you shouldn't but then it just feels like you're not putting as much effort, when in reality you're actually making effort to please Allah swt. I resonated with absolutely everything you said about beauty and thank you for sharing your personal struggle, it truly helped me understand the hijab even more. Please do more vids relating to this topic, may Allah swt make it easier for us all
College is full of diverse people in terms of ethnicity and style so the fear that you feel is probably just cold feet for this new stage of your life. Trust me, people don’t care as much as we think they do! With Allah on your side, you will be okay my love 🤍
Sis you can do it 🔥 be confident with your unique as Muslim girl be proud of your religion and make Dua to Allah SWT to make it easy for you and help you , don't let other's opinions control your feelings or life Allah SWT is with you
yess, it makes so much sense- i felt that, ur not the only one. I feel like this episode came at the right time for me- I also wear hijab or trying to wear it the "right" way but there are days I truly do struggle and feel like this isn't for me but ik its a journey that takes time, there is so much we don't want to give up but at the end of the day we are doing it to please allah and not others. your honestly doing such a great job on this podcast it was definitely a good thing to address. Something is always better than nothing. Inshallah praying that you will achieve these goals for yourself and Islam.
Milhed, jazakallah khayr. Thank you for this video. I have never felt so heard and validated. Your thoughts are literally almost identical as mine. I always thought I was the odd one out fr, like I was alone in these thoughts. Thank you for being vulnerable, raw and honest. May Allah reward you abundantly,and may we unite in jannah so I can thank you personally 🤍🤍🤍
Girl I literally go through the same thing I do wear makeup but 90% of the time I don’t because I always been a natural girl and since being covered up again it definitely has it’s challenges because some days I’m like I’m so pretty and other days when I throw my hijab on I’m like ughhhh especially now that I’m on YT and I go to edit my videos but girllll your beautiful and we need to remind eachother that the face card given regardless no matter what May Allah make it easier on all us covered girls and the girls wanting to cover Ameen 💜
Mihed!! Lemme tell you girl, you have done an amazing job with this one. The quality of the video and audio are amazing, you made your points clearly and helped me personally a lot, I cried twice while listening to it. I love the way I could relate to everything you said, except I never felt pretty in the past. Trying hard everyday to become more modest, wear less make up and do everything for the sake of Allah swt. Please keep reminding us cause “reminder benefits the believers”. Don’t worry about the times your thoughts flow freely, those are incredibly important thoughts that pass through everybody’s mind and give the podcast a real perspective. May Allah swt reward you for this and each episode. ❤
I found this podcast so relatable so barakallahufeek sis I love analogy’s and you talk well like it didn’t feel like an hour ye so honestly keep it up ❤
sis i listened to the podcast without knowing what you looked like i came back here and wow, youre elegantly beautiful. Girl if i saw you id think mashallah, just like i do with many muslim women, i dont really think wow when i see a hijabi with makeup, as you said it defeats the purpose, and tbh i think it shows insecurity, since every woman who wears the hijab knows its meant to conceal beauty, thats just the reality. A muslim woman without makeup shows strength and confidence. Honestly ive wanted to put blush on so many times, i think my boring face looks too plain, but i know that if Allah doesnt want that for me, why do i think that would be better for me? Trust in Allah and everything will be perfect. I think what you said is perfect 'you dont need to be attractive to exist' i needed that a little, seeing everyone in uni wearing makeup, even some of the hijabis, its not motivating you know.. but i want to show people that i dont need to wear makeup, and i dont need to look good everyday. As a hijabi i know my value is NOT meant to be based on my appearance at all. This definitely is the whispers of the shaitan you are correct. I'd love to hear more from you sister and more islamicly based as you said you wanted it to be. I love listening to islamic podcasts and i think you said what needed to be said, dont hold back, and you didnt, which is what i respected. Good job sister may Allah reward you for every big and small change you inflicted into someones heart. -Samiha
truly a phenomenal episode, your ability to convey meaningful topics while keeping things light never fails to amaze me, may allah reward you abundantly, so so much love for you!
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sister i can t say thank you enough i am gratefull a looooot for your message thank you may allah reward us so we both have a convo in jannah with all the girlies laughing and each one of us telling her story of how stupid we were while drinking the best tea in heaven and then the wives of the prophet saw comes and talk with us i am daydreaming about this but hopefull , it deserves jannah inchaa allah because it s hard if we found it easy it means we are doing it wrong !!!!!
Thank you for this podcast Mihed, may Allah ease all of our paths to Jannah al firdaws, ameen. And also concerning salâh, we should remember ourselves that Allah is Ar Rahman Ar Rahim, He prescribed us salâh to soothe our hearts from the hardships of this dunya,we have the blessing and opportunity to go back to Him at least 5 times everyday; to be listened to, to open our hearts to Him and seek strength and comfort trough Him, Al Aziz, Al Mu’min. Our Lord wants ease and everlasting success for us, so lets all strive to stop sabotaging ourselves and to hold on tight to Him (qran, prayers) ameen. (Sorry for errors, I speak french and recently reverted and also hijabi Al hamdoulilah)
There are so many girls who don’t wear makeup or loose hijabs you don’t see them because they aren’t on social media. Farah is the only one i can think her but i think in general we should have role models in real life and not social media💘💘
I am you and you are me. Sis seriously you really aren’t the only one thinking like this! May Allah grant you jannah til firdous for your struggles. If you ever go to London you best holler up a meet up chitchat coffee matcha kinda vibez
heyyy miheddd! appreciate this video so much and your raw perception of beauty and the hijab, thank you love ❤ this is for sure my favourite episode, you are truly valued. i have a group of friends that are absolutely drop dead gorgeous, masha Allah. they always have their hair out, wearing the most beautiful clothes, putting on makeup that makes them the prettiest. then there i was, fully covered, wearing makeup to make me look not-so-dead with no neck showing. it is for sure hard, but i always hope to remember that i am doing this for our Creator. like what you said, setting the right intention is the most important. and it is to please Allah swt. nothing else. thank you for this beautiful reminder. may Allah swt bless you for this, Allahumma barik. love you a whole lot dear!!!!!!
Mihed sweetheart, i dont usually comment on youtube, but i wanted to let you know that it is natural female stuggle to want to look pretty, and to be viewed as pretty. Matter of fact allah says in the quraan: (أَوَمَن يُنَشَّأُ فِي الْحِلْيَةِ وَهُوَ فِي الْخِصَامِ غَيْرُ مُبِينٍ (18)- سورة الزخرف) , this is how allah made us women. Its our jihad to tacle our desires and shaytan. Trust me its not a you problem❤️ i wear niqab, khimar and all and when i tell you i still struggle. No girl is immune to this. Amd know that this jihad of self could be a reason to win you allahs mercy. Ill keep you in my duaa🥰
Translation : 18( So is one brought up in ornaments while being during conflict unevident [attributed to Allah]?) 👉🏻a creature who is brought up in adornments (wearing silk and gold ornaments, i.e. women)
You inspire me to wear loose clothes and no makeup; it looks so good on you, and you’re so beautiful! I’ve been doing the same for a couple of months now, and I live in Germany, where people stare sometimes, so the struggle is real girl 😅
I love your video, keep being someone who wants to please Allah ❤because we get rewarded for striving in the path of Allah and I can relate to what you are saying but we can overcome this problem I pray that allah makes you steadfast 😊
Omg yes! I am glad you’re talking about how TikTok contributes to over consumption! Would love to hear your thoughts on it a bit more. They’re always trying to sell you something 😭
I've started wearing hijab since last year. Before that, I always used to get stares; people would call me pretty and admire my beauty. After wearing hijab I definitely don't get those praises and like I know this was my purpose for wearing hijab so that random people in the class and work workplace won't look at me that way but now I've started to feel ugly and unsmart for some reason. See it's natural for a woman to want to be called pretty and when they don't feel pretty it hurts their confidence or at least it's hurting mine. I'm not married, so I don't have any mahram to tell me that I'm beautiful to him. I know I shouldn't seek validation from others and I know that I'm pretty just the way I am but as someone who got a lot of praise every single day and now it's almost zero, It's a little bit hard to deal with. I hope no one will judge me. I felt like I needed to say whatever I was feeling and I believe y'all will be kind if you wanna replay. Thanks for reading, have a good day. ♥
Salam aleikoum sister, don’t give up, some days are harder than others, but the reward will be sooo worth it inshAllah. 🤍 Remember that Allah subhana wa ta’ala loves us more than we could ever comprehend. May He facilitate us to only seek His validation and to keep wearing the hijab inshaAllah, amiin.
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@@yasminebidiga8469 walikum assalam, ameen sister. I don't think I'm going to stop wearing hijab but yes as you said, some days it's just hard. But in shaa Allah I'll try to continue by the mercy of Allah SWT.
Assalamu Alaikum sister. I really can relate to everything you've said, because that was my struggle too. I am wearing the hijab for over a year now, walhamdulillah and trusssst meeee it'll get better 💗. I've never felt more beautiful , confident etc. than I am right now, Alhamdulillah. What helped me was learning more about the hijab, why Allah swt. wants us to wear it etc. and also learnt more about the deen and overall the role of a woman in Islam. I also learnt more about the lives of the first wife and the daughter of our prophet sas, the role models for us women. Also always always remind yourself why and for whom you're doing it. It will get better in sha Allah and you won't need/seek that validation anymore. You'll learn to love yourself and appreciate the hijab and modesty even more. And I am pretty pretty sure, you look beautiful in your hijab. 💗
Ask Allah to replace it with something better. The random compliments will not benefit you in your life at all but Allah can replace it with something better like a loving husband.
20:26 “I’m not here to look pretty” is such a comfort. I need to repeat this to myself and let go
wallahhhh
Hijab is not for mattrr of beauty and ugly, it should be habit all lady to pleasure of Allah, Do don't think what people thinking and saying just think what r u doing for Allah
Mihed I swearrrrr you are the Most BEAUTIFUL hijabi Girl without Make Up I EVER SAW!!! Allahumma Barik! I alwayssss Tell my friends about Ur beauty in and OUT!!
NO LITERALLY SHE’S ACTUALLY GORGEOUS MASHALLAH
This is such a beautiful and necessary reminder sis. I also want to say tho that you don’t have to completely give up feeling pretty. Especially as a married woman, I feel like your husband should be validating your beauty on the daily basis. Also invest in your at home closet. Wear nice clothes at home and go to more all-girls parties and events. Get your hair done! Also spending less time on social media really helps. The issue is more about not beautifying yourself in public and around non-mehrem men. May Allah reward you for your efforts and keep you steadfast. Ameen
THISSS!! I'm not married but that point is extremely valid especially since we as women have that desire to look and feel beautiful. But I love your take on it with not beautifying ourselves in public etc because instead we should do all these things for ourselves, big on self-care which can look like as you said invest in making yourself look cute/pretty at home, skincare, do make up for yourself or around the girlies etc. Even like lingerie, do it FOR YOURSELF!
I love this, as a hijabi in college, I find it very hard to quit makeup, I’ve tried for a whole semester n succeeded but the second Eid hit I decided to put it on because everyone else was looking gorgeous n going all out for Eid and ever since it’s been hard to go makeup free again. I think it’s because of how normalized the Muslim community has made it be and I’m sometimes thinking, if I lived in a Muslim country it would be easier. But we really need to work on our faith because our faith should come from within us and not from the environment. And I feel like the second the environment dictates our fate and what’s normalized and what’s not, that’s when we have started making partners with Allah. Because we should truly just follow the rules that the most perfect, most high has set. May Allah make it easier for us 🩷 Also don’t apologize for not going straight from point to point, it feels more cozy and personal when you’re just speaking ur thoughts cuz trust I think the same.
damn the environment one hits
you not wearing makeup socially with full coverage hijab makes me more confident doing the same ❤️
May Allah reward you sis keep going!!!!!
Same
I feel like crying after watching this. I am so thankful to Allah for making me stumble across this video. This is the first episode I’ve watched of yours and I have to say this is the best podcast I’ve ever listened to. I feel like we are exactly the same person it’s crazy 😭😭😭 I related to EVERYTHING so so much. From attachment to beauty to resetting intentions, this was such a unique niche struggle which I felt so alone in and have never heard anyone talk about. The desire to be pretty is so overwhelming and this is just what I needed to hear. Thank you so so much for speaking about this. May Allah bless and elevate you abundantly. Ameen 🤍
Your akhlaq and personality is what you bring to the table! Its beauitful in itself!
just finished listening, and I have to say, you're the only person who can make me laugh, cry, and feel so many emotions in just an hour. this episode couldn’t have come at a better time subhanAllah. it’s so reassuring to know I'm not alone in thinking this way as I'm sure so many muslimahs feel the same exact way. thank you for always reminding us of Allah, and I pray that this podcast becomes one of the many reasons you enter jannah.
girl i LOVE ur content on insta its so cute
I watched/listened to this with tears in my eyes because I have honestly been feeling so alone and almost crazy for having these same exact thoughts. It really has become a time where doing the right thing feels like the wrong thing because no one else seems to be doing it etc. Holding onto our faith is like holding onto a hot coal, but alhamdullilah for the strength to continue holding on. May Allah (swt) make it easy for us to continue striving for His sake. May He guide us & our ummah because our society has changed so much recently. Thank you for sharing! I hope we can all shift to the better and help each other get back to the straight path. It doesn’t feel so hard when you have someone to do it with you. If you ever come down to NY we can grab coffee and appreciate the fall leaves together ♥️
Watching you not wearing makeup and wearing your hijab the way you are wearing it and still looking so pretty Allahumma Barik, makes it easier ❤
I appreciate your take on the subject Mihed and I think almost all hijabis share this struggle.
Imagine how brutal it is out there when you don’t have a husband to get that « pretty validation » from 😂 ( may Allah bless yours)
For my single ladies ( and married ofc), my advice is to really beautify yourself at home it’s life changing. I mean not staying in random pjs the whole day if you are at home , no you choose a dress or smtg you wouldn’t wear outside, also makeup etc and making this a routine so that when you do go outside you don’t need to prove anything to anyone, you already see yourself as pretty and not everyone gets to see that only the people who deserve it 🫶
This really has helped me as a new hijabi , also focus on personal and feminine hygiene since people care about fits etc and forget the absolute basics.
May Allah make it easy for us 🫶
cl i used to do this n it would lowkey trigger me LMAO. I would lit look at myself and be OMG IF ONLY I DIDNT WEAR THE HIJAB I WOULD EATT IF ONLY I WORE MAKEUP W MY HIJAB. But it may totally work for u jst my experience lmao
@@balsammohammed9140 yess I completely get you ! I used to and still think like this sometimes however if I do have this mindset , that means I will never see myself « beautified » 😭 so I just talk to myself and say who do I want to look pretty for ? ( also thinking about a potential husband InchAllah who will have all of this makes it worth it😂) and slowly you stop caring about what absolute strangers have to think about you because that way you are giving them so much power etc
It’s a never ending battle with the nafs and shaytan but I’m sure we can make it inchAllah 🫶
Love this comment! May God make things easy for all of us women, ameen
@@balsammohammed9140 I have these thoughts sometimes as well but i know if i think this way I will not see myself beautified 🥲
I was mainly talking about about indoor clothing and less about makeup ( i only put a touch of lipstick or smtg) because why do we feel the need to dress up for others but for ourselves/family we accept looking below average ? That’s what always motivates me : I have more right over myself than others. Also the choice of pyjamas etc more feminine and less childish (although those too can be fun too😅) or the dresses and skirts I had before Hijab , now I wear all of them at home
Anyways May Allah make it easy for all of us in this journey🫶
15:31 "i hope he doesn't look at me from the right side cuz that's my bad side" guess im not the only one who thinks like that😭😭.
I loved this episode sm may الله bless you Mihed!!❤❣
Thank goodness we have more female hijabis on podcasts 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
you so real man, May Allah make it easy for us, and detach us from this temporary dunya
Mihed don’t worry girl, you’re not the only one on this no makeup journey! It’s so refreshing to see others who are also perfecting their hijab for the sake of Allah 🤍
Attention can be one hell of a drug, so for many women, this might be our test. Let us recognize that many of the problems that we are going through as Muslims (for example, the Palestine genocide) are because we Muslims are starting to cave into the Western culture. We must adhere to our principles and improve so our ummah can strengthen again. Life goes in a flash; Jannah is eternal.
you don’t know how much it means to me that you posted this video. when you say you don’t have someone to compare to, that’s exactly how I felt until you posted this and you worded everything I feel so perfectly. shoukran bzef bzefff from your algerian sister. also your face card neverrrrr declines allahumabarik
O MY I relate SO much to the no makeup + tight hijab combo! It is such a struggle especially of you wanna give up makeup
again „I hate to hear my voice“ I can to 10000% understand it and as support: *your* voice is absolutely nice to hear! this is how it sounds to me personally - absolutely good
miheddd subhanAllah. i can't express to u how much i appreciate your transparency about this topic. i watch your videos and see you speaking about not wearing makeup, which is one of the goals i'm struggling with and as someone who's not conventionally attractive, barely got any compliments or felt pretty my whole life - i used to think "it's easy for her to say" not in a negative way, but in a way that i always thought how could she have any negative thoughts about herself without makeup, because in my eyes you were always so beautiful without it allahuma barik. so to hear you speak about this, it made me feel less alone, your perspective on how these thoughts are not us and are actually shaytaan helped change my mindset so much. i pray Allah makes it easy for you and I and every muslim girl that is struggling to accept the beauty Allah has naturally bestowed upon us. i think it's soooo important to recognize that the world and society we live in doesn't make it easy and i just wanna give u a big hug for addressing this and being honest with ur audience. may Allah bless you always, allahuma Aameen
Mihad! Your words struck a cord! the part about feeling like the only one who is doing the bare minimum and it’s so hard to let go of beautifying yourself when it is in our fitrah. 😫 at the end, it’s the fight against nafs. And the reward is with Allah. none of us ladies are alone 😭 May Allah accept our efforts. 🩵
Girl this podcast was amazing since I only follow u on ytb I didn’t even know you made podcasts , I feel like I’ve found my people , I don’t even know you but im really proud of the way you’re trying to stop tabarruj even if there is nobody doing it around you may Allah reward us in this dunya and the other life
You are really inspiring keep going I’m enjoying these podcasts
Mihed you don't need makeup to look pretty. You're literally gorgeous mashallah!
Sis you question yourself and wonder if any of it makes sense…allahuma barik you’re amazing at explaining your thoughts and it really resonates with me. Especially the feeling pretty on social media part! I love your podcasts as they’re so relatable ❤
Gurl, I loved this episode so much!! It was so raw and relatable, felt like I was listening to a friend. Us girls literally go through the same struggles and hearing you talk about them openly really makes us feel as though we're not alone in our struggles. May Allah reward you so much xx
MashAllah TabarakAllah I love your delivery when you speak because it just gives me a boost of energy and makes me want to be a better Muslim SubhanAllah
I lovedddd this video. This is such a necessary conversation and it made me feel so seen 😭🩷 I think that many people shame Muslim women for wanting to feel pretty or have your beauty be acknowledged by other people, even though this is a totally natural thing, we’re still people at the end of the day. Because so much of our value in society is placed in our appearance, it’s not easy to unlearn that, and it’s only natural to struggle with these feelings. It shouldn’t be something that people shame others for. I’m so glad you decided to share this, and you’re definitely not alone !! Thank youuu 💖
Woaaah a podcast with a video yaaaay mihed!!
making movessss🩷🩷🩷🩷
Haha much love mihed and please make more vids❤❤@MihedAsma
I get this so baddds, if I don’t feel good or confident or comfortable in what I look like that day, my whole day is ruined 😭 it’s all I think about, and sometimes if I don’t wear makeup I regret and am like I SHLDVE worn it, then when I wear makeup I feel like I’m wearing too much 😭😭😭😭
I am kind of shocked hearing you talking about face card. Habibti your smile is breathtakingly beautiful! Just smile, whenever you feel insecure about not wearing make up.
I agree with u to the point that i think you've read my mind. This podcast really helped thank you so much ❤
Mihed you’re so beautiful, truly. I’m not just saying it to say it. Also thank you for this. We don’t speak enough about the hijabi beauty standards. I tried being the classic vela girl, hijab loose with neck & hair showing, cute earrings and It looked so good ahh 😂 But then I thought wait am I really going to lose myself and get sins for a trend. On social media the hijabi “it girl” is the one wearing makeup, tighter clothes, and loose scarf, hair showing. But what grounds me is reminding myself that this is all dunya. And you know what it’s a form of Ibadah.. tightening your scarf, choosing the abaya. I don’t know when we all took a turn and the loose scarf + hair showing became a global trend for us hijabis. Not judging, but I empathize with anyone struggling. It’s so real. And it really doesn’t help that people actually treat you differently when you look pretty and “put together”
Adding to this I’ve recently figured social media is really what lowers my iman. We’re fed so much content that contradicts our purpose here. And we fall into it. Sometimes I want to just delete all socials and live under a rock in a farm. But then we’re just girls. And we want to be on the latest trends and it’s all just a struggle 😩
The problem isn't you, and you're definitely not alone in feeling this way-many women feel the same, even if it seems like you're the only one. The real issue is that social media often encourages us to compare ourselves with others. If you realize that it's something you can't handle well, it might help to take a break from social media. There's also a dua you can recite when you see worldly things that your nafs desires:
لَا عَيْشَ إِلَّا عَيْشُ الْآخِرَةِ
(La aisha illa aishul-akhira),
which means "There is no life except the life of the Hereafter."
Also, make dua that Allah brings righteous sisters into your life, better than you, so that you can learn from them and feel strengthened in what you're doing. If you're only surrounded by people doing the opposite, it can have a negative effect on you.
May Allah make things easy for you and give you strength.
Multiple times during this I tried subconsciously pressing the like button. Jazkallahu khaira Mihed, may الله عزوجل make these videos heavy on your scales you don’t know how much you’re doing for us girlies !!!!!!!! 💗💗💗💗
I donˋt know if yoùre going to see this, but wallahi in the name of Allah for me yoùre one of the most beautiful hijabi/ woman i see on social media. Yesterday i saw a girl in our masjid who looks just like you. I couldnˋt get my eyes of her beauty and you are just like her in my eyes. You are such a beautiful woman may Allah bless your beauty, your inner beauty , marriage , iman and health. Amin
Mihed I absolutely love you and this. May Allah reward you and give you sabr. I totally understand and this won't change your mind because you don't see it yourself but you are truly so beautiful :)
Wanting to look good is something that is in our fitrah. Using these feelings in a halal circle will be useful. And thank you Mihad it was a beneficial video ♡
I've been struggling with this exact feeling and wondered where it's stemming from. Just this week i avoided an event I was really looking forward to because I felt "what's the point of going if I'm just going to spend the whole time feeling ugly?"
This podcast made me realise I've been spending way too much time on social media and I haven't been intentional enough about what I consume.
May Allah make it easy for us and reward you❤
20:40 it's like I just wanna be part of your symphonyyyy when it comes to seeing mostly everyone looking pretty on social media those days 😭 we got this bestie may Allah make it easier for us 💗
I just listening to her for the first time and MashAllah I love how real you are and it’s very connecting, Allahuma barik
Girl, we understand you at least I thoroughly did! I undersatnd exactly how you feel about the hijabi and makeup thing. No need to over explain yourself
Heyy Mihed! Ur prob not gonna read this but if you do girl I jst want to tell you wallah you are so pretty mashallah. Like I know where you’re coming from I also wanna wear my hijab tight and don’t wear makeup but I look so ugly with it. I jst wanna tell you like u mashallah have literally nothing to be insecure abt seriously. I literally made dua to look beautiful jst like u when I’m not wearing makeup 😭😭 may Allah put baraka in the work you do I really appreciate these podcast I haven’t watched all of them yet but I saw the title and I has to click on it but thankss. ❤️❤️❤️
You’re beautiful as well. Allahumma bareek for you’re beautiful words.
@@AyeshaSiddiqua-oy7pz Jazakallah khairannn your so sweettttt ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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You are literally bringing me closer to my deen again! May Allah SWT reward you immensely x
so glad you didn’t scrap this and not upload it - loved every second ❤
i finally feel understood after hearing you talk about getting overwhelmed easily, and thank you so much for talking about the internal struggles of staying true to islam
Wow mihed.. I love your words so much subhanallah you just have such qubul and acceptance whenever I hear your words I just feel so understood and SO grateful that somebody is also on the same track as me. genuinely we need more hijabis like you that promote true modesty because i also struggle with feeling like the only one that wears abayas khimars and no makeup to college 😭love you SO much mihed and I truly ask that Allah gives you every last bit of happiness in this dunya and the akhira and rewards you immensely for this🤍and girl idk what you’re ON, you are a NATURAL DROP DEAD BEAUTY- there’s nothing but pure nur I can see radiating from your face and that’s the best beauty habibti 🥺🌹COURAGEEEE mon amie
Girrrl i just paused the video and i wanna tell u that first off u are extremely pretty mashaallah, secondly I SEE myself in you because I always tend to feel like im not explaining that well and so I need like an hour to get my point across & its literally what u just said but i hoooneslty understood you very well and i feel like u express urself very clearlyyyy allahuma bariik.. so yeaa just wanted to tell you that, keep going i love the topics u talk about and have a nice day ❤
If you feel like that, don’t give up makeup completely just wear light/natural makeup, and skincare routine is important for confidence
Alhamdulillah im so so glad u had those tangents because omg the relatability just making me feel so seen and it brought comfort and the whole video was just like big sis advice ,wallah i appreciate this video so much JZK
I love your podcast so much. You are so relatable I have the same thoughts trying to wear my hijab right with no makeup I constantly feel ugly and that I don’t fit in. I literally feel like an auntie lol when I wanna be that cute vela girlie 😭 hearing your thoughts are honestly so refreshing. May Allah Swt bless you and make hijab easy for you. Honestly such an inspiration Allahuma barik
girl im five minutes in and let me tell you i relate to the rebrand thing SO MUCH. i thought it was just me, ill always be changing aesthtetics and my room so often to feel 'fresh' 😭 JazakAllah Khair for this, it has been soso helpful and insightful sis
you are what you consume!!
yes!!!😭💌
Omggg Mihed your camera quality is amazing. You look so beautiful mashallahhh 🫶🏼🫶🏼
I am literally tearing up rn ive been feeling the same exact way about obsessing over beauty and this video was what i needed im also a new hijabi like ive been strugglingggg 😭
im so glad you mentioned farahs video you don't have to be pretty because that video alone made me put on hijab! I already gave up makeup years before finding islam because I already accepted that I am beautiful inside and I just generally worked on loving myself for a long time to get there
SubhanAllah, I'm going through this exact same thing. I quit makeup not too long ago and whilst at the time it felt like it was going good because I done it for the right intention, for the sake of Allah swt and it felt like I was getting A LOT less attention which meant I wasn't getting the sins, this feeling of wanting to feel pretty again just came back. I just kept comparing my past self to my present self and caught myself focusing on other external things other than makeup to emphasise my beauty (my outfit, hijab style etc.), and I felt like I was constantly trying to get the approval of others by always thinking "does everyone still think I'm pretty?" Even when you mentioned feeing left out, it reminded me on Eid where everyone is getting all dressed up and it's like you want to do the same but know you shouldn't but then it just feels like you're not putting as much effort, when in reality you're actually making effort to please Allah swt. I resonated with absolutely everything you said about beauty and thank you for sharing your personal struggle, it truly helped me understand the hijab even more. Please do more vids relating to this topic, may Allah swt make it easier for us all
This is so much needed like girl I am a new hijabi that started college ( today it was the first day and I didn’t end up going because I was scared 😢)
You can do it girl!! You’re stronger than you think 💪✨ May Allah make it even easier for you 🤲 Welcome to the hijabi club! ☺️
@@Bbissou I’m literally crying because I have to go tomorrow. Thank you for your message ❤️
College is full of diverse people in terms of ethnicity and style so the fear that you feel is probably just cold feet for this new stage of your life. Trust me, people don’t care as much as we think they do! With Allah on your side, you will be okay my love 🤍
@@MihedAsma Thank you for your kind words it means a lot to me❤️
Sis you can do it 🔥 be confident with your unique as Muslim girl
be proud of your religion and make Dua to Allah SWT to make it easy for you and help you , don't let other's opinions control your feelings or life Allah SWT is with you
love how you always post when i most need it 💗💗💗 may الله bless you
ameen, always here for you girl 😚🩵
Thank you Mihed!! I have been struggling with hijab and this podcast has helped heaps.
Thank you for this, i really needed to hear this! May Allah swt preserve you
yess, it makes so much sense- i felt that, ur not the only one. I feel like this episode came at the right time for me- I also wear hijab or trying to wear it the "right" way but there are days I truly do struggle and feel like this isn't for me but ik its a journey that takes time, there is so much we don't want to give up but at the end of the day we are doing it to please allah and not others. your honestly doing such a great job on this podcast it was definitely a good thing to address. Something is always better than nothing. Inshallah praying that you will achieve these goals for yourself and Islam.
The internal thoughts are so real and they aren't really talked about , loved everything about this podcast !!!
Eeekkkk I've been waiting for a visual pod for years😫❤️ thanks a bunch Mihed💋💋
Milhed, jazakallah khayr. Thank you for this video. I have never felt so heard and validated. Your thoughts are literally almost identical as mine. I always thought I was the odd one out fr, like I was alone in these thoughts. Thank you for being vulnerable, raw and honest. May Allah reward you abundantly,and may we unite in jannah so I can thank you personally 🤍🤍🤍
Girl I literally go through the same thing I do wear makeup but 90% of the time I don’t because I always been a natural girl and since being covered up again it definitely has it’s challenges because some days I’m like I’m so pretty and other days when I throw my hijab on I’m like ughhhh especially now that I’m on YT and I go to edit my videos but girllll your beautiful and we need to remind eachother that the face card given regardless no matter what May Allah make it easier on all us covered girls and the girls wanting to cover Ameen 💜
Mihed!! Lemme tell you girl, you have done an amazing job with this one. The quality of the video and audio are amazing, you made your points clearly and helped me personally a lot, I cried twice while listening to it. I love the way I could relate to everything you said, except I never felt pretty in the past. Trying hard everyday to become more modest, wear less make up and do everything for the sake of Allah swt. Please keep reminding us cause “reminder benefits the believers”. Don’t worry about the times your thoughts flow freely, those are incredibly important thoughts that pass through everybody’s mind and give the podcast a real perspective. May Allah swt reward you for this and each episode. ❤
I found this podcast so relatable so barakallahufeek sis I love analogy’s and you talk well like it didn’t feel like an hour ye so honestly keep it up ❤
sis i listened to the podcast without knowing what you looked like i came back here and wow, youre elegantly beautiful. Girl if i saw you id think mashallah, just like i do with many muslim women, i dont really think wow when i see a hijabi with makeup, as you said it defeats the purpose, and tbh i think it shows insecurity, since every woman who wears the hijab knows its meant to conceal beauty, thats just the reality. A muslim woman without makeup shows strength and confidence. Honestly ive wanted to put blush on so many times, i think my boring face looks too plain, but i know that if Allah doesnt want that for me, why do i think that would be better for me? Trust in Allah and everything will be perfect. I think what you said is perfect 'you dont need to be attractive to exist' i needed that a little, seeing everyone in uni wearing makeup, even some of the hijabis, its not motivating you know.. but i want to show people that i dont need to wear makeup, and i dont need to look good everyday. As a hijabi i know my value is NOT meant to be based on my appearance at all. This definitely is the whispers of the shaitan you are correct. I'd love to hear more from you sister and more islamicly based as you said you wanted it to be. I love listening to islamic podcasts and i think you said what needed to be said, dont hold back, and you didnt, which is what i respected. Good job sister may Allah reward you for every big and small change you inflicted into someones heart.
-Samiha
instantly subbed :))
truly a phenomenal episode, your ability to convey meaningful topics while keeping things light never fails to amaze me, may allah reward you abundantly, so so much love for you!
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sister i can t say thank you enough i am gratefull a looooot for your message thank you may allah reward us so we both have a convo in jannah with all the girlies laughing and each one of us telling her story of how stupid we were while drinking the best tea in heaven and then the wives of the prophet saw comes and talk with us i am daydreaming about this but hopefull , it deserves jannah inchaa allah because it s hard if we found it easy it means we are doing it wrong !!!!!
Thank you for this podcast Mihed, may Allah ease all of our paths to Jannah al firdaws, ameen. And also concerning salâh, we should remember ourselves that Allah is Ar Rahman Ar Rahim, He prescribed us salâh to soothe our hearts from the hardships of this dunya,we have the blessing and opportunity to go back to Him at least 5 times everyday; to be listened to, to open our hearts to Him and seek strength and comfort trough Him, Al Aziz, Al Mu’min. Our Lord wants ease and everlasting success for us, so lets all strive to stop sabotaging ourselves and to hold on tight to Him (qran, prayers) ameen. (Sorry for errors, I speak french and recently reverted and also hijabi Al hamdoulilah)
There are so many girls who don’t wear makeup or loose hijabs you don’t see them because they aren’t on social media. Farah is the only one i can think her but i think in general we should have role models in real life and not social media💘💘
I agree, most girls who preserve the hijab correctly wouldn't want to be on the Internet 🤍
Gurll thankyou for making me less alone about these struggles❤
Needed this so much.❤❤
I am you and you are me. Sis seriously you really aren’t the only one thinking like this! May Allah grant you jannah til firdous for your struggles. If you ever go to London you best holler up a meet up chitchat coffee matcha kinda vibez
LOVED THIS 10/10 so inspirational and a reality check , Jazakallah khayr 💕
love this mashAllah, you are so inspiring allahuma barik may Allah keep you firm always ameen
yesss can’t wait to watch this rn😭💕 love u mihedddd 🥰
love youuuu🤲🏼🩵
I loved it!!! In fact I love every single video/podcast that you post, and I listen to them more than once 😂😂😂 pls post more!!!
So relatable and RIGHT ON TIME. Thank you Micheal ❤🎉
heyyy miheddd!
appreciate this video so much and your raw perception of beauty and the hijab, thank you love ❤
this is for sure my favourite episode, you are truly valued.
i have a group of friends that are absolutely drop dead gorgeous, masha Allah. they always have their hair out, wearing the most beautiful clothes, putting on makeup that makes them the prettiest. then there i was, fully covered, wearing makeup to make me look not-so-dead with no neck showing. it is for sure hard, but i always hope to remember that i am doing this for our Creator. like what you said, setting the right intention is the most important. and it is to please Allah swt. nothing else.
thank you for this beautiful reminder. may Allah swt bless you for this, Allahumma barik. love you a whole lot dear!!!!!!
Your podcast are my safe place and my reminder for the akhira ❤
Omg ive had the same exact problems. thanks for this video it feels reassuring im npt alone and getting advice on it is the best!
Mashallah inshallah Allah will will grant you jannah
Mihed sweetheart, i dont usually comment on youtube, but i wanted to let you know that it is natural female stuggle to want to look pretty, and to be viewed as pretty. Matter of fact allah says in the quraan: (أَوَمَن يُنَشَّأُ فِي الْحِلْيَةِ وَهُوَ فِي الْخِصَامِ غَيْرُ مُبِينٍ (18)- سورة الزخرف)
, this is how allah made us women. Its our jihad to tacle our desires and shaytan. Trust me its not a you problem❤️ i wear niqab, khimar and all and when i tell you i still struggle. No girl is immune to this. Amd know that this jihad of self could be a reason to win you allahs mercy. Ill keep you in my duaa🥰
Translation : 18( So is one brought up in ornaments while being during conflict unevident [attributed to Allah]?)
👉🏻a creature who is brought up in adornments (wearing silk and gold ornaments, i.e. women)
You inspire me to wear loose clothes and no makeup; it looks so good on you, and you’re so beautiful! I’ve been doing the same for a couple of months now, and I live in Germany, where people stare sometimes, so the struggle is real girl 😅
Allahuma Barik, love this episode💗💗. May Allah grant your heart desire💞
ameen same to you!!🤍🤍
im in class and this showed up, safe to say i cannot wait to go home and watch this
I love your video, keep being someone who wants to please Allah ❤because we get rewarded for striving in the path of Allah and I can relate to what you are saying but we can overcome this problem I pray that allah makes you steadfast 😊
ameen thank you so much! 🩷
I knew I was going to relate to this so hard when I read the title. Love you Mihed ❤
Sis the way that your so pretty Allahummabarik 😭😭😭 you are definitely among those who look pretty on social media 🤍🤍🤍
omg i love the youtube episodeee, more soon🙏🙏🙏
Love this episode Mihed! xx
I get you so much, but you will find a way ❤
Omg yes! I am glad you’re talking about how TikTok contributes to over consumption! Would love to hear your thoughts on it a bit more. They’re always trying to sell you something 😭
this is my best episode so faaaaar✨✨✨
Incredible very smart affirmations, i méditâted about it
ahhhhh I love this video format gurll