Hey friends! Welcome back yet again for vlogmas day 5 out of 12! 🎄Maybe you could tell I was super nervous to film this... I forgot half the points I wanted to bring up so lmk if you're interested in a part 2 sometime? It was fun to show you a little nightlife in manhattan! More importantly, our fundraiser for the Ali Forney Center is almost $500 away from our 10k goal!! AHHHH!! I was thinking of going live next week to celebrate? Ok, thanks for watching ❤Side note, my camera was fighting for its life in the dark restaurant in bars LOL. Bear with me 🤣Link to donate to the AFC: fundraise.aliforneycenter.org/chelsea-callahan
You didn’t look nervous at I actually thought you looked more relaxed & im not bothered about the camera I listen to what you say and I feel I’m hanging out with a very funny kind friend.. I can’t attend live because of the time difference but I always rewatch.. you can post anything you like part 2 or anything :)))
Okay so I'm going to be totally blunt with you okay so if you want children like I would say start to date seriously like before you're near 40 because my mom had me when she was in her fifties and even though she had me she had a lot of complications so like you already know you're a smarty right so you already know and I'm sure that Tisha knows as well but it's more like a gamble as you get older but that's just how it is now if you don't and if you're not wanting kids in this life and you're not like in a rush to have kids then like seriously no pressure ever
I’m loving every single one of these videos and get SO excited when I see you post because it feels like catching up with a friend haha I turn 31 on Monday and it definitely feels like a tide is turning (that can’t be the right phrase..) Eating out alone is soooo underrated and as someone with food anxiety I actually prefer it! So watching you go out to eat alone really reminds me to keep doing it! 💕 Also did I cry when you first posted reaching like $8000 in 3 days?? Sure did 😂 so proud great job ! And it makes ME feel good helping YOU reach your goals 🥰
63 yrs old. I've been singles for 20 yrs. I dated on and off through the years, but for the past 12 yrs, I've been loving the solo life. My time ... And my closets... Are my own. ❤
Loving seeing so many older singles shining in these comments! The world wants us to seem miserable, but the reality is that we are living fabulous lives with our fabulous selves (and pets, if we have them!)
I am 63, too. Single for a long time. One daughter --almost Chelsea's age. 2 cats. Loving life. Love NYC--even though I no longer live there. Did that in the 80s --what I remember of them! :)
In Germany the first date is often a walk (ein Spaziergang) and I like that a lot. You can walk around the city or a Park and If both like then you can stop for a coffee, lunch or dinner and if not.... You walk home alone.
I actually LOVE this idea! Sometimes sitting face to face with a stranger either for coffee or drinks can be a lot, I love the idea of being able to move my body and talk that way instead! Plus I loveee me a nice walk around a neighborhood 10/10 best conversations
I love the answers. Also often one the first date we split the bill. That is strange for other cultures. Not every time but it's getting more and more like that.
100% with you - I’m a clean slate person, we break up I block on every thing, I get rid of almost all physical items that would be reminders of them. I erase their presence from my life. Makes it a lot easier to put the focus back on ME while healing 😊
So I’m actually in the process of getting divorced after being married for 12 years. I am so ridiculously excited to get back to my single life. And not because I want to date. There’s just such a beauty in the freedom and autonomy of solo living and I didn’t expect to miss that so intensely. If I ever get into another serious relationship again, separate residences will be a MUST. lol, but for real. Anyway, I think that’s why I’m so drawn to channels like yours, Chelsea, and other women in their early to mid 30s living the single life. It’s where I left off before I got married, and you remind me so much of me and that perfect time in my life (that I didn’t recognize was so perfect until looking back much later)! Now that I’m 51, I get to go back and do it again, but this time with perspective from the other side. Like instead of starting over from scratch, I get to start over from experience and how cool is that? Sorry for the cheesy tangent, your video today just made me realize one of the subconscious draws I have to your content and why I love it and you so much! Future you is already so proud of you, Chelsea. Just keep going just as you are, you literally can’t lose, miss, or mess up whatever is meant to be for you.
Aww I love your outlook. ! I hope she sees this comment! Congratulations 🎉 I daydream sometimes to have my own space back in my minimalist setting but ultimately I’m happy shacked up for the last 13 years.
@@suitebabygurl1979 you are so sweet, thank you! I think being *happily* married is the key for truly feeling at home when you’re cohabiting. It sounds so logical, but when is life ever logical? lol. I’m so happy that you’re in a loving and fulfilling relationship. We need more examples of that in the world. ❤️
Hugs to you! I came out of an 8 year relationship in March and I LOVE living by myself. When I was with my ex we had our own bedrooms which was also fantastic - especially over the covid lockdown period which was nearly two years in Melbourne, Australia.
I remember being single at 33, living in a big city. I remember hearing that dating in NYC was very difficult. I did end up meeting my ex husband at 35, married at 37 and divorced at 40 due to infertility struggles. I’m only sad that I don’t have kids. Currently in a relationship with a great guy who didn’t want more kids but I chose to stay with him bc I really love him and did not want to have children on my own at an advanced age-touch decision. Anyway, I would recommend not judging guys for how “cool” they are. Living in cities makes women especially hyper focused on very superficial external qualities. Also, don’t listen to girlfriends. Reconnect with the real you without beyond favorite restaurants and bars and look for someone with similar values. Good luck!
I love how your audience comes together from people of different ages, countries, and experiences. I think you're the only youtuber whose comment section I love to read because it truly feels like being part of a community and I'm just catching up with my people
You find the the one Chelsea when you least expect it,i was single until i was 34 when i went back packing through Asia and Australia,i went trekking in the mountains outside Sydney and met a really lovely Swedish girl,moved to Stockholm a couple of years later the rest is history i have been living here for 25 years now and have two beautiful sons,so you never know what lies in store Chelsea,good luck Greetings from Stockholm Sweden
@@somethinggood-sy1ed I never said it would happen to everyone,that is my story my journey,but as i said you never know what happens so don,nt be so bitter and cynical
My thoughts changed when I realized everything in life is an interview. Whether it is dating, meeting friends, applying for a job, looking for a manager, etc It’s all an interview, so better to practice and keep working until you get what you want
I love that you're never afraid to talk about the realistic aspects of the city. It's so refreshing to see someone vlog and share the happy moments, but for it to also not feel sugar-coated.
I totally get keeping a balance on what you want to share or not. Some things are sacred and personal. We know you’re a Queen, just make sure whoever you end up with knows we come as a group package. Kitties and all 😂🤣 Much love everyone, remember you matter and this world is more beautiful because you are in it! 🧡
"I’m 30 and single. I dated once and hated it; he was abusive. Now, I’m focusing on my career, family, and myself. I’m at peace. I recently found your channel and love your videos. I’m a new subscriber-love you!"
Chelsea, I simply love you❤️. Gonna be 68 next week and single since 2011. I take such delight in living vicariously through your everyday adventures. You, Gordo & Delila always bring me joy🥰
My life partner and I met in The Back Room 10 years ago in late Oct/early Nov during a literary event that took place there. Holds a special place in our hearts. I was super single and happy about it, and then there he was. Goes to show that love can find you when you least expect it!! Look forward to more of your wonderful vlogmas content 🎄
I didn't get married until I was 47. There had been other relationships and opportunities for building a family but none of it felt right (granted it did take a bit of effort to get past standard societal expectations) until I met my future husband (also childless) when I was 45. I focused on building my career and making my own way (including meeting the goal of buying my own home by 30). What this has led to is life focused on contributions, family, & friends and an early retirement at 50. Although I am beyond blessed by having a partner, it had always been very rewarding. And on my own terms.
You reminded me of those days when I went out on solo dates. Bar hopping as a single woman was amazing when I was in my early 20's. Now I feel like just watching Netflix while I snuggle in my blanket.
A lot of times after watching one of your videos I feel like commenting and expressing how specific things in the video made me happy! But these days I always end up feeling like when I get specific I’m missing my point: I just loooove you, your videos are so refreshing and make me so enthusiastic! I love errrrything about them. They’re so healing! You’re so funny and clever and humble and true. Thank you Chelsea!! 🧚
Omg I love the end screen! 🥰 But also thank you for being so open about dating and showing it's normal to be single for a while and not jumping from relationship to relationship
Hi Chelsea. I just found your channel in December and I am in love! You’re like a hug in a video. I hope you know how much joy your presence brings. Happy New Year! I wish you all the best and I hope you continue to succeed! I’m here rooting for ya!! ❤
For me, this is one of your most relatable videos yet! I'm in a very similar place in life and love your perspective of planning for and making the most of life NOW. Exploring who you are (because you are incredible) and diving deep into what you like and want. I also agree with the out of sight, out of mind approach with exes...it's the only way. Thank you for taking us on this date and for sharing a bit more about this part of your life. These videos have been a highlight of December!
Awww, Chelsea! Thank you for taking us on a date! You're great. Lovely spots, too! PS. We're so lucky for all these lovely videos! I love your storytelling and the variety of videos you've shown us so far! ❤
I loved last year’s vlogmas with all the holiday prep content, but I’m loving this format too. You’ve put so much thought into keeping it interesting and fun. Thank you! Can’t wait to see what’s coming next!
Thanks for the date. I’m married though so it’s been nice hanging with you…lol love your little dance at the end.. The right guy will come along and see how wonderful you are.
New viewer (and subscriber!!) here and I completely agree. I’m 30 going on 31 soon and I’ve also been focused on how I can create my best life if I don’t meet anyone in this life. I’d love to have kids but it’s important to acknowledge the time constraints women have, especially if we don’t have the means to freeze our eggs and buy a little more time. I’m still on the apps, but with no expectations for what connections I can form using them. Anywho, I enjoyed coming along with you on this date! And the foods you showed have made me so hungry 😂 it definitely doesn’t help that I’m watching this while at the gym on the stairs, working up an insane appetite lol!
I used to hate the phrase "he'll show up when you least expect it" but here to say: this really is very true, at least it was for me. I was single for 7 years focusing on myself for most of that time, with a few dates here and there. Then one day he just showed up at a co-working space. It doesn't have to be at a bar :) Loved my single life though and wouldn't wanna trade this period of my life.
The unbottuned pants is to real haha, so relatable. Don't know why I choose this to be my first comment when I've been watching you for over 1,5 years now. Just wanted to say I really appreciate you and your vlogs, especially since Gordo and Deli joined. You are living the cat lady dream 😻
Hi chelsea!!!! Silent watcher here for like over a year but i just studied in prague for four months and would love to hear more about your experience there maybe in a future video. specifically where you worked bc i miss it every day and love hearing peoples experiences there!! also ur videos help me to relax and they are always so cozy❤️
It’s so smart not to share relationships online! Love your channel and I noticed you blurring out people for their privacy. 10/10 for respectful behavior!
What a cool concept of the video! Thank you for the date, Chelsea 😊 I'm 32, and I also have 2 fluffs. Recently, I went through a proper heartbreak ( and we still work together 😅) I am a true believer that what is meant to be will be there in the right time, right moment. Love the fact how confident you are and just go out and enjoy yourself, I can relate 😊 Chelsea, you are a wonderful woman!
I just know we would be friends if we knew each other in real life! Watching your vlogs is like watching a day in my life but in a different city. It’s so comforting and validating to know so many of us are not alone in how we navigate dating, or rather choosing to abstain from it for our own sanity. Signed, a 30-something in Chicago
Thank you for the lovely date! The format of this vlog was so creative and, as a fellow 33 y/o single living in a city, I found your perspective very familiar and touching. I'm in the same phase this winter, watching cozy content like yours and just focusing on myself ❤
It’s hard. I gave up dating for years and was bit past 40 and met someone when I wasn’t expecting it. He often says he wishes we met sooner, but I think we met at the right time. Sooner and one of us wouldn’t have been right for it. Just enjoy your life and what will be will be. It seems you’re already doing that, so good on you!
I am turnning 29 in January and I keep freaking out that I am still single. I love what I do in my daily life, but it makes me sad that I have no one to come home to, to plan future with or "rely on". I feel like recently my days and activities I do revolve a lot around looking for someone somewhere - I seek every opportunity and hope there will be my future husband in it. My problem also might be that I don't use dating apps and I live in the Netherlands where I think men don't really want to commit... Idk, despite being a happy woman that is aware of what she is capable of and has tons of hobbies, I am also a desperate negative overthinker and I struggle to change it... On that note, thank you for sharing and thanks to all of the women that shared their stories below 🧡
i just love your style of video and of personality- im always psyched to "hang out/go out" with you and end up laughing and smiling and getting down and doing stuff...just so much good. also I'm hungry now...
Don’t give up! I met the love of my life when I was 40 years old! I was so close to calling it quits but tried one last time!! We are now trying to have a baby 2 years later… it’s much later in life they I had “planned” but that’s how life rolls sometimes ❤
This date with you was the cutest thing ever.... thanks for the night out in the big city, from a big city girl at heart who now lives in a small town on the other side of the world!!
I was single until I was 35. Married the guy I always meant to date in high school at 36. We had twins a year later. No outside help, just natural conception. Changed my life. The marriage did not work out, but love having my babies. They are now almost 30. I remained single while they grew up- did not date for 14 years. I was pursued by a man who tolerated me and hung around me while I went to nursing school in my fifties. I think I met him when I was 52. We eventually lived together... and after 12 years we tied the knot. We have now been living together since 2013 and married since July 2023. We have a great marriange and I am enjoying my life. Wish I could retire but I was a dumb ass when it came to investing in pensions and 401 Ks. I am now 66.... and I could not be happier. xxxxxx Wishing you luck. Do not fret.
Funny enough when I was 30, I decided to force myself to go to a local spot where the vibes were my style. I just decided to be open to chatting and meeting people. Lo and behold the bartender was cute in my eyes, we started to chat. I actually blew him off for 6 months as I was getting over someone else but he would periodically check in on me to hang out. I went back to the restaurant in the spring as it was genuinely good, we rekindled. And now we have dated for 3 years, come to find out he is also a home body like me. So you just never know in NYC. My mom on the other hand didn't meet my dad until she was 38.
I am MUCH older than you, however, watching your videos takes me back to my days as a young single woman in NYC. I also lived in Queens for a while (Rego Park) before moving to the West Village. I have always found sharing different dishes with friends is much more fun and cost effective. It's always pricey here and it's fun to experiment. Enjoy the holiday season!
Chelsea, I think I saw this piece on The Today Show…it’s a huge running group in NYC that is specifically for singles. If you’re single, you wear black🙄…after the run everyone goes to a bar and has a drink and socialize….wish I could remember more, or at least the name….but I have confidence that one of your followers will chime in!
first time commenter here, long time viewer (since 5k subs)! i just want to say that i have the attention span of a peanut, but your videos are the only ones i can thoroughly enjoy all the way without skipping because you are so charismatic and charming! your videos are amazing, happy holidays chelsea!!
This is true. Chelsea's videos are technically very very good. I know she thinks about storytelling and works hard for it, but I think she also has a great gift. I think she could direct amazing videoclips or short (documentary style) films as well!
OMG, the funnest vid EVER!! Girrrrrl, I would love to have a cocktail in NYC with you someday and dish about our crazy NY dating experiences! Remember, I was a single thirty-something when I lived in NYC too. Wink, wink, clink, clink! ☕️😉☕️ But you took us out in style, my dear. I loved this cheeky tour (especially the dance break, haha!) So fabulous!! 🙌👍👏
Another great video Chelsea. Those stuffed chicken wings looked AMAZING! And, a big YES to a part 2 and to the live streaming. The more content and ways to interact the better. See you tomorrow.
My best friend and I dated unsuccessfully for a couple of years (not each other 😅). But when I moved to a different city we both almost immediately met our partners. We came to the conclusion that, when I moved away, a space in our life became vacant and someone else could now enter our it. I still really love this idea.
I stopped drinking a few years ago and met my now spouse who also doesn’t drink. I’m glad I put non drinker on my dating profile, it changed my life! Also in NYC. Hang in there.
well I'm 50 and have been single since 2016 and I love the fact the the only person I have to care about is me. Relationships come and go, but the only one that remains is the one you have with yourself, I know, it sounds cheesy, but it's true. I love my life, my little apartment and the fact that I can choose what to do (or not) with my time. I'm happy to see you enjoying yourself and having fun. That's the end goal after all, to be happy and enjoy life, no matter the age. Have a great day and thank you for another great video. See you tomorrow and greetings from Germany 🤍
I love trying new food so I always want to share dishes and it's big in the culture here in Melbourne as well. I think Melbourne is like NYC in that it's very diverse and a very 'foody' city, so there are so many amazing places to eat. In Australia and appetiser is a tiny snack which is often called 'small bites' on the menu. The entree is a smaller meal you have before main course. So the order would be appetiser, entree, main, dessert. I'm loving your vlogmas content so much and you're very. brave for going to restaurants and filming by yourself. Good job Chelsea 🥰
this is SO fun!!! i've been wanting to try double chicken please for a while and everything you got looked amazing. thanks for taking us on a date chelsea
Woohoo such a cool video! ❤ Please post more of these ones, where we can understand better your story behind everything that you are doing with your life (not just routine but overall with your life)
Thanks for the date, it was fun! Omg I laughed out loud at the end when you did the sobriety test or whatever you call it. And you should never get in to a car with a stranger again, take care, and the badge could be a fake one. I wish I could run in NYC but not a marathon! Never gonna happen. I'm happy if I ever could come to visit.
That was cute Chelsea. Thank you🤣. And don’t worry girl sometimes it’s better to focus on just you and not worry about insecurities, emotional roller coasters and broken hearts- says a girl who’s been there. You’re great with just you❤😊
I was single for decades, now into my 20 years with my Life Partner. He's in year 5 of battling cancer, so I really don't know how much time he does have. I do know after all is said and done, I am moving to the Boston area and remaining single for the rest of my days. Relationships are rewarding and hard at the same time. I think being happy is key, no matter how you spend your life. Just remember Chelsea, you might have to get approval from 110K before we allow him to date you. HAHAHAHAHAHA🤣
Chelsea! Amazing video ! I'm 33 living along in Chicago, and I'm at peace about being single! If an opportunity for romance comes up, I won't let it pass !
All the food you tired sounded fun & amazing. That's the beauty of NYC so many awesome places to eat. I read somewhere once that you could live in NYC & go to a different restaurant everyday for the rest of your life & still not try them all. Because there are so many & new ones are opening & closing all the time. Where else in the world can you experience all these different cultures/ culinary experiences? It's like trying the food without having to travel to that country. I've heard it's extremely hard to meet someone in NYC. So happy to see you are content with your life & aren't looking for love. I think you are growing more as a person by experiencing things on your own. Love will find you when you least expect it & if you don't at least you are finding out what you need/ what makes you happy. Was that a video from the 90's show: Cops?!😂 love it either way😅
Hey friends! Welcome back yet again for vlogmas day 5 out of 12! 🎄Maybe you could tell I was super nervous to film this... I forgot half the points I wanted to bring up so lmk if you're interested in a part 2 sometime? It was fun to show you a little nightlife in manhattan! More importantly, our fundraiser for the Ali Forney Center is almost $500 away from our 10k goal!! AHHHH!! I was thinking of going live next week to celebrate? Ok, thanks for watching ❤Side note, my camera was fighting for its life in the dark restaurant in bars LOL. Bear with me 🤣Link to donate to the AFC: fundraise.aliforneycenter.org/chelsea-callahan
Great video 😃would love a part 2!!
You didn’t look nervous at I actually thought you looked more relaxed & im not bothered about the camera I listen to what you say and I feel I’m hanging out with a very funny kind friend.. I can’t attend live because of the time difference but I always rewatch.. you can post anything you like part 2 or anything :)))
Okay so I'm going to be totally blunt with you okay so if you want children like I would say start to date seriously like before you're near 40 because my mom had me when she was in her fifties and even though she had me she had a lot of complications so like you already know you're a smarty right so you already know and I'm sure that Tisha knows as well but it's more like a gamble as you get older but that's just how it is now if you don't and if you're not wanting kids in this life and you're not like in a rush to have kids then like seriously no pressure ever
I’m loving every single one of these videos and get SO excited when I see you post because it feels like catching up with a friend haha I turn 31 on Monday and it definitely feels like a tide is turning (that can’t be the right phrase..)
Eating out alone is soooo underrated and as someone with food anxiety I actually prefer it! So watching you go out to eat alone really reminds me to keep doing it! 💕
Also did I cry when you first posted reaching like $8000 in 3 days?? Sure did 😂 so proud great job ! And it makes ME feel good helping YOU reach your goals 🥰
blurring the peoples faces is so respectful 10/10
I agree that was great. RUclipsrs should do that all the time. People don't want to be unsuspecting guests on people's videos.
@@ShaferHart Agreed and it always surprises me how many people don't agree with this. Blurring is always the move.
63 yrs old. I've been singles for 20 yrs. I dated on and off through the years, but for the past 12 yrs, I've been loving the solo life. My time ... And my closets... Are my own. ❤
Love this ❤️
Loving seeing so many older singles shining in these comments! The world wants us to seem miserable, but the reality is that we are living fabulous lives with our fabulous selves (and pets, if we have them!)
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I am 63, too. Single for a long time. One daughter --almost Chelsea's age. 2 cats. Loving life. Love NYC--even though I no longer live there. Did that in the 80s --what I remember of them! :)
@catgee6325 OMG same. I don't feel weird.
Chelsea you're such a comfort to watch! like a warm blanket. Thank you for your sweet transparency, it is so refreshing.
awe I appreciate that ❤️❤️❤️
In Germany the first date is often a walk (ein Spaziergang) and I like that a lot. You can walk around the city or a Park and If both like then you can stop for a coffee, lunch or dinner and if not.... You walk home alone.
so lovely! my first date with my boyfriend was coffee at a cafe and then we went for a long walk and got macarons.
I actually LOVE this idea! Sometimes sitting face to face with a stranger either for coffee or drinks can be a lot, I love the idea of being able to move my body and talk that way instead! Plus I loveee me a nice walk around a neighborhood 10/10 best conversations
I love that idea. I think next time I go on a date (if I ever do hehe) I'll suggest that.
That actually sounds like the perfect 1st date!
I love the answers. Also often one the first date we split the bill. That is strange for other cultures. Not every time but it's getting more and more like that.
100% with you - I’m a clean slate person, we break up I block on every thing, I get rid of almost all physical items that would be reminders of them. I erase their presence from my life. Makes it a lot easier to put the focus back on ME while healing 😊
You will find Mr. Right when you least expect it. Keep your heart open, and love will find you❤
For what it’s worth, I actually LOVE that you never talk about dating. It’s sooo refreshing I hate hearing about men 😭😭
also really really appreciate that you blur* people’s faces when you record in public such a queen
i love this comment and your profile pic
Although maybe we could hear more about bears (bears in jacuzzis, bears with baby bears, bears politely entering homes, etc etc) amirite?
@clara__g9 omg thank you 🫶
Femcel-ing hard, huh?
So I’m actually in the process of getting divorced after being married for 12 years. I am so ridiculously excited to get back to my single life. And not because I want to date. There’s just such a beauty in the freedom and autonomy of solo living and I didn’t expect to miss that so intensely. If I ever get into another serious relationship again, separate residences will be a MUST. lol, but for real. Anyway, I think that’s why I’m so drawn to channels like yours, Chelsea, and other women in their early to mid 30s living the single life. It’s where I left off before I got married, and you remind me so much of me and that perfect time in my life (that I didn’t recognize was so perfect until looking back much later)! Now that I’m 51, I get to go back and do it again, but this time with perspective from the other side. Like instead of starting over from scratch, I get to start over from experience and how cool is that? Sorry for the cheesy tangent, your video today just made me realize one of the subconscious draws I have to your content and why I love it and you so much! Future you is already so proud of you, Chelsea. Just keep going just as you are, you literally can’t lose, miss, or mess up whatever is meant to be for you.
Congratulations on regaining your freedom!
@@victoriaflip thank you! 🥰
Aww I love your outlook. ! I hope she sees this comment! Congratulations 🎉 I daydream sometimes to have my own space back in my minimalist setting but ultimately I’m happy shacked up for the last 13 years.
@@suitebabygurl1979 you are so sweet, thank you! I think being *happily* married is the key for truly feeling at home when you’re cohabiting. It sounds so logical, but when is life ever logical? lol. I’m so happy that you’re in a loving and fulfilling relationship. We need more examples of that in the world. ❤️
Hugs to you! I came out of an 8 year relationship in March and I LOVE living by myself. When I was with my ex we had our own bedrooms which was also fantastic - especially over the covid lockdown period which was nearly two years in Melbourne, Australia.
I remember being single at 33, living in a big city. I remember hearing that dating in NYC was very difficult. I did end up meeting my ex husband at 35, married at 37 and divorced at 40 due to infertility struggles. I’m only sad that I don’t have kids. Currently in a relationship with a great guy who didn’t want more kids but I chose to stay with him bc I really love him and did not want to have children on my own at an advanced age-touch decision. Anyway, I would recommend not judging guys for how “cool” they are. Living in cities makes women especially hyper focused on very superficial external qualities. Also, don’t listen to girlfriends. Reconnect with the real you without beyond favorite restaurants and bars and look for someone with similar values. Good luck!
I'm 57 been single for 15 years... never been happier! Have my kitties and that's all I need! xoxo
Cat Lady 😸
I love how your audience comes together from people of different ages, countries, and experiences. I think you're the only youtuber whose comment section I love to read because it truly feels like being part of a community and I'm just catching up with my people
so special ❤️❤️
You find the the one Chelsea when you least expect it,i was single until i was 34 when i went back packing through Asia and Australia,i went trekking in the mountains outside Sydney and met a really lovely Swedish girl,moved to Stockholm a couple of years later the rest is history i have been living here for 25 years now and have two beautiful sons,so you never know what lies in store Chelsea,good luck Greetings from Stockholm Sweden
Just because it happened to you doesn't mean it happens for everyone
That's such a lovely story!
This gives me hope ahahh
@@somethinggood-sy1ed I never said it would happen to everyone,that is my story my journey,but as i said you never know what happens so don,nt be so bitter and cynical
Well thank you for sharing this ❤
52 years old and single for 22 years. Better than any relationship I’ve been in.
amen
loneliness is a killer tho.
Bravo ! I love my peace & quiet
My thoughts changed when I realized everything in life is an interview. Whether it is dating, meeting friends, applying for a job, looking for a manager, etc It’s all an interview, so better to practice and keep working until you get what you want
I love that you're never afraid to talk about the realistic aspects of the city. It's so refreshing to see someone vlog and share the happy moments, but for it to also not feel sugar-coated.
I totally get keeping a balance on what you want to share or not. Some things are sacred and personal. We know you’re a Queen, just make sure whoever you end up with knows we come as a group package. Kitties and all 😂🤣 Much love everyone, remember you matter and this world is more beautiful because you are in it! 🧡
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totally agree!
Your vlogmas has been saving my boring workdays! ❤🎉
"I’m 30 and single. I dated once and hated it; he was abusive. Now, I’m focusing on my career, family, and myself. I’m at peace. I recently found your channel and love your videos. I’m a new subscriber-love you!"
Chelsea, I simply love you❤️. Gonna be 68 next week and single since 2011. I take such delight in living vicariously through your everyday adventures. You, Gordo & Delila always bring me joy🥰
I love how us older women love Chelsea too - I'm 56 - It's younger women like her that give me hope for the future of women and the world in general.
My life partner and I met in The Back Room 10 years ago in late Oct/early Nov during a literary event that took place there. Holds a special place in our hearts. I was super single and happy about it, and then there he was. Goes to show that love can find you when you least expect it!! Look forward to more of your wonderful vlogmas content 🎄
Wait that is so cute 😭
I didn't get married until I was 47. There had been other relationships and opportunities for building a family but none of it felt right (granted it did take a bit of effort to get past standard societal expectations) until I met my future husband (also childless) when I was 45. I focused on building my career and making my own way (including meeting the goal of buying my own home by 30). What this has led to is life focused on contributions, family, & friends and an early retirement at 50. Although I am beyond blessed by having a partner, it had always been very rewarding. And on my own terms.
You reminded me of those days when I went out on solo dates. Bar hopping as a single woman was amazing when I was in my early 20's. Now I feel like just watching Netflix while I snuggle in my blanket.
A lot of times after watching one of your videos I feel like commenting and expressing how specific things in the video made me happy! But these days I always end up feeling like when I get specific I’m missing my point: I just loooove you, your videos are so refreshing and make me so enthusiastic! I love errrrything about them. They’re so healing! You’re so funny and clever and humble and true. Thank you Chelsea!! 🧚
Omg I love the end screen! 🥰 But also thank you for being so open about dating and showing it's normal to be single for a while and not jumping from relationship to relationship
Hi Chelsea. I just found your channel in December and I am in love! You’re like a hug in a video. I hope you know how much joy your presence brings. Happy New Year! I wish you all the best and I hope you continue to succeed! I’m here rooting for ya!! ❤
For me, this is one of your most relatable videos yet! I'm in a very similar place in life and love your perspective of planning for and making the most of life NOW. Exploring who you are (because you are incredible) and diving deep into what you like and want. I also agree with the out of sight, out of mind approach with exes...it's the only way. Thank you for taking us on this date and for sharing a bit more about this part of your life. These videos have been a highlight of December!
Love this! Being at peace and happy with yourself is such a hard and satisfying place to be.
You do you girl! Hugs
Awww, Chelsea! Thank you for taking us on a date! You're great. Lovely spots, too!
PS. We're so lucky for all these lovely videos! I love your storytelling and the variety of videos you've shown us so far! ❤
These vlogs are SO FUN! We're spoiled this December. Take me with you next time you go to Attaboy!
YES!! Can we please!
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What a great date! Thanks, Chel for taking us out and showing us a good time. BTW, I get sooo hungry when you show the food dishes.
Yay I have been loving your videos. You can tell you planned ahead to make this go smoothly this year. Great work!❤
aw thank you ❤ also you were first comment 😀⚡
Will u marry me ? Chelsea @@ChelseaCallahan
I loved last year’s vlogmas with all the holiday prep content, but I’m loving this format too. You’ve put so much thought into keeping it interesting and fun. Thank you! Can’t wait to see what’s coming next!
Awe thanks!! there’s some holiday stuff coming on Sunday!
Thanks for the date. I’m married though so it’s been nice hanging with you…lol love your little dance at the end..
The right guy will come along and see how wonderful you are.
New viewer (and subscriber!!) here and I completely agree. I’m 30 going on 31 soon and I’ve also been focused on how I can create my best life if I don’t meet anyone in this life. I’d love to have kids but it’s important to acknowledge the time constraints women have, especially if we don’t have the means to freeze our eggs and buy a little more time. I’m still on the apps, but with no expectations for what connections I can form using them. Anywho, I enjoyed coming along with you on this date! And the foods you showed have made me so hungry 😂 it definitely doesn’t help that I’m watching this while at the gym on the stairs, working up an insane appetite lol!
I find your content so refreshing, you share your genuine, true self and it’s inspiring.
I used to hate the phrase "he'll show up when you least expect it" but here to say: this really is very true, at least it was for me. I was single for 7 years focusing on myself for most of that time, with a few dates here and there. Then one day he just showed up at a co-working space. It doesn't have to be at a bar :) Loved my single life though and wouldn't wanna trade this period of my life.
The unbottuned pants is to real haha, so relatable. Don't know why I choose this to be my first comment when I've been watching you for over 1,5 years now. Just wanted to say I really appreciate you and your vlogs, especially since Gordo and Deli joined. You are living the cat lady dream 😻
lol your sense of humor in this vid is A+
I can't believe attaboy & the back room are still kicking!! loved going there when I was in college
oh hey king!! awe yay! And right? I’d be devastated if they closed 😭
I am loving the daily videos! Highlight of my work day watching on lunch!
Hi chelsea!!!!
Silent watcher here for like over a year but i just studied in prague for four months and would love to hear more about your experience there maybe in a future video. specifically where you worked bc i miss it every day and love hearing peoples experiences there!!
also ur videos help me to relax and they are always so cozy❤️
Vlogmas makes my lunch breaks so much better! I look forward to watching your videos every day ❤
This was such a fun vlog! And MAD props to you for being comfortable enough to film in public spaces! You killed it ☺️
You have very quickly become my favorite youtuber!! Love, another single 30 something in BK
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Girl I love your honesty and your authentic self. It is always a treat to enjoy your videos and your unique editing style. Love from Romania
girl .. the cop meme on the spot 👌
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This is one of my favorite of your videos!!! Loved it.
It’s so smart not to share relationships online!
Love your channel and I noticed you blurring out people for their privacy.
10/10 for respectful behavior!
I needed this, i am also so over it
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What a cool concept of the video! Thank you for the date, Chelsea 😊 I'm 32, and I also have 2 fluffs. Recently, I went through a proper heartbreak ( and we still work together 😅) I am a true believer that what is meant to be will be there in the right time, right moment.
Love the fact how confident you are and just go out and enjoy yourself, I can relate 😊
Chelsea, you are a wonderful woman!
I just know we would be friends if we knew each other in real life! Watching your vlogs is like watching a day in my life but in a different city. It’s so comforting and validating to know so many of us are not alone in how we navigate dating, or rather choosing to abstain from it for our own sanity. Signed, a 30-something in Chicago
I love this one! You should make it a series - the dating series - and take us out on dates in the city😄 Oh and btw, I love you, you’re so funny!
I’m so happy for You being yourself and just living being yourself , no explanations ❤
Thank you for the lovely date! The format of this vlog was so creative and, as a fellow 33 y/o single living in a city, I found your perspective very familiar and touching. I'm in the same phase this winter, watching cozy content like yours and just focusing on myself ❤
69 year old long married lady here, oh boy, Chelsea! This will be interesting to me 😀😉🥳 And you’re looking fine tonight, my dear!
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A lot of women are starting to realize that being in a relationship isn’t necessary. We can create a fulfilling life without a man.
It’s hard. I gave up dating for years and was bit past 40 and met someone when I wasn’t expecting it. He often says he wishes we met sooner, but I think we met at the right time. Sooner and one of us wouldn’t have been right for it. Just enjoy your life and what will be will be. It seems you’re already doing that, so good on you!
I think that is the best way to find love, when you least expect it ♥
I am turnning 29 in January and I keep freaking out that I am still single. I love what I do in my daily life, but it makes me sad that I have no one to come home to, to plan future with or "rely on". I feel like recently my days and activities I do revolve a lot around looking for someone somewhere - I seek every opportunity and hope there will be my future husband in it. My problem also might be that I don't use dating apps and I live in the Netherlands where I think men don't really want to commit... Idk, despite being a happy woman that is aware of what she is capable of and has tons of hobbies, I am also a desperate negative overthinker and I struggle to change it...
On that note, thank you for sharing and thanks to all of the women that shared their stories below 🧡
I thought it was just in Los Angeles area that men didn’t want to commit 🤦🏼♀️ I can’t believe that’s how it is in the Netherlands too! 😵💫
@@jamesblonde8362 It sure is... unfortunately
Same I'm turning 29 in June
@@Maiseymax696 I’m turning 33 and still single 🙈 all of us girls need to unite and just buy a mansion together so we have each other 🥹
The only reason you can't finnd a man is because your standards are too high.
thank you for making my days so much better 💛 Sending love from Lithuania
i just love your style of video and of personality- im always psyched to "hang out/go out" with you and end up laughing and smiling and getting down and doing stuff...just so much good. also I'm hungry now...
for the algo......but also, the back room on weekends is CRAZYY packed. so good to know weekdays are the move.
loved the vibe and the chat of this video, thank you!
Where you hang out tells a lot about you. Girl you got some class.
Great vid. Truly genuine take from you, and I’m sure people really appreciate that. All the best. ❤
Don’t give up! I met the love of my life when I was 40 years old! I was so close to calling it quits but tried one last time!! We are now trying to have a baby 2 years later… it’s much later in life they I had “planned” but that’s how life rolls sometimes ❤
That was fun. I miss the food and cool bars in New York so much. You doing the drunk walk the line dance while waiting for the Uber was very funny.
This date with you was the cutest thing ever.... thanks for the night out in the big city, from a big city girl at heart who now lives in a small town on the other side of the world!!
I was single until I was 35. Married the guy I always meant to date in high school at 36. We had twins a year later. No outside help, just natural conception. Changed my life. The marriage did not work out, but love having my babies. They are now almost 30. I remained single while they grew up- did not date for 14 years. I was pursued by a man who tolerated me and hung around me while I went to nursing school in my fifties. I think I met him when I was 52. We eventually lived together... and after 12 years we tied the knot. We have now been living together since 2013 and married since July 2023. We have a great marriange and I am enjoying my life. Wish I could retire but I was a dumb ass when it came to investing in pensions and 401 Ks. I am now 66.... and I could not be happier. xxxxxx Wishing you luck. Do not fret.
Funny enough when I was 30, I decided to force myself to go to a local spot where the vibes were my style. I just decided to be open to chatting and meeting people. Lo and behold the bartender was cute in my eyes, we started to chat. I actually blew him off for 6 months as I was getting over someone else but he would periodically check in on me to hang out. I went back to the restaurant in the spring as it was genuinely good, we rekindled. And now we have dated for 3 years, come to find out he is also a home body like me. So you just never know in NYC. My mom on the other hand didn't meet my dad until she was 38.
I am MUCH older than you, however, watching your videos takes me back to my days as a young single woman in NYC. I also lived in Queens for a while (Rego Park) before moving to the West Village. I have always found sharing different dishes with friends is much more fun and cost effective. It's always pricey here and it's fun to experiment. Enjoy the holiday season!
Chelsea, I think I saw this piece on The Today Show…it’s a huge running group in NYC that is specifically for singles. If you’re single, you wear black🙄…after the run everyone goes to a bar and has a drink and socialize….wish I could remember more, or at least the name….but I have confidence that one of your followers will chime in!
first time commenter here, long time viewer (since 5k subs)! i just want to say that i have the attention span of a peanut, but your videos are the only ones i can thoroughly enjoy all the way without skipping because you are so charismatic and charming! your videos are amazing, happy holidays chelsea!!
omg since 5k wow!! Thank you 🥹happy holidays to you too ❤️
This is true. Chelsea's videos are technically very very good. I know she thinks about storytelling and works hard for it, but I think she also has a great gift. I think she could direct amazing videoclips or short (documentary style) films as well!
OMG, the funnest vid EVER!! Girrrrrl, I would love to have a cocktail in NYC with you someday and dish about our crazy NY dating experiences! Remember, I was a single thirty-something when I lived in NYC too. Wink, wink, clink, clink! ☕️😉☕️ But you took us out in style, my dear. I loved this cheeky tour (especially the dance break, haha!) So fabulous!! 🙌👍👏
I'm so grateful for your videos, Chelsea!!
Another great video Chelsea. Those stuffed chicken wings looked AMAZING! And, a big YES to a part 2 and to the live streaming. The more content and ways to interact the better. See you tomorrow.
My best friend and I dated unsuccessfully for a couple of years (not each other 😅). But when I moved to a different city we both almost immediately met our partners. We came to the conclusion that, when I moved away, a space in our life became vacant and someone else could now enter our it. I still really love this idea.
I stopped drinking a few years ago and met my now spouse who also doesn’t drink. I’m glad I put non drinker on my dating profile, it changed my life! Also in NYC. Hang in there.
You are so funny, great sense of humor, adventurous, so pretty. Stop looking, a good one will come, but not necessary.
i loved this video style/idea!! i take myself on solo dates all the time, its so cozy seeing others do the same :)
well I'm 50 and have been single since 2016 and I love the fact the the only person I have to care about is me. Relationships come and go, but the only one that remains is the one you have with yourself, I know, it sounds cheesy, but it's true. I love my life, my little apartment and the fact that I can choose what to do (or not) with my time. I'm happy to see you enjoying yourself and having fun. That's the end goal after all, to be happy and enjoy life, no matter the age. Have a great day and thank you for another great video. See you tomorrow and greetings from Germany 🤍
Chelsea, I’ve been here for awhile (2 years?!) and I am SO PROUD of you vlogging so openly in public! Get it queen!!!! 👑 Loving this Vlogmas series 😍
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this was such a cool take on a dating video!
I love trying new food so I always want to share dishes and it's big in the culture here in Melbourne as well. I think Melbourne is like NYC in that it's very diverse and a very 'foody' city, so there are so many amazing places to eat. In Australia and appetiser is a tiny snack which is often called 'small bites' on the menu. The entree is a smaller meal you have before main course. So the order would be appetiser, entree, main, dessert. I'm loving your vlogmas content so much and you're very. brave for going to restaurants and filming by yourself. Good job Chelsea 🥰
Chelsea you keep inspiring a 27 yr old homebody and I always look forward into your insight ❤❤❤
this is SO fun!!! i've been wanting to try double chicken please for a while and everything you got looked amazing. thanks for taking us on a date chelsea
Omg dying the step bump step bump bump i love it 😂😂
Woohoo such a cool video! ❤ Please post more of these ones, where we can understand better your story behind everything that you are doing with your life (not just routine but overall with your life)
you're so cool for this!!
Enjoyed, especially the dancing.🤗👏💕💕
Thanks for the date, it was fun! Omg I laughed out loud at the end when you did the sobriety test or whatever you call it. And you should never get in to a car with a stranger again, take care, and the badge could be a fake one. I wish I could run in NYC but not a marathon! Never gonna happen. I'm happy if I ever could come to visit.
So fun being on a date together! Thanks for binging us 🫶🏻
Chelsea you really are THE BEST! I wish I lived near you we’d have so much fun! If you come to London let’s go out! 🥂🍾
first time watcher. this was fun!
That was cute Chelsea. Thank you🤣. And don’t worry girl sometimes it’s better to focus on just you and not worry about insecurities, emotional roller coasters and broken hearts- says a girl who’s been there. You’re great with just you❤😊
Ooh Attaboy looked so inviting. And the magical cocktail making!
I was single for decades, now into my 20 years with my Life Partner. He's in year 5 of battling cancer, so I really don't know how much time he does have. I do know after all is said and done, I am moving to the Boston area and remaining single for the rest of my days. Relationships are rewarding and hard at the same time. I think being happy is key, no matter how you spend your life. Just remember Chelsea, you might have to get approval from 110K before we allow him to date you. HAHAHAHAHAHA🤣
Love the reference to that hilarious drunk driving stop at the end of the video! I think that was a proper moonwalk as well.
Chelsea! Amazing video ! I'm 33 living along in Chicago, and I'm at peace about being single! If an opportunity for romance comes up, I won't let it pass !
All the food you tired sounded fun & amazing. That's the beauty of NYC so many awesome places to eat. I read somewhere once that you could live in NYC & go to a different restaurant everyday for the rest of your life & still not try them all. Because there are so many & new ones are opening & closing all the time. Where else in the world can you experience all these different cultures/ culinary experiences? It's like trying the food without having to travel to that country. I've heard it's extremely hard to meet someone in NYC. So happy to see you are content with your life & aren't looking for love. I think you are growing more as a person by experiencing things on your own. Love will find you when you least expect it & if you don't at least you are finding out what you need/ what makes you happy. Was that a video from the 90's show: Cops?!😂 love it either way😅
Trouble is there is probably so much choice it could be tricky finding the really special places. Much like a romantic partner, I suppose
Love your channel you’re such a comfort!