the best sponsored content ever @chelseacallahan, especially the part where you say how refreshing the drinks are and Gordo licking the bottle right on cue. It could not be more tempting than that now could it?
As a woman who lived almost 20 years in what was considered a socially acceptable level of abusive marriage (of course, I know now that there's no acceptable level of abuse), your interference was spot on. When you are the one being abused, and everyone acts like it's no big deal, you believe it's no big deal. By reaching out to her, your action and support will stay with her and hopefully help her to seek a way out. ❤
Thank you for stepping in when you saw that abuse. Reminding them both that his behavior was not ok and that she has support out in the world can be a game changer for her.
I totally agree - the only other thing I'd have done is given her a support number (even a mental health one if it didn't feel safe/appropriate to give an abuse one with her husband right there that would be my only thought). Reminded me to pop a mental health crisis and abuse number in my contacts should I come across something when out in public. Any other opinions on the safety of that welcome, just thinking a lot of people get totally isolated and don't know a number and thinking about the woman when she goes home. And another option maybe if number feels too hard is when you walk with someone (if they have this in the US, they do in the UK), tell them to look out for signs in the toilets and by the bar of some businesses like pubs/bars - in the UK they have signs that tell you to "Ask to speak to Angela/other name of businesses choice" and that will alert the staff you are experiencing abuse eg) someone abusive is in the premises, so they can talk to you and call emergency/support services if needed.
Hi friends! When I titled this video "a very honest vlog", I meant it! We definitely have a few laughs as usual, but once you watch you'll see that this vlog is very personal to me. The more you share as a creator, the more you open up to public ridicule which then makes you want to pull back which is what I don't want, so I am nervous about it for sure... A couple other creators I follow so bravely shared about their health and it made me feel seen and inspired me to talk about some more challenging topics like this. It's never for the views, I'm just hoping this lands on the people that need it ❤and also because what is the point of having this channel at all if we don't talk about the real things? I just kindly ask if you have any negativity to share about women's health, please keep it to yourself. I'll be deleting any comments that body shame me or anyone else. Thanks for being here, much love ❤
Thanks for keeping it real. I've been through something similar and solidarity is vital. We might never meet in person, but I care about you ginormously and am glad you're taking care of yourself so you can live your best life for decades to come.
I'm glad you did this video about your pap smear because it is more common than what people think. I went for an exam, which is something I just hated to do it's just one of those things. Sounds like the dentist, lol. But I went and had a reading come back that was not favorable. So I went in and had a thing that you had done and they called me a few days later over the phone and told me I had cervical cancer. I'm so glad I went and I'm so glad that you went and I I'll take this opportunity remind everybody as well to please get your screenings done no matter how much you don't like them, lol. Luckily ,when I went in to have the surgery they cut it at stage 1, thank God!
Thank you for sharing! And you’re right, it is so important to go for checkups. Here in Sweden we get automatically called to go for a pap smear every third year 👍👍
You did the RIGHT thing by stepping up to help that woman. People who turn from helping those in need are just as bad as those who are hurting others. 🥰💖💕
Such a boss move stepping in like you did. Good for you! Here's my TMI story. When I was 26 and after giving birth to my youngest daughter, I was diagnosed with a pre cancerous condition and had a total hysterectomy. I was very lucky to have it caught early. I'm 67 (tomorrow as a matter of fact!) and still have my annual Get yourselves checked ladies! Same with mammograms!
Happy Birthday ! Congrats on taking good care of yourself & now makin it to 67 ! I can relate: stage 3 breast cancer survivor here. Diagnosed as I was about to turn 44. I’m 64 now !! Life is good ! Even tho it ain't always easy.
Me to ! I was pregnant when they found out so I had to wait till I gave birth . Same year that Jade Goody died in the UK… that was the year that women became more aware of the condition and all went for smear tests ❤ Knowledge is power .
At 10:02 pm on August 9, 2024 - I squeezed myself as tight as I could and asked the universe to give it to you as a hug. As someone who survived an abusive relationship, I think that if someone had done for me what you did for the woman on the street, I may have left sooner. I am not saying that every situation is safe to interject into and I couldn't expect anyone to be my hero. However, the impact of a stranger standing up for you is so powerful.
You are amazing. Talk about pap smear tests and for helping that woman , you totally rock. I had an experience where this guy was harassing me on the train and I stood up for myself, no one else said anything. So for that woman, you stepping in, probably means the world. Keep safe, keep healthy. I love your content and your realness
As a 23 year old woman, I love watching your authenticity. The way you show different angles of you body, pre or post shower, up down left right, the ups and downs of life it’s just so refreshing. It’s a good reminder that my body is the least interesting thing about me 🤍 your vlogs are so entertaining and emotive. So thank you.
Hi Chelsea, I am just moving with my husband to Portugal and for the last two weeks I was just packing things and watching/listening to mostly all of your older videos. I just wanted to say... I see a really big change in your mental health and happiness ...you are like sunshine now, beautiful, honest, real and I just see/ feel you love yourself more and more and girl I am here for it. You are doing great job!!!!! Thank you for being here and just please continue. I wish you all the best. Andy (from Czech Republic...not best english :D)
Dude you are rocking the short hair. GORGEOUS! Thanks for the book rec on Instagram. Glad you’re ok healthwise and sharing your story - I appreciate you x you are a good soul Chelsea.
It literally is driving me nuts how she puts it in a little pony tail almost all the time. It's so beautiful down! Chelsea, PLEASE let your hair down! ❤
The kitties are going to LOVE the big cat tree! You'll be so glad you got it. It will bring hours of entertainment for all of you. They are both so incredibly adorable and silly. Thank you for sharing them with us. 🫶🏻
It's awesome you got that tree for them! You'll get used it and it's perfect by the window, cats need that stimulation especially in a small apartment! Love it!
Chel..you're amazing. I just got treated for an STI last week for the first time in my life. I work in reproductive health and have tons of women in my life and I'm afraid to tell ANYBODY except the partners who may be affected by it. I'm going for a PAP next week and honestly your sharing made me freakin wanna cry. you're a boss and a queen and you feel like my bestie. thanks for caring, back at ya sis ❤
I've done split second intervening too. There was some old dude harassing a couple of young teen girls, yelling at them they couldn't be on the sidewalk in front of the library. Huh? I told him he couldn't talk to them like that, and he treatened to sic his state trooper nephew on me, lmao. He got on his bicycle and toddled off. No one passing by helped the girls. Pissed me off that it was happening so I just jumped in the middle of it.
I actually teared up watching this video… thankyou for not being a passive bystander in that situation. Also, you are so brave for going through that health stuff… thankfully I’ve never had an abnormal, but I have a friend who went through a lot of pain and suffering before having a hysterectomy (we are late 30s). I don’t want children, but she did, and it was extremely difficult for her to go through all that. I hope you are doing well 🫶
First of all, I absolutely loved this video. Everything about this video was awesome. I laughed out loud a few times because your cats are so stinking entertaining. I think the thing I loved about this video so much is……you’re just so open and honest and vulnerable and honestly just talking about real life shit. It’s refreshing and you really do feel like a sister. Although I’m a full decade older so you’re my baby sister
This was what I needed. Had a pap smear, results came back abnormal, got a leep - was one of the worst days of my life, simply because the complexity and lack of resources online, because people would not share as there is a stigma around it, as you said. Yesterday after 6 months of procedure, I had routine pap smear and waiting for results. Somehow you going through the same thing made me feel less alone. Love from Istanbul ❤
I hope you don't feel too bad about the apartment taking time to get organized. Finding your individual style takes time, and having an eclectic place full of warm and cool tones, colors you love, and huge cat trees is just a part of what makes the human experience wonderful. Your home is for you, and don't you dare feel bad about having a big cat tree. I'm sure your cats will LOVE it!!! And thank you for being so honest about your health scare. Made me realize I need to schedule an appointment for myself. ❤
Thanks for sharing. Shit isn’t easy, but it’ll help the people that need it. I shared about getting a hysterectomy at 25 a few months ago and people hate it or have their opinions , but it’s not for them. It’s for the people that were like me needing a similar perspective. Keep doing you
I had to get a hysterectomy when I was 29 because I had endometriosis really bad....I have had so many comments about it, including that I am "not a woman anymore". People are very ignorant sometimes. I wish they would educate themselves before forming opinions about such things.
@@angelinaduganNy I’m sorry you went through that. I had mine (mostly) as a permanent birthcontrol and to relieve my moderate endo. I’ve heard the same and have just learned to laugh it off. People are very ignorant especially when it comes to women’s health
I just stumbled your channel about two weeks ago and even before this video was done, I hit the subscribe button. Your energy is so girly, friendly … basically it’s top tier. You seem like someone I’d love to be friends with. Keep doing what you do. Sending you love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Chelsea, thank you for sharing this with your followers. My SIL ignored a bad pap and is now battling stage 3 cancer 💔 it's so important to check in on your health and FOLLOW UP with things as well. You're awesome!
Hey Chelsea! I haven't watched your videos for a while (that's usually what I tend to do with my favourite youtubers, I just "save" their videos to binge watch later until I feel overwhelmed because I am way behind and out of sync seasons-wise and then binge watch their videos again until I am sad because there are no more videos and repeat the cycle again), BUT what I meant to say is that this video made me so happy! You are so relatable and kind and girly (in the millions ways there are to be a girl or a vag person) and I love your content!! You inspire me to maybe start making videos myself one day! Love you
Chelsea, I’ve done the same thing for woman. We just act on instinct. I’m sure she appreciated you walking with her. Men can be stupid and stand by sometimes. I’m proud of you 👏🏼 I’m also happy you had the procedure and you are onto your healthy journey. Thanks for sharing that very intimate piece of your life. Your cat tree is amazing. Your cats are living their best lives thanks to you. Love you gf. Keep keeping it real. Tisha is a very special young lady in my life too💗
I commend you for sharing your health story with us! You have this platform to make awareness on serious topics that could help so many others. I'm not sure if I don't know one family member or friend who hasn't had female issues. Thank you again! BTW: you're a great fur baby momma❤
Thank you for talking about women’s health. And totally block anyone who dares to say something mean, about this or anything really. You are doing life real and good. Congratulations on being a winner on the daily. ❤
Ooooh honey ! Glad you are on the mend ! Thanks to Julie for looking out for you. Yes … we are all def carrying and processing stuff, aren’t we ? And so often in silence. Imo , it’s an ideal time on the planet for in-depth healing… something about these crazy times we live in - which we all showed up for - accelerates our evolution. Much love , Liz
So needed to see the cat tower!!! They will love it so much! And the view out the window! I just started back in the gym (my son challenged me to go) and it has been awesome - I'm MUCH older than you - a fellow Virgo - and I have 4 cats and a dog. It is great to see how happy you are with those two little kitties. They seem to find us when we need them!
Have been looking for THE right, tall cat tree tower forEVER, and yours is IT!! Can you possibly share the link to it?? I (and Minnie and Squeekie) will be forever grateful! Hope I am able to afford it... :) Love your real-life blog. Just came across it and fell in, much enjoyed.
Hugging that woman was a kind gesture and I bet she doesn’t forget you. On a happier note the factor ad was brilliant. I was actually laughing out loud and their meals do look good. Everyone have a nice weekend
you are what we call "a chingona". Badass! Way to stand up for women! And taking care of your health is so great. Due to an abnormal pap in my early 20's, we discovered a precancerous issue. Right when I got my surgery, it turned cancerous but my amazing doc didn't put that down because he knew it would affect my ability to get health coverage (this was back in the 90's). All is good now but I'm always telling my friends to get their checkups done.
Girl! I'm not even done viewing this video and I had to stop to comment on the Factor promo. Brilliant! Absolutely brilliant! Love the way you featured the male voice and both Gordo and Delilah. You are a comedic genius . . . now to finish the video. 🤣
Chelsea has her badass cloak on! I’m glad you’re caring for your health and on your way to a healthy lifestyle. Thanks for stepping in to help that young lady in a predicament that could have escalated, and don't second-guess yourself about it. I'm loving the content…❤
Hi Chelsea - I’ve been watching your channel for a while but never commented but wanted to let you know that you were 100% right to intervene with that couple. You were probably a voice for her when she couldn’t speak up. Letting her know you were there for her would’ve meant a lot. You also sent a message to her husband that his behaviour unacceptable. Women need to have women’s backs and you did that. Thank you Chelsea. And thank you for your channel. I live in the UK and NY is my fav city and can’t wait to visit again. My cat Binx ( who looks like Gordo!) sends his love to the 3 of you! And yes! Mention women’s health - always have your pap/ smear test - don’t put it off! It’s so important!! ❤❤
Always love your vlogs! Just want to say that I think it’s always a good idea to step in and stand up for a woman in that situation. If nothing else, it can show her that she’s worth it, it shouldn’t be normal, and she does not deserve to be treated that way. ❤
Hey Chelsea. I honestly love your vlogs. The factor/cat segment was hilarious. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed about the Pap smear and results - it’s quite common and better to get these things sorted like you say. Glad the cats are using the cat tree, they are so cute! Also love Tisha and watch her channel. I’m visiting NYC next month so making a note of any places you visit which I can add to my list of things to do - thank you x
Thanks for sharing your recent health issues. You are correct that it is hard to comfortably share health struggles especially related to female reproductive issues. I was diagnosed with endometriosis more than 30 years ago and not until recently have I heard it discussed on social media. I am glad that more people are coming forward to not suffer in silence. We should not feel ashamed for our struggles and taking care of ourselves. As always, your transparency is appreciated. Sending love.
I absolutely love that you shared the whole Pap test and follow-up procedure. As women we need to make this type of information as normal as possible. You’ve done yourself and your followers a huge favour. Love the cat home, not sure how long you will be able to tolerate the gigantic size…lol. You’re looking so comfortable in your self these days and I think boots were definitely the best choice for a rainy mid town event. Chelsea, you rock…❤❤❤
If just one person goes for their smear test after what you've been through then you may well have saved someone's life. I'm so glad you're ok and it's great you stood up for the lady when she needed help 😊. Also, I love the Roy Williams song. Great choice! Plus, a living room isn't complete without a 75ft cat mansion 😂
As someone who was in a DV relationship, thank you for saying something! It may not immediately change anything for her, but it may have helped show her she was seen. I suffered in silence for a long time because I was embarrassed and didn’t think anyone would believe me. Thank you for being fearless and showing her support. ❤
I’m very happy that all is well after your health event. I love how your a positive you tuber.. you put your own health out there and it can help others. I’m sure you have helped out a lot of women just by your kind words. Thank you for the support that women need. 👍
I have followed Tisha for quite a while too! She was grabbed recently. I think it’s great to share. I’ve had a bad pap. Good for you to share, AND yell at THE MAN! Maybe it will make the woman realize that she shouldn’t be in that marriage. And who the fuck is he to put his hands on his wife? Love the tree. I’m picking up a ACC NYC cat on Sunday the 11th. Longest stay at the Brooklyn shelter. I’m so excited! 🎉😽🐾
Thank you Chelsea for sharing your pap smear story. Many, many years ago, I had abnormal cells, had to have treatment and then annual smears for 5 years. All clear, but kept it very discreet. Shame? Embarrassed? Madness! I'm so glad women are comfortable talking more openly now. It's so important that we share and don't isolate - and that includes DV too. A great impulse to step in for that poor woman. If he does that in public then... She may still be with him for now, but she'll never forget your support. Loooove the cat tree and it seems to have the paws of approval from those who matter 😻❤ 🙏
I love that you shared your experience of an abnormal smear result. I had an abnormal result for the first time ever a couple years back and had to go for a colposcopy. It scared me, but it was doable and it turned out ok. I've had two now and am in the clear. Urge anyone reading this who's worried about getting tested to just do it - we gotta take care of ourselves ❤ Also a bunch of people already said it but I'm so glad you stepped in and helped the woman out in that situation. You're a really decent human (with the best ads on RUclips!)
I love the honesty of your videos, helps to re-think and re-frame the possibilty in my own sometimes messy, hard , colourful and mundane life. Love the way you risked standing up for someone else instead of looking away. Awesomse! Busy with studies at the moment , so watching you plan, recalibrate and reorganise your life helps to remind me to seek balance and live as well......thank you!🙏
❤️🩹 ~ Firstly, so glad you got your pap smear & the necessary follow-up procedure, and are doing well! Secondly, that was amazing you spoke up to the man who was yelling at the woman (who turns out they were married 🫡!); very brave & selfless - MOST people overt their eyes and say nothing at all! You are an incredible woman / human ~ ❤️🩹
I think the cat tree fits perfectly in that room from what I saw. Also, the boots looked cute. Also, I would have never been brave enough to ask that woman if she was okay and it is amazing that you just automatically stepped in!
I loved the energy in this vid. Its refreshing to see your authenticity so thank you for that 😊 a small suggestion about the cat tree: sometimes you can remove levels and it still be stable and safe. It will help with the height. I've done it before and it was a game changer 🙌 hope that makes sense 😊
Thank you for putting so much good energy out there, you inspire other women like me to take care of themselves and have the courage to speak up when we should!
As always, loved this video Chelsea!! If you’re overwhelmed by the height of the cat tree, I’d recommend hanging pictures and posters higher up than you usually would to balance the space. Also, if you illuminate the other corners of the space at night it will make the sheer magnitude of the tree less noticeable ❤️❤️ Your furry kids are so blessed
Thanks for sharing your experience and also thank you for trying to do the right thing by checking in on that woman. Many people just sit back in that moment she I’m sure was very grateful that you spoke up.
I am going through the same situation as you. My pap test came abnormal, too, and I feel the same as what you are describing. You don't know how important your words are to me in this moment. Thank you.
Hey Chelsea! Thanks for another fun & engaging visit! You looked absolutely stunning in your social engagements! Bravo for sharing your recent medical event as you remind us all to be proactive in our own wellness maintenance. Love seeing the evolution of your apartment. Don’t sweat the stylistic nuts & bolts. It’s your nest, and you can feather it however you please❤️
So glad everything went well with your procedure. I just discovered Tisha's channel and have been binging for a few weeks. Too funny how I found you, Alexis, and Tisha separately and how y'all know each other 🙂.
Don’t ever feel embarrassed about prioritizing your feminine health. I have had abnormal paps before that required biopsy’s and anesthesia. I am currently seeing a gynecologist oncologist every 3 to 6 months for an ovary issue. So far everything is good 🙏🏾 You should be proud of yourself for taking care of your health 🙂🎉
I am trying to relax...because I am really anxious. There is a tornado warning here in NY today....Thank you for your upload Chelsea. I can relax a bit watching you. Have a good weekend hun.😊
I’m so glad your provider gave you pain relief. When I had a colposcopy YEARS ago (don’t know if this is what you had) I got no pain meds because they still thought (wrongly) that the cervix had no nerve endings. They were wrong and it was horrible. Womens health and specifically taking womens cocnerns and symptoms seriously is such an important topic. Thank you for sharing
I’ve been pushing off making an appt, but just signed on and booked one. Thank you for the push 🫶🏻 glad you’re doing better and sending good vibes for your health 💕
Chelsea I came across your channel when you first got Gordo as I recently became a cat mom to 2 kittens! Since that video I absolutely fell in love with your videos and have been binge watching your past ones. You are the realest RUclipsr out there and you deserve all the success and love in the world! You have been inspired me to run, be myself, even make videos and volunteer, and know that it’s okay to be human and just do my best in the world out there. Please keep being you!!!! Fridays are the best knowing you’re dropping a video. It’s amazing to see your growth. Keep it up please and thanks for all your content ❤️❤️
Chelsea, thank you for sticking up for that lady . I wish more people would not turn a blind eye to those things . And thank you for making sure she was ok after . And love your factor it was the best one with the cats . ❤❤❤
Cute cat tree! Love how high it is and there are platforms to safely get down. Our house is full of cat towers. Cats love to be up high and near a window is perfect. Great job putting it together!
I'm so proud of you and any other that steps up for another woman, you did the right thing and I'm sure you were exactly the right person, at the right moment for her and she will never forget you. Thank you for using your platform to talk about important topics for us women. I love you for that. And congratulations: you are officially a cat mum!!! they way you care for those fur babies is just heart melting. Have a wonderful weekend. Greetings from Germany 🤍
I'm so glad you are feeling better. Thank you for reminding women not to ignore their health check-ups. As for the cat tree, you could have called customer service of the company and had them email you the instructions for putting it together.
abusive relations are so difficult to know how to deal with.. even if it someone you know all you can do is show that you are there when she is ready.. I am happy you where there..
Chelsea thank for for being real, showing how real life living really is, also saving cats just makes you even more special again thank u for sharing some of your life with us
Crazy, there were 4 women who I talked to about this today, all with something going on, including myself! It seems to still be a not overly researched area, considering what the women, including myself have experienced when asking for help. I’m happy to hear everything is good with you now and that you spoke about it 💕💕💕 You handled that amazingly… you did something when no one else did!!! 💕💕💕
Oh my gosh, this video is jammed packed. There's enough in here for a couple of months of a TV show. So glad you got checked and treated and are now ok. Cat tower is awesome. Your cats are the luckiest felines in New York City. Girlfriends rock!
Girl! I just spent two days binge watching so much of your content! I love you and your whole amazing journey. Thank you for being honest and authentic! Here for all of it!
I must have watched every single one of your vlogs for the past year or so … but I never commented. Now I just have to: Thank you so much for talking about your abnormal PAP smear and the procedure. I went through the same thing about 15 years ago and felt SOOO extremely alone, confused, ashamed, gross. Vlogs like this one would have helped me immensely ❤ Btw… I never had any issues again after the procedure!
OMG!! That Factor add!!!! So pro!! I love your videos. I got hooked almost a year ago. Probably when you moved to your new flat and I binged your vlogs. Your energy has been so different since you moved and quit your jobs. I love it.
So glad you're feeling better now, Chelsea! The things you openly talk about and your own experience can possibly change someone's life for the better. Raising awareness is important. And the cat tower is towering! It's impressively large haha. Also the ad segment is something else! Love it!
I’ve been married twice, and it’s so much better to be able to support yourself and be free and know you can always depend on yourself to be happy ❤ I feel bad for all the women who think that depending on a husband is the goal in life. It can be a good situation for some I guess, but if he has all the power it’s not easy to leave an unhappy or even unsafe situation.
Oh my dear Chelsea.... waaaaay back in 2002 I had a pap smear that came back with pre-cancerous cells, so like you, I also had a procedure to remove what needed to be removed. I had a local anesthetic, but the doctor went in before the area was completely numb, so I felt the beginning of the procedure... 😢😢OUCHHHHH! Anyway... You are so brave for sharing, and yes anyone who has a negative thought - they don't belong here. Your sharing absolutely IS helping other women. And back then, I was far too scared to tell anyone about my experience for fear of being judged, so I kept it to myself. Today, I would definitely share! And 💚THANK YOU for interrupting that couple - I've been where that woman is, with a previous partner, so I know how painful, shameful, and debilitating the fear can be when you're with someone controlling. That man is not a real man! Women - let's support & lift each other up!
oh my gosh!! that must have been so painful 😣 and I'm so glad to hear you made it out from your previous relationship and that you are okay ❤️ Really appreciate your vulnerability in sharing your story here. You are a badass queen 👑
I have the same problem with measuring and "seeing" the size of things. Your cats are adorbs. ❤ Thanks for talking about the pap smear. Had the same thing a few years ago. And we should talk about it to save lives and reduce embarrassment, it's only our bodies. 🤗
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Chelsea! This is top tier feminine energy. Taking care of yourself, stepping up for others, building cat towers! You go, girl!
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As a woman who lived almost 20 years in what was considered a socially acceptable level of abusive marriage (of course, I know now that there's no acceptable level of abuse), your interference was spot on. When you are the one being abused, and everyone acts like it's no big deal, you believe it's no big deal. By reaching out to her, your action and support will stay with her and hopefully help her to seek a way out. ❤
Thank you for stepping in when you saw that abuse. Reminding them both that his behavior was not ok and that she has support out in the world can be a game changer for her.
I totally agree - the only other thing I'd have done is given her a support number (even a mental health one if it didn't feel safe/appropriate to give an abuse one with her husband right there that would be my only thought). Reminded me to pop a mental health crisis and abuse number in my contacts should I come across something when out in public. Any other opinions on the safety of that welcome, just thinking a lot of people get totally isolated and don't know a number and thinking about the woman when she goes home.
And another option maybe if number feels too hard is when you walk with someone (if they have this in the US, they do in the UK), tell them to look out for signs in the toilets and by the bar of some businesses like pubs/bars - in the UK they have signs that tell you to "Ask to speak to Angela/other name of businesses choice" and that will alert the staff you are experiencing abuse eg) someone abusive is in the premises, so they can talk to you and call emergency/support services if needed.
Hi friends! When I titled this video "a very honest vlog", I meant it! We definitely have a few laughs as usual, but once you watch you'll see that this vlog is very personal to me. The more you share as a creator, the more you open up to public ridicule which then makes you want to pull back which is what I don't want, so I am nervous about it for sure... A couple other creators I follow so bravely shared about their health and it made me feel seen and inspired me to talk about some more challenging topics like this. It's never for the views, I'm just hoping this lands on the people that need it ❤and also because what is the point of having this channel at all if we don't talk about the real things? I just kindly ask if you have any negativity to share about women's health, please keep it to yourself. I'll be deleting any comments that body shame me or anyone else. Thanks for being here, much love ❤
Thanks for having us along on your journey 😊!
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Thanks for keeping it real. I've been through something similar and solidarity is vital. We might never meet in person, but I care about you ginormously and am glad you're taking care of yourself so you can live your best life for decades to come.
I'm glad you did this video about your pap smear because it is more common than what people think. I went for an exam, which is something I just hated to do it's just one of those things. Sounds like the dentist, lol. But I went and had a reading come back that was not favorable. So I went in and had a thing that you had done and they called me a few days later over the phone and told me I had cervical cancer. I'm so glad I went and I'm so glad that you went and I I'll take this opportunity remind everybody as well to please get your screenings done no matter how much you don't like them, lol. Luckily ,when I went in to have the surgery they cut it at stage 1, thank God!
Thank you for sharing! And you’re right, it is so important to go for checkups. Here in Sweden we get automatically called to go for a pap smear every third year 👍👍
Omg, the factor ad may have been the best ad I’ve ever seen!!! Love it!!!
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She's the only RUclipsr whose ads I don't skip. I'm always wanting to see what she dreams up next!
This is exactly what I ran to the comments to say!!! It was soooo cute!❤️
this means so much to me!!!! thank you!!
I loved it so much, the voices 🤣
You did the RIGHT thing by stepping up to help that woman. People who turn from helping those in need are just as bad as those who are hurting others. 🥰💖💕
Such a boss move stepping in like you did. Good for you!
Here's my TMI story. When I was 26 and after giving birth to my youngest daughter, I was diagnosed with a pre cancerous condition and had a total hysterectomy. I was very lucky to have it caught early. I'm 67 (tomorrow as a matter of fact!) and still have my annual
Get yourselves checked ladies! Same with mammograms!
Happy Birthday ! Congrats on taking good care of yourself & now makin it to 67 ! I can relate: stage 3 breast cancer survivor here. Diagnosed as I was about to turn 44. I’m 64 now !! Life is good ! Even tho it ain't always easy.
Thank you for sharing your story!! I'm so glad you caught it early. Happy early birthday!!
Me to ! I was pregnant when they found out so I had to wait till I gave birth . Same year that Jade Goody died in the UK… that was the year that women became more aware of the condition and all went for smear tests ❤
Knowledge is power .
At 10:02 pm on August 9, 2024 - I squeezed myself as tight as I could and asked the universe to give it to you as a hug. As someone who survived an abusive relationship, I think that if someone had done for me what you did for the woman on the street, I may have left sooner. I am not saying that every situation is safe to interject into and I couldn't expect anyone to be my hero. However, the impact of a stranger standing up for you is so powerful.
I felt it 💓 thank you so much
You are amazing. Talk about pap smear tests and for helping that woman , you totally rock. I had an experience where this guy was harassing me on the train and I stood up for myself, no one else said anything. So for that woman, you stepping in, probably means the world. Keep safe, keep healthy. I love your content and your realness
❤❤❤I'm so glad you're okay.
As a 23 year old woman, I love watching your authenticity. The way you show different angles of you body, pre or post shower, up down left right, the ups and downs of life it’s just so refreshing. It’s a good reminder that my body is the least interesting thing about me 🤍 your vlogs are so entertaining and emotive. So thank you.
Hi Chelsea, I am just moving with my husband to Portugal and for the last two weeks I was just packing things and watching/listening to mostly all of your older videos. I just wanted to say... I see a really big change in your mental health and happiness ...you are like sunshine now, beautiful, honest, real and I just see/ feel you love yourself more and more and girl I am here for it. You are doing great job!!!!! Thank you for being here and just please continue. I wish you all the best. Andy (from Czech Republic...not best english :D)
Dude you are rocking the short hair. GORGEOUS! Thanks for the book rec on Instagram. Glad you’re ok healthwise and sharing your story - I appreciate you x you are a good soul Chelsea.
It literally is driving me nuts how she puts it in a little pony tail almost all the time. It's so beautiful down! Chelsea, PLEASE let your hair down! ❤
I love the cats doing the factor sponsor but I do miss chaotic roommate that is definitely not Chelsea rummaging through the fridge 😂
Haha I'll definitely bring her back! 😀
@@ChelseaCallahancan she have a moustache too? 😂
Appreciate the transparency on women's health. So important that we take care of our bodies
The kitties are going to LOVE the big cat tree! You'll be so glad you got it. It will bring hours of entertainment for all of you. They are both so incredibly adorable and silly. Thank you for sharing them with us. 🫶🏻
It's awesome you got that tree for them! You'll get used it and it's perfect by the window, cats need that stimulation especially in a small apartment! Love it!
That was brave of you to intervene. The woman probably felt so alone in that moment, so I am sure she really appreciated that.
Chel..you're amazing. I just got treated for an STI last week for the first time in my life. I work in reproductive health and have tons of women in my life and I'm afraid to tell ANYBODY except the partners who may be affected by it. I'm going for a PAP next week and honestly your sharing made me freakin wanna cry. you're a boss and a queen and you feel like my bestie. thanks for caring, back at ya sis ❤
I am also thriving after surviving DV myself so ABSOLUTE RIGHT THING to check in on that lady. yaaaaas🎉
I've done split second intervening too. There was some old dude harassing a couple of young teen girls, yelling at them they couldn't be on the sidewalk in front of the library. Huh? I told him he couldn't talk to them like that, and he treatened to sic his state trooper nephew on me, lmao. He got on his bicycle and toddled off. No one passing by helped the girls. Pissed me off that it was happening so I just jumped in the middle of it.
I actually teared up watching this video… thankyou for not being a passive bystander in that situation. Also, you are so brave for going through that health stuff… thankfully I’ve never had an abnormal, but I have a friend who went through a lot of pain and suffering before having a hysterectomy (we are late 30s). I don’t want children, but she did, and it was extremely difficult for her to go through all that. I hope you are doing well 🫶
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First of all, I absolutely loved this video. Everything about this video was awesome. I laughed out loud a few times because your cats are so stinking entertaining. I think the thing I loved about this video so much is……you’re just so open and honest and vulnerable and honestly just talking about real life shit. It’s refreshing and you really do feel like a sister. Although I’m a full decade older so you’re my baby sister
Yes ! So well said. I’m a FEW decades older & feel the same way.
I appreciate this so so much. thank you sis 💓
This was what I needed.
Had a pap smear, results came back abnormal, got a leep - was one of the worst days of my life, simply because the complexity and lack of resources online, because people would not share as there is a stigma around it, as you said.
Yesterday after 6 months of procedure, I had routine pap smear and waiting for results. Somehow you going through the same thing made me feel less alone.
Love from Istanbul ❤
Thank you for taking care of this woman and making sure she was safe. ❤
I hope you don't feel too bad about the apartment taking time to get organized. Finding your individual style takes time, and having an eclectic place full of warm and cool tones, colors you love, and huge cat trees is just a part of what makes the human experience wonderful. Your home is for you, and don't you dare feel bad about having a big cat tree. I'm sure your cats will LOVE it!!! And thank you for being so honest about your health scare. Made me realize I need to schedule an appointment for myself. ❤
When she runs away with the toy at 18:20 I lost it! Cutest kittens EVER!
Thanks for sharing. Shit isn’t easy, but it’ll help the people that need it. I shared about getting a hysterectomy at 25 a few months ago and people hate it or have their opinions , but it’s not for them. It’s for the people that were like me needing a similar perspective. Keep doing you
I had to get a hysterectomy when I was 29 because I had endometriosis really bad....I have had so many comments about it, including that I am "not a woman anymore". People are very ignorant sometimes. I wish they would educate themselves before forming opinions about such things.
@@angelinaduganNy I’m sorry you went through that. I had mine (mostly) as a permanent birthcontrol and to relieve my moderate endo. I’ve heard the same and have just learned to laugh it off. People are very ignorant especially when it comes to women’s health
You did fine with the couple . Its great you told about the procceedure, you never know how many people you will help.. I thank God for you....❤
I just stumbled your channel about two weeks ago and even before this video was done, I hit the subscribe button. Your energy is so girly, friendly … basically it’s top tier. You seem like someone I’d love to be friends with. Keep doing what you do. Sending you love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Chelsea, thank you for sharing this with your followers. My SIL ignored a bad pap and is now battling stage 3 cancer 💔 it's so important to check in on your health and FOLLOW UP with things as well. You're awesome!
Hey Chelsea! I haven't watched your videos for a while (that's usually what I tend to do with my favourite youtubers, I just "save" their videos to binge watch later until I feel overwhelmed because I am way behind and out of sync seasons-wise and then binge watch their videos again until I am sad because there are no more videos and repeat the cycle again), BUT what I meant to say is that this video made me so happy! You are so relatable and kind and girly (in the millions ways there are to be a girl or a vag person) and I love your content!! You inspire me to maybe start making videos myself one day! Love you
Chelsea, I’ve done the same thing for woman. We just act on instinct. I’m sure she appreciated you walking with her. Men can be stupid and stand by sometimes. I’m proud of you 👏🏼
I’m also happy you had the procedure and you are onto your healthy journey. Thanks for sharing that very intimate piece of your life.
Your cat tree is amazing. Your cats are living their best lives thanks to you. Love you gf. Keep keeping it real. Tisha is a very special young lady in my life too💗
I commend you for sharing your health story with us! You have this platform to make awareness on serious topics that could help so many others. I'm not sure if I don't know one family member or friend who hasn't had female issues. Thank you again! BTW: you're a great fur baby momma❤
Thank you for talking about women’s health. And totally block anyone who dares to say something mean, about this or anything really. You are doing life real and good. Congratulations on being a winner on the daily. ❤
Girl, the Factor ad was so good with the cats. It was so creative, really. I was impressed!! Best sponsor ad I've seen 😂
Ooooh honey ! Glad you are on the mend ! Thanks to Julie for looking out for you. Yes … we are all def carrying and processing stuff, aren’t we ? And so often in silence. Imo , it’s an ideal time on the planet for in-depth healing… something about these crazy times we live in - which we all showed up for - accelerates our evolution. Much love , Liz
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love that you stepped in with that incident and how vulnerable you are about your health. always so inspiring to follow creators like you ❤️
thanks girl ❤ likewise!
So needed to see the cat tower!!! They will love it so much! And the view out the window! I just started back in the gym (my son challenged me to go) and it has been awesome - I'm MUCH older than you - a fellow Virgo - and I have 4 cats and a dog. It is great to see how happy you are with those two little kitties. They seem to find us when we need them!
Have been looking for THE right, tall cat tree tower forEVER, and yours is IT!! Can you possibly share the link to it?? I (and Minnie and Squeekie) will be forever grateful! Hope I am able to afford it... :) Love your real-life blog. Just came across it and fell in, much enjoyed.
11:00 You did the right thing and I'm SO proud of you! I wish I could be as brave as you
Hugging that woman was a kind gesture and I bet she doesn’t forget you.
On a happier note the factor ad was brilliant. I was actually laughing out loud and their meals do look good.
Everyone have a nice weekend
you are what we call "a chingona". Badass! Way to stand up for women! And taking care of your health is so great. Due to an abnormal pap in my early 20's, we discovered a precancerous issue. Right when I got my surgery, it turned cancerous but my amazing doc didn't put that down because he knew it would affect my ability to get health coverage (this was back in the 90's). All is good now but I'm always telling my friends to get their checkups done.
Girl! I'm not even done viewing this video and I had to stop to comment on the Factor promo. Brilliant! Absolutely brilliant! Love the way you featured the male voice and both Gordo and Delilah. You are a comedic genius . . . now to finish the video. 🤣
Chelsea has her badass cloak on! I’m glad you’re caring for your health and on your way to a healthy lifestyle. Thanks for stepping in to help that young lady in a predicament that could have escalated, and don't second-guess yourself about it. I'm loving the content…❤
You did the right thing Chelsea helping that women. Thank you for being so transparent, I really enjoy following you. Keep up the good work!
Hi Chelsea - I’ve been watching your channel for a while but never commented but wanted to let you know that you were 100% right to intervene with that couple. You were probably a voice for her when she couldn’t speak up. Letting her know you were there for her would’ve meant a lot. You also sent a message to her husband that his behaviour unacceptable. Women need to have women’s backs and you did that. Thank you Chelsea. And thank you for your channel. I live in the UK and NY is my fav city and can’t wait to visit again. My cat Binx ( who looks like Gordo!) sends his love to the 3 of you! And yes! Mention women’s health - always have your pap/ smear test - don’t put it off! It’s so important!! ❤❤
that hook 👌🏻 queen of editing! so jel of the bravo event
thank you king!! 👑
I also have had an abnormal pap and had to get a surgery. It’s good to be responsible and take care of these things! ❤
I'm glad you are okay! ❤
Always love your vlogs! Just want to say that I think it’s always a good idea to step in and stand up for a woman in that situation. If nothing else, it can show her that she’s worth it, it shouldn’t be normal, and she does not deserve to be treated that way. ❤
Hey Chelsea. I honestly love your vlogs. The factor/cat segment was hilarious. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed about the Pap smear and results - it’s quite common and better to get these things sorted like you say. Glad the cats are using the cat tree, they are so cute! Also love Tisha and watch her channel. I’m visiting NYC next month so making a note of any places you visit which I can add to my list of things to do - thank you x
Thanks for sharing your recent health issues. You are correct that it is hard to comfortably share health struggles especially related to female reproductive issues. I was diagnosed with endometriosis more than 30 years ago and not until recently have I heard it discussed on social media. I am glad that more people are coming forward to not suffer in silence. We should not feel ashamed for our struggles and taking care of ourselves. As always, your transparency is appreciated. Sending love.
Great video, Chelsea!!
Thank you for sharing your health procedure, and thank you for supporting the woman on the street!!
You are the BEST❣️❣️
I absolutely love that you shared the whole Pap test and follow-up procedure. As women we need to make this type of information as normal as possible. You’ve done yourself and your followers a huge favour. Love the cat home, not sure how long you will be able to tolerate the gigantic size…lol. You’re looking so comfortable in your self these days and I think boots were definitely the best choice for a rainy mid town event. Chelsea, you rock…❤❤❤
If just one person goes for their smear test after what you've been through then you may well have saved someone's life. I'm so glad you're ok and it's great you stood up for the lady when she needed help 😊. Also, I love the Roy Williams song. Great choice! Plus, a living room isn't complete without a 75ft cat mansion 😂
As someone who was in a DV relationship, thank you for saying something! It may not immediately change anything for her, but it may have helped show her she was seen. I suffered in silence for a long time because I was embarrassed and didn’t think anyone would believe me. Thank you for being fearless and showing her support. ❤
I’m very happy that all is well after your health event. I love how your a positive you tuber.. you put your own health out there and it can help others. I’m sure you have helped out a lot of women just by your kind words. Thank you for the support that women need. 👍
I love that my two fave nyc vlogger get so greaat along ❤
I have followed Tisha for quite a while too! She was grabbed recently. I think it’s great to share. I’ve had a bad pap. Good for you to share, AND yell at THE MAN! Maybe it will make the woman realize that she shouldn’t be in that marriage. And who the fuck is he to put his hands on his wife? Love the tree. I’m picking up a ACC NYC cat on Sunday the 11th. Longest stay at the Brooklyn shelter. I’m so excited! 🎉😽🐾
Thank you Chelsea for sharing your pap smear story. Many, many years ago, I had abnormal cells, had to have treatment and then annual smears for 5 years. All clear, but kept it very discreet. Shame? Embarrassed? Madness!
I'm so glad women are comfortable talking more openly now. It's so important that we share and don't isolate - and that includes DV too. A great impulse to step in for that poor woman. If he does that in public then... She may still be with him for now, but she'll never forget your support.
Loooove the cat tree and it seems to have the paws of approval from those who matter 😻❤
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I love that you shared your experience of an abnormal smear result. I had an abnormal result for the first time ever a couple years back and had to go for a colposcopy. It scared me, but it was doable and it turned out ok. I've had two now and am in the clear. Urge anyone reading this who's worried about getting tested to just do it - we gotta take care of ourselves ❤ Also a bunch of people already said it but I'm so glad you stepped in and helped the woman out in that situation. You're a really decent human (with the best ads on RUclips!)
The advertisement with Gordo and Deli... I just can't 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love the honesty of your videos, helps to re-think and re-frame the possibilty in my own sometimes messy, hard , colourful and mundane life. Love the way you risked standing up for someone else instead of looking away. Awesomse! Busy with studies at the moment , so watching you plan, recalibrate and reorganise your life helps to remind me to seek balance and live as well......thank you!🙏
❤️🩹 ~ Firstly, so glad you got your pap smear & the necessary follow-up procedure, and are doing well! Secondly, that was amazing you spoke up to the man who was yelling at the woman (who turns out they were married 🫡!); very brave & selfless - MOST people overt their eyes and say nothing at all! You are an incredible woman / human ~ ❤️🩹
I think the cat tree fits perfectly in that room from what I saw. Also, the boots looked cute. Also, I would have never been brave enough to ask that woman if she was okay and it is amazing that you just automatically stepped in!
It’s awesome that you and Tisha are hanging out.
You are an amazing soul. I think you made the right decision to step in. Never regret trying to be a good person
I loved the energy in this vid. Its refreshing to see your authenticity so thank you for that 😊 a small suggestion about the cat tree: sometimes you can remove levels and it still be stable and safe. It will help with the height. I've done it before and it was a game changer 🙌 hope that makes sense 😊
Thank you for putting so much good energy out there, you inspire other women like me to take care of themselves and have the courage to speak up when we should!
As always, loved this video Chelsea!! If you’re overwhelmed by the height of the cat tree, I’d recommend hanging pictures and posters higher up than you usually would to balance the space. Also, if you illuminate the other corners of the space at night it will make the sheer magnitude of the tree less noticeable ❤️❤️ Your furry kids are so blessed
Thanks for sharing your experience and also thank you for trying to do the right thing by checking in on that woman. Many people just sit back in that moment she I’m sure was very grateful that you spoke up.
I am going through the same situation as you. My pap test came abnormal, too, and I feel the same as what you are describing. You don't know how important your words are to me in this moment. Thank you.
Hey Chelsea! Thanks for another fun & engaging visit! You looked absolutely stunning in your social engagements! Bravo for sharing your recent medical event as you remind us all to be proactive in our own wellness maintenance. Love seeing the evolution of your apartment. Don’t sweat the stylistic nuts & bolts. It’s your nest, and you can feather it however you please❤️
So glad everything went well with your procedure. I just discovered Tisha's channel and have been binging for a few weeks. Too funny how I found you, Alexis, and Tisha separately and how y'all know each other 🙂.
Don’t ever feel embarrassed about prioritizing your feminine health. I have had abnormal paps before that required biopsy’s and anesthesia. I am currently seeing a gynecologist oncologist every 3 to 6 months for an ovary issue. So far everything is good 🙏🏾 You should be proud of yourself for taking care of your health 🙂🎉
Glad you are feeling better and also God bless you for helping that Lady you are awesome
I am trying to relax...because I am really anxious. There is a tornado warning here in NY today....Thank you for your upload Chelsea. I can relax a bit watching you. Have a good weekend hun.😊
I’m so glad your provider gave you pain relief. When I had a colposcopy YEARS ago (don’t know if this is what you had) I got no pain meds because they still thought (wrongly) that the cervix had no nerve endings. They were wrong and it was horrible. Womens health and specifically taking womens cocnerns and symptoms seriously is such an important topic. Thank you for sharing
So proud of you, Chelsea 👏❤ everything you did and shared in this video was incredibly powerful and inspiring
I’ve been pushing off making an appt, but just signed on and booked one. Thank you for the push 🫶🏻 glad you’re doing better and sending good vibes for your health 💕
the breaks to give the cats cuddles and them immediately breaking the toy is so reallll I love this new cat mom era for you!
Chelsea I came across your channel when you first got Gordo as I recently became a cat mom to 2 kittens! Since that video I absolutely fell in love with your videos and have been binge watching your past ones. You are the realest RUclipsr out there and you deserve all the success and love in the world! You have been inspired me to run, be myself, even make videos and volunteer, and know that it’s okay to be human and just do my best in the world out there. Please keep being you!!!! Fridays are the best knowing you’re dropping a video. It’s amazing to see your growth. Keep it up please and thanks for all your content ❤️❤️
much love!❤❤❤thanks for being here!
Chelsea, thank you for sticking up for that lady . I wish more people would not turn a blind eye to those things . And thank you for making sure she was ok after . And love your factor it was the best one with the cats . ❤❤❤
Cute cat tree! Love how high it is and there are platforms to safely get down. Our house is full of cat towers. Cats love to be up high and near a window is perfect. Great job putting it together!
I'm so proud of you and any other that steps up for another woman, you did the right thing and I'm sure you were exactly the right person, at the right moment for her and she will never forget you. Thank you for using your platform to talk about important topics for us women. I love you for that. And congratulations: you are officially a cat mum!!! they way you care for those fur babies is just heart melting. Have a wonderful weekend. Greetings from Germany 🤍
Thanks for being there for someone in need. You're a good person. If we all stood up when needed the world would be a much better place!
I'm so glad you are feeling better. Thank you for reminding women not to ignore their health check-ups. As for the cat tree, you could have called customer service of the company and had them email you the instructions for putting it together.
abusive relations are so difficult to know how to deal with.. even if it someone you know all you can do is show that you are there when she is ready.. I am happy you where there..
Chelsea thank for for being real, showing how real life living really is, also saving cats just makes you even more special again thank u for sharing some of your life with us
Crazy, there were 4 women who I talked to about this today, all with something going on, including myself! It seems to still be a not overly researched area, considering what the women, including myself have experienced when asking for help. I’m happy to hear everything is good with you now and that you spoke about it 💕💕💕
You handled that amazingly… you did something when no one else did!!! 💕💕💕
Oh my gosh, this video is jammed packed. There's enough in here for a couple of months of a TV show. So glad you got checked and treated and are now ok. Cat tower is awesome. Your cats are the luckiest felines in New York City. Girlfriends rock!
aaahhhh a Chelsea video :) so darn comforting, you are looking so darn good and so darn happy!! The hair is perfect.
I totally support you stepping up for that woman. We all need to be like that. Glad you are recovering well from your procedure!
Girl! I just spent two days binge watching so much of your content! I love you and your whole amazing journey. Thank you for being honest and authentic! Here for all of it!
A very down-to-earth and refreshing vlog, as always - thank you Chelsea!!
I must have watched every single one of your vlogs for the past year or so … but I never commented. Now I just have to: Thank you so much for talking about your abnormal PAP smear and the procedure. I went through the same thing about 15 years ago and felt SOOO extremely alone, confused, ashamed, gross. Vlogs like this one would have helped me immensely ❤ Btw… I never had any issues again after the procedure!
OMG- the kitties I the Factor ad- I LOVE! Thanks for being you. That cat tree is amazing- bigger than my first NYC apartment and fabulous!
OMG!! That Factor add!!!! So pro!! I love your videos. I got hooked almost a year ago. Probably when you moved to your new flat and I binged your vlogs. Your energy has been so different since you moved and quit your jobs. I love it.
So glad you're feeling better now, Chelsea! The things you openly talk about and your own experience can possibly change someone's life for the better. Raising awareness is important. And the cat tower is towering! It's impressively large haha. Also the ad segment is something else! Love it!
I’ve been married twice, and it’s so much better to be able to support yourself and be free and know you can always depend on yourself to be happy ❤ I feel bad for all the women who think that depending on a husband is the goal in life. It can be a good situation for some I guess, but if he has all the power it’s not easy to leave an unhappy or even unsafe situation.
Oh my dear Chelsea.... waaaaay back in 2002 I had a pap smear that came back with pre-cancerous cells, so like you, I also had a procedure to remove what needed to be removed. I had a local anesthetic, but the doctor went in before the area was completely numb, so I felt the beginning of the procedure... 😢😢OUCHHHHH! Anyway... You are so brave for sharing, and yes anyone who has a negative thought - they don't belong here. Your sharing absolutely IS helping other women. And back then, I was far too scared to tell anyone about my experience for fear of being judged, so I kept it to myself. Today, I would definitely share! And 💚THANK YOU for interrupting that couple - I've been where that woman is, with a previous partner, so I know how painful, shameful, and debilitating the fear can be when you're with someone controlling. That man is not a real man! Women - let's support & lift each other up!
oh my gosh!! that must have been so painful 😣 and I'm so glad to hear you made it out from your previous relationship and that you are okay ❤️ Really appreciate your vulnerability in sharing your story here. You are a badass queen 👑
I have the same problem with measuring and "seeing" the size of things. Your cats are adorbs. ❤
Thanks for talking about the pap smear. Had the same thing a few years ago. And we should talk about it to save lives and reduce embarrassment, it's only our bodies. 🤗