Ya’ll shouldn’t be upset about his opinions on some of these things. He already told you in the intro none of what he’s expressing comes from statistics and are based on his personal experiences
One thing I’ve come to realize in my lifetime is that people are going to judge you no matter what you do with your life so do what makes you happy. You’re gonna piss off a lot of people when you commit to doing what’s best for you. Do it anyway. You are not obligated to impress anyone. If someone doesn’t appreciate your imperfections, those are just simply not your people. Period. Do what makes you happy and screw everyone else who doesn’t like it
FACTS!!!! How about everybody worry about themselves. Pisses me off! If someone doesn't accept you for who you are while you're living your best life Fuck Em! Anyone who truly cares will be there. Unless you're causing harm to yourself or others opinions should be kept to themselves especially if they aren't positive.
Thats a very toxic mindset. Its one thing if mfs are judging you for wearing offbrand shoes or something like that but if its over something like dressing up informally for a formal sifuation then yeah, people got every moral right to judge you for that. Thats the line that people who say the same things as you just did cross. They usually end up lacking any basic manners because of it. Its one thing to be a people pleaser, sure, but dont go so far that you commit full on public indecency. You cannot do whatever you please at the end of the day. If you could, things like laws would be pointless.
@@claymationgloves3662 You completely missed the whole point of my statement. I never said anything about committing public indecency. The whole point of what I’m saying is people judge no matter what you say or do with your life so do what makes you happy. That’s actually common sense. And the fact that you’re sitting here calling that a toxic mindset even tho I never once encouraged crime or violence in any capacity just proves my point. And yeah you’re right that people have every right to judge. But I also have every right to tell them to go kick rocks. I am not obligated to change my way of thinking to fit anyone’s narrative and neither are you so I stand by what I said
@@JamesVaden-bn4jq I never said that you convinced anyone of doing anything. I'm just saying that people who make the same kind of statement as you just did take it out of bounds the exact same way I've described.
Na fr. Once i hit my mid 20s I realized how nun of this truly matters lol. You’ll see it as the years go by. Tables turn constantly..what wasn’t cool once will suddenly be cool, then lame again eventually. I’m old enough now to see how stuff cycles. For example look at fashion..as a kid we wore baggy stuff..then that was out and we went slim/skinny fit stuff.. now we back to baggy again lol. People will care for a few minutes then go back to focusing on themselves. It’s too much going on in ppls personal life for them to truly care, so it’s not enough for you to care to change yourself for their sake. End of the day just live your life and enjoy, as long as you not hurting anybody.
Have you ever heard an adult call someone an old head. I stop saying that when i turned 20. Because someone reminded me of when i was 8 and called my sister old at 18. 🤦🏾♂️
Let the women tell it, some dudes really need to wash their back side. As a man if you have skid marks in your underwear, then yea. Not only wash better but wipe better too. 🫤 Wet wipes would make a world of difference and that ain't nothing feminine. Keep it clean fellas.
As a black man, I fully agree. I always keep my hygiene clean and fresh of all body parts daily. I'm in Atlanta currently and I have been noticing a lot of black males with horrible hygiene in public places: All on trains, buses, park's, libraries, doctors offices, restaurants, ☕ coffee shops. The sad part is that many don't seem to care and it's as if they are OUT OF TOUCH With reality. When I go in the restroom to use the 🚽 toilet, they don't flush the toilet, leave bits of feces around the toilet and on top of toilet seats. I have to take tissue paper and sanitize the seats down before I sit down (Covid) for use. As a black man, I find this so EMBARRASSING! Many of these black males are developmentally delayed. Several black males who fit into this type of category will get angry and not want to improve their hygiene, or their condition. THANK YOU!!!!😅
As a black man when ordering drinks try getting old fashions bourbon and whiskey are game changers when going out for drinks. I still drink Remy from time to time.
Money won't really hold you back the way you think it does. I was broke and used to get HELLA girls.. but this was college days. And even post college. However as a grown man, you need some bread in your pocket.
Triple sec, Gin, vodka, rum, and tequila are the ingredients for a Long Island. I think drinking more than two in public is definitely a slippery slope
most of the takes are really based including durags cause its like an indoor thing if cant wear it to an interview don't wear it in professional contexts like school or work gym/park is fine
Why are other grown ass adults worried abt other grown people swearing? Like grow up, I understand acting like you have sense but swearing is apart of life fr. It’s unrealistic to not expect ppl to swear
@@megawavy09 your defeding people who swear and telling me to grow up is ironic. bro I don't care what other men do. this video Is about how to be more attractive or not ugly. i commented that swearing makes men more ugly. like are our parent even proud of you. cause most mamas I know don't raise their sons with potty mouths. and do you think girls think guys who are not emotionally inttlegent and say the n word or f word and other swears is actually attractive. do you think a girl wants to have that man as a father or husband. like ill be real some immoral girls out there may sleep with someone like that but that but most wont marry someone like that
@@megawavy09 yeah swearing is "a part of life" and it's unrealistic to not expect ppl to swear, but those who just swear and spam the words just to seem cool and "mature" are so corny and annoying
Saw my sister watch this video and I wanted to clarify that as a gay man myself, I do NOT like Skinny Jeans AT ALL and so doesn’t most gay men, and I know this kinda content is directed towards straight men, but I felt like that previous comment was a disservice to the community 😭😭
I feel these video's are a good outlook for black men however on the contrary it could come across as bashing or ridicule as you dont see other channels imitate this same content by saying " 10 things making you look like trailer trash as white guy" or "Top 10 ways keeping you down as an asian guy". Some may see this as an uplift others most likely will see this a decline towards black men pointing out attributes or appearances that other races may have not even noticed. Good Content brother nontheless.
@@dq1704Other Channels may not single out a specific race but I’ve seen plenty of videos with the same title excluding the race part. I specifically mention black men because my audience is predominantly black, thank you for your insight though🙏🏾
I’m a woman and they said no Long Island ice tea 🧋 I’m not trying to be cool I’m grown 😂😂😂😂😂 everybody don’t want Don Julio, all the time because of the trend 😂😂😂
Gym clothes thing I can’t agree with, them because the somewhat classy dressing is for occasions, dates, get-togethers, etc, AT fancy/or formal places. I wear sports clothing because of the weather and for no other reason
Didn’t get the Long Island ice tea one maybe he considers it a girly drink dude was an old head , but they are banned at most bars lol it’s basically 4 types of liquor mixed and people get drunk off like one 😭
I think wearing a Durag outside is the same thing as wearing pajama pants or gym clothing outside. I suppose you could do it some places, but as a person who had waves without a durag, it is not necessary 100% of the time, and I believe that it looks kind of low getto in public.
I’m prolly a lil older than most y’all here so let your big bro give you some advice: Nobody really cares. Just do you. As long as you not hurting anyone, live your life and enjoy..it could all change in an instant. Don’t get so caught up in what others think and care about. Every few years you will look back and realize how the stuff you once cared so much about is totally irrelevant now.
Not a single girl care about a Gamaing chair or what a man drinks unless he over consumes alcohol and women of all kind like locs I’ve had locs for four years and I can say it’s actually a plus for getting girls
And being short. No womans Ideal black man is a short guy. The media only pushes tall ones and those are the ones they find more attractive. Not fitting stereotypes also works against us too
I don’t agree with the slugz at all it just ain’t the look for everyone..I wear my grillz all the time bro girls love it where I’m at because it comes with the culture where I’m from 🤷🏾♂️😂to each their own I guess…take yo female with them in or out they don’t make me I make them mfs look good😂💯
Can I add farting in public lmao 🤣 everybody farts is natural but not funny doing it in public spaces unless you’re a little kid. Honorable mention, dental care or higiene !
I think the not talking proper English part is people who text like yu and not you or u sometimes it’s like deciphering a code it’s so many misspelled words
Ya’ll shouldn’t be upset about his opinions on some of these things. He already told you in the intro none of what he’s expressing comes from statistics and are based on his personal experiences
Thank you. Also a some things are common sense but people chose to get mad at me for stating the obvious💀
Facts all this just sensible stuff real men should do
fr anyone who disagrees is a not a real man
One thing I’ve come to realize in my lifetime is that people are going to judge you no matter what you do with your life so do what makes you happy. You’re gonna piss off a lot of people when you commit to doing what’s best for you. Do it anyway. You are not obligated to impress anyone. If someone doesn’t appreciate your imperfections, those are just simply not your people. Period. Do what makes you happy and screw everyone else who doesn’t like it
FACTS!!!! How about everybody worry about themselves. Pisses me off! If someone doesn't accept you for who you are while you're living your best life Fuck Em! Anyone who truly cares will be there. Unless you're causing harm to yourself or others opinions should be kept to themselves especially if they aren't positive.
Thats a very toxic mindset. Its one thing if mfs are judging you for wearing offbrand shoes or something like that but if its over something like dressing up informally for a formal sifuation then yeah, people got every moral right to judge you for that. Thats the line that people who say the same things as you just did cross. They usually end up lacking any basic manners because of it. Its one thing to be a people pleaser, sure, but dont go so far that you commit full on public indecency. You cannot do whatever you please at the end of the day. If you could, things like laws would be pointless.
@@claymationgloves3662 You completely missed the whole point of my statement. I never said anything about committing public indecency. The whole point of what I’m saying is people judge no matter what you say or do with your life so do what makes you happy. That’s actually common sense. And the fact that you’re sitting here calling that a toxic mindset even tho I never once encouraged crime or violence in any capacity just proves my point. And yeah you’re right that people have every right to judge. But I also have every right to tell them to go kick rocks. I am not obligated to change my way of thinking to fit anyone’s narrative and neither are you so I stand by what I said
@@JamesVaden-bn4jq I never said that you convinced anyone of doing anything. I'm just saying that people who make the same kind of statement as you just did take it out of bounds the exact same way I've described.
Na fr. Once i hit my mid 20s I realized how nun of this truly matters lol. You’ll see it as the years go by. Tables turn constantly..what wasn’t cool once will suddenly be cool, then lame again eventually. I’m old enough now to see how stuff cycles. For example look at fashion..as a kid we wore baggy stuff..then that was out and we went slim/skinny fit stuff.. now we back to baggy again lol.
People will care for a few minutes then go back to focusing on themselves. It’s too much going on in ppls personal life for them to truly care, so it’s not enough for you to care to change yourself for their sake.
End of the day just live your life and enjoy, as long as you not hurting anybody.
some of the comments gotta be trolling or just old ngas cuz a gaming chair??😭😭
@@imtbackz a lot of em are def old heads
Have you ever heard an adult call someone an old head. I stop saying that when i turned 20. Because someone reminded me of when i was 8 and called my sister old at 18. 🤦🏾♂️
Nothing but hating azz old heads they be hating on the younger men lol i get it all the time
@@Trent-moon yes and I happen to be one of the adults calling people old heads
@@BroMaxxing age don't make you an adult kid
To each their own. Just do you…
Facts that’s the only thing that matters
clip your nails tho
nah cuz some of these comments make no sense
Let the women tell it, some dudes really need to wash their back side. As a man if you have skid marks in your underwear, then yea. Not only wash better but wipe better too. 🫤 Wet wipes would make a world of difference and that ain't nothing feminine. Keep it clean fellas.
As a member of the Dreadhead Association, what have we done to y'all?💀
@@camdatboi 😂😂😂
It's self hatred
Took they girls probably 😂
😂😂
omm
Durag outside is definitely as u say a niche look. Everyone won’t like that. Some people take it as a lazy look.
I don't care what people think. It's non of my business
@@regbandz4208 good for u
@@regbandz4208I swear 😂
That one guy with a long list cannot be black bro. If he is he had to be bald
Like deadass, some of them mfs was just straight hating
@@megawavy09 😂😂
🎯@@megawavy09
Nah I heard some crazy stories about my girl friends and a lot of guys think it gay to wash your ass😂😂😂
Meanwhile they sagging their jeans all day 😂
All people should wash their holes lol
@@jayrepublic747 nasty work
If some dudes say it's gay to wash your ass then it makes sense why they got no ladies.
People in this world are very slow and dumb 🤡
"When you wear skinny jeans, this what you are attracting "😂😂😅
Some of these comments sound personal😂😂😂
“guys disclaimer” i nearly spit out my food bruh💀😭
4:13 definitely some white guy jealous of black guys 😂
We covet nothing of your degenerate culture
Yeah, i think he just doesn’t like black people 🤷♂️😂
Ong
Some those comments just have an axe to grind or smthing
facts
As a black man, I fully agree. I always keep my hygiene clean and fresh of all body parts daily. I'm in Atlanta currently and I have been noticing a lot of black males with horrible hygiene in public places: All on trains, buses, park's, libraries, doctors offices, restaurants, ☕ coffee shops. The sad part is that many don't seem to care and it's as if they are OUT OF TOUCH With reality. When I go in the restroom to use the 🚽 toilet, they don't flush the toilet, leave bits of feces around the toilet and on top of toilet seats. I have to take tissue paper and sanitize the seats down before I sit down (Covid) for use. As a black man, I find this so EMBARRASSING! Many of these black males are developmentally delayed. Several black males who fit into this type of category will get angry and not want to improve their hygiene, or their condition. THANK YOU!!!!😅
I equate men wearing durags out in public to women who wear bonnets out in public.
Nah not the same
Stop talking lil bro😂
Men wear bonnets too.. Smh
@@d.o.gg215 nah that part keep it in the crib that’s wild.
@@Motivatesouljourney all i wanna know is.. Why..
2:30 pretty sure this was just someone’s angry ass old head uncle hating on young people 😂
The person at 5:30 HATES BLACK MEN 😂
JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE IS CALLING YOU OUT ON YOUR TOXIC BEHAVIOR!!!
As a black man when ordering drinks try getting old fashions bourbon and whiskey are game changers when going out for drinks. I still drink Remy from time to time.
Money won't really hold you back the way you think it does. I was broke and used to get HELLA girls.. but this was college days. And even post college. However as a grown man, you need some bread in your pocket.
As long as you are not sweet🌈 you will be alright
the tattoo on theneck is BS
Wearing gym clothes everyday and every where is a big DMV thing right now particularly in DC
That might have been lil nas x in your comment section 😂
a gaming chair is crazy? huh
@@whooked fr
Yo are u sure about the ripped jeans part. Guys still wearing them@@BroMaxxing
@@MunachimsoNwadinobijeans shouldn’t be tight js well fitted
@@YouNPCs ik I'm just saying that in 2024 I still see guys wear ripped jeans or fitted jeans. I wanna have one fitted jeans or ripped jeans. Wbu
@@MunachimsoNwadinobi ion know abt ripped jeans but fitted jeans is a must
Broke please define because social media makes it seem like there is no more middle it's either 100k + or your broke.
@@don.3595 I literally said you don’t need to be making 6 figures in the video just have a job or some sort of steady income
I dye the tips of my locs violet blue. Should I change it back or is that not that big fr?
Triple sec, Gin, vodka, rum, and tequila are the ingredients for a Long Island. I think drinking more than two in public is definitely a slippery slope
most of the takes are really based including durags cause its like an indoor thing if cant wear it to an interview don't wear it in professional contexts like school or work gym/park is fine
6:50 Black men!! Skinny jeans are NOT FOR YOU!! I’m speaking in general. Most of us are athletic built, we NOT SKINNY!!!!
im 6 ft 2 125 pounds wtf are u talking about
@@suicdyou’re exception to the rule
Bro people come in all shapes and sizes 😭 not every black person is athletic
@@suicd I’m talking bout your lack of comprehension
@@cbs1n15 Majority rules.
plain language means no swearing and sloppy speech like stop talking like a rapper act educated and well mannered
Why are other grown ass adults worried abt other grown people swearing? Like grow up, I understand acting like you have sense but swearing is apart of life fr. It’s unrealistic to not expect ppl to swear
@@megawavy09 your defeding people who swear and telling me to grow up is ironic. bro I don't care what other men do. this video Is about how to be more attractive or not ugly. i commented that swearing makes men more ugly. like are our parent even proud of you. cause most mamas I know don't raise their sons with potty mouths. and do you think girls think guys who are not emotionally inttlegent and say the n word or f word and other swears is actually attractive. do you think a girl wants to have that man as a father or husband. like ill be real some immoral girls out there may sleep with someone like that but that but most wont marry someone like that
@@megawavy09it's not that difficult to stop yourself from not saying a little word. i don't really like swearing and I rarely do it
@@reuus good for you bro you don’t have to swear if you don’t want to. That wasn’t the point of my initial response
@@megawavy09 yeah swearing is "a part of life" and it's unrealistic to not expect ppl to swear, but those who just swear and spam the words just to seem cool and "mature" are so corny and annoying
I think this video is valid
Preciate it
I fw tatts, sweats/gym wear, ear piercings, n sagging but like ntmmm
Saw my sister watch this video and I wanted to clarify that as a gay man myself, I do NOT like Skinny Jeans AT ALL and so doesn’t most gay men, and I know this kinda content is directed towards straight men, but I felt like that previous comment was a disservice to the community 😭😭
I feel these video's are a good outlook for black men however on the contrary it could come across as bashing or ridicule as you dont see other channels imitate this same content by saying " 10 things making you look like trailer trash as white guy" or "Top 10 ways keeping you down as an asian guy". Some may see this as an uplift others most likely will see this a decline towards black men pointing out attributes or appearances that other races may have not even noticed. Good Content brother nontheless.
@@dq1704Other Channels may not single out a specific race but I’ve seen plenty of videos with the same title excluding the race part. I specifically mention black men because my audience is predominantly black, thank you for your insight though🙏🏾
The fact that I find all these things attractive in a man 😭😭
☺️☺️☺️
I’m a woman and they said no Long Island ice tea 🧋 I’m not trying to be cool I’m grown 😂😂😂😂😂 everybody don’t want Don Julio, all the time because of the trend 😂😂😂
8:51. That look reminds me of Kris Kross in the 1990's.
Gym clothes thing I can’t agree with, them because the somewhat classy dressing is for occasions, dates, get-togethers, etc, AT fancy/or formal places. I wear sports clothing because of the weather and for no other reason
Why am I watching this as a Mexican mf I can’t help it shi hella entertaining 😭
Yea I already knew this video was going to be bullshit when I heard that u cant wear slides or flip flops unless your on the beach😭
Didn’t get the Long Island ice tea one maybe he considers it a girly drink dude was an old head , but they are banned at most bars lol it’s basically 4 types of liquor mixed and people get drunk off like one 😭
🥴🥴🤣🤣
long island ice tea 😂😂😂😂
“YA FEEL ME” the hell is wrong with that that the lingo ya feel me 😂
Of course he would say that he's 🌈
Tags on clothing was thing in 90s and early 2000s rapper build up this trend
New era hats people used to leave the sticker on I think they still do 9:12
I’m in the big beard brigade, sounds like the guy who made the list can’t grow a beard, so he’s now mad at the world.
I like the White House aide look personally..then go from there...
7:10 nah that guy needs fucking help 😭😭😭
It is your opinion though even the stats you see is based off someone opinion on “how u should look” “act” “talk” etc
Everything is opinion at the end of the day
@@BroMaxxing yeah almost everything
What is the name of the background music playing at the begin of the video up to the 6th minute mark?
I think wearing a Durag outside is the same thing as wearing pajama pants or gym clothing outside. I suppose you could do it some places, but as a person who had waves without a durag, it is not necessary 100% of the time, and I believe that it looks kind of low getto in public.
What is wrong with slides? I often rock slides to school
There's nothing wrong with wearing them in a casual setting but in a more professional setting it's not a good look
@@lefika-frank it’s lazy
@@BroMaxxing you tweaking
@@BroMaxxing bro u don't need to be rocking shoes everwhere or everyday thats how u end up with smelly feet
@@nvr1222and A lot of foot problem’s add on as you age. You feet needs a release its proven 😂😂
I’m prolly a lil older than most y’all here so let your big bro give you some advice: Nobody really cares. Just do you. As long as you not hurting anyone, live your life and enjoy..it could all change in an instant. Don’t get so caught up in what others think and care about. Every few years you will look back and realize how the stuff you once cared so much about is totally irrelevant now.
Slides? Nah they’re fine
Exactly I’m wearing my Yeezy slides out lol supermarket, walks etc
I got shot in the foot😅 slides are more comfortable 😅
Bruh I wear my slides to work lol im married tho
I hope you do one for black women
Nah F em
Mane half this video is facts and the rest is somebody’s 18th century pops 🤦
7:23 ah hn cant wear skinny jeans no more
It sounds like a bunch of people hating on things they cant pull off
if your reading this do what you want human in general find fault in everything lol live your life
Your style and demeanor should exude respect while maintaining a polished and approachable appearance.
Whats the name of the song in background?
Ladies need to realize that if they stop giving those type of men attention maybe they will stop since its such a problem
Bro half of the list yall claiming is our culture!!!!! Everybody whats to be black until it gets real 🤔
yeahh im not wearing skinny jeans no mo
And what abt wearing fashion brands like Louis v is is ok to rock those continuously
@@PaceMehkum I feel like the hypebeast wave is dead but you can rock it if u want
@@BroMaxxing ok thanks men
Not a single girl care about a Gamaing chair or what a man drinks unless he over consumes alcohol and women of all kind like locs I’ve had locs for four years and I can say it’s actually a plus for getting girls
I have tattoos from the top of my neck to my ankles.. and guess what.. I don’t give a damn bruh..
Congrats
Same here I've been covered since early 2000s married I have grandchildren.. I'm gonna be comfortable how I want
@@RLPine damn right.
@@Colt19 💯brother
Me too brother 💯💯. So I agree with you
Skinny jeans long as they aren’t tight like leggings nothing wrong especially for a skinny person
🤣🤣🤣🤣
7:14 😂😂
Who made the list 😂
Ay bro what's the name of the song playing in the background?
Which one?
One playing at 3:06
And being short. No womans Ideal black man is a short guy. The media only pushes tall ones and those are the ones they find more attractive.
Not fitting stereotypes also works against us too
Womp womp
You need to get out the house. Too many black men with fine ass women who are not 6 feet tall.
That applies to all races
@@josephisrael8959 True but the video is about black men
I think this video is about things u can actually change lmaoo
Last one is kinda true tho
I don’t agree with the slugz at all it just ain’t the look for everyone..I wear my grillz all the time bro girls love it where I’m at because it comes with the culture where I’m from 🤷🏾♂️😂to each their own I guess…take yo female with them in or out they don’t make me I make them mfs look good😂💯
0:02 😂
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Nun of that matter if you got $
Can I add farting in public lmao 🤣 everybody farts is natural but not funny doing it in public spaces unless you’re a little kid. Honorable mention, dental care or higiene !
Bro you sound like Jaicemations
W VIDEO
I think the not talking proper English part is people who text like yu and not you or u sometimes it’s like deciphering a code it’s so many misspelled words
Women always say the opposite lol
Guys if you are hating make your OWN video make your OWN rules your OWN editing and your OWN words
Please what about slim guys what is good bro
Women are picking up on the clone mentality.
🤣🤣🤣
SOMEONE HATES BLACK CULTURE 😂
The adlibs on da beat got me cryin😭 “OUUUUUAHHHH”
Wait you said girls don't like a man that go to the gym?
You’re into dudes
Don't project your diddyness onto me😂
Dreads are
I think its more the culture. You can put diamonds on a piece of turd, but its still a turd at its root.
If girls don’t like skinny jeans then why we wear them?? 😂 AND DONT SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN CUZ I LIKE MEN WITH SKINNY JEANS GOOFY
durag is a bad look no job will take you seriously only wear it indoor or to the gym
Nah no durags with the fit. Rag up when you're in the crib
@@manoftheyear5831 nah I’m saying like if you’re going to the gym or like the store it’s not crazy but obviously not in a formal setting
@@BroMaxxing ok I gotchu
Acting like you have money when you don’t
This was a complete waste of time. Do better...
smoking?
7:00