Many of us weren’t raised by parents who told us we are enough and didn’t praise us and now as adults we struggle to find our worth and can’t see it. So sad. I raised my son the opposite of what my parents did. I praised him, complimented him, never squashed his dreams and he’s 31 and very successful, happy and well adjusted. We can still overcome if we accept that our parents messed up and had no knowledge to pass on and projected their own insecurities and inefficiency on us and it wasn’t their fault.
who's fault is it than , somehow we know better if they tried they would too don't you think ? I am not making any more excuses for my parent anymore he was what he was and if he wanted he would be better because I can use that excuse as well and be the same but I am not
Actually, it’s not a good thing to praise kids. Only if they ask for it. Praising kids teaches them to be people pleasers. There’s also a difference between pro aiding kids based on performance vs effort. I read about this the other day, so thought I would share.
Joy you have an extremely serene voice which resonates deep within even for us. This is really helpful and elevating. We all are rewards like yourself Joy.
You are a beautiful soul. I was seeking Joy, and I found you. Thank you for reminding me of my worth. I wish I could surround myself with friends like you. By the way, I stayed to the end without skipping, because you are worth listening to!
Great information 😊 I love the king and queen concept on living on faith that you know what to do and not stress. We problem solve everyday just take the stress and chase out of it!!
There needs to be a balance between accepting yourself and setting a high self-concept. You can't do the latter if you're just "accepting", you need to work hard and fight for your worth - whatever that may be. I get the message though, but accepting oneself and being of high value does not seem to go together in that context
Wow. Absolutely amazing video. Love your insights and how you express and explain them! I also love towards the end, you say- idk maybe this isn't the way manifest your life...but this is how I did it! I even journaled about some things you brought up. And questions you asked. I really loved how provoked it made my mine! Thanks for sharing. 🙏💚
I totally hear you on this and I conceptually understand that when you increase your sense of value and worth, you receive equal level of blessings. However, when I ponder on my worth and value, it always seems like an empty statement. Deciding "I am worthy" or "I am worthy of all my desires" doesn't really do anything for me - any advice? 💗
Start with journal umbrella statement what's best natural and comfortable for u. And affirm them repetitive. Persist ye mind will automatically saturate with ur affirmations. Don't worry about feeling, mood emotion if false or true. Just affirm in ur mind or loud if u can. U will notice huge difference in mind state automatically within next 2 days. But persist . Don't get trigger by opposite pop up thoughts that's not real . Those are Most fake thing in this world.
@@AayraAgrawal you know what's funny - one of the things that are easiest for me to manifest is a new state, or knowledge of how to manifest something. So after writing this comment I decided "I will learn how to feel worthy right now." Because my woe wasn't that I don't feel worthy but rather I couldn't understand what worth even means; like the word itself felt empty and vague to me. Anyway - I set the intention I would download the state of being someone who knows what it means to be worthy, and literally within the hour the answer came to me. It was 11pm and I randomly remembered a Mars icecream I had bought myself earlier in the day. I jumped out of my seat with pure JOY remembering I have icecream lol, and I ran to the freezer to get it but in that split second I also started getting attacked by 'devil thoughts' - saying 'maybe I should save the ice cream for tomorrow and I can enjoy it tomorrow instead of tonight.' The energy behind that thought was 'maybe tomorrow I'll be worthy of enjoying my desire but right now I am not worthy'. And I CAUGHT IT RIGHT THERE IN THAT MOMENT. I saw right then and there what it means to be worthy NOW. I realised no - I am worthy NOW - this desire made my soul so happy now and so I am gonna have the ice cream now. And so I had it and it was so fucking good lol and now I know what it means to be worthy now. It's not some future You that is worthy of enjoying your desire but you have to put the present moment You on the backburner 'til you become more worthy in a future moment, no ... the time is now. You are worthy now. You are ready now. Be present NOW. You are in your dream NOW. Just thought I'd share in case my Mars ice cream revelations helps anyone 💘
this vid had the potential to be really helpful but seemed to just scratch the surface for me. like, yea ok having a strong self concept is important. but HOW do i change my self concept? i feel like the video just said to stop doing x and start doing y, without giving instructions on how to actually make that change. especially with the example of being bullied, that'd be a situation where the person would feel pretty powerless and low in reality. HOW should that person change their self concept to start feeling like a queen when their reality is literally showing otherwise? what tactics could they take? including useful info like that would have been sooo valuable. the part about not valuing external factors like money and validation...ok, now we're talking about a value shift, which is work. HOW should we go about changing our values from one thing to another? i feel like we were just told to trust and value ourselves, which isn't HOW to do something but rather WHAT we should do.
Somehow the words 'you are worthy, you are perfect as you are' etc. feel so empty. If everyone is this, then it loses the very definition because there is nothing to compare it to. Also, it hard to embody when it feels like a fake statement.
I view myself as a special one that my sp will never ever get BUT that sp left me 4 months ago after 9 years. Im still struggling to build a new start for myself. How would you say having self concept at this point will help me get over such a long rs?
It’s becoming super clear to me now that I’ve been doing this all wrong. My self concept is all over the place I know my worth but I let limiting thoughts dominate too often which is reflected in my 3d.
I loved your point about not relying on external factors to determine your worth in a relationship. I'm so tired of hearing about "low-value man this" or "high-value woman that." It's such a cruel and reductive way to speak about people, and it makes romantic partnerships seem like a transaction.
Joy, your message is spot-on about how to have a good life. We become what we think and believe about ourselves. I'm an old-timer, age 75, and I didn't discover the truth in your message until around age 40, which is when my life became wonderful. The "tool" I used to change how I see myself has been a gratitude list. I started writing it back in 1989, putting in every little, and larger gratitude, starting by thinking trough my childhood up until the present day. Today that list is over 54,000 words - 134 pages single-space typed into a Word document. Doing this exercise, and keeping it going over the years, caused a total shift in how I saw myself. Everything changed for the better. My life changed, my marriage changed, my business changed - all for the better. It's a wonderful message. What we think about expands, and by keeping grateful, I keep getting more things about which to be grateful. Try this. Keep it going, it works.
Keep toxic people out of your life. You must know what narcissism is to keep out these predatory and abusive people out of your life. Toxic people will destroy your life.
Yes this is so true people underestimate the power of toxic people narcissistic /psychopaths,.. are like an evil force . Cutting the cords from these people is mandatory for a good life
My family raised me in a way of that every single thing i do , and everything i am is never enough . Which caused me to have a low self concept and a lack mentality . It took me so long and so much work to have a good self concept.
Keep going, bc you are so lovable and awesome and amazing and valuable and worthy. Please try to always remember this. Your worth depends on NOTHING ❤️❤️❤️
How did you exactly do this work - through journalling and meditation? I have had exactly the same from my parents it really sucks and Ive got to age 44 struggle badly day to day
Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance. Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right. How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person. Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace. Wishing us all the best. With love Sun.
Environment triggers feelings which trigger mood which trigger thoughts and actions. You have the power to become less volatile to your environment you have all the control you are your god. Trust me when I say from experience staying in that higher frequency does attract positive experiences. Thats not to say you wont be tested but its a blip in time dont let that bs affect you queen. Stay unbothered.
My mom raised me to have low self esteem, she would praise me while also bringing me down. She’d call me beautiful then when she was mad she’d call me a bad name. It’s harder to identify that kinda stuff and realize my worth. I always let people walk over me because I think i deserve them not they deserve me.
I love everything you said.❤ Have built my self concept up the past few months and just know everything I’ve ever wanted is mine. Definitely important to focus on self concept at the same time as your desires.
Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance. Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right. How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person. Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace. Wishing us all the best. With love Sun.
Parents were v strict and so was my dance teacher. Yes I learned a great Class8dance form under her for 12 years but those 12 years of my childhood I was under pressure , stress n lot of unrequited discipline which often use to turn into distress. I m a first class first university topper gold medalist girl..fair n beautiful and a dancer and singer..however I never knew I need to value myself as a result my husband too thought of me as very gullible n took me for a ride for several years wth tremendous mental abuse n disrespect...but no more. Enough is enough. I stand up again n first v thing I want to love myself ..right from a small child uptill now..I😊 I select people v carefully now ..I need best wishes from you all..
Biologically and esoterically, we are an electromagnetic system. I am so magnetic that anything I want just gets drawn to me. All of my needs get met as a result. Isn’t it wonderful? Thank you.
Got so many self-limiting beliefs up in here it feels like I'm gonna pass out when I focus on maintaining this mindset 😂 Been practicing for a while, but this was a great listen! Subbed
I always felt that I needed to lower myself, don’t have worth and thinking that I didn’t deserve anything good because of my trauma. Now that I recovered and my way to healing I still feel the same and people please a lot. Changing how I think of myself is the answer Thank you so much ❤
Well here’s the thing When I was in high school my perception of myself was very high but as I grow older I realized I’m very ordinary if anything I’m less… I’m not particularly smart, or beautiful or talented and I compare myself to other a toxic amount to the point where I don’t get close to anyone because they leave me questioning myself. The truth is the reality of my situation eventually beat my perception and reality caught up with me like a tsunami crushing me down more then ever! My self confidence is none existent and it’s only getting worse but what I am doing about this issue with myself is just working with myself everyday.. the first step is that I’m aware of the issue so that’s great. Life is what you make it SOMETIMES for SOME people. Perception is not reality, sometimes is it but only to you.
Many of us have been down the road you are describing but we are coming out the other side loving ourselves unconditionally. Keep going because you are 100 percent lovable ❤️
This is part of Hermeticism and I agree completely. Also it is important to love and accept everything and everyone as it is, as well as yourself. In doing so will kill negativity and lack and you become someone who attracts what your new worth is. It will also take any SP off the pedestal. I love you Joy. I have subscribed because we can never have enough of words and ideas such as these.
*You don't need to get plastic surgery* hits hard 🥺 coz as a young child i never felt pretty and thought only beautiful people can have good friends. But as i matured i realised its all about self concept 💗. Thank you for your lovely video.
subscribed! ive been telling myself that ill focus on self concept but then i end up focusing way too much on sp or literally anything else. now ill actually be placing the focus on me 💅
When you talked about how kings and queens get what they want and how they are so relaxed, it reminded me of Ava Max’s Kings&Queens 👑✨️ And you rock! Keep doing what you’re doing :))
I love watching this right before i sleep! Such a great way to reprogram my mind before i sleep for the next day :) I had a question though, how do you control your reactions/emotions when you feel confident, without worrying of feeling “too arrogant”? Also, what do you guys do if someone (even strangers like lyft drivers) try to knock down your value by questioning your path in life? I’m really working on loving myself and it’s been a struggle as someone who loves being alone, I’ve become more social since I realized how confident i was with making friends. I just always have the feeling that someone is going to trigger me whenever i level up (i’m really working on my imposter syndrome as a 28 yr old still in college..) + My mom who always compares me to my oldest sister who’s inhuman sometimes with her abilities to accomplish things.. it’s been difficult having her understand her comparison is deteriorating my mental health but i know to her, she is trying to push me to do better than my sister. I just can’t sometimes with my current college stress level. (Now I’m just venting.. sorry for the negativity, i really try not to spread that but i think i need some support from strangers rn😢) And I know, happiness is a lonely road but i think i really need to work on trusting not only others, but myself by keeping my promises so others can trust me more. And i should work on being a good supporter for others as well as myself. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS❤
Look at situations where others try to knock down your value as an opportunity to reinforce your love for yourself. Here is a mantra: 'They tried to devalue me but I KNOW I am worthy and valuable and lovable and beautiful and NOBODY can deter me from this knowing. From this day forward I no longer accept as true any remarks that are aimed at devaluing me.'
This was so relaxing to watch, I’ve needed to make affirmations a routine because I’d fall back into lack mindset so many times, this was amazing thank you ❤
I want money, so me & my son can live a much better quality of life. So that the next generations of my family, won't have to finally struggle. So that i can give to ppl in need, to hopefully make their life better. I would do so many great things in the world.
I see myself as super special and a blessing. I dont understand why people i want dont see it. Also tired of walking away from mistreatment. there are very few people i able to find desirable. Trust to me implies its something other than you resolving the issue, you are then reliant on that other entity so how can you then feel powerful? If i want how i think someone can make me feel and im not getting it the solution is stopping myself from wanting it? Try to create delusional companionship?
JOY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! You honestly touched my heart with this beautiful sweetmessage and making me realise how important it is i view myself first before even thinking about others.😘❤💞
Disappointed. I thought i might get something fresh and insightful. Just another self-praise piece. Self praise is not humbling and complacency does not motivate one to improve their life. Then we wonder why this generation is becoming more and more conceited by the day, just a recipe for disaster
The concept of infinite self value is great but I wouldn’t go as far as saying someone is enough. You shouldn’t feel stressed or fake yourself in any way but you should focus and dedicate serious time to everyday self improvement.
If we are not experiencing it all first hand, there is a window or a middle-man inbetween us and it. Either we are following teachers or scriptures, we are following just another feeling towards the same thing that we are experiencing ourselves right here in this now, in our slightly different but still same imperfect now. And when learning any kind of passed down information no matter where on the spectrum of truth it is ranging, we are by doing so un-learning ourselves to put ourselves under & add on someone else's innerstanding, which with time are going to make us, our inner being, into more of a copy than an actual self. Life is live, feel, learn and re-remember and the life that we live is the teacher itself, where by living it we should be growing into living books of knowledge, if we actually live it for ourselves. We are both the teacher and the student, as we are both the observer and the one who project the whole moving picture that we see infront of us and dive into each new day when we open our eyes and the camera is again for us, rolling. On top of this, we are each others mirrors as well, reflecting all that greatness but also all that inner work that we should be doing. So really, we should be grateful for all interaction with life as there is a teacher in absolutely everything. When breaking it down, all we truly have is our energy and together with our energy all we truly need in this life is good health, good morals and a fine-tuned instrument, as in us, to express ourselves properly with, in order to free our minds. Let the caged bird fly. Follow no one who wishes followers but the one's who encourage you to live your life for you and to walk your own path. Only by doing so we'll truly know who we are and what we are truly here for. We have it all, need only ourselves and we need no middle-men to stay connected to source. We are all born out of it and were given a slightly different perspective to take in the experience with for a reason. So not to fall for false light. Saying that though, one can not escape what one are not first aware of. We are all god's until it finds a way to change the mind. 🌄
I mean it helps that your exceptionally pretty, it’s ridiculous to not factor this into your monologue if you wish to be objectively holistic, but yes go on…
So well said! Thank you. It goes beyond people and money. The same applies to knowledge as well. If part of your self concept is the belief that anything you ever need to know will be revealed to you as needed - so it will be. Do you offer paid subscriptions btw? Would love to support your content.
When i watch this video in the morning i see that you have 459 subscribers now you have 744 your amazing ❤ i'm soo greatful for that i found this video and your channel. Keep going girl looking for more amazing content ✨️
Something about this just HITS the right spot. There is a whole lot of other material on the topic but that stuff feels forced and this stuff feels natural!!
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Many of us weren’t raised by parents who told us we are enough and didn’t praise us and now as adults we struggle to find our worth and can’t see it. So sad. I raised my son the opposite of what my parents did. I praised him, complimented him, never squashed his dreams and he’s 31 and very successful, happy and well adjusted. We can still overcome if we accept that our parents messed up and had no knowledge to pass on and projected their own insecurities and inefficiency on us and it wasn’t their fault.
And know that your creator has unconditional, incomprehensible love for us all.
@@user-dg1te1ju7h same😞
who's fault is it than , somehow we know better if they tried they would too don't you think ? I am not making any more excuses for my parent anymore he was what he was and if he wanted he would be better because I can use that excuse as well and be the same but I am not
At first I felt so sad reading your story but when started saying how you raised your son, it suddenly bought a smile on my face.
Actually, it’s not a good thing to praise kids. Only if they ask for it. Praising kids teaches them to be people pleasers. There’s also a difference between pro aiding kids based on performance vs effort. I read about this the other day, so thought I would share.
You should know how uplifting your words are! I woke up feeling like I wasn't able to manifest, and now I know I can do anything.
Joy you have an extremely serene voice which resonates deep within even for us. This is really helpful and elevating. We all are rewards like yourself Joy.
You are a beautiful soul. I was seeking Joy, and I found you. Thank you for reminding me of my worth. I wish I could surround myself with friends like you. By the way, I stayed to the end without skipping, because you are worth listening to!
I want to see myself in positive light ❤
You are worthy and awesome! ❤️
Thank you, I appreciate it ❤️
im saving it so i can hear it every week for the rest of my life
your voice is so calming great vid 🫶🫶
thank you so much for such an informative video! and your examples of how to practice self concept were truly great, subscribed! ❤
amazing. Thank you!
You are really amazing. What you say makes sense. And you are pretty. I love the calmness in your voice💕
Great information 😊
I love the king and queen concept on living on faith that you know what to do and not stress. We problem solve everyday just take the stress and chase out of it!!
RUclips recommended this to me twice ❤❤❤
16.16 P.M when I noticed the clock and watched your video 🌸
Thank you for making this video, a lot of values given ❤
I'm going to re watch this everyday.
Self Image is very important I think it’s the same like Self Concept
There needs to be a balance between accepting yourself and setting a high self-concept. You can't do the latter if you're just "accepting", you need to work hard and fight for your worth - whatever that may be. I get the message though, but accepting oneself and being of high value does not seem to go together in that context
this video is soo comforting and you look soo pretty 💜
What a beautiful message. Thank you for sharing!
Loved your perspective. Thanks ❤
Love this
This was a great video. I loved the lesson.
Wow. Absolutely amazing video. Love your insights and how you express and explain them! I also love towards the end, you say- idk maybe this isn't the way manifest your life...but this is how I did it!
I even journaled about some things you brought up. And questions you asked. I really loved how provoked it made my mine!
Thanks for sharing. 🙏💚
you're sooo beautiful , it's hypnotizing !!!
I totally hear you on this and I conceptually understand that when you increase your sense of value and worth, you receive equal level of blessings. However, when I ponder on my worth and value, it always seems like an empty statement. Deciding "I am worthy" or "I am worthy of all my desires" doesn't really do anything for me - any advice? 💗
Start with journal umbrella statement what's best natural and comfortable for u. And affirm them repetitive. Persist ye mind will automatically saturate with ur affirmations. Don't worry about feeling, mood emotion if false or true. Just affirm in ur mind or loud if u can. U will notice huge difference in mind state automatically within next 2 days. But persist . Don't get trigger by opposite pop up thoughts that's not real . Those are Most fake thing in this world.
@@AayraAgrawal you know what's funny - one of the things that are easiest for me to manifest is a new state, or knowledge of how to manifest something. So after writing this comment I decided "I will learn how to feel worthy right now." Because my woe wasn't that I don't feel worthy but rather I couldn't understand what worth even means; like the word itself felt empty and vague to me.
Anyway - I set the intention I would download the state of being someone who knows what it means to be worthy, and literally within the hour the answer came to me. It was 11pm and I randomly remembered a Mars icecream I had bought myself earlier in the day. I jumped out of my seat with pure JOY remembering I have icecream lol, and I ran to the freezer to get it but in that split second I also started getting attacked by 'devil thoughts' - saying 'maybe I should save the ice cream for tomorrow and I can enjoy it tomorrow instead of tonight.' The energy behind that thought was 'maybe tomorrow I'll be worthy of enjoying my desire but right now I am not worthy'. And I CAUGHT IT RIGHT THERE IN THAT MOMENT. I saw right then and there what it means to be worthy NOW. I realised no - I am worthy NOW - this desire made my soul so happy now and so I am gonna have the ice cream now.
And so I had it and it was so fucking good lol and now I know what it means to be worthy now. It's not some future You that is worthy of enjoying your desire but you have to put the present moment You on the backburner 'til you become more worthy in a future moment, no ... the time is now. You are worthy now. You are ready now. Be present NOW. You are in your dream NOW.
Just thought I'd share in case my Mars ice cream revelations helps anyone
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Yes! We are already worthy. Nothing to do to attain that state. ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for your beautiful content
I saw A sign today that said " You are enough" ❤
Facts ❤️
thank you for creating this video 💜
I need to hear this…Thank you .
Love this, thank you 🩷
this vid had the potential to be really helpful but seemed to just scratch the surface for me. like, yea ok having a strong self concept is important. but HOW do i change my self concept? i feel like the video just said to stop doing x and start doing y, without giving instructions on how to actually make that change. especially with the example of being bullied, that'd be a situation where the person would feel pretty powerless and low in reality. HOW should that person change their self concept to start feeling like a queen when their reality is literally showing otherwise? what tactics could they take? including useful info like that would have been sooo valuable. the part about not valuing external factors like money and validation...ok, now we're talking about a value shift, which is work. HOW should we go about changing our values from one thing to another? i feel like we were just told to trust and value ourselves, which isn't HOW to do something but rather WHAT we should do.
You're one of the most prettyist people I've ever seen. mashallah
your smile is beautiful ❤❤
This is difficult to do when you're a realist. Royalties have their reality aligned with their perception. That's not the case for someone random.
there were so many ads i found it hard to actually take in what she was saying lol
You’re an Angel 💞🤍
You are the best ❤❤❤
❤❤❤ thank you ✌️
Somehow the words 'you are worthy, you are perfect as you are' etc. feel so empty. If everyone is this, then it loses the very definition because there is nothing to compare it to. Also, it hard to embody when it feels like a fake statement.
Lovely talk. Thank you.
Please recommend some of the books that have helped you
Your channel is so underrated!! One of the best 🫶🏻
seemed like started with logical statements to self delusion
I view myself as a special one that my sp will never ever get BUT that sp left me 4 months ago after 9 years. Im still struggling to build a new start for myself. How would you say having self concept at this point will help me get over such a long rs?
You are so lovable and awesome and worthy with or without the sp. Convince yourself of this truth.
But what is an SP though
special person I think
S E L F E S T E E M
I love you ❤
I want to make videos like this too😍🫶🫶🫶 practicing my communication yet
You made it through? ❤️
It’s becoming super clear to me now that I’ve been doing this all wrong. My self concept is all over the place I know my worth but I let limiting thoughts dominate too often which is reflected in my 3d.
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Me too it’s like I know I deserve better but I don’t see myself that way
Thank you !!! The majority of people think of arrogance as having high self concept or confidence and it's quite off putting.
I agree 😂, that's why nuance is important!
Ikr! And people who are quiet gentle or kind tend to be seen as soft and weak, which sucks
Ceases to suck when you develop a loving self concept. ❤️
I loved your point about not relying on external factors to determine your worth in a relationship. I'm so tired of hearing about "low-value man this" or "high-value woman that." It's such a cruel and reductive way to speak about people, and it makes romantic partnerships seem like a transaction.
Those people using those terms do indeed view relationships as transactional. So, it fits.
I hope you read this message, You have a great future ahead of you I can easily see it.
Joy, your message is spot-on about how to have a good life. We become what we think and believe about ourselves. I'm an old-timer, age 75, and I didn't discover the truth in your message until around age 40, which is when my life became wonderful. The "tool" I used to change how I see myself has been a gratitude list. I started writing it back in 1989, putting in every little, and larger gratitude, starting by thinking trough my childhood up until the present day. Today that list is over 54,000 words - 134 pages single-space typed into a Word document. Doing this exercise, and keeping it going over the years, caused a total shift in how I saw myself. Everything changed for the better. My life changed, my marriage changed, my business changed - all for the better. It's a wonderful message.
What we think about expands, and by keeping grateful, I keep getting more things about which to be grateful. Try this. Keep it going, it works.
love this!
Yes that is awesome! ❤️❤️❤️
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that is so valuable to hear! i love to read the results of others, they inspire me to keep going!
This is so beautiful ❤
Keep toxic people out of your life. You must know what narcissism is to keep out these predatory and abusive people out of your life. Toxic people will destroy your life.
Yes this is so true people underestimate the power of toxic people narcissistic /psychopaths,.. are like an evil force . Cutting the cords from these people is mandatory for a good life
My family raised me in a way of that every single thing i do , and everything i am is never enough . Which caused me to have a low self concept and a lack mentality . It took me so long and so much work to have a good self concept.
Keep going, bc you are so lovable and awesome and amazing and valuable and worthy. Please try to always remember this. Your worth depends on NOTHING ❤️❤️❤️
@@mikelucas5845r🎉🎉 right
How did you exactly do this work - through journalling and meditation? I have had exactly the same from my parents it really sucks and Ive got to age 44 struggle badly day to day
@@tileshp3762 yes you can overcome anything in life, journaling+ visualization+ subliminal with affirmations through out the day
Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance.
Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right.
How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person.
Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace.
Wishing us all the best.
With love
Sun.
* I get what I want as long as it doesn’t hurt myself or others, and benefits the collective as a whole. ❤
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“i always get what i want in healthy ways” “i get everything i want with no harm caused” my favs
Environment triggers feelings which trigger mood which trigger thoughts and actions. You have the power to become less volatile to your environment you have all the control you are your god. Trust me when I say from experience staying in that higher frequency does attract positive experiences. Thats not to say you wont be tested but its a blip in time dont let that bs affect you queen. Stay unbothered.
how did you get to that state of mind? most beliefs are subconscious, you even don't know that they exist...
My mom raised me to have low self esteem, she would praise me while also bringing me down. She’d call me beautiful then when she was mad she’d call me a bad name. It’s harder to identify that kinda stuff and realize my worth. I always let people walk over me because I think i deserve them not they deserve me.
I love everything you said.❤
Have built my self concept up the past few months and just know everything I’ve ever wanted is mine. Definitely important to focus on self concept at the same time as your desires.
Yess it is! Everything can be tied back to self-concept in some way 🥰
@@Dreamwithjoy Very true.
Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance.
Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right.
How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person.
Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace.
Wishing us all the best.
With love
Sun.
@@Ms.cosmiquesun 💡 *To "FeeL" is to KNoW.!!!* 🔑
Can you guide me, how did you master your self concept. I'm also trying, but it's bit difficult for me🥲 so can you help me plz!
I love how you outline the difference between arrogance and confidence. So true. Thanks for the explanation!
Parents were v strict and so was my dance teacher. Yes I learned a great Class8dance form under her for 12 years but those 12 years of my childhood I was under pressure , stress n lot of unrequited discipline which often use to turn into distress. I m a first class first university topper gold medalist girl..fair n beautiful and a dancer and singer..however I never knew I need to value myself as a result my husband too thought of me as very gullible n took me for a ride for several years wth tremendous mental abuse n disrespect...but no more. Enough is enough. I stand up again n first v thing I want to love myself ..right from a small child uptill now..I😊 I select people v carefully now ..I need best wishes from you all..
Biologically and esoterically, we are an electromagnetic system.
I am so magnetic that anything I want just gets drawn to me. All of my needs get met as a result. Isn’t it wonderful? Thank you.
A true king knows how to recognise a true queen and I recognise you. What an beautiful voice Stay bless thank you.
Got so many self-limiting beliefs up in here it feels like I'm gonna pass out when I focus on maintaining this mindset 😂 Been practicing for a while, but this was a great listen! Subbed
That is some rare and realistic take on self- concept. Appreciate it❤️
I always felt that I needed to lower myself, don’t have worth and thinking that I didn’t deserve anything good because of my trauma. Now that I recovered and my way to healing I still feel the same and people please a lot. Changing how I think of myself is the answer
Thank you so much ❤
So Calming and Authentic and no faking or extra anything.. to the point video.... love it
Well here’s the thing
When I was in high school my perception of myself was very high but as I grow older I realized I’m very ordinary if anything I’m less… I’m not particularly smart, or beautiful or talented and I compare myself to other a toxic amount to the point where I don’t get close to anyone because they leave me questioning myself.
The truth is the reality of my situation eventually beat my perception and reality caught up with me like a tsunami crushing me down more then ever!
My self confidence is none existent and it’s only getting worse but what I am doing about this issue with myself is just working with myself everyday.. the first step is that I’m aware of the issue so that’s great. Life is what you make it SOMETIMES for SOME people. Perception is not reality, sometimes is it but only to you.
Many of us have been down the road you are describing but we are coming out the other side loving ourselves unconditionally. Keep going because you are 100 percent lovable ❤️
⚡ I HAVE INFINITE VALUE. ⚡I HAVE INFINITE VALUE.⚡ I HAVE INFINITE VALUE. 💋
yes you do ❤❤
This is part of Hermeticism and I agree completely. Also it is important to love and accept everything and everyone as it is, as well as yourself. In doing so will kill negativity and lack and you become someone who attracts what your new worth is. It will also take any SP off the pedestal.
I love you Joy.
I have subscribed because we can never have enough of words and ideas such as these.
literally, self image = self concept. Believe in what you want and you see it.
*You don't need to get plastic surgery* hits hard 🥺 coz as a young child i never felt pretty and thought only beautiful people can have good friends. But as i matured i realised its all about self concept 💗. Thank you for your lovely video.
Thank you ma'am for mentioning homelessness.
subscribed! ive been telling myself that ill focus on self concept but then i end up focusing way too much on sp or literally anything else. now ill actually be placing the focus on me 💅
When you talked about how kings and queens get what they want and how they are so relaxed, it reminded me of Ava Max’s Kings&Queens 👑✨️ And you rock! Keep doing what you’re doing :))
Unbelievably executed, thank you for the reminder that the power is within me.
I love watching this right before i sleep! Such a great way to reprogram my mind before i sleep for the next day :) I had a question though, how do you control your reactions/emotions when you feel confident, without worrying of feeling “too arrogant”?
Also, what do you guys do if someone (even strangers like lyft drivers) try to knock down your value by questioning your path in life? I’m really working on loving myself and it’s been a struggle as someone who loves being alone, I’ve become more social since I realized how confident i was with making friends. I just always have the feeling that someone is going to trigger me whenever i level up (i’m really working on my imposter syndrome as a 28 yr old still in college..) + My mom who always compares me to my oldest sister who’s inhuman sometimes with her abilities to accomplish things.. it’s been difficult having her understand her comparison is deteriorating my mental health but i know to her, she is trying to push me to do better than my sister. I just can’t sometimes with my current college stress level. (Now I’m just venting.. sorry for the negativity, i really try not to spread that but i think i need some support from strangers rn😢)
And I know, happiness is a lonely road but i think i really need to work on trusting not only others, but myself by keeping my promises so others can trust me more. And i should work on being a good supporter for others as well as myself.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS❤
Look at situations where others try to knock down your value as an opportunity to reinforce your love for yourself. Here is a mantra: 'They tried to devalue me but I KNOW I am worthy and valuable and lovable and beautiful and NOBODY can deter me from this knowing. From this day forward I no longer accept as true any remarks that are aimed at devaluing me.'
@@mikelucas5845 Thank you so much for the supportive response. I truly appreciate you taking your time to help :’)
This was so relaxing to watch, I’ve needed to make affirmations a routine because I’d fall back into lack mindset so many times, this was amazing thank you ❤
this is so good! learned a lot
I am freaking stoked for the world we are creating!!
I want money, so me & my son can live a much better quality of life. So that the next generations of my family, won't have to finally struggle.
So that i can give to ppl in need, to hopefully make their life better.
I would do so many great things in the world.
I love you too! You are an amazing speaker and wonderful thinker. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us!
I see myself as super special and a blessing. I dont understand why people i want dont see it. Also tired of walking away from mistreatment. there are very few people i able to find desirable. Trust to me implies its something other than you resolving the issue, you are then reliant on that other entity so how can you then feel powerful? If i want how i think someone can make me feel and im not getting it the solution is stopping myself from wanting it? Try to create delusional companionship?
Some images come often in your background...what are they..? Theu disappear so quickly
JOY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! You honestly touched my heart with this beautiful sweetmessage and making me realise how important it is i view myself first before even thinking about others.😘❤💞
Why insert A commercial in the middle of speaking....thumbs down and unfollowed
Charandass
Disappointed. I thought i might get something fresh and insightful. Just another self-praise piece. Self praise is not humbling and complacency does not motivate one to improve their life. Then we wonder why this generation is becoming more and more conceited by the day, just a recipe for disaster
This is the best self concept video i have watched u speak so calmly that it feels like a therapy listening 💕
The concept of infinite self value is great but I wouldn’t go as far as saying someone is enough. You shouldn’t feel stressed or fake yourself in any way but you should focus and dedicate serious time to everyday self improvement.
If we are not experiencing it all first hand, there is a window or a middle-man inbetween us and it.
Either we are following teachers or scriptures, we are following just another feeling towards the same thing that we are experiencing ourselves right here in this now, in our slightly different but still same imperfect now.
And when learning any kind of passed down information no matter where on the spectrum of truth it is ranging, we are by doing so un-learning ourselves to put ourselves under & add on someone else's innerstanding, which with time are going to make us, our inner being, into more of a copy than an actual self.
Life is live, feel, learn and re-remember and the life that we live is the teacher itself, where by living it we should be growing into living books of knowledge, if we actually live it for ourselves. We are both the teacher and the student, as we are both the observer and the one who project the whole moving picture that we see infront of us and dive into each new day when we open our eyes and the camera is again for us, rolling. On top of this, we are each others mirrors as well, reflecting all that greatness but also all that inner work that we should be doing. So really, we should be grateful for all interaction with life as there is a teacher in absolutely everything.
When breaking it down, all we truly have is our energy and together with our energy all we truly need in this life is good health, good morals and a fine-tuned instrument, as in us, to express ourselves properly with, in order to free our minds.
Let the caged bird fly.
Follow no one who wishes followers but the one's who encourage you to live your life for you and to walk your own path.
Only by doing so we'll truly know who we are and what we are truly here for.
We have it all, need only ourselves and we need no middle-men to stay connected to source. We are all born out of it and were given a slightly different perspective to take in the experience with for a reason.
So not to fall for false light.
Saying that though, one can not escape what one are not first aware of.
We are all god's until it finds a way to change the mind. 🌄
Love your voice, can you record a 1hr voice over of you telling yourself how unique, valuable, powerful, etc... ?
Really really exaggerate it. You cant feel it unless it has great contrast. You can back it off, adjust it later. But go huge!
I mean it helps that your exceptionally pretty, it’s ridiculous to not factor this into your monologue if you wish to be objectively holistic, but yes go on…
So well said! Thank you.
It goes beyond people and money. The same applies to knowledge as well. If part of your self concept is the belief that anything you ever need to know will be revealed to you as needed - so it will be.
Do you offer paid subscriptions btw? Would love to support your content.
When i watch this video in the morning i see that you have 459 subscribers now you have 744 your amazing ❤ i'm soo greatful for that i found this video and your channel. Keep going girl looking for more amazing content ✨️
Something about this just HITS the right spot. There is a whole lot of other material on the topic but that stuff feels forced and this stuff feels natural!!
It's already done *(sitting in the bus while going to work)* XD
Thank u for this powerful message, wish I heard it 40 yrs ago:-) But I hear it now!