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  • Опубликовано: 8 май 2024
  • Changing your self-concept requires a DEEPLY felt experience of wholeness and connection to yourself. In this video, I dive into how many techniques teach you to dissociate from what you truly feel to manifest your goals and how this had me STUCK for years. My intention is to empower you with the tools to transform these beliefs at the deepest possible level without abandoning parts of yourself to do so.
    I would LOVE to know if this video resonated with you in the comments! Thank you so much for being here 💜
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Комментарии • 222

  • @nickca6104
    @nickca6104 Месяц назад +95

    If you want to become magnetic, open up your heart. The heart’s magnetic field is 100 times more powerful than the brain’s.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +4

      💓💓💓

    • @donnytarusan369
      @donnytarusan369 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@ritualsbymicaelaaAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    • @Ifidreamitidoit3566
      @Ifidreamitidoit3566 Месяц назад

      How to open up your heart?

    • @raquela8266
      @raquela8266 Месяц назад +2

      how i can open my heart

    • @tulasis4804
      @tulasis4804 Месяц назад

      @@raquela8266 spend more and more of your time doing things that you truly enjoy doing

  • @CIChannel77
    @CIChannel77 Месяц назад +106

    You're totally right. The disconnection needs to be addressed by the manifestation community and the correct steps needs to be named.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +1

      So glad it resonated 🙏🏼❤️

    • @boglarkazajzon9827
      @boglarkazajzon9827 Месяц назад +3

      Absolutely! I feel like there is so much harmful information around it tbh

  • @TheGoodBadHuman
    @TheGoodBadHuman Месяц назад +49

    This was really helpful and needed! I've found that manifestation techniques, tarot readings and the spirituality community in general can be an escape that can lead to dissociation, anxiety and ungroundedness if there isnt that unconditional love, presence and connection to your body. A big part of that is being able to look at our pain, and sit with difficult emotions to process them. I do believe in manifestation, but I think for people that have experienced trauma it is so important to not escape or become limerant. Grounding through exercise, good food and quiet is so important. Thanks for your content! :)

    • @dgrantsmith
      @dgrantsmith Месяц назад +8

      1000% agree!!! Most of the LOA and Neville teachers focus exclusively on mindset and subconscious without addressing the energy side of suppressed emotions that block the subconscious from taking on a new belief. That’s what resonated with me so much from this video.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +9

      Exactly! I love manifestation! But starting off by trying to change the things you don’t like about your life using the typical techniques can create so much disconnection. We are the most powerful creators when we create from wholeness, deep connection to ourselves, and tap into what our souls truly desire ❤️

  • @dgrantsmith
    @dgrantsmith Месяц назад +36

    Great message. Self compassion and acceptance is soooooo important and getting off the manifestation hamster wheel is such an essential part of this whole thing.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад

      Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Ifidreamitidoit3566
      @Ifidreamitidoit3566 Месяц назад

      Yeah but is the end result actually getting the SP back or not? Because it seems that a lot of people who place focus on self love instead end up with a lot of self love but still not get sp back?

  • @leaner176
    @leaner176 Месяц назад +23

    It's sort of like CBT and it's also something Abraham Hicks talks about. I talk to myself and break down the limiting beliefs and pretty soon they feel like nonsense. "Maybe I thought those things when I was younger, but I'm on a different vibration now. I know more now. Thanks to those experiences I had when I was younger, I've learned what doesn't work. I'm so grateful for where I am right now. No one has it 'all figured out ' so why am I comparing myself to others? I know as much as they do. I'm as deserving as anyone else. I've put in enough time and effort...." Etc etc. until I've really worked through it and boosted myself up. When you look at your limiting beliefs you realize how foolish they are. And they're nothing more than thoughts you've told yourself over and over, and they likely did not come from you.

    • @TT-ls1yz
      @TT-ls1yz Месяц назад +1

      I loved your explanation👍🏽💝 Thanks for sharing. I really need to do this "self talking". I would like to get some tips from you. Sending you love and light.
      A sister from Texas

    • @ivonne2452
      @ivonne2452 Месяц назад +1

      I love this so much and it makes sense. Thank you for sharing🙏

  • @LucyGem98
    @LucyGem98 Месяц назад +23

    I've briefly touched on inner child work before. I've done inner child mediations before but I never took it that seriously. I really think this video was a sign that this is something I need to work through. I have been more focused recently on being grounded in the present moment, being in my body, trying to relax, slow down, not rush through things and release control of the process of manifestation, which is something I've struggled to do for as long as I can remember. I know that it comes from having a very turbulent childhood and having to step up as the oldest child. I've already worked through beliefs around being lovable and worthiness, so for me, this idea of safety is the problem. Specifically, it being safe to release control, to stop trying so hard and relax.
    Whenever I imagine holding my inner child. I visualise picking her up and I can literally feel her wrapping herself around me completely, holding onto me really tight and it makes me cry every time because I realise just how much that little girl wanted to feel appreciated for all she was doing, to feel the love of a happy home and just be able to let go.
    Thank you for this. It really helped me.

    • @alisonhoyte7608
      @alisonhoyte7608 Месяц назад +1

      This part is so important the child in the room, and the words you never heard and always wanted to hear you today have to tell yourself these words, it is a beautiful process and continuing until you feel totally safe today, It is a process Rome wasn;t built in a day

    • @DoodleStar
      @DoodleStar Месяц назад

      And thank you for this comment; it really helped me :)

  • @simpleman4429
    @simpleman4429 Месяц назад +8

    I’m in a fellowship home recovering from alcoholism. Divorced back in November. I’ve been a mess. Praying, meditating, attempting manifestations, and crying multiple times a day. I just had a spiritual awakening watching your video. I was on the flooring crying out of gratitude and thanking God. I realized I’ve always needed someone else love to validate my existence when I really just need to love myself. Thank you !!!

  • @sweetpeahunnybee
    @sweetpeahunnybee Месяц назад +8

    Tears came to my eyes many times during this video because I knew what you were saying is true, deep within my soul ❤ self acceptance is what I want the most in the world. I will do what you said to do, and I pray that it helps me and everyone else watching 🙏

    • @erikasmith4134
      @erikasmith4134 24 дня назад

      i believe in you! you can do this💛

  • @chryscanariona
    @chryscanariona Месяц назад +13

    Amazing!!! Never thought of it like that!!! Don’t force new stuff in but heal the wounds and accept so you can build on that safely and strongly. On solid grounds. LOVE IT!!!

  • @IWO6
    @IWO6 Месяц назад +12

    This bringing up youth situations - or childhood - that has to be taken care off, is a way. Another creative way of living is to recreate the past from the present, what instantly can cure all of this, and other "mistakes". There are no mistakes, and in this view the past experience, as you said has a purpose. The purpose can be - just the understanding - that now, it can be done differently. the Godly love, everyone is looking for is inside and reveals itself by self-love and compassion. with this love we can safely create everything new.

  • @anujaanand7656
    @anujaanand7656 6 дней назад

    Micaela, You are just amazing! This was quite enlightening. I have been cursing myself for falling back into the low vibration again and again, but now, because of you, I will be able to see this as a progress!

  • @AdamSDoyle
    @AdamSDoyle Месяц назад +8

    Your point is incredibly clear and accurate. Honestly, I'm in awe of the grasp you have on the challenge of becoming our true selves. I'm grateful to have found your video. Thank you Micaela 🙏🌈🌟

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so grateful it resonated with you!! Sending you so much love ❤

  • @StefanPagacik
    @StefanPagacik Месяц назад +8

    Great video Micaela. I struggle with limiting beliefs. I like the idea of going deep and working on bringing in the abandoned child and healing the hurt so that I can use affirmations to continue to transform my life.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад

      It is the most life changing thing I ever chose to do in my healing journey! I’m so excited for you ❤ sending you lots of love

  • @balletbeauty517
    @balletbeauty517 Месяц назад +21

    Wow, this is freaking brilliant. I consume this kind of content all the time and it’s been a while since I was so blown away by a creator’s insights. Thank you so much!

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much! So glad it resonated with you ❤️

  • @jamest3336
    @jamest3336 Месяц назад +2

    hell yea. grounding in Self was a major turning point for me, resulting in confidence in my skill/career, growing success, losing people that no longer resonated with me, etc

  • @227morgan3
    @227morgan3 Месяц назад +6

    I deeply appreciate this message and I thank you for bringing it into my awareness in the exact moment that my mind and heart needed to hear it.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so glad it helped 🥹❤️

    • @divinefeminine5943
      @divinefeminine5943 Месяц назад +1

      I feel the same way. Perfect timing. I've really just started on healing my inner child and these steps will come in handy as I reparent myself. Thank you again! ❤

    • @227morgan3
      @227morgan3 Месяц назад

      @@divinefeminine5943 glad it resonates. Love your username btw

  • @hollywood_st._patrick
    @hollywood_st._patrick Месяц назад

    Thank you. This was an eye opener

  • @HappyMindAffirmations
    @HappyMindAffirmations Месяц назад

    This is so helpful, thank you! ❤❤❤

  • @mariaiftene5593
    @mariaiftene5593 Месяц назад

    Loved this so much ❤ such a healing and fresh perspective

  • @user-hc9ob6sn1n
    @user-hc9ob6sn1n Месяц назад

    lifechanging video, tysm, i love you

  • @travismehmet9992
    @travismehmet9992 Месяц назад

    This was so helpful. Thank you 💜💙

  • @aliaisabel2923
    @aliaisabel2923 25 дней назад

    Loved this thank you!

  • @sudoku47
    @sudoku47 Месяц назад

    Many thanks for your sharing! Infinite gratitude for your insights!

  • @mimitheo2944
    @mimitheo2944 Месяц назад

    Amazing! Thank you. ❤

  • @jamest3336
    @jamest3336 Месяц назад

    this is soo on point

  • @zeroinfinity3703
    @zeroinfinity3703 Месяц назад

    Excellent insights Micaela glad I found this, thanks for it

  • @anastasiagenin2518
    @anastasiagenin2518 Месяц назад

    The best video I watched so far 🌸 thank you

  • @arsenalisra
    @arsenalisra 26 дней назад

    Wow, thanks a lot for that one.

  • @sabg3233
    @sabg3233 Месяц назад

    Totally, profoundly resonating! 💫 thank you for speaking up ❤️‍🔥

  • @melodyfriends4062
    @melodyfriends4062 Месяц назад

    This really helped me so much thank you ❤

  • @higherconsciousnessdani
    @higherconsciousnessdani Месяц назад +2

    Such a beautiful & insightful video! Thanks for being so vulnerable and tapping into your personal experience. I appreciate that so much & relate on such a deep level

  • @I.AM.archana
    @I.AM.archana Месяц назад

    Wow this really reaonates. How reassuring and helpful! 🙏🏽💕

  • @DoodleStar
    @DoodleStar Месяц назад +2

    Thank God for actual sound advice. I've been too stuck for too long and nobody has been able to assist like you just have in this video. So thanks ;)

  • @kailyd.3619
    @kailyd.3619 Месяц назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @ALINApumpkin
    @ALINApumpkin 15 дней назад

    This was so helpful, thank you!

  • @TinaJ82
    @TinaJ82 Месяц назад +2

    This makes so much sense. I’m in tears right now. Inner child is at least because I feel like I’ve been doing everything to finding my higher self. I meditate every day etc doing my affirmations… I believe I’m doing great however listening to this gives me some insight on I need to have some conversations with my inner child and maybe talk to her about things not even my therapist has been able to bring up. I didn’t have either of my parents in my life as a child and when I did they didn’t give that unconditional love to me. I thought forgiving them was enough but my mother is still in my life and maybe she triggers me sometimes. Thank you for this video

  • @ele3ktra
    @ele3ktra Месяц назад

    so powerful....thnk u sm

  • @theartofseeing4422
    @theartofseeing4422 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much. You’ve addressed so much of what I’ve been running into and I instantly feel more hopeful, seen, and validated. Your energy throughout says compassion, support, love. Thank you. 🙏

  • @gitanjalinandan
    @gitanjalinandan Месяц назад

    really good. well done!

  • @divinefeminine5943
    @divinefeminine5943 Месяц назад +5

    I'm sobbing as this resonated big time. There are parts of myself ive rejected for far too long. I'm going to use your steps to create the change I so desperately want to create. Thank you for the advice that I know so many of us need right now. Much love to you! ❤

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +1

      I'm so glad it resonated my love! Sending you so much love right back 💓💓💓

  • @wearemorocco23
    @wearemorocco23 Месяц назад +4

    You are a subtle mixture of love, selfestime, hope and elegance!

  • @Cocod73
    @Cocod73 Месяц назад

    Thank you!!!

  • @jamielianne
    @jamielianne Месяц назад +1

    ❤ so greatful for you xx

  • @AjedrElx
    @AjedrElx Месяц назад

    You are right, Micaela.

  • @ItsTarotAndBeyond
    @ItsTarotAndBeyond Месяц назад +8

    You know it’s a powerful message when you start saying “YES GURL!” out loud while watching 🗣️😅👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 ❤

  • @OmnipotentSag
    @OmnipotentSag Месяц назад +2

    I have been studying, learning about, trying to understand this whole manifesting thing for years. Honestly, just feelin' like it's snake oil, a carrot that dangles before me that I'll never catch, and a bunch of double-speak. After this video, I realized I don't like the word "integrate." Lol A dear friend of mine speaks of it all the time...ain't nothin' about me lost and needin' to be brought back in. What I figure: All you have to do to manifest is head in the direction you want to go. You want money?, then do what gets you money. You want a relationship, go get one. We complicate this shit, when it's really simple af. Don't like your job?, then determine what you want and go after it. Simple, simple, simple. Trauma happened, change your view and perspective on said trauma. Simple! ❤

  • @patrickodonovan5066
    @patrickodonovan5066 Месяц назад

    This is excellent material, insight, and reminder of tools we have access to. You are very talented. Several things deeply resonated and will be helpful. Thank you for this.

  • @Veromoi4
    @Veromoi4 Месяц назад

    Excellent video, love all the details. So much wisdom. I’m on my healing journey. Self acceptance and self compassion have helped me so much🙏

  • @ozgurcaglar8837
    @ozgurcaglar8837 Месяц назад

    first time I've felt triggers while watching a content that is not interactive. thank you for your knoweledge and light ♥️

  • @leanesharpe5141
    @leanesharpe5141 Месяц назад

    Thank you! Its really special also helpful the way you explain ,this resonates with my life also
    it is your gift
    bless you xx big love dear girl 🙏💜

  • @med.i.tations
    @med.i.tations Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤ your voice is so soothing 😊 thank you for this beautiful explanation it helps me understand this a lot 😊

  • @davidjohnson9561
    @davidjohnson9561 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Mikayla for your video rewiring your subconscious takes space time repetition and once you fully believe it then you will see it

  • @teenasexton4156
    @teenasexton4156 Месяц назад +2

    Finally, ❤ this video is exactly what I needed, Thank you. I kept thinking I was doing something wrong. I have been saying affirmations and scripting. But, not understanding how to truly believe in myself. Not understanding HOw to change my self concept.
    THANK YOU!!!!

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Месяц назад +1

    your approach to transforming limiting beliefs by embracing emotional understanding is profound. Digging deep to address the root causes of our fears and doubts is often more transformative than superficial changes. 🌟

  • @aroseaura
    @aroseaura Месяц назад +2

    This was so perfectly timed, I really needed to hear this ❤

  • @ZaynaSierra
    @ZaynaSierra Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for this video ! This is the component I've been missing. I've done shadow work for traumatic events but never thought to do it for limiting beliefs. 💓

  • @veronicamacleod5719
    @veronicamacleod5719 Месяц назад

    This was so helpful. 🙏 Validation to those parts so that they can trust the guidance. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mariarodriguez-cf8yt
    @mariarodriguez-cf8yt Месяц назад

    I haven't finished the video yet but i FEEL this is what i needed to hear, it clicks so much with me , my situations ...this is life changing, thank you for sharing this ! thanks you

  • @elvnprince
    @elvnprince Месяц назад +2

    Video Notes:
    • Start with self-compassion.
    • Rejecting limiting beliefs is a process of dissociation. We formed these beliefs for survival, protection, and a sense of control.
    Manifesting from your soul:
    1. Learn how to connect to a presence of unconditional love and compassion within yourself.
    2. Be willing to shine a light on /connect with these limiting beliefs/wounded or abandoned past self.
    3. Hold that innocent younger version of yourself. You're not perfect, and still worthy of love.
    4. Validate the reason for limiting belief.
    5. Be your own loving and compassionate parent. Understand without having to change to be worthy of love.
    6. Maintain that safety and non judgment no matter how long it takes to rewire to this new level of internal safety through unconditional love and self-compassion.
    * After all this, this is the place we manifest from *
    7. Focus on being in a connected and safe feeling state.

    • @DfgnHgfr
      @DfgnHgfr 2 дня назад

      thank you so much !!!!!!! ❤

  • @greenasgrass22
    @greenasgrass22 Месяц назад +4

    I really needed this right now. Thank you so much.

  • @santiagoquinteros3980
    @santiagoquinteros3980 Месяц назад

    I really liked this video. Your take on accepting our past versions was something actually new to me. Thanks and you are gorgeous, by the way

  • @alereavideoyfotodealtura8045
    @alereavideoyfotodealtura8045 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for this!! The framing you give to understand why we have limiting beliefs was truly eye opening for me. I always knew they were there for a reason but I couldn’t understand and seeing them now as a coping mechanism I can feel gratitude towards them and at the same time know they are outdated. Healing my (younger) self by acknowledging they have served their purpose, that I have new knowledge, new tools, life experience, maturity etc. inner child you are free now, I can take care of us now, feel the love.

  • @gwgwgw-sx3gl
    @gwgwgw-sx3gl Месяц назад

    this video resonated so well with me and made me feel so safe and understood ❤️ thank you

  • @alinabenun7549
    @alinabenun7549 Месяц назад +1

    So divinely channeled ❤❤

  • @elvnprince
    @elvnprince Месяц назад

    This is brilliant and so well articulated! You highlighted everything I've been feeling within the manifestation and attraction worlds while coming from 22 years of childhood trauma and Complex-PTSD. Thank you! 🙌

  • @Elisa_Army7
    @Elisa_Army7 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much... I was so so lost 💕 This is exactly what I needed to hear, I cried during your video 😭💕 Thank you for this, so so much. Sending you love and light 💕💕

  • @joeytheapricot
    @joeytheapricot 3 дня назад

    Thank you!! So helpful ❤🎉 🏆 👩‍👧

  • @tiffanysbeautifuljourney
    @tiffanysbeautifuljourney Месяц назад

    Thank you for the understanding of self-concept. I love this video so helpful ❤

  • @Laura-rx9mp
    @Laura-rx9mp Месяц назад +1

    thank you so much. I'm on it!!! Cheers, new subscriber

  • @Ankolysing_Spondylitis
    @Ankolysing_Spondylitis 28 дней назад

    Very helpful thank you. You are a wise young Lady

  • @cheriewilliams8167
    @cheriewilliams8167 Месяц назад

    This video came at a perfect time in my life. Finally, someone who expresses ways to really help. Thank you so much for this video.

  • @santisanti8386
    @santisanti8386 Месяц назад

    This video is just what I needed. It speaks to me. Feeling safety is the biggest challenge for me. I will watch it several times for sure. Thank you!

  • @taruniyadav8567
    @taruniyadav8567 Месяц назад +1

    Oh my god...this woman❤ As a social media manager and strategist I have been working with spiritual coaches for years now. But the way she explained it is WOW.
    Your messaging is so strong, I loved it.
    I know inner work is so important, but the way you connect it to limiting beliefs and setting new beliefs is so eye opening.

  • @mariamsierra3682
    @mariamsierra3682 Месяц назад

    I'm so glad I found this video! it's really hard to create a new narrative and just ignore the past by affirming 24/7, it also gets overwhelming when you constantly get negative thoughts out of nowhere. I think it gets more difficult when we pretend the past it's going to be healed by affirming and creating positive situations in our minds.
    Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @alyssiastivers2294
    @alyssiastivers2294 Месяц назад

    This message was absolutely incredible. It was a solid reminder of I am exactly where I am meant to be. It helped unlock a deeper connection to myself because it reinforced actions I am currently taking to integrate all my parts and feel more whole. Thank you dearly. I am so grateful I stumbled upon your video!

  • @ivonne2452
    @ivonne2452 Месяц назад

    Great info

  • @xavierica
    @xavierica Месяц назад +2

    I am new here I hope with my comments can help others find themselves and connect with their higherself. My first awakening was when I was able to see the future and that helped me believe in the devine and growth of my spirituality. If you feel disconected try to work from within look at your childhood traumas by knowing your fears of being alone or not feel loved and everyday put happiness and love to yourself without expecting anything or anyone. Thanks for sharing your light here.🙏♥️🌟✨️

  • @mindy561
    @mindy561 Месяц назад

    This is really really good. I’ve manifested endless things but also I am a master at adjusting to what is. So when something big comes in to level me up… it rocks me. I got a big sum of money and it ROCKED me but not in the best way bc I realized I do not feel worthy and adjusted for what I want when it means my life is moving up to the next level. Excited that someone is tapping into this bc if you think about it- living in the end is dissociating as well

  • @AndreaStephenieLo
    @AndreaStephenieLo Месяц назад

    You have a really calming presence. Just a few minutes in I felt super drawn to your vibe and a lot better already ❤

  • @drmelissawest
    @drmelissawest 27 дней назад

    This was so powerful, I am evolving into new timelines of abundance and it is so interesting how the old stories and parts are coming up to be healed to feel worthy to receive. Thank you so much for this video, so much wisdom. I'm definitely going to listen to it more than once.

  • @laiacampos3197
    @laiacampos3197 Месяц назад

    This is amazing wisdom. Thank you for sharing this with us 💗✨ new subscriber starting today :)

  • @rindordrums
    @rindordrums Месяц назад +2

    So young and yet so wise. Well done, Micaela.
    You speak truth. Very helpful. Subscribed.

  • @seignee
    @seignee Месяц назад

    I started tearing up when you talked about limiting beliefs being scared younger versions of yourself. I saw my younger self, 13 crying feeling unworthy and I hugged her so tightly. she can be safe now. I will take care of her

  • @user-ih3lg8pf5o
    @user-ih3lg8pf5o Месяц назад

    Wow. I seemingly simple shift, but absolutely the missing piece. I just tried it ( after years of trying everything and being angry at the needy girl within me) and it was profound. You are wonderful. Thank you!

  • @DavidKestler
    @DavidKestler Месяц назад

    I can totally hear my fathers Narcissism voice and am learning new things about myself and my childhood believes. Did not look at it though as you said that by not looking at them or visiting them, I give them power over me. Yet that is so true! Great way to start my day listening to your ideas and thoughts as I make my coffee and make my bed. Always want to start my new day with new ideas, always wanting to learn and glean.
    Thank you for putting this out there, I am grateful it found me this morning.
    SuperDavidScott

  • @livannal.t.9068
    @livannal.t.9068 Месяц назад

    heard.
    thank you very much

  • @krisiam
    @krisiam Месяц назад

    You are so pretty and smart, thank youuuu❤❤❤

  • @kellyt1760
    @kellyt1760 Месяц назад

    This is amazing! This video popped up when I needed it most. I cried randomly 2 or 3 times throughout the video! This is amazingly helpful thank you 🩷

  • @TPWFG
    @TPWFG Месяц назад +2

    I hope one day I will be able to express how very much this video helped me. You are wise, well beyond your years, and your words were as a key to an old, near-forgotten lock. Thank you, little Angel, for opening me to myself so that the I that is We could begin to heal. Thank you, truly and deeply! Whatever blessings I have to give are yours! :)

  • @lauraruseno
    @lauraruseno 18 дней назад

    Your example of unworthy feeling, made me realize it was a complete different experience for me. For me it was coming from a believe that I have to be a certain way as a child to be worthy, must have the highest grades, must go to the best school, must listen and do everything my parents said, must study (i was literally locked in my room so that I didn't go playing with friends), I must helping taking care of my siblings (I have an autistic - adhd brother and a normal sister) and around the house perfectly, must be doing a job or activity that highly praise by people, so that everyone will validate and praise. No room for fun and love (I rarely have a boyfriend even now still difficult to form a relationship), always scolded and reprimanded. And despite doing it all I was still being judged of not being good enough and stupid. I never saying anything I want and how i feel, cause I didn't know, I just felt numb most of the time, and totally disconnected from who I am. In my culture it's also rude for a child to talk back to parents. I always believe I am worthless and everyone are better than me. And on the day my mother was dying she was mad at me, and the last thing she said "you will see for yourself when you have a daughter". Up to today I still mad at myself because I didn't made her happy by earning more and buying her stuffs she never have, and just causing her headache, and even my aunts said I am the one killing my mother, adding more to the unworthiness. But I was there with her throughout her cancer journey, took her to chemo, stay at hospital, while I also work on my laptop, stay with her to the very end, taking care of her. I realized I was doing my best, the best that I can. My aunts can say anything they want but they were never there, they were not the one taking care of her. I was blaming my self, but now I am proud of who I am, cause not everyone experience the same thing as me, I was so strong as a child even now. And now my mother last words made me feel, I will rise my future daughter only with unconditional love, and to be able to do that I will give that love to my self first and feel safe and secure, so that I will not project my insecurity to my own daughter, love your message ❤❤ thanks for making my journey clearer, you have a big impact ❤ keep posting, cause I binge watched your videos now 😊❤🎉

  • @malicksow6120
    @malicksow6120 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @halloseele
    @halloseele Месяц назад

    One that got it. Great! 😍

  • @auroheart
    @auroheart Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @soldbykaran
    @soldbykaran Месяц назад

    all the best

  • @KarebelleMissKarebear
    @KarebelleMissKarebear Месяц назад +1

    Oh hey - this is a nugget of gold sharing. ☺ I was dong my affirmations this morning and realized that they actually sunk in. It actually wasnt until I studied Dance Movement Therapy and built a practice, that I was able to integrate them, when my head is turning towards negative self talk.

  • @DivinelyFeminine5
    @DivinelyFeminine5 Месяц назад +4

    I really needed this video and I'm gonna listen again. Thank you so much for sharing it came at the perfect time. I've been through childhood traumas and so much pain and suffering but 2 years ago I decided I wanted better. One year after that I quit my toxic job and was so positive about finding a new one. It's now been another year that I've been unemployed and all I do is judge myself over how long it's been and I can't seem to have my breakthrough no matter what I do. I've come to close to giving up yet I keep going. This video really helped me see that I might've been too hard on myself and I wanna get back to practicing acceptance and self love. Thanks again for sharing, I love you.
    P.S if anyone reads this please share your experience or let me know it's normal and I'm not alone.

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад +2

      I just want you to know that your experience is totally normal! I tried to override my fears with overwhelming positivity for years and it kept me stuck in the same place. Even if I could manifest some positive outcomes in the short term, it never lasted because I wasn’t truly stable with those positive beliefs. I have 100% faith that if you stick to working on a loving and empowering relationship with yourself, you will have a massive breakthrough. Sending you so much love ❤

    • @DivinelyFeminine5
      @DivinelyFeminine5 Месяц назад +1

      @@ritualsbymicaela I'm soo ETERNALLY GRATEFUL for this video. Actually I realized that I was setting unrealistic standards, once I adjusted the goal I felt IMMENSE RELIEF and peace that I haven't felt in a long time. Thank you again, much love.

  • @iBelieve1970
    @iBelieve1970 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for this video. I read about this years ago and didn’t quite understand how to put it into practice. I get it now and will be implementing these steps!!

    • @ritualsbymicaela
      @ritualsbymicaela  Месяц назад

      So excited for you!! ❤ it is life changing!

    • @iBelieve1970
      @iBelieve1970 Месяц назад

      @@ritualsbymicaela I just watched this again and took notes. I'm so excited too!!

  • @mystical.mother
    @mystical.mother Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video! I am right here, right in the same understanding and i just started switching how i am doing this. Hopefully ill have some movement now 😂

  • @sabinna8350
    @sabinna8350 13 дней назад

    You're so pretty

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 Месяц назад

    Great video