The pedestal belongs to you, don't be a slave to someone else.
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Keywords: Manifestation, your thoughts create, your beliefs create, manifest your dream relationship, manifest love, attract love, manifest a specific person, manifest an ex back, recreate your SP, circumstances don't matter, shift realities, change your reality, create your reality, reprogram your mind, self-concept, conscious creator, take them off the pedestal, neville goddard, law of assumption, law of attraction, spirituality, wish fufilled state, circumstances dont matter
I was starting to attach to someone I’m talking to and noticed this time how “daunting” the feeling is of centering someone else. This video put many things in perspective and I feel like I’ll have a better day because of it🥰
Same here. I pulled my energy on time.
Never do it bc it’ll leave u both drained and hateful make sure to never lose focus on urself
Its so natural and freeing to be me without thinking from someone else...
I love when you said "be your your own SP" . This would make for a good video subject!
Watching this while anxiously waiting for my oral test somehow helped got rid of my anxiety and made me feel so much more confident
Thank You for Your Amazing Advice. I am 51 , but I really admire your wisdom and talents at your age .
Holy sh*t I needed to hear this. Might be hard to believe but even guys sometimes struggle with over attachment to people and things. Going through a situation like this at the moment .. Great video. Thank you!
Definitely not hard to believe!! I’m sure a lot of us go through this especially when starting relationships. Going through this right now but starting to realize i need to take 2 steps back and truly focus on me
@@Jranthony04 Yeah man, it's tough sometimes! I hope it resolves for you soon though.
Please don't stop giving us this important advices
girl you spoke to my soul. much love and appreciation.
Joy, this is the third video of you that I watch. I have learnt how to value my self and put myself on the pedestal. And my life has been nothing but at so much peace now. I enjoy my life. Thank you!
How did you do it ? I want to stop putting someone on the pedestal please 🙏 how did you do it?
@@natashachisenga9524I watched Joy’s video: build a first class self-concept and get what you want. It helps me to understand that no one is worth of my attention more than my own self. There’s no one that I should take care more than my own self. That video also helps me realise how valuable I am. Once you put your power to others, it will do nothing but makes you feel powerless and suffer a lot. Now that I no longer doing it, I even wonder what did I think that made me put them first. As in my own life, I am way more special and valuable.
@@lelaj4607how has this helped you in relationships with others?
Thank much SO much it's most valuable lesson everyone should learn and apply to our own life! Go within fill the void by go within not give out your power to someone else or things. God Bless your Channel! I love your messages is very true and good to our soul!😀 Keep up your good job!
You're welcome, Joy, it's a pleasure to listen to you. The wisdom you share with us is priceless. Thank you so much, looking forward to the next upload.
The best.
You put things into such an easy-to-grasp context
I always feel so much better after watching these videos
right...?!😊...I also love her
Besides conveying very good ideas and messages you also have a very pleasant voice. It's almost like listening to a spiritual, profound ASMR. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and for overcoming your shyness so you can follow your calling and thus helping many people.
This video changed my perspective in so many ways. It brought me so much peace. I wish I could give back to you the feeling of happiness you transmitted to me. Thank you, wholeheartedly.
your voice is so relaxing and you are articulate yourself so well! what a fountain of wisdom. i love listening to your videos!
Wow! The need to remove someone from a pedestal ..getting my power back ..and the realisation that my consciousness is creating my reality, have been the main areas of focus in my life recently! And, Hey Presto, your video appears!!! Thank You so much! 😊
I LOVE JOY AND HER CHANNEL
💋 I AM THE PRIZE.⚡ I AM THE PRIZE.⚡ I AM THE PRIZE.⚡
This is an amazing video - This is all common sense but you remind / articulate it so clearly and eloquently!
I love the calmness.. and thank you again siso💕💕💕💕
your beauty made me forgot what you are talking about
I really love to hear u.. ur voice so calming i almost fall asleep and i feel safe! Thankyou ❤️
You are so cute❤
I truly admire your calmness. I'm loving the content. Ily ❤
Thanks for bringing these possibilities of realities through you. Love it.
Thanks for your efforts
As I feel anxious again, I will watch your video to remind me
" I am against any sort of commandment.
Yet, just for the fun of it I set down what follows:
1. Obey no orders except those from within.
2. The only God is life itself.
3. Truth is within, do not look for it elsewhere.
4. Love is prayer.
5. Emptiness is the door to truth; it is the means, the end and the achievement.
6. Life is here and now.
7. Live fully awake.
8. Do not swim, float.
9. Die each moment so that you are renewed each moment.
10. Stop seeking. That which is, is: stop and see."
i love your videos, you have a very good understanding of the law and i appreciate you making these videos ♥️. may more good come your way ♥️
Beautifully said 🙏🏼🌠💞
You are very beautiful❤
The way you explain this is super helpful and next level! Love listening to you and your wisdom! Thank you! 🙏🏻💕✨
This video is simply powerful. Thank you so much ❤!
I Love you and your content! So glad I found your channel or shall I say your channel found me❤. Thanks for allowing God to use you, beautiful! So life changing!
I needed this sooo bad thank you!!!
Love your channel Joy 😊
thank u for this 🙏🏾 this is where i'm at currently on my journey. would you mind sharing your experience on how you moved through guilt/shame once you realized it was your energy and need to put people on pedestals that was sabatoging your relationships? i've realized this now but i acknowledge im stuck in freeze mode and the shame is preventing me from moving forward to owning my light again. 🙏🏾
Thank you Joy
this is wonderful!
you are amazing!!!! Blessings
Out of context but U r so Gorgeous, Good looking fr, ❤
Thank you love 💜💜
I just love your Oriental accent
THX outstanding!
These videos are fire tho
Thank you!
The thing is… when my SP doesn’t pick me first or make time for me, I feel unvalued. But when I bring that up to him, he tells me how I complete his life and make his world better. What do I do?
self/internal validation. know that you are worthy whether or not he re assures you. his words and affirmations cannot fill you. no matter how many people tell you you are loved and valued and pretty, if you do not think that of yourself, its all void. *you* pick *you.* *you* choose *you.*
validate yourself internally, babes. she has a video on this, two i think
Very insightful. 😊
*listening to video out loud*
"do the things you need to do to feel safe."
*Brother buts in out of nowhere*
"Ahuh, eating. Eating is comforting. "
Like, yes, but probably not a healthy coping mechanism if excessive. And yes, it's excessive.
Again nice video but how do you find the border between being loved and being delusional of being loved. Yeah, let's say you love yourself and by that, you see that the person outside loves you but it might be just our pink sunglasses that everything is unicorns and rainbows in reality they might not share the same feelings with you. If you love yourself you won't really care if they really love you because you are enough for yourself and you'll just be happy that they are around you and developing them as a person. The other thing is you can't feel loved if you aren't content with yourself first, even if their love is pure.
You’re my new favorite youtube channel, i really resonate with what you said about being your own soulmate and being complete with yourself, loving yourself before anyone else can
i really needed this whole message
keep doing what you’re doing
subscribed☺️
Joy, I would like to see you make a video where you give your thoughts or feelings or advice on the actual subject of manifestation. Listening to your current videos, it is unclear to me whether you even actually believe in the concept or not. If you don't, then what we are talking about here is really simply ordinary, psychological influence upon your own life and others. Now I'm not knocking that. It is even very important. However, it is not manifestation as that concept is generally understood. Manifestation, even if it involves **other** things, requires *nonordinary influence*. It requires probabilities or something like that in the world to be affected directly, by some deep layer of consciousness, bringing about genuinely synchronistic events that otherwise would not exist. I am talking about the same kind of thing which in PSI experiments directly affects the probabilities of thrown dice, except of course in a much more emotionally complex environment. Anyway, please consider making a video on this topic. If you do believe in manifestation (in addition to ORDINARY infleunce, which is what you have mostly been talking about) I would be interested to hear your thoughts on it, as I am sure others would. Again, I am not knocking ordinary influence. But, to be honest, if there is only ordinary influence, then one might as well go read a self help book. If there is both ordinary and nonordinary influence, well now, that is much more interesting. Tell us your thoughts.
Joy I have a question how to live in the end without putting them on pedestal??? I mean without thinking them.
I have hurt my man by continuously chasing him. Now I don't feel I'm in good energy, I don't feel complete and confident. He says in the process of chasing him and over explaining things, he has lost all the feelings for me and now he has no feelings left. He also mentioned he feels upset whenever it's my call or message and has no desire to talk or continue with me.
Can I manifest him? Is it good or will it still disturb or hurt him by being obsessed/manifesting him?
You are so wonderful I really want to be friends
i dont usually comment but i really appreciate this video and channel. thank you, miss joy.
some questions, if people dont mind. what if your focus or the thing on the pedestal is your belief system? i dont know if the youtuber believes in god or morality in general. but a lot of people are hung up on "being a good person" or "being spiritual" rather than something specific/concrete such as an SP or money/job. what if you want to manifest a better self spiritually?
maybe the point is to put yourself first but it is still vague or nonspecific. thats why most manifestors go about manifesting in terms of SP or money, because those are specific and relatively easier to imagine than having fun on your own. sometimes its also easier to imagine doing something for someone else rather than yourself (especially when you dont wanna be a selfish person), or as in my first question, what if you want something deeper or spiritual?
sorry im kinda rambling, but maybe its so much easier to imagine or focus on external and concrete things than our internal, true selves... and thats why a lot of manifestors get stuck... hope this makes sense, and thanks for reading this rambling novel haha 😅
I love your name 😊
But I can't give myself everything. The love from me doesn't feel so good at all. Idk why people don't understand this....
This is a sign of low self worth, we don’t love ourselves enough. I feel you ..
@@maryr23 There is just something about it. Hug from another person feels different than if u give yourself hug. The same with love, appreciation, care from other people. Even when I had a period of time in my life when I loved myself it just never feel so good as when other person loves you and cherish you
What is SP
Respect ❤️🙏
what is 3D btw in her expression?
Let me please practice what you are saying
what is SP?
You believe we where born to suffer ?
Spreading narcissism
I feel conflicted with the SP that I chosen he has a lot of good qualities and that’s why I want to manifest him but I can’t seem to forget about all the bad things he’s done to me in the past my question is what should I do let him go I keep trying to manifest him into what I want?that’s my inner conflict because even when he’s nice and wants to do all these sweet things for me I still hesitate because I have negative feelings towards him. What do I do?
This is probably not the answer you are looking for but when i listened to Florence Scovel Schin, she talks about how sometimes what we want isn’t necessarily what is divinely right for us. She says to let them go and bless them and whatever is rightly and divinely yours will come to you. So you shouldn’t even have anxiety on that. Something like there is no loss in the divine mind, therefore you cannot lose what is yours. You’ll get them back or if not them their equivalent. The book is The game of life and how to play it. Even Neville says not to attach to a specific man. But the feeling of love. And the right one will come along
this is not love, it is trauma bond
You ain't getting him move on and stop wasting time
Weish to have a wife like you?
replace them with Jesus
what does sp mean?
Specific person. Can be any person depending upon the context in a relationship SP means your lover.
What's SP?
sp=special person, ex. your crush, partner etc (just someone very special for you)
Don't ever have a SP it's a cope
Y'all be sold a dream (lie) this girl only be manifesting because she has decent looks and is a content creator get mad all you want but reality will hit sooner or later
GIRL I just found you today and let me just tell you I’m OBSESSED with your content. I’m so picky with who I watch but you are literally my favourite now, the way you explain everything in your videos, and honestly the videos THEMSELVES and the topics is just 🤌🏼😩
New subscriber here - Joy you’re brilliant. 🤍 This is what I’ve been working on and it reaffirms so much of it. Thank you!
I truly admire your calmness. I'm loving the content. Ily ❤