Sadhguru on Arranged Marriages
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2020
- Are arranged marriages outdated and regressive or is there something about them that is relevant in today’s times? Sadhguru answers.
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There is a reason why I prefer listening to Sadhguru than watching Netflix ❤️
Same !!!!!!
Same
Netflix is for people without beliefs. Who trust their own experiences than the wisdom of their ancestors.
Right
Me too
After seeing 2 completely compromised marriages, one that of my parents' and the other of my brothers',I chose to marry a person i liked and still going strong for 21 yrs.(by God's grace)!
Great
arranged marriage is pure rubbish .
My parents have had Arranged Marriage and it's going strong . So, your experience is not a universal experience. 🙏
@@filmymela4638 ask your mother if she is happy. There is a very high percentage of chance that she isn't. If she truly is happy, then she is exception.
@@himanshugupta7933 nobody is fully happy in any relationship. We all have flaws and we all try to make it work.
Nothing is perfect. We must all embrace imperfections. Then and only I guess couples can have a long lasting marriage
It's never about arranged or love marriage, it's about finding the right person and elders respecting the choice of kids.
and kids respecting the choice of parents too
So basically love marriage 😂
@@august-bl1jh what? Read what you just said.
@@stanman1985 if its an arranged marriage, kids should respect the choice of parents is what i mean
@@august-bl1jh I'm gonna marry not my parents. I choose.
Success of marriage can't be measured by divorce rates. There are a lot of people who suffer in hiding.
@Yogic Lady nop... What she is telling is truth...
Even my mom and dad is not divorced but the are like completly two souls now..
Just for sake of us children they are acting the role....like just to show society..
So read correctly and comment
@@sreelekshmi7636 ohh ! That's the tough way deal..
But what do you think- divorce is better option.
@@sreelekshmi7636 so are you expecting there should be no disputes between people? Well good luck with that. Also, what's with that soulmate thing?
Then love marriages are also no better... people are just people
@@sreelekshmi7636 acknowledge and appreciate what your parents are doing for u ...it's about priorities... easier said than done
Those who get good partners for marriage at right time are luckiest person on this planet do you all agree with me.
No.
The crux of the this session bis not to search for The good person but be the Good person, so that whoever is your partner, you would conduct the relationship the best way you can.
More than that one should be good partners instead of expecting others to be good.
Totally agree with you... bdw m also anu😀😊
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Reporting sexual offence is also very less in India. Does that mean it's not happening? Divorce rate is less doesnt imply marriages are working. People are concerned about their image in the society here in India. This is the reason why they don't file for divorce and refrain from reporting sexual offence.
even if it is underreported I don't think it can blow up to 90% like in some European countries
Jatin Lalwani That is a big problem. In China, too. Russia, too. In Russia, the police mostly doesn't help if a woman is beaten by her husband. And often women are beaten to death. Mankind has got to learn a lot...
Exactly.. People love living in delusion......The arrogance is strong
@@sonja_rademacher here police will help the woman no doubt but women are ingrained to accept suffering...
@Super nova So then please explain why couples stay together even when they don't want children and don't have children?
It makes me sad, that your mother and your father have not given you true, deep love.
If parents don't give love to their children, the children are not able to feel love later in life.
Believe me: Love exists. Everywhere.
Netflix lol
India is a different country
You cannot look at india through west perspective or even a middle east perspective
India is india
summary :
1. divorce rates in India are Considereably lower than other nations.
2. every marriage is arranged, either my someone or by emotions or you.
3. you need to be happy within yourself and only then enter a relationship, not compulsiveness.
4. you need to marry the girl and nothing else, not her background or things that don't concern.
5. usually parents make marriage with best interests in mind and a longer time frame
I think the divorce marriage rates in India has more to say about culture, traditions, and taboo in India rather than how well-arranged marriage works vs how well love marriage works.
No 5 is debatable!
@@lakshyakumarjha7240 Absolutely
But the thing is, in india divorce is unacceptable by the couples there is a constant fear of " what sociaty will think " that's one of the reasons of such a small rate of divorce cases in india
Ok, domestic violence rate?
An old joke : 'You fall in love with a pair of eyes and end up marrying the whole person!"
Good one 😂👍
In india infact the whole family
😂😂
Key word willing to take *RESPONSIBILITY* ...there is chance to miss the word
Bang on!❤️
I think the keyword is to make yourself Joyful human, if you are already unhappy expecting happiness from others (e.g from marriage) is not a sensible thing
Gautam Udayabhanu nn
Yes
In India divorce rate is 1.5 percent because... Very less chance for women to get married for second time and many indian women are not independent... Otherwise India will also have good number of divorce rate... Nothing else
Exactly! finally, someone pointed out the reason right in this question. Thank you!!!!
True that.
@Allie X nobody actually supports divorce. It's good if two are happy and satisfied in a relationship but if they're not, why stay in an unhappy marriage?
@Allie X are you from India? Do you know how many people are forced to marry? My own friend is forced against her will and she's miserable.getting beaten by her husband but her parents don't care because they spent too much on the wedding ...this is the reality just in case you're living under a rock.stop watching American shows and see what's happening here
@Super nova I have experienced love. So how can I accept it doesn't exist when i have felt it. It doesn't necessarily have to be a boy/girl. Can be the ones for your friends, family and yourself too 😌😌
I don't understand how the success of a marriage is decided by the divorce rate of a country. In India a vast majority of people stay in bad marriages rather than getting a divorce and compromise on their health, happiness and life for the sake of preserving a marriage.
There's nothing to understand, your bias is showing.
I would prefer to be alone than be in a loveless, lifeless, ARRANGED marriage.
Same here.
Same here!
Me too
Im never marrying
Same
Divorce rate low because people choose to suffer in a marriage rather than being judged by society. Arranged marriage is like neglecting ones right to choose his or her own mate. Its forced on them with out even realizing its forced. We have to give more importance to individuality
Who is forcing, they give atleast 6 months to one year time.... if ur love is pure, one day is more than enough... people who have broad minds will never face problem with arrange marriages, there are many suicides in love marriage as well...so think big
Individuality is now in the most compulsive state..So yess if you become truly aware then you are a conscious individual..In this state everything is taken care of.
What you are saying is forced marriage, not arranged marriage. There is big difference.
@@Mohittiwariji read again to understand clearly
@@enigma533 the entire system of arrange marriage is forced and conditioned
“Change happens in an instant. It happens the moment you decide to change.”
Now 23 year old Netflix has become the platform to judge one of the ancient civilizations , indian traditions😂.
exactly
What series was the lady talking about btw
People have been criticizing arranged marriages for decades. Netflix just turned it into content and happens to be a western company that will question eastern ideology as well as western culture, don’t flatter yourself.
@@AyeBeeG East doesnt need approval from west.Both should mind their ways..Dont flatter west over east..
@Ankita Pr You may be entitled to your opinion mam, but I dont agree with you ..
He khowns how to play with words
But this is the powerful line "every marriage is arrange only que is by whom " thats right
I can see how arranged marriage could work, especially because families are involved. In the US our families are too separate. But I think the percentage of divorce per country are just as reflective on how easy/hard it is to get a divorce in those countries. That cannot be separated from the equation.
And low divorce rate is not an indicator of happy marriage. People here probably don't walk out of a unhappy marriage due to fear of social stigma. Statistics don't prove much in my opinion.
Statistic is just bullshit society here is traumatising every woman to suffer in long terms
@@divyaamohan3743
Then please leave the society which also comprises of 50% women.
@@kumarabhishek5652 and 50% brash men
But wrongs also happen to men, not just women.
Actually about marriages I won’t speak that whether to do arrange or love marriage it varies with person, but I believe that if in USA family culture comes in life of people then it will solve half of their problems may be if it’s loneliness and some other problems which are associated with it. As an example whenever we are living with family we see better moral support in life, which is there in India.
All marriages are arranged by whom that's the question 😀 truly Sadhguru's words are always so true, real and blissful!!!
by karma
@Zapper Zapped how do you know that?
@@rambocool4284 Awesome question... Im sure he doesnt have an answer.
@@truthalone4083 he will answer just like you by quoting some ancient scripture written by people of the past, apart from that he and you have nothing to answer, you both are different sides of the same coin.
@@rambocool4284 Hey, your question is a good one. @Zapper Zapped is just a deceived fellow
Actually the Indian divorce rate isn't low because arranged marriage works. It's because divorce is such a taboo that people would rather live their life with the wrong person than be shamed for being divorced.
Divorce rate is low in India mainly because of the kids . It is obviously not good for the kids if their parents get divorce . Indian parents take their kids seriously.
@@kolkataguy3917 Yes, that too.
Who says arranged marriage is always about wrong partner? It can also work
Arranged Marraige comes with longer Expiry dates due to Tradition and Social Conditioning ✍️
And if break that socail conditions will i be jailed for that??
@@ssingha9554 no it's ur choice if u consider keeping more than one or two wife/husband is good then u can break that social conditions it's ur choice
You meant Forced relationships? Right? Just give an option to women of India. Believe me majority of them would divorce their husbands. They stay in marriages because they are not financially independent and are forced by whole society to stay in marriages.
Indians suffer due to societal norms.
@@himanshugupta7933 says a man
That women sounded like siri
Questioner was definitely a Christian or a Communist Hypocrite.
@Allie X like aimim see wikipedia
@Allie X I talk about party see his party ideology
its ok , she have a well and clear accent than most of indian
Nasska B That’s true. Indian accent is very thick and hard to understand
I don't believe in arrange marriages .
How can someone marry some stranger.
It's better to marry someone known to you
But before marrying you can get engaged know that person for some months. If you think it's going good you can marry or else break off the engagement. No one says marry the very next day you got a proposal.
@@vrutikarao2005 Yes but getting engaged makes you feel obliged to marry. Also, seeing people for marrying is equivalent to marrying *just for the sake of marrying*, as if it is compulsory to marry when you attain a certain age. Marriage should be an option, if someone fell in love or is looking for love, not a compulsion.
Specially women, it's like forced prostitution. Like if she is not even interested!
@@akkshitaakkshita9591 exactly sis exactly 🙄 exactly
@@akkshitaakkshita9591 exactly
Omg even i say the same to people, who argue about arranged or love marriage. I say, whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage, how good character your husband and how you take up things matters. Not the kind of marriage
In India though The Divorce Rate Is 1.5% (approx)
Many women Live very Uncomfortably, the Main Part Is responsibilty,
If One Is responsible and Can Create connections With Love any Kind Of mariage Should work.
how joyfully Sadhguru explains and clarifies this matter of break ups, which is one of the major causes of immense pain and stress to almost half of the world's population.. thank you Sadhguru for always explaining even the hardest of matters (as the world perceives it to be), in a very simplified and humorous manner💖🕊️🙏
To all single people who came here just too make themselves feel better 😁😁😁 ...
In love marriage one chooses his own partner and also divorces by his own will..but in arrange marriage one doesnt choose his/her partner by his choice and cannot either leave by his own choice.
Exactly he cant compare it to western values of individuality. While India is bond to family and societal pressure
family and societal pressure is also important@@shinefia5987, the lack of that is causing high instability in the life of western people.
What I like most about this man is that he doesn't force words. He just put them in orders then you have to choose which is the best. ❤️❤️What a genius!
Genius? Really?
I have been looking for the best explanation to respond to my non-indian friends about arranged marriages. This wisdom by Sadhguru is the best one of all, like everything else!
And he himself didn’t involved his parents. He chose his partner. Sometimes, marriage is a lesson for life, definitely many men and women out there in India are emotionally bonded to their parents. They stay for them and for the society. Otherwise India will be in first place in the other way
Indeed
Can't agree more 👍👍👍
So true
Ain't that thruth😏
Most often their parents too much involvement in their lives ruin their marriages ...And they don't even realise that...
If you are capable & willing to take the responsibility then you arrange your own marraige .... If parents are capable & willing to take the responsibility then let them arrange it. As simple as that.
In most cases parents will insist for arranged marriage according to their choice but later they will not take any responsibility.
Ranjit Sur they’ll say - it’s your fate😟
@@ranjitsur6397 Then that is a broken system .... And all you can do is take charge and fix things yourself. Taking responsibility for your own life and making your own choices..... And suffering your own choices also if need be
But to begin with .... They are your parents and your inside voice would warn you about what & why they are saying.
@@victorrock1427 exactly
@@victorrock1427 there are men bitching in the comment section about how they are mad divorce exists and they can't keep slaves haha.....This is the mentality of some Indian men...No wonder our country is the way it is
Love marriage is something which doesn't involve a third person otherwise it is still be called arranged marriage even if it is arranged by friends.
With this many people in the world, you really think you can isolate the two people concerned. Whatever and whoever interacts with them at any point is ubiquitously going to arrange it after all
And if there is a marriage without the girls agreement and she is been forced to mary a person , doesn't it be considered a legal rape . And this is the thing mostly happening in India
Por favor, traducir al Español o colocar subtítulos en Inglés....estoy aprendido mucho Inglés con ustedes, pero no quiero perderme nada. Gracias🙏🤗
This impression that parents know what is best is very misplaced. Because parents build their opinions based on caste, class, social obligations and very less on individual choice and well being
That's not bad at all ...
If u give them lot a freedom then they fall into trap of bad people too.
@@praful4383 Parents cant decide tbh, They cosnider too much about society and too less about happines of their children
@@harkharajbharali808 that can not be said about all parents
Same applies to all and of course you too. You also dont know everything?
@@guleriab atleast they know about themselves!
I wish I could stay at Isha yoga center and grasp sadhguru's grace and preaching
Do you get to meet sadhguru?
@@Yagamilight19383 yes if he is there we may meet him I would love to go there
Me too
Sadhguru hardly stays at Isha he is always on the Move🏇
Just because people don't go to family court for divorce doesn't mean they don't go for filing domestic violence cases. India has highest number of domestic violence against women in marriage. What ABOUT dowry harassment? Is it even fair enough to just judge a successfulness of marriage only based on divorce rates?
Hmm dowry can happen in even in love marriages too....yep India has high rate of domestic violence but is that marriage specific?? It depends on the person not the mode of marriage.....
According to NCRB data of 2012 out of 100000 marriages 5.9 women faces domestic violence cases......
We want a society where woman feels most safe... We don't want an open society where relationships are taken for granted
This is one of the smartest people on the planet representing humanity and teaching. Thanks
India has a low divorce rate not because arranged marriage is more successful. It's low because divorce is still quite taboo in India.
Exactlyyyy.
👏👏👏👏 true
@Allie X that's not true. There are single moms in India too. Generalising that all their kids will turn out bad is like stereotyping them.
You'd rather live with a partner in an unhappy marriage than live peacefully with your child?
It's HOW you raise them.
@Allie X god bless 498 a
@Allie X there is not an army of single mothers in india because most unmarried women abort their babies! What choice do they have but to abort them? Your tradition will eat them up alive. Plus, dont forget the 32 million plus missing girls that have been aborted in india, making men to girl ratio quite imbalanced!. What nerve do you have to criticize a Western country that many Indians would love to migrate to! (And...some of the single mothers in western societies are in fact abandoned by Indian men who are afraid to go against their parents wish for their arranged marriage, thus they deny and leave their child and marry who their parents choose for them. (And their wives have no clue that this child exists normally; they hide it! Sickening, really!)
I had arranged marriage .. and I can tell u from my community that the divorce rate is so low simply because divorce is considered the worst thing to do.. but there’s full of miserable people stuck in marriage .. arranged marriages can work but only if the couple dates enough afterwards and knows who they are and what their looking for an are simply well educated what to look for and what to feel.
agreed!
yes
Horoscope matched?
@@swetha4844 you mean if we match based of synastry ? No the parents choose and child just agrees or disagrees but the child is often under pressure and has no clue what’s flying and just says yes as long there’s nothing obviously terrible or super ugly about the person
Today's sadhguru quote for you..
'' karma means your life is your making,
Karmic accumulation can be either boost or burden. That is your choice '' -sg
Marriage is your making, A bond tat becomes Boost or burden depends on how efficiently you arranged the relation.
Arrangement has to dispense through out the life !! Moment to moment.. People think
Once we do, it is over .No it is a constant process.. You can make every moment a fresh meet 😅😅🙏 !! Only if you how to handle the true life partner K A R M A 😜
The E t e r n a l b o n d.....
Only if you learn *** typo !!
As long as there is willingness to make it work(which comes from tradition and upbringing), relationship will last longer. Lack of patience and quick judgements have failed many things..
Rubbish , vibe is vibe , if the vibe is gone and you have grown it's finished, y'all being spiritual don't know this stuff. What y'all think that growth happenes only in academics? Put that in relationship then y'all will know , that yes sometimes relationship don't work even for soulmates it's because even in relationship there are lessons.
@@andreamessiasgomes7118 Rubbish, there's no such thing as vibe.
Not all marriages ( other than arranged) are cultivated in a "Bar". There are many ways to meet your devine. The ways of the world have changed. Women can get education and financially support self. Not necessary to marry to be dependent on a man financially. When you are dependent on another financially...you are their prisioner.
True 👌
Just loved it, Crystal clear explanation, feels good.❤️
Can't believe that I just saw you few days back in person, the day will forever be embedded within me. Thank you Sadhguru for making me wanting to be a better person.🙏🙏🙏
We are eager to watch.
The music in the end is soooo relaxing 😀❤️
"Self Appointed Advisor" hit me hard🤣😋
2:48 , that really really is perfect . I have written an article about it too
Sadhguru quoting himself did love marriage.. along with answer of this doubt means .. love marriage is best s.t you are clear about your
Choice and loyal to your partner.. in other cases .. arranged marriage is obviously better in comparison to doing love marriage in which you are actually not
that clear just to avoid arrange marriage..
Respect love and gratitude
Don't be hurry to get married or don't overthink about it, be ready for any changes, just managed to sort out things, solution is more important for any situation.....
Very true❤ i may not agree with all his speaches this one was so right.
Very logical, simple and factual & its not easy to be this ...that is the life👍
The very concept of marriages as a whole is outdated these days, leave a side arranged or love... in this realm of hookup culture etc. Marriage doesn't hold that sanctity as it used to in our Forefathers era.
That is absolutely correct ..!!
Very true. It exists primarily for raising children
I don't think success can be measured by rate of divorce, it should be measured by number of happy marriages, just because 2 people decide to stay in a marriage doesn't make it successful, in fact divorce might be better than staying in an unhappy marriage.
One can't stop future happening.🙏
Saying is easy, facing is difficult...
Listening to sadh is soo refreshing. He puts you at a comfortable place mentally, freedom indeed ✌🏾❤️❤️
When you don't allow any one, but you, who can make you happy or unhappy, no relation can be failed once established in your life. Perhaps problem is that every one wants spouse to be ideal according to his/her definition but don't want to be so for his/her partner, or they take marriage as business contract, where, spouse behavior is directly related with partner's behavior, almost no tolerance.
Preach👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
There is lot of transformation on me because of u sadhguru. U r mine great teacher 💓💓
👍👍transformation
@@anukrishnan3733 there has been a lot of transformation in me due to sadhguru.He is my great teacher*
I think its more about making a fix system or dynamic methods for marriage. Well it depends upon the quality of people in the society
Great advice, great words guruji
Thank you
good one. But I think Indian divorce rate is so low because of the stigma attached to divorce in India. Even my family, which is a middle class one, has stigmas about divorce, especially for women
I agree.
@Allie X you are every where.. Aren't you! Slamming all the comments which disagree with your line of thought. Don't be such a misogynist.
@Allie X I hope you are okay with the caste system too...Where you will be treated according to your caste ...The lower you are the worse off you will be...If you are okay with that then please tell us your caste so that we know how to treat you ....
Well, it's depends on your behavior and respect on the Partner, doesn't matter whether it is a Arrange or Love marriage. In INDIA divorce percentage has raised because of different mindsets and independence of one's feelings and never ending expectations from partner. In INDIA, people are much worried about image, so they try to adjust within themselves as they treat Divorce as negative impact on their family Image and also may be because of children they have. Simple way to be happy,
"Don't Expect Much" from partner. Respect her/him.
Forgive them if any mistake, because you love them & no one is perfect in this world, Even sachin "multi record breaker" gets out on Zero... Forgive them with smile as you do with your kids/friends.
Soon your world will be changed.
ALL THE BEST.
Thanks for making it Clear 👏👏👏
Every day I watch your video Sadhguruji and that always makes my day. Thank you
It is a wrong metric to look at, the divorce rate. Ask how many are happy and I am sure more than 90% are divorced in their minds
A lot of noises around me but whenever I started listening to Sadhguru everything seems to be quite and cool.🙏
Thts becoz he makes u to focus on your ownself
It happens when our excess energy is not channelised. Please ase do some physical exercise, and meditation.
Thanks Sadhguru Ji
Great talk. And very inspiring talk
So beautiful pastimes of Sadhguruji 💎🌻👌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
The idea of how one takes it forward matters. Respect for everyone. Respect your partner. Regardless of how it happened. You both complete it each other. Remember Shiva's Ardhnarishwar avatar. One cannot exist without the either. Namaskaram!
Should we immitate the pattern of Shiva's leela with Mohini?
Success rate of arranged marriage in INDIA >>>> love marriages
beacause people who arrange marraige are a bit ancient type and they dont believe in divorce and thinks society will judge them
Sahi bat hai
@@harkharajbharali808 but actually i r judging them and generalised ur judgement😂😂😂😂so don't be prejudiced and accept the reality
@@harkharajbharali808 that's why the divorce rate is so low in India, and not because they are happier in marriage then western countries. The reason is cultural and family pressure. Statistic don't worth too much if you didn't see beyond them. But people need facts and numbers to proof and that's enough if say couple numbers.
@Arindam Das perfect reply
I found it interesting that he said “marriage is not about how it happened, who arranged it”…”your confused friends arranged it or your confused self arranged it”….”it’s best if it is arranged by responsible, sensible people” All of this implying parents are the responsible sensible people, and people that will be getting married are not.
1. If you’re not responsible, sensible, or confused about yourself. you have no business getting married. Marriage is about building healthy families if you or your spouse are irresponsible or confused about yourselves your children will suffer.
2: I love how the guruji says confused friends or confused self and forgets confused parents. Parents want the best for their children but they get confused on what “the best” is all the time and chose what seems best rather that what is best.
When there is no answer to ur question there is always an answer which will come from his side🙏🙏huge respect to sadhguru ji
In the U.S. marriage is an outdated concept for my generation. It's sad to say the least.
@Arindam Das yup😂😂😂
The traditional concept or roles of marriage may not add positive value to some women or men - depending on their personality / sexual orientation / career / family situation / spiritual beliefs ect. That's their personal choice.
But, there are people out there, who will share your relationship values - so lead by good example, live life to the fullest and you will meet more like-minded people that will lead to fulfilling, intimate relationship.
@Arindam Das 2+2=fish?
@Arindam Das if " changing the point " & " taking words out of the mouth " had a face , it would definitely be you :)
my indian friend had an arranged marriage and he is suffering everyday cause he never really loved his wife. But he's not divorced. So that's success?
Love is transient feeling . Today I Love someone , After One month I loved other , after 8 months someone other . so you can't keep divorcing And breaking up right ?
@@youtuberk1577 all I said is that less divorces does not mean happy marriages. Have a nice day. Bye.
Thank you
Sadhguru ji is really supeb the way he looks at anything makes it so simple.
Marriage, like everything in this universe is something which is complete, true & bliss only when there is undivided CONSCIOUSNESS involved.
When there is no unpleasantness in you, full Blissfulness and pure love towards each other, only then marriage is a marriage else, it's mere Sham/arrangement!
You need to understand that when you marry, it's fulfilled only if your loved ones are involved and during the entire ceremony, all you feel is lifelong promising bliss nothing else. ☺️✨
It's good to see chartered accountants here too! Am also one step away from getting the degree🙂
Kya Baat hai , Aapki Kahi Gayi Baate Dil ko Chuu Gayi ...😢
Aap Sadhguru ki Cheli Ban Jaaiye ....
21 Topo ki Salami ...🤦♂️🏋️♂️🤸♂️👫🙏🏻
You are in the wrong profession.
@@omkarbhangle1908 Aha! All the best 😊
@@mos9139 Hahahhaa why so? 😅
No arrange no love matter only caste matter in marriage .......
If you want to marry person from same cast then your parent will agree with your decision
If you want to marry person from another then parents will never agree with decision
This is reality
I dont count those ppl as parents
Namaskaram sadhguru lots of love ..such an eye opener..
Thank goodness
Adjustable nature is required for a long lasting marriage.
This has changed my mind completely about the marriage....in a good way....Thank you sadhguru :)
Just last two minutes of this video can change many lives🙏🏻🙏🏻
It's doing the best we can, with what we have
And not worry about the results
And living every moment on the journey
He is truly a man of wisdom.💕
Excellently explained by Sadguru about the arrangement of a marriage.
However, initial comparison of divorce rate in India Vs other countries is Not a right measure to compare sucess of marriages. 😀
Agree, because people can suffer inside
Thank you 🙏
Wonderful ❤️
Anyone will surely love a responsible and kind guy
Marriage is dependent on commitment and concern towards partner not because how it happened
True , I agree .
Marriage is a compromise, a responsibility between two people and families as far as my naive perception see it.
"Naive"describes you best.
But you suffer.
So better to don't marry !!
great talk guruji.godbless.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏thanks for enlightenment
As a bachelor ... Most of the time I think
Is it okay to don't get married at all instead of breaking my head to solve these unnecessary complications.
Is it correct to do so
Or will I regret ?
It is correct to do whatever you wanna do unless it doesn't harm someone :) so no need to feel pressurized to marry just for the sake of marrying, cz u see everyone else getting married at a certain age.
I dont get ths point why do I need to get married
If you are confused about getting married or not, please don't step into any task without absolute conviction..and you will not regret staying single, because you can get married at any age in your life but you might regret marrying which will involve many complications to get out.
Sadhguru i am having a very genuine question, if marraiges are made in heaven then why marraiges are breaking in 3 to 4 months? And why people from family are using black magic kind of things to seperate the couple
First of all he doesn’t believe that marriages are made in heaven .
Absolutely sir...
I am always impressed by his answers