The Right Age To Have A Boyfriend or Girlfriend? - Sadhguru

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  • Опубликовано: 27 май 2019
  • A student asks Sadhguru,“What is the right age to have a boyfriend or girlfriend?” Sadhguru sets the context on what a relationship means, and gives perspective on sexuality and the time to get into a body-based relationship.
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Комментарии • 4 тыс.

  • @mr.coffee5220
    @mr.coffee5220 3 года назад +2754

    “If you live too early, you will not live too well” -Jagadish Vasudev (Sadhguru)

  • @monicasharma3023
    @monicasharma3023 5 лет назад +13820

    I wish such kind of counseling is done by teachers in school and parents at home

    • @Ganesh_bhat
      @Ganesh_bhat 5 лет назад +62

      💯 it should be

    • @preetyrajbongshi7704
      @preetyrajbongshi7704 5 лет назад +78

      I wish I would have got this counseling before ..

    • @monicasharma3023
      @monicasharma3023 5 лет назад +71

      @@preetyrajbongshi7704 no body does such sessions are so important in schools, homes

    • @shrutisharanart3308
      @shrutisharanart3308 5 лет назад +60

      Certainly if that be the case in every school India would transform greatly

    • @monicasharma3023
      @monicasharma3023 5 лет назад +46

      @@shrutisharanart3308 yes...but not only in schools..it should b in home as well

  • @arnavkamo
    @arnavkamo 3 года назад +5355

    I’m currently 17 and this just changed my entire view about having a girlfriend/boyfriend

  • @sristisam6301
    @sristisam6301 2 года назад +1281

    I'm now 20 years old and tbh I havent been in a single relationship.Sometimes,when I see my friends having boyfriends.I kinda feel Am I missing sthg?But still I am capturing myself to go to a relation right away.I think in future,I'll achieve my goals and wont regret not having bf in my teenage.And this speech have literally assured me that I'm on the right path :)♡

    • @endwestimperialism637
      @endwestimperialism637 2 года назад +45

      Exactly
      Me 2 never had a gf, we'll meet after achieving our goals💪

    • @tanvidhokale592
      @tanvidhokale592 2 года назад +49

      Yeah me too. I never had a Boyfriend (I am 17 btw) and I still don't want it. I want to build good a future for myself.

    • @rishhh4525
      @rishhh4525 2 года назад +15

      @@tanvidhokale592 we're the same haha

    • @mohamedabdi8932
      @mohamedabdi8932 2 года назад +22

      I also had that urge of having a girlfriend but after listening this speech I kept under my feet till further notice

    • @stranger5515
      @stranger5515 2 года назад +1

      I am 26 and never had a girlfriend but I am quite successful, would you like to be my girlfriend?

  • @purvasings1562
    @purvasings1562 4 года назад +5065

    Rubbing of skin is considered intimate. Skin is the outermost cover of who we are, then how come rubbing of skin is intimate? Simply brilliant 👏

    • @paanongaba6061
      @paanongaba6061 4 года назад +1

      hi

    • @akashkumarsingh6964
      @akashkumarsingh6964 4 года назад +1

      Hello

    • @aftabboby6732
      @aftabboby6732 4 года назад +40

      Rape is also just rubbing of skin...
      Then according to satguru rape should not be considered intimate

    • @Imperfect5252
      @Imperfect5252 4 года назад +191

      @@aftabboby6732 rape is never intimate friend. Thats even before sadhguru said it

    • @sujitarauth4314
      @sujitarauth4314 3 года назад +12

      Bcoz skin is a sense organ...as simple as that

  • @thinktank4692
    @thinktank4692 5 лет назад +6530

    " Intelligence is hacked by hormones " 🙏🙏🙏😍😍

    • @rikeshpoudel7462
      @rikeshpoudel7462 4 года назад +98

      hijacked*

    • @haya8641
      @haya8641 4 года назад +19

      @sourave Deb hijacked*

    • @akshitreddy5428
      @akshitreddy5428 4 года назад +10

      @Abhilash • *earphone

    • @tn8014
      @tn8014 4 года назад +5

      @@akshitreddy5428 , 😂

    • @rnxrutuj
      @rnxrutuj 4 года назад +6

      100 nahi 50 ka earphones 🤣🤣

  • @nehapallavi8652
    @nehapallavi8652 3 года назад +573

    I love this line "your intelligence has been hijacked by your hormones.." this is so true

    • @Rain-tg2ji
      @Rain-tg2ji 2 года назад +1

      How true that is👍

    • @gangulichaursiya-7
      @gangulichaursiya-7 Год назад

      @@Rain-tg2ji are you in relationship with someone?

    • @RahulSharma-oq2ut
      @RahulSharma-oq2ut Год назад

      And what's wrong with that?

    • @HypnosisBear
      @HypnosisBear Год назад +1

      @@RahulSharma-oq2ut Everything

    • @Mugiwara350
      @Mugiwara350 Год назад +1

      @@RahulSharma-oq2ut you don't know what's wrong in it
      It is itself one wrong thing

  • @jada888_
    @jada888_ 3 года назад +1434

    True so damm true “having bf gf is all American idea “. Me being from Canada 🇨🇦 100% agree that there are so many profound relationships beyond bodies .

    • @prajna-satheeshbs4519
      @prajna-satheeshbs4519 3 года назад +43

      Yeah but i thout canada is just another us with a different name

    • @Jen-jd3ci
      @Jen-jd3ci 3 года назад +19

      @stay home stay safe stay insideLmao many of the parents and Grandparents were LGBTQ+ who never came forward, they never tried anything and finally like a fool married to someone their parents chose.
      It's good that people are now choosing their own partners.

    • @sethlovell8424
      @sethlovell8424 3 года назад +16

      @@prajna-satheeshbs4519 I can tell you have never been to either countries so I will forgive your ignorance

    • @ranjitamalakar2297
      @ranjitamalakar2297 2 года назад +31

      And having a bf or gf doesn't mean that it's only body based relationship!!
      Stop having misconception dude!!

    • @homelander9795
      @homelander9795 2 года назад

      Yeah all Canadians are Amish😂

  • @sachiwachi4490
    @sachiwachi4490 4 года назад +2962

    "skin is the outermost part of the body, how can rubbing against another's skin be intimate?" 👍🏼

  • @narendramodicommunistversi4466
    @narendramodicommunistversi4466 5 лет назад +6132

    Sadhguru, you're now the president of our single community.✌✌✌✌

  • @AGYo97
    @AGYo97 2 года назад +314

    " There are relationships deeper than the body " 😇

    • @bovinepereira4207
      @bovinepereira4207 2 года назад

      @Amar Hey..If u dont mind can I have your insta to discuss more?

    • @Jerrymorgan6
      @Jerrymorgan6 Год назад

      What could they be?

    • @adithyann4343
      @adithyann4343 Год назад

      Yesss ofcourse relationships doesn't have to be physically oriented. Most successful relationships are where u are matured emotionally and Mentally not just financially and physically. So let people see all sides of realtionships not just a physical intimacy 😌

    • @Mugiwara350
      @Mugiwara350 Год назад

      @Amar why don't you even want someone , if you want someone it means you are incomplete

  • @sunidhisharma4105
    @sunidhisharma4105 3 года назад +626

    After listening to this.. I am feeling proud that i live with my parents and I want to study.. Do something with my life.. Make my parents proud and keep balance in my life... 🙏🙏

    • @homelander9795
      @homelander9795 2 года назад +8

      Proud 😂 this is your duty ....do something exceptional other than this and then feel proud😂 .....ur like I ate my lunch on time ...I'm so proud😂.....they spent whole lot of resources on you pay them back in old-age by bieng with them....kids these days 😂

    • @harshitraj1845
      @harshitraj1845 2 года назад +13

      @@homelander9795 Most of the people are not even able to perform their 'duty', living under their own compulsions...🙃

    • @marianesales23
      @marianesales23 2 года назад +2

      Exactly !!!

    • @rishav_2.0
      @rishav_2.0 2 года назад

      @@harshitraj1845 Those are not people. They are aliens.

    • @harshitraj1845
      @harshitraj1845 2 года назад

      @@rishav_2.0 IMO, this is just a matter of compulsion, consciousness and competence. Otherwise, I too am, as of now, quite 'alien' to the way this universe works. 🙃

  • @rupaliii
    @rupaliii 5 лет назад +3056

    "there are relationships deeper than the body"

    • @dharammewada1275
      @dharammewada1275 4 года назад +25

      And that is feeling😊

    • @peterparker4305
      @peterparker4305 4 года назад +14

      Magical feelings

    • @lalithsharma1790
      @lalithsharma1790 4 года назад +5

      Ur harmones are high!

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez 4 года назад

      lalith sharma lmao 😂

    • @Mahadevkabakthpk
      @Mahadevkabakthpk 4 года назад +29

      Body is a part of 10 mins enjoyment......😅 relationship with infinity love 😍 it's a life time enjoyment........🤗

  • @dinyyyd6206
    @dinyyyd6206 4 года назад +1900

    This is something that should be taught in every school!

  • @AXZORS
    @AXZORS 3 года назад +814

    The best time for getting a girlfriend or boyfriend is after success in your life 👍👍

    • @AXZORS
      @AXZORS 3 года назад +58

      @@mackensondinatale8756 yes , but one day definitely you will get her . God knows what you want but most importantly he knows what you need so let him handle it 👍👍

    • @ramg658
      @ramg658 3 года назад +22

      thats why when u r succesful, our parents say go and get married

    • @ranjitamalakar2297
      @ranjitamalakar2297 2 года назад +10

      @@ramg658 well said 😂
      Sadhguru thinks indian parents r always right but who will think about the mental and emotional pressure of child or adults??
      India always gave preference to he parents not the adults!!
      Sad life !!
      Everyone should be treated as equal whether parents or kids!!

    • @ApurvaWate
      @ApurvaWate 2 года назад +1

      Yup i agree!!

    • @garvvines9735
      @garvvines9735 2 года назад +2

      I agree 💯

  • @faithn8598
    @faithn8598 2 года назад +310

    I am 23, was having self-doubt at myself who has been single throughout my life. Thank you for your sharing that enlightens me

  • @chethanrshetty4645
    @chethanrshetty4645 4 года назад +2710

    Now I Am Proud To Tell I Am Single ✌✌😎

    • @truth8999
      @truth8999 4 года назад +120

      We didn't get girl because we are ugly 😂

    • @addalapurivijithkumar573
      @addalapurivijithkumar573 4 года назад +14

      @@truth8999 😂🤭😋

    • @jyotsana30
      @jyotsana30 4 года назад +49

      I am single ☺️

    • @davelper9564
      @davelper9564 3 года назад +13

      @Zapper Zapped Amazing marble to hear. So less people understand this. Most importantly Celibacy is a thing at the body emotional and mind level. All three have to be conquered. Not like the western NoFap. Well I have decent body control only as of now. Growing still. The thing is we are our own mango farmers, is it good or bad thing, it's on us.

    • @jaggibhai1566
      @jaggibhai1566 3 года назад +15

      Everything has a advantage and disadvantage both. Just ignore the dis advantage and use the advantage properly

  • @tirthshah476
    @tirthshah476 4 года назад +3191

    i think every higher secondary school students must watch this! this might save many carrers

    • @Curiosit_1
      @Curiosit_1 3 года назад +71

      Right brother
      In almost every higher secondary school students have relationship with someone, they are not focusing on the study and what happens after doing this in their life they have no idea.
      They will go to school and tuition just for meeting their partners.
      Today youth needs right direction.

    • @karribabyjahnavi9619
      @karribabyjahnavi9619 3 года назад +1

      Yes

    • @cupcakemuffin8314
      @cupcakemuffin8314 3 года назад +1

      Well yolo

    • @arppithraj1666
      @arppithraj1666 3 года назад

      I'm watching 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @ranjitamalakar2297
      @ranjitamalakar2297 2 года назад +12

      @@Curiosit_1 and today's youth also knows how to manage things accroding to the situation!!
      Don't u think there r no relationship + works together going on peacefully??

  • @MaRgEd.ZamaSU
    @MaRgEd.ZamaSU 3 года назад +63

    Physical relationship isn't important for relationship..mental support and care is a unique relationship and that hold you both together.

  • @aaronxoe1814
    @aaronxoe1814 3 года назад +121

    He taught me one thing, be single make friends live life just for the moment

  • @NemishPatelji
    @NemishPatelji 4 года назад +3992

    rahul wants boyfriend...!!
    Nooooo....Rahul wants to become PM .

    • @mayuuur1785
      @mayuuur1785 4 года назад +39

      😂🤣🙏

    • @duhhh7690
      @duhhh7690 4 года назад +31

      Well said bro😂😂😂

    • @adeshchavan5297
      @adeshchavan5297 4 года назад +18

      Hahaha 😂😂

    • @surendrarout48
      @surendrarout48 4 года назад +41

      I am rolling and laughing man you made my day

    • @sripriya4804
      @sripriya4804 4 года назад +28

      😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 yes that's why stil bachelor

  • @asmitharamesh1766
    @asmitharamesh1766 5 лет назад +1195

    If I had known Sadhguru 5 years ago my life would have been better. But I'm glad I got to hear him at least now. I hope change is always welcome in this universe.

    • @dyingsenses
      @dyingsenses 5 лет назад +39

      Every moment... That is why Yogi's say every inhalation is life and every exhalation is death... And if you want to experience it really... Just inhale and don't exhale or exhale and don't inhale 🤗. That's how life is ! Every moment a fresh... Only because you have thought which is full of memory it is difficult to start a new!

    • @jasreenkmultani3608
      @jasreenkmultani3608 5 лет назад +57

      Maybe if you would’ve known of him 5 years ago, you wouldn’t be able to understand the meanings as you are now. Sometimes you have to go through wrong things/times to know they were wrong and to appreciate the good times.

    • @nameisrango
      @nameisrango 5 лет назад +2

      Of course.. change is always welcome ; all that matters with this change is whether you want to bring it from heart or not.

    • @nameisrango
      @nameisrango 5 лет назад +7

      @@jasreenkmultani3608 same lesson you'll get in book : "the Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho .

    • @anjalypraveen808
      @anjalypraveen808 5 лет назад +2

      mee too thinking od same

  • @AnonymousKnight_
    @AnonymousKnight_ 3 года назад +49

    More than having 𝘽𝙤𝙮𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙 or 𝙂𝙞𝙧𝙡𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙 , having 𝗕𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗿𝘆 . 🤟🏻🙏🙏

  • @manpreetkaur6304
    @manpreetkaur6304 3 года назад +108

    Dnt spoil your career building days in any relationship. Focus on your goals . Take guidance from parents. Take every step by consulting your parents. Hv a happy life ahead.

    • @parakkumpappan925
      @parakkumpappan925 Год назад +1

      @Amar good expectations buddy😂
      But things will not go right for all😂

  • @paleskin2101
    @paleskin2101 3 года назад +3875

    I wish me mother could explain me like this rither than shouting 😌😃

    • @sadhnamishra8715
      @sadhnamishra8715 3 года назад +61

      Woohhh....consider him as ur mother
      Vampire😂😂

    • @paleskin2101
      @paleskin2101 3 года назад +19

      @@sadhnamishra8715 shut up

    • @sadhnamishra8715
      @sadhnamishra8715 3 года назад +30

      @@paleskin2101 rude

    • @ramabapat
      @ramabapat 3 года назад +41

      You didn’t trust your mother like you trust Sadhguru, right?

    • @formidablefoe157
      @formidablefoe157 3 года назад +20

      @@paleskin2101 hey everyone is not perfect and consider him as teacher

  • @Consciousplanetorg
    @Consciousplanetorg 5 лет назад +519

    "Friendship and Relationships are possible at various levels with enormous number of people" ~ Sadhguru

  • @38udaykhade92
    @38udaykhade92 2 года назад +72

    I'm 19 now and this kind of councelling is much needed to every youngster. Sir really told the actual fact about Indian youngsters and American youngsters. Sir you are really great!!!

  • @Nannyhere
    @Nannyhere 3 года назад +136

    His english is just awesome...and Sadhguru's exclaiming "hello" is just amazing

    • @homelander9795
      @homelander9795 2 года назад +1

      Your seems weak

    • @Nannyhere
      @Nannyhere 2 года назад +1

      @@homelander9795 yes sir may be its like that:)

    • @homelander9795
      @homelander9795 2 года назад +1

      @@Nannyhere can't believe 2 year olds are so smart these days 😂

    • @Nannyhere
      @Nannyhere 2 года назад +2

      @@homelander9795 yeah more than u.....mtlb faltu m ladna h yha pe😂🤧
      Alg hi mojj h bhaiya

  • @madiw176
    @madiw176 3 года назад +813

    i am in college now and i find myself having a strong desire to be in a relationship.. i’m letting my hormones control me and i feel that i will not be truly happy/complete without a relationship. but i realize that this is not true. a significant other at this time in my life would only be a distraction and cause suffering.. i know this. i’m trying to shift my focus onto me and bettering myself and loving myself.

    • @ahoneekesong9004
      @ahoneekesong9004 3 года назад +36

      Girl don't. I've let my hormones control me as well and it still does I'm 18. I was in a relationship with an older guy(24) it was somewhat manipulative but it was so intense as well. I've found myself gone back to him now but deep down I know it isnt right. I'm letting my emotions cloud my thinking .Now I don't know what to do. It's not a necessity. It would only bring you unnecessary pain and baggage. I'm also starting college. I'm thinking of ways to disassociate with him. I feel I'm not ready for this and I need to wait for the right time when I'm capable. This guy is nice tho but I feel like it's not right. My dad told me the same thing as this man. I want to now think logically and not emotionally

    • @rabbit3190
      @rabbit3190 3 года назад +2

      @@ahoneekesong9004 yes girl

    • @itosibenii
      @itosibenii 3 года назад +18

      i support! let's use this time for self-improvement and reach our self-actualization!

    • @angelnomathamisanqa3887
      @angelnomathamisanqa3887 3 года назад +7

      Gud to hv intimate friend after success.

    • @sardulsinghshah1030
      @sardulsinghshah1030 3 года назад

      Great 👍

  • @tinacheriankunnil6109
    @tinacheriankunnil6109 5 лет назад +408

    Where were you when I was young? Teenagers watching this....your lucky to have been guided this way. Take every bit of his words that will only make you the best. I personally listen to him every single day. He inspires me, I start my day with confidence.

    • @hun450
      @hun450 3 года назад +20

      Right! I'm a teen and I always was thinking about what is the right age of getting a boyfriend for girls. But this video gave me the motivation to get up and concentrate on studying right now.

    • @sweetysworld7011
      @sweetysworld7011 3 года назад +7

      I am 14 girl

    • @asmaasma6165
      @asmaasma6165 3 года назад +1

      @Tina it's never late

    • @johnzauvik6041
      @johnzauvik6041 3 года назад

      Grow kids grow like a mango tree but wait with your fruit

    • @parimarndi1137
      @parimarndi1137 3 года назад

      Hey didi,I am a teenager. I am not lucky but I am blessed that I came across this video😇

  • @imaginaryunicorn2408
    @imaginaryunicorn2408 2 года назад +26

    I'm 17 years old. I got so many proposal but I rejected all.. cause I also feel that this is not the right time to be in a relationship.. first we need to foused on our career, our education and love ourselves 🙏

  • @sarahhh9136
    @sarahhh9136 3 года назад +374

    “I think the biggest love is the love for oneself , so if you want to love others, you should love yourself first.”
    ~ Kim Namjoon, RM from BTS

    • @shruthimadhukumar4357
      @shruthimadhukumar4357 3 года назад +7

      Yup💜

    • @duhoonmanoj
      @duhoonmanoj 3 года назад +9

      Best president 💜💜

    • @jenishapinky2326
      @jenishapinky2326 3 года назад +9

      Aaaaaaarmy💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

    • @sarahhh9136
      @sarahhh9136 3 года назад +25

      @@shivamgupta12375 lmao imagine how disgusting u have to be to hate on people that genuinely want to help others, and if you have seen their childhood pictures you would know that they in fact, did not get surgeries. what do you even know about bts? do you even get the meanings behind their songs? do you know what they stand for? or do you judge them by their nationality and appearances? if so, then your thinking is just shallow. don't embarrass yourself here.

    • @shruthimadhukumar4357
      @shruthimadhukumar4357 3 года назад +2

      @@sarahhh9136 xactly!!💜

  • @mirbaig1737
    @mirbaig1737 4 года назад +369

    Omg Every single word that he said Was TOTALLY MEANINGFUL AND UNDERSTANDABLE ...
    Wish i had a counselor like him.

  • @blossom3424
    @blossom3424 4 года назад +2624

    Why this man is so peace calming ? Why on his face there is no desires of anything sadhguru looks like he has achieved everything in his life already !!! I want that peace on my face that's what my deepest desire is ^_^

    • @blossom3424
      @blossom3424 4 года назад +11

      @harshad panchal totally true 👍 I'll definitely try it

    • @blossom3424
      @blossom3424 4 года назад +3

      @Joyce Juliet nope, much better and in peace and calm right now 😁✌️ thanks for asking

    • @kumarankit3765
      @kumarankit3765 4 года назад +5

      @harshad brother that's the thing all of us need to understand and follow,then we will achieve what we want...

    • @sainaiksatam2668
      @sainaiksatam2668 4 года назад +7

      Look at yourself you have already achieved so much for yourself now start achieving for the well being of others..

    • @blossom3424
      @blossom3424 4 года назад +3

      @@sainaiksatam2668 🙏 ❤️ definitely 🙂

  • @monishamariam3025
    @monishamariam3025 2 года назад +164

    This man is the reason why I chose to live!❤️

  • @sonamdorjay2695
    @sonamdorjay2695 3 года назад +30

    In relationship, I will let my mind work rather then my hormones...

  • @dv9239
    @dv9239 4 года назад +2326

    "Hanky panky with your teacher"
    I love you sadhguru😂

  • @Singh0958
    @Singh0958 4 года назад +393

    Tomorrow is my first day of college and I am happy that I watched this.

  • @tnshorts9938
    @tnshorts9938 2 года назад +88

    At this stage in your life, if you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate in to something fantastic 🔥 .... Hits me right in the feel .... ♥️♥️

  • @ChetanSharma-mc5kr
    @ChetanSharma-mc5kr 3 года назад +77

    Heartbroken single but now at least I can say it proudly I choose education over a toxic relationship, escaping a love triangle to go deep in the knowledge of my books 📚.
    Wish me luck for a sustainable future life.

  • @mindtecq6203
    @mindtecq6203 4 года назад +271

    Love is connection of ones heart with another heart. Love is symbolised with a heart sign....not by the symbol of fitting of two sexual organs. So pls do not confuse love with sexual relationship. Give unconditional love to everyone. Love humanity😊

    • @manishnahar
      @manishnahar 4 года назад +2

      Well the question is about boy/girl friend. Not about love friend. Please listen to Sadhguru on Love, your doubts will get cleared. Why do you just have to love humanity, why not other life or the entire Cosmos.?

    • @mr.pramesh162
      @mr.pramesh162 3 года назад +2

      I support u and ur view

    • @Dayinthelifeofrhythmrevel
      @Dayinthelifeofrhythmrevel 3 года назад +2

      I agree

  • @floyd_lust2849
    @floyd_lust2849 4 года назад +220

    There is never a right age, just a right time to feel what your soul seek, not body.

    • @nothing_everything-
      @nothing_everything- 2 года назад +9

      Bro I am not adult but I really fall in love 😤😖

    • @redrockstar3493
      @redrockstar3493 2 года назад +10

      @@nothing_everything- its alright cuz there is no age to fall in love

    • @etherealchords3530
      @etherealchords3530 2 года назад +2

      If it just a soul connection, it could be named as friendship too. Don't we love our friends? The moment it becomes body based, that moment you need to give it other names.

    • @etherealchords3530
      @etherealchords3530 2 года назад

      @@nothing_everything- an* adult, fell* there a lot to work on yourself kiddo. First do that or else your so called nibbi true love will leave you. Harsh but true.

    • @PokeNixon
      @PokeNixon 2 года назад

      @@nothing_everything- don't be in a
      Early to fall in love
      If u fall in love to early you will not live to well as guruji said
      But I changed the context by mine

  • @Anmolraghu
    @Anmolraghu 2 года назад +274

    Never try to make girlfriend
    Just try to become friends
    Respect each other have great bond
    Love can not be made
    If you like someone at first sight it is attraction
    How can you love someone by his/her appearance without knowing her behavior
    Love or girlfriend are not made
    Love happens
    And love is without expectation

    • @GoodUR
      @GoodUR Год назад

      This is A Truth

    • @Anmolraghu
      @Anmolraghu Год назад

      @@GoodUR thanks ☺️

    • @GoodUR
      @GoodUR Год назад

      @@Anmolraghu great knowledge brother
      I hope each and every youth understands this...

    • @Anmolraghu
      @Anmolraghu Год назад +3

      @@GoodUR if youth follow Sadhguru they will definitely know😃

  • @ZeeS07
    @ZeeS07 2 года назад +16

    While watching this video one thought came to my mind that you don't have to be physically involved to be in a romantic relationship. That is just a choice that a couple make for them.
    And a relationship without any physical involvement can also cause you many troubles and heartbreaks that are obstacles in the path of your success according to the video.
    We don't live in a constant world. Things around us change, also the people and so we have to learn to adapt otherwise we'll crumble like a cookie.
    We are bound to face difficulties in our life if not because of lover than because of family or friends, it could be anything. In my opinion it is necessary that we face difficulties in our life, that's how we learn from them and grow mature.
    If you think that only boyfriend and girlfriend are the problem of a teenage life than you don't know teenagers, their life is more complicated than people assume.
    Sometimes these girlfriend and boyfriend are the people that they've survived. Everyone's situation is not the same, some might not have anyone in their family and friends to relay on imotionally which could lead them to take those life decisions that might harm them.
    Elders are supposed to guide the children so they won't do anything that might harm them in any way and give them imotional support which they need, telling them boyfriends and girlfriends are not good for them is not going to help them in their life.
    Anyways these are just my thoughts it's not necessary that everyone agrees to that but I'll say one thing that atleast try and think about it once.

  • @HealthBuilder
    @HealthBuilder 5 лет назад +190

    Every word of him seems to be dropped from the very soul of pure energy ❤️

  • @Az_tam
    @Az_tam 5 лет назад +415

    explanation just outside of this earth !
    simple yet deep

  • @2esh4
    @2esh4 3 года назад +39

    I'm 17 and I already regret not meeting new people and not having a girlfriend yet. Can't imagine the regret in latter life.

    • @suparna1106
      @suparna1106 3 года назад +2

      😂 not only you I'm worried about future

    • @rxndxm_mf861
      @rxndxm_mf861 3 года назад +5

      I'm more worried about my studies, weather I will succeed in life or not, bcz I do not work hard enough🥺

    • @sannidhyabalkote9536
      @sannidhyabalkote9536 3 года назад

      @@rxndxm_mf861 same
      But atleast I know I can do...

    • @kittycatwhiskers2094
      @kittycatwhiskers2094 2 года назад +3

      Bruh youre 17 you'll get your chance

  • @thenaturechannel4942
    @thenaturechannel4942 2 года назад +14

    My all friends have their partners in 12 standard , they always ask me to come in relationship with someone ,but seriously I love my life and enjoying it alone. 😊😊

  • @sharangowdapatil8453
    @sharangowdapatil8453 5 лет назад +538

    The tree which gives fruits in earlier stages will never grow to its full fledge life

  • @mahirasiddiqui1002
    @mahirasiddiqui1002 4 года назад +185

    Your words are so inspiring sir!😊
    "If you live too early, you'll not live too well"...best of all👌

  • @harshita7466
    @harshita7466 2 года назад +28

    This msg needs to be delivered to every one . So that they can understand their misconceptions about Indian culture that it is backward or some thing else. But there is a deep msg hidden inside aur Indian culture, which sadhguru has told us .
    Grt thinking🙏

    • @shovojitroy7888
      @shovojitroy7888 2 года назад +4

      Well said sister...I also think just like you. Our culture isn’t explained in a true way to us. If we solve this misconception with our culture, we will make a sample of ideal life.

  • @krizzacacdac2973
    @krizzacacdac2973 3 года назад +13

    I came from a heartbreak and I am ready to explore aloneeeee,I’m blessed that yt recommended this to me!!😭❤️

  • @piyushbhagwat3119
    @piyushbhagwat3119 4 года назад +158

    Friendship is the Greatest form of relationship.... Be friends with everyone 😊

    • @SAKSHI-gm1tk
      @SAKSHI-gm1tk 2 года назад +1

      What i was going to comment !!! 👍

  • @dsy5924
    @dsy5924 3 года назад +131

    one's i said a girl is my girl friend everyone started laughing and making fun of me. I was in 3 rd standard

    • @sutapadas8356
      @sutapadas8356 3 года назад +6

      😂😂😂😂

    • @SandeepMeena79
      @SandeepMeena79 3 года назад +2

      😂mai 6th class me tha tab teacher aapas me baat kar rahe the ki uski girlfriend vaha rahti hai to sari class hasne lag gayi😆

    • @wingmrta9018
      @wingmrta9018 3 года назад

      I said Other frineds

    • @dsy5924
      @dsy5924 3 года назад +3

      @@rossittanotere6258 same I started calling my friends gals instead of girl friend😁(my elder sister suggested it to me)

    • @dsy5924
      @dsy5924 3 года назад

      @@wingmrta9018 ?

  • @deepaliwalia2452
    @deepaliwalia2452 3 года назад +18

    Sadhguru Ji's words gives much needed direction to life. Even before getting into bodily relations, try be their friends. Being a student what you can possibly give someone is your company. They should not dismantle your growth and academics. You can go ahead with them if things go well better the two. But it is so important to be FRIENDS with your LOVED Ones 💝

  • @aishwaryalakshmy
    @aishwaryalakshmy 2 года назад +24

    "At this stage in your life, if you create a certain focus and balance within yourself, this energy will translate into something fantastic💫" I'm so happy that I heard this speech of Sadhguru at the right stage of my life! I focus on my future goals, studies and passion and the right time to have a bf/gf is after you become success and make your parents proud❤

  • @raj-wq5vd
    @raj-wq5vd 4 года назад +656

    I'm 20 !! Last 5 minute however solved mine biggest dillema ! 10 years challenge I'm starting today to become full fledged and big mango tree!

    • @surajrajput-pq4ef
      @surajrajput-pq4ef 4 года назад +14

      Langda ya dashari

    • @rameshwargabale3880
      @rameshwargabale3880 4 года назад

      Yo

    • @KHRN2014
      @KHRN2014 4 года назад +27

      Almost brought tears to my eyes! I'm so happy for you and your understanding and choice!! Much success on your journey!!!

    • @theemotionalremix
      @theemotionalremix 4 года назад +24

      2 weeks later she calls you to say that she's pregnant.

    • @amoghkulkarni3519
      @amoghkulkarni3519 4 года назад +3

      @@theemotionalremix lmao😂😂

  • @amansinghbist3111
    @amansinghbist3111 5 лет назад +261

    Whatever I am doing....As soon as notification comes, I stop everything to listen to him.....He thinks for true well being of whole society. I am his slave and that is my only strength. Namaskar. May Shiva bless you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @frangelelink
      @frangelelink 5 лет назад +6

      Sadghuru once mention that he gave this advise to his daughter: “ don’t look down on anybody and don’t look up on anybody either”...😌

    • @RS-os8od
      @RS-os8od 5 лет назад +1

      Giving 100th like to ur comment 😊

    • @anjalypraveen808
      @anjalypraveen808 5 лет назад

      meee too

    • @ShirazHansen
      @ShirazHansen 5 лет назад +3

      @@frangelelink I was gonna say the same thing! We indians seem to have a strong tendency to idolize and worship.

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 5 лет назад

      I am never tired of listening Sadhguru ji....His voice is pious and humble...

  • @zealeyrus6020
    @zealeyrus6020 3 года назад +5

    I wish all the people of the society watch this and understand what is the real meaning of a friend

  • @thehavenly9888
    @thehavenly9888 3 года назад +15

    India need more people like sadhuru. then there will be a more noticeable impact in our society.

  • @madhulikagupta8029
    @madhulikagupta8029 5 лет назад +69

    Yessssss so trueeee. While in school and high school everyone made so many unnecessary relationships. I did not go into that and slowly after so many bullies, I thought that I was not good enough to make one. It is now that I am in college I feel that I am ready for such a new relation, and maybe now I know with whom. But this feeling would not go away. Now I am so proud of all my decisions. I really feel happy!

    • @GeniusRK
      @GeniusRK 4 года назад +2

      👍👏👏👏

  • @nishanthsubramanya1931
    @nishanthsubramanya1931 5 лет назад +168

    It is amazing how one flowered life can influence other lives

    • @voiceofhumanity4777
      @voiceofhumanity4777 4 года назад +3

      Now imagine everyone's life would've become flowered.. that should be our all goal..

  • @aryanajex77
    @aryanajex77 2 года назад +7

    At the age of 21 I truly got the meaning of girlfriend and boyfriend .. although few years back I was in one-sided love with someone and didn't reveal at all .. and thinking am I missing something in my teen? But Satguru proved by this video that .. no .. no.. no.., you didn't miss anything .. Since today my life will be in another direction!! Godspeed!!

  • @siam6126
    @siam6126 3 года назад +8

    I really respect him.. he has his own way with words and too clear to understand!!🙏🙏

  • @lucky-sw5ok
    @lucky-sw5ok 5 лет назад +225

    Change the name from "GIRL FRIEND OR BOY FRIEND" TO YOUR ROMANCE OR LOVE AFFAIR!! - WHAT A LINE!!
    2ND LINE:
    "DONT BE IN A RUSH TO LIVE LIFE TOO EARLY, GIVE THINGS TIME!!"
    This is really helpful for the youth and it's worth of sharing!

  • @xaviertan5107
    @xaviertan5107 4 года назад +96

    “Hello?”

  • @jdgamer73
    @jdgamer73 3 года назад +6

    Love is important without physical interaction .....its motivates us to achieve things...

  • @ramenofficer8101
    @ramenofficer8101 2 года назад +17

    The whole point is, you can have a boy/girlfriend at any time in your life, it doesn't matter, you can be 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35 and have a boy/girlfriend, but just don't make it as a trend, and don't make your relationship so hurry, so you can live the best with your life. You can't force yourself to have a boy/girlfriend when you are young, or after you succeed, because having a boy/girlfriend is mainly emotions based, so just go ahead to have a boy/girlfriend if you love the person, then keep balancing, living your own life.
    I really disagree with people who said that "you should get a boy/girlfriend after succeeding". It's painfully wrong. What if he/she wants to be yours just because of your success? If he/she truly loves you when you have nothing but yourself, that's the ones who you should be in love with.

    • @ramneetkaur7205
      @ramneetkaur7205 Год назад +2

      👍👍✌️

    • @mariajosh42
      @mariajosh42 Год назад +2

      Yes. After success girlfriends/ boyfriend is easy to find, but not true love

  • @disliketheclickbaits8858
    @disliketheclickbaits8858 5 лет назад +69

    He is wise. He understands that a lot of guys/girls think that they mst have a gf/bf if they are studying in collage.

  • @ravtail2781
    @ravtail2781 5 лет назад +340

    Hello, Fellow Virgins!!

    • @ameliamyburgh5414
      @ameliamyburgh5414 4 года назад +7

      Rav Tail hello from the other side

    • @zxofficial3675
      @zxofficial3675 3 года назад +2

      Hello from hp

    • @aviarjun6228
      @aviarjun6228 3 года назад +2

      Hello from the other side. !!

    • @lalaine4530
      @lalaine4530 3 года назад +1

      Hello 🙋

    • @tarunbathula3933
      @tarunbathula3933 3 года назад +8

      Hello everyone welcome to Fellow virgins club and here comes our club president Mr sadhguru.

  • @mashabelamhaula3393
    @mashabelamhaula3393 2 года назад +3

    Wow 🔥he was honestly on fire I’ve honestly learned to be patient and the right time will come, don’t rush for things and master balancing yourself by trying your best to not confront to the patterns of the world

  • @Nobody-tr6pc
    @Nobody-tr6pc 3 года назад +5

    A lot of wisdom in a single video...it opened my eyes a lot ❤️❤️

  • @anandraja1300
    @anandraja1300 5 лет назад +259

    Sadhguru single handedly demolishing all western Ideas. And saving INDIA and INDIAN Youth. Great work sadhguru, do continue.

    • @athribhat2243
      @athribhat2243 4 года назад +3

      Exactly

    • @ajaybrijwasi3434
      @ajaybrijwasi3434 4 года назад +2

      We will have to come with sadguru ji......

    • @whatsupdog2727
      @whatsupdog2727 4 года назад +5

      And some american youth. (The ones that listen)

    • @tresapaul4530
      @tresapaul4530 3 года назад +3

      True

    • @daminijangde2960
      @daminijangde2960 3 года назад +2

      I came out from depression , anxiety and sexual harrassment . Life is unfair when you feel it but we can do anything with your hardwork and will power. We all are strong enough to handle our problems don't be depend on others . Give yourself time and all things will go fine . If you find any problem just feel this is just small and it can't effect you . You are valueable & deserves to be happy . No one gonna tell you how you are ?
      Only you know how you are ?
      And you r great just come out your positive side and fight with your problems . Your life is beautiful ❤️
      Don't make yourself canfused and distracted ❤️
      We are the child of the God
      God creates us for a good reason.
      This world needs to run and bloom with full of energy and positivity ❤️
      All are talking to you the mountains , the Shivalika , the peacock feather , the tree , the ant 🐜 .
      Feel what you have be a warrior and win the world ❤️

  • @shourov4637
    @shourov4637 5 лет назад +541

    1:16 I just love the way Sadhguru says hello !!! Hahaha it's like...his own way to say ...Dude !! 😅😂

    • @american11asshole
      @american11asshole 5 лет назад +7

      Shourov Chakma You clearly never saw Back To The Future.

    • @shubhampathak9853
      @shubhampathak9853 5 лет назад +2

      Hum saala soch mein pad gye the 😂😂😂

    • @lovelychauhan3671
      @lovelychauhan3671 4 года назад +2

      Me too

    • @kartiksingh749
      @kartiksingh749 4 года назад +6

      I love his "hello" so much that I replayed it 10 times 😂

    • @amoghkulkarni3519
      @amoghkulkarni3519 4 года назад +1

      @@kartiksingh749 hey thats what people on jio network do , everytime they make a call.

  • @lunaology8502
    @lunaology8502 2 года назад +12

    You changed the whole thinking of this community. Keep going sadhguru! 🙏🔆

  • @NikhilSharma-ve4fl
    @NikhilSharma-ve4fl 2 года назад +3

    4:42 THE WORD FRIEND MUST BE RELEASED FROM THE BODY ... that just touce my heart.

  • @Skillcappedyo
    @Skillcappedyo 5 лет назад +141

    Im 24 and i didn't had a girlfriend once so far. My mind always keep going about having a girlfriend and just live the life. At the same time iam studying and need to focus on it. Now after this what sadhguru said im realizing about how important education actually is to oneself and that one should be thankful for having the opportunity to study. im really thankful for the speech of sadhguru, I hope it will give me and also other people insights and focus to our life, so we can make the best out of it.

  • @dumpyhere1623
    @dumpyhere1623 4 года назад +1657

    Hahahahahah😂😂
    Dislikers are the manforce's company......

  • @adritagoswami2161
    @adritagoswami2161 2 года назад +5

    What a brilliant speech given by Sadhguru, do whatever you want without harming anyone but do not make it a trend that you must have boyfrnd or grlfrnd or have body based relationships during your college days or university days. This is the time to focus on our life, career, nd it should always be done in a balanced manner. What a great lesson!! There are many profound relationships beyond bodies.. "If you live too early, you will not live well, do not rush to live early" . Best ever advice given by Sadhguru, wish this was taught in our school by our teachers or parents at our home.

  • @siddheshdupare1841
    @siddheshdupare1841 3 года назад +5

    I am so glad that I am still following my brother's thoughts.

  • @shubhamarora5089
    @shubhamarora5089 5 лет назад +204

    I dont think.. anyone can answer this question as better as this one.👍👍

    • @TheSerwow
      @TheSerwow 5 лет назад +2

      I dont think.. anyone actually answered the question in this video

    • @sanjaykh6502
      @sanjaykh6502 5 лет назад

      only a sadguru can answer such questions

    • @ujjayantgoswami6135
      @ujjayantgoswami6135 5 лет назад

      Acharya Prashant can do it as good

    • @ankitbali2751
      @ankitbali2751 5 лет назад +2

      Shubham Arora yes it is absolutely true

  • @ishauniyal5589
    @ishauniyal5589 5 лет назад +222

    U said the truth.. Nowadays, its a trend to hv that " Sexual relations" or " body based relations"..
    Noone wants to care for their themselves.. they dont wana take charge of their life, their development. Bt all they want is a partner......

    • @bemodernnotstupid3773
      @bemodernnotstupid3773 5 лет назад +4

      😂😂nakhre vali sister

    • @the_only_mahesh_kumar
      @the_only_mahesh_kumar 4 года назад

      Friends

    • @MH-yc5pr
      @MH-yc5pr 4 года назад +1

      Because that is our biological purpose. Survive and reproduce to create future generations, it is every animal's biological purpose.

  • @yati99
    @yati99 3 года назад +4

    Present generation understands him and his explanation instead of stopping them parents should taught in this way

  • @dancershub3610
    @dancershub3610 3 года назад +3

    I literally have tears in my eyes after listening to you guru ji...... Though I never got a chance to even met you but I feel so connected to you...... Thanks for your lovely teachings

  • @abhijitpal503
    @abhijitpal503 4 года назад +35

    You know once plato said "only philosophers are capable to rule the world appropriately"...

  • @syntheticfiber7388
    @syntheticfiber7388 4 года назад +164

    He is a legend. I love his speeches.

  • @Shadha_yadhava
    @Shadha_yadhava 2 года назад +1

    Wonder full he is outpouring my Exact thoughts on people

  • @kumarbittu7468
    @kumarbittu7468 Год назад +1

    This what I was looking for.
    The clarity and significance I persued through this session I would have got this nowhere. Thank you so much for doing this amazing coversation, this means me a lot...

  • @pranshukardam4647
    @pranshukardam4647 5 лет назад +299

    What if the relationship is not physical?
    And both the partners are bringing out best in each other and supporting each other to make better decisions and educating each other ? Is it bad then ?

    • @sizzlinsj8135
      @sizzlinsj8135 5 лет назад +6

      Watch the first 5 mins its the same

    • @krushna4181
      @krushna4181 5 лет назад +1

      That is what he is saying. Watch the video.

    • @Gayathri267
      @Gayathri267 4 года назад +8

      He says about emotional turmoils too. Listen again carefully.

    • @7devgan
      @7devgan 4 года назад +14

      There's usually an underlying desire for body as well.

    • @ananthanav
      @ananthanav 4 года назад +5

      He didn't say anything about something being bad

  • @donkarara7964
    @donkarara7964 4 года назад +198

    Bharat needs to get changed now, and if people starts following some of his teachings well Bharat will be changed for good.

  • @hitesh8782
    @hitesh8782 Год назад +5

    what is so funny about Rahul wanting to have a boyfriend?

  • @Creativelyrics769
    @Creativelyrics769 Год назад +6

    Thank u guruji for ur good speech.
    I will always remember ur words.

  • @memeunik2882
    @memeunik2882 5 лет назад +257

    Sad guru is my big teacher ,i from Bali, Indonesia and i Hindu

  • @anilanilkumar41
    @anilanilkumar41 4 года назад +247

    Who r reading comments and watching video at once hit a like

  • @mauliingole4631
    @mauliingole4631 3 года назад +9

    His thinking is at another level 😭❤🙏

  • @niter-tex11th53
    @niter-tex11th53 2 года назад +1

    It would be great to add links to other language videos from the same video in the description box. Asakari will think a little about it.

  • @3DKernahan
    @3DKernahan 5 лет назад +38

    Perfectly rendered message. My father taught me this . . . There is a time for everything and never be too much in a hurry. Let life unfold naturally without pressure from peers as well.

  • @bestyav5529
    @bestyav5529 5 лет назад +69

    Was he prepared for this question or what?? He amazed me. My hat to you on behalf of Africa.

    • @walky7657
      @walky7657 4 года назад +6

      He is always prepared for any kind of questions ..he never stuck in d middle while answering them...He's a kind of GURU who can answer everything n anything..

    • @jddolx2543
      @jddolx2543 4 года назад

      He means is the question evaluated backstage then present it on stage. I think

  • @basanialekhya4384
    @basanialekhya4384 2 года назад +2

    Amazing ...really it was such a pleasure to hear these words ...

  • @chetnasingh9970
    @chetnasingh9970 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so so much .... I was seriously in need of this talk...... ❤️