How To Handle Shame About Sexual Desires? | Sadhguru

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  • Опубликовано: 5 май 2023
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    Sadhguru answers a seeker’s question on overcoming sexual desires.
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  • @hunk261
    @hunk261 Год назад +255

    "Be the driver of your life, not driven by some compulsions." What an idea to lead our life process!! Thank you Sadhguru for all your wisdom to transform human beings🙏

  • @madhavwadavi
    @madhavwadavi Год назад +237

    When one consciously handles the four basic instincts Food, Sex, Sleep and Death consciously, they can be called Human Beings : Sadhguru ❤

  • @anirudh9900
    @anirudh9900 Год назад +396

    I'm so thankful that Sadhguru has spoken sexuality more. I felt that I needed a bit more guidance. Hopefully with this I will become the driver. Thank You Isha Volunteers for making this available to the public. It's a blessing to have Sadhguru in this lifetime to guide us.

    • @vshnram5745
      @vshnram5745 Год назад +15

      Sadhguruji made me feel, that Im doing my best to grow spiritually and all we have to do is to master our mind and senses like how we've learnt to bike or drive better. They say that anger, emotions are measure sticks to know how attached we are to our body. The more water of self love and devotion we pour into a tea/coffee stained cup, it'll eventually become a clean cup and transparent water. So let's go on with our sadhana. A rock might break on 20th blow, but that doesn't mean the previous 19 blows were useless! No, they were very important in building our strength and reaching our different stages and goals.✨🙏✨

    • @yellove484
      @yellove484 Год назад +8

      Nothing to feel ashamed off , it's natural instinct . Society pressure makes u hide , n not express openly . Within ur mind u can analyse it n find to fulfill it . Gradually u will evolve to conduct yourself consciously n seek the higher self n find peace ❤ ❤❤❤❤

    • @jack-e-designs
      @jack-e-designs Год назад

      I think it’s only expected he talk about this as it’s energy if coupled with heart energy or just an act it’s energy it flows through us and he’s right about primals if you deny a hunger you risk bingeing . I think restraint is something some people should learn. 💗

    • @benjese7047
      @benjese7047 Год назад +4

      ​@@yellove484I felt ashame of when I felt into sexual instinct but this is giving me a great wisdom on how to handle it. I got what I needed.
      Thanks too ❤❤❤

    • @venkatramannarayanan915
      @venkatramannarayanan915 Год назад +3

      ​@@benjese7047
      The very realisation and its acceptance gives great relief.
      Don't you think so......

  • @bnravindra1989
    @bnravindra1989 Год назад +136

    Understanding the limited nature of things is the key🙏

    • @Punarjagran
      @Punarjagran Год назад

      rather finding something which is not limited, a better substitute.. than grammer to banish urge mere

    • @Dee-kk8pe
      @Dee-kk8pe Год назад

      Harsh Universal truth 🙏

  • @abhishekmahanta1112
    @abhishekmahanta1112 Год назад +81

    Blind Western culture adoption is destroying a large number of youth in our country, thank you so much Sadhguru for showing us the light of truth.
    A human being can do everything consciously 🙏

    • @user-gb9sb7by2i
      @user-gb9sb7by2i Год назад +10

      We blame West for everything, are we making our choices, or they? If anything, Science and technology develop in the West to a larger extent, if they gave themselves up to senses, they would never attain that. Whereas we claiming to know everything, never give up our sensual drives, for more active pursuits.

    • @rdog421
      @rdog421 3 месяца назад

      “Blind western culture adoption”?
      In India women are gang raped and treated like animals so I wouldn’t try and blame “western culture “ for your own culture’s animal like shortcomings!

  • @Flippeflop
    @Flippeflop Год назад +90

    •There"s so much I could say and elaborate on however I'll keep it simple: I so appreciate Sadhguru's humor specifically relating to sexuality. ~Embracing your sexuality is such a beautiful feeling. It's the flowing of juices enmeshing through your veins.Yet the key is to channel your energy into ways which do not consciously affect yourself.
    Exactly Own it and be your own driver. 🏵️

    • @ARPITSHRIAPRIL2289
      @ARPITSHRIAPRIL2289 Год назад +2

      Elaborate on the processes to be adopted to become driver from being driven

    • @Ram-nd8cb
      @Ram-nd8cb Год назад +1

      What he meant is, you can be driver of you life which means you decide where to go or being driven by instincts or mind compulsions or life situations.

    • @tina74166
      @tina74166 3 дня назад

      Beautifully said ~ 💞

  • @karthikv5521
    @karthikv5521 Год назад +60

    Shambo, don't know what good deeds we have done in our past life to hear such great deep insights

  • @discord_and_entropy
    @discord_and_entropy Год назад +18

    Absolutely! So many people I know act like sex is not real, despite loving to do it mindlesly. They become something and then it doesn't matter to them. But to be present with your lover as you were the whole time you were meeting, eating, sleeping working, playing, bonding with them, and having a continual line of continuity in the relationship throughout the sex makes it as real as it should be. Like an extension of cuddling.

  • @madhusudhank5193
    @madhusudhank5193 Год назад +28

    Wonderful words! Be the driver, not be driven. This idea will definitely help one in becoming a conscious response from being a instinctive reaction

  • @MinglingwithAI
    @MinglingwithAI Год назад +40

    Excellent point that you addressed Sadhguru! Beautiful explanation of a topic thats still considered taboo! Pranaam

  • @nagaphanikumar5411
    @nagaphanikumar5411 Год назад +17

    4:30 to 4.40......oh my god....only sadhguru can tell like this ....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I really bow to his feet with all my gratitude

  • @raymondtendau2749
    @raymondtendau2749 Год назад +21

    ON BODY
    Body means different things to different people. For a child, the body and its functions are unfamiliar and new. A child is coming to terms with the body's basic functions and is learning how to maintain and preserve it. For the youth the body is a vehicle fuelled by hormones and all it takes to Hijack the attention of the youth is Handsome face or Svelt body. For someone in the middle age, the body begins to reveal it's true quality, transient and temporary. Limbs, organs and parts of the body one's unworthy of notice now begins to nag and demand consideration. For the Old, body means Pain and difficulty.
    -Sadhguru

  • @jabalatiwari6497
    @jabalatiwari6497 Год назад +27

    Sadhguru advice touches the heart🙏🙏🙏

  • @ssuvigya
    @ssuvigya Год назад +14

    Thank you Sadhguru for sharing your profound wisdom and insights. Your teachings have truly transformed my perspective on life and inspired me to be a better version of myself. Your clarity and depth of understanding are truly remarkable.
    I am grateful and blessed to be in your presence.
    😇😇😇
    🙏

  • @suklapaksa8643
    @suklapaksa8643 Год назад +14

    Thank you, Sadhguruji, for your words of wisdom on this topic.

  • @3Merlin
    @3Merlin Год назад +6

    Namaskaram, Sadhguru! I bow down to your wisdom. Thank you for the definition of spiritual process...

  • @explorer.samrat
    @explorer.samrat Год назад +249

    A much needed discussion for today's obsessive youths. 😊

  • @madhunp2139
    @madhunp2139 Год назад +7

    Beautifully explained 💛

  • @al3xj
    @al3xj 10 месяцев назад +2

    Explained with such compassion and wisdom

  • @Agastya_Muni
    @Agastya_Muni Год назад +568

    Ofcourse all those humans who are in dis-ease are sexually transmitted dis-ease😂! Sadhguru's Humour is unmatchable 😊

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Год назад +18

      "Awareness of ignorance is the beginning of wisdom !" - Socrates.

    • @pranavshah32
      @pranavshah32 Год назад +7

      He thinks he's a comedian 😅

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Год назад +4

      One's own estimation about self is far more important than what others think about it ! Because, one can't cheat oneself and one's own conscience ; provided, ofcourse, someone has any !

    • @shijuk8478
      @shijuk8478 Год назад +1

      That's a Wonderful Answer

    • @amarendraborah6941
      @amarendraborah6941 Год назад

      @@shijuk8478
      Let it be very loud and clear that my comment was meant for the channel operator, alone ; and certainly not for one's foot soldiers and cronies ! Does someone hold a brief for the channel operator ! Or does it require someone's prior permission to participate in its various programmes ! If so, I am quite oblivious of it ! Can someone take pains to share it with the viewers in this august forum itself for their knowledge and information anytime soon or in the immediiate future ! Is that understood ! Someone should better understand it !
      I do hereby challenge someone to master the necessary courage/guts to come out of the veil of secrecy behind a pseudonym and reveal one's real face and true identity, without mincing any further word, and, without ever trying to dodge/deviate from giving a direct response ; and, share it with the viewers in this august forum itself for their knowledge and information anytime soon or in the immediiate future ; provided, ofcourse, someone is not otherwise a coward ! Is that understood ! Someone should better understand it !
      How right was William Shakespeare in his assessment in saying - "Cowards die many times before their death ,; but the valiants never taste of death but once !"
      Last but never the least, I have enough insights of my own in treading my path in this world and it has stood me in good stead, so long ! In this backdrop, I hardly require any certification/accreditation/green signal/go ahead from any quarter, whatsoever, for moving forward ; and the least, from a novice like this ! So, one should better keep one's own unsolicited advice/sermon/rating to oneself and obtain vicarious pleasure thereof with a view to satisfy one's own selfish ego ! Is that understood ! Someone should better understand it !

  • @mridulgoswami2645
    @mridulgoswami2645 Год назад +5

    This was really helpful for me. Something that is difficult to talk about but very much relevant. Thanks Sadhguru for making it clear 🙇🏻🙇🏻🙇🏻

  • @katekupaza9385
    @katekupaza9385 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sadhguru, the one who has been lighting up for me!

  • @Dee-kk8pe
    @Dee-kk8pe Год назад +1

    Excellent explanation in simple understandable way ! God bless u with more Divine knowledge . Aum Namah Shivaya .... Hare Krishna ♥️

  • @Tomara710
    @Tomara710 Год назад +35

    Very true... intimate relationships can be conducted with the highest of dignity in a sacred bond. Being bombarded with sexual images and perverse ideology which makes no control the preferred way is designed to undermine all that is good .

  • @magdyfarrag2835
    @magdyfarrag2835 11 месяцев назад +1

    Fantastic explanation, deep understanding and convicing answer from a gifted blessed great man. Thank you sir.

  • @sidhusid8210
    @sidhusid8210 Год назад +8

    Thanks Sadhguru ❤️

  • @Yetipfote
    @Yetipfote Год назад +21

    2:39 he's speaking to us, men of culture!

    • @Mankemista
      @Mankemista Год назад +2

      Lmao didn’t know I’d have find another MOC here 😂

    • @lolong5976
      @lolong5976 Год назад +1

      Lol. Please don't associate Sadhguru and his teachings to your perverted men of culture bs. Whenever yall want to seggsualise women, y'all brush off your creepy comments under the label of mEn oF cULtuRe 🤡

    • @shaleensingh3896
      @shaleensingh3896 Год назад

      😂

  • @Innocence_2005
    @Innocence_2005 Год назад +4

    Great I think it is not easy to explain such things in such a easy way

  • @timepassmrk752
    @timepassmrk752 Год назад +4

    Sir, as usual worth watching your message ❤

  • @devikamp
    @devikamp Год назад +1

    Great explanation!

  • @kishorek2807
    @kishorek2807 8 месяцев назад +3

    Very much needed insight about the most compulsive thing that is going on right now 🙏

  • @26rushabh
    @26rushabh Год назад +17

    Sadhguru has very nicely explained about what is truly needed to us in our life to be happy and blossom

  • @TysonMichael77
    @TysonMichael77 Год назад +5

    I found true freedom in this video, thank sadguru

  • @sivasairamchitrada5247
    @sivasairamchitrada5247 Год назад

    Thnx for trimming & uploading 🙏

  • @bharatkumar-wr7wl
    @bharatkumar-wr7wl Год назад

    Thank you sadhguru. This means that there is a possibility to conduct every situation consciously and aestherically.tbamk you

  • @rajkumarchakravarthy9964
    @rajkumarchakravarthy9964 9 месяцев назад

    Wonderfully put across, truly enlightening. Thankyou for the input.

  • @vivekanandturamari3952
    @vivekanandturamari3952 Год назад +2

    Namaskaragalu Sadhguru 👋🎈
    Lot's of love from BELAGAVI KARNATAKA 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @debismitasahoo7193
    @debismitasahoo7193 Год назад

    How nicely explained 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @yashaswisingh8596
    @yashaswisingh8596 Год назад +2

    Thank you sadhguru for teaching me the power of choice

  • @govindbisen388
    @govindbisen388 Год назад +1

    Thanks Sadhguru. It was my question too

  • @swatiyadav2671
    @swatiyadav2671 Год назад +82

    Only You can put an absolute perspectives on sexuality Sadhguru ❤❤❤🙇🙇🙇 others either glorify it or condemn it

    • @ssbsathish
      @ssbsathish Год назад +1

      He is conscious in his thoughts 🤔

  • @tselisoncholu7914
    @tselisoncholu7914 Год назад +9

    I love when he says,we are "human beings and everything can be done through choice".lt is not about orientation or religion etc.It can't be labeled if you are born with it.lt is your existence.Hurry❤.

  • @upschelpers
    @upschelpers Год назад +57

    Thank you Sadhguru. You're my breath. No one in this world understand my inner questions other than you. I'm so lucky to have you within me.

  • @polinagrein1681
    @polinagrein1681 Год назад +43

    Where there is Love, there are Relationships!❤

  • @primitivemediations530
    @primitivemediations530 Год назад +4

    Thank you sadhguru. When i was a child i had a dream about what you spoke about being the driver and sadhguru more than anything i want that. Thank you 🙏🏾💗 so much my love for you is infinite.

  • @anveshavyas450
    @anveshavyas450 Год назад +6

    Very true.।। Human have self consciousness, spiritually connecting God consiousness which animals don't have .।। Knowing thyself as brahman Or pure consciousness is the key to brahmacharya.।।

  • @RakeshKumar-mu8dn
    @RakeshKumar-mu8dn Год назад +1

    Tysm😊

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen2983 Год назад +1

    👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

  • @rigoldshtein9291
    @rigoldshtein9291 Год назад +3

    תודה

  • @RakeshKumar-yb8zn
    @RakeshKumar-yb8zn Год назад +13

    Well said guru ji. Even I also faced such things in my young age. I was behind my aim and my surroundings was saying to me that I am abnormal as I was not behind sexuality like those sexual seekers 😁🙏

  • @sauravgogoi1471
    @sauravgogoi1471 Год назад +1

    Total bliss Guruji, thank u 😇

  • @sumitkulhari...3376
    @sumitkulhari...3376 Год назад +11

    We all are blessed with this wise man, and we are grateful for that🌸🙏🦋🌱

  • @aliyahkulin3246
    @aliyahkulin3246 Год назад +2

    I never knew I needed him.

  • @haroonashrafi1669
    @haroonashrafi1669 9 месяцев назад +1

    This channel is just like oxygen on Earth , thankyou sadhguru 😊

  • @banashree580
    @banashree580 Год назад +4

    wonderful explanation......thank you Sadhguru.

  • @Itsjussforfun
    @Itsjussforfun 10 месяцев назад

    Well explained❤ Sadhguru

  • @dancershub3610
    @dancershub3610 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much❤

  • @rickyprince390
    @rickyprince390 Год назад

    Greatly said , namastar 🙏 sadhguru ji excecise are thoughts 💪 mere guru

  • @_AshishKumarUR
    @_AshishKumarUR Год назад +6

    I have also same question and look sadguru is here

  • @sandeeppotluri9477
    @sandeeppotluri9477 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks sadhguru for wisdom

  • @rajkumaralagar4828
    @rajkumaralagar4828 Год назад +31

    Thank you Sadhguru for guiding youth in the right direction❤

  • @oonaamookhao
    @oonaamookhao Год назад +4

    I want and will be the driver! Full throttle SADHGURUJI!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lalayyl
    @lalayyl Год назад

    Really nice, thank you

  • @munishgupta5730
    @munishgupta5730 10 месяцев назад

    Great initiative and great ideology ❤

  • @amritakhanna1751
    @amritakhanna1751 Год назад

    This was beautiful ❤️

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 Год назад

    Well said!!

  • @rudyponzio5871
    @rudyponzio5871 Год назад

    🙏🏻Another day. Another filled with seeking, another day of challenge to be higher to the world. A chance to say something worth stretching to get it's full power of interpretation. For when it comes through to you. You give it a shot at sharing. And your also hearing it for the first time too! We are here to multiply. That's also how we got here. Why would we think around this until arguments exhaust intelligence that's not argued?
    No one sees what's there in culmination until they are consumed ?

  • @virupakshakumbar4203
    @virupakshakumbar4203 Год назад +1

    Namaskaram Sadhguru

  • @ritanyadance5118
    @ritanyadance5118 Год назад +1

    Very well said

  • @sarahtong2286
    @sarahtong2286 Год назад

    very nice message

  • @DavidOkikiAmayoJr.
    @DavidOkikiAmayoJr. Год назад +6

    Wisdom.

  • @Stushunek
    @Stushunek 10 месяцев назад

    Хорошо сказано.

  • @pradeep-ic7sp
    @pradeep-ic7sp Год назад

    Great explaition

  • @jaydeepsavant
    @jaydeepsavant Год назад +2

    Sadguru ❤

  • @DiosSegunBudaUSA
    @DiosSegunBudaUSA Год назад

    Thank you Bigger Sadhguru

  • @sexualhealingmusic-multili6062
    @sexualhealingmusic-multili6062 10 месяцев назад

    very very helpful. thank you

  • @liliesandtulips2000
    @liliesandtulips2000 Год назад

    Truly great.

  • @govindarayaprabhu727
    @govindarayaprabhu727 9 месяцев назад +1

    Though Sadguru has given superb meaning for the subject, it should reach our youths. I am on that way and hope you too work on that direction.

  • @r.kgupta4080
    @r.kgupta4080 8 месяцев назад

    Instead of being driven become a driver ❤ you are the god sent messenger sadguru .. it’s our blessing to have with us for our guidance 🎉❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @BeatsByQue
    @BeatsByQue Год назад +5

    I hope someone doesn't misinterpret this and think: "I guess instead of doing it in shame, I should do it in pride" that's still a compulsion.

  • @arjunillath
    @arjunillath 10 месяцев назад

    Sadhguruve Namah ❤

  • @jagathsampath954
    @jagathsampath954 Год назад

    WONDERFUL !❤❤❤

  • @romieculentas
    @romieculentas Год назад

    I love this content.

  • @jaishrikrishna70
    @jaishrikrishna70 Год назад

    Great video😊

  • @kelvinroy1339
    @kelvinroy1339 Год назад

    Most Needed, for Younger Generationals like me, Thank you @Sadhguru, #Sex #Sexuality #Spirituality

  • @himanshuraj9751
    @himanshuraj9751 Год назад +1

    Samaj ka asar padta h true ❤❤

  • @Musicmint7
    @Musicmint7 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks sadh guru .....

  • @shankarvishnu4740
    @shankarvishnu4740 10 месяцев назад

    Namaskaram sadhguru🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @roloduarte5007
    @roloduarte5007 7 месяцев назад

    I agree with you Sadhguru.

  • @Tapan.Behera
    @Tapan.Behera Год назад +1

    Good luck good video ok thanks ❤

  • @rishabhsinghal2165
    @rishabhsinghal2165 Год назад

    Thank you sadhguru 🙏🏻

  • @sreenivasansreeni1874
    @sreenivasansreeni1874 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤ Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @karthikkumar3653
    @karthikkumar3653 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @SpiritualGuruz
    @SpiritualGuruz Год назад +1

    Lots of love ❤❤❤

  • @kamleshpatel153
    @kamleshpatel153 Год назад

    Sadhguru Answer always intrigued me 😅

  • @prabhatsingh6290
    @prabhatsingh6290 Год назад +1

    🌺जय श्री राधारानी जी🌺
    🌺जय श्री कृष्णा जी🌺
    🌺जय श्री राधेकृष्णा जी🌺
    🌺जय श्री राधे राधे जी🌺
    🌺श्री श्रील प्रभुपाद जी आपको शत् शत् नमन🙏🙏🙏🌺

  • @Anil-gd8qm
    @Anil-gd8qm Год назад +1

    NAMASKAR RAM ✨✨

  • @mohamadibrahim299
    @mohamadibrahim299 Год назад +8

    wisdom is through the roof

  • @brandonhorsford
    @brandonhorsford Год назад

    Thank you sadghuru

  • @arunchaudhary3764
    @arunchaudhary3764 9 месяцев назад

    Meditation is key of all events in life.