I think it makes total sense if someone that is young decides to stay single and just focuses on building their lives. Rs are hard, people end up with kids earlier then they expect, finding the right R is not easy. navigating the drama of the dating world means dealing with a lot of toxicity. If in the wrong R, it can take yall down the wrong path.
@@oopsdidItypethatoutloud I have lived long enough to learn one thing. People wear a cloak of goodness. Real goodness they neither know, nor want to appreciate, respect, or love, unless it suits them strictly for selfish reasons. As soon as something else becomes a more beautiful and attractive goal for them, goodbye. How they treat the things around them, so they treat the people around them. You think that the trend of breaking up families, is random? The only reason why marriages in the past were long-lasting, is that the church and religion were much more dominant than today. The feeling of shame and the loss of attractiveness when you get divorced, forced the married partners to stay together and make an effort. Most people are corrupt, be it among women or men. With "freedom" of women, rise of shameless behavior grows reciprocally. It is not only logical, but inevitable. As we can all notice, in the drastic increase of corruption in society. That doesn't mean, it's only the woman's fault. It is a nature of human beings. We glorified women too excessively, so we thought that with the increase in women's freedoms, goodness overall would increase. Many times the human race unrealistically glorified some group, and each time experienced disappointment, unfortunately. There is a reason why Jesus' teaching is called the middle path, balance, avoiding extravagance ... There, hope you happy with it. 😊 God bless you.
All relationships should begin with a set of defined foudational values where both parties prioritize each other with mutual compromises and shared goals both long term and short. I strongly resonate with your sentiment!.
You are so right! Good relationships are collaborative. A bad match is when each person in the relationship is giving the other unwelcomed advice. Marie Curie and Pierre Curie were a great match as they shared a common passion, and they were excited by each other's scientific advice. Antoine Lavoisier and his wife Marie-Anne Pierrette Paulze Lavoisier were another great couple. Originally, Marie-Anne (at the age of 13) was being pressured to marry 50-year-old Count d'Amerval, but Antoine, a 28-year-old scientist and nobleman, came to her rescue. Illegal in today's society, Antoine and Marie-Anne got married and made a great match. She loved science and was a great lab assistant, artist, and translator. Antoine came up with the key chemistry concept: conservation of mass. Antoine, sadly, was beheaded because of his ties with royalty during the French revolution.
It can certainly be cruel to yourself and them to use up both of your short time. Often though, as long as the big things are aligned, the small things come from giving. The best way to recieve, is to give. Understanding, give it and get it. Kindness, give it and get it. No relationship is like a jigsaw that fits perfectly... wonky bits often fit better when it comes to people... as long as they can be put together. I don't know if that makes sense, but I hope it does. ❤ from Northeast England ❤️
It's about being realistic. If you are driven and the only thing is your goal(s), there really is no room for anything else especially a relationship. I have friends who I grew up and went to college with that are now today elite athletes, models, musicians, actors/actresses, businessmen and women. Growing up I hardly ever seen them date or were found caught up in a relationship. The only relationship they had was to their craft or business. Also, the point of being young is that. To be young. Not young and stupid and ruin your future, but to enjoy the experience and to not take everything so seriously. It's okay to have relationships but honestly if you do not see marriage in this person (which most people who are driven won't see in 90% of the people they will meet), you should always keep your relationship with the opposite sex friendly. This is how you grow and learn and maybe even learn about love the correct way. It does nobody any good getting into ugly breakups or continuing a failed relationship because you're connected physically and believe in this false sense of love.
Relationships are for mutual help and encouragement. I don't recommend using them for self-serving advancement. Don't check out of them if you don't have to.
It's not just about learning what you want in life, it's about learning what you want for each other. When you begin a relationship you have to learn how to grow together and learn from each other. You are going to disagree at times and struggle just like how it is like to be with yourself. But to live wholeheartedly for that someone is one of the hardest things anyone could do, which I very much agree. When you find that person, you will reach insurmountable levels of passion, agony, and love. It will feel like the worst and best feeling that cannot be quantified, yet feels like forever. It's a feeling you want to experience at least in a lifetime, because you can pass it onto generations. You don't just live for yourself, you live for that other person. It's the last step before obsession. That feeling when you reach new heights of accomplishment, is the same feeling of endearment, it's so intoxicating that it can lead to obsession.
You have the same mindset as me. I would've said the same thing. It's imperative to help grow one another, protect each other, love each other, and respect each other. You want long term commitment? Then be sure you'll be there for the good times and the bad times, cause' this is what im persevering for and I will CHOOSE to be with you despite our struggle. It's definitely hard but we always look for strength from one another or ourselves to build a FUTURE that we can make!
Foreal everyone is so sensitive nowadays. Back in the day there was so much adversity. Now we’re so comfortable it’s like we look for problems in each other. Long term relationships are rare but still possible 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@keiralhotan Turning against our partner is definitely unhealthy. Wouldn't be great if we both fight for the same problem? anyways, keep spreading positive mindset for the people who needs it!🫶🫶
I'm at a point in life where i'm discovering my self carrerwise. I'm finnishing a degree and have a foggy vision sense of what the future might hold for me. That for that is scareer enough and super stressful and putting that burden and instability over someone, to me, doesn't feel right. I'm at a phase in life, and already accepted it, where i'm just meant to discover my career path, while trying to find a peaceful balance where i can be ok with my self and willing to give more to that someone when the timing is right. I think patience plays a big role on this process.
Adam killed himself many times and Eve cried out to God how much she needed him and she would rather die than be without him. This world is a torment to man. Women need men, and men decide which woman they want to need them. Both of you are supposed to want to leave the world together, and be in eternity together. The world is pain and suffering, and that is what makes love so powerful. God bless
I want a wife & kids who are holy & lovely. I want to go to my Eastern Orthodox Church with them & have each of us be happy & comfortable within our own little tribe. Outside of that, I as a 25 year old man have never been in a relationship before, so I don’t know what I should be looking for in terms of needs or wants. Obviously, as a 25 year old man, one could expect me to say that some degree of intimacy & physical touch is required, but there’s more than that. Maybe someone who I can just lay everything out with & won’t judge me to harshly. “Someone who could just level you with her eyes” as Robin Williams once said, like all they have to do is look at your face & they can instantly tell what you need in that moment in time. Whether it’s emotional counsel or some time alone to think & focus, or just a light talk about each other’s day.
It was different for me. Cant say I went about it the right way- or the wrong way either. The strange thing about my relationships. They made me grow up. I learned things about myself and women, I never knew existed. I learned about passion, confusion, emotional rollercoasters, and making decisions that were totally out of character for me. I never went into a relationship where I knew what I wanted, or knew what was going to happen. I got better with age and experience. How I treat a woman, and what I can expect. Most important- the type of women most right for me. In the beginning it is wasting time, money, and sanity. Its also about fun, travel, and adventure. In marriage, a couple really has to know what they want- its love, cooking, and a partnership. What do I want now? To remain single.
Nah dip I’m young, forcing trauma or situations is not a flex 💪🏼. I’d rather learn from them. Everyone has their own levels of cortisol that they can handle🤷🏼♀️
32,m, here. Never had a relationship or a girlfriend. And i dont think that I'll ever find someone who likes me. Not ugly but i dont know. I dont even know how a relationship works.
I feel like, in my generation, people who are not in relationships are out there "discovering" themselves by just going from hook up to hook up which doesn't really serve as a foundation for self improvement and growth for a future relationship. That's just my impression...
@@keiralhotan thank you for elaborating your thoughts on topics. I really enjoy it as i said. Especially because its coming from a younger viewpoint. Im feeling kind of dumb retrospectively. But also glad, that Im not the only one thinking so much about stuff
Navigating relationships often requires learning from mistakes. I'm implying it's like needing three kids and two divorces before understanding. Maybe you'll avoid such pitfalls but not everybody knows what to do and when to do it.
Hugs in the morning, kisses for the boo-boo’s in my head, dinner, someone to push me to go good things, someone to be satisfied for my efforts….someone that knows I’m trying my best. I’m not perfect and I never will be, and that’s okay. But I want someone that’s like me so I know they’ll raise the kids while I’m at work.
I'm new in your channel but I gotta say.. You're fantastic, It's good watch someone who understands you and such, I usually do not comment in videos, But I feel I need to do it when I'm watching your videos, Keep it up Pease 🔥
People are afraid of themselves, so they rush into new relationships to avoid loneliness. This behaviour generates a karmic cycle that may last an entire life.
I say this ironically as someone about 10 years your senior. Age does not always equal wisdom. People telling you to go and get "experiences" (aka farm trauma); I promise you they are coping. Infatuation is not love. If he won't put a ring on it, he's not worth your time and energy. Deciding if someone is a good long term partner when you are already sharing a bed, is the equivalent of an airplane pilot deciding whether he is fit to fly while being high on PCP. Do not trust yourself to be able to think clearly. Seek council from outside parties who love you and who you trust.
First of all.. 555. That be that borderline transcendence number.second I checked some of those other vids of yours, you're right. There's other ppl that I've seen trying to replicate your content. Only thing is that your honesty is what emanates in the true shit that you be speaking on your vids that make the difference. Which is why I see genuine ppl in this comment sec. Third, it's true of ppl who not knowing what what they want cause the effects of who they want. Which is like attracts like. The polarity of that dynamic must balance out in a relationship first before the process can take root. So what I can say from myself and true honesty is thank you for planting the seed in the minds of myself and others here as we consume this way of thinking to sprout ideas of our own as we grow. -real talk.💯🔥💪
Yes, time is precious, but I really have to wonder if it's right trying to fix people. They need t make mistakes themselves, that's how they learn. Or not, then it's just natural selection at it's finest.
beginning the deadly habit of pouring out frustrations on a relaxed boyfriend.. There are ots of women in the dreaded 30s years of age single, alone and "'successful". Kudos to the ones who figured out how to keep their men. The fantastic power to be attractive to men is in your 20s..
Keira, you deserve WAY more views and subscribers. I love your content it is so helpful. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. I Appreciate your dedication. You are an inspiration. Hope God Bless You. ❤🙏
Relationships aren't "supposed" to be anything. Everyone has a different idea of what love looks like. There isn't an objective way to go about a romantic relationship
Nah I was with my girl 40 years unmarried until she passed She became an LCSW, I became educated without a title I now have everything everyone works for which is a house and cars paid for, but I don’t have a title or job, who am I? Content and questioning 🤛🏿
Aw, she already got someone... Rocco's basilisk, why you gotta keep showing me girls I won't ever have a chance to be with ever... This is why I don't create anything to make Rocco's basilisk come into existence.
@@HeroesFail I watch RUclips because I'm bored with life, same as all the rest. I'm trying to make the algorithms actually do something that's worth my money... That, however, seems to be a fruitless endeavor... Much like engaging with inane commenters who seem to be in the same place as myself.
@@jeremiahlarkins618 I thought it was interesting you’re so deep into having one sided parasocial relationships that you’re calling someone a baddie mama in their RUclips video… Reflect on that.
@@HeroesFail you wound me sir, or madam. If I thought my existence mattered to RUclipsrs, or the algorithms, I'd be more than a faceless commenter. Look, unless you're gonna actually do something for me, it's a waste of both our times for you to try psychoanalyzing me. I'm a simp who saw a pretty girl in the thumbnail just like everybody else in the comments section. Like you, I can feel the seconds of my life ticking by and completely understand that those seconds are finite. The jobs that exist don't pay, and the women I meet are just as worthless as myself. The only people who actually talk to me are gatekeepers like you who seem to think the fact you're just wasting my life time is lost on me. Talk about parasocial relationships with talking heads all you want, it doesn't change the fact that RUclips is as boring as the rest of life, and everybody in the comments is just simping to try and break up that monotony.
@@HeroesFail was that, was that too much reflecting for you? Are you actually gonna leave me alone? No more snide bs to make me feel like you're the better simp? I, I mean, I'll lean into it if you want. I'm wasting my life the same way you are, sooo...?
You know, sometimes being in a relationship is not necessarily about achieving a certain goal, it’s about not being lonely. Just like that! It’s two people, of different gender, keeping each other company. That’s it. People have grown more and more materialistic in this day and age, that’s why they are in a constant race of achieving something. You’re earning a ton o’ cash at work? Fine, that’s enough! No need to go out chasing stars.
I heard a perspective on marriage; you get married to have a witness in your life. We’re all merely living with nobody to really acknowledge our existence. We pick someone to willingly choose to understand us & see our life as a witness. To give ourselves the feeling of value.
@@keiralhotan the way I see it, even if you don’t know what you want, it doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of love. The only time when “not knowing what you want” becomes a problem in a relationship is when this is a reason for gaslighting and starting fights. Then it’s no longer okay and it’s better for the two partners to part ways.
First of all, date ,date alot and then get married.... There s no such thing as a perfect partner, if you end up living with someone for i guess 3 years consider that a more or less consolidated relationship, more or less...
@@Miguelelam339 women who tend to date a lot lose themselves. That’s why back in the day when marriage was actually valued, couples waited till marriage to give themselves to each other.
@@keiralhotan i dont know if we are talking about the same thing when i say dating .maybe in América you associate it to meet someone and necesseraly have sex with that person.. Well you dont have to unless u want to....
I am still waiting to meet the person i’m fated to be with forever, closest i ever came to having a girlfriend was a couple of flirty encounters with the supermarket checkout girl and (coincidentally lol) another one with a cute girl at my local gym. The latter ended in heartbreak for me. I must have misinterpreted how she felt because the last time i saw her she told me i was spending too much time following her around the gym instead of actually working out. I was humiliated. And the worst part is she said it loud enough for people to hear how she rejected me. My parents cancelled my membership the very next day and i wrote a scathing review of the gym which emphasized the mistreatment and heartbreak i experienced at the hands of this awful woman.
Focus on what you want. Women you want are on the other side of your higher self. If you’re not already in a relationship, your foundation is blank. Build it for yourself. Build the foundation you’d want a partner to have. Kinda like a bird doing a mating dance. Do not chase, attract the women with your presence. The women you want now, I’m telling you is not what your higher self wants. Work towards that & your fated woman will respect the foundation you’ve built. And then that will be the woman of your dreams. Not some random attractive woman. I hope you take what I said well, I just want to help.❤️
@@keiralhotan The fact they targeted you should be flattering. However, you can make a quick scroll, or a PSA in a few future videos telling your followers this is a scam. I know you have it in your community tab, but not everyone gets to read those. Keep in mind, at this level your image is everything. make sure stays clean and honest. Also, it helps keep those losers p*ssy-free.
@@keiralhotan Yeah, but you know? Not everyone goes to your community tab and finds out. Why don't you make a few short PSAs for a while in your videos addressing this matter? That way you cover all bases. Food for thought...
God created men to lead women, and women to follow a husband. Its ok you dont know exactly what you want as a woman. Its a huge problem if he does not know. You just to choose a strong man with principles. According to the Bible your father should choose a husband for you.
And who are you Mr Miyagi ? I post on RUclips just like the millions of other RUclipsrs.. and I’m actually skyrocketing so I must be doing something right. Logically speaking right?🤔
You're a beeken of light, a reare gem. Except no less. Take your time planting your garden and what seeds you plant. Have a wonderful day, and if you ever need some advice, just let me know. REM HOLDINGS CC33 SIGMA
A simp is a label created by lonely people themselves on the internet. A simp is a figure of a persons imagination of what they think it means. If you find a woman attractive, that means you’re a HEALTHY MAN. If you feel you need to tell a woman she is attractive. You are a HEALTHY MAN. All this negative notation on men just simply trying to find love & intimacy is DESTROYING any connection and man can even have with a women. Just with the term SIMP. Simp is meaning a “silly foolish person”. Is it foolish to be a man & like a woman? Is it foolish for a woman to like a man? I don’t see men or women talking about women being simps behind the idea they need men to be validated???? Maybe I should make a video about this. I’m tired of people claiming others are simps in my comment section. In the whole world actually.
@@keiralhotan ooh, ahm bouts to start simping harder if you keep talking like that. But yeah, you a baddie mama, I can't lie. I still gotta tell myself, stop simping self, RUclipsr's are too good for you. Hey, what kinda content do you like to watch?
@@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 that's the exact same thing as simping. If you're gonna offer suggestions, offer good suggestions. Like, can you tell me how to build my own submersible super mega yacht? because that would be different and less cringe than simping or having a waifu.
So did you just get dumped for wasting someone's time, or did you dump him? Either way, it doesn't sound like you had a productive pleasant relationship. I see a theme developing.........
I think it makes total sense if someone that is young decides to stay single and just focuses on building their lives. Rs are hard, people end up with kids earlier then they expect, finding the right R is not easy. navigating the drama of the dating world means dealing with a lot of toxicity. If in the wrong R, it can take yall down the wrong path.
I wish we can find more great minded women like you. You deserve a good man in your life fr.
Not everyone gets to have it.
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You learn that as a small child, or not, it`s called sharing.
Share the victories and the losses. ❤
@@oopsdidItypethatoutloud I have lived long enough to learn one thing.
People wear a cloak of goodness. Real goodness they neither know, nor want to appreciate, respect, or love, unless it suits them strictly for selfish reasons. As soon as something else becomes a more beautiful and attractive goal for them, goodbye. How they treat the things around them, so they treat the people around them. You think that the trend of breaking up families, is random? The only reason why marriages in the past were long-lasting, is that the church and religion were much more dominant than today. The feeling of shame and the loss of attractiveness when you get divorced, forced the married partners to stay together and make an effort. Most people are corrupt, be it among women or men. With "freedom" of women, rise of shameless behavior grows reciprocally. It is not only logical, but inevitable. As we can all notice, in the drastic increase of corruption in society. That doesn't mean, it's only the woman's fault. It is a nature of human beings. We glorified women too excessively, so we thought that with the increase in women's freedoms, goodness overall would increase. Many times the human race unrealistically glorified some group, and each time experienced disappointment, unfortunately. There is a reason why Jesus' teaching is called the middle path, balance, avoiding extravagance ...
There, hope you happy with it.
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God bless you.
All relationships should begin with a set of defined foudational values where both parties prioritize each other with mutual compromises and shared goals both long term and short. I strongly resonate with your sentiment!.
This video should be a message to yourself, first and foremost. Take your own advice.
It is.
You are so right! Good relationships are collaborative. A bad match is when each person in the relationship is giving the other unwelcomed advice. Marie Curie and Pierre Curie were a great match as they shared a common passion, and they were excited by each other's scientific advice. Antoine Lavoisier and his wife Marie-Anne Pierrette Paulze Lavoisier were another great couple. Originally, Marie-Anne (at the age of 13) was being pressured to marry 50-year-old Count d'Amerval, but Antoine, a 28-year-old scientist and nobleman, came to her rescue. Illegal in today's society, Antoine and Marie-Anne got married and made a great match. She loved science and was a great lab assistant, artist, and translator. Antoine came up with the key chemistry concept: conservation of mass. Antoine, sadly, was beheaded because of his ties with royalty during the French revolution.
It can certainly be cruel to yourself and them to use up both of your short time.
Often though, as long as the big things are aligned, the small things come from giving. The best way to recieve, is to give. Understanding, give it and get it. Kindness, give it and get it.
No relationship is like a jigsaw that fits perfectly... wonky bits often fit better when it comes to people... as long as they can be put together.
I don't know if that makes sense, but I hope it does.
❤ from Northeast England ❤️
It's about being realistic.
If you are driven and the only thing is your goal(s), there really is no room for anything else especially a relationship.
I have friends who I grew up and went to college with that are now today elite athletes, models, musicians, actors/actresses, businessmen and women. Growing up I hardly ever seen them date or were found caught up in a relationship. The only relationship they had was to their craft or business.
Also, the point of being young is that. To be young. Not young and stupid and ruin your future, but to enjoy the experience and to not take everything so seriously. It's okay to have relationships but honestly if you do not see marriage in this person (which most people who are driven won't see in 90% of the people they will meet), you should always keep your relationship with the opposite sex friendly. This is how you grow and learn and maybe even learn about love the correct way. It does nobody any good getting into ugly breakups or continuing a failed relationship because you're connected physically and believe in this false sense of love.
I wholeheartedly agree. You don't to be at the endgame, but having a plan to get their is so important.
Relationships are for mutual help and encouragement. I don't recommend using them for self-serving advancement. Don't check out of them if you don't have to.
It's not just about learning what you want in life, it's about learning what you want for each other. When you begin a relationship you have to learn how to grow together and learn from each other. You are going to disagree at times and struggle just like how it is like to be with yourself. But to live wholeheartedly for that someone is one of the hardest things anyone could do, which I very much agree. When you find that person, you will reach insurmountable levels of passion, agony, and love. It will feel like the worst and best feeling that cannot be quantified, yet feels like forever. It's a feeling you want to experience at least in a lifetime, because you can pass it onto generations. You don't just live for yourself, you live for that other person. It's the last step before obsession. That feeling when you reach new heights of accomplishment, is the same feeling of endearment, it's so intoxicating that it can lead to obsession.
You have the same mindset as me. I would've said the same thing. It's imperative to help grow one another, protect each other, love each other, and respect each other. You want long term commitment? Then be sure you'll be there for the good times and the bad times, cause' this is what im persevering for and I will CHOOSE to be with you despite our struggle. It's definitely hard but we always look for strength from one another or ourselves to build a FUTURE that we can make!
Foreal everyone is so sensitive nowadays. Back in the day there was so much adversity. Now we’re so comfortable it’s like we look for problems in each other. Long term relationships are rare but still possible 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@keiralhotan Turning against our partner is definitely unhealthy. Wouldn't be great if we both fight for the same problem? anyways, keep spreading positive mindset for the people who needs it!🫶🫶
That’s an fact because sometimes you grow past people I lowkey hate it but that’s life
Facts
I'm at a point in life where i'm discovering my self carrerwise. I'm finnishing a degree and have a foggy vision sense of what the future might hold for me. That for that is scareer enough and super stressful and putting that burden and instability over someone, to me, doesn't feel right. I'm at a phase in life, and already accepted it, where i'm just meant to discover my career path, while trying to find a peaceful balance where i can be ok with my self and willing to give more to that someone when the timing is right.
I think patience plays a big role on this process.
Adam killed himself many times and Eve cried out to God how much she needed him and she would rather die than be without him. This world is a torment to man. Women need men, and men decide which woman they want to need them. Both of you are supposed to want to leave the world together, and be in eternity together. The world is pain and suffering, and that is what makes love so powerful. God bless
I want a wife & kids who are holy & lovely. I want to go to my Eastern Orthodox Church with them & have each of us be happy & comfortable within our own little tribe.
Outside of that, I as a 25 year old man have never been in a relationship before, so I don’t know what I should be looking for in terms of needs or wants. Obviously, as a 25 year old man, one could expect me to say that some degree of intimacy & physical touch is required, but there’s more than that. Maybe someone who I can just lay everything out with & won’t judge me to harshly. “Someone who could just level you with her eyes” as Robin Williams once said, like all they have to do is look at your face & they can instantly tell what you need in that moment in time. Whether it’s emotional counsel or some time alone to think & focus, or just a light talk about each other’s day.
It was different for me. Cant say I went about it the right way- or the wrong way either. The strange thing about my relationships. They made me grow up. I learned things about myself and women, I never knew existed. I learned about passion, confusion, emotional rollercoasters, and making decisions that were totally out of character for me. I never went into a relationship where I knew what I wanted, or knew what was going to happen. I got better with age and experience. How I treat a woman, and what I can expect. Most important- the type of women most right for me. In the beginning it is wasting time, money, and sanity. Its also about fun, travel, and adventure. In marriage, a couple really has to know what they want- its love, cooking, and a partnership. What do I want now? To remain single.
Singularity brings clarity,i believe in soulmates 2 who are seeking the same reality,the Truth and their is only one truth,amen? ✌ ❤ 😊 🙏!
The hardest thing you've ever experienced LMAO that's lucky
Want to say hi and good morning enjoy your day and thank you for sharing stay safe friend❤
If that’s the hardest thing you have faced thus far that means you haven’t lived 😂😂😂😂
Nah dip I’m young, forcing trauma or situations is not a flex 💪🏼. I’d rather learn from them. Everyone has their own levels of cortisol that they can handle🤷🏼♀️
@@keiralhotan nothing beats Experience as a learning tool
you know this ain't a competition right? just because someone else's pain is lower than yours doesn't make it invalid.
Right now, having someone just to split the bills is a good start.
A financial arrangement? There's a word for that. 😉
BIG FACTS
32,m, here. Never had a relationship or a girlfriend. And i dont think that I'll ever find someone who likes me. Not ugly but i dont know. I dont even know how a relationship works.
Good job girl. Have a nice day. ❤
"stoop someone else low"
Everyone talks about growing in a relationship but when I put on 100 pounds, she leaves. smh
Dude that’s just not healthy cmon now
I feel like, in my generation, people who are not in relationships are out there "discovering" themselves by just going from hook up to hook up which doesn't really serve as a foundation for self improvement and growth for a future relationship.
That's just my impression...
Massive improvement in your diction on this one. It makes a difference. Makes you sound more intelligent immediately. 👍🏻
You’re amazing sweetie ❤❤❤❤❤❤
thanks to RUclips algorithm for introducing me to this channel
You are literally explaining my past 6years of my relationship.
How do you do this. Via experience or reading?
Hoemath would approve 😄
We’re all living the same life 🤷🏼♀️
@@keiralhotan thank you for elaborating your thoughts on topics. I really enjoy it as i said. Especially because its coming from a younger viewpoint. Im feeling kind of dumb retrospectively. But also glad, that Im not the only one thinking so much about stuff
This stuff isn't possible with social media, online dating, etc.
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Navigating relationships often requires learning from mistakes. I'm implying it's like needing three kids and two divorces before understanding. Maybe you'll avoid such pitfalls but not everybody knows what to do and when to do it.
I am 36 and i don't know what i want and i am happy i guess
Hugs in the morning, kisses for the boo-boo’s in my head, dinner, someone to push me to go good things, someone to be satisfied for my efforts….someone that knows I’m trying my best. I’m not perfect and I never will be, and that’s okay.
But I want someone that’s like me so I know they’ll raise the kids while I’m at work.
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I think there is much truth you have revealed here. Good video!
I'm new in your channel but I gotta say.. You're fantastic, It's good watch someone who understands you and such, I usually do not comment in videos, But I feel I need to do it when I'm watching your videos, Keep it up Pease 🔥
New Simp
People are afraid of themselves, so they rush into new relationships to avoid loneliness. This behaviour generates a karmic cycle that may last an entire life.
I've been single for quite a few years now, and it's working out pretty well for me. I think I'm the one. 😉
I say this ironically as someone about 10 years your senior. Age does not always equal wisdom. People telling you to go and get "experiences" (aka farm trauma); I promise you they are coping. Infatuation is not love. If he won't put a ring on it, he's not worth your time and energy. Deciding if someone is a good long term partner when you are already sharing a bed, is the equivalent of an airplane pilot deciding whether he is fit to fly while being high on PCP. Do not trust yourself to be able to think clearly. Seek council from outside parties who love you and who you trust.
It is hard to be old and stupid...
the sun looks nice
First of all.. 555. That be that borderline transcendence number.second I checked some of those other vids of yours, you're right. There's other ppl that I've seen trying to replicate your content. Only thing is that your honesty is what emanates in the true shit that you be speaking on your vids that make the difference. Which is why I see genuine ppl in this comment sec. Third, it's true of ppl who not knowing what what they want cause the effects of who they want. Which is like attracts like. The polarity of that dynamic must balance out in a relationship first before the process can take root. So what I can say from myself and true honesty is thank you for planting the seed in the minds of myself and others here as we consume this way of thinking to sprout ideas of our own as we grow.
-real talk.💯🔥💪
Yes, time is precious, but I really have to wonder if it's right trying to fix people. They need t make mistakes themselves, that's how they learn. Or not, then it's just natural selection at it's finest.
I guess he really didn't know what he wanted....
Only way to figure yourself out is to be alone for a bit. Figure yourself out first!
Hi there Keira, thanks for sharing as always, you take care
beginning the deadly habit of pouring out frustrations on a relaxed boyfriend.. There are ots of women in the dreaded 30s years of age single, alone and "'successful". Kudos to the ones who figured out how to keep their men. The fantastic power to be attractive to men is in your 20s..
Real feminine women who pour into other women & are in tuned with themselves can be attractive till the day they die.
Are you a male saying this…..?
No, the hardest thing for a human being is to reach existential freedom
Well try doing that in a relationship if you can !🙂
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This is *curious!* 🤨
Since when Keira answer comments? 🤔
She's getting defensive. Even though she says she doesn't care and ignores them.
Keira, you deserve WAY more views and subscribers.
I love your content it is so helpful.
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.
I Appreciate your dedication. You are an inspiration.
Hope God Bless You. ❤🙏
She’s not a feminist so RUclips algorithm will suppress views.
Get a life Simp.
Yes upgrade relationship is hard
Some people are scared to say what they want for no reason as well.
Some people don't say what they want because they are needy seducers
I am polygamous, so immune
yeah it's hard because being in a relationship is putting someone else's happiness over yours which ultimately hinders the process of self growth
I know nothing of relationships. . . . therefore I suck at them. So BOOM!!!!! XoxoXoxoX
Relationships aren't "supposed" to be anything. Everyone has a different idea of what love looks like. There isn't an objective way to go about a romantic relationship
Do feel like there’s a part of you that’s skibbidi?
Fr Fr ong
you didn't want his babies?
What has got you to feel this way?
Nah
I was with my girl 40 years unmarried until she passed
She became an LCSW, I became educated without a title
I now have everything everyone works for which is a house and cars paid for, but I don’t have a title or job, who am I?
Content and questioning 🤛🏿
But if your in the right relationship your partner will help you grow into the woman you were ment to be
There’s no such thing as the “right relationship”
How's that Modeling Career coming along? Set up any Modeling shoots yet? Or still wiping sweat off the gym equipment?
Tell me you've never experienced everything
SO DID YOU JUST SUMMERIZE WHAT JOHN LENNON SAID IN THE SONG..."MIND GAMES?''
been single since 2008.
Aw, she already got someone... Rocco's basilisk, why you gotta keep showing me girls I won't ever have a chance to be with ever... This is why I don't create anything to make Rocco's basilisk come into existence.
So you watch RUclips videos to pursue women? That’s a new one.
@@HeroesFail I watch RUclips because I'm bored with life, same as all the rest. I'm trying to make the algorithms actually do something that's worth my money... That, however, seems to be a fruitless endeavor... Much like engaging with inane commenters who seem to be in the same place as myself.
@@jeremiahlarkins618 I thought it was interesting you’re so deep into having one sided parasocial relationships that you’re calling someone a baddie mama in their RUclips video…
Reflect on that.
@@HeroesFail you wound me sir, or madam. If I thought my existence mattered to RUclipsrs, or the algorithms, I'd be more than a faceless commenter. Look, unless you're gonna actually do something for me, it's a waste of both our times for you to try psychoanalyzing me. I'm a simp who saw a pretty girl in the thumbnail just like everybody else in the comments section. Like you, I can feel the seconds of my life ticking by and completely understand that those seconds are finite. The jobs that exist don't pay, and the women I meet are just as worthless as myself. The only people who actually talk to me are gatekeepers like you who seem to think the fact you're just wasting my life time is lost on me. Talk about parasocial relationships with talking heads all you want, it doesn't change the fact that RUclips is as boring as the rest of life, and everybody in the comments is just simping to try and break up that monotony.
@@HeroesFail was that, was that too much reflecting for you? Are you actually gonna leave me alone? No more snide bs to make me feel like you're the better simp? I, I mean, I'll lean into it if you want. I'm wasting my life the same way you are, sooo...?
You know, sometimes being in a relationship is not necessarily about achieving a certain goal, it’s about not being lonely. Just like that! It’s two people, of different gender, keeping each other company. That’s it. People have grown more and more materialistic in this day and age, that’s why they are in a constant race of achieving something. You’re earning a ton o’ cash at work? Fine, that’s enough! No need to go out chasing stars.
I heard a perspective on marriage; you get married to have a witness in your life. We’re all merely living with nobody to really acknowledge our existence. We pick someone to willingly choose to understand us & see our life as a witness. To give ourselves the feeling of value.
@@keiralhotan the way I see it, even if you don’t know what you want, it doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of love. The only time when “not knowing what you want” becomes a problem in a relationship is when this is a reason for gaslighting and starting fights. Then it’s no longer okay and it’s better for the two partners to part ways.
First of all, date ,date alot and then get married.... There s no such thing as a perfect partner, if you end up living with someone for i guess 3 years consider that a more or less consolidated relationship, more or less...
@@Miguelelam339 women who tend to date a lot lose themselves. That’s why back in the day when marriage was actually valued, couples waited till marriage to give themselves to each other.
@@keiralhotan i dont know if we are talking about the same thing when i say dating .maybe in América you associate it to meet someone and necesseraly have sex with that person.. Well you dont have to unless u want to....
Yes I am so proud of you keep playing chess with life keep going strong 💯
Keira youre pure perfection ❤
How long are you going to simp for her?
@@kbrewski1 you just a troll get a life.
@@Go_Out_Touch_Grass
Says the guy posting cute little love messages to his fantasy girl in every video in a desperate plea for attention.
@@kbrewski1 i just think shes pretty , what wrong with that, if It bothers you so much then dont look At my comments
@@Go_Out_Touch_Grass You´re pure perfection... Awwwwwww a simp. Get a life.
It's dangerous now and down the road
I am still waiting to meet the person i’m fated to be with forever, closest i ever came to having a girlfriend was a couple of flirty encounters with the supermarket checkout girl and (coincidentally lol) another one with a cute girl at my local gym. The latter ended in heartbreak for me. I must have misinterpreted how she felt because the last time i saw her she told me i was spending too much time following her around the gym instead of actually working out. I was humiliated. And the worst part is she said it loud enough for people to hear how she rejected me. My parents cancelled my membership the very next day and i wrote a scathing review of the gym which emphasized the mistreatment and heartbreak i experienced at the hands of this awful woman.
Focus on what you want. Women you want are on the other side of your higher self. If you’re not already in a relationship, your foundation is blank. Build it for yourself. Build the foundation you’d want a partner to have. Kinda like a bird doing a mating dance. Do not chase, attract the women with your presence. The women you want now, I’m telling you is not what your higher self wants. Work towards that & your fated woman will respect the foundation you’ve built. And then that will be the woman of your dreams. Not some random attractive woman. I hope you take what I said well, I just want to help.❤️
You are so smart. I love how u understand my problems so well. Your answer was brilliant.
@frankducky6130
Ducky, ducky, ducky. How many protective orders have been filed against you bruh?
So, you are dissapointed about two random girls you found whatever? That´s rookie numbers.
@@kbrewski1 Quiet, the adults are speaking.
youre kinda cute.
Here, wondering what you said to piss off the group of incels that opened a Telegram account with your name...
If anyone thinks they’re real, needs to go back to grade school 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
@@keiralhotan The fact they targeted you should be flattering. However, you can make a quick scroll, or a PSA in a few future videos telling your followers this is a scam. I know you have it in your community tab, but not everyone gets to read those. Keep in mind, at this level your image is everything. make sure stays clean and honest. Also, it helps keep those losers p*ssy-free.
@@keiralhotan Yeah, but you know? Not everyone goes to your community tab and finds out. Why don't you make a few short PSAs for a while in your videos addressing this matter? That way you cover all bases. Food for thought...
Love you coach thanks 😍😍😘😱
Love you❤️❤️❤️❤️
what's his name lol
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God created men to lead women, and women to follow a husband. Its ok you dont know exactly what you want as a woman. Its a huge problem if he does not know. You just to choose a strong man with principles. According to the Bible your father should choose a husband for you.
💮Beautiful words 💮
Here’s an idea stop giving advice to others especially if it’s completely bad advice 🔥
And who are you Mr Miyagi ? I post on RUclips just like the millions of other RUclipsrs.. and I’m actually skyrocketing so I must be doing something right. Logically speaking right?🤔
@@keiralhotan so you are equating clicks and views to “doing something right” even Hitler was voted in in 1933 😂 😂 😂
@@keiralhotan and if you don’t understand that reference then it definitely 💯 went right over your head 😂
365 days × 24 hours = 8760 hours you get a year, without sleep you do the rest of the math for your life.
You're a beeken of light, a reare gem. Except no less. Take your time planting your garden and what seeds you plant. Have a wonderful day, and if you ever need some advice, just let me know. REM HOLDINGS CC33 SIGMA
Man, when I'm gonna learn? Stop simping self.
A simp is a label created by lonely people themselves on the internet. A simp is a figure of a persons imagination of what they think it means. If you find a woman attractive, that means you’re a HEALTHY MAN. If you feel you need to tell a woman she is attractive. You are a HEALTHY MAN. All this negative notation on men just simply trying to find love & intimacy is DESTROYING any connection and man can even have with a women. Just with the term SIMP. Simp is meaning a “silly foolish person”. Is it foolish to be a man & like a woman? Is it foolish for a woman to like a man? I don’t see men or women talking about women being simps behind the idea they need men to be validated???? Maybe I should make a video about this. I’m tired of people claiming others are simps in my comment section. In the whole world actually.
@@keiralhotan ooh, ahm bouts to start simping harder if you keep talking like that. But yeah, you a baddie mama, I can't lie. I still gotta tell myself, stop simping self, RUclipsr's are too good for you. Hey, what kinda content do you like to watch?
Just get a waifu... and stop simping. It´s cringe.
@@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 that's the exact same thing as simping. If you're gonna offer suggestions, offer good suggestions. Like, can you tell me how to build my own submersible super mega yacht? because that would be different and less cringe than simping or having a waifu.
@@jeremiahlarkins618 A waifu is not a real person.
The clouds behind you looks so cool, nice background. Anyone want to call me a simp again FU in advance.
Awfully defensive.....
this is a beautiful setting
Just making shit up as the video goes on
I love your videos Dude and you are so inspiring and you are so gorgeous and so sweet and I hope you have a good Day
Bruh looking for his Dude, his Prince Charming! 🤴
@kbrewski1 no I am not Dude
Minds and feelings change
We need more relationship advice!
just delete all your social media.
it makes you sick
So did you just get dumped for wasting someone's time, or did you dump him? Either way, it doesn't sound like you had a productive pleasant relationship. I see a theme developing.........
All I wanted was a fuqqing hug.
Protect Keira at all costs
relationship is waiting for death together, being single is waiting for death alone ❤life is just waiting for death, nothing more ❤
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lol I love your comments ❤😂
You're better than a psychologist/counselor/life coach. Don't ask me how I know.