0:28 omg yes I’ve had all of these thoughts because my whole channel is the same way. I’m literally thinking things through and navigating with every video. Part of why I make so many vids is so I can explain what I potentially messed up on in the last video 😂 this is a very sensitive thing to talk about so I totally understand wanting to speak your truth without putting others down. I know what it’s like to feel like you’re offending people when you’re not trying to. Love your channel and you are so needed in this space ! ❤
It really feels like sharing what's really happening...is boasting...but these experiences are NOT fun. I would much rather be having a positive interchange.
@@GoldenCommentary omg yes! Someone on lipstick alley said that people who comment on these RUclips channels are “bragging”. How is simply commenting on a video or uplifting your community online bragging? 😂
Its ok to tell the truth. The key in this space is being a leader and standing on your own morality. If something doenst feel right it probably isn't. As long as youre true to yourself all will be well.. great video ✨💛✨💯💯
You are so right. Thank you for this reminder. A gut/motive check is going to win everytime. Often I will want to give details that are true, but can't be told without someone catching a stray who doesn't deserve it and that'd never my goal...
Im glad you made this because ive had to literally put my phone away so i don't delete my comments. Ive been so vulnerable, but its so scary. Not that someone can hurt me but i just never want to hurt someone else. I know it's really me just trying to go back to that box so im not a problem. This journey is bout me facing things though. I honor yall so much for being brave enough to give this a voice. I still feel sooo naive and ridiculous for not veing able to pick these things up on my own. I do believe with this new perspective will help me to see things so im not bothered at all. I feel like i put myself into some of these situations because i Just didn't know. But yeah, its all up from here in my opinion ✨️🎀
ps. I was a crafty book reading type of child. I wasn't allowed to date and I was being abused (no one knew) so I wasn't into boys. It was annoying because I was trying to avoid the boys but they wouldn't leave me alone. Me not being able to date made it easy for me to stay home ect.
I'm so sorry to hear that you experienced abuse🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾 I can tell you're a gentle soul, and resilient. So so proud of you that you didn't allow anything you've been through to make you bitter.
I'm going to respond to this in a video. You have no reason to feel naive. You didn't know how you would be recieved becuase you aren't the type of person to hate someone for superficial reasons...so it was beyond your comprehension that people could be that way. Also, you likely weren't even aware of how...there's no other way to say it...you weren't/probably still aren't fully aware of your own beauty...because you aren't focused on looks...which makes it so confusing for you...when others are. You're just a good girl, a girls girl, who just wanted to go into the world, treat people well, and be treated well in return...and it wasn't too much to ask. With great privilege comes great responsibility, you didn't ask for it, but it's yours and you will continue to grow and evolve and learn how to be who you were designed to be and be less impacted by the hatred of others...who not only don't like you, but don't like themselves either.🌹
0:28 omg yes I’ve had all of these thoughts because my whole channel is the same way. I’m literally thinking things through and navigating with every video. Part of why I make so many vids is so I can explain what I potentially messed up on in the last video 😂 this is a very sensitive thing to talk about so I totally understand wanting to speak your truth without putting others down. I know what it’s like to feel like you’re offending people when you’re not trying to. Love your channel and you are so needed in this space ! ❤
It really feels like sharing what's really happening...is boasting...but these experiences are NOT fun. I would much rather be having a positive interchange.
Thank you for always being so encouraging. Definitely only created this channel because you kept saying we should tell our stories lol
@@GoldenCommentary omg yes! Someone on lipstick alley said that people who comment on these RUclips channels are “bragging”. How is simply commenting on a video or uplifting your community online bragging? 😂
@@GoldenCommentary aw you’re doing a great job! 👏
Its ok to tell the truth. The key in this space is being a leader and standing on your own morality. If something doenst feel right it probably isn't. As long as youre true to yourself all will be well.. great video ✨💛✨💯💯
You are so right. Thank you for this reminder. A gut/motive check is going to win everytime. Often I will want to give details that are true, but can't be told without someone catching a stray who doesn't deserve it and that'd never my goal...
NO LIES DETECTED!💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you for listening and for your support. Appreciate you.🌹
Im glad you made this because ive had to literally put my phone away so i don't delete my comments. Ive been so vulnerable, but its so scary. Not that someone can hurt me but i just never want to hurt someone else. I know it's really me just trying to go back to that box so im not a problem. This journey is bout me facing things though. I honor yall so much for being brave enough to give this a voice. I still feel sooo naive and ridiculous for not veing able to pick these things up on my own. I do believe with this new perspective will help me to see things so im not bothered at all. I feel like i put myself into some of these situations because i Just didn't know. But yeah, its all up from here in my opinion ✨️🎀
ps. I was a crafty book reading type of child. I wasn't allowed to date and I was being abused (no one knew) so I wasn't into boys. It was annoying because I was trying to avoid the boys but they wouldn't leave me alone. Me not being able to date made it easy for me to stay home ect.
I'm so sorry to hear that you experienced abuse🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾 I can tell you're a gentle soul, and resilient. So so proud of you that you didn't allow anything you've been through to make you bitter.
I'm going to respond to this in a video. You have no reason to feel naive. You didn't know how you would be recieved becuase you aren't the type of person to hate someone for superficial reasons...so it was beyond your comprehension that people could be that way. Also, you likely weren't even aware of how...there's no other way to say it...you weren't/probably still aren't fully aware of your own beauty...because you aren't focused on looks...which makes it so confusing for you...when others are. You're just a good girl, a girls girl, who just wanted to go into the world, treat people well, and be treated well in return...and it wasn't too much to ask. With great privilege comes great responsibility, you didn't ask for it, but it's yours and you will continue to grow and evolve and learn how to be who you were designed to be and be less impacted by the hatred of others...who not only don't like you, but don't like themselves either.🌹
This is VERY relatable to me!
A learning experience.