Can a Liberal Black Mormon Find Love in Utah?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

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  • @breezluize3282
    @breezluize3282 2 года назад +12

    Amy is NOT the person to find James a wife. They are polar opposites in every way.

  • @TheBlackNarrative
    @TheBlackNarrative 2 года назад +19

    Dude is seriously confused on so many issues.. but interesting story tho. It's very naive of him to think race isn't a priority considering the history of the church. And the way he defended their racist history. smh.. I see why he's single. lol

  • @ogochukwuenekwizu5868
    @ogochukwuenekwizu5868 3 года назад +19

    I felt the matchmaker was a bit insensitive saying, “I work with clients who have money”…that whole line of questioning about money could have been done better. I was about to say that I don’t think James will find the woman he wants in the Mormon church but saw that the reconnected with his old flame. Is she Mormon? Also, what is the matchmaking experience like from the LDS woman’s perspective? I thoroughly enjoyed the video, love your head scarves Imaeyen

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +5

      Hello. Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to comment. His girlfriend is part of the church.

  • @karmelbythebay1
    @karmelbythebay1 2 года назад +7

    He let the the matchmaker know “I’m a millionaire” and I’m secure enough not to feel the need divulge that to everyone. T-shirt collection is A1!

  • @russelljones9847
    @russelljones9847 9 месяцев назад +2

    I found this segment interesting as a Black who has been to SLC. In 2014-2016, I traveled to SLC monthly for work. Even visited the Temple and BYU. Most folks were cordial but there were micro-aggressions at times. In fact, I was falsely accused of shoplifting at a 7-11. SLC is an okay place to visit but the lack of diversity (and Black people) is glaring and not hospitable for Black folks.

  • @KingLarbear
    @KingLarbear 2 года назад +11

    This proves why I don't want to date, you have to do way too much and it's really stressful

  • @aviaviles1019
    @aviaviles1019 3 года назад +48

    This video felt unfinished. Please make a part 2!!

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +6

      Hello. Thank you so much for watching and giving me your time. Tell me what you mean by "unfinished." What would you like to see? I'd love to hear.

    • @aviaviles1019
      @aviaviles1019 3 года назад +14

      @@iiwrites what's it like for LDS womyn dating? How much easier is it for white people to get paired? What are the reasons some LDS couples divorce, does it make it harder to date?

    • @GZQ9
      @GZQ9 3 года назад +5

      @@iiwrites it definitely did seem like it ended very abruptly, which kind of ended the video in a bit of a disappointing way but I don’t think that’s your fault, I have huge praise for the fact that you are actually responding and trying to understand criticism so keep that up!

    • @KingLarbear
      @KingLarbear 2 года назад

      I fully agree

  • @chocolateru6866
    @chocolateru6866 2 года назад +22

    This man mixed not black

    • @tjadventures9163
      @tjadventures9163 2 года назад +1

      Mixed but not black?. Do you realize how ludicrous this sounds. If you are black. You are black. My daughter is biracial and she is definitely defines herself a black woman in Germany 🇩🇪.

    • @chocolateru6866
      @chocolateru6866 2 года назад +1

      @@tjadventures9163 Your daughter is mixed. You stuck on that one drop rule

    • @rameekbrown672
      @rameekbrown672 Год назад +1

      Cops pulls him over he is black

    • @chocolateru6866
      @chocolateru6866 Год назад

      @@rameekbrown672 That man is mixed. I ain’t trying hear that cops pull him over because the color of his skin-tone I am talking about his genetic make-up.

    • @mikez.6309
      @mikez.6309 26 дней назад

      So much for "culture"

  • @miriamh2551
    @miriamh2551 2 года назад +4

    True religion will not have racist prophetic teachings

  • @breezluize3282
    @breezluize3282 2 года назад +5

    I can't be the only one who thought why didn't the reporter and James go out on a date?

  • @consciouscookiemonster8364
    @consciouscookiemonster8364 2 года назад +5

    This guy is sooooo lost . He’s really in a sunken place

  • @SpoiledStarlynn
    @SpoiledStarlynn 2 года назад +11

    “Liberal Mormon” Lol

  • @MR-xf8xg
    @MR-xf8xg 2 года назад +5

    Does he consider it's not personal but doctrine based? People need to start talking honestly about race in these specific situations.
    What are the church's "modern" views about black or half black people in heaven? If they are not allowed, why would a woman want to have children who can't get into heaven?

  • @ts4686
    @ts4686 3 года назад +18

    I mean.....People cab believe what they want....But it just felt that everybody except Imaeyen were skirting around the neon elephant in the room ie racism and that he is a black man in a very racist vvhite society, city and faith. He first claims its a very racist and prejudiced faith and society while they were driving in the car speaking about hos ideological belief systems, but later he says he doesn't think that anybody is racist or has malicious intent (when he was at home on the sofa).
    He seems rootless, without an anchor and messed up. He has the classic signs of black kid brought up in racist vvhite spaces type of behaviours. It leaves these kids both very aware of themselves and their racist spaces tht rejects them, while also being in denial about it. That conflict is deep and leaves scars and has negative impacts.
    I wish him well and hope he finds peace and love. My best bet would be that he leave Utah and get to a more cosmopolitan city/country.

  • @DieNibelungenliad
    @DieNibelungenliad 3 года назад +15

    Bruh, getting married in this day and age with the crazy divorce and alimony laws?! These dudes are just asking for it. I wish them well, but I don't expect it

  • @kuntrryboy7078
    @kuntrryboy7078 2 года назад +5

    Home boy has NINE kids 😳

  • @bl00dhoney
    @bl00dhoney 3 года назад +19

    It's the cognitive dissonance for me...

  • @mrquestion8398
    @mrquestion8398 2 года назад +6

    The guy has self esteem issues .

  • @singaporenoodles7189
    @singaporenoodles7189 3 года назад +14

    I will did enjoy this documentary on how Mormons see marriage and I hope James find his special someone because I find Mormons really interesting , I know there are Mormons of other races and ajplus keep up the good works love these videos very eye opening

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for taking the time to watch. Feel free to share.

    • @singaporenoodles7189
      @singaporenoodles7189 3 года назад +1

      @@iiwrites Yes I'll

    • @JDVmusicSound
      @JDVmusicSound 3 года назад

      “I know there are Mormons of other races” lmfao. These nutters

    • @snakeater1418
      @snakeater1418 3 года назад

      @@JDVmusicSound wdym?

  • @fabe.t
    @fabe.t 2 года назад +11

    It seems like the ethics of his social politics hasn’t made its way to his dating politics. And why can’t he go find Black women to date at the same place where he find Black people to be in his music videos?

    • @icetrip2417
      @icetrip2417 2 года назад +1

      🤔🤔true

    • @focuslee
      @focuslee 2 года назад

      Because they are probably not Mormon.

  • @russelljones9847
    @russelljones9847 9 месяцев назад

    I think James’s perfect date is right in front of his eyes…it’s the reporter. She’s smart, thoughtful, and beautiful!

  • @AnnaPark90
    @AnnaPark90 3 года назад +8

    JUST LET HIM TALK ABOUT TONGUE SCRAPERS FOR GOD'S SAKE-

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад

      Thank you for watching. What's been your favorite part?

  • @ychireau4599
    @ychireau4599 2 года назад

    Imaeyen I love finding these little treasures, always too short. You are the perfect reporter and friend.

  • @-jamesbond
    @-jamesbond 2 года назад +4

    The shirt was fire ! The match maker made him choose some grandpa clothes, he needs a real Utah baddie, not some broke college girl

  • @mrquestion8398
    @mrquestion8398 2 года назад +5

    WTF A THREE MONTH MARRIAGE????? .

  • @4T3hM4kr0n
    @4T3hM4kr0n 3 года назад +12

    but do the marriages last? Ahh its salt lake city, yeah mormons at it again

    • @mrwhite77781
      @mrwhite77781 3 года назад

      What about the space people the morron doctrine

  • @LI-pm3mh
    @LI-pm3mh 3 года назад +16

    This match maker is wrong on a lot of things, example I didn’t like the money question at all

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching. Why did the money question bother you?

    • @dscmpltlynuts
      @dscmpltlynuts 3 года назад +4

      But I do actually get the point that if he isn't forthcoming with many details about himself, it can feel very elusive. But also sharing life details is the way people relate to each other more deeply, discussing general interests is only surface level. It makes total sense that he put a wall up to a girl he wasn't attracted to. He just didn't wanna connect.

    • @hammadahmad6597
      @hammadahmad6597 3 года назад +1

      people have different ideas about success

    • @faedraemberhart5500
      @faedraemberhart5500 3 года назад +8

      @@iiwrites I feel like wanting to know how much money someone makes as one of the first things when you start talking/dating seems really off-putting. It shouldn't matter how much money the guy has when they should be focusing on compatibility. I would never ask a guy that outright when starting to get to know them

    • @rjung_ch
      @rjung_ch 3 года назад +3

      @@iiwrites I feel that money is a blessing and a problem at the same time. Money doesn't define a person's true heart, money can alleviate problems.
      It can't be the goal in life. Too many people care more for money than people. That's sad.

  • @ayodelehiggs8166
    @ayodelehiggs8166 Год назад +3

    I think James is delusional about the beliefs of people in his church. But I agree the attitudes of the church mirror the US’ attitude.

  • @raptorkvn
    @raptorkvn 3 года назад +13

    I'm like 5 minutes into the video and every 30 seconds I'm like "Hold up"

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +1

      Hi. I did this video. What made you say, "hold up"?

    • @raptorkvn
      @raptorkvn 3 года назад +3

      @@iiwrites Oh, 😂It was more funny hold ups, like "I'm passionate about tongue scrappers", and then I was just surprised that Mormons would have a problem finding people to date, I thought they were all pretty close or would just meet at church or BYU, it seems like the Mormons I've seen have met like that. That was more of a surprise hold up. And then the music he made and the way it was described made me think "Hold up, he's like a Mormon Taylor Swift". I was like "I should look into his album because that's kind of what I'm all about" but then the James the Mormon songs had me like "Hold up what?!?😂" Just that kind of stuff. His liberal views and his Mormon faith are an interesting combination that is quite surprising as well. It was an interesting video though. I think you did a good job.

    • @eagledice2008
      @eagledice2008 2 года назад +1

      @@iiwrites he’s brainwashed and he hates black women you did a great job though

  • @abd-al-kareemqasim1711
    @abd-al-kareemqasim1711 3 года назад +10

    I hope he finds he way out of the cult. He will be much happier if he does.

  • @LI-pm3mh
    @LI-pm3mh 3 года назад +20

    He should get with the journalist

    • @ContrarianExpatriate
      @ContrarianExpatriate 3 года назад +8

      He clearly doesn't fancy black women, but rationalizes that away.

    • @TheRealKSmith
      @TheRealKSmith 3 года назад +1

      @@ContrarianExpatriate I don't think that's true, it's more so him valuing the church more than race.

    • @cool_cat007smoove3
      @cool_cat007smoove3 2 года назад

      Good suggestion

  • @saidahgreene
    @saidahgreene 3 года назад +12

    He is fine ... definitely didn’t know black Mormon existed 😂

    • @danieltongaww
      @danieltongaww 2 года назад +1

      I’m half balck and half Tongan ( Polynesian) and I was raised in a small town in the south born and I grew up as a baby in the Mormon church ( only my mom was a member and still is ) I can personally say I was the only brown person and I never saw any or felt any racism but maybe some ignorance but I have not been to church since 18

    • @wesley939
      @wesley939 2 года назад

      I think he is mixed

    • @justshady
      @justshady 2 года назад

      @@danieltongaww you didn’t feel racism because you weren’t a threat. You weren’t fully black and you are only just one person. If you have a lot of black people around you as James has in his “rap” video it’ll be different.

    • @danieltongaww
      @danieltongaww 2 года назад

      @@justshady well I will say this my dad side would always come over to our church when ever me or my brother had any church events ect and they always made them feel welcome now that’s was my piticular church building I can’t speak for others but yea I do u sedated the past issue the church has had

  • @Ms.Opinionated
    @Ms.Opinionated 2 года назад +10

    I think James has his head in the clouds. If I belong to a religion and they don't recognize their past..... it is not the church for me. Also, they're not down with BLM? For real? It is about righting wrongs with legislation and accountability
    I am VERY curious why James doesn't want to date women of color. "Black coffee no sugar no Cream, that's the girl down with my team". If James is a rapper, he should know the lyrics.
    One Love 💘 ❤️

    • @javamurniadi6520
      @javamurniadi6520 2 года назад +4

      If hes biracial then he probably relates better with white women like many biracial heterosexual men

  • @nolsova1140
    @nolsova1140 3 года назад +2

    This is very good 👍🏽

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching and giving me your time. Feel free to share this video and let me know your favorite part 😃

    • @rjung_ch
      @rjung_ch 3 года назад

      @@iiwrites love your videos, thanks for making them

  • @MVTX
    @MVTX 3 года назад +23

    The things he believes in are against the LDS faith. Will be incredibly hard for him to find a Mormon wife who agrees with his views. Would be better off finding a non church member.

    • @rjung_ch
      @rjung_ch 3 года назад +6

      Best a person with no faith and belief in mythology

    • @maximilianomadrigal6661
      @maximilianomadrigal6661 3 года назад +6

      Mormons outside of america are very left wing, to the point of being socialists or even communists, i met French Mormons who where communist and didn't believe the American Mormons supported trump

    • @MVTX
      @MVTX 3 года назад +1

      @@maximilianomadrigal6661 The Hispanic mormons all over Latin America are pretty conservative. so are the Pacific Islander ones.

    • @maximilianomadrigal6661
      @maximilianomadrigal6661 3 года назад

      @@MVTX did you meet them in america? i've met socialists Brazilian Mormons in brazil.

    • @JDVmusicSound
      @JDVmusicSound 3 года назад

      @@maximilianomadrigal6661 lmao no you did not. 🤡

  • @MR-xf8xg
    @MR-xf8xg 2 года назад +2

    Why are you showing him brushing his tongue?

  • @rjung_ch
    @rjung_ch 3 года назад +8

    56%, how many are happy and how long do these marriages last?
    Sure, it's a community that holds together, many many good people, a bit nuts for this fake religion, but what the heck. They are good people anyways.
    Today it's a hard time, people change and only the strong can stay together, those who wish to thing and work problems out together.

  • @iwrotethis4712
    @iwrotethis4712 3 года назад +8

    Funny how rare it is to see Qatari news on this channel

  • @MR-xf8xg
    @MR-xf8xg 2 года назад +2

    Tell her the expression is WACK not wacked.

  • @focuslee
    @focuslee 2 года назад +1

    I am a black Mormon in VA so I understand what he is going through but being so liberal is feeling like he is playing both ends are you a lover of God or Money? No one came to serve to masters. Mathew 6:24 it is tough to find a good sing Mormon woman of any color, let alone attracted to a man of another race, particularly a black man. I am not saying they are not out there but in my experience, it is like finding a needle in a haystack.

    • @icetrip2417
      @icetrip2417 2 года назад

      He doesn't even look Black 😭😭

    • @christravis2292
      @christravis2292 2 года назад

      From my experience and others, Mormon girls aren’t particularly open to dating other races besides theirs which is white

  • @daisychainmilk
    @daisychainmilk 3 года назад +1

    Aw this guy seems kind and cool

  • @lekudos
    @lekudos 3 года назад +4

    This guy is being deliberately awkward. Something must have gone wrong during filming.
    That Diana T-shirt…. Definitely deliberately annoying.

  • @Mannymd
    @Mannymd 3 года назад +6

    5:35 wtf ???

  • @ronhoward9795
    @ronhoward9795 3 года назад +2

    please he is barely even brown, to me he looks like Matthew Perry

  • @kayaar00
    @kayaar00 3 года назад

    can you decide on a video title already?

  • @WordsFromTheHam
    @WordsFromTheHam 2 года назад

    I want mor man! This has left me in suspense.

  • @htplilj94
    @htplilj94 2 года назад

    everyone was not racist u can only be racist If your ppl have the power to oppress

  • @BromanWes
    @BromanWes Год назад

    Hmmm being liberal clashes hard with Mormon values his Mormonism must be more of an accessory like shoes.

  • @MR-xf8xg
    @MR-xf8xg 2 года назад +1

    Modern conservative family values? What are those? What is the po3sotion on women in heaven these days? Modern?

  • @georgeminjarez6666
    @georgeminjarez6666 2 года назад

    10 g’s !?!?!?
    Well she did get a chia pet family…

  • @kenlandon6130
    @kenlandon6130 2 года назад +1

    9:28 Sounds irresponsible to me...

  • @titopillo6914
    @titopillo6914 Год назад +1

    He is not black.

    • @russelljones9847
      @russelljones9847 9 месяцев назад +2

      He’s Black. We (Black folks) are not a monolith.

  • @artruroruiz5284
    @artruroruiz5284 2 года назад

    Do you belied this woman that all of her clients have money .

  • @mikerphone.
    @mikerphone. 3 года назад

    Who asked.

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 3 года назад +4

    Interesting 🤔

    • @iiwrites
      @iiwrites 3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching.

  • @csvscs
    @csvscs 3 года назад +2

    Wait did he say LDS? Oh wait....

  • @elakum7350
    @elakum7350 2 года назад

    HAHAHAH SAYS LIBERAL AND HES BLACK WHAT IS HE GOING TO STEAL(Grandpa said this racist joke (HEs vietnamese)

  • @timothykramer2551
    @timothykramer2551 Год назад

    Bad shoes.. i would walk in socks..

  • @nebick27
    @nebick27 2 года назад

    I'm from Utah and this is BS. If he is liberal he is not Mormon

  • @MR-xf8xg
    @MR-xf8xg 2 года назад

    😑😑😑

  • @user-wl2xl5hm7k
    @user-wl2xl5hm7k 3 года назад +4

    AJ: can you please research & advocate for full intellectual property (IP) abolition? This is the most important activist aim for working class people! A just economy (& most leftist projects) has very little chance without first abolishing IP. IP is the most severe & oppressive tool of the rich & powerful.
    Please see the work of Stephan Kinsella, Michele Boldrin, & David K. Levine. These are the best experts on intellectual property in the world. Everyone who cares about seriously improving things for humanity needs to know what IP abolition is about.

    • @user-wl2xl5hm7k
      @user-wl2xl5hm7k 3 года назад +1

      IP laws make no sense from either left or right politics. The ‘property’ in intellectual property is a false term used for propaganda purposes. Intellectual property is not property in any sense. It’s monopoly. IP actually stifles innovation & creativity. IP also is the main component of cultural control, propaganda, & advertising. And IP seriously screws up our economy & stacks it for the rich & powerful more than any other tool (especially IP with digital tech & the internet). IP abolition is the most important aim to liberate artists, programmers, inventors, etc. & make them all better off financially.

    • @user-wl2xl5hm7k
      @user-wl2xl5hm7k 3 года назад

      All 4 types of IP must be fully abolished ASAP: patents, copyright, trademarks & trade secrets.

    • @user-wl2xl5hm7k
      @user-wl2xl5hm7k 3 года назад +1

      The 2008 economics book ‘Against Intellectual Monopoly’ & the 2001 essay ‘Against Intellectual Property’ are the two most important texts of the last century! Each has nearly flawless argumentation. All people interested in politics need to read both (free online). If you can’t read them now, then write down both titles so you can tell others so they can read them.

    • @user-wl2xl5hm7k
      @user-wl2xl5hm7k 3 года назад

      And Uniquenameosaurus has 2 excellent and entertaining videos from April 2021 about IP abolition

    • @user-wl2xl5hm7k
      @user-wl2xl5hm7k 3 года назад

      NOTICE: To the extent I have any copyright in the comments in this thread, I relinquish those rights to the public domain according to the CC0 license. -Signed, /s/ PN
      ->Before we abolish IP, everyone use the CC0 license for all types of works (including software) when you’re not in need of money or there aren’t any buyers for your copyright monopoly. Also, as the author you can always ask for donations using crowdfunding even if you no longer have the copyright monopoly.

  • @orionsentry
    @orionsentry 2 года назад

    The mixed race black Fella must have had a challenging time growing up as a kid & teenager seeing as how his white mother had to raise him all by herself. Becuz the black daddy abandoned the family.

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  • @mrbushlied7742
    @mrbushlied7742 3 года назад +1

    Whilst you might find love, a Mormon will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven. So, you shall never find salvation. The best you can do is to hie to Kolob.

    • @daixer3156
      @daixer3156 Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/jbNnsiP4Rhg/видео.html
      Interesting....🤔