Also in a slump for a couple of weeks, 100% agree it's hard to make sense of, and deal with unwanted feelings that don't feel like yours (or at least not the you that you want to be) ... instead of brushing it off I am *trying* (often failing) to find a balance between : I have a legitimate reason to feel negative, I have to acknowledge that I'm not wrong for feeling that way BUT that it doesn't mean those feelings arecorrect and that I should listen to them, and taking care of myself means acting despite those feelings, doing what I think is right even if it feels wrong. For now I'm just trying to not burn any bridge with friends & coworkers as I'm getting *very easily* irritated, by the slightest things AND irritated by how easily irritated I get AND anxious by how likely I am to get irritated by the next event so it's not the exact situation - instead of being stuck, it's more about limiting damage - but I can relate!
Yessss i love this!! This is the balance I’ve been trying to figure out myself! And I also FEEL YOU on the getting irritable front - I think it’s so easy to feel irritable a lot of the time when you’re in an environment that feels sooo out of alignment and you’re surrounded by people who just don’t get you! I KNOW it’s going to get better for us though, we are on the right path for sure 🙌❤️
Oh my gosh I love you so much right now 😂😭 I have never related to anybody more. My environment is so controlling to the point it’s abusive, and my health prevents me from finding ways to be on my own… I so appreciate your honesty. I get scared to try to make friends because I feel so alone in it… but you remind me that we are never alone ❤
@Cantfindme3 if I've learnt anything since starting this channel it's that there are always sooo many people going through the same things that we are! 🫶 I'm so glad this video could remind you of that and your comment reminds me of the same ❤️
Thank you for sharing all this information and experiences makes me feel less alone. This season of my life has been hard so thank you so much for sharing your experiences and feelings makes me feel like im not going crazy. Love ya xx
I was diagnosed with bipolar depression some weeks ago my parents are narcissists they denied my diagnosis and didn't even give me a day to process it they just obliged me to go to university on hotel management and now im exhausted....everbody knows now that Im not doing ok...quite humiliating...I still love them but I CANT FORGIVE THEM I also want to movre to a residence near my school
@MarianaFerreira-l1f I'm so sorry to hear this, its an awful feeling when the people you love the most deny your reality 💔 I'm out of the environment I was in when I filmed this video and I can promise you that everything gets so much better 🙏 there's so much to be hopeful for and look forward to! ❤️
Thanks for posting this!!! I’m feeling almost the EXACT same way, which is so crazy. And hearing that you’re going through an extremely similar situation is unfortunate, but kinda comforting bc I know I’m not alone. Please be kind to yourself in this time ❤️
oh ,y goodness, the last time I clicked on your channel, you had like 25 subscribers and now you have over 400 and I'm so proud of you. honestly freaking love your channel.
Also in a slump for a couple of weeks, 100% agree it's hard to make sense of, and deal with unwanted feelings that don't feel like yours (or at least not the you that you want to be) ... instead of brushing it off I am *trying* (often failing) to find a balance between : I have a legitimate reason to feel negative, I have to acknowledge that I'm not wrong for feeling that way BUT that it doesn't mean those feelings arecorrect and that I should listen to them, and taking care of myself means acting despite those feelings, doing what I think is right even if it feels wrong.
For now I'm just trying to not burn any bridge with friends & coworkers as I'm getting *very easily* irritated, by the slightest things AND irritated by how easily irritated I get AND anxious by how likely I am to get irritated by the next event so it's not the exact situation - instead of being stuck, it's more about limiting damage - but I can relate!
Yessss i love this!! This is the balance I’ve been trying to figure out myself! And I also FEEL YOU on the getting irritable front - I think it’s so easy to feel irritable a lot of the time when you’re in an environment that feels sooo out of alignment and you’re surrounded by people who just don’t get you! I KNOW it’s going to get better for us though, we are on the right path for sure 🙌❤️
Oh my gosh I love you so much right now 😂😭 I have never related to anybody more. My environment is so controlling to the point it’s abusive, and my health prevents me from finding ways to be on my own… I so appreciate your honesty. I get scared to try to make friends because I feel so alone in it… but you remind me that we are never alone ❤
@Cantfindme3 if I've learnt anything since starting this channel it's that there are always sooo many people going through the same things that we are! 🫶 I'm so glad this video could remind you of that and your comment reminds me of the same ❤️
This is the first video of yours that I watched. RUclips it's kind of my life right now.
Me too !! 🩷
Thank you for sharing all this information and experiences makes me feel less alone. This season of my life has been hard so thank you so much for sharing your experiences and feelings makes me feel like im not going crazy. Love ya xx
@@NatalyCanez I’m so glad it could help, it’s always nice to know you’re not going through something alone 🫶 love u girly we got this 💗
I was diagnosed with bipolar depression some weeks ago my parents are narcissists they denied my diagnosis and didn't even give me a day to process it they just obliged me to go to university on hotel management and now im exhausted....everbody knows now that Im not doing ok...quite humiliating...I still love them but I CANT FORGIVE THEM
I also want to movre to a residence near my school
@MarianaFerreira-l1f I'm so sorry to hear this, its an awful feeling when the people you love the most deny your reality 💔 I'm out of the environment I was in when I filmed this video and I can promise you that everything gets so much better 🙏 there's so much to be hopeful for and look forward to! ❤️
Thanks for posting this!!! I’m feeling almost the EXACT same way, which is so crazy. And hearing that you’re going through an extremely similar situation is unfortunate, but kinda comforting bc I know I’m not alone.
Please be kind to yourself in this time ❤️
@@shelbyzimmerman thank you ❤️
THANK YOU FOR THIS
@@MarianaFerreira-l1f 😘❤️❤️
Wow you spoke my mind. Thanks for being so open about this
@@best_subliminals 🫶❤️
oh ,y goodness, the last time I clicked on your channel, you had like 25 subscribers and now you have over 400 and I'm so proud of you. honestly freaking love your channel.
This comment has made my day ❤️you’re a real one for sure!! 🥹 thank you so much!! And omg I LOVE my fellow geminis ♊️!!
the thumbnail made me laugh out loud, thank you.
i'm also a gemini!