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Never too young/old to make a change.

Thank you for this, I relate so much. I also am trying to grow my RUclips channel and commend you for posting so regularly because I dont know how you do it / manage it because I struggle to edit / film post RUclips videos, im not giving up but equally I want to just to live and breathe for alittle bit. Thank you xx

I love your videos ❤️❤️❤️

Yes, it is fine to just exist - I feel a bit like this atm 😌. I'm super sensitive also so understand what you mean by feeling irritated/burned-out! I believe that sadness and hope can co exist too 🙂 Your doing really well despite everything...so don't be too hard on yourself 💗 Have a good time in Thailand x

I wholly understand! I know how frustrating burnout can be because it is pretty much my current state. At least, you have a boyfriend to stand by and care for you, better than many single folks living alone and far away from relatives. It is 22 November, Christmas is coming up and the year is ending soon. It would be a great time for us to do introspection and sort ourselves out to end the burnout in order to move forward💪🏻

You are 25 not 45. You are at the age when you are meant to make decisions about university, jobs, etc etc. You are not meant to have achieved anything yet!

This is extremely relatable

One of my “friends” invalidated my struggles all the time while he pretends to be compassionate in front of others and has won a lot of friends for himself. I often wonder why my “friend” behaves that way, but perhaps that is how certain folks survive and get what they want.

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Made it to the end of the video! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your authentic self. As another 25 year old, it's great to hear your perspective and where you are in your journey.

You got a job(s), a place to live, and a boyfriend. You're doing good.

Try 39... A wasted degree that I got 10 years ago. Stuck at my uninspiring job at a supermarket for 17 years. My music hobby/dream is going nowhere.

Yes, dealing with this exact thing 😅 great example you used! I am really trying to shift my reality before the end of the year! 💪

I know exactly how you feel. 36 years old with lots of dreams and cant see a way out. My next step is pushing past comfort zones and fear. I'm on the fence but thinking of moving away to start afresh. Sending you lots of love, you've got this and yes having your own space will help lots!

this video is exactly what I needed for my life right now

good for you, i'm 34 and feel similar and sure this will be a reoccurring theme for the rest of my life, that seems to be going by are a far more rapid pace

i feel sad because it's when i realize i don't have friends to make me feel special

thank you for caring.you are beautiful

Im really struggling.Was diagnosed bipolar and my mood went from euphoric to suicidal im pretty much suicidal

Being a people pleaser really feels like there's two people in one, people see one version and the real authentic person is in a hole somewhere...

Adore you for speaking up ... 👏🏻🌹 Joy from India 🇮🇳

By the time I was 26 my first marriage had been dissolved. You're not supposed to have accomplished anything by your mid twenties. This is when you make your mistakes and figure out who you are and what you want to do. I'm retired now and find myself generally cheerful and optimistic even though I really do think things aren't going well at all. "Normal" is HIGHLY over rated. No such thing.

THANK YOU FOR THIS

I was diagnosed with bipolar depression some weeks ago my parents are narcissists they denied my diagnosis and didn't even give me a day to process it they just obliged me to go to university on hotel management and now im exhausted....everbody knows now that Im not doing ok...quite humiliating...I still love them but I CANT FORGIVE THEM I also want to movre to a residence near my school

Girl, I feel the same exact way (especially because I'm the oldest in my family) but from what other people have told me, life is different for everyone. Some people have a job, house, kids by 20 - others may not. We'll get there if we try to make progress and strive to improve. What's most important in life is what you make of it, your goals and dreams. It's not over until life is over! -signed a 21 trying to be positive :)

ou're not alone! Every small step counts-keep going, and you'll create the change you desire!

Everything doesn’t happen for a reason. Don’t fall for cliches

I enjoy this kind of video. Feel free to consider doing more of it!

I really don't want to shit on people who don't have it as bad as I do bcs I do sincerely empathize and sympathize, but I feel like my situation is shit enough for people to really judge me thinking I really am lazy so maybe I should express more how I feel about it myself so people know... idk... I want to say... girl... I actually have nothing to show... you worked! You put in effort. I didn't. That's judged, people don't want to understand. But I don't want to be insensitive toward you bcs I feel you about your stuff, more on the side of sympathy for some stuff than empathy, but I feel you. But it's like a gut to the punch sometimes like noone else but other ADHDers who report having huge executive dysfunction issues who relate to me and I feel ashamed even to tell them about everything I go through and just how badly dysfunctional I am. And anger - yeah... same as you, it's not natural to me, I don't surpress anger, I just rarely have anger in me and now that it happens sometimes I think it seems so normal and so mild to other people but to me it's such an alarming thing!

Is your Dad at home? You seem like a typical single mom kid

Im 27 and i feel you %100. Things haven't felt normal since 2019 for me. Its like time is moving in fast forward. And people are pretending everything is fine

Hello! I´m on the same boat. I related to a lot of what you said. Lately I have been comparing a lot to other, because I feel like I dont have a lot to show. And just thinking about possible conversations that could lead to being ask: what did you study?, where do you live?, what do you do in your free time, etc gives me so much anxiety. Those questions might sound silly, but when you feel like you dont have nothing to show, and you know that other can talk about their lives and all the things that they have done in their life , it feels frustrating Thank you for making this video :)

25? You're a baby. You don't need to have something to show yet. Take your time and enjoy your life 💜

I can relate so much. I’ve grown up being over criticized but had impossible expectations put on me since I was a child. Like my mom expected her child to act like a grown adult when she herself was emotionally immature. I naturally adopted this belief of having to do things perfectly. I also didn’t like working a 9-5, although I pushed myself too hard until I got burned out. I now feel stuck in life, like I really want to do something of my own, have my own business. I’m manifesting that.

Hi, How are you? You know what? I am a regular viewer of your RUclips Channel. I have seen all your videos and your content qualities are excellent. I learned lots of things from you. Your channel has great quality content but needs to deliver its right audiences due to SEO problems. You should focus on your SEO so that you can build a big fanbase. Thanks.

Wow you spoke my mind. Thanks for being so open about this

Thanks for posting this!!! I’m feeling almost the EXACT same way, which is so crazy. And hearing that you’re going through an extremely similar situation is unfortunate, but kinda comforting bc I know I’m not alone. Please be kind to yourself in this time ❤️

I reallyy want to try and meditate more regularly, it's difficult but I just need to do it! 😅 Your face and hair are v pretty also 💖

I like this video. The advice is wonderful, though easier said than be done. I wish I’d be able to follow it and make life work in my favour. 2024 is coming to an end in 2.5 months. Let’s hope for the best!

Oh my gosh I love you so much right now 😂😭 I have never related to anybody more. My environment is so controlling to the point it’s abusive, and my health prevents me from finding ways to be on my own… I so appreciate your honesty. I get scared to try to make friends because I feel so alone in it… but you remind me that we are never alone ❤

34. Went to school for child care. Made $25k a year between 2013-2017. Quit and worked retail for a year making like $15k a year. Started 3 youtube channels that never took off. Paid off my car and student loans. Moved to Ireland in December 2019. Pandemic happens. Living with inlaws. No house, no job, no kids and I’m miserable. So. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Universe brings you everything when you're ready.

I know that feeling. Girl.

Wait.....! For ex, I've written 20 books( short stories) when did I start? Not til 42. U have time, relatively speaking.

Your RUclips video content is so good. However the video does not get many views. Because your RUclips channel has some problems. Do you want to know about the problems?

hey what do you think about the David Goggins mindset?

hey girlies 💕 here are the journal prompts I mentioned in the identity section of the video! It’s a fun starting point if you are stuck with who you actually want to be 💫 1. how do you enjoy spending your free time? (hobbies and interests e.g. drawing, ice skating, tennis, travelling, colouring, arts and crafts, learning a musical instrument etc) if you are struggling to think of anything, try think back to the things you enjoyed as a kid and go from there 🎨 2. what are your core morals and values in life? (e.g. prioritising family, mutual respect, gaining a good education, integrity etc.) 3. what don't you like about your current reality and how would you change this if money was not a question? (e.g. your living arrangements, boring job, lack of time to pursue interests etc.) 4. list your top 10 role models in life. (e.g. this could be tv/movie characters, family member, someone at work, celebrities, influencers, political figures) 5. what are the traits that you admire most in these people? (e.g. their integrity, their work ethic, the way they present themselves etc.) 6. what are the traits and characteristics of the very best version of yourself? (e.g. confident, well spoken, compassionate, generous, goes to the gym 4 times a week etc.) 7. which bad habits and traits do you want to leave behind? (e.g. waking up later than 8 am, emotional eating habits, doomscrolling etc.) refer to these journal prompts and your answers often in order to stay aligned with the identity you wish to embody in order to create your dream life 🪄✨💗

How I wish I would have someone to hang out with me. The last time I had dinner with one was already 9 months ago. Loneliness stresses one out the most ;(

Hi Bestie 🩷✨ I've never left a RUclips comment despite yeaaars of being on here a ton. But I'm feeling called to send you some support 🩷🩷🩷. Firstly, I really appreciate you talking on this and for your authenticity. I feel so understood, and I haven't felt that way on this topic before, so thank you 🩷 you're not alone in this 🫶🏻. You already have such clear and deep awareness around this, and are so much closer to the breakthrough you're looking for. Feeling like a failure and like a success are sides of the same coin, so you can rest assured that the mindful, compassionate way you're embracing these hard feelings may not look like the actions you think you need to take to be successful, but it's actually the most productive thing you can do. Taking care of yourself & feeling the best you can where you're at is step 1 to manifesting, and in my opinion, a good way to live in general. Please ignore anything I say if it doesn't resonate, you are your own best guide and have Everything you need Within you to live your best life 🙏🏻. That being said, I am feeling called to say, you already have So, So Much to show for your life, it's just hard to recognize because it's yours, you've become blind to it because they're so familiar, and they may not fit into society's shallow definition of success. But they are still just as significant as the achievements of the people we look up to, like friends you admire for making things happen. Nobody could live your life better than You, and nobody else knows entirely what it's taken you to get through the tough times and what you've had to do/think/feel to create better ones. Just you. You deserve more credit. And to feel proud of showing up to every day of your life this far the best you could and know, have the confidence, that you will continue to do your best and that's enough! It's plenty! There's nothing more you need to achieve to feel the love, success, confidence you desire now, you've already done everything you need to earn them (exist 😌✨). I really hope I haven't come off preachy 😅, and that what I've said makes sense, (my phone won't let me scroll to reread 😂, challenging my perfectionism too) my intention is just to send you a big virtual hug and a cheer squad 🥳✨ wishing you all the best 💐✨! You deserve it!

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