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ou're not alone! Every small step counts-keep going, and you'll create the change you desire!

Everything doesn’t happen for a reason. Don’t fall for cliches

I enjoy this kind of video. Feel free to consider doing more of it!

I really don't want to shit on people who don't have it as bad as I do bcs I do sincerely empathize and sympathize, but I feel like my situation is shit enough for people to really judge me thinking I really am lazy so maybe I should express more how I feel about it myself so people know... idk... I want to say... girl... I actually have nothing to show... you worked! You put in effort. I didn't. That's judged, people don't want to understand. But I don't want to be insensitive toward you bcs I feel you about your stuff, more on the side of sympathy for some stuff than empathy, but I feel you. But it's like a gut to the punch sometimes like noone else but other ADHDers who report having huge executive dysfunction issues who relate to me and I feel ashamed even to tell them about everything I go through and just how badly dysfunctional I am. And anger - yeah... same as you, it's not natural to me, I don't surpress anger, I just rarely have anger in me and now that it happens sometimes I think it seems so normal and so mild to other people but to me it's such an alarming thing!

Is your Dad at home? You seem like a typical single mom kid

Im 27 and i feel you %100. Things haven't felt normal since 2019 for me. Its like time is moving in fast forward. And people are pretending everything is fine

Hello! I´m on the same boat. I related to a lot of what you said. Lately I have been comparing a lot to other, because I feel like I dont have a lot to show. And just thinking about possible conversations that could lead to being ask: what did you study?, where do you live?, what do you do in your free time, etc gives me so much anxiety. Those questions might sound silly, but when you feel like you dont have nothing to show, and you know that other can talk about their lives and all the things that they have done in their life , it feels frustrating Thank you for making this video :)

25? You're a baby. You don't need to have something to show yet. Take your time and enjoy your life 💜

I can relate so much. I’ve grown up being over criticized but had impossible expectations put on me since I was a child. Like my mom expected her child to act like a grown adult when she herself was emotionally immature. I naturally adopted this belief of having to do things perfectly. I also didn’t like working a 9-5, although I pushed myself too hard until I got burned out. I now feel stuck in life, like I really want to do something of my own, have my own business. I’m manifesting that.

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Wow you spoke my mind. Thanks for being so open about this

Thanks for posting this!!! I’m feeling almost the EXACT same way, which is so crazy. And hearing that you’re going through an extremely similar situation is unfortunate, but kinda comforting bc I know I’m not alone. Please be kind to yourself in this time ❤️

I reallyy want to try and meditate more regularly, it's difficult but I just need to do it! 😅 Your face and hair are v pretty also 💖

I like this video. The advice is wonderful, though easier said than be done. I wish I’d be able to follow it and make life work in my favour. 2024 is coming to an end in 2.5 months. Let’s hope for the best!

Oh my gosh I love you so much right now 😂😭 I have never related to anybody more. My environment is so controlling to the point it’s abusive, and my health prevents me from finding ways to be on my own… I so appreciate your honesty. I get scared to try to make friends because I feel so alone in it… but you remind me that we are never alone ❤

34. Went to school for child care. Made $25k a year between 2013-2017. Quit and worked retail for a year making like $15k a year. Started 3 youtube channels that never took off. Paid off my car and student loans. Moved to Ireland in December 2019. Pandemic happens. Living with inlaws. No house, no job, no kids and I’m miserable. So. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Universe brings you everything when you're ready.

I know that feeling. Girl.

Wait.....! For ex, I've written 20 books( short stories) when did I start? Not til 42. U have time, relatively speaking.

Your RUclips video content is so good. However the video does not get many views. Because your RUclips channel has some problems. Do you want to know about the problems?

hey what do you think about the David Goggins mindset?

hey girlies 💕 here are the journal prompts I mentioned in the identity section of the video! It’s a fun starting point if you are stuck with who you actually want to be 💫 1. how do you enjoy spending your free time? (hobbies and interests e.g. drawing, ice skating, tennis, travelling, colouring, arts and crafts, learning a musical instrument etc) if you are struggling to think of anything, try think back to the things you enjoyed as a kid and go from there 🎨 2. what are your core morals and values in life? (e.g. prioritising family, mutual respect, gaining a good education, integrity etc.) 3. what don't you like about your current reality and how would you change this if money was not a question? (e.g. your living arrangements, boring job, lack of time to pursue interests etc.) 4. list your top 10 role models in life. (e.g. this could be tv/movie characters, family member, someone at work, celebrities, influencers, political figures) 5. what are the traits that you admire most in these people? (e.g. their integrity, their work ethic, the way they present themselves etc.) 6. what are the traits and characteristics of the very best version of yourself? (e.g. confident, well spoken, compassionate, generous, goes to the gym 4 times a week etc.) 7. which bad habits and traits do you want to leave behind? (e.g. waking up later than 8 am, emotional eating habits, doomscrolling etc.) refer to these journal prompts and your answers often in order to stay aligned with the identity you wish to embody in order to create your dream life 🪄✨💗

How I wish I would have someone to hang out with me. The last time I had dinner with one was already 9 months ago. Loneliness stresses one out the most ;(

Hi Bestie 🩷✨ I've never left a RUclips comment despite yeaaars of being on here a ton. But I'm feeling called to send you some support 🩷🩷🩷. Firstly, I really appreciate you talking on this and for your authenticity. I feel so understood, and I haven't felt that way on this topic before, so thank you 🩷 you're not alone in this 🫶🏻. You already have such clear and deep awareness around this, and are so much closer to the breakthrough you're looking for. Feeling like a failure and like a success are sides of the same coin, so you can rest assured that the mindful, compassionate way you're embracing these hard feelings may not look like the actions you think you need to take to be successful, but it's actually the most productive thing you can do. Taking care of yourself & feeling the best you can where you're at is step 1 to manifesting, and in my opinion, a good way to live in general. Please ignore anything I say if it doesn't resonate, you are your own best guide and have Everything you need Within you to live your best life 🙏🏻. That being said, I am feeling called to say, you already have So, So Much to show for your life, it's just hard to recognize because it's yours, you've become blind to it because they're so familiar, and they may not fit into society's shallow definition of success. But they are still just as significant as the achievements of the people we look up to, like friends you admire for making things happen. Nobody could live your life better than You, and nobody else knows entirely what it's taken you to get through the tough times and what you've had to do/think/feel to create better ones. Just you. You deserve more credit. And to feel proud of showing up to every day of your life this far the best you could and know, have the confidence, that you will continue to do your best and that's enough! It's plenty! There's nothing more you need to achieve to feel the love, success, confidence you desire now, you've already done everything you need to earn them (exist 😌✨). I really hope I haven't come off preachy 😅, and that what I've said makes sense, (my phone won't let me scroll to reread 😂, challenging my perfectionism too) my intention is just to send you a big virtual hug and a cheer squad 🥳✨ wishing you all the best 💐✨! You deserve it!

lots of people do rip

This is so real I'm almost 25 and I've been struggling with the weight of feeling behind and stagnant. I try not to let it get to me too much and remind myself that life isn't supposed to be a rat race and that even the people with the biggest accomplishments can feel a sense of emptiness too. I think it's important during this stage to set goals but also have fun and make as many cool memories as you can because I've realized that "having it all figured out" just isn't a real thing especially since anyone can feel that no matter the age. Hope this helps someone 💗

Great videos. I love how you inspire others. Keep following your heart.

same bro

the thumbnail made me laugh out loud, thank you.

Internalised capitalism

Hi - good evening. Glad to see your new video! I wish I would be able to achieve something next year as well.

This is what I’ve been thinking!

This is the first video of yours that I watched. RUclips it's kind of my life right now.

Hi - what is your Instagram?

Nice idea (the subtitles)

are we the same person

So am I. I am constantly gaslit by “you are too sensitive” allegations from those I consider “friends”, who in fact are covert narcissists devoid of empathy but managed to fool folks around them to their advantage.

You won't feel like that at 30 if you don't waste the next 5 years. I'm 32 deffo don't feel as sad as I did at 25.

Great suggestions though very hard to realise. How I wish I could stop letting emotions dictate my life and be able to achieve some level of success.

This is me right now. It is horrible.

Your eyebrows are brutal

For me, I’ve always preferred the winter. I love the wet weather and darker nights. I think it’s because, growing up, I used to feel envious of people enjoying the beach and going on summer holidays, as I never felt confident enough in myself to enjoy it the same way. But that’s just me - we’re all different! :) Next time you're feeling good, confident, or uplifted, try writing down why you feel that way. Likewise, when you're feeling low, write that down too. It's helpful to understand the specific events or emotions that contribute to those feelings. Thanks for sharing your insights as always! By the way, have you thought about deleting your TikTok account, not just the app? That extra step could help create a barrier and prevent you from reopening it when you're having what I like to call an 'off day. Also bit of a personal question, how often do you socialise with friends or family during the week, i'm just trying to find a happy median for myself.

I left my job at a TV station when 50 hours a week wouldnt pay the rent the market price doubled for rent in 3 years and all the stations paid garbage. So I just left, why work that many hours a week to be poor? I loved it but not 50 hours a week of it. Now I got my living situation figured and I'm making stuff for me, I'll be broke regardless might as well be happier!

Attention everyone. You have been brainwashed into believing what you believe about what you "should" have achieved and decided and done with your life. This is a universal experience. Everything you are told and shown is to make you believe that you are not good enough and you have fucked up everything.

I love your videos ❤ they are really helpful but you also have a nice soothing voice too which helps to listen and take your tips on board xx

thank you for your tips! I'm not good at sticking to plans, but if I have the idea in mind, sometimes it can steer me into the right direction

Good advice, I hope people listen. So many people are too hard on themselves. I like the default goals for bad days.👋

Uh, I'm a guy, I just clicked this by mistake, i'mma head out now

omgggg, you kinda remind me of sabrina carpenter in her disney days

I taught myself psychology and English I am an engineer I have so much trauma I had good grades till 10th grade Things started going downhill after I turned 17 n went to college