The PROS and CONS of a 4year gap between my kids | Siblings age gap

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

Комментарии • 31

  • @GabrielleSValentine
    @GabrielleSValentine 2 года назад +7

    I love when babies make those little cooing sounds! 😂😂🥰 I’m 31 weeks with a 6yo. My momma tells me that it’ll be good bc my oldest is so loving and she’ll be able to help, but I’m nervous bc she’s also very emotional and a bit self-centered so I can see her feeling like she’s not special anymore. I hope that’s not the case, but I’ve been praying on it! Thank you for this video. You’re so pretty!

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      The cooing is indeed adorable ❤️
      Her being self centered is justifiable because she was the only baby for 6yrs but trust me she'll adjust and start embracing her big sister role very well. I include my older son in almost everything I do for the new baby. Helping me gather changing nappy items, picking an outfit for his lil brother, also praising him on how he's doing an amazing job as big brother, I tell him how much I love the way he cares for his lil brother and takes care of him, etc. Psychologically he starts stepping up as that...a considerate big bro.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад

      Thank you Gabrielle 🤗❤️

    • @GabrielleSValentine
      @GabrielleSValentine 2 года назад +1

      @@SerameAndBeyond aww I love this so much. Wow, thank you for sharing this. I've been doing so much looking into how to prepare for this change, with not much found, but this response has helped me greatly. More than anything so far! Thank you for taking the time to respond and to also give such awesome, reassuring advice!! 💖

    • @GabrielleSValentine
      @GabrielleSValentine 2 года назад

      @@SerameAndBeyond you're welcome! 💕

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      @@GabrielleSValentine you're welcome. All the best mama ❤️

  • @Bobobaggins93747
    @Bobobaggins93747 2 года назад +6

    Thanks for sharing! I used to be insecure about age gaps, but this helps me so much. My son will be 4.5yrs old when his sibling is born this upcoming September! I'm nervous about it all, but I know there are so many benefits and my kids will love each other regardless of age 💙✋🏽

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 года назад +1

      Absolutely Heidi. All the best with your delivery. May your new baby bring joy, warmth, love and wealth to your home.
      Don't worry. Your son will help out alot.

    • @Bobobaggins93747
      @Bobobaggins93747 2 года назад

      @@SerameAndBeyond oh my goodness, thank you so much!!!😘😘 Virtual hugs from me to you mama ✋✋🤗🤗

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 3 года назад +8

    When the baby start crawling the older one will find him annoying, but when he starts walking he will love it because they can walk together

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад +1

      Hahahaha so accurate 🤣

    • @thethemakhele8450
      @thethemakhele8450 3 года назад

      @@SerameAndBeyond I saw it with my brothers kids

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад

      @@thethemakhele8450 personal experience

    • @dk1285
      @dk1285 2 года назад

      Personal experience as well.my elder son was 5years when his baby bro was born.

  • @mmapulat7994
    @mmapulat7994 3 года назад +1

    Love your looks on the videos Serame

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 3 года назад +4

    My son is turning 6 and I am not pregnant imagine when it happens 😂

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад +1

      They actually eventually catch up. My Lil sis and I are 10yrs apart and we like twins now

    • @thethemakhele8450
      @thethemakhele8450 3 года назад +1

      @@SerameAndBeyond Yho guys 10years is a lot I would have forgotten everything about babies lol

  • @mabsmasemola767
    @mabsmasemola767 3 года назад +2

    I enjoy your content 🥰

  • @thethemakhele8450
    @thethemakhele8450 3 года назад +2

    You look great 👍🏾

  • @mmapulat7994
    @mmapulat7994 3 года назад +2

    In retrospect I wish I had a 2year gap atleast. I cant imagine changing a nappy or breastfeeding at night again yohhhhhh

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад

      I literally had to relearn all these things. It felt like I'm doing it for the first time 🤣

  • @NanabianB
    @NanabianB 3 года назад +1

    Sis, are you using the 50mm lens?

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад

      Nope. I'm still using the kit lens. I haven't gotten the adapter for the 50mm lens yet

  • @Nessss346
    @Nessss346 3 года назад +1

    Ola wants to be in the videos now😂😂😂

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад

      😆😆😆 he really wants to kickstart his RUclips career

  • @ntombenhlemarase2775
    @ntombenhlemarase2775 3 года назад +1

    You say "okay" a lot🙄 but nice video I can relate, thanks for this

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  3 года назад

      Lol I didn't even realize that. Thanks for watching ❤