Really? I had to much respect and love for my Father to ever fight with him... Even when I was in the wrong, I would never disrespect him in that manner.. So yeah I guess I was just raised with manners along with how to respect and value my Fathers opinion... 🤨🤨🤨
this goes DEEPER! than a transmission! i feel she’s hoping his “fatherly love” will kick in, don’t see that happening! she keeps going back to him (because that’s her father); WHATEVER! soured the relationship between the parents, the plaintiff is the one suffering, she WANTS! her father’s love! mentioning the holidays SAYS A LOT! i feel for her, but she needs to move on & love him from afar, there’s no love there on the defendant’s part (my opinion), wishing her future happinesses, peace & serenity!❤️
"I'm used to this." That's so sad. And, no matter how much anger or how justified you are, one always has a part that longs for their parent. It's such a shame that this young woman can't count on her dad, despite giving him chances that he likely didn't even deserve.
Yes very sad to see. As a parent, I couldn’t imagine not talking to my child for a year or two. Relationship between parents is one thing. Stuff happens, things don’t work out sometimes. That’s hard enough on a child. Then to have a parent basically abandon you is just inexcusable.
well he became a father at a very young age . she is already 20 and he is only 40 . younger fathers have less life experience and they are not as mature as fathers who had kids when they were in their 30s or 40s . most people who are 20 have dads that are 50 or older . i think he loves her but because he and his daughter are at such a young age , its gonna take another 10-15 years for both of them to mature more and have a better relationship.
@@marleonetti7 I honestly have no idea why you keep making excuses for a deadbeat adult father who is now 40 and is STILL not treating her like a daughter. he is 40 years old now and he STILL goes years in between without calling her to just see how she is!! How the hell can you make excuses for a guy like that??
Lmao she ungrateful asf. No one knows the whole story but she seems like the type to want more and more and uses the fact he isn’t with her mom as an excuse.
Right. I was fortunate enough to have a father who was a protector and provider. He wasn't perfect of course, but he was a man who took his role as father seriously. I can't imagine him treating any of his children like this. HE would have paid for our car repairs in a heartbeat, especially us girls.
@@Childfree334 I can totally relate! I am 31 years old and I can STILL call on my father for anything I need. I was raised by my father, so I am a DADDY'S GIRL! LOL. I'm thankful!
@@LadyWhiggy call or text him everyday and just say "I love you". You can't do more for him and he won't always be around to hear those words. I guarantee once he's gone the one thing you'll wish you did more of was tell him you love him. ❤️
It's so very clear what happened here. He is seeing his daughter as her mom and there's some parental alienation going on. On both sides. It's so unfair that people continue to put their children in this situation. Only the children suffer and as a result the next generation is weaker, and less trusting. This is literally why the world is going to shit. No loyalty even within families.
i dont think he was dismissive . she admitted that he has always helped her with her cars in the past . transmissions can be a very expensive and complicated repair . my dad used to get pissed off at us kids for much more minor things than trying to get him to be involved in a complicated messy repair job . i think he tried to help her with this but he being a young inexperienced father and man at only 40 years old and having a daughter already 20 was too much at once for him to deal with so he told her do what u want if u want to sue me then go ahead i cant stop u . they will both mature later in life and this will be put behind them im sure .
Well I see you know nothing about cars it would of been close to impossible to fix that nissan 2012 that car has been recalled so I see why he had the car for so long.
@@lildgame4321 a quick google search and the reason for the recall were airbags and suspension. The suspension stated it just needed a bolt torqued tighter. I didn't read the airbags, but even my car had an airbags recall. It didn't scrap my entire car, I took it to the dealership and they updated the computer. Fixed. If she had both those issues, they were fixable. And this case had *nothing* to do with a recall. Nothing to do with the transmission or the fact the dad said the reason was finding a transmission. He admitted the transmission was designed that it couldn't be rebuilt, yet he was rebuilding it anyway (also admitting he wasnt a transmission mechanic). And finally stating the reason it wasnt finished was because they couldn't get a new filter. The daughter learned a valuable lesson though. Her dad is an AH who cannot be trusted. He was more than willing to screw her over.
i listened to the whole case and i dont see it that way . he sounded like any typical father who tried to help his daughter and things beyond his control caused them to lose the 800 dollars .
Women today aren't a walk in the park either. You women don't do your job as girlfriend and wives listening to this Materialistic Country who leaves you broke and without a man making the kids suffer. Both parents need help and therapy.
This broke my heart so bad. I see my father in him and myself in her. To have to always be the one to reach out begging for a father's love 😩 I wish I knew her so I can save her from a life of pain!!!
You can't save anyone, nor should you. Humans only learn "lessons" by going through it themselves. Deny them that process and you do more damage than good.
@@GummyBearWA Wow profound words! You are absolutely right. Without that experience I would not be who I am or have the healthy family environment I have now. Best lessons I've ever learned actually!!
Look at it as a blessing maybe he was not the man that you needed him to be my father was not around either at first it hurt but then I thought about all the things I learned from him not being around and to be honest I'm at peace I have a loving mother and family that makes up for that empty space most importantly I have GOD and you do too sis.
This is crazy! My husband is a mechanic and he can do a transmission job in an afternoon. If it needs rebuilding, instead of just a replacement, it might be a week.
It's extremely rare that a child sues their parent on TPC for return of money for a business transaction. Loans, yes, but I can't remember any outright business transactions.
im divided on this one . i feel bad for her , she is so soft spoken and seems like she is sad to have to sue him and on the other hand her dad is a young father and he has probably tried his best to help her the best he could and he feels she does not respect him as her father even though he has been helping her and her mom financially all her life . hopefully when she gets older she will not see him as such a bad guy especially when she finds out how many people never had a dad around at all ever .
@@marleonetti7 The "father" obviously didn't try, at the end, it was said that he had been in court for child support. So not only was he not there growing up, but he CHOSE not to support his children. My dad was an amazing father and was always there for me, but I had a child with a man that was a deadbeat like this piece of s***. He was never there for his daughter, never reached out her entire life and I always had to take him to court for child support, because he couldn't come up with $50 a week. Long story short he OD'd and left behind a $30,000 child support balance. So it is INCREDIBLY frustrating when people make excuses for deadbeat dads!!!
You people don’t listen!!! You jump to false conclusions before you know the whole story!!! This poor, poor baby chick expected her father to fix two cars that SHE wrecked without having to pay for it! You go calling him a deadbeat when he said he had told his daughter he would do the best he could but she would have to buy any parts that were needed. He would not charge her for the labour but he could not AFFORD to get the parts for free for her. Then she says she has money problems but she says she agreed to slowly pay him and he would slowly fix the car as she supplied money for parts!!! Then she hounds him to hurry up but does not supply any more money for parts needed. I don’t blame him for getting frustrated if she continually goes to his work place to hound him in front of his customers!!! Then to top it all off she manages to find enough money to buy another vehicle (instead of buying necessary parts to fix car #1) which she then promptly wrecks that vehicle as well and now expects her father to fix for her. Apparently, according to her father, she seems to have a real knack for wrecking vehicles!! Then to show her dad what a sweet, innocent little Angel she is in front of customers, she jets his car!!! The poor man has enough in his plate with his ADULT daughter without people who can’t read or listen calling him names!!!
I’m so thankful for my dad . He did so much good for so many children as he was a well known Pediatric Surgeon. He is stable and tried his very best to raise my sister and I. He’s slowing down now which hurts my ♥️. So many people are messed up BECAUSE of their parents. Talk about abandon issues…
Wow he lies soooooo much. So sad for her that this is her father but happy that regardless of that, she is extremely strong and handled herself really well. May God bless her always.
If this customer wasn't his daughter, the transmission wouldn't have been 800 bucks. The way she looked when he was talking about the way she acted at his shop and the huge scratch on his car. She did it
So she's in a dispute with her father about money he supposedly owes her for her old car and how long it took without getting it fixed, yet she takes her new car to him to get fixed when she damages YET ANOTHER car. Yeah I believe him when he says she's irresponsible. Everyone bagging on the dad but it's equally plausible he's been there especially to fix her vehicles when she's irresponsible and because it's not what she wants she doesn't see it as love. He cheated on her mom (which she brought up for no reason but to put him down) and I can see the mom making her daughter bitter towards her dad. For a deadbeat she sure has no problem going to him when she needs a fix huh.
She’s trying to rely on her father, as a child should. She explained she has money issues and can pay him over time. Which you cannot do with other car repair shops, you have to pay up front. Situation isn’t that hard to understand.
@@angeltellez5276 rely on him and use him are two different things. Just because she feels he's her father and should do her favors doesn't mean that's the way it should go. Someone has to pay for the car, so in the mean time he's either putting in money to to help with the multiple cars she's messed up and/or she's leaving it there taking up space while she takes her time getting the money together. Not really that hard to understand that some daughters take the attitude of their mothers when they've been told their dad is a certain way. I've seen it, lived it. Also not that hard to understand that not everyone shows love the same. I've seen deadbeat dad, but I've also seen deadbeat moms and kids. Everyone so quick to defend her because they feel like it's their story...well it's not. We aren't there, both stories are equally plausible, I just took the side of the least popular because I don't follow the herd. Not that hard to understand that is it.
You choosing to “not follow a herd” doesn’t make you special, or correct. As a father, he needs to take responsibility. And even if she does have an attitude, he has some part in that. He should have been a father. In addition, he’s choosing to take her car. Most likely because he feels he owes her for being trash. He’s a grown ass man who’s also choosing to take in the vehicle to work on, while also making empty promises. She also paid him and he failed to refund her for his failure to fix the vehicle. Also put a comma next time if you’re going to try to flex. Not that hard to understand that, is it?
@@honestyisadyingvirtue I agree...she comes off like a brat... I believe she wants everything for free from him. Because you're right she's over there talking about him cheating on her mom like that's any of her business. Who goes out of their way to tell their child personal problems between them and their father? A bitter woman who made her children bitter against the dad.
Poor girl. Beautiful too. As the Father of 2 Daughters, I could never imagine not worshiping my Queens. I live for them and 'would do anything for them. Sad that this young girl doesn't have the kind of relationship with her Dad that she deserves. Her Father clearly doesn't care about her. Damn shame. I wouldn't even refer to him as Dad. 10:37- The tantrum she pulled at his shop was a cry out to him to please be her Dad and not the a_ _ hole she's stuck with. But he'll never see it this way bcz it's all about him. She's better off embracing that she has no Father and pouring all her love n focus on her Mother.
@@lildgame4321 You work it out. You don't write off your own kids. Could never imagine suing/being sued by my kids. Just my own moral compass. Appreciate the comment though. Totally fine with agreeing to disagree.
This is the same guy that said "I don't have proof I paid the tow, I used Zelle send the money". I can pull up my Zelle and have proof of payment going back to the start of my account.
My father is a mechanic and I couldn't imagine suing him over my car with all the free hours he puts in . Also, couldn't her dad counter sue for the amount of time he spent on the car. I don't know how it works but don't mechanics charge for labor?
Yes they do charge by the hour actually. And transmissions cost more than $800 so she was getting a huge deal. There's something more than a transmission going on here. When she starts out with her dad cheated on her mom, which is none of her business, it's between them, I was like...ok.. what does that have to do with your car 😶
Don't know why, but I feel like the issues with their relationship goes alot deeper than that $800 dollars this is dysfunction and toxicity at its highest level, they truly need to fix things while there is still time
That is very difficult because a lot of parents don't want to hear it. They think kids should somehow worship them for breeding no matter how bad their parenting is. I have worked in pediatrics for years now and can tell you many of these so called parents are going to end up very lonely and neglected in the geriatric years because of the way they treat their kids.
It’s not the daughters responsibility to fix this relationship. She didn’t ask to be born, if it is going to be fixed, HE needs to do so and begin the process.
@@keyeviondavis9647 have you considered that by leaving his daughter at 2 and having an off and on relationship with her is the source of that attitude? This is HIS consequence for not being a parent to her. No matter what the situation is, coming and going in and out of your child’s life is something the parent controls not the child and the resentment builds. 100% his fault. And based on what I heard and I have no other thing to go off of, neither one brought the mother into it and the father never said anything negative so it’s not like the mother is keeping the child away from him.
That scenario has occurred on a combined total of over 50 years of TV court broadcasting ( Judge Judy, Judge Mathis, People's Court, etc) I can't help but think most if not all people are dumb af. It's very few episodes of ANY OF the court tv shows on air where plaintiff/defendant bring proof. It's disturbing.
I think he was trying to say that if she got the (new) car back without damage(and only paid for the brakes), and he can show the video of all the damage to the car from the crash, then obviously he fixed the car. Not sure why the judge wasn't following that logic. Business man still should have evidence to prove his case but I was picking up what he was putting down.
That would just show that the car got fixed. Not that he was the one who paid for it to be fixed. Especially when she has a receipt from another mechanic claiming to have fixed the damage.
@@DaniWoodson1 The fact that the daughter admitted to giving her father the car after the crash and him giving it back to her is the proof. Her receipt was only for brakes and something else. If he was trying to show the judge a video, clearly there was other VISIBLE damage done to the car. That would mean that the dad either fixed that damage or paid to have it fix. She seems to admit that he did something, she just said that it "still" needed additional work.
@@samantham2693 She admitted that he called someone else asking for a price quote in front of her but I don't remember her admitting that he did work on the new car. I could've missed that though.The video would had to have been of him literally working on the car to prove that he's owed something and it still wouldn't have proved how much. He' a business owner. There's absolutely no way he shouldn't have his receipts if he did work. It's on him
@ JamesRoger thank for this advice! I am the oldest girl. My dad was never in my life now he sick & older. Guess who takes care of him! ME! Depends on me 1st. I do it but James secretly I say in my mind you did everything for them and they go months to visit you I work 2 jobs like them go to church but still come every 2 days because when he gone I want to be a peace. Thanks James!
She's got a princess attitude, she should not be involved with her parents shenanigans. She admits she has money issues so expects her dad to bankroll her. He's no prize either.
If I'm not mistaken, almost all Nissan's from 2010 and newer are the cvt's. Controlled variable transmission or something like that. And in my very limited knowledge, almost no one will take on rebuilding one of those because anything could be wrong in any little small thing could cause it to fail and they are hard as can be to figure out.
I knew she was my age as soon as she described her and her fathers story. Its too many of us to 20-21 year olds (the new adults) experiencing the same thing. Trusting our parents to fight against the problematic cycle of trauma. Its ok to choose yourself...even against your mom and dad... hate to say :(
He seems shady. But she seems like a liar too. I think she damaged a car… thought her dad would pay for the repair (or at least cover the costs until she could pay him back)… bought another car and damaged it… and she’s out of money to keep buying single-use cars
Fun Fact: Nissans like this Altima in this case have the worst CVT transmissions on the market. So beware of Front wheel drive Nissans with CVT transmissions. Also he could’ve got a transmission imported from Japan with less than 60k miles for cheap.
I'm so glad you said it!!! I just had to replace a CVT transmission on my 2018 Nissan Sentra...they have a multi lawsuit on them an all...all they have done was extend a warranty on the Tran to 75K miles... the transmission is extremely expensive even to upkeep...flush and such but to replace...
Father was telling the truth. Dealerships now claim "Proprietary Knowledge" on certain parts and only they are allowed to fix them. Had this exact issue with, I think it was a Nissan Sentra 2013 transmission. Also, you could see her hiding a smirk when he was talking about her keying his car.
The father is horrible. Does this guy have no shame? The daughter needs to realize that her dad is just not a good guy/dad and move on. It is sad but that is the fact. Some people are just not worth a damn.
Dad looks like a kid still only problem is he still acts like one. Sounds like the daughter is more mature than he is. He had an excuse for everything literally! I don’t have a receipt for anything and I can’t get one because whatever. Honestly it’s pretty sad if he knows how to fix stuff then fix it but don’t play with this girl and just let her car sit there for years. That’s ridiculous. Step up and be a dad and do what you need to do and get stuff done if not tell her she needs to take care of it herself and give her the opportunity to.
My parents divorced when I was three, but my dad was there for me up until his last day. I do not have one bad memory about my dad. Not sure why some men take their children for granted, but they need to know *it hurts them deeply. If this dude ever watches this video, he'll see he's robbed the joy from the eyes of his daughter.*
First off my child is NOT going to be disrespectful to me at ANY age tf! She carrying on and doing all that while her dad is helping her when she can be paying way more on that expensive mechanical work! Be grateful lil girl and stop being disrespectful. It’ll take you further in life.
It funny, Judge Milan says 'each one of my girls have one'. It should be, 'each one if our girls have one'. I just think it's funny, but what a beautiful crafty idea. I love her.
So shocked when she said father.. they look the same age 🤯
He’s never had to mature so he doesn’t age.
He must have had her really young.
Like 15. Way younger than her. He's trash.
I kept thinking, they mean brother right? gotta be a mistake...
Exactly what I thought.
No matter how many times my dad and I fought he was always there for me when I needed him. And I'm grateful for it.
Really? I had to much respect and love for my Father to ever fight with him... Even when I was in the wrong, I would never disrespect him in that manner.. So yeah I guess I was just raised with manners along with how to respect and value my Fathers opinion... 🤨🤨🤨
I never, EVER once fought with my father, he was a king to me. Mom was the baddie.
@@getin3949 Yess ...Exactly!!! 👍
@@getin3949 guess your life is oh so perfect then.
@@angelah7094 it's too. I had too much respect... Learn some English, dude and get back to me later.
this goes DEEPER! than a transmission! i feel she’s hoping his
“fatherly love” will kick in, don’t see that happening! she keeps going back to him (because that’s her father); WHATEVER! soured the relationship between the parents, the plaintiff is the one suffering, she WANTS! her father’s love! mentioning the holidays SAYS A LOT!
i feel for her, but she needs to move on & love him from afar, there’s no love there on the defendant’s part (my opinion), wishing her future happinesses, peace & serenity!❤️
I think it’s literally just about the transmission
@@ZovaBe Yess! 🤣🤣🤣
I really saw it differently. I think the mother had a loose tongue that sinks ships.
@@angelah7094 😂💀
She is going to have relationship problems in the future from her relationship with her father.
Sadly, I can relate to this young lady on so many levels. Sometimes, you have to let people go, blood or not.
💯👏
Yeah me too.
So true
Ain’t that the truth!!!!!!!
Blood isn’t always thicker than water..
"I'm used to this." That's so sad. And, no matter how much anger or how justified you are, one always has a part that longs for their parent. It's such a shame that this young woman can't count on her dad, despite giving him chances that he likely didn't even deserve.
Yes very sad to see. As a parent, I couldn’t imagine not talking to my child for a year or two. Relationship between parents is one thing. Stuff happens, things don’t work out sometimes. That’s hard enough on a child. Then to have a parent basically abandon you is just inexcusable.
well he became a father at a very young age . she is already 20 and he is only 40 . younger fathers have less life experience and they are not as mature as fathers who had kids when they were in their 30s or 40s . most people who are 20 have dads that are 50 or older . i think he loves her but because he and his daughter are at such a young age , its gonna take another 10-15 years for both of them to mature more and have a better relationship.
@@marleonetti7 I honestly have no idea why you keep making excuses for a deadbeat adult father who is now 40 and is STILL not treating her like a daughter. he is 40 years old now and he STILL goes years in between without calling her to just see how she is!! How the hell can you make excuses for a guy like that??
Lmao she ungrateful asf. No one knows the whole story but she seems like the type to want more and more and uses the fact he isn’t with her mom as an excuse.
She handled herself like an adult very mature . It’s unfortunate she has a father of that sort
Yesss! It’s like their brains switched! Ughhhh
Wrong. an adult would have paid to get her car repaired.
Its also,sad she is a spoilt,privelidged little madam..
Lord, I thank God for the man who raised me. I couldn't imagine having a father like this. 😩🥺😥
Right. I was fortunate enough to have a father who was a protector and provider. He wasn't perfect of course, but he was a man who took his role as father seriously. I can't imagine him treating any of his children like this. HE would have paid for our car repairs in a heartbeat, especially us girls.
@@Childfree334 I can totally relate! I am 31 years old and I can STILL call on my father for anything I need. I was raised by my father, so I am a DADDY'S GIRL! LOL. I'm thankful!
@@LadyWhiggy We are kindred. I was a DADDY'S GIRL too. I would give anything to have him back. 😔
@@Childfree334 Oh, dear. I am so sorry to hear that! 😥😥
@@LadyWhiggy call or text him everyday and just say "I love you". You can't do more for him and he won't always be around to hear those words. I guarantee once he's gone the one thing you'll wish you did more of was tell him you love him. ❤️
It's so very clear what happened here. He is seeing his daughter as her mom and there's some parental alienation going on. On both sides. It's so unfair that people continue to put their children in this situation. Only the children suffer and as a result the next generation is weaker, and less trusting. This is literally why the world is going to shit. No loyalty even within families.
True words.
He's a genuine 💩
This is the truth !!!!
Your waaaay off.. 😆 🤣 😂 Amauri definitely is not looking at her like the mom. That's weird 😆
How is he seeing his daughter as her mom? That’s so weird.
Not completely. Bottom line is that she was acting cheap and trying to get a deal- AND NOT PAY HIM. He got tired of it and now she is complaining.
When Doug Llewellyn says, "I feel sorry for you," you know he really means it. He's usually quite the savage.
Another dead beat “father” that’s acting irritated and disgusted towards the daughter just sad man hope she finds happiness ❤️
I got this vibe even BEFORE watching the episode 😩
What an embarrassing person this so called father is…
Smh unfortunately this is extremely sad and the fact that he’s so dismissive to his own daughter is crazy 💔
Imagine what a scumbag he is to other women in his life ...goodness gracious
i dont think he was dismissive . she admitted that he has always helped her with her cars in the past . transmissions can be a very expensive and complicated repair . my dad used to get pissed off at us kids for much more minor things than trying to get him to be involved in a complicated messy repair job . i think he tried to help her with this but he being a young inexperienced father and man at only 40 years old and having a daughter already 20 was too much at once for him to deal with so he told her do what u want if u want to sue me then go ahead i cant stop u . they will both mature later in life and this will be put behind them im sure .
"I'd like to subscribe to your newsletter" lmao love it🤣
Father and Daughter no way they look like brother and sister, WOW 💯
I know! I thought they were a couple
Young parent. Dad Might be 15 years older than daughter.
@@cindymann3673-Dad is aging well 💯
WIth Roe getting overturned, we will probably see a lot more of these families-parent and children, often of color, merely 14 to 15 years apart.
He's gotta filter on. 🤣
So he fleeced her, took her money and didn't return a fixed car, to "teach her a lesson"
Father of the year material /sarcasm.
Well I see you know nothing about cars it would of been close to impossible to fix that nissan 2012 that car has been recalled so I see why he had the car for so long.
@@lildgame4321 a quick google search and the reason for the recall were airbags and suspension.
The suspension stated it just needed a bolt torqued tighter. I didn't read the airbags, but even my car had an airbags recall. It didn't scrap my entire car, I took it to the dealership and they updated the computer. Fixed. If she had both those issues, they were fixable. And this case had *nothing* to do with a recall.
Nothing to do with the transmission or the fact the dad said the reason was finding a transmission. He admitted the transmission was designed that it couldn't be rebuilt, yet he was rebuilding it anyway (also admitting he wasnt a transmission mechanic). And finally stating the reason it wasnt finished was because they couldn't get a new filter.
The daughter learned a valuable lesson though. Her dad is an AH who cannot be trusted. He was more than willing to screw her over.
That Father treating his daughter like a random girlfriend.
Imagine how he treated her mom? Ugh 😩 what’s with this jerk!
i listened to the whole case and i dont see it that way . he sounded like any typical father who tried to help his daughter and things beyond his control caused them to lose the 800 dollars .
What??? How??? That’s such a weird thing to say.
Women today aren't a walk in the park either. You women don't do your job as girlfriend and wives listening to this Materialistic Country who leaves you broke and without a man making the kids suffer. Both parents need help and therapy.
This broke my heart so bad. I see my father in him and myself in her. To have to always be the one to reach out begging for a father's love 😩 I wish I knew her so I can save her from a life of pain!!!
You can't save anyone, nor should you. Humans only learn "lessons" by going through it themselves. Deny them that process and you do more damage than good.
@@GummyBearWA Wow profound words! You are absolutely right. Without that experience I would not be who I am or have the healthy family environment I have now. Best lessons I've ever learned actually!!
Beautiful gesture!🥰
Look at it as a blessing maybe he was not the man that you needed him to be my father was not around either at first it hurt but then I thought about all the things I learned from him not being around and to be honest I'm at peace I have a loving mother and family that makes up for that empty space most importantly I have GOD and you do too sis.
Yessssssssss 🥺
JM: what happened mr Martinez
Him: OK, what happened was, I'm a deadbeat dad and left
That's why so many people face hardships bcuz their family is wack like this🤦♂️
@@payableondeath9091 Tell me about it.
This is crazy! My husband is a mechanic and he can do a transmission job in an afternoon. If it needs rebuilding, instead of just a replacement, it might be a week.
lol
Not everyone is fortunate.
exactly!!!! my dads a mechanic and he would NEVER!!
It's extremely rare that a child sues their parent on TPC for return of money for a business transaction. Loans, yes, but I can't remember any outright business transactions.
im divided on this one . i feel bad for her , she is so soft spoken and seems like she is sad to have to sue him and on the other hand her dad is a young father and he has probably tried his best to help her the best he could and he feels she does not respect him as her father even though he has been helping her and her mom financially all her life . hopefully when she gets older she will not see him as such a bad guy especially when she finds out how many people never had a dad around at all ever .
@@marleonetti7 The "father" obviously didn't try, at the end, it was said that he had been in court for child support. So not only was he not there growing up, but he CHOSE not to support his children. My dad was an amazing father and was always there for me, but I had a child with a man that was a deadbeat like this piece of s***. He was never there for his daughter, never reached out her entire life and I always had to take him to court for child support, because he couldn't come up with $50 a week. Long story short he OD'd and left behind a $30,000 child support balance. So it is INCREDIBLY frustrating when people make excuses for deadbeat dads!!!
Imagine lying and taking money from your own daughter that man is a deadbeat 😂😂
He's sitting there like he doesn't care.
@@crystalshaw8744 he even called the lawsuit a joke.
Not defending this dirtbag, but she spent the entire case running him down. Why would you ask help from a person you don't trust?
You people don’t listen!!! You jump to false conclusions before you know the whole story!!! This poor, poor baby chick expected her father to fix two cars that SHE wrecked without having to pay for it! You go calling him a deadbeat when he said he had told his daughter he would do the best he could but she would have to buy any parts that were needed. He would not charge her for the labour but he could not AFFORD to get the parts for free for her. Then she says she has money problems but she says she agreed to slowly pay him and he would slowly fix the car as she supplied money for parts!!! Then she hounds him to hurry up but does not supply any more money for parts needed. I don’t blame him for getting frustrated if she continually goes to his work place to hound him in front of his customers!!! Then to top it all off she manages to find enough money to buy another vehicle (instead of buying necessary parts to fix car #1) which she then promptly wrecks that vehicle as well and now expects her father to fix for her. Apparently, according to her father, she seems to have a real knack for wrecking vehicles!! Then to show her dad what a sweet, innocent little Angel she is in front of customers, she jets his car!!! The poor man has enough in his plate with his ADULT daughter without people who can’t read or listen calling him names!!!
They look like twins! My gawd! How can you look at yourself and play yourself like that! Literally it’s like looking in the mirror sir!
I’m so thankful for my dad . He did so much good for so many children as he was a well known Pediatric Surgeon. He is stable and tried his very best to raise my sister and I. He’s slowing down now which hurts my ♥️. So many people are messed up BECAUSE of their parents. Talk about abandon issues…
Wow he lies soooooo much. So sad for her that this is her father but happy that regardless of that, she is extremely strong and handled herself really well. May God bless her always.
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If this customer wasn't his daughter, the transmission wouldn't have been 800 bucks. The way she looked when he was talking about the way she acted at his shop and the huge scratch on his car. She did it
i agree
So she's in a dispute with her father about money he supposedly owes her for her old car and how long it took without getting it fixed, yet she takes her new car to him to get fixed when she damages YET ANOTHER car. Yeah I believe him when he says she's irresponsible. Everyone bagging on the dad but it's equally plausible he's been there especially to fix her vehicles when she's irresponsible and because it's not what she wants she doesn't see it as love. He cheated on her mom (which she brought up for no reason but to put him down) and I can see the mom making her daughter bitter towards her dad. For a deadbeat she sure has no problem going to him when she needs a fix huh.
She’s trying to rely on her father, as a child should. She explained she has money issues and can pay him over time. Which you cannot do with other car repair shops, you have to pay up front. Situation isn’t that hard to understand.
@@angeltellez5276 rely on him and use him are two different things. Just because she feels he's her father and should do her favors doesn't mean that's the way it should go. Someone has to pay for the car, so in the mean time he's either putting in money to to help with the multiple cars she's messed up and/or she's leaving it there taking up space while she takes her time getting the money together. Not really that hard to understand that some daughters take the attitude of their mothers when they've been told their dad is a certain way. I've seen it, lived it. Also not that hard to understand that not everyone shows love the same. I've seen deadbeat dad, but I've also seen deadbeat moms and kids. Everyone so quick to defend her because they feel like it's their story...well it's not. We aren't there, both stories are equally plausible, I just took the side of the least popular because I don't follow the herd. Not that hard to understand that is it.
You choosing to “not follow a herd” doesn’t make you special, or correct. As a father, he needs to take responsibility. And even if she does have an attitude, he has some part in that. He should have been a father. In addition, he’s choosing to take her car. Most likely because he feels he owes her for being trash. He’s a grown ass man who’s also choosing to take in the vehicle to work on, while also making empty promises. She also paid him and he failed to refund her for his failure to fix the vehicle. Also put a comma next time if you’re going to try to flex. Not that hard to understand that, is it?
@@honestyisadyingvirtue I agree...she comes off like a brat... I believe she wants everything for free from him. Because you're right she's over there talking about him cheating on her mom like that's any of her business. Who goes out of their way to tell their child personal problems between them and their father? A bitter woman who made her children bitter against the dad.
Poor girl. Beautiful too. As the Father of 2 Daughters, I could never imagine not worshiping my Queens. I live for them and 'would do anything for them. Sad that this young girl doesn't have the kind of relationship with her Dad that she deserves. Her Father clearly doesn't care about her. Damn shame. I wouldn't even refer to him as Dad. 10:37- The tantrum she pulled at his shop was a cry out to him to please be her Dad and not the a_ _ hole she's stuck with. But he'll never see it this way bcz it's all about him. She's better off embracing that she has no Father and pouring all her love n focus on her Mother.
Well he did say she was disrespectful & some of the stories she said don't add up
@@lildgame4321 You work it out. You don't write off your own kids. Could never imagine suing/being sued by my kids. Just my own moral compass. Appreciate the comment though. Totally fine with agreeing to disagree.
Call your accountant if that's true and ask for a copy. Call the place that you bought the stuff from and ask for a copy if any of that's true
This is the same guy that said "I don't have proof I paid the tow, I used Zelle send the money". I can pull up my Zelle and have proof of payment going back to the start of my account.
This man would win Father of the Year when compared to mine. My own father stole my truck, wrecked it and stole the insurance payout for it ($10,000).
How did he do all that? If the insurance was in your name, how did he steal your check?
Forged my signature and cashed it at a check-cashing store.
Wow that’s horrible. Sorry to hear that!
@@jamslam5641 He evil for that. Would have immediately said fraud and he'd be in jail father or not.
I guess you win the one up on this one.
It took MY mechanic 7 months and $850 to fix my transmission. It isn't a simple job and the shops are always backed up.
bs, you can get a scrapyard transaxle in a day and it takes a day to remove it and replace it
@@davidewersphotography1013 I'm so happy for you.😁
get a new mechanic
yeah bro… you need a new mechanic for real
He is such a liar. He paid through Zelle, but there's no record of it? BS!! What a POS.
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He said "he thought it was a joke", no YOU are the joke!
The dad looks the same age as the daughter
He was probably 14 when she was born.
Happy Tuesday Everyone
He's being sued by his DAUGHTER?🤦
Imagine how he treats his "customers"🙄
At end he claims she's disrespectful! 🤣
My father is a mechanic and I couldn't imagine suing him over my car with all the free hours he puts in . Also, couldn't her dad counter sue for the amount of time he spent on the car. I don't know how it works but don't mechanics charge for labor?
Yes they do charge by the hour actually. And transmissions cost more than $800 so she was getting a huge deal. There's something more than a transmission going on here. When she starts out with her dad cheated on her mom, which is none of her business, it's between them, I was like...ok.. what does that have to do with your car 😶
I'm thinking she had one of those badly engineered cvt transmissions from Nissan.
You could be right. My daughter did and it was replaced for free.
Don't know why, but I feel like the issues with their relationship goes alot deeper than that $800 dollars this is dysfunction and toxicity at its highest level, they truly need to fix things while there is still time
That is very difficult because a lot of parents don't want to hear it. They think kids should somehow worship them for breeding no matter how bad their parenting is. I have worked in pediatrics for years now and can tell you many of these so called parents are going to end up very lonely and neglected in the geriatric years because of the way they treat their kids.
How old was he when she was born? That's babies having babies but now they grown
Duh
It’s not the daughters responsibility to fix this relationship. She didn’t ask to be born, if it is going to be fixed, HE needs to do so and begin the process.
@@keyeviondavis9647 have you considered that by leaving his daughter at 2 and having an off and on relationship with her is the source of that attitude? This is HIS consequence for not being a parent to her.
No matter what the situation is, coming and going in and out of your child’s life is something the parent controls not the child and the resentment builds. 100% his fault. And based on what I heard and I have no other thing to go off of, neither one brought the mother into it and the father never said anything negative so it’s not like the mother is keeping the child away from him.
I'd like to subscribe to your newsletter!!! hahahahah!! oh man, that was a good one, Judge Milian. I laughed out loud at that.
He looks like her brother
Well heck if she's 20, how old is HEEE???
Someone in the comments claims he's 38.
My vote is 36. Got mom pregnant at about 15 . He is a cutie and probably gets a lot of ladies.
Coming to court with no proof of what you spent on repairs. Smart, very smart.
That scenario has occurred on a combined total of over 50 years of TV court broadcasting ( Judge Judy, Judge Mathis, People's Court, etc) I can't help but think most if not all people are dumb af. It's very few episodes of ANY OF the court tv shows on air where plaintiff/defendant bring proof. It's disturbing.
@@rosej5029 You're right. I'm baffled.
@@BREEZYM6015 i don't think he was really trying to win
@@lildgame4321 I guess not.
To paraphrase author Maya Angelou, "the daughter didn't believe him the 1st & 2nd time, he showed her who he was".
She's young. Hope she catches on, or she'll, pick someone just like him.
I think he was trying to say that if she got the (new) car back without damage(and only paid for the brakes), and he can show the video of all the damage to the car from the crash, then obviously he fixed the car. Not sure why the judge wasn't following that logic. Business man still should have evidence to prove his case but I was picking up what he was putting down.
That would just show that the car got fixed. Not that he was the one who paid for it to be fixed. Especially when she has a receipt from another mechanic claiming to have fixed the damage.
@@DaniWoodson1 The fact that the daughter admitted to giving her father the car after the crash and him giving it back to her is the proof. Her receipt was only for brakes and something else. If he was trying to show the judge a video, clearly there was other VISIBLE damage done to the car. That would mean that the dad either fixed that damage or paid to have it fix. She seems to admit that he did something, she just said that it "still" needed additional work.
@@samantham2693 She admitted that he called someone else asking for a price quote in front of her but I don't remember her admitting that he did work on the new car. I could've missed that though.The video would had to have been of him literally working on the car to prove that he's owed something and it still wouldn't have proved how much. He' a business owner. There's absolutely no way he shouldn't have his receipts if he did work. It's on him
Poor Brianna got a deadbeat Dad.
Honestly that 800 should have came earlier girl he’s fixing it not paying for it lol
Dain! You both are stunning in your wedding picks!
Trying to scam your own child, smdh... Disgrace.
@ JamesRoger thank for this advice! I am the oldest girl. My dad was never in my life now he sick & older. Guess who takes care of him! ME! Depends on me 1st. I do it but James secretly I say in my mind you did everything for them and they go months to visit you I work 2 jobs like them go to church but still come every 2 days because when he gone I want to be a peace. Thanks James!
Brianna is the adult here .. Dad is the juvenile .. very sad.
Him leaving at 2 pretty much summed it up for me. Thank God for my dad/other half. I couldn’t imagine him taking anything from me
And how old was he 12 lol she not innocent she probably bitter like her mother and wants to use him when it suits her
Yea Chels don’t run with that, there’s Q that should be asked before we accept that claim.
She brought a second car to em. Really has me thinking
Dad is a hot mess
my father is a mechanic and he WOULD NEVER!!!! his daughters vehicles are top priority. two years?! i’m blown away
Omg Judge Milian and John's wedding pic is the cutest 😍
The only reason that would explain a man stealing from his own child would be that he has a drug problem
Eh, I don’t know. You can be a straight up A-hole and not touch drugs ever.
Or gambling problem. Or shopping. Or sex. Could be loads of things
@@doublejay310 He looks like a drug addict.
Or he's a sociopath.
How he stole tho?
aww her and her husband are so cute
Her dad 🤣😂
Hes such a lier. He kept lying in between
liar with an a.
Idiocy runs in families!
Wow….humanity has come to such a stage now that daughters & fathers share such bitter relation??? No love, no respect! So sad!
Blame the dad. He’s the adult in the situation and acted like a child.
It's his fault
I longed to have a relationship with my sperm donor and I has to finally accept the fact that he is who he is. Even rats dont abandon their own.
Um I bred rats growing up and your wrong they even will eat their own babies so DAFUK you talking about, do some research
@@payableondeath9091 that is a rarity, not the norm
@@davidewersphotography1013 I want a photo of the light bouncing around my neurons how much will that run me, Mr. photographer?😂
That's her dad?? So he had her when he was 12? Lordt
Thanks for sharing the wedding photo 🙂
The smirk on his face. You can tell he's just a pos. Poor girl thinking she can trust him but he scammed her instead.
you sure they’re not siblings?
Some people just age well. The daughter was most likely born when he was in his teens.
She's got a princess attitude, she should not be involved with her parents shenanigans. She admits she has money issues so expects her dad to bankroll her. He's no prize either.
If I'm not mistaken, almost all Nissan's from 2010 and newer are the cvt's. Controlled variable transmission or something like that. And in my very limited knowledge, almost no one will take on rebuilding one of those because anything could be wrong in any little small thing could cause it to fail and they are hard as can be to figure out.
I knew she was my age as soon as she described her and her fathers story. Its too many of us to 20-21 year olds (the new adults) experiencing the same thing. Trusting our parents to fight against the problematic cycle of trauma. Its ok to choose yourself...even against your mom and dad... hate to say :(
I hope she has stayed as far away from him as possible.
I looking to see if the brother took the father seat
Same...they used to say that about my husband in 2006 (age 43) with our grandson...noone thought grandpa
He should of fixed it for free it’s his daughter
Sir, that's a CVT transmission. You shouldn't have touched it. This is all kinds of grimy.
He seems shady. But she seems like a liar too. I think she damaged a car… thought her dad would pay for the repair (or at least cover the costs until she could pay him back)… bought another car and damaged it… and she’s out of money to keep buying single-use cars
yes
Wow he looks young.
I had my transmission completely rebuilt on a 04 Tacoma. Two and a half weeks and 6k back in 2022.
Her father should be ashamed of himself. Ms.Martinez, he is your father, but you got to love him with a long stick.
If it quacks like a deadbeat and looks like a deadbeat 🫢
So charge her storage for a year while she's raising the money for repairs. That girl is not the little angel she's portraying.
Fun Fact: Nissans like this Altima in this case have the worst CVT transmissions on the market. So beware of Front wheel drive Nissans with CVT transmissions. Also he could’ve got a transmission imported from Japan with less than 60k miles for cheap.
I'm so glad you said it!!! I just had to replace a CVT transmission on my 2018 Nissan Sentra...they have a multi lawsuit on them an all...all they have done was extend a warranty on the Tran to 75K miles... the transmission is extremely expensive even to upkeep...flush and such but to replace...
Father was telling the truth. Dealerships now claim "Proprietary Knowledge" on certain parts and only they are allowed to fix them. Had this exact issue with, I think it was a Nissan Sentra 2013 transmission. Also, you could see her hiding a smirk when he was talking about her keying his car.
The father is horrible. Does this guy have no shame? The daughter needs to realize that her dad is just not a good guy/dad and move on. It is sad but that is the fact. Some people are just not worth a damn.
Kind of sounds like the father owns a chop shop. It would explain a lot.
Dad looks like a kid still only problem is he still acts like one. Sounds like the daughter is more mature than he is. He had an excuse for everything literally! I don’t have a receipt for anything and I can’t get one because whatever. Honestly it’s pretty sad if he knows how to fix stuff then fix it but don’t play with this girl and just let her car sit there for years. That’s ridiculous. Step up and be a dad and do what you need to do and get stuff done if not tell her she needs to take care of it herself and give her the opportunity to.
My parents divorced when I was three, but my dad was there for me up until his last day. I do not have one bad memory about my dad. Not sure why some men take their children for granted, but they need to know *it hurts them deeply. If this dude ever watches this video, he'll see he's robbed the joy from the eyes of his daughter.*
Damn how young was he when he had her?? Lol
Idk , but hes still growing up 🙄
I was thinking maybe he was 16 or 17 when she was born.
Imagine having a father like this. Yuck.
First off my child is NOT going to be disrespectful to me at ANY age tf! She carrying on and doing all that while her dad is helping her when she can be paying way more on that expensive mechanical work! Be grateful lil girl and stop being disrespectful. It’ll take you further in life.
He had to be a young teen father 🙊🤦♀️
He looks so young
Damn that’s her daddy? Lawddd hamercy 👀
I think this grows deeper .
This guy makes deadbeat dads look good 👍
Damn this is sad, I hope they can heal their relationship. Funny they talk the same tho
“I’m used to this” that’s so sad
It funny, Judge Milan says 'each one of my girls have one'. It should be, 'each one if our girls have one'. I just think it's funny, but what a beautiful crafty idea. I love her.
Dad was never a dad. He’s heartless.
What a deadbeat.
Is that a radiator on his wall?
He is not a bad dad he is always there for her so stop the negative comments
I heard the F word coming lol.