Losing it on a Door

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 566

  • @yung1717
    @yung1717 5 месяцев назад +526

    Men like this are terrifying. His reactions are abusive and disgusting. He’s pitiful

    • @christopherramon-reid2000
      @christopherramon-reid2000 5 месяцев назад

      Seriously. He is a pig

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 5 месяцев назад +23

      Seriously!! And so many of them are like this

    • @PPE707
      @PPE707 5 месяцев назад

      That’s not a man. Men don’t behave that way.

    • @reginadavis7499
      @reginadavis7499 5 месяцев назад +15

      Good thing she didn't go back. It would only gotten worse

    • @kaox44
      @kaox44 5 месяцев назад

      Yes, terrifying, abusive and disgusting he is. However, women this date this guy and breed with him.

  • @RyanBlockb5
    @RyanBlockb5 5 месяцев назад +412

    Don't tolerate angry or sloppy drunks. And she should have gotten the restraining order. To protect herself and her daughter.

    • @Buildyourinheritance
      @Buildyourinheritance 5 месяцев назад +18

      And she’s still saying “hi & bye” that’s dangerous and I bet he knows where she’s at

    • @positiveopinion4594
      @positiveopinion4594 5 месяцев назад +4

      I hope she has the integrity not to accept any money over the damages he caused and have nothing more to do with him. he will not change.

    • @ReddyReader
      @ReddyReader 5 месяцев назад

      Unfortunately, you're
      RIGHT!
      They'll kiss and make up. Cheeez
      ​@@Buildyourinheritance

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 5 месяцев назад +1

      What will he do if he decides to bill up more unprocessed anger??

    • @mahoganysoulll
      @mahoganysoulll 4 месяца назад +1

      @@kattiethomas4687more than likely go and get the gun and go to her house like he said. I can’t believe she was still in contact with this man, Smfh.

  • @papalegbasson2447
    @papalegbasson2447 5 месяцев назад +320

    Wow! She should have taken this to Judge Mathis. He suffered very little consequences..

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 5 месяцев назад +21

      Well that’s the plaintiffs fault. She should’ve gotten a restraining order and had him locked up. Give the judge something to work with.

    • @epp.5593
      @epp.5593 5 месяцев назад +19

      I agree. Judge Mathis would have threw the book at him.

    • @smitchell790
      @smitchell790 5 месяцев назад

      Judge Mathis hates men like that so I agree

    • @persuaded
      @persuaded 5 месяцев назад +7

      Definitely some crackheadish 😂😂

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@nanjones3973as someone who has a restraining order against a stalker I had ZERO relationship with. Who still contacts me. It doesn't mean a damn thing. Police don't give a fuck about women in danger. That order is just a piece of paper.

  • @luispineda9255
    @luispineda9255 5 месяцев назад +190

    She should have gotten every penny she was asking for. The move was a direct consequence of his drunk crazy behavior. She should have gotten him arrested and gotten the restraining order as well.

    • @tonyrichardson5955
      @tonyrichardson5955 5 месяцев назад +7

      I agree 💯

    • @cosmos34
      @cosmos34 5 месяцев назад +18

      I agree on principle, and I hate abusive men like this. However, she hurt her case by failing to follow through with the restraining order.

    • @KarenBassett-Wheeler
      @KarenBassett-Wheeler 5 месяцев назад +5

      Women do not give up the men they're in love with. That's.why the police can't do anything. It's frustrating to them to have their hands tied by someone who won't follow through when they've called the police.

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 5 месяцев назад +7

      She didn’t present her case well enough to have won that portion of her case. If she had something from the landlord stating that they’re refusing to renew her lease due to that incident, then she probably would have gotten it. She would also have to prove there were no other factors affecting the renewal. She made the choice to move, which is not the same thing as being forced to move due to that event. She also didn’t get a restraining order which weakened her argument that she moved out of fear. Especially since she continued friendly communication with him after.

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 5 месяцев назад +102

    SHE SHOULD'VE FILED CHARGES AGAINST HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @yung1717
    @yung1717 5 месяцев назад +145

    I would’ve gotten him arrested. All his actions that night and she let him go free? He did that with her daughter in the house

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 5 месяцев назад +11

      Especially since he is a military veteran.. they have a lot of mental challenges.
      Signed a military brat & ex military spouse- both have severe ptsd.
      They are hell.

    • @christianakalaitzi1645
      @christianakalaitzi1645 5 месяцев назад +1

      She is a kind hearted lady. This could have WRECKED his life!

  • @faithfullmess
    @faithfullmess 5 месяцев назад +99

    The fact that he waited until all the guests left before showing out says A LOT.
    He doesn’t confront men because he’d loose.
    (Also: This case screams, “The BEAR…I choose the BEAR”! 😂)

    • @bysunshineandgrace
      @bysunshineandgrace 4 месяца назад +4

      Right! lol He wasn’t that drunk if he knew to wait and threaten her in private.

  • @LiveGrowRescue
    @LiveGrowRescue 5 месяцев назад +96

    Her not filing for a restraining order or having him arrested was THEE reason why she wasn't awarded her moving costs. She didn't take him seriously when she should have at the moment, so why should the judge?

    • @kiahhh444
      @kiahhh444 2 месяца назад

      She said she was trying to get the money for the door

  • @mashondaknight9132
    @mashondaknight9132 5 месяцев назад +126

    The defendant is a childish nut case that can't control his emotions ,the woman should have also sued for emotional distress.

  • @lynnw2953
    @lynnw2953 5 месяцев назад +154

    ngl ma'am is kinda pissing me off by 10:30. i just feel like y'all play too damn much behind men & threats. the police are OFFERING to arrest a lunatic who has already told you that he will shoot you and/or light your vehicle on fire.
    but oh no! "i'm so scared!" GIRL DO SOMETHING!
    it's giving "i didn't wanna put no black man in jail!" 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @AtlChica883
      @AtlChica883 5 месяцев назад +18

      Girl, absolutely!!! She didn’t have his keys what if she didn’t find them. She should have gotten the restraining order and then if he threatened or came by he goes to jail and he doesn’t keep his gun!

    • @susiesolangesimpson2828
      @susiesolangesimpson2828 5 месяцев назад

      And that’s how women end up getting killed. SMH

    • @futuredent
      @futuredent 5 месяцев назад +10

      Trying to be objective about it, I said maybe she didn’t move on them arresting him that night because I can imagine that feels like a temporary fix that may only further enrage someone who’s already threatening you. Now, the restraining order - DEFINITELY.

    • @MissAnonymousDoe
      @MissAnonymousDoe 5 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly! smh at these kind of women

    • @Blue-ej7rw
      @Blue-ej7rw 5 месяцев назад +1

      She seemed a little nonchalant in the beginning about all the red flags at the start of the party. She should've politely ejected him from the party.

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 5 месяцев назад +53

    She also should've followed through on that restraining order against this lunatic.

  • @moniquem3738
    @moniquem3738 5 месяцев назад +32

    This poor lady. Thank God he showed his true colors before it got worse.

  • @shynbryt11
    @shynbryt11 5 месяцев назад +44

    No this is his behavior without alcohol. He is unhinged and a danger to all women!!!

  • @AbadScratchingHabit
    @AbadScratchingHabit 5 месяцев назад +512

    lol yea everybody knows spades break up friendships and happy homes!😅

    • @nneekaestelle4732
      @nneekaestelle4732 5 месяцев назад +82

      And Uno.....

    • @6Summerville
      @6Summerville 5 месяцев назад +87

      😂😂😂 UNO and Spades have been breaking up happy homes since the 70’s 🤣🤣😂😂

    • @AbadScratchingHabit
      @AbadScratchingHabit 5 месяцев назад

      @@nneekaestelle4732oh yea mos def uno…… I heard they have a draw 100 card…..

    • @GrumpySmurf0813
      @GrumpySmurf0813 5 месяцев назад +23

      I agree with all y'all. Lol

    • @phoenixrising1242
      @phoenixrising1242 5 месяцев назад +28

      😂😂😂😂 cards & bones

  • @christianakalaitzi1645
    @christianakalaitzi1645 5 месяцев назад +29

    Dude! You terrorized this poor lady!

  • @bonniemcdermid7387
    @bonniemcdermid7387 5 месяцев назад +52

    This case is bothering me. The fact that he threatened to pull a gun on her and smashed in her door seem to all be forgiven by the Judge and the plaintiff. Women die every day at the hands of intimate partners and these are warning signs. She should not stay friends with him; even to say hi and bye. She should steer clear of him and never talk to him again.

    • @xXLilSmurthXx
      @xXLilSmurthXx 4 месяца назад +4

      What do you want the judge to do? The police saw the kicked in door, text message regarding getting a gun, etc... She chose to not get a restraining order, to not have him arrested, etc... The judge told her she should have done both.

  • @sheisme2
    @sheisme2 5 месяцев назад +89

    She should have sued for mental anguish.

    • @gemineyes2
      @gemineyes2 5 месяцев назад +6

      Unfortunately, most like JM would not have granted because she continued talking to him. I've seen it.

  • @Carlos-ll7bz
    @Carlos-ll7bz 5 месяцев назад +34

    She should have put him in jail so the next woman he dates at least has a heads up

  • @talexander2302
    @talexander2302 5 месяцев назад +27

    Such a nice lady, I'm glad she broke up with him we are to old to deal with this type behavior ...

  • @ec-kj4yp
    @ec-kj4yp 5 месяцев назад +27

    Wow. I'm glad that she handled him the way she did on that night. He was SO out of line. I hope that he actually is as sorry as he seems to be now, and that he gets help.

  • @a.miller8316
    @a.miller8316 5 месяцев назад +16

    If she truly was afraid, she should've filed a restraining order. You don't get to have it both ways

  • @bonitathompson1640
    @bonitathompson1640 5 месяцев назад +20

    He’s crazy. Restraining order wouldn’t stop a bullet. I would’ve had him arrested and me my child would’ve been gone! She prolly would’ve won more. Because she stayed and continued to correspond with him - that’s cray cray too.

  • @sweetcandykane1
    @sweetcandykane1 5 месяцев назад +11

    A person of his age should not be behaving like this, he needs some help for his anger issues because he'll meet the right one sooner or later.

  • @BeStillNow
    @BeStillNow 5 месяцев назад +97

    How does it make her argument weaker? He literally kicked in her door & threatened her life multiple times…

    • @techoperatives2232
      @techoperatives2232 5 месяцев назад +6

      Feminist logic

    • @Tiddywhisperer
      @Tiddywhisperer 5 месяцев назад

      They’re still talking holding conversations. If she was really scarred for her life she would’ve cut him off moved and then sued him. She was still meeting with him after it happened because she returned the tickets. Judge saw she was an opportunist that tried to maximize on the idea of her getting to move as she said the police notified her it may be an opportunity to get out the lease. That’s what made it weaker.

    • @ayannaskye7921
      @ayannaskye7921 5 месяцев назад +28

      But she still entertained him. Huh she has to have accountability in this. She wasn’t that scared to send him to jail or at least a retraining order.

    • @susiesolangesimpson2828
      @susiesolangesimpson2828 5 месяцев назад +10

      But did she get a restraining order? No. If I’m fearful I’m buying a gun and pressing charges. She’s still friends with him. Obviously she’s not that scared.

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 5 месяцев назад +8

      If she stopped speaking to him, filed the restraining order, moved, and then sued him her case would have been stronger. I don’t think it was a good idea to entertain him after he threatened to come back with a gun. That was crazy. She’s talking about needing him to pay. Uh, you’re risking your life for $1,000? That’s crazy

  • @markbirchette8740
    @markbirchette8740 5 месяцев назад +50

    Grown folks can't drink responsibly and get along...SMH

  • @lolamaude3449
    @lolamaude3449 5 месяцев назад +17

    The defendant is like a ticking time bomb.... he really needs mental health care. He is really nasty!

  • @shirleysarradet9486
    @shirleysarradet9486 5 месяцев назад +40

    Wrong ruling!!! His fault altogether!!

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 5 месяцев назад +3

      Nah… the ruling is accurate. In a court you have to prove your case and she failed to do so for the moving expenses.

  • @SxCense
    @SxCense 5 месяцев назад +34

    Geesh…. She dodged a bullet, punched intended.

    • @themadmillionaire
      @themadmillionaire 5 месяцев назад +3

      Heck yeah, run and don’t look back 👩🏿‍⚖️

    • @TheVsaunders09
      @TheVsaunders09 5 месяцев назад +5

      *Pun, but we got where you was going 😂

  • @bigway23505ify
    @bigway23505ify 5 месяцев назад +45

    All this for his hurt feelings... some folks need to grow up!

  • @triciat8401
    @triciat8401 5 месяцев назад +20

    John is a good man Judge you sure picked a good one!!!!!❤❤❤

  • @jessij6641
    @jessij6641 5 месяцев назад +13

    He too old to be acting like that

  • @mntzmiles081
    @mntzmiles081 5 месяцев назад +9

    Spades is a card game that can get messy, trash talking is apart of the game. But you can tell that her is a drunkard

  • @ilan2endi
    @ilan2endi 5 месяцев назад +35

    He was insecure period

    • @shay1161
      @shay1161 5 месяцев назад

      No mental unstable period

  • @scoot8792
    @scoot8792 5 месяцев назад +16

    If you can't handle liquor, DON'T DRINK!

  • @papalegbasson2447
    @papalegbasson2447 5 месяцев назад +20

    Yeah, he's cray cray. Good ridden

  • @lifewithdeedee3392
    @lifewithdeedee3392 5 месяцев назад +16

    She needs to get stronger, she didn't press charges, didn't get the restraining order her excuse is she never been through this before smh

  • @nicholebrown3694
    @nicholebrown3694 5 месяцев назад +5

    I don’t understand ‘being too scared’ to press charges while also clearly not being scared enough to never let this man around you again

  • @universelove6163
    @universelove6163 5 месяцев назад +33

    He should have paid for her moving expenses!!

    • @cynthiawallace7108
      @cynthiawallace7108 5 месяцев назад +3

      That's exactly what I'm saying, she probably would've had to pay more if she broke the lease sooner...

    • @universelove6163
      @universelove6163 5 месяцев назад

      @@cynthiawallace7108 exactly 🙌🏾

    • @jonicagordon2392
      @jonicagordon2392 2 месяца назад

      14:58

  • @positiveelegance286
    @positiveelegance286 5 месяцев назад +25

    I can almost bet that the defendant showed signs of crazy waaay before spades night, and it wasnt the first time he called her out her name. If this was the first time she wouldn't have felt the need to ininvite him to the after party,but she knew from previous dealings that he was going to be a problem.
    Ladies! Once a so called man shows you who he is the first time keep it moving. I cant even see what she saw in him in the first place...uggggh

    • @tmack7563
      @tmack7563 2 месяца назад

      you no women are horrible at picking men and desperate smh

  • @chelseablack
    @chelseablack 5 месяцев назад +35

    He looks intoxicated in court!

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 5 месяцев назад +1

      He do

    • @sheliapea1387
      @sheliapea1387 5 месяцев назад +5

      Not necessarily. He's had a stroke.

    • @chelseablack
      @chelseablack 5 месяцев назад

      @@sheliapea1387yeah it wasn't giving stroke side effects. I think we saw how chaotic he can be when drunk first hand

    • @cindymann3673
      @cindymann3673 5 месяцев назад

      His voice is giving ‘alcoholic’.

  • @donna9127
    @donna9127 5 месяцев назад +18

    People don't grow up smh as I get older it gets worse

  • @Mongo76
    @Mongo76 5 месяцев назад +16

    He didn't need to be driving anyway.

    • @Jimsalos
      @Jimsalos 5 месяцев назад

      Exactly what I was thinking

  • @Mary_Lee2395
    @Mary_Lee2395 5 месяцев назад +15

    She didn’t do what the police officer said because she knew she was going to let him back in and continue the relationship with him! One reason why I don’t sympathize for anyone in these kind of relationship. They know how violent and crazy that person is but continue to be with them when they already know he or she is never going to change. It kills me more when they surround and expose their kids to their unhealthy relationship.

    • @johnnyb6151
      @johnnyb6151 5 месяцев назад

      Where in the case did you hear they got back together? And didn't you hear the judge say get advice from a lawyer and not the police? I guess not! Smh. That's how lies start. Be careful.

  • @IrishEyes1024
    @IrishEyes1024 5 месяцев назад +7

    He didn't have a headache the next morning because his body is accustomed to heavy drinking.

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 5 месяцев назад +20

    Honestly listening to him talk, he comes off like an Alcoholic 😢 I’m glad she made the judgement to dismiss him. Usually us women want to forgive and ignore the red flags 🚩 bless this woman’s heart ❤️

    • @chrisjones8124
      @chrisjones8124 5 месяцев назад

      Alcoholic and got that crack mouth..

    • @dagerldemsuga
      @dagerldemsuga 5 месяцев назад +1

      He’s probably slurred due to the stroke he mentioned he had 🤷🏾

  • @Pgschool37
    @Pgschool37 5 месяцев назад +12

    Stop trying to reason with a drunk. After she got him outside of the apartment she should've dealt with him from a distance. It's no way I would've helped him look for keys (i.e.night/day) after his ultra-sensitive mood, kicking my door and cursing me out. Like him, she needs to mature more especially since she's a parent. Also, she was laughing periodically as she reminisced over that foolish night. No wonder the judge took it light on him. What great qualities to look for in a mate. [Insert double dunce award here!]

  • @Grovel007
    @Grovel007 5 месяцев назад +58

    This is why I stick to weed

    • @heidicrimmings9615
      @heidicrimmings9615 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @Israelitewoman77
      @Israelitewoman77 5 месяцев назад +4

      😂

    • @HeLivesForever25
      @HeLivesForever25 5 месяцев назад +3

      I could sit in a room for hours with an angry drunk. I wouldn't be within a million miles of someone who uses weed. Enjoy.

    • @TheeMrsCarter519
      @TheeMrsCarter519 5 месяцев назад +13

      @@HeLivesForever25Lmfaoo that’s backwards.. we are the chill ones….. those drunks be killin people off that liquor

    • @Everykneebows
      @Everykneebows 5 месяцев назад

      Why would you lower your iq on purpose

  • @444clockit
    @444clockit 5 месяцев назад +6

    His bald head tail woulda been locked up messin wit me. Like he said he can’t blame this entirely on alcohol, that’s how he is as a person

  • @zuritribe4844
    @zuritribe4844 5 месяцев назад +5

    Lmao he looks like an angry block head 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @dorthymcbride3384
    @dorthymcbride3384 5 месяцев назад +4

    Dude, you were going to DRIVE DRUNK....GUILTY!!

  • @YourExcellency
    @YourExcellency 5 месяцев назад +5

    She honestly found him attractive?? 🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @queennola3039
    @queennola3039 4 месяца назад +2

    Intoxicated but trying to drive his vehicle… this is the kind of person that hurt everybody else on the road but themselves.

  • @rcanty1837
    @rcanty1837 5 месяцев назад +4

    Awwwww! I love what the Judges hubby did with the ring. So sweet ❤❤

  • @celeste8389
    @celeste8389 5 месяцев назад +4

    I'm glad she left this man, he is very dangerous. If you can't hold your liquor Sir, don't drink. Grown folks should know better, but apparently not for him...

  • @chaseabageav6511
    @chaseabageav6511 5 месяцев назад +5

    Plaintiff should know how SERIOUS some people take Spades

  • @symonephillips7841
    @symonephillips7841 5 месяцев назад +4

    For the life of me, I don’t understand why these women do not file charges

    • @MyNameIsLake.
      @MyNameIsLake. 5 месяцев назад

      But they’re “scared”…….. toxic

    • @dagerldemsuga
      @dagerldemsuga 5 месяцев назад +1

      And a lot of the time, the damn restraining order doesn’t work. The crazy person will still find a way to find you and harm you. It’s a joke!

    • @symonephillips7841
      @symonephillips7841 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@dagerldemsuga it’s more of having his anger & whatnot documented and on paper! That way if it ever escalates to the point of her defending herself.. there’s a paper trail

  • @kimberlyadorno280
    @kimberlyadorno280 5 месяцев назад +2

    She definitely should have gotten the money she paid to break her lease. She should have gotten the restraining order, but his actions were absolutely threatening and terrifying.

  • @isaiahsanders9356
    @isaiahsanders9356 5 месяцев назад +4

    I have talked to a man like this I can definitely understand that fear because at that point you never know what that person is cable capable of

  • @annettewoodward9768
    @annettewoodward9768 5 месяцев назад +5

    I admire and adore these judges as a couple ❤

  • @gthomas4real499
    @gthomas4real499 5 месяцев назад +33

    CONVERSATE is not a word! Spread the word 💙

    • @TheZogie
      @TheZogie 5 месяцев назад +5

      Did ya even look it up first?

    • @tamikalittle6910
      @tamikalittle6910 5 месяцев назад +3

      There's NO WAY a man can threaten me with a gun and I don't contact authorities

    • @rckkeller9437
      @rckkeller9437 5 месяцев назад +4

      Absolutely is a word…

    • @rckkeller9437
      @rckkeller9437 5 месяцев назад

      He had a stroke cuz he is obese, is unhealthy and drinks!

    • @AtlChica883
      @AtlChica883 5 месяцев назад +8

      Correct, the word is CONVERSE 🍁🍁🍁

  • @anonymouslee8287
    @anonymouslee8287 5 месяцев назад +11

    Don't know how to play the dozens!!!😂

  • @terrifelton4438
    @terrifelton4438 5 месяцев назад +4

    Whether she took a RO out or not. Plenty of women are murdered with a RO. A RO is not a gun or security.

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 месяцев назад

      Correct. Femicide is on the rise!!

  • @istayinpa8222
    @istayinpa8222 5 месяцев назад +2

    "We gotta a friendship relationship now" is crazy😂😂😂😂😂 I got one too!!

    • @eboneeprice9908
      @eboneeprice9908 4 месяца назад

      The judge sensed that and that is why she did not receive the moving amount…if she would have followed through with the authorities she would have received everything that she asked for.

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle 5 месяцев назад +2

    I hate that women play with their lives like this. Ladies, when a man is physically or verbally violent toward you, separate yourself! Period. This thing where they’re talking months later and she’s thinking the restraining order may not be necessary, is how you and your children (who are in your care) end up in the hospital and the grave!

  • @BlancaLaChapis
    @BlancaLaChapis 2 месяца назад +3

    So he was too drunk to be held accountable for his violent behavior but sober enough to drive!!! Wow

  • @crystalshaw8744
    @crystalshaw8744 5 месяцев назад +22

    I bet they stil together.

    • @kimr5479
      @kimr5479 5 месяцев назад +1

      I said the same thing, it wouldn't surprise me if they get back together!😊

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 месяцев назад

      Doubt

  • @mariettamb
    @mariettamb 5 месяцев назад +3

    And he has audacity to say: another black.... he are a victim play er, never take responsibility, I find her so reasonable and patient with him - another black man who need to learn communicate instead playing victim.

  • @markbirchette8740
    @markbirchette8740 5 месяцев назад +17

    I don't believe she was that scared, or she would've gotten the useless restraining order. She was still texting him too, bull.

    • @roselandebazelais8236
      @roselandebazelais8236 5 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Useless restraining order???😂😂😂😂
      It's useless??

    • @traceyaz125
      @traceyaz125 5 месяцев назад +5

      I see her point. The restraining order is as you say, useless, so why antagonize him with it? She was worried he would come over with his gun like he promised. I think she made the right choice.

    • @themadmillionaire
      @themadmillionaire 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@traceyaz125absolutely, keep your enemies close

    • @briantoebben3095
      @briantoebben3095 5 месяцев назад +3

      Restraining orders are more like an official notice that hey your being paid attention to and if you make another dumb move against this person we will officially come get you. They power they have is dependent on the persons respect for the law and individuals wishes. They can not stop a person from being evil or conducting an action so I get the useless part but it would take personal protection from police to make that actually happen.

    • @fjones5890
      @fjones5890 2 месяца назад +1

      He threatened to burn her car and shoot her, he dgaf about a restraining order

  • @princesscoles6586
    @princesscoles6586 5 месяцев назад +2

    Stay away from veterans who have not fully dealt with their demons

  • @Tipsygeese
    @Tipsygeese 5 месяцев назад +5

    It’s always a game of Spades and Uno that brings out the worst in people.

  • @3rdandMainBags
    @3rdandMainBags 5 месяцев назад +6

    If you play Spades, u know what they were saying😂..#NoRookiesAllowed

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 5 месяцев назад +13

    She only had to move, because of him.. so he should’ve had to pay for her move.

  • @evalim8182
    @evalim8182 5 месяцев назад +2

    Truth comes out when you are drunk,true colors

  • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
    @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 4 месяца назад +1

    I dont even want hi and bye with a man like that. We losing contact!

  • @starhurd824
    @starhurd824 5 месяцев назад +3

    Cause seriously, what will a restraining order do??

    • @missa1goins
      @missa1goins 5 месяцев назад +2

      Right, cause more anger that's what.

  • @fjones5890
    @fjones5890 2 месяца назад +1

    That’s terrifying. Glad her and her daughter are ok 😢

  • @CarmRNBSN
    @CarmRNBSN 5 месяцев назад +2

    His behavior is the result of an ID episode: A man killing a woman because she did not take his threats seriously.

  • @SamMaigwa
    @SamMaigwa 5 месяцев назад +2

    He was already unhinged had nothing to do with the alcohol
    When someone showing you who they are BELIEVE THEM 💯 He should of been made to pay moving costs he threatened her life 😢

  • @b.dailey3180
    @b.dailey3180 5 месяцев назад +4

    Plantiff money driven & she likely to return to this relationship transactionally.🤣🤣🤣

  • @zeldafitzgerald4149
    @zeldafitzgerald4149 5 месяцев назад +1

    This guy is actually scary. He knows how to manipulate people by pretending to be sweet and innocent. Apologizing for his "mistakes" but someone is gonna get really really hurt or killed by his "mistakes". This is just what abusers do.

  • @Shardesangz
    @Shardesangz 3 месяца назад +1

    Him and that smirk pissed me off!

  • @keemajames2551
    @keemajames2551 5 месяцев назад +2

    This could have easily ended up on Snapped! Her protective instincts are at most sub par.

  • @leafrazer8440
    @leafrazer8440 5 месяцев назад +1

    Whenever someone makes a threat, TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't ever assume they won't follow through! Even nice people could snap!!! There are a lot of good people who are no longer with us because of violence. He should of went home sober up and talked about it in the morning like the plaintiff said. Even though, the defendant was intoxicated it's still no excuse for his behavior. He lost control of himself with the Plaintiff's daughter in the house. Just be a man and walk away. Since, he didn't walk away and threaten to bring his gun that right there tells me he's very unstable and could snap at anytime. The plaintiff said something very important. She said she's never seen the defendant behave this way that's because his true colors are starting to show through the alcohol.

  • @JoyBlackman-p5i
    @JoyBlackman-p5i 5 месяцев назад +2

    Big grown baby boy ! Thank God I always see the red flag beforehand have no time for this!!!!!

  • @traceyaz125
    @traceyaz125 5 месяцев назад +14

    She should have gotten moving costs.

    • @ayannaskye7921
      @ayannaskye7921 5 месяцев назад +2

      For what?? She picked him. She’s responsible for she sleeps with and who she decide to save. Lol 😂

    • @nanjones3973
      @nanjones3973 5 месяцев назад

      She can only get what she can prove. She didn’t prove she moved because of this incident and not for other reasons. She chose to keep open and friendly communication with him after this. What do you want a judge to do with that?

  • @iloveyouyoulovemeify
    @iloveyouyoulovemeify 5 месяцев назад +3

    ooh how she dodged a bullet!!!!

  • @freemanshackled
    @freemanshackled 5 месяцев назад +2

    No. You do not renig at Spades, or any card game for that matter. That is cheating and makes the game not fun for everyone. Now when you're sitting around drinking it is possible to renig without realizing it. Especially if you still have a good amount of cards left. In that case, it's just a friendly game. No need to draw guns. Cheaters get heaters.

  • @noenn9895
    @noenn9895 4 месяца назад

    I love Judge Milian. She just cracks me up with her side talk 😂😂😂 and then the interview at the end is so adorable. 😂😂😂

  • @880L-us2qc
    @880L-us2qc 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BoogieDown-q5f
    @BoogieDown-q5f 5 месяцев назад +3

    *This guy acts like denzel in training day!!!!* 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @SassyDiva53
    @SassyDiva53 3 месяца назад +1

    I love judge and her husband together!

    • @RayYoWTF
      @RayYoWTF 3 месяца назад

      I was coming here to comment this! They are so cute together and make such a beautiful couple. They’re such goals.

  • @sunflowermama4297
    @sunflowermama4297 5 месяцев назад +3

    He looks drunk in court to be honest. Smh.

  • @sunnyflorida1770
    @sunnyflorida1770 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m from Jersey and have heard about ppl getting killed over a spades game 😩

  • @gunntopgunn
    @gunntopgunn 5 месяцев назад +2

    Bless his heart!

  • @jazzycherokee869
    @jazzycherokee869 3 месяца назад +1

    Idk what state (not sure if they mentioned it) but here in NC you do NOT have to buy out a lease if you have a DVPO or Rule 50 B / any order of protection, regardless of what your lease says. I went through this personally and the judge threw the landlords suit out and flat out told them "my hands are tied, plus you testified your tenant had 5 solid years of never late once rental history. Either way my hands are tied, you are not entitled to any money from the date of the protection order until today. You actually owe her money since she left on the 13th of the month and paid a fulls months rent"....so they tried to sue me and I left with a check.

  • @CassandraReneeXOXO
    @CassandraReneeXOXO Месяц назад +1

    She should've gotten paid for the moving expenses as well....that was completely unfair!!

  • @amberdouglas1700
    @amberdouglas1700 5 месяцев назад +4

    Judge Milian always minimizes the abuse of some women.

  • @crackerjacks6789
    @crackerjacks6789 5 месяцев назад +1

    The way a man treats and speaks to you while he is drunk is the way he feels about you. He deliberately threw the keys in the bushes, threatened her with a gun all over a card game….. Then when he sobered up he became enraged and continued to abuse her. He completely disrupted her life over this. She was smart enough not to stay with him.. she heeded the warnings by looking at the 🚩 🚩🚩Ladies take heed😮. Can you imagine if he became physically abusive with her.. 😥

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 5 месяцев назад +2

    How is this guy not in prison again?!?!?!?!?!?!

  • @guccilady1017
    @guccilady1017 5 месяцев назад +9

    “Conversate” 😖