One day woke up said never going to watch porn again, didn't watch porn for 3 months, relapsed forgave my self and decided not to do it again after 6 months of no porn relapsed again forgave myself. now its been 2 year's since i watched porn never felt better. feels like i am the king eveything is on track Porn destroys lives brothers please stop it❤
Thanks for your comment, I did 1 year of nofap and after relapsing to nothing, the release sensation brought me to porn again, slower but it did. What I found in your comment is that your forgive yourself, something that I wasn't doing until I read this, thanks brother! I have to get back to the track!
@@joaotome40Hey man, you should be damn proud of how much progress you have made!! Such a long streak is extremely difficult when it comes to porn. I used to have a strong addiction, and was part of several forums of online communities. Several people in that chat were addicted to physical drugs, and said that porn was much harder to break free from than any of the drugs they did. You were able to, from pure mental will power, abstain from it that long. BECAUSE YOU ARE A BEAST! Also, it is only a slight set back, you are not going back to point zero, even if may feel like that. Think about it this way, if you are driving from New York to Los Angeles, and you take a wrong turn when you are almost past the California border, you don't drive all the back to New York because you took one wrong turn. You maybe watched for 60 minutes total (the number does not matter), even though there are 525,600 minutes in a year. So that means for 525,540/525,600 minutes you stayed strong. Another tip I have is to always stay humble, and remember it starts with the eyes. It's much harder to turn off porn when you are already on the site. Making the active decision to not watch girls on social media, or even go on there in the first place, is much easier to do. Also, have an identity shift.You are not a porn watcher, it's as simple as that. Saying this to yourself gives much more power than trying to have a streak. Streaks get broken, but you are not a porn watcher so why would you even need a streak? These are some things that helped me along the way. You may have relapsed, but it made you stronger and you will break free from this evil addiction. Great job and I am damn proud of you!!
You went on "nofap" for 183 days. You're not on nofap, you're already not a fapper. Nofap is attempting to succeed, you've already succeeded. Stop counting your days, it will only make you more aware of porn. For example, you don't count the day you last murdered somebody because you've never killed somebody and have no desire to. If you're still getting urges, it's not physical it's brainwashing.
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.
"If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultry and nudity common among the younger generation." ~ Salahudin Ayubi in 11th century AC. A thousand years ago.
@@HumanBeingsRThinkingBeings hello my friend I'm sorry if I don't understands the first phrase very well (English is my second language) But if you aren't Muslim and just asking about the reason why Islam forbids the bank interests OR "Usury" in general then I suggest you search for this subject and educate urself and see how this thing harms the economic and the society(and a lot of other problems as well) knowing that ALLAH (the only truly GOD) doesn't forbid anything without it being harmful on the (Individual,society,...etc) even if we don't know the reason thank you and sorry for taking much of your time
Pretending the porn consumption is equal to and is as detrimental and destructive as heroin and alcohol abuse is hilarious. I’ve never heard of anyone dying of a porn overdose, and I’ve never heard of anyone accidentally killing a family by running their car into them because they were under the influence of porn.
I was having a conversation with an in-law. I was telling them how I'm going to teach my son to stay away from porn and teach him why. The Response I got was you need to let them experiment and figure out these things themselves. My response was would you let your son figure out for themselves and experiment with heroin. They looked at me like i was crazy. I had to take it back to chemistry. I said the dopamine Spike and crash are not dissimilar. Except with heroin you can isolate yourself from supply. With porn or masturbation it not only on us but it's in us 24/7/52
How can you possibly not "see" it after being addicted? You can't get away from the shit. Constant triggers everywhere. It feels absolutely inescapable.
It’s all a byproduct of technology leading to a desire of excess deviance regardless if it was porn or anything else these desires would go unchecked and rear their head in some form. I don’t think guys like Epstein or any of these wealthy elites on Wall Street abusing people are watching that much porn but they’re definitely causing harm to society, so my point is it’s not as simple as one area of sedation to boost dopamine highs, there’s a multitude of factors that includes drugs, overeating, and addiction in general. I don’t think the gamer choking the chicken in the basement is any more or less spiritually corrupted than the rich guy who goes to the strip club with a briefcase full of drugs hoping to create his own live porn possibly filming it for the guy in the basement to watch. Tell me the difference please. I’m starting to think this campaign against something that’s been around for decades has more to do with major companies noticing marriage rates going down which hinders profits, less men spending money in nightclubs which hurts a variety of businesses, restaurants/hospitality dying because dating is waning, and men that have resources not feeling as rewarded for having their resources because they’re not competing with anybody but themselves now for women who they no longer want to marry that make their own money filming guess what with their phones? It’s not going anywhere so blame the technocratic society. 😏
I was shown that demons feed off of porn . Watching porn opens up a demonic portal and creates food for evil spirits. Just remember when you're indulging in porn, demons are attaching themselves to you.
@@issasd1172 Don't give up trying.. you surely will. More grace and strength. Always form healthy habits with momentum and pray for help ..by His mercies you'll not just count the days; but make the days count.
@@issasd1172be a sperm donor man. Our dragons have to breathe from time to time it's just nature and we can't change that. The cave men survived by hunting, eating and also by releasing themselves downstairs by urinating and taking a dump and also fvckin. We fvcked so we can repopulate the earth
If you are a young man reading this please stop watching porn and lusting over soft core porn on instagram all day, if your mind is over sexualised you will never succeed. I'm 21 and haven't watched porn since I was 17. Porn ruins your sexuality and spirit. On long periods of retention you begin to transmutate your sexual desires into other desires such as getting in shape, making money etc. Thank you Patrick for touching on a taboo topic, it's so important we talk about the monster that industry has become. I would like to Thank you for the rest of your content as well as you give me insight into this world.
Im 22 i understand you all the way bud. Im meber watching it ever i feel so demonic to the point i keep watching it cant go 2 days without it. I quite from today enough is enough. Stay Hard kings
I started doing drugs since my teenage. Got addicted to heroin for over 16 years. Heroin addiction actually destroyed my life. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
@@AmadaBlackCan you help me with the reliable source A. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in France. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
@@AmadaBlackI'm really happy for you that your mom decided to help you...I hear about alot of family members or so called friends shutting an addict out of their life, which since most addicts do it to mask emotions to me is the worse thing someone can do to an addict.
P*** addiction affects marriages. I’m a witness of that. It’s definitely weakening our men. Glad this is a conversation. It’s not to shame but to bring an issue to light
Thanks PBD. I love how you approached this topic not just from a spiritual lens- but emphasizing the devastating impact on the psyche. This in turn is impacting how our society is functioning or dysfunctioning rather.
This is how it works. Lust is the desire to indulge in anything that is outside of the will and boundaries of God. See, the devil perverted it by introducing the unhealthy desire and so people now under the constrains of the devil. The best way to over this behavior is through the opposite. God wants to free you the devil wants to enslave you. Think about it.
At 35 years old I was sexually abused at age 7, got addicted to porn by 10, and just the last couple years I've realized how much it's changed and destroyed my life. There are ZERO positives to pornography.
Porn is illegal in China. Although it exists and is available through VPN, it needs a lot of effort to get to it, you don't get it thrown at you everywhere like in the US.
I disagreee guys….by far the best counter to oorn addiction is to eiminate idle time and block xxx websites from your browser….get out of the house and work and stay busy….learn a new skill and excerise. For the first 2 weeks make yourself so tired out aide that as soon as you het home and hit the bed you zzz and set an alarm to wale up early and tAke COLD SHOWERS
I've been there. I was fortunate enough to get away from it in my early 30's. It felt like a prison to me. This is destroying men's mental health and relationships.
The longest I've been without porn in the last 17 years is probably 10 days. Most days it's 2 or 3 times per day. It is a miserable addiction that has no doubt destroyed my life in a lot of ways. I've tried quitting many times, but I feel like it has a vice grip on me so strong I'd have to die to get it off. I genuinely don't know how to stop. I know that sounds like a cop-out, but I have no idea. It's available everywhere. If I even have the slightest urge, my imagination starts spiraling until it's the only thing I can think about. It's terrible. It's no doubt hurt my relationships with women and I don't want to be this way. I remember not being addicted when I was younger and having way less hatred towards women and having much better relationships with them. Please keep spreading this message Patrick, it's an important one. I hope we can get it banned in the US someday. I also think it's greatly contributed to hookup culture and our cultural obsession with sex. It's a cancer on our society.
Man, don’t get discouraged. It can be done, people quit this thing everyday, and you absolutely can do it as well. You do need Jesus. John 8:34-36 KJV - Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. 35 And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. 36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
ive been watching porn for about 20 years now.. ive been trying to quit for years but i always relaps. sometimes i even wish i could take drugs to cut the sexual urge in me but i know that will probably have bad side effects and i'll regret it. I try so hard to be a good christian but porn and masturbation just has an extremely powerful hold on me and this makes me feel like a hypocrite and theres no way god accepts my service to him. I am sooo desperate for him to at least be ok with me.. i dont think i can ever make him proud so to just live knowing that im not dissapointing him is something i want so bad.. i even feel ashamed to pray and read the bible .. i just want to stop forever but i just cant and im so tired of failing at it.
I love you man, I’ve been in the same boat. We can get through this. God doesn’t know conditional love. You are loved and accepted by the father. He does want what’s best for you. Loves you regardless
I had to go through fasting and deliverence with my pastor and back then my friend now my wife to break pornography off me. Then I got prayed with by a man of God that came from America. Without authority now matter how much I pleaded with God I had to wait for my deliverence.
I think porn addiction is as bad now then it was ever due to how prevalent it is. Our phones are in our pockets and hands everyday. Sometimes porn is a urge due to boredom. It's terrible, that's why I work out and read more. I hated that and alcohol.
*I am so thankful that I was able to kick this bad habit some time ago! My relationship is now more intimate and I am living guilt free being able to focus on my 4 girls!*
I have been addicted most of my life, still am. Everything you said is true..everything. Amazing to see how Satan is using this to end society. It's working
I can say with certainty it's one of the hardest addictions to overcome. I was addicted for 16 years and still struggle with it. Praying there's a path forward for me to finally let go of this and live a life of freedom.
It doesn't help when it's readily available for free everywhere. Heck Instagram is the worst violator. When you don't subscribe to it or hit like on any pornographic reels the algorithm still pushes it in for feed. There needs to be some kind revolutionary push back. Porn needs to be banned completely from society.
I can relate to where you're coming from, brother. There is definitely hope for you to end this addiction completely by rewiring your brain. Check out Porn Reboot by Elevated Recovery. They're the best when it comes to porn addiction recovery for men in the world.
I stopped using porn and alcohol when I left the Navy. My life's been on the up ever since. No struggles with delaying gratification, no struggles with discipline, no struggles with social relationships (mostly lol ).
Porn is not reality because real sex is completely different from want you see on the internet, that's a reason most women complain about the performance of their BF and Husbands who are addicted to Porn.
Yes its completely different one you play with yourself with no accountability or consequences the second one requires acountibility, risk and devotion.
@bradleyjohnson6107 women in America was fighting for their rights in the late 1960's ,they didnt make rape against the law until the late 1800's 😳 in America.
I feel like porn is a much bigger problem than anyone is talking about. Personally, I found porn before I was a teenager. It’s had a hold on my life ever since. I truly feel like it makes you weaker. I’ve tried to quit many times and during those periods that I abstain from porn I feel amazing. I feel more comfortable talking to others and I feel more motivated and masculine. Porn is a horrible thing and when you look at the numbers of people watching, it’s way more of a problem than anyone is willing to talk about. It’s also such a hard habit to quit because it’s so easily accessible. I quit weed about a year ago and it’s so much easier to stay away from something when you just have to stop buying it. But with porn, as long as you have access to internet, it will always be a few clicks away. To those struggling like I do, you’re not alone. Many men struggle with it and few are willing to talk about it. Be strong, pray to God, and stay occupied.
This is certainly true. When you hit puberty, it can be EXTREMELY harmful. Young men can have access 24-7. Stay home. Wack all day. Not focused on life. Fail at school. Not able to be in public. Need fathers in their lives. Guidance.
I am a 31 year old man who is kind of struggling with pornography addiction. Pornography might be my number 1 addiction. I have never smoked in my life, I have never drunk alcohol in my life, and I have never taken drugs in my life. I think RUclips videos and videogames can be addictive too, lol. But those addictions are arguably not as harmful to the mind as pornography addiction.
You're actually very dangerously mistakenly. I once thought the same thing, how bad can pornography really be? It's just as bad, look up scanne brains of drug and pornography addicts. As a long life severe pornography addict, it completely consumed me and ruined my life. From my experience, it lowers your testosterone eventually. Look up low t symptoms, it's all pornography addiction symptoms, stop for good while you can!
Pat you a real one! A real role model for young men to follow out here. You are really successful and don't need to be doing this but you do it because you want better for people. God bless you!
I never understood how someone could be addicted to porn. I always thought it was funny, but as I matured I have empathy for addicts of any kind. Stay safe and I hope you find a way out of your addiction.
That's interesting. So you don't get a sexual high from it? Do you have a lot of sexual outlets with real attractive partners? That could be the reason
I don’t get why y’all old heads shit on young men or kids. How are we going to compete with women when young men are constantly getting hate and put on blast on social media and society. Women get away with so much bullshit but still somehow it’s a young man fault.
Dude don’t listen to these old people they are constantly putting young men on blast I watch porn and it doesn’t matter they say you lose your drive but you don’t they say that just to hate on young men.
@@JLWprime10your comment is immensely misleading and wrong. Please please please stay away from porn. It will eventually ruin many aspects of your life.
If we are being honest, much of what is shown in Netflix and other streaming services is soft core porn. If you want to steer clear of porn, you have to cut it out entirely. This might mean not watching certain shows that all your friends are watching. Don’t let the enemy gain a foothold.
Amen. Most TV is ungodly and disgusting, and I used to be a big TV watcher. There are so many other things to do, so many relationships to invest in, so many people to serve.
ignorant, you do not know what you speak of, i use social media a lot and am a formal addict to porn, you do not know how ignorant you sound, be greatful you never got into it.
In interviewing serial rapists, the number one thing they commented on having done prior to committing the crime was to watch pornography. To the naysayers, I studied this topic for my undergraduate degree in abnormal deviant and violent psychology.
Social media is by far the biggest threat to society than porn. I'd say social media addiction is worse than drug addiction. It consumes EVERYONES life. Kids, teens AND adults. It destroys relationships and marriages and lives. There are people who actively look for something controversial said by an individual and then try and ruin their life over it.
Yeah. You can delete the history from browser but you can not delete the history God have it about what do you do.Only if you repent and dont repeat the sins anymore.Good Luck!
I see Porn as “bread and circus” to keep men distracted and unproductive. I’ve had my own problems watching porn, and spend too much time watching thirst traps on RUclips doing sexy try-on hauls. I know it’s a vice, it’s not good for me but as of right now haven’t completely kicked the habit. Thank you PBD for bringing up this subject.
Men, if you are filled with sexual energy and are not in a relationship.....switch from watching porn, to watching pick up artists and dating advice channels. The dating community will get you from sloppy, overweight, and unsociable.....to becoming a confident man that can approach and speak to real women that you meet in your daily life. This will not only help with your dating life but will help you in your professional or business life. High anxiety moments meeting women will make business meetings with men low stress and allow you to keep a strong frame. Trust me, women will be surprised and flattered if you approach them in a positive way.
Stupid advice. All that pickup crap is so cringe. The whole "muh strong frame" bs blah blah blah. Modern vvomen are worthless and so not worth it. All they bring to the table is sex, then they'll turn the sex off and ruin your life. There is no reliable sexual outlet. And living your life to max out your stats just for a woman's attention gets real old too.
One of the best videos I've seen addressing this this epidemic. I'll pass this along to my 2 sons who are both in their 20's and I know have struggled with pornography.
Thanks for sharing and speaking about this, Patrick. As someone who really looks up to you, and as a 25-year-old struggling with this personally, all alone with nobody to talk to, this really means a lot to me.
Do a video on women reading "romance" novels. It's just written porn. Extremely graphic and instagram are filled with clips from the books. Not to mention women harp about toxic masculinity yet the books are filled with men degrading the main female characters.
You're right to some degree but comparing romance books to actual porn where actual ppl are seen smashing is on another level. Most men go by looks and watching pien gives them a false sense of reality when it comes to relationships
I’m a woman. None of the women I know read romance novels, including myself. I’m not sure what you are referring to. Also, if a woman has a real life man who is paying attention to her needs, especially emotional, she would put down a book in a second. A woman who is lifted up and supported, will also in turn have a husband who is lifted up and supported.
No? Not all of them? Theres romantic po-- too if you want to get into that category Further, criticising one doesnt mean siding with the other? I dont get the point of this comment at all? Its like saying oh we're bad but you're also bad so now we're on same grounds and both of us are gonna do nothing about it. Thats the vibe im getting from this comment.
I quit it, and recently I found the love of my entire life. I finally got my first kiss. I'm happy af, I quit, and I will never return to it, because I don't wanna my life to be ruined
Porn is the reason why most people under the age of 30 are not engaging in intimacy. With porn in the privacy of their own home, they don't have to. Let alone be in a relationship.
Real sex relationship will save you from porn *. You need to precise . But guess what most of men don't have acces to real relationship ( love or sex )....
Actually one of the earliest surviving porn films is from the start of the 19th century and is called ''The Devil''.. This is no joke, that is it's actual name. Name rings bells
@@seanm996hey man do you have trouble getting hard with girls? Serious question. I did research about what I could have and it’s called corn induced errectile dysfunction. I wacked off for 7 years since 13 I’m 20 now was going to lose my vcard but couldn’t get hard while I’m 3 months clean. Idk what to do man. I’m surprised the girl still is talking to me this happened on Sunday
Porn is very unhealthy in my opinion. I've noticed the negative effects in a lot of my friends. When I stopped watching porn. Great things happened. I'd honestly compare it to cigarette smoking.
Pbd as a young guy in my early 20's I really appreciate your message, I hope my generation can see how they are being used for profit while having their lives destroyed...
I suggest everyone get really into working out and dieting for bodybuilding if you want to escape porn addiction. I'm 6 weeks out from a show, the amount of effort I'm putting in has distracted me from that addiction. Obviously my sex drive is lower due to being low bodyfat and hormones being disrupted, and just overall fatigue. But coming out of this show I'll have a boost in sex drive and energy, and my wife will always be there. I've been about a year clean from porn, and it isnt easy. But if you swap an unhealthy addiction with a healthy one, you'll be far better off.
Amen!!! ❤ I love hearing stuff like this. Not being promiscuous and living pure really makes life easier. I'm a virgin (at 32 years old), but i used to read romance novels and things like that. And I've had women--and men with high body counts tell me that they wished they would have waited.
Lemme break it to you, Deanna (even in this dishonest society, overtaken by slave morality [a la Nietzsche]): You'rе a l0ser. How did you mess up your life so bad?... Oh, and don't try to present your loserdom as virtue! That's a classic of slave morality, by the way.
Good so they won't procreate. Do we need young children being raised by the current idiot kid generation that doesn't even know which parent shoots the sperm?
Jesus is a fantasy joke for adults and nerds whom people rarely use this as a chad method joke Just simply cut off the Internet wire and stop buying internet services then No more pawn = Life good
Even without a religious motivation behind it, PMO is completely detrimental to ones mental and physical health. it should be looked at the same as cigarettes or drugs. Chat gpt is as woke as their programers with the responses it gives. It has absolutely no benefits to it, on any level.
Don't let thought control your life, instead go for walk - social life with balance your life. Also understand that is not only your one problem, there a lot of people and same scenario, so you can have impact ant change. Sometime I start realize this thoughts can come from emptiness feeling, or maybe stress that girls don't want talk to you or when you got reject and you search fulfilment in porn "fake love videos" dopamine. What the best question for stop I think "Do I want to experience another life?" where is your potential, god given inner gift in your life you're using. And again there can be after 1 month or 2 weeks setbacks which go with thoughts.. ahh just one more time and that's it, but after you will feel no energy, fog in your mind, and no goal achievements. So again it's not only you in the world who feel like that or experience it, just make different choice. Did you born to just watch porn and Die?
My husband was addicted. I had no idea. I thought there was so many things that were wrong with me because I wanted to have sex with my husband because he was always stressed and he wasn’t in the mood. I thought he just had low testosterone and it turns out he was a porn addict. It never occurred to me, and the Holy Spirit urged me to ask him. And I asked him last month, he admitted and I was completely heartbroken. I asked him a million questions and immediately he became accountable with our pastor and his godly friends. Now we are healing, this darkness has been exposed, all the gaslighting he did to me now all made sense that I wasn’t crazy after all. Praying for continued freedom for him and healing for me. God is good. Thank you.
Everything you get a virus from those sites, the site gets paid by the virus creator. THAT is how they make their money. I had no idea. I learned this in an undergraduate deviant behavior course. It is all so much worse than most people know. PBD only scratches the very surface of this subject.
One day woke up said never going to watch porn again, didn't watch porn for 3 months, relapsed forgave my self and decided not to do it again after 6 months of no porn relapsed again forgave myself. now its been 2 year's since i watched porn never felt better. feels like i am the king eveything is on track
Porn destroys lives brothers please stop it❤
Thanks for your comment, I did 1 year of nofap and after relapsing to nothing, the release sensation brought me to porn again, slower but it did.
What I found in your comment is that your forgive yourself, something that I wasn't doing until I read this, thanks brother!
I have to get back to the track!
@@joaotome40 dont you get nightfall following no fap for so long
@@joaotome40Hey man, you should be damn proud of how much progress you have made!! Such a long streak is extremely difficult when it comes to porn. I used to have a strong addiction, and was part of several forums of online communities. Several people in that chat were addicted to physical drugs, and said that porn was much harder to break free from than any of the drugs they did. You were able to, from pure mental will power, abstain from it that long. BECAUSE YOU ARE A BEAST! Also, it is only a slight set back, you are not going back to point zero, even if may feel like that. Think about it this way, if you are driving from New York to Los Angeles, and you take a wrong turn when you are almost past the California border, you don't drive all the back to New York because you took one wrong turn. You maybe watched for 60 minutes total (the number does not matter), even though there are 525,600 minutes in a year. So that means for 525,540/525,600 minutes you stayed strong.
Another tip I have is to always stay humble, and remember it starts with the eyes. It's much harder to turn off porn when you are already on the site. Making the active decision to not watch girls on social media, or even go on there in the first place, is much easier to do. Also, have an identity shift.You are not a porn watcher, it's as simple as that. Saying this to yourself gives much more power than trying to have a streak. Streaks get broken, but you are not a porn watcher so why would you even need a streak? These are some things that helped me along the way. You may have relapsed, but it made you stronger and you will break free from this evil addiction. Great job and I am damn proud of you!!
bro pls help me
Congrats 🥳
Porn is DEMONIC! I'm so glad I overcame my addiction years ago. I'm never turning back!
Damn bro your youtube account is as old as mine
@@yournewfarther bruhhh you guys some old ass niggas ngl 😂😂
@@yournewfartherwhat does that have to do with what he said???
@@RawDogTV what has your comment to do with mine?
@@RawDogTV So are you.
I read this once… “You don’t know you’re addicted until you try to quit”.
Thank god its just weed a porn 😂
@@CarlBland-l8ldon’t thank God for your weaknesses tf
The fact that nobody talks about the book NoFap Rebirth Project, speaks volumes about how people are stuck in life.
You're talking about it. 1k likes the top comment.
What's special about this book? Legit question.
Is this a bot comment?
@@amur_yes
@@amur_ this whole channel is bots
I pray to our father most high to help all the men young and old to have the strength to fight off this addiction 🙏
Yes me too I’m 29 🙏🏼✝️
@@bekabeka71same age, same boat, also in need. Let’s all fight to end this evil habit of our and depend on the lord. 🙏🙏🙏
im day 25 of nofap. last streak was 183 days. im feeling great.
You went on "nofap" for 183 days. You're not on nofap, you're already not a fapper. Nofap is attempting to succeed, you've already succeeded. Stop counting your days, it will only make you more aware of porn. For example, you don't count the day you last murdered somebody because you've never killed somebody and have no desire to. If you're still getting urges, it's not physical it's brainwashing.
Great growing bro blessings
Why do you do it? What did you gain so far?
@@ultimatom9834 + Chronic blue balls....
Don't count the days . It's even better that way.
Porn addiction can ruin any person's life. It is very dangerous. I will pray to God that no one suffers from porn addiction.
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
My dear, please for the love of God can you shed light on how it happened??
All thanks to Christine Evelyn Mackie
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.
I do know Christine E. Mackie, I also have even become successful....
Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Christine Evelyn Mackie.
"If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultry and nudity common among the younger generation." ~ Salahudin Ayubi in 11th century AC. A thousand years ago.
great kurdish leader
Subhanallah !!❤ That's true bro, Assalamou aleykoum
Mind Begs the Question:
▪︎Islam forbids Usury/Interest Banking
▪︎Those who practice,impose Usury
▪︎To view Islam as Threat to Demonize/Eliminate,no?
@@HumanBeingsRThinkingBeings hello my friend I'm sorry if I don't understands the first phrase very well (English is my second language)
But if you aren't Muslim and just asking about the reason why Islam forbids the bank interests OR "Usury" in general
then I suggest you search for this subject and educate urself and see how this thing harms the economic and the society(and a lot of other problems as well)
knowing that ALLAH (the only truly GOD) doesn't forbid anything without it being harmful on the (Individual,society,...etc) even if we don't know the reason
thank you and sorry for taking much of your time
Go do with camel then
I was addicted to Heroin and alcohol and porn. Out of all 3 of these Porn was the hardest to quit. We need more of this Thank you PBD
Then you definitely wasn't addicted to heroin but go on w ya bad self
That speaks volumes!
God bless you bro
Pretending the porn consumption is equal to and is as detrimental and destructive as heroin and alcohol abuse is hilarious. I’ve never heard of anyone dying of a porn overdose, and I’ve never heard of anyone accidentally killing a family by running their car into them because they were under the influence of porn.
I was having a conversation with an in-law. I was telling them how I'm going to teach my son to stay away from porn and teach him why. The Response I got was you need to let them experiment and figure out these things themselves. My response was would you let your son figure out for themselves and experiment with heroin. They looked at me like i was crazy. I had to take it back to chemistry. I said the dopamine Spike and crash are not dissimilar. Except with heroin you can isolate yourself from supply. With porn or masturbation it not only on us but it's in us 24/7/52
The fact that no generation has seen this kind of spiritual and mental weapon against it is crazy. Lord protect us.
What I always think
I haven't seen it in over 7-8 years and I'm thankful. I have to Thank God for that.
How can you possibly not "see" it after being addicted? You can't get away from the shit. Constant triggers everywhere. It feels absolutely inescapable.
You look like a G so makes sense
@Todor7what are you on about? Does your words have any basis 🤦🏻♀️
@@CJW0056just don’t watch 😂it not that complex
Porn destroys us spiritually and ultimately our physical well being.
Feminism and this woke nonsense hasn't helped.
It’s all a byproduct of technology leading to a desire of excess deviance regardless if it was porn or anything else these desires would go unchecked and rear their head in some form.
I don’t think guys like Epstein or any of these wealthy elites on Wall Street abusing people are watching that much porn but they’re definitely causing harm to society, so my point is it’s not as simple as one area of sedation to boost dopamine highs, there’s a multitude of factors that includes drugs, overeating, and addiction in general. I don’t think the gamer choking the chicken in the basement is any more or less spiritually corrupted than the rich guy who goes to the strip club with a briefcase full of drugs hoping to create his own live porn possibly filming it for the guy in the basement to watch.
Tell me the difference please. I’m starting to think this campaign against something that’s been around for decades has more to do with major companies noticing marriage rates going down which hinders profits, less men spending money in nightclubs which hurts a variety of businesses, restaurants/hospitality dying because dating is waning, and men that have resources not feeling as rewarded for having their resources because they’re not competing with anybody but themselves now for women who they no longer want to marry that make their own money filming guess what with their phones? It’s not going anywhere so blame the technocratic society. 😏
I was shown that demons feed off of porn . Watching porn opens up a demonic portal and creates food for evil spirits. Just remember when you're indulging in porn, demons are attaching themselves to you.
56 here and still loving it. When exactly will it destroy my life?
If you re getting spiritually destroyed you might not be using the proper grip...
Of all the addictions, this is the most violent.😐
Most dangerous
And hard to quit it bro I'm 10 years of addicted tell this day I'm trying 😢😢
@@issasd1172 Don't give up trying.. you surely will.
More grace and strength. Always form healthy habits with momentum and pray for help ..by His mercies you'll not just count the days; but make the days count.
@@issasd1172be a sperm donor man. Our dragons have to breathe from time to time it's just nature and we can't change that. The cave men survived by hunting, eating and also by releasing themselves downstairs by urinating and taking a dump and also fvckin. We fvcked so we can repopulate the earth
Also don't forget masterbation as well. That is the big problem today
If you are a young man reading this please stop watching porn and lusting over soft core porn on instagram all day, if your mind is over sexualised you will never succeed. I'm 21 and haven't watched porn since I was 17. Porn ruins your sexuality and spirit. On long periods of retention you begin to transmutate your sexual desires into other desires such as getting in shape, making money etc. Thank you Patrick for touching on a taboo topic, it's so important we talk about the monster that industry has become. I would like to Thank you for the rest of your content as well as you give me insight into this world.
Im 22 i understand you all the way bud. Im meber watching it ever i feel so demonic to the point i keep watching it cant go 2 days without it. I quite from today enough is enough. Stay Hard kings
I started doing drugs since my teenage. Got addicted to heroin for over 16 years. Heroin addiction actually destroyed my life. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
@@AmadaBlackCan you help me with the reliable source A. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in France. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
@@ThomasBurlsonYes he's Dr.jeffshroom. Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used
@@AmadaBlackI'm really happy for you that your mom decided to help you...I hear about alot of family members or so called friends shutting an addict out of their life, which since most addicts do it to mask emotions to me is the worse thing someone can do to an addict.
@@BrieflyCarmel-vw1znmushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
P*** addiction affects marriages. I’m a witness of that. It’s definitely weakening our men. Glad this is a conversation. It’s not to shame but to bring an issue to light
Women also have unrealistic expectations to male performance because of promiscuity among them
Naw I think men got tired of pleasing women so this better route
😂😂😂@@Bigblack804
@@Bigblack804 nosense, i here foolishness and ignorance from your thoughts, porn is turning lions into cats
@Bigblack804 LMFAO we're sick of their shit fr
Thanks PBD. I love how you approached this topic not just from a spiritual lens- but emphasizing the devastating impact on the psyche. This in turn is impacting how our society is functioning or dysfunctioning rather.
Please keep speaking out against this evil 🙏🏽
The only way to quit watching porn videos is to pray 5 times to GOD(ALLAH) and recite the Holy Quran on daily basis. Insha ALLAH, ALLAH will help you.
I am so very happy that someone of your profile is addressing this sad reality. Thanks so much! Your kids are lucky to have you as a father ❤👋
Big respect to PBD, saying what needs to be said and digging into what the elites don’t want the public to know.
Porn has severely impacted my social and dating life. I am still unable to overcome it.
You have to replace an addiction with another addiction.
Volunteer for Habitat oof Humanity and stop being lazy,
This is how it works. Lust is the desire to indulge in anything that is outside of the will and boundaries of God. See, the devil perverted it by introducing the unhealthy desire and so people now under the constrains of the devil. The best way to over this behavior is through the opposite. God wants to free you the devil wants to enslave you. Think about it.
My heart feels for you. I was there, but I'm so much better now, you have hope.
Get you a job in hard construction and work 12 hours a day for 6 days a week. When you get home you won't want do shit but shower and sleep
At 35 years old I was sexually abused at age 7, got addicted to porn by 10, and just the last couple years I've realized how much it's changed and destroyed my life. There are ZERO positives to pornography.
I could argue it saves millions of women from getting raped 🤷♂️
Don’t let that trauma define you bud. Keep your chins up 👍🏼
what does the abuse have to do with your addiction
@@dareal5401are you serious…. Use your head. He was sexually abused, which caused him to be hyper sexual. Thus seeking out that dopamine online
Way more common than people would imagine.
Porn is illegal in China. Although it exists and is available through VPN, it needs a lot of effort to get to it, you don't get it thrown at you everywhere like in the US.
And they still have lower marriage and rates then USA porn is not a issue
The only way to quit this habit is to pray 5 times to GOD(ALLAH) and recite the Holy Quran on daily basis.
Islam is a false religion. The quran is extremely inferior to the holy Bible(kjv)
The answer to this addiction is to FAST and PRAY against the spirit of lust.
100%!
Yes. FAST and PRAY consistently and often.
How is lust a bad thing? Isn't that what makes us want to find a partner or spouse in the first place? Ive never understood this.
I disagreee guys….by far the best counter to oorn addiction is to eiminate idle time and block xxx websites from your browser….get out of the house and work and stay busy….learn a new skill and excerise. For the first 2 weeks make yourself so tired out aide that as soon as you het home and hit the bed you zzz and set an alarm to wale up early and tAke COLD SHOWERS
Jealous bro?
44 and am just now walking away from it. Wish I would have earlier.
God bless you
Damn… how’s it feel to be such a weak individual?🤣
@@Joker-11B-SYLVdudes making an effort to improve himself and your response is to be a smug snide ass. Compensating for something maybe?
@@Joker-11B-SYLVYour name is definitely accurate. Couldn’t imagine any woman taking you seriously with such an immature mindset.
I've been there. I was fortunate enough to get away from it in my early 30's. It felt like a prison to me. This is destroying men's mental health and relationships.
The longest I've been without porn in the last 17 years is probably 10 days. Most days it's 2 or 3 times per day. It is a miserable addiction that has no doubt destroyed my life in a lot of ways. I've tried quitting many times, but I feel like it has a vice grip on me so strong I'd have to die to get it off. I genuinely don't know how to stop. I know that sounds like a cop-out, but I have no idea. It's available everywhere. If I even have the slightest urge, my imagination starts spiraling until it's the only thing I can think about. It's terrible. It's no doubt hurt my relationships with women and I don't want to be this way. I remember not being addicted when I was younger and having way less hatred towards women and having much better relationships with them. Please keep spreading this message Patrick, it's an important one. I hope we can get it banned in the US someday.
I also think it's greatly contributed to hookup culture and our cultural obsession with sex. It's a cancer on our society.
How do you have time 3x per day
Man, don’t get discouraged. It can be done, people quit this thing everyday, and you absolutely can do it as well.
You do need Jesus.
John 8:34-36 KJV - Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin.
35 And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. 36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
Please ask Jesus to help you
Same I’m surrounded by women but can’t do anything with them. What am I supposed to do
But truly sad is men who won't accept the FACT they love sex and porn.
ive been watching porn for about 20 years now.. ive been trying to quit for years but i always relaps. sometimes i even wish i could take drugs to cut the sexual urge in me but i know that will probably have bad side effects and i'll regret it. I try so hard to be a good christian but porn and masturbation just has an extremely powerful hold on me and this makes me feel like a hypocrite and theres no way god accepts my service to him. I am sooo desperate for him to at least be ok with me.. i dont think i can ever make him proud so to just live knowing that im not dissapointing him is something i want so bad.. i even feel ashamed to pray and read the bible .. i just want to stop forever but i just cant and im so tired of failing at it.
I love you man, I’ve been in the same boat. We can get through this. God doesn’t know conditional love. You are loved and accepted by the father. He does want what’s best for you. Loves you regardless
I had to go through fasting and deliverence with my pastor and back then my friend now my wife to break pornography off me. Then I got prayed with by a man of God that came from America. Without authority now matter how much I pleaded with God I had to wait for my deliverence.
I think porn addiction is as bad now then it was ever due to how prevalent it is. Our phones are in our pockets and hands everyday. Sometimes porn is a urge due to boredom. It's terrible, that's why I work out and read more. I hated that and alcohol.
Grind and get a schedule is the cure, man.
*I am so thankful that I was able to kick this bad habit some time ago! My relationship is now more intimate and I am living guilt free being able to focus on my 4 girls!*
wdym by 4 girls
😂
I have been addicted most of my life, still am. Everything you said is true..everything. Amazing to see how Satan is using this to end society. It's working
Jesus wants to set you free read Romans 8 and John 15
Sure, blame it on Satan.
I can say with certainty it's one of the hardest addictions to overcome. I was addicted for 16 years and still struggle with it. Praying there's a path forward for me to finally let go of this and live a life of freedom.
Go get hooked on meth. Then try to quit. You’ll see over coming porn addiction is nothing
It doesn't help when it's readily available for free everywhere. Heck Instagram is the worst violator. When you don't subscribe to it or hit like on any pornographic reels the algorithm still pushes it in for feed. There needs to be some kind revolutionary push back. Porn needs to be banned completely from society.
Without certainty?
@@krninja22 it’s not the hardest addiction to overcome. Go try meth and see what’s harder
I can relate to where you're coming from, brother. There is definitely hope for you to end this addiction completely by rewiring your brain. Check out Porn Reboot by Elevated Recovery. They're the best when it comes to porn addiction recovery for men in the world.
I stopped using porn and alcohol when I left the Navy. My life's been on the up ever since. No struggles with delaying gratification, no struggles with discipline, no struggles with social relationships (mostly lol ).
If you didn't have the "mostly" 😅 we woulda assumed you were 🦸♂️
Social media addiction is just as bad as pr0n addiction. Change my mind.
Not at all.
Def cant argue that.
you're right
Stupid point, not worth arguing lmao
Ask your'e lady or boyfriend
Porn is not reality because real sex is completely different from want you see on the internet, that's a reason most women complain about the performance of their BF and Husbands who are addicted to Porn.
They also complain because their perception of sex is being altered by porn an increasing amount as well
and the point is????
@@angelofamillionyears4599I’d use you as my boy toy
- The Diddler
@@angelofamillionyears4599"STOP WATCHING PRN [MUSIC VIDEO]" by Bryson Gray x Tyson James
Yes its completely different one you play with yourself with no accountability or consequences the second one requires acountibility, risk and devotion.
This video needs to go viral and must be seen by everyone.
At 20 years old i was highly addicted to pornography. Seven years later I'm happy to say that after much hard work, I am now 27 years old.
I’m 20 years old now and this gave me a lot of hope. God Bless and peace be with you brother.
World's most underrated comment lol
Lol it is hard to quit that’s for sure
Ffs
😂😂😂
So there was a time in America when America was just as strict as Iran when it came to immoral behavior
Yep! What a miserable fucking time.
No thank you. Freedom and by extension personal responsibility need to make a come back.
@bradleyjohnson6107 women in America was fighting for their rights in the late 1960's ,they didnt make rape against the law until the late 1800's 😳 in America.
No one wants to live in Iran
We don't need Draconian laws but at least ID & Paywalls for access to said things.
I stopped years ago. Best decision ever
Amazing. Keep at it
Most definitely the hardest thing I have ever tried to quit. I pray God continues to give me the strength to rebuke it when weak.
The only way to quit watching porn videos is to pray 5 times to GOD(ALLAH) and recite the Holy Quran on daily basis. Insha ALLAH, ALLAH will help you.
As a 31 year old American dude he’s completely right and I suffer from every single thing he said
May I suggest a personal relationship with God.
@@Jojo-pw8wp God won't change if you aren't willing to change yourself
I feel like porn is a much bigger problem than anyone is talking about. Personally, I found porn before I was a teenager. It’s had a hold on my life ever since. I truly feel like it makes you weaker. I’ve tried to quit many times and during those periods that I abstain from porn I feel amazing. I feel more comfortable talking to others and I feel more motivated and masculine. Porn is a horrible thing and when you look at the numbers of people watching, it’s way more of a problem than anyone is willing to talk about.
It’s also such a hard habit to quit because it’s so easily accessible. I quit weed about a year ago and it’s so much easier to stay away from something when you just have to stop buying it. But with porn, as long as you have access to internet, it will always be a few clicks away.
To those struggling like I do, you’re not alone. Many men struggle with it and few are willing to talk about it. Be strong, pray to God, and stay occupied.
This is certainly true. When you hit puberty, it can be EXTREMELY harmful. Young men can have access 24-7. Stay home. Wack all day. Not focused on life. Fail at school. Not able to be in public. Need fathers in their lives. Guidance.
TheFatherEffect movie tells this!
I am a 31 year old man who is kind of struggling with pornography addiction. Pornography might be my number 1 addiction. I have never smoked in my life, I have never drunk alcohol in my life, and I have never taken drugs in my life. I think RUclips videos and videogames can be addictive too, lol. But those addictions are arguably not as harmful to the mind as pornography addiction.
You're actually very dangerously mistakenly. I once thought the same thing, how bad can pornography really be? It's just as bad, look up scanne brains of drug and pornography addicts. As a long life severe pornography addict, it completely consumed me and ruined my life. From my experience, it lowers your testosterone eventually. Look up low t symptoms, it's all pornography addiction symptoms, stop for good while you can!
so masturbating to porn is more unhealthy than sitting on your ass for hours on end playing video games ?
we need more like you. we should hear this narrative 5 times everyday.
Pat you a real one! A real role model for young men to follow out here. You are really successful and don't need to be doing this but you do it because you want better for people. God bless you!
I never understood how someone could be addicted to porn. I always thought it was funny, but as I matured I have empathy for addicts of any kind.
Stay safe and I hope you find a way out of your addiction.
That's interesting. So you don't get a sexual high from it? Do you have a lot of sexual outlets with real attractive partners? That could be the reason
Because they’re lonely have nobody to talk to and no pleasure from women
I am 23 and i stoped watching porn 2 years ago. That was one of the best thing that i did in my life. ( Also I am in nofap , 1 year now)
I don’t get why y’all old heads shit on young men or kids. How are we going to compete with women when young men are constantly getting hate and put on blast on social media and society. Women get away with so much bullshit but still somehow it’s a young man fault.
Dude don’t listen to these old people they are constantly putting young men on blast I watch porn and it doesn’t matter they say you lose your drive but you don’t they say that just to hate on young men.
@@JLWprime10your comment is immensely misleading and wrong. Please please please stay away from porn. It will eventually ruin many aspects of your life.
I completely stopped 3 weeks ago hopefully for at least a yr
I keep relapsing 😢
You'll get better at not relapsing. Just never, never quit working on it.
Thank you so much Pat! We need to get that message out there more
gave it up 3 years ago never went back best thing i eever did
Well done 🎉 may you NEVER GO BACK to this horrible shit
If we are being honest, much of what is shown in Netflix and other streaming services is soft core porn. If you want to steer clear of porn, you have to cut it out entirely. This might mean not watching certain shows that all your friends are watching. Don’t let the enemy gain a foothold.
Agreed, we’re living in a p0rnographic society, there’s no getting away from it.
Amen. Most TV is ungodly and disgusting, and I used to be a big TV watcher. There are so many other things to do, so many relationships to invest in, so many people to serve.
is soft corn as bad as degrading porn where the woman is treated like shit ?
@@lidiagizaw3828 I definitely don't like my corn soft
@@Noah_527 im def judging u right now. beating ur meat to a woman getting roughed up is psychotic to me
The worst part about this is the rabbit hole and sensitization you go down. You start watch weirder stuff. It makes you weak
Man, that rabit hole sure is a weird one. Lemme tell you...
@SkoloV-du9yfno
@SkoloV-du9yfstop coping please
biggest porn is the one no one talks about - social media
ignorant, you do not know what you speak of, i use social media a lot and am a formal addict to porn, you do not know how ignorant you sound, be greatful you never got into it.
I agree with you. Instagram is by far the worst culprit.
Just on RUclips shorts they promote porn it's everywhere
People actually get triggered by soft porn which Instagram serves us and then they end up on google Chrome
In interviewing serial rapists, the number one thing they commented on having done prior to committing the crime was to watch pornography. To the naysayers, I studied this topic for my undergraduate degree in abnormal deviant and violent psychology.
The also breathed air.
@@EarlMcManus2005lol
@@EarlMcManus2005Ted bundy
@@EarlMcManus2005exactly. It's amazing how people want to blame everything for their actions except themselves...
That's not all true anyone can be serial wether it is or isn't
Cool now let’s talk about social media and how it has ruined young women!
Please dont be antisemitic
Social media is by far the biggest threat to society than porn. I'd say social media addiction is worse than drug addiction. It consumes EVERYONES life. Kids, teens AND adults. It destroys relationships and marriages and lives. There are people who actively look for something controversial said by an individual and then try and ruin their life over it.
go make a video
It's ruined men aswell lmao
Excellent, excellent comment.
The main difference between cigarettes and porn is that you can delete your history.
That's right cutie
But you can't unfap yourself.
Hey Lucid wassam
Yeah.
You can delete the history from browser but you can not delete the history God have it about what do you do.Only if you repent and dont repeat the sins anymore.Good Luck!
@@ConsensusXand you cant uncancer yourself either
I see Porn as “bread and circus” to keep men distracted and unproductive. I’ve had my own problems watching porn, and spend too much time watching thirst traps on RUclips doing sexy try-on hauls. I know it’s a vice, it’s not good for me but as of right now haven’t completely kicked the habit. Thank you PBD for bringing up this subject.
Men, if you are filled with sexual energy and are not in a relationship.....switch from watching porn, to watching pick up artists and dating advice channels. The dating community will get you from sloppy, overweight, and unsociable.....to becoming a confident man that can approach and speak to real women that you meet in your daily life. This will not only help with your dating life but will help you in your professional or business life. High anxiety moments meeting women will make business meetings with men low stress and allow you to keep a strong frame. Trust me, women will be surprised and flattered if you approach them in a positive way.
Stupid advice. All that pickup crap is so cringe. The whole "muh strong frame" bs blah blah blah.
Modern vvomen are worthless and so not worth it. All they bring to the table is sex, then they'll turn the sex off and ruin your life. There is no reliable sexual outlet. And living your life to max out your stats just for a woman's attention gets real old too.
bro telling these men to treat real women like shit isnt the answer .all pick up artists teach men is how to be aholes to women
Tom and Paul gave the best PUA advice, along with Richard. Very true!
One of the best videos I've seen addressing this this epidemic. I'll pass this along to my 2 sons who are both in their 20's and I know have struggled with pornography.
Thanks for sharing and speaking about this, Patrick. As someone who really looks up to you, and as a 25-year-old struggling with this personally, all alone with nobody to talk to, this really means a lot to me.
All the best to you Hopolang!
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! There needs to be more people with as big of a social media platform like you Patrick to speak out against pornography.
Great Job PBD!! This is very true and so helpful
Do a video on women reading "romance" novels. It's just written porn. Extremely graphic and instagram are filled with clips from the books. Not to mention women harp about toxic masculinity yet the books are filled with men degrading the main female characters.
They dont wanna talk about that.....
You're right to some degree but comparing romance books to actual porn where actual ppl are seen smashing is on another level. Most men go by looks and watching pien gives them a false sense of reality when it comes to relationships
@@SWOTHDRA we need too. It's another piece to the stupid dating atmosphere.
I’m a woman. None of the women I know read romance novels, including myself. I’m not sure what you are referring to. Also, if a woman has a real life man who is paying attention to her needs, especially emotional, she would put down a book in a second. A woman who is lifted up and supported, will also in turn have a husband who is lifted up and supported.
No? Not all of them?
Theres romantic po-- too if you want to get into that category
Further, criticising one doesnt mean siding with the other?
I dont get the point of this comment at all?
Its like saying oh we're bad but you're also bad so now we're on same grounds and both of us are gonna do nothing about it. Thats the vibe im getting from this comment.
I quit it, and recently I found the love of my entire life. I finally got my first kiss. I'm happy af, I quit, and I will never return to it, because I don't wanna my life to be ruined
Porn is the reason why most people under the age of 30 are not engaging in intimacy. With porn in the privacy of their own home, they don't have to. Let alone be in a relationship.
Feminism isn't helping either. That's why I'm MGTOW but still addicted to pron over 20 years later. (Im 30)
Rubbish. Men watch porn bcoz they can't get laid in real life.
Real relationships at the end of the day will save you. Friends are out there people who will care for you are out in the real world
Real sex relationship will save you from porn *. You need to precise . But guess what most of men don't have acces to real relationship ( love or sex )....
Actually one of the earliest surviving porn films is from the start of the 19th century and is called ''The Devil''.. This is no joke, that is it's actual name. Name rings bells
PBD doesn’t know that he’s my adult content 🍆💦
- The Diddler
made by saturn films, a jewish company. right?
@@curseddeity6379 not a coincidence at all
@@EmoDKTsuchiya a Cohencidense one might even say!
Woah creepy, but I believe it!
Social media, lack of focus, division in the family, and the male loneliness epidemic are equally as bad
using porn for sexual education its the same that learning how to drive watching fast and furious
Facts
as a car enthusiast and recovering porn addict, you're spot on haha!
Nobody watch porn as sexual education.... Ppl watch bc they're horny that's it
@@seanm996hey man do you have trouble getting hard with girls? Serious question. I did research about what I could have and it’s called corn induced errectile dysfunction. I wacked off for 7 years since 13 I’m 20 now was going to lose my vcard but couldn’t get hard while I’m 3 months clean. Idk what to do man. I’m surprised the girl still is talking to me this happened on Sunday
But pls don't compare a great movie franchise with this trash!
It's an insult to Hollywood.
Porn is very unhealthy in my opinion.
I've noticed the negative effects in a lot of my friends.
When I stopped watching porn. Great things happened. I'd honestly compare it to cigarette smoking.
Pbd as a young guy in my early 20's I really appreciate your message, I hope my generation can see how they are being used for profit while having their lives destroyed...
I overcame (no pun intended) a 32 year porn addiction. It can be done. It will consume you and destroy you.
Yes indeed. I used to think it would be impossible to return to normal. It's a struggle, but now that I'm out, I'm never going back.
@EmoDKTsuchiya Congrats. I felt the same way. Spread the word, this is destroying us.
How did you do it? I've been addicted for over 16 years now.
@@krninja22 figuring out why you do it do much is a good start.
Bros left arm is more jacked then a bodybuilder on Tren
I suggest everyone get really into working out and dieting for bodybuilding if you want to escape porn addiction.
I'm 6 weeks out from a show, the amount of effort I'm putting in has distracted me from that addiction. Obviously my sex drive is lower due to being low bodyfat and hormones being disrupted, and just overall fatigue.
But coming out of this show I'll have a boost in sex drive and energy, and my wife will always be there.
I've been about a year clean from porn, and it isnt easy. But if you swap an unhealthy addiction with a healthy one, you'll be far better off.
Great message. Thank you PBD.
Patrick this video is very needed for this generation and the generation coming.
I know someone that quit corn recently. God helped him. His words are, "you have to be addicted to living righteously"
Amen!!! ❤ I love hearing stuff like this. Not being promiscuous and living pure really makes life easier. I'm a virgin (at 32 years old), but i used to read romance novels and things like that. And I've had women--and men with high body counts tell me that they wished they would have waited.
Lemme break it to you, Deanna (even in this dishonest society, overtaken by slave morality [a la Nietzsche]): You'rе a l0ser.
How did you mess up your life so bad?...
Oh, and don't try to present your loserdom as virtue! That's a classic of slave morality, by the way.
THANK YOU MAN! Such an important valuable video. They should show things like that in school!
Truth : about 50% of genz wont even try to make a real relationship. They would be better off watching porn.
All of the girls want Tyrone and Chad. The rest of us are invisible unless we're making 6 figures which most people in America don't.
Source?
What about women who regularly use sex toys???
@@ALTheFreeManalso.. unhealthy. But if men are natural leaders..start with yourself & don’t compare yourself to a woman
Good so they won't procreate. Do we need young children being raised by the current idiot kid generation that doesn't even know which parent shoots the sperm?
Dame good facts yall young men watch take this seriously!!!
Before I was a slave of this sin but I always cried and started to pray the Holy Rosary devoutly everyday I overcome it and other kinds of temptations
4:06 "Impact on productivity" is the biggest concern for me.
Nofap + cold showers + intermittent fasting + meditation = Super Saiyan Jesus 2.0
trendy little things, what tramples all of that by far is having a relationship with Christ.
Christ is a title not a person
@@johnfisher8401delusion
Jesus is a fantasy joke for adults and nerds whom people rarely use this as a chad method joke
Just simply cut off the Internet wire and stop buying internet services then No more pawn = Life good
If you need JC to overcome things then good for you. But that’s not for everyone
I love how this comment section is showing vulnerability (transparency) and presenting solutions
Even without a religious motivation behind it, PMO is completely detrimental to ones mental and physical health. it should be looked at the same as cigarettes or drugs. Chat gpt is as woke as their programers with the responses it gives. It has absolutely no benefits to it, on any level.
I know all the negative sides of porn and still can't help myself. I keep relapsing
Only God can set you free
I also keep relapsing.
That's because you are weak.
Don't let thought control your life, instead go for walk - social life with balance your life. Also understand that is not only your one problem, there a lot of people and same scenario, so you can have impact ant change. Sometime I start realize this thoughts can come from emptiness feeling, or maybe stress that girls don't want talk to you or when you got reject and you search fulfilment in porn "fake love videos" dopamine. What the best question for stop I think "Do I want to experience another life?" where is your potential, god given inner gift in your life you're using. And again there can be after 1 month or 2 weeks setbacks which go with thoughts.. ahh just one more time and that's it, but after you will feel no energy, fog in your mind, and no goal achievements. So again it's not only you in the world who feel like that or experience it, just make different choice. Did you born to just watch porn and Die?
People aren't affraid of God, that's the bottom line. Read into his warnings
Thank God that you’re spreading awareness of what this industry causes in men
Thank you
I will never go back to this sickness
❤
God bless your efforts sir.
You're spreading knowledge and that may save humanity.
Thank you Pat
That was one of the best videos
💯
My husband was addicted. I had no idea. I thought there was so many things that were wrong with me because I wanted to have sex with my husband because he was always stressed and he wasn’t in the mood. I thought he just had low testosterone and it turns out he was a porn addict. It never occurred to me, and the Holy Spirit urged me to ask him. And I asked him last month, he admitted and I was completely heartbroken. I asked him a million questions and immediately he became accountable with our pastor and his godly friends. Now we are healing, this darkness has been exposed, all the gaslighting he did to me now all made sense that I wasn’t crazy after all. Praying for continued freedom for him and healing for me. God is good. Thank you.
It is banned in Burkina Faso. AFRICA. Thanks to his excellency Ibrahim Traore.
Can ppl use a VPN to avoid the ban?
Watching Valuetainment is more addictive than porn! Thanks PBD.
Ban porn. Establish laws declaring digital public square and punish public indecency.
I agreed. Full ban on internet porn.
100%
Good luck with that, not even North Korea would manage to do it.
@@anacc3257 I think porn is the last of your worries if you live in North Korea. lol.
How about we just ban social media and OF? Or do you only care about things if it's about men?
Remember nothing is free on earth, somewhere somehow you are paying for it
Absolutely, there are no free lunches.... unless you recently just crossed the border because now apparently it's free lunches and more all the way!😂
Everything you get a virus from those sites, the site gets paid by the virus creator. THAT is how they make their money. I had no idea. I learned this in an undergraduate deviant behavior course. It is all so much worse than most people know. PBD only scratches the very surface of this subject.
So so so true brother.
GOD BLESS YOU Sir 🙏🏾
21 yrs i am addict for 6yrs now and the worst part is no one knows about it am.alone😢
No you're not, you're definitely not alone on this, a lot of men and women are struggling with this.
God is with you. Rely on him.
We're all struggling together my guy.
21 is definitely not too late to turn it around.
You're not alone man.
Great video Pat!! Props to you for exposing this on your platform. This industry is killing youth as well hence the decline in marriages and families
man i appriciate your energy, you should be my mentor
Sheeesshh
Thanks for doing this video Pat 👏🏼Much needed and very well said! Doing Gods work brother 🙌🏼