Rickey Smiley Doesn't Care How You Feel About His Parenting Style

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
  • Have a problem with how Rickey handled Craig in episode two? Guess what? He doesn't care. See Rickey go off on being old school and what that means for single women.

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  • @alwaysm.i.a10
    @alwaysm.i.a10 8 лет назад +84

    Yes Ricky go off! Being a single mother is fine and dandy, but boys need a strong male figure somewhere in their life. Whether it's an uncle, cousin, or mentor. It's needed.
    And I tell people that get on their high horse about whippings and punishment all the time, "OK, years down the line, when my sons put their feet through your window, kicking in your doors, hanging on your corners, or my daughters showing up at your door with a baby in their arms at 13-16 years old saying it's your sons, or beating your daughters ass at school every other day, DON'T SAY A MF THING TO ME AS A PARENT THEN!" Discipline is needed. More so now then when we were coming up because there's so much more distractions out there.

  • @mysteryof7
    @mysteryof7 8 лет назад +58

    Say that, Ricky! Tell anybody watching who disagrees to just take a look at you and your own life and still try to pass judgment

  • @meboneme1
    @meboneme1 7 лет назад +29

    DAMN RIGHT! Well said. I absolutely treat mine the same way!One time I even had child protection called on me for whooping my son's ass. I told the detective that my kids are mine to raise and when/if they need a whooping,they will get it. She said,"i wish we had more parents like you,we just have to investigate when we get a call". I ALWAYS say, "who's calling the police when the POLICE beat the shit out of my son? I'm trying to make sure that doesn't happen. Self sufficient men here. NOT living off some poor,stupid girl that allow that shit to happen. So sad.

  • @hilbertsandifer1998
    @hilbertsandifer1998 8 лет назад +52

    Say that Ricky! Old school teaching

  • @stefbowie
    @stefbowie 2 года назад +7

    I LOVE IT, Rickey!! WE HAVE 2 Boys we adopted & my husband and I run a tight ship. We let them know that nobody out there cares about their trauma or that they were mistreated. We got counseling for that… but excuses to not do simple things like got to school, clean your room, respect themselves, us and other adults will not be tolerated!! I am with you… if you don’t like it then come & take them with you!! And believe me, ain’t nobody running to pick them up! 💯💯💯

  • @leticiamitchell4102
    @leticiamitchell4102 7 лет назад +33

    We need more men like this raising young boys today

  • @merkeezzee
    @merkeezzee 7 лет назад +30

    This is one of the realist damn videos on RUclips!!!

  • @justblase5270
    @justblase5270 8 лет назад +16

    preach we need a lot of black guys in the world like this guys.Guys like you are the reason why I am the way I am. I'm a black guy I have 3 kids one baby mother I graduated and I paid for my own schooling and never went to jail. the people that are saying you're wrong most of them don't even watch their own kids they have the mother of their fathers on nannies doing that or grandmothers so you are a father that's actually with your kids around your kids you hang out with your kids you know what they do you know what they watch most of them can't say that so you keep doing what you do and show the world that black guys are good parents One Love and respect from everybody in Trinidad and Tobago

  • @g.d.3279
    @g.d.3279 6 лет назад +7

    We have the same views Rickey! Thank you for letting it be known about the "real men old school values"! My sons mother and even my momma! thinks I'm too hard on my son, too harsh because I try to instill discipline and structure in his life. I've been having second thoughts about myself and have been really really stressed out because it seems like the whole world is against me. I love my son and I am VERY familiar with making wrong decisions in life so I KNOW what steps he should NOT be taking in order for him to be successful and become a man...thank you Rickey Smiley. I am a Hispanic father trying to raise a man as well...

    • @pitbull4christ
      @pitbull4christ 7 месяцев назад

      You don’t need to apologize nor feel bad about keeping your son out of trouble and out of the streets. If that means giving him a whoopin because he’s acting up and getting in trouble, then that is what you may have to do. It sucks sometimes but it’s keeping him out of a jail cell and six feet under.

  • @djkingroyal8546
    @djkingroyal8546 8 лет назад +29

    oh my brother testify

  • @Saavamusic
    @Saavamusic 8 лет назад +19

    Beat them kids Ricky!!! You got the power

  • @andrelewis774
    @andrelewis774 8 лет назад +18

    Preach brother, preach!

  • @DestroJJ
    @DestroJJ 7 лет назад +9

    Word is Bond. Respect.

  • @tracienotstacie7577
    @tracienotstacie7577 7 лет назад +12

    Yes sir!! A million times over! Preach that because if you don't raise them, They will raise you! If you want to be grown get out your own!

  • @lawrencesavage7466
    @lawrencesavage7466 8 лет назад +5

    I agree whole heartedly. We need more father's like us. It worked in the past and it will work in the future. Good job Ricky Smiley

    • @AramintaRossPistol
      @AramintaRossPistol 3 года назад

      I love that you said "like us"...you have to hold people accountable for their actions.

  • @dhallumdaniels67
    @dhallumdaniels67 8 лет назад +13

    I know that's right,Amen,Amen👏👏

  • @ne-neiztheeclouds
    @ne-neiztheeclouds 8 лет назад +19

    lol I know that's right

  • @deloreskeys7872
    @deloreskeys7872 4 года назад +2

    Ricky I'm glad you are raising your boys old school,they will respect you and other people,You are doing a darn good job,Bless you.

  • @QueenZParker
    @QueenZParker 8 лет назад +7

    100% AGREE!!!! ...and it IS SO, Rickey! #ATrueManTeachingAYoungManHowToBeARealMan!
    ~Queen~

  • @ThickDaMonsta
    @ThickDaMonsta 4 года назад +1

    💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 Proud black mother here that raises her young black son the same way. His father and Nana are very soft on him but I'm not! It's yes ma'am/no ma'am. Yes sir/no sir. Open up doors for women and the elderly. Pull out chairs. Sit down after a woman has etc. Carry yourself as a king and your goddess will come to you. Same for my daughter. Except NOTHING but the best and NEVER be afraid to eat alone because you know exactly what you bring to the table.

  • @theresaherrmann4965
    @theresaherrmann4965 8 лет назад +5

    that's what I tell my kids if they dont like it come get them you do the work

  • @donnastillstandingjones5783
    @donnastillstandingjones5783 8 лет назад +8

    Frat.......Loving this.....this old head Que Pearl couldn't be prouder. Reminds me of my son's father letting him have it after he did what he was told not to.......our son decided to "buck"......his dad reminded him who he answers to and if he tried that again......we'll let's say there has never been a repeat episode....lol....Que Psi!

  • @delisasodevine252
    @delisasodevine252 4 года назад +3

    We need more men like you. My father and late husband were strong men and they believed in raising men not mommas boys. Whoop there butt when they're young and they wont get killed when they're older. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sherrywarren616
    @sherrywarren616 3 года назад +1

    Real talk Rickey!
    You know what your talking about! So much respect for you!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @exzondaross5422
    @exzondaross5422 7 лет назад +6

    I don't blame you at all Rickey

  • @tamarmts
    @tamarmts 7 лет назад +1

    I wish that I could like this more than once. thank you

  • @JMichellesSpot
    @JMichellesSpot 8 лет назад +20

    l love you Rickey. Teach the cub how to be an Alpha Male!

    • @jonesmcooper1
      @jonesmcooper1 5 лет назад +1

      JMichelle please don't use the term "Alpha" around Ricky.....you know he won't be thinking Alpha male, he will be thinking A PHI A and then he will start stomping and barking "Q" style! Lol.

  • @amiajohnson2428
    @amiajohnson2428 Год назад

    Man I needed to hear this so bad I’m so tired of my mama and siblings (sisters ) talking ish bout me with my 4 year old son IM 25 I’m not RASING no sorry ass man ! Put me in jail then in my Ricky smiley voice !

  • @lucyw.mcmellan7274
    @lucyw.mcmellan7274 5 лет назад +1

    I applaud you Rickey. I just want to clarify a little something that you said, and that is that not all young men raised by their mothers are mama's boys. I was a single parent who raised my son with help from no one. I am also old school from another country, and I didn't play. My house, my rule. Long story short, he graduated with honors from an all boys school in NOLA, went on to ND, then grad school at DePaul. Was it easy? Not one bit. I also took a lot of criticism for my style of raising my son, and my response to that was that he got nobody pregnant, he was never arrested, and he did not hang out on any street corner.
    You keep doing what you do, and whoever doesn't like it, they can kiss your you know what. Sorry this is so lengthy. 👍

  • @godbody8219
    @godbody8219 Год назад

    Always Gone LIVE! I definitely agree

  • @feliciajackson4168
    @feliciajackson4168 7 лет назад +1

    Thanks Rickey/Bruh for standing your ground as you're absolutely correct. it's better that you discipline him than the law and a strong male role model is definitely needed as there too many mama's boys that have no direction in life. It's tough to raise a young black male in a fatherless home. Handle it Rickey!!!!!

  • @Love-Is-Kind
    @Love-Is-Kind 7 лет назад +7

    Amen! Say that, Rickey! 😄👍

  • @mackaylam8594
    @mackaylam8594 7 лет назад +4

    preach it Ricky, preach. Your correct 1000%

  • @tronsmith981
    @tronsmith981 2 года назад +1

    Rickey Smiley is the father all young people need.

  • @essensepaula238
    @essensepaula238 2 года назад

    AMEN RICKY...THANK U🎈🎈🎈🎈💝

  • @elviramerriweather1002
    @elviramerriweather1002 3 года назад

    You Exactly Right

  • @acajudi100
    @acajudi100 Год назад +1

    I agree 100%, R.I.P. Brandon.

  • @ronniestanford6528
    @ronniestanford6528 3 года назад

    I agree with you Rickey your kids you raised them right

  • @debrathompson6951
    @debrathompson6951 7 лет назад +5

    MR RICKEY SMILEY..... Love the way you keep it real........

  • @gmama459
    @gmama459 7 лет назад

    old school mother here, giving you props. it was good enough for me and was good enough for mine. I'm proud to say that it made respectful young men and women. I'm working on the grand babies now.

  • @jpreddy3665
    @jpreddy3665 8 лет назад +1

    Ricky, can I call you to tell my nephew off over the phone!?! Just pick a topic to go off on! All the above would apply!

  • @AnimeChris90
    @AnimeChris90 8 лет назад +7

    Tough Love is the only way to go in this world

  • @elisahorhn9071
    @elisahorhn9071 5 лет назад

    AMEN MR. Smiley, now here ends the lesson!!!!!!!

  • @classiseverything2me
    @classiseverything2me 8 лет назад +5

    ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!!!!

  • @aprlnycole84
    @aprlnycole84 8 лет назад

    I totally agree bc my mother was just as strick as Rickey I think it is a wonderful thing u taking in life to help them keep doing your thing Mr. Smiley

  • @kathrynwatkins9932
    @kathrynwatkins9932 8 лет назад +2

    Preach Mr, Smiley, I feel the same way as you. That's the problem with our youth, they're following behind their so call friends that's leading them down the wrong path. But listening to a man that's been where there going and know how it is on the streets and in the real world. They don't want to hear what is being said to them. I'm with you 100%. If it was me I would've sent him packing let him find his own house and follow his own rules. Then I wonder how he would appreciate what he has and the father that you are. Continue being old skool, love that in you.

  • @monicareid1262
    @monicareid1262 8 лет назад +3

    Yes!

  • @DDavis-mi2cg
    @DDavis-mi2cg 8 лет назад +5

    Amen Ricky! Love you.

  • @bethanywilhelm4451
    @bethanywilhelm4451 4 года назад

    Exactly! I found someone who thinks just like me! I swear! Blunt and to the point. And sincerely & genuinely don't care. And we shouldn't care. Like he says "Who are you?".

  • @erikamary530
    @erikamary530 5 лет назад

    You are absolutely correct I'm with you old school most definitely. Raising men you are right on point everything you said is correct thank you for sharing that!!

  • @christinaw.mcbeth8391
    @christinaw.mcbeth8391 Год назад

    Get down Rick! I know that’s right. All day!

  • @QualityChildcare1
    @QualityChildcare1 5 лет назад +1

    Exactly!!! This video needs to go VIRAL!!!

  • @helenzollicoffer7013
    @helenzollicoffer7013 Год назад

    Well Said Ricky ❤

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад

    Beautiful.

  • @faye1874
    @faye1874 8 лет назад +4

    Right on....so true!

  • @brownlove6138
    @brownlove6138 Год назад

    That part,🎯 💯💫🙌🏽💛

  • @lorrie1959
    @lorrie1959 4 года назад

    Thank you, Rickey.

  • @timothyblount7040
    @timothyblount7040 8 лет назад +3

    Rickey, you hit the nail on the head! In these days, families are neglecting their position or negotiating with the behavior of children, but don't realize the handicapped results. In return, many of these males will be incompetent to excel in schools, relationships, social development, or obtain a decent job. Even the price of being a father figure or role model is critical because many of our black males are being raised by the streets. If we don't resolve this crisis soon, our young people will grow up to be narcissist, degenerate adults!

  • @gpizzle3799
    @gpizzle3799 Год назад

    Preach!

  • @Loveprincessmiah
    @Loveprincessmiah 5 лет назад +1

    Preach !!!! Yassss!!!!Amen ... I know that’s right Ricky !

  • @goomersgirl1
    @goomersgirl1 8 лет назад +1

    SAY THAT. there's nothing else left to say

  • @LeaRey
    @LeaRey 7 лет назад +1

    I agree 100% . This is the way my parents did things raising us. Granted I'm nearly 50 years old, but this is the same way I raised my kids. Letting kids parent themselves and negotiating with them instead of laying down the law is the problem with most of the youth today. Besides many young men having no positive male role model rather it be a Father, Grandfather or Uncle. Seems to me Ricky is raising his kids the way he was raised, apparently it works.

  • @beautifuldayqueen9057
    @beautifuldayqueen9057 6 лет назад +1

    GO HEAD AND PREAAAACH BOI! LOVE EVERYTHI NG YOU SAID. ON POINT .

  • @jamessmothers9132
    @jamessmothers9132 7 лет назад +2

    no mommas boys, yes I love it!!!! it's way to many of them out here today....

  • @maryliekhus1721
    @maryliekhus1721 2 года назад

    PREACH!!!!!

  • @Renee302976
    @Renee302976 Год назад

    Sometimes we as parents need to compromise and LISTEN

    • @Cheerleader644860
      @Cheerleader644860 5 месяцев назад

      Yes thats true the comment i was looking for

  • @shondaharris7220
    @shondaharris7220 2 года назад

    Amen!

  • @AramintaRossPistol
    @AramintaRossPistol 3 года назад +1

    I was raised old school and it was a community effort. You can either raise your kids or forfeit them to the system/street.. BTW...I'm anti spanking due to the violence I saw on my family, so I use other forms of discipline..but don't get it twisted...you will get dealt with.

  • @SEA-dx1sv
    @SEA-dx1sv 2 года назад

    Making great moves.

  • @lakeshacarter8198
    @lakeshacarter8198 6 лет назад

    Preach Doc! Thank you for raising MEN! If Momma and/or Daddy didn't raise you l damn sho'll won't do it!

  • @e.s.7520
    @e.s.7520 Год назад

    Facts!

  • @BeautelligentDiva79
    @BeautelligentDiva79 7 лет назад +4

    Hell to the yes!! I'm loving it Rickey!!!

  • @mochaCF61
    @mochaCF61 3 года назад

    Ricky is telling the old-school truth!

  • @tyahmike26
    @tyahmike26 5 лет назад +1

    That's what I told my nephew!!

  • @michelletaylor7094
    @michelletaylor7094 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you!!!

  • @anthonyjohnson8742
    @anthonyjohnson8742 3 года назад

    💯💯 mann real as it get

  • @latoyataylor403
    @latoyataylor403 5 лет назад

    You talking right Ricky!!!!
    I am the same way with my son...no excuses no exceptions...YOU GONE DO RIGHT!
    Ricky had me screaming at Jazz in the Gardens😂 A straight clown!

  • @denisecaslin5587
    @denisecaslin5587 4 года назад

    True for sure Rickey I feel the same way that's what up

  • @kimmblycrumley5847
    @kimmblycrumley5847 8 лет назад

    right on brother

  • @kimflowers8111
    @kimflowers8111 7 лет назад

    Amen. You said that.

  • @avick5634
    @avick5634 3 года назад

    I know that's right Ricky put the law down

  • @angelac6405
    @angelac6405 5 лет назад

    Amen= A man..............................preach it Ricky!

  • @beachlife8367
    @beachlife8367 4 года назад

    Facts

  • @musicandme1982
    @musicandme1982 5 лет назад +1

    That's right Rickey!!!!!!

  • @brandonharris7464
    @brandonharris7464 7 лет назад

    Need more like him💯💯

  • @thescatman5029
    @thescatman5029 3 года назад

    Agree with Rickey!

  • @arnettaadkins5970
    @arnettaadkins5970 2 года назад

    Amen

  • @sandrawashington9069
    @sandrawashington9069 4 года назад

    Dang rickey dint know yet i applaude you i'm old school too and keep handling yours

  • @rahvisionproductionz2929
    @rahvisionproductionz2929 6 лет назад +1

    Tell it my brother!!!! I'm old school too, preach!!!!!!!

  • @angelatownsend5032
    @angelatownsend5032 6 лет назад

    Amen I agree with you Rickey.

  • @s.m7256
    @s.m7256 3 года назад

    Ricky is so old at heart 😂.

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 5 лет назад

    Dang i wish i could see the whole episode. Craig going to regret his choices eventually, but he got to learn the hard way. I love Rickey's parenting. I agree 100%

  • @marypearlhunt388
    @marypearlhunt388 5 лет назад

    WELL ALRIGHT THEN!!! SAY IT RICK, SAY IT !!!! THATS REAL TALK !!! 👍👍👊.....AMEN !

  • @buck4129
    @buck4129 5 лет назад

    Feel you ! Also those women not letting fathers do there job also

  • @sherellmurray8147
    @sherellmurray8147 8 лет назад +1

    I agree with you

  • @chriskellysr5316
    @chriskellysr5316 7 лет назад

    ALL PRAISE TO THE MOST HIGH

  • @bryantanthonyjr94
    @bryantanthonyjr94 Год назад

    100% I don’t do mama’s boys either

  • @JD-ew1jl
    @JD-ew1jl 8 лет назад

    Preach

  • @geninebailey9711
    @geninebailey9711 8 лет назад

    Love it

  • @15spittman
    @15spittman 8 лет назад +1

    Tell'em Rickey