They always blame the guy, no one even asked if she’s doing anything that’s causing arguments, there’s no way all 3 daily arguments are about the one snapchat issue.
It broke my heart when she was tearing up and stated that she did not have anyone in her life to tell her these things. I hope she takes Steve’s advice to heart and slows down and focuses on herself.
I'm 27 just moving out, been in a relationship for 4 years now but took the time to grow for myself, got my education, my job and saved enough money for a good start. At 19? I was at University no worried about one guy, traveled ALOT by car and planes with my friends, made many friends and made a few mistakes. Thank God for the Mother I have who always talked to me and the fact that she lived all stages of her life, she influenced me to do the same.
Girl if you are helping in paying the bills and bringing food to the table, you just saved a great deal of rent. Moreover, you just can't feel alone. In addition, you can date safely following the 90 days role, if he wants you he will work hard for you. Finally, you are respected daughter and in future you will be a respect significant other/ a wife. In deed, no rush at all.
I’m 22 and men are trying to rush me out the house. Why so you can live off me. I want to do things in order. I have a son and his father is deceased . I don’t want to rush and be stuck in a situation.
Absolutely. Then when she said "I lost my dad when I was young". I'm 47 and I just lost my dad in Oct 27, 2020 (I was 46). Gosh, I would've been happy passing before him. A daughter always needs her daddy. I hope this girl works on herself, and doesn't bother with that fool!!
@@missmew3499 GOODNESS. No no no ... you're his daughter. You're his little princess; his CHILD. Children, no matter how grown they are, are NOT supposed to pass before their parents. You say you would've been happy passing before him? Ma'am, you'd be DEAD before your dad, and your dad would not have been happy about that! It would tear him to pieces. That isn't the natural order of things, okay? Parents are supposed to be buried by their children, plain and simple. I hope you look back at all the great times you and with your father and smile about them! I hope you have peace. Enjoy your life! I am so very sorry for your loss.
@@NatureForce37 you're right. My father would never want me to feel this way. When he was going through his cancer he would say "when I go, don't cry for me. Know that I'm not in pain or suffering anymore". Nevertheless, I miss him so much. Thank you so much for your kind words 💔😭😘❤️
As a man with 4 daughters myself, when baby girl said that she had no one to speak to her like that. My heart just melted and the dad in me wish I could just hug her. May all of God’s goodness and blessings fall on this young lady and keep her strong.
Trudat 💯. I wish I had a father like Uncle Steve and you. I just never had a good father to give me these advices. That's why I look up to Uncle Steve ✔️
Zone6TV Once again someone has something demeaning to say. Don’t say anything about a woman that you wouldn’t want anyone to say about your mother, sister, grandma, female cousin, or aunt.
Pursue your education, travel, and find hobbies. Get to know yourself and solidify SELF LOVE. Signed, A 41 year old woman that wishes this young woman the best. ❤
You're right Steve! I married at 19. HUGE mistake. Although we stayed married for 37 years, it was 36 very unhappy years and the last year we were separated going through the divorce. At 57, I'm divorced, homeless, and happier than I ever was during my marriage! Slow down, baby. My family tried to tell me and I didn't listen!
"Pain and sorrow may endure for the night, but Joy comes in the morning." God has not and will not forget you nor forsake you. Hold fast to your faith and that Mountain will fall into a valley, overflowing with His goodness and grace, mercy and unconditional Love. 💪🏾💜🙏🏾
🌟🦋🙏❤️ I married at 21… 24 yrs later and 3 children… I left … Best decision! Working on myself and my children. Soooooo sad. But I’m concentrating on what great things we’ll make happen!!!
I hope she finds a father figure in her life💜💜💜 Girl if you read this.... STEVE IS RIGHT I’m 38 and i’ve been there!! listen to Steve ... and don’t settle for less go for marriage with a reallll man girl. Focus on you and that man will come. In the Meanwhile you have a father in jesus💜💜💜 god bless you girl
Experience is not always the best teacher when you can just advise her to avoid mistakes, especially mistakes that can be life changing and traumatic. Let her always confide in you for advise. It should only be a learning from her mistakes after you told her not to make the mistakes.
We easily pass that stage without anyone to tell us the way Steve did... Sometimes there is someone to tell us but because they are not famous and "we grew up with them" we tend to be ignorant until it's late... She's lucky...
I felt that girl’s pain. Her inner child is hurting so much. When Steve said “now ima talk to you like your my daughter” that’s when I lost it. Hella started ballin’ 😢 👏🏽 Steve should’ve also hugged her. She needed that. I hope this girl becomes a CEO of a big ass company one day ♥️
At 19, you don't need that kind of stress. I'm 21, I started dating at 18 and it's one of my biggest regret. I ended it in a year so its two years now being single and having a time of my life. This single phase is important for personal development, actualization and finding your purpose. Work on your relationship with God, yourself and your career. God bless you. I pray He provides a father figure for you. You are loved and deserved to be loved by whoever comes into your life. From a sister to another 💕
Agreed. Relationships that young of age is usually not a great idea. Of course you can’t help how you feel for someone, but sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture
Hey hey hey...The name of this segment is "Hey Steve" if i knew y'all were coming i would've changed the name to "Hey audience" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👌🏾👏🏾
Look at this pretty girl! Awww she cried!!! I felt so bad 4 her she said she didnt have anyone 2 tell her or talk 2 her. Its rough when u r young n tender cuz sometimes u jst dnt know any better. Im glad Uncle Steve talked to her. She will b ok. Watch this lil youngin is about 2 get her stuff 2gether and its gonna be on and poppin!!!! These ninjas betta watch out!!! She is comin to slaaaay!!
Aww! “I don’t want you to cry. I want you to listen.” He stayed so calm and fatherly. That was sweet! I hope she finds a man one day that she deserves!
Hey girl, if you're watching this please focus on yourself. My first serious relationship started at 19 and it took 4 years for me to learn I deserved better. I had several opportunities for success, travel, experience...but I put someone else before me. You are so lucky to be able to make this decision NOW. Strengthen the relationship with yourself because in the end, all we have is ourselves. Good luck
I was 17 with my first serious relationship and it has now took me 6 years to know that I just wanna focus on me and find myself. Unfortunately I live with him and am now pregnant. So get out before time flies and it's your whole life, I wish I could go back and have heard this advice and took it seriously!
@@rayyisbaeee Just because you have a child together now doesn't mean you need to stay together, you can still be great parents even if you aren't together. If you still love him then talk to him, explain how you have been feeling like you want to learn more about yourself if he loves you he will support you as long as you don't mess him around. You can still work on yourself while you're in a committed relationship, but you need to discuss things with him or you will eventually start to despise him which isn't good for anyone involved. Good luck & congratulations on your beautiful baby, hopefully you can learn more about yourself & grow as a woman with his support but if that isn't possible don't stay because you have a child as they will pick up on it trust me, you can still be amazing parents but if you start to hate each other that affects your child. Take care hun & I hope everything works out for you, you will be fine just remember that 💛 stay safe.
She is very beautiful. I think she should focus on herself, God, and career. The guy sound like he need a place to live. God will send the right person in due time.
I agree, she is indeed very beautiful, pretty face and genuine character. @Clinton Ababio That is very rude of you to say. Honestly honey, if you ain't got nothing good to say, don't say it all. That could be very damaging to a young person's self-esteem. Just learn to be empathetic, is all I'm tryna say.
@Kay You What's wrong with women who move in with men without being married anyway? I have never lived with a man. He won't be with her in the long run. I guess some people want to get away from home.
They finna get broken up once one moves in, that's the true challenge if y'all stay together or not kuz you find out things u didn't know bout that person when u share everything. Young people are clueless and dumb nowadays, they have no clue. Hope she learned.....
I started crying with her. I'm an adult now, but I never had anyone to explain things to me while growing up. Divorced and a single mom of two girls. I really hope that everything works out well for this young lady.
This is heart breaking. You can tell she has no one to care for her. A family, a mother, a father, siblings, people who care for you and will advise you is truly a blessing. And for those have this, be grateful for it. I truly feel for her and wish her all the very best
I just love how on this show the audience always seems to support each other and Steve seems to genuinely care about people. I teared up too because I wish I had a Dad like Steve. I got ya girl💖
I'm 47y/o. I have a daughter that's 30. I was married at 19 and clueless. She should take her time and live life. Don't be wreckless, but enjoy. At any age social media CAN be a distraction in a relationship. At some time a old friend will contact you at some point. It can be harmless, but hard to explain. I don't always agree with Steve. But he's right. I wish her the best. Our daughters needs the love only a father can give. PLEASE JUST A PERSONAL OPINION!!!!
This segment brought me to tears. I cried when she cried. For the Same reason. Oh how I wish what I know now I knew then when I was her age. My experiences had a major affect on me as I got older. I had nobody to tell me about life’s woes either. My father unfortunately passed on from cancer back when I was 14. So I navigated some things on my own. But all praise due to my God who has seen me through. I’m a better person & have a stronger spirit/feel of discernment because of my experiences. She’s such a beautiful girl. She can do bad all by herself. Great advice uncle Steve!! Young women need to hear this!
And this is one of the many reasons why I love Uncle Steve. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. That segment helped more than just her. Please keep up with her and give us an update after she graduates and gets her job as the Physician Assistant.
I am glad this girl came to Steve before life got messy... I hope she becomes super rich, finds the man of her dreams who'll love her and treat her right, gets surrounded by all the right people like today and has a blessed life...
I was about to say I’m 16 and even I know that’s not a good idea, but when she said she didn’t have anyone to tell her this stuff, it made me tear up. I hope she takes Steve’s advice!
I just wanted to hug her! Knowing what I know now, I wish I could go back to 19 and do it again. Baby girl you'll be alright! Listen to Steve, leave that boy and go live your life!
I was 19 when I got married the first time. I didn't even know who I was as a person. You "think" you're an adult....boy was I wrong. I've told both of my girls - 21 & 17 - WAITING is not a bad thing. Not having a boyfriend in NOT a bad thing. Grow to love yourself, to know yourself and be content in yourself before you go and bring someone else into the equation. Good advice (as usual) Steve!
"I don't have nobody to tell me anything like that...like...I lost my dad when I was young." - Sweet Girl "That's what Uncle Steve for. That's why Uncle Steve is here." - Steve This warmed my heart! Thanks for looking out for her Steve.
I’ve been there. Wasted 7 years with a dude who wasted my time. Decided to be alone for a bit and met my now husband and we have s little family together. Best guy ever!!! (I’m 36 now). Don’t waste your time on him!! Also, I’m loving that audience member’s purple hair!
This is my favorite segment I've seen from Steve he was so loving and firm with that worthy, beautiful, intelligent young lady I pray that she took Steve's advice to heart and that she has successfully completed her PA program and if she happens to read this please know that there are people in the world that unconditionally care for and love you sis and pray that every blessing possible comes your way and you take them and run exceeding any expectations you may have in your heart and mind may God's mercy, favor and grace continue to cover you sis in Jesus name Amen, Amen and Amen! I also pray that someone from the show stayed in touch with her at least for a little while because you could tell that her spirit and soul were longing for that positivity and wisdom that was being poured into her...🙏🙏🙏
@3:38 So touching - Steve should write a book for young women who grew up without their dads or a strong male figure in their life and tell them things (Lessons) that he would tell his daughters about how life is and what to try to avoid. Qualities that make you a good person and a strong woman. What to look for in friends and the way you should be treated by a man etc. There should also be a guide for you men too teaching the strong values and life lessons.
I felt that STEVE❗. VERY POWERFUL 😤💚🙏❗I AM SOOOOOOOO VERY HAPPY and GRATEFUL that YOU have those BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS 🤩😘🙌 OUR CHILDREN are OUR GREATEST TEACHERS 😇💚❗
She will be so great in the future! She’s smart enough to figure out something is wrong and she has great goals for her future even without someone to give her life advice! You go girl!!! You gon’ be alright! ❤️❤️
this episode is one reason I watch Ask Steve. He gets it, understands her vulnerability and courage, and helps her with kindness and honesty, like a good uncle. I hope she followed his advice.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Run sister those people have you back Oooh don't cry you be fine am so proud of you because you are going to school nuff Respect and love 🇯🇲🇯🇲💯💯💯💯👍
Run girl!⏭Find you and find better. Always be kind to yourself, and never settle for anyone else who is not. (Who don’t enhance/respect/uplift you) Don’t give someone, your PRECIOUS time, they don’t deserve!!
I wish I was 19 again and wished my father would have given me the encouragement that Steve is giving her. I would have made better decisions with men.
I really felt her pain when Steve Harvey said I’m going to talk to you like your my daughter. Right away I felt that pain in her heart not having a parent/Dad to fill that empty spot in her heart. Please stay strong and stay positive.
19 I was just crying for this young lady shs is so sweet shs need guidance this boy need go go is way my daughter is 21 so I understand all the best my darling thanks Mr Harvey for giving he'd your fatherly advice.
Please! Please! Please! Go and be a beautiful young 19year old lady. There is so much ahead of you and God has great future in place for you. Trust in him and be good to yourself and people and just grow👏
Baby, don't settle for less than you're worth! Take this from an older woman who's in her 40's, listen and take to heart what Steve is saying. I'm not taking your side neither your boyfriend's, but this isn't a "relationship". It sounds like you care for him or love him more than he does for you and it's one-sided on your part. You may not want to hear this, but I've been where you've been. You're only 19, baby it's not over. Focus on you and your career. You all are arguing for what? Letting go is easier said than done, but eventually he won't even enter your thoughts. The people who are blaming your weight for this relationship problem, I'd say don't listen to them because if you accept this as a reason why you won't have a successful relationship, you'll miss the person God really has created for you. Your "boyfriend" is showing you how much he respects and cares about you in the way he's treating you. You all are arguing probably because he really wants to break up with you, but maybe doesn't want to come out and say it if he hasn't already. Sounds like you all aren't mature enough to be in a relationship anyway. Maturity has nothing to do with age, it has more to do with how to learn how to handle yourself and situations which comes from experience. I don't want you to think all men are like this and become bitter. Love yourself no matter what, do what's best for you, let God love on you and show you how much you're really the apple of His eye!
I teared up when she said she was crying because she does not have anyone to talk to her like Steve did. So many young women need to be given pearls of wisdom. Older women, please be helpers to a young woman you may know in your life. It may make a huge difference to her future.
I wish I had advice like this at 18. I learned the hard way. I'm older now and successful but there's a lot I could have avoided with some solid advice/guidance.
I really liked this ask Steve. And that girl was so precious she really just wanted reliable information and guidance that really can only come from a male figure/father/uncle. She's so precious and I really wish she could come back with an update after she finishes school and doing the job that she loves. I'm definitely going to be praying that she fulfills her purpose and destiny. What a sweet girl!
I can't say it's to young cause my husband was 19 when we got married and he is 31 today we are still together. The only part that gets me is the arguing and haven't even made any real commitments yet. Run honey run
It is better to be alone than to wish you were alone.
Well said.
Lord if I’d only known this when I was her age
So true.
Jeffrey Lee, dats a powerful quote
@@tangates8559 WE KNOW IT NOW and that's what COUNTS. 🙌💚🤣 EVERYTHING IS IN DIVINE ORDER 💚🙏😇❗
Steve is absolutely right. At 19, what the HELL is there to argue about. The boy is doing nothing but holding her back in life.
@Not At This Time Yeah! That is his plan. She is going to be his work horse.
Just wanna say theres no proof that she isnt part of the arguing as well cant put it all on the guy
They always blame the guy, no one even asked if she’s doing anything that’s causing arguments, there’s no way all 3 daily arguments are about the one snapchat issue.
@@1st_b facts
how TF is it his fault they arguing
It broke my heart when she was tearing up and stated that she did not have anyone in her life to tell her these things. I hope she takes Steve’s advice to heart and slows down and focuses on herself.
Sarlinia that’s why Uncle Steve is here!
me too
@Nathaniel12345678910 not sure Wendy is the best adviser :(
She's beautiful & she will rock her life 100%✨
Sarlinia it broke my heart too I started crying before she stated why cause I don’t got a soul to tell me that stuff either .
Steve please keep in touch with her and help guide her...please!
felicia b I agree! 🙏🏼
Steve can't keep in touch with ERRAYbody 😜❤
Why she soo fat maybe she just eat too damn much.
@@marquittabelote9128 propably he's just a kid ,never mind him he doesn't know what he's saying .
Steve's show got cancelled. Maybe you need to followup with her...lol
23 & still living with my parents!! There's no rush
I'm 27 just moving out, been in a relationship for 4 years now but took the time to grow for myself, got my education, my job and saved enough money for a good start. At 19? I was at University no worried about one guy, traveled ALOT by car and planes with my friends, made many friends and made a few mistakes. Thank God for the Mother I have who always talked to me and the fact that she lived all stages of her life, she influenced me to do the same.
Girl if you are helping in paying the bills and bringing food to the table, you just saved a great deal of rent. Moreover, you just can't feel alone. In addition, you can date safely following the 90 days role, if he wants you he will work hard for you. Finally, you are respected daughter and in future you will be a respect significant other/ a wife. In deed, no rush at all.
Dashelle Disna Take your time
I’m 22 and men are trying to rush me out the house. Why so you can live off me. I want to do things in order. I have a son and his father is deceased . I don’t want to rush and be stuck in a situation.
@@ChasingCarson Good for you focus on your child and never let a person rush you into something your not ready for.
Omg to hear her say.."I don't have anyone to tell me"..heartbreaking..sad..
Absolutely. Then when she said "I lost my dad when I was young". I'm 47 and I just lost my dad in Oct 27, 2020 (I was 46). Gosh, I would've been happy passing before him. A daughter always needs her daddy. I hope this girl works on herself, and doesn't bother with that fool!!
@@missmew3499 I’m soo sorry 😢
@@missmew3499 GOODNESS. No no no ... you're his daughter. You're his little princess; his CHILD. Children, no matter how grown they are, are NOT supposed to pass before their parents. You say you would've been happy passing before him? Ma'am, you'd be DEAD before your dad, and your dad would not have been happy about that! It would tear him to pieces. That isn't the natural order of things, okay? Parents are supposed to be buried by their children, plain and simple. I hope you look back at all the great times you and with your father and smile about them! I hope you have peace. Enjoy your life! I am so very sorry for your loss.
@@kandy1227 thank you so much. Blessings to you ❤️
@@NatureForce37 you're right. My father would never want me to feel this way. When he was going through his cancer he would say "when I go, don't cry for me. Know that I'm not in pain or suffering anymore". Nevertheless, I miss him so much. Thank you so much for your kind words 💔😭😘❤️
Oh, to be 19 again! Girl!!! Stay alone and love yourself!!!
I wish someone would've told me that!
Amen!
Fa real. You come First.
Yeeeesss indeed!!!
JAI BUGGI This!!!
As a man with 4 daughters myself, when baby girl said that she had no one to speak to her like that. My heart just melted and the dad in me wish I could just hug her. May all of God’s goodness and blessings fall on this young lady and keep her strong.
I wish I had a father who cares like that. It’s hard out here navigating life without an active father.
Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen
Trudat 💯. I wish I had a father like Uncle Steve and you. I just never had a good father to give me these advices. That's why I look up to Uncle Steve ✔️
19? Ok. Child. You ain't start to live yet. Run. Run far away.
yes please run far away
Right! She will get it together!
she look 59 😂🤣😂😊
Zone6TV Once again someone has something demeaning to say. Don’t say anything about a woman that you wouldn’t want anyone to say about your mother, sister, grandma, female cousin, or aunt.
@@LeoDeki 😕
“Being by yourself is the perfect time to get yourself together “. I loved this quote.
I needed to hear this reminder today thank you 💕
For a DAY make this as HEY AUDIENCE PLEASE. .......😂😂😂
That would be hilarious
Pursue your education, travel, and find hobbies. Get to know yourself and solidify SELF LOVE.
Signed,
A 41 year old woman that wishes this young woman the best.
❤
Alicia Graddick ditto!
Signed,
A 37 year old woman who wishes she'd done just that!
Co-signed
CONSTANCE
24yrs
And HIT THE GYM BABE! YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!
Alicia Graddick I’m 19 as well and needed this comment thank you ♥️
Thank you Alicia! Your words are doing a world of good
You're right Steve! I married at 19. HUGE mistake. Although we stayed married for 37 years, it was 36 very unhappy years and the last year we were separated going through the divorce. At 57, I'm divorced, homeless, and happier than I ever was during my marriage! Slow down, baby. My family tried to tell me and I didn't listen!
God Loves you mama and Community we Love you In ways You Don't know! hold your breath tomorrow Holds Magic for better♥️♥️♥️🤞🙏🙏 #HaveFaith.
Wow thank you for sharing this 🤎
"Pain and sorrow may endure for the night, but Joy comes in the morning." God has not and will not forget you nor forsake you. Hold fast to your faith and that Mountain will fall into a valley, overflowing with His goodness and grace, mercy and unconditional Love. 💪🏾💜🙏🏾
🌟🦋🙏❤️ I married at 21…
24 yrs later and 3 children…
I left …
Best decision!
Working on myself and my children.
Soooooo sad.
But I’m concentrating on what great things we’ll make happen!!!
I hope she finds a father figure in her life💜💜💜
Girl if you read this.... STEVE IS RIGHT I’m 38 and i’ve been there!!
listen to Steve ... and don’t settle for less go for marriage with a reallll man girl. Focus on you and that man will come. In the Meanwhile you have a father in jesus💜💜💜 god bless you girl
exclusivesuperblend thanks girl💜
Zara Goins Your welcome💜
Couldn't agree more!!
Amen
Amen 🙏
My lil sister be 19... it’s a time of learning and making plenty of mistakes. Enjoy every minute of it!!
And she will come out 25 with 4 kids and by den she has learn enough 🤠
Experience is not always the best teacher when you can just advise her to avoid mistakes, especially mistakes that can be life changing and traumatic.
Let her always confide in you for advise. It should only be a learning from her mistakes after you told her not to make the mistakes.
Man! To be 19 again! The LAST THING I would be doing is settling down and trying to move in with a guy. Girl.. Go be 19!
luvmifro1003 how about even looking at one 😂🤦🏾♀️?
EXACTLY
We easily pass that stage without anyone to tell us the way Steve did... Sometimes there is someone to tell us but because they are not famous and "we grew up with them" we tend to be ignorant until it's late... She's lucky...
luvmifro1003 I agree.
Depends my friend got married at 16 and shes been married 14 years they travelling a few years etc.
He should have gave her a hug you can tell she really needed one....
I was thinking the same thing. I hope Uncle Steve talked with her after the show.
Who’s hugging you
God is....Happy New Year
@@anquanettewashington7176 Haaaaaaaaaah! LOL That was good!
Good one, steve
I felt that girl’s pain. Her inner child is hurting so much. When Steve said “now ima talk to you like your my daughter” that’s when I lost it. Hella started ballin’ 😢 👏🏽 Steve should’ve also hugged her. She needed that. I hope this girl becomes a CEO of a big ass company one day ♥️
I've always loved Steve's audience because they always keep it real! He's probably got one of the best live audiences.
At 19, you don't need that kind of stress. I'm 21, I started dating at 18 and it's one of my biggest regret. I ended it in a year so its two years now being single and having a time of my life. This single phase is important for personal development, actualization and finding your purpose. Work on your relationship with God, yourself and your career. God bless you. I pray He provides a father figure for you. You are loved and deserved to be loved by whoever comes into your life. From a sister to another 💕
Chosen Tiller Well said, beautiful words. Hope the young lady listens........
Agreed. Relationships that young of age is usually not a great idea. Of course you can’t help how you feel for someone, but sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture
Hey hey hey...The name of this segment is "Hey Steve" if i knew y'all were coming i would've changed the name to "Hey audience" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👌🏾👏🏾
Look at this pretty girl! Awww she cried!!! I felt so bad 4 her she said she didnt have anyone 2 tell her or talk 2 her. Its rough when u r young n tender cuz sometimes u jst dnt know any better. Im glad Uncle Steve talked to her. She will b ok. Watch this lil youngin is about 2 get her stuff 2gether and its gonna be on and poppin!!!! These ninjas betta watch out!!! She is comin to slaaaay!!
Aww! “I don’t want you to cry. I want you to listen.” He stayed so calm and fatherly. That was sweet! I hope she finds a man one day that she deserves!
Hey girl, if you're watching this please focus on yourself. My first serious relationship started at 19 and it took 4 years for me to learn I deserved better. I had several opportunities for success, travel, experience...but I put someone else before me. You are so lucky to be able to make this decision NOW. Strengthen the relationship with yourself because in the end, all we have is ourselves. Good luck
Same situation. I was 18 and put a guy first and failed at my career until i was 24 thank god i left his toxic ass. I am 25 now starting over.
I was 17 with my first serious relationship and it has now took me 6 years to know that I just wanna focus on me and find myself. Unfortunately I live with him and am now pregnant. So get out before time flies and it's your whole life, I wish I could go back and have heard this advice and took it seriously!
Thankyou for this !
@@rayyisbaeee Just because you have a child together now doesn't mean you need to stay together, you can still be great parents even if you aren't together. If you still love him then talk to him, explain how you have been feeling like you want to learn more about yourself if he loves you he will support you as long as you don't mess him around. You can still work on yourself while you're in a committed relationship, but you need to discuss things with him or you will eventually start to despise him which isn't good for anyone involved. Good luck & congratulations on your beautiful baby, hopefully you can learn more about yourself & grow as a woman with his support but if that isn't possible don't stay because you have a child as they will pick up on it trust me, you can still be amazing parents but if you start to hate each other that affects your child. Take care hun & I hope everything works out for you, you will be fine just remember that 💛 stay safe.
@@darcy3478 💯💯💯
She is very beautiful. I think she should focus on herself, God, and career. The guy sound like he need a place to live. God will send the right person in due time.
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Not At This Time I agree with you. I pray the best for her
To be honest she ain’t beautiful .....call a spade a spade
I agree, she is indeed very beautiful, pretty face and genuine character. @Clinton Ababio That is very rude of you to say. Honestly honey, if you ain't got nothing good to say, don't say it all. That could be very damaging to a young person's self-esteem. Just learn to be empathetic, is all I'm tryna say.
Hannah Abrahim I agree ☝️
Steve’s crowd is savage AF!!! 😂😂😂
I ain't staying with anyone and we are arguing three times a day. And yes girl get hip to the flip game. Moving in at 19 🤦 sis ?
@Kay You What's wrong with women who move in with men without being married anyway? I have never lived with a man. He won't be with her in the long run. I guess some people want to get away from home.
They finna get broken up once one moves in, that's the true challenge if y'all stay together or not kuz you find out things u didn't know bout that person when u share everything. Young people are clueless and dumb nowadays, they have no clue. Hope she learned.....
@Kay You as always
@Kay You but good for ur friends though. Respect
She should move in to the LIB-RARRRRRRYYYYY.
I started crying with her. I'm an adult now, but I never had anyone to explain things to me while growing up. Divorced and a single mom of two girls. I really hope that everything works out well for this young lady.
Lmao Steve yelling at the audience 😂😂😂😂
“I’m talking to you as my daughter now..” thank you so much uncle Steve!
This is heart breaking. You can tell she has no one to care for her. A family, a mother, a father, siblings, people who care for you and will advise you is truly a blessing. And for those have this, be grateful for it. I truly feel for her and wish her all the very best
Mine all died
I just love how on this show the audience always seems to support each other and Steve seems to genuinely care about people. I teared up too because I wish I had a Dad like Steve. I got ya girl💖
Steve has a heart of gold and such an incredible personality, god bless him!!
I'm 47y/o. I have a daughter that's 30. I was married at 19 and clueless. She should take her time and live life. Don't be wreckless, but enjoy. At any age social media CAN be a distraction in a relationship. At some time a old friend will contact you at some point. It can be harmless, but hard to explain. I don't always agree with Steve. But he's right. I wish her the best. Our daughters needs the love only a father can give. PLEASE JUST A PERSONAL OPINION!!!!
Awww Uncle Steve I love your message, I ‘m 39 and I am teary-eyed listening to your message to this young lady!!!👏🏾🙏🏾👌🏾😁
This segment brought me to tears. I cried when she cried. For the Same reason. Oh how I wish what I know now I knew then when I was her age. My experiences had a major affect on me as I got older. I had nobody to tell me about life’s woes either. My father unfortunately passed on from cancer back when I was 14. So I navigated some things on my own. But all praise due to my God who has seen me through. I’m a better person & have a stronger spirit/feel of discernment because of my experiences. She’s such a beautiful girl. She can do bad all by herself. Great advice uncle Steve!! Young women need to hear this!
Jennifer akufo Smile
We always not listening to the older when they advise us then later feeling sorry.
And this is one of the many reasons why I love Uncle Steve. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. That segment helped more than just her. Please keep up with her and give us an update after she graduates and gets her job as the Physician Assistant.
I feel like I need a daily conversation with Steve!!
I am glad this girl came to Steve before life got messy... I hope she becomes super rich, finds the man of her dreams who'll love her and treat her right, gets surrounded by all the right people like today and has a blessed life...
I was about to say I’m 16 and even I know that’s not a good idea, but when she said she didn’t have anyone to tell her this stuff, it made me tear up. I hope she takes Steve’s advice!
God bless Steve for helping young people so wholeheartedly. As if he is loving father to everyone.❤
I just wanted to hug her! Knowing what I know now, I wish I could go back to 19 and do it again. Baby girl you'll be alright! Listen to Steve, leave that boy and go live your life!
Ruth Bennett Who’s Hugging You🤷🏾♂️
Great advice! I seriously hope she takes heed of what was said. She seems sweet and on a path to a rewarding career! Go enjoy your life young lady!
I was 19 when I got married the first time. I didn't even know who I was as a person. You "think" you're an adult....boy was I wrong.
I've told both of my girls - 21 & 17 - WAITING is not a bad thing. Not having a boyfriend in NOT a bad thing. Grow to love yourself, to know yourself and be content in yourself before you go and bring someone else into the equation.
Good advice (as usual) Steve!
Babygirl please don’t stay! My god you’re 19, go live your best life hunny.
Hey Mr Steve love how you handle a serious topic lighten it up and still gets your point across with all due respect
kudos to you Sir
"I don't have nobody to tell me anything like that...like...I lost my dad when I was young." - Sweet Girl
"That's what Uncle Steve for. That's why Uncle Steve is here." - Steve
This warmed my heart! Thanks for looking out for her Steve.
I’ve been there. Wasted 7 years with a dude who wasted my time. Decided to be alone for a bit and met my now husband and we have s little family together. Best guy ever!!! (I’m 36 now).
Don’t waste your time on him!!
Also, I’m loving that audience member’s purple hair!
I’ve been binging on Steve videos for days now and I love him more and more 😁
This is my favorite segment I've seen from Steve he was so loving and firm with that worthy, beautiful, intelligent young lady I pray that she took Steve's advice to heart and that she has successfully completed her PA program and if she happens to read this please know that there are people in the world that unconditionally care for and love you sis and pray that every blessing possible comes your way and you take them and run exceeding any expectations you may have in your heart and mind may God's mercy, favor and grace continue to cover you sis in Jesus name Amen, Amen and Amen! I also pray that someone from the show stayed in touch with her at least for a little while because you could tell that her spirit and soul were longing for that positivity and wisdom that was being poured into her...🙏🙏🙏
19 isn't old enough to be in the fast lane
Besides his comedy, I admire Steve’s wisdom. I wish to grow wise and develop understanding like him.
Let him go, girl. He's trying to use you.
Uncle Steve that's why I love you ... Keep empowering young women ... God bless!
This was such a good segment, that's why I love Steve, he's funny but he also has a heart for people
Omg run girl you are 19 once you move in together the arguments will only get intensive. Girl go live your life. Be happy and be free.
@3:38 So touching - Steve should write a book for young women who grew up without their dads or a strong male figure in their life and tell them things (Lessons) that he would tell his daughters about how life is and what to try to avoid. Qualities that make you a good person and a strong woman. What to look for in friends and the way you should be treated by a man etc. There should also be a guide for you men too teaching the strong values and life lessons.
I felt that STEVE❗. VERY POWERFUL 😤💚🙏❗I AM SOOOOOOOO VERY HAPPY and GRATEFUL that YOU have those BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS 🤩😘🙌 OUR CHILDREN are OUR GREATEST TEACHERS 😇💚❗
She will be so great in the future! She’s smart enough to figure out something is wrong and she has great goals for her future even without someone to give her life advice! You go girl!!! You gon’ be alright! ❤️❤️
Steve you're so funny bro you make me laugh every time
Smart girl to ask for advice in the right place. I wish you luck young lady. You have a bright future!
Steve you're funny & wonderful human being.❤
this episode is one reason I watch Ask Steve. He gets it, understands her vulnerability and courage, and helps her with kindness and honesty, like a good uncle. I hope she followed his advice.
Steve should have a segment called ASK UNCLE STEVE filled with young audience like her❤️
I officially declare Steve Harvey to be my uncle! He has kept me from making many a mistake
I wish I had someone like Steve in my life when I was a young girl. He is the best! ❤️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Run sister those people have you back
Oooh don't cry you be fine am so proud of you because you are going to school nuff Respect and love 🇯🇲🇯🇲💯💯💯💯👍
I literally teared up when she said that
Where is the love button for that advice?! Every young female needs to hear this.❤❤❤❤❤
Self love first. Don't let him knock you up and screw up your life.
Run girl!⏭Find you and find better.
Always be kind to yourself, and never settle for anyone else who is not. (Who don’t enhance/respect/uplift you)
Don’t give someone, your PRECIOUS time, they don’t deserve!!
I wish I was 19 again and wished my father would have given me the encouragement that Steve is giving her. I would have made better decisions with men.
I love Steve Harvey! ! He's a man of Wisdom !
Great advice. I would love to see Steve have an update on this young lady.
I really felt her pain when Steve Harvey said I’m going to talk to you like your my daughter. Right away I felt that pain in her heart not having a parent/Dad to fill that empty spot in her heart.
Please stay strong and stay positive.
Steve, you are a good one, really.. 💙
So many girls and boy need wisdom from elders. Steve is one of them. Thank you Steve. You are helping so many people who are fatherless.
I want more episodes. This show can't end on me!😭
Always good advise and feel good segments.
19 I was just crying for this young lady shs is so sweet shs need guidance this boy need go go is way my daughter is 21 so I understand all the best my darling thanks Mr Harvey for giving he'd your fatherly advice.
Please! Please! Please! Go and be a beautiful young 19year old lady. There is so much ahead of you and God has great future in place for you. Trust in him and be good to yourself and people and just grow👏
Uncle Steve God bless u. She needed to hear that
It’s so hard when you’re 19 to see cause you’re 19! You don’t have a lot of wisdom yet.
So many times I heard Steve say things that I also had nobody to tell me in person and it helped me grow so much... Thanks uncle Steve😢💔
When in doubt get the hell out!!!
Steve I am crying.
Stop talking about her weight that has nothing to do with her situation
Or does it?
Her weight is her situation
So true at 19 I weighed 100 pounds young and cute.
My boyfriend at the time was horrible. Thanks Jennifer 🌹 🌺
@@Nick-zd5ni 😢😢😂😂
Baby, don't settle for less than you're worth! Take this from an older woman who's in her 40's, listen and take to heart what Steve is saying. I'm not taking your side neither your boyfriend's, but this isn't a "relationship". It sounds like you care for him or love him more than he does for you and it's one-sided on your part. You may not want to hear this, but I've been where you've been. You're only 19, baby it's not over. Focus on you and your career. You all are arguing for what? Letting go is easier said than done, but eventually he won't even enter your thoughts. The people who are blaming your weight for this relationship problem, I'd say don't listen to them because if you accept this as a reason why you won't have a successful relationship, you'll miss the person God really has created for you. Your "boyfriend" is showing you how much he respects and cares about you in the way he's treating you. You all are arguing probably because he really wants to break up with you, but maybe doesn't want to come out and say it if he hasn't already. Sounds like you all aren't mature enough to be in a relationship anyway. Maturity has nothing to do with age, it has more to do with how to learn how to handle yourself and situations which comes from experience. I don't want you to think all men are like this and become bitter. Love yourself no matter what, do what's best for you, let God love on you and show you how much you're really the apple of His eye!
I STRONGLY AGREE 💯.
The moment there erupt petty arguments in any relationship, just open your eyes wide you will see something
What do you mean ? I feel like I’m experiencing this
It's the truth sweetheart
Words of wisdom man...you the man Steve...
Steve harvey is not only my favorite comedian, hes someone that truly cares about others
I teared up when she said she was crying because she does not have anyone to talk to her like Steve did. So many young women need to be given pearls of wisdom. Older women, please be helpers to a young woman you may know in your life. It may make a huge difference to her future.
HEEYYYYY HEYYYYYY HEYYYYYY LISTEN TO ME🤣😅👀👀👀
exclusivesuperblend 😔
My heart broke for her 💔
Aw, sometimes he can be so kind
Why am I crying 😭 for her! Gurl...TRUST! In a year or so you will say child he wasn’t even remotely worth my damn time!
Some woman are afraid of being alone, therefore will anything for companionship!
Thank You Uncle Steve.
I wish I had advice like this at 18. I learned the hard way. I'm older now and successful but there's a lot I could have avoided with some solid advice/guidance.
I really liked this ask Steve. And that girl was so precious she really just wanted reliable information and guidance that really can only come from a male figure/father/uncle. She's so precious and I really wish she could come back with an update after she finishes school and doing the job that she loves. I'm definitely going to be praying that she fulfills her purpose and destiny. What a sweet girl!
"A non benefit" luv the phrase
Lol I was screaming with the audience too 😅😂
I can't say it's to young cause my husband was 19 when we got married and he is 31 today we are still together. The only part that gets me is the arguing and haven't even made any real commitments yet. Run honey run
It's still too young