I think your work is amazing! It helped me so much when I was going through a crisis. I'm watching some of your videos and I just subscribed. Thankyou so much for your effort! You have no idea how much you helped me. God bless you
You are so welcome. I'm thrilled that you've gotten so much out of the videos, thank you for watching! If you'd like a deeper level of support, I just opened the doors to my 90 day accelerated coaching program, Better Beyond Divorce Intensive. It is a deep dive into all of this work with direct coaching and support from me so you can get long lasting results. You can schedule a discovery call to learn more here: calendly.com/rachaelsloan/discovery-call-for-bbd-foundations Either way, thank you for watching and for your lovely comment!
Can this be used in a coparenting situation where you are constantly striving to improve the way you show up, but still feel like your efforts are minimally recognized and/or appreciated?
Absolutely. The only difference is that in the coparenting relationship your ex may be bringing some of your history to the table, and there may be a greater degree of defensiveness coupled with less willingness to work with you to change the situation. That just means that you may have to be really gentle and persistent with this technique. It might take your ex longer than a new relationship to trust your sincerity when you say "can you help me", so you might have to try it several times, staying calm and curious even if she gets upset or doesn't respond well. With time, patience and genuine interest, this will help your coparenting relationship too.
Oh my God, I can’t believe I missed this! Thanks for your response, Rachel! I’ve been watching your videos for months and’ve found them very helpful - especially feeling your emotions. You’re doing such wonderful work, Rachel - thank you.🙏🏼 I’d love to join your program someday when funds are available.
Hopefully just a joke... but respect is essential to a healthy relationship, and unfortunately I think that this is how little some men actually think of their wives. If you don't respect her, she knows it, and the relationship can't last. Of course, this goes the other way too, with many relationships struggling because women don't respect their husbands either.
I think your work is amazing! It helped me so much when I was going through a crisis. I'm watching some of your videos and I just subscribed. Thankyou so much for your effort! You have no idea how much you helped me. God bless you
You are so welcome. I'm thrilled that you've gotten so much out of the videos, thank you for watching!
If you'd like a deeper level of support, I just opened the doors to my 90 day accelerated coaching program, Better Beyond Divorce Intensive. It is a deep dive into all of this work with direct coaching and support from me so you can get long lasting results. You can schedule a discovery call to learn more here: calendly.com/rachaelsloan/discovery-call-for-bbd-foundations
Either way, thank you for watching and for your lovely comment!
I am learning that I am so bad at all of this....
You really help me. Thank you for your videos.
You are welcome. Thank you for watching.
Can this be used in a coparenting situation where you are constantly striving to improve the way you show up, but still feel like your efforts are minimally recognized and/or appreciated?
Absolutely. The only difference is that in the coparenting relationship your ex may be bringing some of your history to the table, and there may be a greater degree of defensiveness coupled with less willingness to work with you to change the situation.
That just means that you may have to be really gentle and persistent with this technique. It might take your ex longer than a new relationship to trust your sincerity when you say "can you help me", so you might have to try it several times, staying calm and curious even if she gets upset or doesn't respond well.
With time, patience and genuine interest, this will help your coparenting relationship too.
Oh my God, I can’t believe I missed this! Thanks for your response, Rachel! I’ve been watching your videos for months and’ve found them very helpful - especially feeling your emotions. You’re doing such wonderful work, Rachel - thank you.🙏🏼 I’d love to join your program someday when funds are available.
The four words: Let Us Go Shopping
Hopefully just a joke... but respect is essential to a healthy relationship, and unfortunately I think that this is how little some men actually think of their wives. If you don't respect her, she knows it, and the relationship can't last.
Of course, this goes the other way too, with many relationships struggling because women don't respect their husbands either.
Will You Calm Down
Honestly this seems like the other person is needy
It seems like she’s playing a game… and then … no she isn’t, she’s moved on. Something inside is dying, but it’s not dead yet. Let it die.