I did everything God told me to do. God had people of God warn him. There was no more sex for the last few years of our marriage. God told me not too. Wasn't my idea. I found peace in God and one day God told me it was time. I had forgot all about wanting a divorce. I'm free and happy. He has gone through a lot and tries to stay close to me. I stay kind but far away. Do it God's way. He wants you to be happy too.
I love how you said God told you not to have sex with him!! He's telling me the same as I'm going through a separation! Holy Spirit is definitely wanting me to stay pure.
Marriage as a spiritual covenant is not to make or keep you happy--that is your relationship with the LORD despite life circumstances. What marriage is designed to do is make you Holy!!!!
So did you get a divorce? Or not? If not, you’re not having sex with him? Why is that? If God told you, that’s between you and God. But if you’re not going to have intercourse with him why stay with him? Or he should maybe leave you.
@christopher Barham Based off of the video I am assuming that because he was cheating on her, that's why she stopped having sex with him, and it makes sense that the LORD would tell her to do that. I think she meant that she forgot about the divorce the last few years because she was just focused on obeying the LORD and stayed. Maybe he ended up leaving her, and maybe she did end up getting a divorce. Maybe he divorced her. Maybe she separated and the LORD told her to wait for him to divorce her. Or maybe the LORD told her to stay pure until the day he dies and her stay single. Maybe she will have a husband again one day. Maybe she won't. We may never know, and that's ok because even though she was brave enough to be vulnerable and share what she did, she doesn't have to share everything. I hope what she did share was encouraging for you tho!
I wish I had this level of godly guided man. I spent 35 years with the one who I looked to be that and never did he produce the fruit. He chose cheating over family. Betrayal over longevity. Lying over loving me, the woman God placed in his lap over 35 years ago. Now I’m here in tears. I know God has got me. It’s still terribly hard to deal with it.
You are not alone sis. 21 years for me. God can and will heal you. Just keep trusting Him and know that He doesn't want His beloved in abusive situations, He delivered you. Make Him your husband and you will find peace for your soul. Much love 🙏🏾
If a spouse continues having an affair, and there’s no repentance, then I would agree that it’s prudent to leave, however, IN EVERYTHING, seek wisdom from the Holy Spirit.
I found out my husband was having multiple overlapping affairs and it never truly stop he only said that he would change because he got caught I kind of wish that men and women alike will work on themselves to better people before they get married the trauma of cheating and betrayal changes you as a person and you don't know what to trust not even your own intuition, divorce move on and heal you can't heal where you've been hurt at.
I'm a Christian marriage counselor and I try to explain this to women that they can leave. Sadly, the women don't want to leave the money, title, or the cheating man. They know God is okay with them leaving but they won't. They settle for dealing with the affair.
Hi Miss Tara!! I desire to be a Christian marriage counselor in the future. How did you get there?? I counsel people now because they are open to talk to me but it’s not my job as of yet. How do I get there? I’m in university right now. I looked into your page and I also desire to be a motivational speaker myself and I’m currently a youth minister and want to continue in ministry. Do you have any advice??
I love the other side of this that he talks about too. “You’re not a wife when I marry you you’re a wife when I find you. You become *my* wife when I marry you”
You obviously cant do that on your own.. you take everything to the father. Gotta know the difference between an affair and love.. I remember i heard a story by a woman who didn't know this dude had other women but he always took care of her.. she went under one time in the hospital and had no one in her space at the time but him.. and she realize how good he was to her and didn't have to be. There are men who will treat everyone with love and kindness but the fact he has other women didn't put her off.. while others will immediately act like it should be only her.. when it should be only The Lord first.. before anyone else. Seek The lord to fix him.. if you must stay away, believe you should based on facts and not emotions.. go for it. Ask a spiritual father, man of God for directions if he can see what you cant but hey today.. ppl think they know it all. So be well and good luck..
@@jknight213 are you implying that because he is the “kind of guy that took care of her” that’s it okay he had multiple woman? if you are, God himself doesn’t approve of this kind of man and if he is truly putting only God first, then he would only be with one woman. if you didn’t mean that, then disregard my comment. it’s still true so just watching out for any other guys.
I’m a man and as a man of God you want a Godly man first, second a man that always have room for growth and thirdly a man that can control his emotions like a man and push all his insecurities wants needs and even to win a wordy battle to the side for what’s right, the man supposed to be example of humbleness and none moving emotions thru even thru biggest of bad events in life, if you as a man can’t hold back showing bad emotion and be able to confront any situation with humbleness and sound heart you and your family will always conquer uprightly
Someone already said this but, Juliet‘s voice is so calming and so peaceful that it makes it easy to receive this information about your situation. God bless her. God bless brother Tim. God is a good father and gives us good things. He wants the best for us.
It's been 6 months and God's favor has never left me. His grace and mercy has literally carried me through the heartbreak, abandonment, and betrayal! TRUST THE LORD FOR YOUR HEALING ❤️🙌❤️🔥
This is such a sensitive topic, and it takes the wisdom of God to make the right decision. The world says DIVORCE, but we have to seek the face of God in prayer and fasting. As a prayer warrior my first instinct is to look past the cheating spouse and see the spirit operating behind them. Sometimes both husband and wife need deliverance from generational curses and spiritual spouses. I’ve been there and God told me to love him unconditionally, the same way He loves me. I was so mad at God for making me love someone who didn’t deserve my love, but that’s how I was able to see how much God loved the both of us. Don’t just react with your emotions, go to your Heavenly Father, shut out the world and just cry out to Him. He will tell you exactly what to do.
This is very hard to accept but you are 💯 correct. God CAN restore. No matter what, we want HIS will. Hosea in the bible, also had to do something very similar and I'm sure it was extremely painful. Thank you for sharing 🔥🔥🔥🙌☺️
@@weaveandwelfaretookblackme They never consider this part. Seeing past the cheating spouse is a recipe for disaster. Staying with a cheater is unintelligent and dangerous.
Some men are like that..the only one they truly care about is the one they will provide and take a bullet for..having sex is just a moment for conquering if something is missing
So true! 💯 I've heard and read such comments such as: "I'm a man, so I should be able to have as many women as I want to." "If King Solomon, David and many more did it, so can I!" I'm like, this isn't even polygyny (under marriage). This is pure fornication!... Sigh... This world!
That's their excuse if we did anywhere near what they choose to do and you will never find out the full truth maybe everything under the sun but a child of God. Cheating is the most disgusting , dis respectful, disloyal, and deceptive thing you could ever do to your husband or wife that type of betrayal is just demonic and evil. My Father God be with the betrayer because they're definitely doing the work of the Devil.
A gracious morning to you all .❤ I just wake up and with my phone 📱 I was able to come a cross such edifying word of truth and wisdom 🙌. Thank you so much brother 🙏. Am watching from Belgium 🇧🇪 bruxelles
So do you not believe in reconciliation❓❓ My father left my mother when I was 12 years old... EVERYONE told her to move on but she prayed and stayed and didn't move on when there was no hope. BUT GOD reconcilled their marriage 6 years later and they were married till my dad went on to be with the Lord at 72 years old...
So true it happened to me. Broke the whole marriage right in the beginning and there was so many. Still never will she more then 1. But I know thw truth. Working on getting out the story is not good goes beyond just sleep with another. So sad
I can’t get everything from this clip to make a proper comment cause idk the full extent of what is being taught here. But as I understand it a man and woman brought together in Holy union cannot be broken by the will of man. Second I may need to be retaught on the issue but God never left us while we played the harlot with other “gods” we have placed in our hearts. I use this same understanding in my marriage. The same way God continues to love me in all my mess is the same way I ought to love my partner. The same way He finds a way to keep after us we also ought to find away. And yes that may be from a distance. But if we are saying that God brought us together than we should model the example He has shown us of how a husband or partners in general ought to love after and pursue one another. Just a thought in the midst of all these cries for divorce and separation.
Get a medical and a spiritual report because disease is physical and spiritual he might still have that demon of pride and pleasures of flesh with him and get plenty therapy mental wellness is important for both person's in the relationship
Same. Read Proverns 14:1--- I believe it discusses that a prudent woman builds her house. Proverbs 2, 5, 6 and 7 discusses a harlot. The path of her leads to death and hell. The Bible is clear. But, GOD is also a Redeemer, too!!
I was the one who had to tell my mom that my dad was having an affair on her and produced another child. She said that she forgave him and that they are working it all out. 5 years later , I found out that he might have 2 more….she doesn’t know but I’m the only one who knows 😢
The problem with this.. if there is one, is what you believe is favor and the affair that you claim he stepped out. Because there are things ppl still believe they know more than God.. while using worldly wisdom.. What is that covenant.. do you know? When King Solomon ran the kingdom.. there was a type of covenant he had.. and when he went out of it.. we all know what happened. Read it in detail without bias and you will see what he was allowed to do.. or able to do verses what he wasn't allowed to do.. meaning what your covenant is with Yah.. is between you and him and never cross it.. best to first ask him first to address or make any modifications.
What if she’s the wrong wife? I’m not entirely sure that all human marriages are ordained by God. There are so many reasons human beings get married, and it’s not always the right ones. I believe in marriage but perhaps if we took the time to marry the right person, there wouldn’t be so many divorces, and other problems like affairs.
I agree. I strongly believe that Sometimes a person is cheating because they know their spouse is not the right person but they don't want to leave or they still want some perks of being with that person.
The ROOT PROBLEM is that SO MANY are NOT WILLING TO DIE TO THEMSELVES. They REFUSE to SLAY the PRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE, EGO, and SELFISHNESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
For sure, Not because it's called marriage means that God finds favour in the union. Some people get married for financial security, Green Card, the purpose of hiding shame from pregnancy, religious reasons, the sole purpose to be called wife, etc.,...
Ensure that God finds FAVOUR for you to get married because often times the marriage is not from God and all hell can break loose in the relationship...
@@Aniexo_ God created man in His image. Man is fallen however, and not being lead by God. So evil overtakes them and when you're possessed with evil there's nothing you won't do. We don't make choices we're either on the side of good, or evil Have you ever done anything and couldn't believe you did it?
Question for Tim Ross, before you fully gave your life to christ, and committed to therapy. Have you ever cheated on your wife? No hate pls, just trying to get context. Thanks.
I Can't Agree With That That's Not A Biblical Statement The Bible Doesn't Say That Matter Of Fact It Say If The Are Willing To Reconcile They Should Also The Lord Says He Is Married To The Backsliders And He Will Leave The 99 To Get The 1 And Heaven Rejoices More Over The One Than The 99 I Can Support That
I did everything God told me to do. God had people of God warn him. There was no more sex for the last few years of our marriage. God told me not too. Wasn't my idea. I found peace in God and one day God told me it was time. I had forgot all about wanting a divorce. I'm free and happy. He has gone through a lot and tries to stay close to me. I stay kind but far away. Do it God's way. He wants you to be happy too.
I love how you said God told you not to have sex with him!! He's telling me the same as I'm going through a separation! Holy Spirit is definitely wanting me to stay pure.
Marriage as a spiritual covenant is not to make or keep you happy--that is your relationship with the LORD despite life circumstances. What marriage is designed to do is make you Holy!!!!
So did you get a divorce? Or not? If not, you’re not having sex with him? Why is that? If God told you, that’s between you and God. But if you’re not going to have intercourse with him why stay with him? Or he should maybe leave you.
@christopher Barham Based off of the video I am assuming that because he was cheating on her, that's why she stopped having sex with him, and it makes sense that the LORD would tell her to do that. I think she meant that she forgot about the divorce the last few years because she was just focused on obeying the LORD and stayed.
Maybe he ended up leaving her, and maybe she did end up getting a divorce. Maybe he divorced her. Maybe she separated and the LORD told her to wait for him to divorce her. Or maybe the LORD told her to stay pure until the day he dies and her stay single. Maybe she will have a husband again one day. Maybe she won't. We may never know, and that's ok because even though she was brave enough to be vulnerable and share what she did, she doesn't have to share everything.
I hope what she did share was encouraging for you tho!
@@learninghealingmentoringgr5578 ain't that the truth and so many of us struggle with this truth. Marriage reflecting Christ and the Church!
I wish I had this level of godly guided man. I spent 35 years with the one who I looked to be that and never did he produce the fruit. He chose cheating over family. Betrayal over longevity. Lying over loving me, the woman God placed in his lap over 35 years ago. Now I’m here in tears. I know God has got me. It’s still terribly hard to deal with it.
Hi! sending you a virtual hug :( but i know God will bring you through it!
You are not alone sis. 21 years for me. God can and will heal you. Just keep trusting Him and know that He doesn't want His beloved in abusive situations, He delivered you. Make Him your husband and you will find peace for your soul. Much love 🙏🏾
I FEEL YOU! Praying you are allowing your strength, GOD-GIVEN strength to rise up within you. You were already chosen by our Heavenly Father. 🤍
@@JustUdoro Yes! And Amen 🙏🏾
@@tunishavance5339 Yes 👏🏾 Amen. He sure is my husband.
If a spouse continues having an affair, and there’s no repentance, then I would agree that it’s prudent to leave, however, IN EVERYTHING, seek wisdom from the Holy Spirit.
I found out my husband was having multiple overlapping affairs and it never truly stop he only said that he would change because he got caught I kind of wish that men and women alike will work on themselves to better people before they get married the trauma of cheating and betrayal changes you as a person and you don't know what to trust not even your own intuition, divorce move on and heal you can't heal where you've been hurt at.
The sad truth is, that majority of the time, all the red flags are there. We just choose to ignore them.
100% true- and because this covenant has been broken-the wife is no longer morally obligated to stay with him!!
I love her voice it's so calming ❤
I'm a Christian marriage counselor and I try to explain this to women that they can leave. Sadly, the women don't want to leave the money, title, or the cheating man. They know God is okay with them leaving but they won't. They settle for dealing with the affair.
Then they are in IDOLATRY. They are trusting in man first and not God. The opposite of Psalm 118:8. And alot of them are BOTH cheating.
@@diannekevwitch6958 Right!
@Tara Boddie I learned that lesson and God doesn’t condone abuse of any kind especially when a man falls out of favor with God
Hi Miss Tara!! I desire to be a Christian marriage counselor in the future. How did you get there?? I counsel people now because they are open to talk to me but it’s not my job as of yet. How do I get there? I’m in university right now. I looked into your page and I also desire to be a motivational speaker myself and I’m currently a youth minister and want to continue in ministry. Do you have any advice??
Money means nothing to me. You need a plan and stick to it. Do t forget to take God with you
I love the other side of this that he talks about too. “You’re not a wife when I marry you you’re a wife when I find you. You become *my* wife when I marry you”
That's why Scripture says "He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing" NOT "He who maketh a wife..."
I wish I would've heard stuff like this 5 years ago. I now see my worth and have the strength to leave.
Facts!!! I just ran and never looked back….
My husband had three women, and one he was cording mentally, I wanted to reconcile my marriage, but spiritually, I couldn't.
You obviously cant do that on your own.. you take everything to the father. Gotta know the difference between an affair and love.. I remember i heard a story by a woman who didn't know this dude had other women but he always took care of her.. she went under one time in the hospital and had no one in her space at the time but him.. and she realize how good he was to her and didn't have to be. There are men who will treat everyone with love and kindness but the fact he has other women didn't put her off.. while others will immediately act like it should be only her.. when it should be only The Lord first.. before anyone else. Seek The lord to fix him.. if you must stay away, believe you should based on facts and not emotions.. go for it. Ask a spiritual father, man of God for directions if he can see what you cant but hey today.. ppl think they know it all. So be well and good luck..
@@jknight213 are you implying that because he is the “kind of guy that took care of her” that’s it okay he had multiple woman?
if you are, God himself doesn’t approve of this kind of man and if he is truly putting only God first, then he would only be with one woman.
if you didn’t mean that, then disregard my comment. it’s still true so just watching out for any other guys.
I’m a man and as a man of God you want a Godly man first, second a man that always have room for growth and thirdly a man that can control his emotions like a man and push all his insecurities wants needs and even to win a wordy battle to the side for what’s right, the man supposed to be example of humbleness and none moving emotions thru even thru biggest of bad events in life, if you as a man can’t hold back showing bad emotion and be able to confront any situation with humbleness and sound heart you and your family will always conquer uprightly
Straight factz 💯 Not to mention soul ties attached to him and possibly you if you knowing or unknowingly have sexual relations with him.
Someone already said this but, Juliet‘s voice is so calming and so peaceful that it makes it easy to receive this information about your situation. God bless her. God bless brother Tim. God is a good father and gives us good things. He wants the best for us.
Wooow, this is deep! Thank you for your wisdom
That's a WHOLE word!
It's been 6 months and God's favor has never left me. His grace and mercy has literally carried me through the heartbreak, abandonment, and betrayal! TRUST THE LORD FOR YOUR HEALING ❤️🙌❤️🔥
I love Tim AND I have to watch his shorts twice because he talks faster than I can process sometimes😂 thank you for the message.
Thank you finally someone is calling it out n talking truth..
I would love to tell my side of the story because I messed up by marring a narcissist
This is such a sensitive topic, and it takes the wisdom of God to make the right decision. The world says DIVORCE, but we have to seek the face of God in prayer and fasting. As a prayer warrior my first instinct is to look past the cheating spouse and see the spirit operating behind them. Sometimes both husband and wife need deliverance from generational curses and spiritual spouses. I’ve been there and God told me to love him unconditionally, the same way He loves me. I was so mad at God for making me love someone who didn’t deserve my love, but that’s how I was able to see how much God loved the both of us. Don’t just react with your emotions, go to your Heavenly Father, shut out the world and just cry out to Him. He will tell you exactly what to do.
This is very hard to accept but you are 💯 correct. God CAN restore. No matter what, we want HIS will. Hosea in the bible, also had to do something very similar and I'm sure it was extremely painful. Thank you for sharing 🔥🔥🔥🙌☺️
🎯🎯🎯🙏🏽
@@dreamersofdreams3720 how does he restore getting a child made on you or taking care of a child that wasn't yours ? Or HIV ?
Hmm...Did he stop cheating? Were you still having s*x with him?
@@weaveandwelfaretookblackme
They never consider this part. Seeing past the cheating spouse is a recipe for disaster. Staying with a cheater is unintelligent and dangerous.
Brother yes! Speak the truth
There are some men who won't see it as an affair. They see it as just sex and their biology
Some men are like that..the only one they truly care about is the one they will provide and take a bullet for..having sex is just a moment for conquering if something is missing
So true! 💯
I've heard and read such comments such as: "I'm a man, so I should be able to have as many women as I want to." "If King Solomon, David and many more did it, so can I!"
I'm like, this isn't even polygyny (under marriage). This is pure fornication!... Sigh... This world!
Yes and that disgusts me
SICK
That's their excuse if we did anywhere near what they choose to do and you will never find out the full truth maybe everything under the sun but a child of God. Cheating is the most disgusting , dis respectful, disloyal, and deceptive thing you could ever do to your husband or wife that type of betrayal is just demonic and evil. My Father God be with the betrayer because they're definitely doing the work of the Devil.
True God rejection is gods protect amen 🙏💖
Amen, so run honey as fast as you can!
And after deliverance 'cause demons get shared with each sexual encounter.
Where sin abounds grace abounds all the more thats the gospel right there!
This was so needed!
A gracious morning to you all .❤ I just wake up and with my phone 📱 I was able to come a cross such edifying word of truth and wisdom 🙌. Thank you so much brother 🙏. Am watching from Belgium 🇧🇪 bruxelles
....and this works both ways....fi sure!
When GOD shows up with your confirmation!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
Indeed these streets are nasty filthy and repulsive. I ❤ you two !
His sixth wife left him after four months. My prayer? That he never hurt another woman ever again. Thank you Jesus 🙌🏼
I left very quickly! Never regretted
Is this your wife sir? If so, you’ve found a good thing. Wisdom irradiates from her image, I’m sure her character matches it.
It is, shes in several of the episodes on the podcast, definitely a wise woman.
Yes that is his wife and I love them both!! They are the real deal in person!!
Wow good break down, I love the things you say always! Blessings to you!
Everything correctly put, waow. Run sis.
I would love to hear a conversation about opposite sex friendships in married couples
...This is deep..
❤❤❤❤❤ I wish more would spell it out like this!!!
Thank You so much 🙏🙌
You know, I don’t think I ever quote the rest of that scripture. That favor part hit different.
Why did that man laugh...it's 💯 truth..self control is a must 😳
10000000%..Preach!!!
I'm listening Lord❤
Preach! ❤️
I was just wondering… what if the woman cheated?
So do you not believe in reconciliation❓❓
My father left my mother when I was 12 years old... EVERYONE told her to move on but she prayed and stayed and didn't move on when there was no hope. BUT GOD reconcilled their marriage 6 years later and they were married till my dad went on to be with the Lord at 72 years old...
Well said!!
👉🏽👉🏽🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🔥🔥 so glad I ran
Love you guys ❤
So true it happened to me. Broke the whole marriage right in the beginning and there was so many. Still never will she more then 1. But I know thw truth. Working on getting out the story is not good goes beyond just sleep with another. So sad
FACTS HALLELUJAH Thank GOD for JESUS 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯
Hes right 100 percent
Facts
Absolutely!!
100000000%🎉 AMEN
Tim I love you, but your question text is slightly tilted, which makes the your answer look slightly off 😅. Just wanted to let you know FYI 😅😅😅
Sooo Good. #TRUTH
How does he “the cheater” gain the favor back??
Repent
So do you think there is no way to reconcile?
Amen 🙏🏾 ❤❤❤
Amen
A side chick to the side chick that's not a good thing
So good 🔥
🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨 Run as fast as you can ✌🏾
I can’t get everything from this clip to make a proper comment cause idk the full extent of what is being taught here. But as I understand it a man and woman brought together in Holy union cannot be broken by the will of man. Second I may need to be retaught on the issue but God never left us while we played the harlot with other “gods” we have placed in our hearts. I use this same understanding in my marriage. The same way God continues to love me in all my mess is the same way I ought to love my partner. The same way He finds a way to keep after us we also ought to find away. And yes that may be from a distance. But if we are saying that God brought us together than we should model the example He has shown us of how a husband or partners in general ought to love after and pursue one another. Just a thought in the midst of all these cries for divorce and separation.
I felt that
Now people have to boil them selfs, I’m to scarey, I will stay celibate, Jesusss👐🏽🙏🏽❤️🌹
Everybody knows everything on the internet but it’s say he who finds many not she who finds a husband mention that to brother
Get a medical and a spiritual report because disease is physical and spiritual he might still have that demon of pride and pleasures of flesh with him and get plenty therapy mental wellness is important for both person's in the relationship
what's the equivalent if the wife cheat?
Same. Read Proverns 14:1--- I believe it discusses that a prudent woman builds her house. Proverbs 2, 5, 6 and 7 discusses a harlot. The path of her leads to death and hell. The Bible is clear. But, GOD is also a Redeemer, too!!
@@learninghealingmentoringgr5578 is it the same path for a cheating man?
Nope, I'm allergic to do-overs. 💜🥰🙏💯
The Bible dnt say tht preach the word only sir it says forgive and it say love covers a multitude of sins
I will walk
I will run
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I never cheated on my wife and I provide and my marriage is trash.
Your marriage did not obtain favour from God??
AMEN YES HALLELUJAH
This!
I was the one who had to tell my mom that my dad was having an affair on her and produced another child.
She said that she forgave him and that they are working it all out. 5 years later , I found out that he might have 2 more….she doesn’t know but I’m the only one who knows 😢
You're horrible daughter Hope she doesn't find out she have HIV next😅
Happened to me. Tell your momma what's up, and help her to get out now. Don't let her think you've been keeping secrets too.
The problem with this.. if there is one, is what you believe is favor and the affair that you claim he stepped out. Because there are things ppl still believe they know more than God.. while using worldly wisdom.. What is that covenant.. do you know? When King Solomon ran the kingdom.. there was a type of covenant he had.. and when he went out of it.. we all know what happened. Read it in detail without bias and you will see what he was allowed to do.. or able to do verses what he wasn't allowed to do.. meaning what your covenant is with Yah.. is between you and him and never cross it.. best to first ask him first to address or make any modifications.
Then they take another form.
Wow
And I’ve heard that some sexually transmitted illness or disease don’t show up for up to 6 months 😬
I don't understand why non-believers comment on videos meant for believers.
Truth
Amen hallelujah
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What if she’s the wrong wife? I’m not entirely sure that all human marriages are ordained by God. There are so many reasons human beings get married, and it’s not always the right ones. I believe in marriage but perhaps if we took the time to marry the right person, there wouldn’t be so many divorces, and other problems like affairs.
I agree. I strongly believe that Sometimes a person is cheating because they know their spouse is not the right person but they don't want to leave or they still want some perks of being with that person.
The ROOT PROBLEM is that SO MANY are NOT WILLING TO DIE TO THEMSELVES. They REFUSE to SLAY the PRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE, EGO, and SELFISHNESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
For sure, Not because it's called marriage means that God finds favour in the union. Some people get married for financial security, Green Card, the purpose of hiding shame from pregnancy, religious reasons, the sole purpose to be called wife, etc.,...
Dumb question . The trust is broken and there is nothing to forge it back.
Ensure that God finds FAVOUR for you to get married because often times the marriage is not from God and all hell can break loose in the relationship...
Nobody chooses an affair. We are all possessed until we overcome anger
Sin deceives us. Without Christ we cannot refuse sin.
@@Jethro-tz6yd without overcoming and returning to God we can't get over sin. Is the mind that deceives and the wicked heart. Sin is of the heart
God created man with a choice. They did chose to have an affair.
@@Aniexo_ God created man in His image. Man is fallen however, and not being lead by God. So evil overtakes them and when you're possessed with evil there's nothing you won't do. We don't make choices we're either on the side of good, or evil
Have you ever done anything and couldn't believe you did it?
@@kaya_in_North_Carolina so it’s in God image to be unfaithful to your spouse?
Question for Tim Ross, before you fully gave your life to christ, and committed to therapy. Have you ever cheated on your wife? No hate pls, just trying to get context. Thanks.
What if the wife was the one that had the affair? What does she lose?
She loses her virtue and hinders man from obtaining favor from God through her.
She loses her covering
And people twist it and say I found me a good man...that aint in the bible😮
WOW...THATS Awesome...SMH!
There might be a side chick to the side chick fact's
That sounds good. However, it’s not biblically sound. I speak from experience.
I Can't Agree With That That's Not A Biblical Statement The Bible Doesn't Say That Matter Of Fact It Say If The Are Willing To Reconcile They Should Also The Lord Says He Is Married To The Backsliders And He Will Leave The 99 To Get The 1 And Heaven Rejoices More Over The One Than The 99 I Can Support That
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor.. Proverbs 18:22. Read it carefully. Don't thank me.
What if he was watching porn?😔