Being Comfortable In My Body & Friends With Benefits - GIRL TALK ADVICE!!

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024

Комментарии • 186

  • @talayalovett8688
    @talayalovett8688 Год назад +65

    My breast reduction surgery was the best decision ever. I feel so good in my clothes, back pain gone and I just feel more pretty. The down time was cool because it was Covid and I had the best support system.

  • @oliviagracevlogs
    @oliviagracevlogs Год назад +117

    You probably won't see this, but I wanted you to know how much of a bright light you are to others ✨️ 💛 I love these girl talks so much ❤

  • @katherinegeorge2387
    @katherinegeorge2387 Год назад +167

    I just love how sweet Cal is! Obviously we do not see all of your life, but it makes me happy that you’re happy!

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +28

      thank you so so much!!! 🥹🥹🥹

    • @_dearolive
      @_dearolive Год назад +5

      Same!!! ❤

  • @pickle_pearl
    @pickle_pearl Год назад +46

    My breast reduction was my first surgery too, and i was SO scared to go under. I spoke to someone who had it done and she told me they dont even use that much anesthesia because its essentially a noninvasive procedure. They arent really cutting into you like at all they are just "skimmin off the top". When i was on the table before i was knocked out, i told my doctor i was scared and she held my hand and promised she would take amazing care of me, and i trusted her. having a surgeon you trust 100% is very important.

  • @jshields-madison2394
    @jshields-madison2394 Год назад +104

    I had a breast reduction about 9 months ago. It was the best decision I’ve ever made. I was experiencing neck, shoulder, and back pain. Also migraines. After going to the chiropractor for years I figured out it was the twins.😂 Do what makes you comfortable. Discuss it with your doctor and do your research.

    • @JenniiiDoll
      @JenniiiDoll Год назад +1

      I’ve been looking into this and also have the same issue. Did you do it on your own or did you get a doctors note and covered by your insurnace ? So sorry for the question only answer if you’re comfortable answering. 💕

    • @pickle_pearl
      @pickle_pearl Год назад +3

      @@JenniiiDoll hey so im not the commenter but i got mine a year ago and i found a surgeon who took my insurance, i went to her and she took info to send to insurance, and they decide how much to cover. i had mine fully covered by BCBS

    • @jshields-madison2394
      @jshields-madison2394 Год назад +1

      @@JenniiiDoll I discussed it with my doctor and she sent in a referral. It was covered by insurance. If your doctor recommends lipo on the sides that will be an out of pocket charge. Some insurances will have certain requirements you have to meet to qualify. Some will want documentation of physical therapy, chiropractic care.

    • @JenniiiDoll
      @JenniiiDoll Год назад

      @@pickle_pearlwow that’s awesome! I will def look into it some more because it is very pricey but it would be great to get it covered through my insurance.

    • @JenniiiDoll
      @JenniiiDoll Год назад

      @@jshields-madison2394I see, well I will give it a try !

  • @luciagallegos6010
    @luciagallegos6010 Год назад +56

    I NEED some real girl talk from Remi 💅🏽

  • @LindaThao
    @LindaThao Год назад +528

    Can we have a girl talk series? 🩷😭🫶🏼

  • @izabelalackova6798
    @izabelalackova6798 Год назад +41

    You make me feel like I am always good enough! Thank you for these talks ❤️

  • @BeautyQueenMaria
    @BeautyQueenMaria Год назад +13

    hi remi! I am 25 and I got a breast reduction at 17 and I agree with everyone that it was life changing and the best decision ever, and worth going under the knife.

  • @usagimoon.x.o6256
    @usagimoon.x.o6256 Год назад +21

    It's always a good day when Remi uploads!❤❤

  • @ambers2568
    @ambers2568 Год назад +1

    I’ve been following you since your crazy neighbor! You have helped me love myself and my body. I’m more than just a number on the scale. You have been such a comfort person for me. I hope you feel as loved and supported as all of us fans do.

  • @Robuilds_
    @Robuilds_ Год назад

    I prefer the leaf of the artichoke as well!

  • @siva-ro1sj
    @siva-ro1sj Год назад +2

    I love Remi so much! It takes a lot of courage to be able to talk about these sensitive topics and I love how you give advice.

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад

      I love you so so much!!! thank you so much for watching! 💕🥹✨

  • @emilylacaze
    @emilylacaze Год назад +1

    i’ve watched you since i was a little girl and i’ll be 20 next month. it feels like we’ve grown together and i really look forward to watching your videos. thank you for everything 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @reginamendietaa
    @reginamendietaa Год назад

    looove the girl talk and momo !!!! she’s the cutesttt 🥺🥺

  • @ktelizabeth
    @ktelizabeth Год назад +3

    I love your girl talk videos!!! Would be so keen for it to be a series!!?

  • @MarinaSzocs
    @MarinaSzocs Год назад +3

    Just wanted to jump in and be someone else that recommends the breast reduction 😅
    I was also very worried about having a big surgery, but in the last 3 years I ended up having 3 (for different health reasons) and everything was great thankfully! Find the right doctor and team that you trust, it makes all the difference!
    But as far as the breast reduction itself - I had a reconstruction/reduction surgery and it was life changing! Never having to suffer with boob sweat, rashes, shoulder or back pain is liberating! On top of that you will never have to choose clothes based on what work or not with your chest… it changes everything and releases so much stress… if you decide to do it we’ll all be sending you lots of love! ❤ xoxo, your biggest brazilian fan!

  • @christinatruong7
    @christinatruong7 Год назад +5

    I have a Maltese mix doggie too and I use Angel Eyes for her. It’s a powder you put on their food daily and it helps alot 🥰

  • @jpopstar777
    @jpopstar777 Год назад +3

    Loved this blog, always wonderful to hear you just being so vulnerable and honest. You’re the best!!!

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +1

      thank you so so much for watching! I appreciate all of your support! 🥹💕

  • @katelyncrawford3464
    @katelyncrawford3464 Год назад +1

    Remi you're so real for the girl talks and waiting to shave. What a queen!!💜💜💜🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @cliche463
    @cliche463 Год назад +1

    Green is YOUR COLORRR! It complements your skin tone so well

  • @deniceworks6328
    @deniceworks6328 Год назад +17

    My breast reduction surgery was the best decision I ever made. I was carrying 40 H for too long and messerible: Now I am happy 36 C. Sometimes you have to do what’s best for you.

  • @nessaloveslife
    @nessaloveslife Год назад

    Your channel is such positive vibes only ✨

  • @AsianIsMe
    @AsianIsMe Год назад +1

    I agree with diving into dating for the first time. I was a late bloomer and didn't start dating until 22, so apps made meeting people easier since I was no longer in school and the people I worked with weren't my age. I had also just moved to Japan, so I just saw it as meeting new people in general and not as dating. It made it way less stressful and fun! Also, being a "bigger" girl in Japan, I was afraid no one wanted to date me 😅 so keeping it casual helped boost my confidence with the more dates I went on.

  • @alyssawells1115
    @alyssawells1115 Год назад +9

    Remi: “Let’s all drink our water together. 1,2,3…”
    Me: Sips Tito’s and Crystal Light 🍹

  • @Lildejj
    @Lildejj Год назад +1

    I had a reduction back in 2016 for my 21st birthday, and it was literally the best decision ever. I was a 44 HH and literally everything always hurt, and I hated how clothes looked on me because I always had to size up even though I could easily be a large in most brands back then. The only issue I had with mine was that my surgeon lifted my ar30las a little too high, so now I’ll have to get an additional surgery to recorrect & lower them, but I still don’t regret the surgery itself!!!

  • @karmen1265
    @karmen1265 Год назад

    Girl Talks are my favorite!! They constantly remind me to love myself the way I should be 🥰

  • @jennagrimaudo9333
    @jennagrimaudo9333 Год назад +1

    the way i get more excited than anything else when i see a remlife vlog gets uploaded

  • @angiesvlogss
    @angiesvlogss Год назад

    the only reason i’m on youtube atp!!!!!!!! these make me sooo happy

  • @lphorsley
    @lphorsley Год назад +1

    Lol “it’s fine I’ll just get hurt” is SO real

  • @zenobiyaaaa
    @zenobiyaaaa Год назад

    17:54 "little skirt from sunday... NO MONDAY SWIMWEAR" LMAOOO

  • @madisonstephens45
    @madisonstephens45 Год назад +1

    I saw Twice in New Jersey and I was so excited to go there 🥹🍭

  • @rbrooks001
    @rbrooks001 Год назад +5

    Had a reduction in October and they did the lollipop incision where they did not remove my nips and the scarring is super minimal. If you’re nervous about that for potential breast feeding reasons I’d look into that! 💕

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +1

      thank you so so much!!! 💕💕

  • @RomneyRanjo
    @RomneyRanjo Год назад +1

    new vlogs always make me so happy & excited ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @britt8099
    @britt8099 Год назад

    Pls I wanted to cry when you and Cal talked on the phone 🥺 I love it

  • @itslyssiej
    @itslyssiej Год назад +23

    I don’t have big breasts, I have small breasts. As a small breasted woman, I learn to accept and embrace my own body.
    I love you Remi and thank you for posting today!❤
    I love you

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +2

      ILYSM!!! thank you so much for watching! 💕

  • @Chaaax123
    @Chaaax123 Год назад +4

    Good morning! We love you Remi! Thank you for another upload.

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +1

      thank you so much for watching!! ILYSM 🥹💕

  • @HannahKkim
    @HannahKkim Год назад +3

    Love this girl talk segment in your video ❤😊

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +2

      thank you so much!! 🥹💕 ILY!

  • @NicoleYoesting
    @NicoleYoesting 3 месяца назад

    Big summer blowout 🤣 I love you remi ❤😂

  • @HannaImura
    @HannaImura Год назад +1

    ahh first!! watching your videos always cheer me up🥺🥺

  • @Beautylife12-ir8ni
    @Beautylife12-ir8ni Год назад

    Love these girl talk series you should totally do more series of this ❤❤❤❤

  • @juliacollazoactress
    @juliacollazoactress Год назад +2

    Your home looks like something I’d make in Sims! So beautiful :)

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +1

      thank you so much!!! 💕✨🥹

  • @milicacolevic9954
    @milicacolevic9954 Год назад

    I agree with all the comments about the breast reduction. I had mine almost a year ago, and it is the best decision I ever made for myself.

  • @victoriatwiz5624
    @victoriatwiz5624 Год назад +5

    Just a tip with a potential breast reduction if you do plan to try breastfeeding when you want to have children it can cause issues with producing milk. Sorry if that's TMI just wanted to share the info cause I know you want to have kids in the future. But loving all the great content Remi! Can't wait for all the summer fun vlogs😘💕

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +2

      not TMI at all!! i definitely have a lot more research to do if i ever decide to move forward, so i appreciate hearing all the info! thank you for sharing!! 💕💕

  • @XOPaulineJo
    @XOPaulineJo Год назад +1

    Awwwww Daisy looked like a baby 🥺

  • @jasminevoss5066
    @jasminevoss5066 Год назад

    Green looks so good on you!!

  • @carolannemarsden3131
    @carolannemarsden3131 Год назад

    I know advice is sometimes not wanted especially considering medical procedures, but I had complete top surgery (I identify as nonbinary) but as a kid I always wanted a beast reduction. I had my surgery in December it was the best decision I've ever made! Not just because of the gender dysphoria, but my back pain, skin irritation, doing physical activity, and just comfortability in my skin and clothes. If your considering keep looking into it, you can always just go to a consultation!! Love you lots

  • @hannahlee4670
    @hannahlee4670 Год назад

    The bread pillow fights they probably have had 🤣

  • @danilue10
    @danilue10 Год назад +1

    I just sat down to eat lunch by myself & thought “hmm I wonder if there’s a new Remi vlog” & it had been uploaded 14 minutes ago🤩 my bestie queen!!!

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +1

      ILY BESTIE QUEEN!!! 🥹💕

  • @samantha_nicole1484
    @samantha_nicole1484 Год назад

    Remiiiiiiiiii!!!! Lovely to see you on this beautiful Wednesday 💗🫶🏼

  • @renmarie3143
    @renmarie3143 Год назад

    i definitely love the girl talk

  • @emily422111
    @emily422111 Год назад

    Smooth hooha season killed me 😂

  • @jeessicakae
    @jeessicakae Год назад

    Always a good day when Remi posts ❤🎉

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад

      thank you so so much for watching, ILYSM! 🥹💕

  • @nayelifernandez8221
    @nayelifernandez8221 Год назад

    More girl talk Remi 😭❤️✨

  • @orangejmoothies
    @orangejmoothies Год назад

    11:00 honestly nice to hear your vulnerable thoughts b/c personally (meaning no one has to agree with me lol), i was someone who convinced their self that 'oh this is empowering for me, im in control, yadda yadda yadaa" when honestly it was really devastating to my mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, etc and i would never recommend fwb to my younger self.
    i was just pretending to be this 'strong independent woman' that i thought i should be?? /sigh.

  • @ohloddy
    @ohloddy Год назад

    im gonna cry this is my favorite video ever lol

  • @mateamarie4651
    @mateamarie4651 Год назад

    Love how the dogs just sit and watch you clean😅

  • @KristenMiller-l1f
    @KristenMiller-l1f Год назад +1

    Love watching your videos. Always bring so much joy to my day. Thank you Remi!❤

  • @wearsaaliyah
    @wearsaaliyah Год назад

    I love watching your videos Remi ❤They always brighten my day x

  • @crystallee8593
    @crystallee8593 Год назад +1

    I’m going through the mentality of my body changes now. I had a second baby and my body did not bounce back like the first. But I need to remember I’m in a diff place now than I was before

    • @_dearolive
      @_dearolive Год назад +1

      So proud for you! I’m currently trying for a baby and I’m sure I’ll go through a lot not only physically but mentally too. But always have to be reminded how beautiful and amazing it is to be able to carry a child! Thinking of you ❤

  • @tedddybear
    @tedddybear Год назад +1

    I love the girl talk

  • @alexisduncan3205
    @alexisduncan3205 Год назад +1

    “Here is my arm pit!!” 😂

  • @nataliejeanne72
    @nataliejeanne72 Год назад

    I love EOS!

  • @tiffanystrattan
    @tiffanystrattan Год назад

    Love the girl talk.

  • @violetpeabody9270
    @violetpeabody9270 Год назад

    Your intro is so funny to me because I was class of 2023 😭😭😭

  • @laurensmith0912
    @laurensmith0912 Год назад +2

    I love you so so so much! You seem so unbelievably sweet and kindhearted🩷also I absolutely loved the lil chit chat.

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад

      thank you so so much, ILY!!! 🥹💕✨I truly appreciate you!

  • @maliasymone
    @maliasymone Год назад

    i need a vid of you making different flavored sorbets from your creami on cooking with remi😭

  • @Jill-d3g
    @Jill-d3g Год назад

    You are such an amazing human your always positive with energy you are are gorgeous

  • @laurenpaige5566
    @laurenpaige5566 Год назад

    I love you Remi !!!!!!!! You are my daily doze of vlogss

  • @ostrich8
    @ostrich8 Год назад +2

    You are so wise Remi💜💜

  • @drewwalker5400
    @drewwalker5400 Год назад

    thank you for this discussion, I just left my two year relationship due to how I was being treated and it was so hard and I'm scared to date but thank you

  • @xSaaly
    @xSaaly Год назад

    Are you able to please do a video of what your new pcos specialist recommended specifically for you and what you’ve learned about your PCOS?

  • @WorldofVinee
    @WorldofVinee Год назад +2

    i needed to hear this today!

  • @marieafatchao5012
    @marieafatchao5012 Год назад +1

    I love watching your video remi ! Always make my day ❤️.

  • @marissafernandes9958
    @marissafernandes9958 Год назад +1

    Queennn
    U always have such a positive vibe 💜 luv ya

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад

      thank you so much 💕🥹 ILY!

  • @stephanietrimble251
    @stephanietrimble251 Год назад +3

    46 and still trying to figure out pcos, thyroid. Going to work with a functional medicine doctor. Need a new perspective

  • @Siennagehring
    @Siennagehring Год назад

    Omg. You are SO LUCKY! I have to shave my armpits every other day!

  • @isabellamartinez9720
    @isabellamartinez9720 Год назад +1

    Can you talk about or show some of your most favorite pieces that are comfortable and support the ladies 🥲

  • @danianddeni5112
    @danianddeni5112 Год назад

    U and Alisha could do a podcast episode abt it and then a video for yt on ur channels too

  • @alliwantisquiet
    @alliwantisquiet Год назад +1

    You’re so sweet to cal on the phone 🥹🥹

  • @bella7613
    @bella7613 Год назад +1

    If Ms.Remi drinks water, I drink water 🥤

  • @julieta8683
    @julieta8683 Год назад +1

    Wow great minds think alike since I drank water and am having rice for supper as well 😁👏🏻😋

  • @eisaescalona1508
    @eisaescalona1508 Год назад +3

    cal asking about the gluten free tortillas 🥺🥺🥺

  • @gawa_home
    @gawa_home Год назад +3

    Hi Rems!! Love your vlogs 😊❤

  • @Maggiwithoutane
    @Maggiwithoutane Год назад

    Momo is main character energy

  • @bigariesmoon
    @bigariesmoon Год назад +2

    Idk Remi. After that Nair Butt video I think you can do anything 😭 iykyk

  • @madisonstephens45
    @madisonstephens45 Год назад

    I love watching your videos ❤️

  • @mykalaofarrell6883
    @mykalaofarrell6883 Год назад

    That green is your color girl!!

  • @omayabrown3315
    @omayabrown3315 Год назад

    I appreciate you Queen Remi keep going❣️‼️‼️‼️‼️🫶

  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 Год назад

    Love your content!

  • @lisaadelemunroe8021
    @lisaadelemunroe8021 Год назад +1

    Love you channel long time fan from DIY university days

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад

      thank you so much for all of your support!!! ILYSM! 🥹🥹🥹

  • @TiniMini92
    @TiniMini92 11 месяцев назад

    I just found this video Ive missedt it :( so sad
    But for the tangtops you have so many of, what is it?
    I need some for my girls so I can have comfy tops without my bh, I hate them for some of the same reasons you said and right now I almost only use sports bras but its not flattering

  • @YasmeenMO
    @YasmeenMO Год назад

    Love girl talk

  • @dianamagana2625
    @dianamagana2625 Год назад +1

    hi remi! love ya!

  • @maybunny8956
    @maybunny8956 Год назад +4

    Hi Remi!! I was watching your "what I eat in a day" vlog and you said you had to stop playing tennis bc your shoulder pops. I highly suggest you try taking flaxseed oil!! My body used to pop like a popcorn machine all the time and just taking it for a month straight did wonders for my body. I stopped taking it, bc Im lazy rip, but my body didn't crack for like 3 years after I did that and now my body will only pop like once a month if it does!!

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад +1

      omg thank you so much!!! i actually received some flax oil recently, so i’ll totally give it a try!! 🥹💕

    • @_dearolive
      @_dearolive Год назад

      Oooooo! What a good tip!

  • @Shaniaskyra
    @Shaniaskyra Год назад +1

    Ugh I love you ❤

    • @RemLife
      @RemLife  Год назад

      ILYSM!!! 🥹💕✨

  • @omgitstana869
    @omgitstana869 Год назад

    My grandma had one like 25 years ago and she loved it dd to b and at the time she was 5ft 2 ish now she’s like 5ft

  • @jailinareyes6276
    @jailinareyes6276 Год назад

    Please please do more ❤❤

  • @Randomnellyy
    @Randomnellyy Год назад

    I’m 28 and I have also been considering a breast reduction but ALSO scared lol

  • @amyhernandez3317
    @amyhernandez3317 Год назад

    QUEEN PLS LMK WHERE THE GREEN JACKET IS FROM ?🫶🏽