Hey Clay, Why is my ex requesting to following me using a fake account for 3-4 months but she’s in a long rebound relationship? Its been a whole year and she’s been making fake accounts to stalk my socials. I trust my gut instinct and I know its her.
It would be really great to see you discuss topics with other coaches especially if you have disagreements and can talk it out. Would be beneficial to this community im sure
Good opinion. You can never solve the problem with more thoughts, or adding more thoughts. It just contributes to the problem. Only energy can change problem, energy is not about logic or analysis Love empathy and gratitude are energy.
Been in relationship for one year. Asked her to marry him end of last year. Only wanted to be friends with me. He changed his personality for gf. I don’t think he will come back….
Now that i'm no longer interested in him or making our new family one is when he's showing all these signs. Calling me for the most random unnecessary things... i'm so hurt from everything he put me through during my pregnancy and after... Im watching him through new lens now and i'm not in the slightest way attracted to him in any way or care to rekindle... mentally or physically. Just gonna co-parent and focus on my child... i'm 32 now so hopes of finding love again and as a mother is out the door...i'm not mentally able to put myself out there and the odds are against me anyway in terms of future relationships. This relationship was my last i'm exhausted from struggle love.
Sorry to be off subject, but she reached out to me on Saturday night (1:45am), and she asked how I was, asked if id seen my parents and how they are, and asked to see me. She was bending over backwards to get a decent time / date for us to meet. Even though she's in a rebound, this has to be good signs, right? I assume she's riding the dragon?
Don't call it a date. Have lunch with her. Travel separately. Remove the word date as it implies a romantic connection. And don't overstay the time. Nothing late night. As that'll show you being busy. And set a time limit, and when that time comes, then make your exit and remain respectful during that process. And you'll just walk away from that event. And don't allow her over during the late night hours until she insists. It'll swing the power to you. But, you gotta make sure that you stay in that frame and get busy doing other things. Don't look deep into signs. Kinda get oblivious to her actions. Kinda friend zone yourself until you're ready seriously for her. But, this is also the way to make her inadvertently "beg." Only be there emotionally there when it has to do with family matters, but even then, don't run to her side.
@Chaz Rooks I agree with your advice. She needs to come to you at this point. And as Clay has stated in other videos, entertain the idea, but state you think it best to proceed with caution. Pursuing someone is different than chasing them. Do not chase them!!! Best wishes
She has displayed the first four signs, but the fifth, I'm not so sure, she has said in the past we could get back together, she's stroked my face after fixing ny hair, she DEFINITELY still cares, but whatever
My ex is in another relationship but I fell like she's still emotionally connected me... When we together physically she's open to being comfortable with each other and once said there still is another chance we get back together but I was asked to be patient and I don't wanna be patient for something that is not garanteed...she seems a bit confused also💔😪
Hi Lindo, Thanks for sharing and I understand where you are coming from. It sounds like your ex may still be at the Test Drive phase (we talked about this deeper inside the Ex Solution Program). Yes, you ex may open themselves up emotionally but they still feel a bit guarded for some reasons. Sending more positive energies on your end.
@@ClayAndrews that's the thing, she's a bit guarded ...I think I should just continue trying to connect with her more even though it might come back and bite me .
Hey Clay I have a question. My ex dumped me 2 months ago and is in a new relationship ever since. But he still keeps contacting me. For example, he asks me advice on which clothes to wear on work events. We used to shop clothes together when we were in a relationship. He even sends me photos of meals he cooks. I remember cooking is a common hobby for the both of us. He sends me vacation photos and asks me my opinion on which photos to upload on facebook. I mean he talks to me about things we enjoy when were still together. What does this mean?
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Hey Clay, Why is my ex requesting to following me using a fake account for 3-4 months but she’s in a long rebound relationship? Its been a whole year and she’s been making fake accounts to stalk my socials. I trust my gut instinct and I know its her.
It would be really great to see you discuss topics with other coaches especially if you have disagreements and can talk it out. Would be beneficial to this community im sure
great suggestion. Thank you!
Good opinion. You can never solve the problem with more thoughts, or adding more thoughts.
It just contributes to the problem.
Only energy can change problem, energy is not about logic or analysis
Love empathy and gratitude are energy.
He swears my favorite Color which is blue. That’s the color that he wears every Friday when we are both at the bowling center. We don’t talk
Been in relationship for one year. Asked her to marry him end of last year. Only wanted to be friends with me. He changed his personality for gf. I don’t think he will come back….
Def not coming back. Sorry, there’s a better partner waiting to be found by you!
Now that i'm no longer interested in him or making our new family one is when he's showing all these signs. Calling me for the most random unnecessary things... i'm so hurt from everything he put me through during my pregnancy and after... Im watching him through new lens now and i'm not in the slightest way attracted to him in any way or care to rekindle... mentally or physically. Just gonna co-parent and focus on my child... i'm 32 now so hopes of finding love again and as a mother is out the door...i'm not mentally able to put myself out there and the odds are against me anyway in terms of future relationships. This relationship was my last i'm exhausted from struggle love.
Sorry to be off subject, but she reached out to me on Saturday night (1:45am), and she asked how I was, asked if id seen my parents and how they are, and asked to see me. She was bending over backwards to get a decent time / date for us to meet. Even though she's in a rebound, this has to be good signs, right?
I assume she's riding the dragon?
Don't call it a date. Have lunch with her. Travel separately. Remove the word date as it implies a romantic connection. And don't overstay the time. Nothing late night. As that'll show you being busy. And set a time limit, and when that time comes, then make your exit and remain respectful during that process. And you'll just walk away from that event. And don't allow her over during the late night hours until she insists. It'll swing the power to you. But, you gotta make sure that you stay in that frame and get busy doing other things. Don't look deep into signs. Kinda get oblivious to her actions. Kinda friend zone yourself until you're ready seriously for her. But, this is also the way to make her inadvertently "beg." Only be there emotionally there when it has to do with family matters, but even then, don't run to her side.
@Chaz Rooks
I agree with your advice. She needs to come to you at this point. And as Clay has stated in other videos, entertain the idea, but state you think it best to proceed with caution. Pursuing someone is different than chasing them. Do not chase them!!!
Best wishes
She has displayed the first four signs, but the fifth, I'm not so sure, she has said in the past we could get back together, she's stroked my face after fixing ny hair, she DEFINITELY still cares, but whatever
My ex is in another relationship but I fell like she's still emotionally connected me... When we together physically she's open to being comfortable with each other and once said there still is another chance we get back together but I was asked to be patient and I don't wanna be patient for something that is not garanteed...she seems a bit confused also💔😪
Hi Lindo, Thanks for sharing and I understand where you are coming from. It sounds like your ex may still be at the Test Drive phase (we talked about this deeper inside the Ex Solution Program). Yes, you ex may open themselves up emotionally but they still feel a bit guarded for some reasons. Sending more positive energies on your end.
@@ClayAndrews that's the thing, she's a bit guarded ...I think I should just continue trying to connect with her more even though it might come back and bite me .
I'm living with my ex of 22 years. He left me and had 3 relationships one before we were even divorced. Why
Because he's hurt
Non?
Hey Clay I have a question. My ex dumped me 2 months ago and is in a new relationship ever since. But he still keeps contacting me. For example, he asks me advice on which clothes to wear on work events. We used to shop clothes together when we were in a relationship. He even sends me photos of meals he cooks. I remember cooking is a common hobby for the both of us. He sends me vacation photos and asks me my opinion on which photos to upload on facebook. I mean he talks to me about things we enjoy when were still together. What does this mean?
All your dating coaches all say no contact rule I didn't follow it because I didn't know about this was back 1995