THE Most Important Move You Can Make To Get Your Ex Back

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
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    Getting your ex back can be confusing, complicated, and tricky. Especially if you're doing the wrong things and focusing in the wrong direction.
    Today we'll be talking about the most important shift you can make in getting back together with your ex. If you can do this, you'll feel much more empowered, less at the whims of what they say and do... and you actually be putting yourself into alignment with the person that they are more likely to want to be in a relationship with.

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  • @ClayAndrews
    @ClayAndrews  2 года назад +3

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  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour 2 года назад +34

    We appreciate you making these videos regardless of your hardships. I also like that you’re married, I value the advice from dating coaches/experts when they are actually in a relationship themselves as opposed to single

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  2 года назад +4

      Thanks for the kind words. Yeah, I personally never really understood the popularity of single relationship coaches. I mean, I guess that might make sense if your goal is just to hook up or sleep around. Single coaches are probably better at that than married people.

  • @ClayAndrews
    @ClayAndrews  2 года назад +4

    Yikes! sorry for the audio. It seems I did not connect my microphone properly.

  • @saraholland8743
    @saraholland8743 2 года назад +6

    Found this super helpful. It’s already how I’ve redirected how I show up. But it was validating. And the metaphor of dressing up in my outfit of fun, compassionate, empathetic, engaging will help. Thanks.

    • @mrsjones3199
      @mrsjones3199 2 года назад

      Hey friends need help on getting back your ex partner , broken marriage specific person ( SP ) fix broken relationship , get rid of third parties and attracting love for better and permanent !!

    • @mrsjones3199
      @mrsjones3199 2 года назад

      Wh'atsap him

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  2 года назад

      Thank you!

  • @chrisfletcher623
    @chrisfletcher623 2 года назад +3

    Hi clay, sorry to hear you've all been having a difficult time, sending best wishes to you all.

    • @mrsjones3199
      @mrsjones3199 2 года назад

      Hey friends need help on getting back your ex partner , broken marriage specific person ( SP ) fix broken relationship , get rid of third parties and attracting love for better and permanent !!

    • @mrsjones3199
      @mrsjones3199 2 года назад

      Wh'atsap him

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  2 года назад

      Thanks! I'm hoping that all the personal challenges will level off from here on out...

  • @blackfam1122
    @blackfam1122 Год назад

    Good job Clay. I love your words. They’ve always given me a positive perspective and a warrior energy to get me through 💪🏾, thanks

  • @jason415
    @jason415 10 месяцев назад

    Lately when i Say "good night" She answer me back with a tune of voice that sound like of i was a customer

  • @rekanapsugar4120
    @rekanapsugar4120 6 месяцев назад

    Very good advise thank you

  • @jonm.3133
    @jonm.3133 Год назад

    I like these LIVE Q&As. Is there a schedule somewhere so we can see when the future ones are?

  • @beatrixkiddo13
    @beatrixkiddo13 2 года назад

    Thank you, Clay! As always. We appreciate you. I’m glad (and grateful) to see you on the mend and making a comeback from the past few weeks! We are all here with you, and rooting for you (and your family)… :)

  • @AKFit360
    @AKFit360 7 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t understand why would a guy want to get back with a ex that slept with another man. I would never take and ex back who slept with another man.

    • @TheWholeDamnShow007
      @TheWholeDamnShow007 2 месяца назад

      What’s the difference between dating from tinder knowing those girls got ran by too?

  • @jazzy47827
    @jazzy47827 10 месяцев назад +2

    My crush says to me
    Can we be friends Because
    He has A lot going on
    I want him Back
    What should I Do

  • @bonniekerr4964
    @bonniekerr4964 Год назад +1

    What if my husband left for another woman? A former classmate .
    That’s was after 27 years of marriage, and him not really participating in the relationship. Always going off with friends and or flirting with other women.
    I sometimes felt like he intentionally wanted me to feel bad about myself, so he could feel superior.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Год назад

      Hi Bonnie, I'm so sorry that this is happening in your marriage. I can only imagine how hard it must be to deal with something like this. How were the quality of communication between you and your husband? Are there any communication gaps that might have lead to this situation?
      I would love to help you figure out what's going on, so you can also email our team at hello@modernlove.life

  • @aprilstaley8882
    @aprilstaley8882 3 месяца назад

    Husband and i are in separation and I still belive he is still my one ..... I have been through the 5 steps you say. We keep getting to the riding the dragon (3) seems like we get to 4 and then slide back to the dragon. We have an 8 year old that seems our arguments are most the time involving him. One of us is not parenting how the other wants and we slide backwards. How do we sit down have a parenting plan type of conversation with me wanting to move forward and get back together and him being super cautious about any relationship talk.

  • @TheCat_98
    @TheCat_98 2 года назад +2

    Ex gf said she missed me on social media and said on the same tweet how I messed up.
    What’s the deal??

    • @AZ-gy1wt
      @AZ-gy1wt 2 года назад

      I think it would help to watch these videos and playlist in their entirety

    • @chiranjit0
      @chiranjit0 2 года назад +1

      That's a bait. She wants to get back with you but on her own terms. She is like "I will have you back because I can't stay away from you but apologize to me and let me have full control of you because it also serves my ego"

  • @rclark7807
    @rclark7807 Год назад +1

    All I can say is WHY would anyone want their ex 'back'? If you left 'them', STAY GONE! If they left you, STAY GONE AND WAVE BYE BYE!

  • @amr526
    @amr526 2 года назад +1

    Why are you still in Mexico back in 2017 my mom had a stroke also in March 2017 may the Lord be with you at this difficult time

  • @ElizabethAClark
    @ElizabethAClark Год назад

    What if my ex was this way?

  • @lmart16
    @lmart16 Год назад

    How are you a dating coach yet you don't want to learn about attachment styles? Not everyone is an avoidant - most your followers are anxious types, asking for your advice on avoidants. And bc of this, your advice you've given here is pretty bad. I feel bad for the guy who you told to reach out again after his ex said she needs time. These results are sure to fail.

  • @ingainge3146
    @ingainge3146 2 года назад

    If it is ex it means experience and let it go😀😀😀

  • @hayday9224
    @hayday9224 2 года назад

    Even u do no contact, they will get back to u, if it doesn't work with someone else, so basically u r second class citizen, their back up plan, I watched all the videos the whole year and she back, I was dating and could bond with anyone, so I thought I give it shot, I took it slowly and at the end she want to frienzone me lol no thanks honey, better delete them from your life trust me, we all have different situations

  • @leighcolemaninos
    @leighcolemaninos 5 месяцев назад

    Like what you are doing here-

  • @abdullahcheksahamat6717
    @abdullahcheksahamat6717 Год назад +1

    Your youtube take 54 mins is too long. Should work hard to make thing b move concise say < 5 minutes