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I get this. But it seems like with this approach we're relieving their pressure and increasing ours. No one wants to be played or waste their time. If they're so confused, spending time with them gives no incentive to make a decision. I understand taking it slow and trying to reconnect, I think that's necessary. At the same time, to me this comes with boundaries that should be communicated. If not, it's too much of an emotional risk . You should still know each other's intentions. Just my opinion.
Regarding Gina N comment, why is she having to do anything to relieve his pressure and help him with feeling less confusion? She's his ex and he's with someone new. If she does this he's having his cake and eating it too. This just makes him too complacent. And at the end of the day, she's losing so to speak. Not that it's a game but I'm saying she's selling herself short. She's giving him time and access to her etc with no relationship or commitment.
hello there! first i wanna say thank you for posting these very helpful videos, keep doing that's plz. and just wanted to ask if u can decompose the video in sequences and give them titles . thanks again 🙏 🙏
Could you please film a more detailed video about what to consider/ how to deal with an ex in the quarterlife/midlife crisis? I feel that my ex has no room for anything else in the world but work + uni. He has got the mindest of „first the hard part, then the fun / relaxing part“ which leads to onnnlllyyy work and mind focusing on work..
Hi Janne, I'm sorry to hear that you r ex is going through midlife. We understand that this must be tough for you. Though we cannot "fix" someone who has midlife crisis, it is best to encourage the person to seek the help of a licensed professional for proper intervention.
@@ClayAndrews Thank you for responding, Clay. I encouraged him to get professional help, he is in therapy about over a year now.. is there nothing else I can do? It is so hard to watch him getting worse…
So me and my ex started talking again and we talked about the idea of getting back together but then out of nowhere she texted me admitting that she has been purposely avoiding me out of fear and doesn't know if she wants to get together, anymore what do I do then?
Would you also tell you ex "lets not worry about where this is going" when just inviting her for an activity with the kids present, which to me sounds like a safe enough situation? In other words, how do you know whether you need to take pressure off of something that in itself seems innocent enough?
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And here's that Effortless Connection course: www.modernlove.life/ec
Someone may be anxious with one relationship, and avoidant with another. It depends on the circumstances.You're right, labels are not accurate.
Thanks for sharing your insights. :-)
100% true. I’m more of an anxious person with my ex but I’m more avoidant with other women I’m romantically involved with, it’s weird.
I get this. But it seems like with this approach we're relieving their pressure and increasing ours. No one wants to be played or waste their time. If they're so confused, spending time with them gives no incentive to make a decision. I understand taking it slow and trying to reconnect, I think that's necessary. At the same time, to me this comes with boundaries that should be communicated. If not, it's too much of an emotional risk . You should still know each other's intentions. Just my opinion.
Jealousy is a very ugly thing in a relationship.
What happens when your married and separated? How do you fix, build and handle the situation?
I won’t put up with Unrequited Love and Mixed Signals Clay.
Regarding Gina N comment, why is she having to do anything to relieve his pressure and help him with feeling less confusion? She's his ex and he's with someone new. If she does this he's having his cake and eating it too. This just makes him too complacent. And at the end of the day, she's losing so to speak. Not that it's a game but I'm saying she's selling herself short. She's giving him time and access to her etc with no relationship or commitment.
hello there! first i wanna say thank you for posting these very helpful videos, keep doing that's plz. and just wanted to ask if u can decompose the video in sequences and give them titles . thanks again 🙏 🙏
You should do a video on Unrequited Love Clay and how to deal with it.
Don’t worry about the future focus on the present.
After our divorce ten years ago, we are dating and engaged to remarry. Now I am having second thoughts 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Could you please film a more detailed video about what to consider/ how to deal with an ex in the quarterlife/midlife crisis? I feel that my ex has no room for anything else in the world but work + uni. He has got the mindest of „first the hard part, then the fun / relaxing part“ which leads to onnnlllyyy work and mind focusing on work..
Hi Janne, I'm sorry to hear that you r ex is going through midlife. We understand that this must be tough for you. Though we cannot "fix" someone who has midlife crisis, it is best to encourage the person to seek the help of a licensed professional for proper intervention.
@@ClayAndrews Thank you for responding, Clay. I encouraged him to get professional help, he is in therapy about over a year now.. is there nothing else I can do? It is so hard to watch him getting worse…
You should do a video on how to deal with Mixed Signals Clay.
I really can’t tell if my ex is confused I think she is but really can’t twll
Everybody is in limbo land with the pandemic Clay.
So me and my ex started talking again and we talked about the idea of getting back together but then out of nowhere she texted me admitting that she has been purposely avoiding me out of fear and doesn't know if she wants to get together, anymore what do I do then?
Probably match her( not as in say you don't want to either) but, just show that you kinda see where they're coming from. Just pace yourself
What is the update bro?
Would you also tell you ex "lets not worry about where this is going" when just inviting her for an activity with the kids present, which to me sounds like a safe enough situation? In other words, how do you know whether you need to take pressure off of something that in itself seems innocent enough?
Why am I doing all the initiating in the relationship and you’re doing nothing?
Why can’t we just tell them to shove off Clay?