What is an INTJ female looking for.... ENTP? ENTJ? ESTJ?
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
- I put off making this video because it seems a little out of my realm.. Plus I did not feel completely comfortable with putting this out there. So here goes nothing!...
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Feel like it's the most honest deep and open intj discussion I've ever encountered in the few months here while I've been following the topic 💕😁
Even though I am an INTP, I dont feel any compatibility with intj's at all
My INTP friend has said the same in the past.. I think two introverts pairing up is not some peoples thing..
This was one of the most accurate and informative videos I've seen yet on this topic. Thanks for sharing!
I'm an ENTP female who is romantically involved with an INTJ. I agree fully with what you said about there being a lot of nonverbal communication, along with most other things. It's true for me that I can understand the INTJ without them having to say anything. Unfortunately, it is also true that most people don't understand this dynamic. I've been told my relationship with my INTJ is hard to understand or unusual. This is because we don't behave as most couples in society expect we would. However, neither of us care anyway since we get it and it works for us. When asked, I normally have to explain to others that there's a lot more to it than they think. I also agree with you that INTJs get thrown off when a romantic interest comes along because it wasn't part of their plan. It takes time for them to sort of recalibrate and consider this new element, but being patient with them is key during this time.
As for conflicts within the INTJ/ENTP relationship, our struggles were a bit different than the ones you mentioned. Our conflicts happened more in the beginning when we were still new to this dynamic. One example would be my INTJ having trouble trusting my commitment. In the past I wasn't big on commitment with others. I think they see the pattern of the past and think it will happen again, which made sense after I thought more on it. The thing is, as an ENTP, I would never make a promise or commit to something / someone if I didn't think I could hold up my end or if I had any doubts. For me, it wasn't about being manipulative or playing mind games. I simply didn't want to restrict myself when I wasn't fully convinced of the match in the past. However, when I do choose someone to be with seriously, I do fully commit and have no problems doing so. This took a while for my INTJ to understand, so I worked on being patient with them. Getting into this dynamic was both intimidating for me and my INTJ at first because it was so different from everything else we've experienced. We bring out a level of vulnerability that we haven't experienced before because of how naturally we understand each other, and how we challenge each other in ways others simply haven't. It's both terrifying and amazing, and so worth it.
Overall, the ENTP and INTJ are considered to be a golden match for a reason. They have potential to be perfect for each other, however, there are various factors which can affect their compatibility, including each individual's maturity levels.
Thank you so much for your insightful comment.. It is nice to hear from the ENTP perspective on this matter..
ENTJ male here, i'm big fan of INTJ female. Why are you guys so rare?
It’s probably good there isn’t more INTJ’s, the world is not really set up for an INTJ...
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Thanks for sharing.
Liked!!! :D
What were the projects your friends had going on? Hope to find some inspiration there...
At 18:50 it's not just that the behaviors don't match 🤣, it's that the behaviors are identical to the behaviors of someone who is cheating on you. INTJ are kinda naive socially in this way.
To steal from comedian Dave Chapelle a bit. It's like if someone dressed up like a cop and then someone runs up to that person and says, "Officer, officer please help me! A crime has been committed!". The person dressed like the cop says, "Just because I am dressed this way it doesn't make me a officer!"
INTJ women are the rarest personality type by gender. It's not rationale to assume that someone won't mistake your ways for what like 95% of women on the planet do.
So what are the solutions?
Walk them through days in your life. Let them see you not giving a dam about most phone calls, let them see you working feverishly on your projects and excluding "normal" stuff. Spending time with you on lazy days where you do your own thing and where you explain to them that you love that they do their own thing to, and synch up the "do your own thing" times with them verbally and kindly. Like if he is playing a video game and you are reading a book, if he is researching something while you are working on something from your job.
Once he sees how you normally are in your natural habitat AND you explain to him what's going on, assuming he is not a dumbass, he should understand "Ohhhh, she does things differently..."
On scheduling events, let them know you get overwhelmed and drained. Let them them know you want to spend time with them but you need them to reign it in a bit and focus on the things that are most important to them and for those events you will be there for them.
Good point.. I will keep that in mind, I guess that I did not fully realize it.
Thank you for sharing!
Ohhhh this might be why he texts me limited throughout the day..but I’m ok with this , love my space.
My ex was a intj and the guy I talking with now..1st were better as friends 18 yrs together present guy is lovely but I think u never quite know where u are with them..ENTP
Hmmm.. Interesting I always assume that they know where we stand. But I see that is a bad assumption..
The five I know are brilliant and can disappear at times but come back , my ex was committed , but I’ve known three that u didn’t know where you were, and tho ENTP love to be flitty they also like to know where they stand , or they uncommit even a friendship ..
Good to know.. Thank You!
Good to know.. Thank You!
Good to know.. Thank You!
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your type is ESFp... I'm not kidding
UwU
come back please
Hahah You sound like get around. A lot.
Hmmm.. I don’t really think so..