I’m in a good place emotionally. I think meeting over coffee would be great with no romantic pressure and no expectations. I really am in a good place. It’s not a matter of being passive. Honestly I tried twice in the past so he knows I’m interested. I really think if he’s in a good place and it’s something he wants to do that he’ll reach out.
I had to back away from my ex. We both love each other but the circumstances aren’t right. She needs her space and I have to give it to her. Guess we will see what happens over Christmas.
My ex-wife is coming to my place for Christmas and then we have some other plans too. Lets see what happens but at the moment things are going quite well, compared to the situation almost two years ago when she left.
Can you do a video on ex’s who are going through personal issues (animal deaths, family Illness) , they reach out want to call but then don’t call when they say they well but then you scare them away again by your behaviour. Then your last text is half talking about wanting to be friends and half talking about wanting to be more and then leaving it in their court.. by saying you will go no contact until they feel like they want to talk and catch up (because you know they’re going through something and said they wanted to reach out before but didn’t) how do you navigate something like that, as I feel like it’s kinda pushy on your behalf but also respectful. How long would you give them?
I agree, Clay should do a video on this topic. I think job loss, bereavement, family issues etc all play a big role in where the person may be at emotionally and their ability to connect with you or not
Even if been in no contact 2 months all other online stuff are like she as the dumper should be reaching out ! By removing myself away from contact with her I’m not easily attainable to her
My ex and I still live together. We have been in a relationship for 27yrs. He is going to stay at a friends empty house on Christmas eve and Christmas day. Since the break up 3 months ago some thing's that he initially said like moving out in the New Year he has done a U-Turn. He wants us ti continue living together. He has never been a big talker. But we get on, talk about our day, work etc..He did say that he wants to get Christmas over as it's a busy time for him ar work, then he will think us through.
In my case it will feel awkward to call. One of his closest friends told me 2 weeks ago that he has a rebound. He has being keeping his rebound existence from me for at least 6 months. I don’t know if the rebound knows I exist.I started a cordial no contact process this week. Asked him to give me my keys back, and will open my new cel phone account too. It will be disrespectful and unfair for the new person and me to communicate with him this Holiday.
Heck if I know. She literally looked at my insta story 2 days ago for the first time since we broke up (which was 11 months ago) so I don’t even know what to think or do 🤷♂️
I’m in a good place emotionally. I think meeting over coffee would be great with no romantic pressure and no expectations. I really am in a good place. It’s not a matter of being passive. Honestly I tried twice in the past so he knows I’m interested. I really think if he’s in a good place and it’s something he wants to do that he’ll reach out.
I had to back away from my ex. We both love each other but the circumstances aren’t right. She needs her space and I have to give it to her. Guess we will see what happens over Christmas.
My ex fiancé of 2 years still has me blocked from October 20th of this year since he left, but I want him back and he’s just not reaching out.
My ex-wife is coming to my place for Christmas and then we have some other plans too. Lets see what happens but at the moment things are going quite well, compared to the situation almost two years ago when she left.
How long have you been divorced from her?
Clay , you are the Best....
Can you do a video on ex’s who are going through personal issues (animal deaths, family
Illness) , they reach out want to call but then don’t call when they say they well but then you scare them away again by your behaviour. Then your last text is half talking about wanting to be friends and half talking about wanting to be more and then leaving it in their court.. by saying you will go no contact until they feel like they want to talk and catch up (because you know they’re going through something and said they wanted to reach out before but didn’t) how do you navigate something like that, as I feel like it’s kinda pushy on your behalf but also respectful. How long would you give them?
I agree, Clay should do a video on this topic. I think job loss, bereavement, family issues etc all play a big role in where the person may be at emotionally and their ability to connect with you or not
Interesting
But if they are currently ghosting
This approach is counterproductive
Never contact someone who ghosted you for no reason
Even if been in no contact 2 months all other online stuff are like she as the dumper should be reaching out ! By removing myself away from contact with her I’m not easily attainable to her
My ex and I still live together. We have been in a relationship for 27yrs. He is going to stay at a friends empty house on Christmas eve and Christmas day.
Since the break up 3 months ago some thing's that he initially said like moving out in the New Year he has done a U-Turn. He wants us ti continue living together. He has never been a big talker. But we get on, talk about our day, work etc..He did say that he wants to get Christmas over as it's a busy time for him ar work, then he will think us through.
In my case it will feel awkward to call. One of his closest friends told me 2 weeks ago that he has a rebound. He has being keeping his rebound existence from me for at least 6 months. I don’t know if the rebound knows I exist.I started a cordial no contact process this week. Asked him to give me my keys back, and will open my new cel phone account too. It will be disrespectful and unfair for the new person and me to communicate with him this Holiday.
I’m happy without her. I love my freedom. Roll on Christmas.
@XcvXbn-zc4xq no
Heck if I know. She literally looked at my insta story 2 days ago for the first time since we broke up (which was 11 months ago) so I don’t even know what to think or do 🤷♂️
Don’t contact. If they initiated the break up, don’t say anything. Imagine if they don’t reply. You’ll feel stupid
Remember when it comes to woman. They are more attracted when your feelings are unclear. It makes you mysterious
Remember when it comes to woman. They are more attracted when your feelings are unclear. It makes you mysterious
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An ex is an ex for a reason. Move forward, not backward.
That may be the case for you but not everyone think like that.
@@marko5472 ex is ex. Gone. Done. Old news. Suck that chit up and move on. Learn from it and grow, but move on.