For anyone watching or reading this... do not blame yourself or rethink what you could’ve said or done differently. You’ll go crazy. It takes both. If they don’t have those same level of feelings it won’t work. Let them work on them while you work on you. And you wouldn’t want the same version of your ex anyways. Reflect and let go. Let go to let in. That’s all.
I literally did the worst possible thing at every single step, it's hard not to think and dwell on how I managed to do the wrong thing at every single moment.
This is just what I needed. Our interactions aren't bad. But we met last Friday and it got super emotional and we left on a note of being confused and unsure what to do next. He's pulled back a bit so maybe for the next week or two, I'll lean back too. Two days in to doing that and I signed up for sign language classes and have looked into going back to school in the fall. I'm gonna take the next week to get as much done as I can (within reason) so I don't sit here obsessively wondering what he's doing. I'm gonna take concern in what I'm doing! He already said he sees a huge difference in me appearance and personality wise since we broke up. Of course I want him to be proud of me but ultimately I want to be proud of me :)
if my ex (who did the breakup) just stopped initiating after breakup..I will go no contact without even having to tell them. I don't think this is any short of mind game, it is just reflecting their actions.
Clay - your videos have been incredibly helpful! I’ve watched a few other channels that feel very manipulative but my ex was very in tune with herself, very mature and straight forward. I really appreciate your empathic and respectful approach with other peoples feelings in mind.
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
:'( it's been five weeks since our last conversation, where he told me he's dating someone, after things we're going well between us. we were getting so close. But ya, I think I was pushing it too much. 9 months since the break up now. :'( I just miss him so much, and not knowing what the future holds its killing me. I truly want HIM and not another man :(
@@shubhamkumar984 thank you Shubham, you don't know how much that comment actually touched me, thank you for taking the time to write that out for me. i appreciate you. you stay strong too, and let's just focus on ourselves and improving ourselves.
@@mollymc I'm soooo happy it's over!! Now I've moved on, I can see how toxic he was for me, I feel so free and so happy. I don't think I will EVER try to get an ex back. I now do believe an ex is an ex for a reason.
I look forward to feeling better about moving on. At first I desperately wanted him back. I’m finally to the point I’m still sad, but I can actually see the toxicity and I’m embracing the idea of fully letting go.
Great video clay as always.. unfortunately I had no chance but to go into NC because she never responded when I reached out. So the ball is in her court
@ wow I can’t believe it’s been three years since I’ve come back to this. No we never got back together, currently with someone new and I feel like it happened for the best. ,-)
I got broken up 2months ago seen her like 3x since at work ,she totally ignores me,I was totally a wreck 1st x hurt im 53 it was tuff,now I'm healing & feeling good,I wanted her back more than anything, coach is 100%correct when u heal it does something to u,now I dont care if she reaches out or not
Seriously...if you're talking and things seem to be better, keep it that way! She left me for someone else but said she needed time to figure things out. For a while, her texts were cold and empty, and I knew her interest was fading, so I stopped replying for a bit. She then sent me a few texts and I replied 2 days later. After that, our texts became fun and energetic again. I should have kept talking to her because she likely would have associated me with fun, upbeat energy. Instead, I had the brilliant idea of proposing a way we could be together that I thought she'd go for, but she didn't. So I went no contact. Our fun, upbeat interaction turned into a stalemate, where neither of us wanted to text first, and now it was awkward, uncomfortable and weird. Which only pushed her into his arms since he was fun and upbeat. I chose the WORST time to go no contact and completely killed the positive energy we'd been building. Now it FEELS like our relationship is dead, and the last memory of it is one of awkward uncomfortable weirdness.
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
The fact that he doesn’t believe no contact all the time tells me he doesn’t know what he’s doing. You don’t ever announce no contact either. No contact is for you to move on primarily, but it’s also respecting their decision, and giving it to them so they experience the break up. No contact isn’t unnecessary, it’s the mature thing to do so you can grow, and bad memories can fade. The time span may be different for some situations, but it’s always the respectful thing to do for them and yourself.
Hi Kyle, You might want to check our video playlist why we advocate for Active No Contact and not just the ordinary No Contact >> ruclips.net/video/HGdOyT-8xDc/видео.html
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
My ex dumped me. She tells me to leave her, move on & focus on my life via our mutual friends. When i asked her to tell it directly on my face, she told my friend that she’d get convinced to be in a relationship with me again. What does it mean? What should i do? How can i get her back? I feel there are few chances; As she also didn’t give my stuff back even though she told she’d. Please help🙏🏻🙏🏻
Me and my Ex broke up back in September. Three months later after no contact I told her how I was feeling since we broke apart. I might have destroyed my opportunity but I'm going to see it through. Next stop, investing heavier in me and unfucking myself of what people like least about me.
@@ThongNguyen-ro9ul No responses, however in the time I've been working on myself. I came to terms with the faults of our relationship. If I would have stayed, I'd have been working my ass off while she did the minimum and went out to play pretend rockstar. Sometimes it's better to let some people go and move on.
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
You are a pioneer Clay! It's exs birthday tomorrow. Been doing No contact for almost 2 weeks. I wanna text him but, I. Think hes trying to stick with his distorted image of me. I have changed a lot in 14yrs..My exs sees this..he just wont give in.
My ex broke up with me last year after 5 years and started dating this girl he met on Tinder... she got pregnant a month after they met, they moved in with each other.. have been going on vacations, publicly on social media (something he never did with me) they’ve been moving hella fast in they relationship... their one year of being together will be in May...the weird part is he randomly texts me romantic songs dedicated to me and sometimes brings up our past, and also tells me what she doesn’t do, that I use to... mind you I don’t text or call him unless it’s about our son...what does all this mean
Do you feel it's necessary to wait on him to contact me since he was the one that broke things off? I have been in no contact for at least 30 days and it has been 5 months since we have spoke he has me blocked on every Avenue except regular Facebook because I can see his profile but we are no longer friends. I have reached out to him several times with no response so that is why I feel maybe I should wait on him but waiting is hard and how much time do I wait?
My ex want's space so she can forget me and our relationship- she has also talked about a guy she is interested inn and that she is out "seeking" also inn the start she asked me random things, and then now gave me the cold shoulder and answering my questions vage- so now I'm trying too get my health inn place. I know she has a hard time coming over exes and that she still can't get over me. she was expected me too brake up. Also I am going too the same school as her so what should I do?
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
How can i do no contact to my ex girlfriend and she has a new relationship after we break up 1 week later. We live the same house. We rent the same room. Its hard for me to see her she always chatted her new boyfriend in front of me she always talk how good her new bf and she told me that her body its not mine anymore and belong to her new boyfriend and it hurts. What should i do? Please help me. Thank you.
@@michaelslinger3998 Relationships are different Michael, you cannot just keep the receipt on something you thought was better then after a few years take it back to the shop and expect to go back to the previous model. Having said that how someone left you and what led up to it is all very important , did you deserve it or did they just quit because of an orbiter or grass is greener syndrome? If your relationship had a connection and they just gave it all up and walked away then that speaks volumes for who they are and who you are. Go back to that if you want but after a long period of time its quite insulting to thnk they can just turn up unannounced and commence where they left off...............moving on with your life is the best advice and by the way life is short , its all ridiculous , what you do or dont do counts for very little , we will all die and in a very short time be forgotten by everyone we ever came into contact with so dont get hung up on anything or anyone. Stay healthy , learn and enjoy........
For anyone watching or reading this... do not blame yourself or rethink what you could’ve said or done differently. You’ll go crazy. It takes both. If they don’t have those same level of feelings it won’t work. Let them work on them while you work on you. And you wouldn’t want the same version of your ex anyways. Reflect and let go. Let go to let in. That’s all.
Thanks man
I don’t know what’s wrong with me I feel so weak I feel like if she’s not in my life I want to kill myself. That’s where I’m at today
thats the word
No.
I literally did the worst possible thing at every single step, it's hard not to think and dwell on how I managed to do the wrong thing at every single moment.
I bought a flat and started a law degree. Definitely investing in myself lol.
That's huge.
Damn I can relate, I'm in law school and also working, it feels sooo crazy
@@blueishmary I feel you, I have 3 kids and working part time too but we got this girl! 💪🏻
Wow ladies law school and working isn’t easy but yes let’s keep going 😃... congratulations on the flat @MsJones that’s so awesome
This is just what I needed. Our interactions aren't bad. But we met last Friday and it got super emotional and we left on a note of being confused and unsure what to do next. He's pulled back a bit so maybe for the next week or two, I'll lean back too. Two days in to doing that and I signed up for sign language classes and have looked into going back to school in the fall. I'm gonna take the next week to get as much done as I can (within reason) so I don't sit here obsessively wondering what he's doing. I'm gonna take concern in what I'm doing! He already said he sees a huge difference in me appearance and personality wise since we broke up. Of course I want him to be proud of me but ultimately I want to be proud of me :)
i feel all of this super similar to me rn
Go girl, you got this. You’re in the long game now.
if my ex (who did the breakup) just stopped initiating after breakup..I will go no contact without even having to tell them. I don't think this is any short of mind game, it is just reflecting their actions.
Clay - your videos have been incredibly helpful! I’ve watched a few other channels that feel very manipulative but my ex was very in tune with herself, very mature and straight forward. I really appreciate your empathic and respectful approach with other peoples feelings in mind.
Did you get her back?
Thank you Clay for helping me get my ex
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
:'( it's been five weeks since our last conversation, where he told me he's dating someone, after things we're going well between us. we were getting so close. But ya, I think I was pushing it too much. 9 months since the break up now. :'( I just miss him so much, and not knowing what the future holds its killing me. I truly want HIM and not another man :(
You are stronger than you think. Every thing gonna b alright be strong and stay beautiful✨
@@shubhamkumar984 thank you Shubham, you don't know how much that comment actually touched me, thank you for taking the time to write that out for me. i appreciate you. you stay strong too, and let's just focus on ourselves and improving ourselves.
How are you doing now?
@@mollymc I'm soooo happy it's over!! Now I've moved on, I can see how toxic he was for me, I feel so free and so happy. I don't think I will EVER try to get an ex back. I now do believe an ex is an ex for a reason.
I look forward to feeling better about moving on. At first I desperately wanted him back. I’m finally to the point I’m still sad, but I can actually see the toxicity and I’m embracing the idea of fully letting go.
Great video clay as always.. unfortunately I had no chance but to go into NC because she never responded when I reached out. So the ball is in her court
Did u get back together?
@ wow I can’t believe it’s been three years since I’ve come back to this. No we never got back together, currently with someone new and I feel like it happened for the best. ,-)
I got broken up 2months ago seen her like 3x since at work ,she totally ignores me,I was totally a wreck 1st x hurt im 53 it was tuff,now I'm healing & feeling good,I wanted her back more than anything, coach is 100%correct when u heal it does something to u,now I dont care if she reaches out or not
@georgepanagiotou8673 congratulations 🎊
Just signed up to a PT programme. Time to focus on me 🥰
Seriously...if you're talking and things seem to be better, keep it that way! She left me for someone else but said she needed time to figure things out. For a while, her texts were cold and empty, and I knew her interest was fading, so I stopped replying for a bit.
She then sent me a few texts and I replied 2 days later. After that, our texts became fun and energetic again. I should have kept talking to her because she likely would have associated me with fun, upbeat energy.
Instead, I had the brilliant idea of proposing a way we could be together that I thought she'd go for, but she didn't. So I went no contact.
Our fun, upbeat interaction turned into a stalemate, where neither of us wanted to text first, and now it was awkward, uncomfortable and weird. Which only pushed her into his arms since he was fun and upbeat.
I chose the WORST time to go no contact and completely killed the positive energy we'd been building. Now it FEELS like our relationship is dead, and the last memory of it is one of awkward uncomfortable weirdness.
Wow! Clay why i didn’t watched this soon enough, i have actually doing it atleast trying too, so helpful and make sense.Godbless Clay.
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
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Did it work?
Love your advice!
She come back and she's little confused but she told she does not to loosee as a friend
you already lost her if she is saying she doesn't want to lose a friend.
I had an off day. Was distant. Because emotions got the best of me
My ex is giving me the same treatment
The fact that he doesn’t believe no contact all the time tells me he doesn’t know what he’s doing. You don’t ever announce no contact either. No contact is for you to move on primarily, but it’s also respecting their decision, and giving it to them so they experience the break up. No contact isn’t unnecessary, it’s the mature thing to do so you can grow, and bad memories can fade. The time span may be different for some situations, but it’s always the respectful thing to do for them and yourself.
Hi Kyle, You might want to check our video playlist why we advocate for Active No Contact and not just the ordinary No Contact >> ruclips.net/video/HGdOyT-8xDc/видео.html
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
My ex dumped me. She tells me to leave her, move on & focus on my life via our mutual friends. When i asked her to tell it directly on my face, she told my friend that she’d get convinced to be in a relationship with me again. What does it mean? What should i do? How can i get her back? I feel there are few chances; As she also didn’t give my stuff back even though she told she’d. Please help🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@saifullahiharuna424 please do help me...
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lol indian
Me and my Ex broke up back in September. Three months later after no contact I told her how I was feeling since we broke apart. I might have destroyed my opportunity but I'm going to see it through. Next stop, investing heavier in me and unfucking myself of what people like least about me.
Any update about your story ?
@@ThongNguyen-ro9ul No responses, however in the time I've been working on myself. I came to terms with the faults of our relationship. If I would have stayed, I'd have been working my ass off while she did the minimum and went out to play pretend rockstar. Sometimes it's better to let some people go and move on.
Hey Clay, how do you give your ex more space when you're still living together?
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
You are a pioneer Clay! It's exs birthday tomorrow. Been doing No contact for almost 2 weeks. I wanna text him but, I. Think hes trying to stick with his distorted image of me. I have changed a lot in 14yrs..My exs sees this..he just wont give in.
Who broke up with who ?
@2:20 how to initiate no contact
How much space and time given is too much? How you know if space and time was worth the alone time to think and or decided if a breakup should happen?
If it’s been a couple months and I reached out and he demanded space after his mother passed then is it good to just give him space?
My ex broke up with me last year after 5 years and started dating this girl he met on Tinder... she got pregnant a month after they met, they moved in with each other.. have been going on vacations, publicly on social media (something he never did with me) they’ve been moving hella fast in they relationship... their one year of being together will be in May...the weird part is he randomly texts me romantic songs dedicated to me and sometimes brings up our past, and also tells me what she doesn’t do, that I use to... mind you I don’t text or call him unless it’s about our son...what does all this mean
This means your Plan B when his new flame burns out
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Seriously he’s being disrespectful. Move on
Do you feel it's necessary to wait on him to contact me since he was the one that broke things off? I have been in no contact for at least 30 days and it has been 5 months since we have spoke he has me blocked on every Avenue except regular Facebook because I can see his profile but we are no longer friends. I have reached out to him several times with no response so that is why I feel maybe I should wait on him but waiting is hard and how much time do I wait?
My ex want's space so she can forget me and our relationship- she has also talked about a guy she is interested inn and that she is out "seeking" also inn the start she asked me random things, and then now gave me the cold shoulder and answering my questions vage- so now I'm trying too get my health inn place. I know she has a hard time coming over exes and that she still can't get over me. she was expected me too brake up.
Also I am going too the same school as her so what should I do?
My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I will Introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who helped me got back my ex, he can bring your ex back within 48 hours
@@godwingood2359 sorry, I'm over her lolz
@@denovoofficiale2852 LMFAOOO
It’s been 2 months of no contact but i am not yet emotionally stable, it’s still hurting me... So NO i am not ready to break it.
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How do I give my ex space if we live together and can’t afford separate living situations?
You can do Limited Active No Contact. I talked about that in one of my pervious videos as well. :-) >> ruclips.net/video/nHFj5d2Jmrg/видео.html
How can i do no contact to my ex girlfriend and she has a new relationship after we break up 1 week later. We live the same house. We rent the same room. Its hard for me to see her she always chatted her new boyfriend in front of me she always talk how good her new bf and she told me that her body its not mine anymore and belong to her new boyfriend and it hurts. What should i do? Please help me. Thank you.
She is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. ❤🌷🌷❤
M e s s a g e h e r n o w. V i a W h a t s A p p🌷❤🌷❤
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Move out and get away from her. Any updates?
5:49 thru 6:38 🤣 I've done that and it's so stressful and exhausting
I have kids wit 1 my ex & she is wit some1??? & I want 2b bac wit her
What advice would you give someone who’s Ex looks like they’re in a rebound relationship and just need you there as a safety net ?
PULL BACK!!!
No , just move forward with your life and never look back, they left you for a reason and ultimately you dont need someone like that in your life.
Why do people like you comment this all the time? Did you never ever regret anything in you're life?
@@michaelslinger3998 Relationships are different Michael, you cannot just keep the receipt on something you thought was better then after a few years take it back to the shop and expect to go back to the previous model. Having said that how someone left you and what led up to it is all very important , did you deserve it or did they just quit because of an orbiter or grass is greener syndrome? If your relationship had a connection and they just gave it all up and walked away then that speaks volumes for who they are and who you are. Go back to that if you want but after a long period of time its quite insulting to thnk they can just turn up unannounced and commence where they left off...............moving on with your life is the best advice and by the way life is short , its all ridiculous , what you do or dont do counts for very little , we will all die and in a very short time be forgotten by everyone we ever came into contact with so dont get hung up on anything or anyone. Stay healthy , learn and enjoy........