Gold Digger or Golden Bachelor? Gerry Turner, allegedly used woman for bills, then kicked her out!
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- Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2023
- Gerry Turner quickly worked his way into Bachelor Nation’s hearts with a very romantic, very sad story: He and his late wife, Toni, were high school sweethearts who were married for decades, and after her sudden death from an infection in 2017, he hadn’t seriously dated again. This could not be further from the truth, however, according to Turner’s alleged ex. The woman told The Hollywood Reporter that they dated for three years, starting one month after Toni’s passing. The two even lived together in the “dream house” on the lake that Turner mentions on the show, she alleges-which required her to relocate from her home state, Iowa.
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Theresa should wait before she gets married. With all that came out about him,she doesn't have to believe but be cautious. He can play nice guy now,can't keep it up.Never mine her age, and ABC is paying for everything. That's all good, I am sure he is happy he doesn't have to pay for anything. Her happiness is more important.
@@maryismael5452pp0😊😊p
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From the beginning he looked like a used car salesman 😅😅😂😂
Crazy because I saw the switch in him after Theresa shared her day trading story.
Yeah, he hadn't told her he loved her but, then he did. He'd told Leslie though. When he finally told Theresa I thought I'd puke cause it was a lie coming out of his mouth & I could see it.
EVERYONE did…. Even the people who say we’re slandering them with stuff they made public
This reminds me of that show Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire. That dude was broke and not a millionaire at all. I knew something wasn't right with Gerry. I hope Theresa doesn't go through with the marriage. He picked her after he learned of her profession, and she seemed more into him than he was into her.
She doesn't care. She wants a husband.
Theresa was very unclassy by announcing to the whole world she knocked Gerry's boots off and the fantasy suite.
What goes on behind closed doors shouldn't be public, but she's so blinded by love she'll believe anything.
LOL! I am a senior citizen. Age 66.5 and a widow since 2018. I knew it wasn’t going to work out between him and Theresa who favors his beloved wife. ABC.. It was for the ratings.
There are real SENIOR CITIZENS that are not liars both men and women. I know because I could never lie. I’m like Jennifer Anniston in my recent years. I don’t need a man to make me feel complete. I have my daughters and the greatest memories and BEST TIME with my BELOVED HUSBAND. I completely understand. Don’t give up on your morals and don’t give any single man your hard earned money!
Gerry was like everyone man … they want a mother to take care of them! #TRUTH
What did he lie about? I heard him say he dated other women on the show@@user-iw4dq4tr4o
Well, it shouldn't surprise us. Her entrance she flashed her "birthday suit".
She needs to take her head out of the clouds and wake up. Poor lady, you're so gullible. Lots of red flags!
@@MomandBuggsexactly 💯. People are just creating something for their own drama.
His face lit up when Theresa started talking about her investments and you could just feel the shift. The other women dodged a bullet. Theresa is so in love my heart aches for her
She better do a prenup.
He's only interested because she's got money. And she is so desperate to find a man .Too needy . He promised Leslie a lot of things for her to write her vows and buy a wedding dress.
So sad a man that has no integrity can do that.
At this stage in life, you can be a companion a lover, and share your life together without marriage.
😮😮😂😂😂😂
@@victoriafontana3520he’s just gross at this point. Surely she or her children will make sure she signs a prenup because if not, this is going to be a huge mess
There are so many red flags that Theresa Nist,is ignoring right now. She needs to take her head out of the clouds. I hope this guy doesn't take her to the cleaners.
@@sweetypatnett6123 Her fault for revealing her financial investments. That's why he picked her.
Theresa is so blinded by him and so in love with him. I hope her family watches out for her and her best intetest.
This is crazy!! ABC totally dropped the ball
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I knew it!!! as soon as Teresa said that she was successful, I saw it in his eyes. For me, that was the decisive point.
I hope Teresa,listen, and think things over before she sells her house and move with him .I hate to see her get hurt.
Me too! I felt it!
Yes, I did notice also he seemed to light up when Teresa talked about her job. I left that pass because he seemed like such a nice guy. Now hearing this I do think he might have been a con. I am very disappointed. I really enjoyed the show and now don't know what to think. Theresa be careful!
I KNEW something was wrong with him. He was soo geeky and looked dumb. Shame on ABC for failing to do their HOMEWORK.
If he complained about 10 pounds you wonder if he hounded his poor overweight late wife.
I would love to be in the group chat of the contestants who were sent home 😂😂😂
I knew before this came out when I saw the fantasy suite episode where He asked Teressa what her career was and she told him about her successful stock broker career...His eyes lit up and that was it SHE was the ONE...He's a gold digger for sure
Those 2 women should back out of this. I'm glad that one woman went home to help her daughter.
Filming wrapped up in August so whoever he chose, they've been together since then. However, this story coming out now might make a difference.
It was a red flag to me when he said he hadn’t dated since his wife died but I ignored that because I enjoyed the show. I’m not surprised the producers picked him because they are very very predictable with the men they pick (stereotypical chiseled jawline, broad shoulders, blonde or brown haired handsome white man). They probably just liked his look and didn’t thoroughly verify his stories.
it did not seem plausible that a guy looking like Gerry at his age especially was Mr. Monk not dating at all - seemed incredulous
His eye's just lit up when he heard Theresa talking about her career and I saw the $$$ signs just floating above his head and he was very ready to choose her right after that conversation.
true
Theresa is the most gullible and naive and very very easy to be manipulated. That is why she was chosen. He can control her.
Although Theresa can be manipulative also! We saw her do it!
I read that the burger restaurant went into bankruptcy and had to be sold. His wife started working at John Deere (when the youngest child was 1-2 years old) for the next 25 years. Toni's job would have been critical for the family's health insurance in addition to income. She retired from the next job after 10 years when she and Gerry were eligible for Medicare. One of Gerry's lies was that the restaurant provided well for his family.
It’s all a lie! Run Theresa!
If the business was under water and he filed for bankruptcy, that information is archived.
It's sad that all those ladies fell for a fraud and a pathological liar.
He never had an interest in Theresa until she told him about her business. he is a gold digger.
Right, his eyes lit up!!!
Now they are getting married on live TV. ABC is paying for the wedding because they are televising it. They also gave them a trip to Italy which he says he will use for their honeymoon.
Nice pay day. The show provides a nice diamond engagement ring.
I don’t wish ill on anyone. But after hearing this story, I hope Theresa finds out and boots him immediately! At the very least, I hope Theresa gets a rock solid prenup
Bull! ABC wants to save face 🤬
ABC is paying for the wedding, not her happiness. I have doubts about him.I think with the story that came out about him,I believe he will not act up too soon.Teresa still have to be careful.
His over the top romancing and love bombing was completely understandable. He was playing for the camera, which he was supposed to be. When he started throwing out the L word with the crocodile tears, ect. though, it came of as blatant insincerity. Now we find out about his lies and disgusting behavior!! Theresa came of as desperate, sneaky and manipulative too. They are a definite match. Not sure how long it will be until they turn on each other and we see The Golden Annulment. Hope she's got a prenup!!
Mr Garry is an old school PLAYER even when his wife was alive! How do you cry and drop NO tears!! Man please! Go back and learn how to be a 2023 player😂😂
I wondered why the show never showed him falling in love with her, then all of a sudden he was interested in her.. there was no love story prior to him learning about how smart she was.. so weird
I thought the same... all of a sudden she appeared to be the one!
Gary needs a Oscar he played his position well. I was definitely invested in the show and I don't watch that show
So true! I mean he had us fooled!
I knew he was a player, so glad they exposed him. No, I think ABC honestly thought he was a nice old man. I’m 77, I spotted him right off when he drove that old Corvette - I have enough experience with these old fools to know. Teresa has been around the block a few times too. I could tell she thought he had money the way she came on to him. Older women who look like that know how to switch it up. He wants her money snd she fell for it.
I would not be surprised if more women come out that he dated.
He should have Sayed after his wife passed away he could have Sayed he was dating other women's
If I were Theresa I would get a pre nup
I would give all my money to my children to care for on my behalf.
Absolutely a prenup at this age, to protect your family
I’m sure she will. Don’t play her for bn nieve.
I ended up in a 9 month relationship with the same type of person. I was THE one, he was madly in love. I consider myself to be a smart savvy woman and he sure fooled me. His attraction was for the widow of a surgeon. In the end he told me I didn’t have the money or at least wasn’t wiling to spend it on the lifestyle he wanted 🤷♀️After me he dated and got engaged to two women. The first decided after a year she didn’t want to fund his retirement and the second one he wooed, got engaged and married within months. Both are wealthy widows. Time will tell. I definitely dodged a major bullet!
Yeah his expression changed when Theresa said she was a day trader. And then opened up a company of sorts.
Well, she did not have a prior career ( full time homemaker) and created a lucrative career and beat out college grads for a high profile job as an older female sooooo that is impressive. I knew she was doing well financially when I saw her house.
Why I'm I not surprise. I knew Gerry Turner, was too good to be tue. He was putting on a facade this whole time. It seems to me that, Gerry went on that show to find a wealthy woman. That's why he ditched Leslie, over night in Costa Rica. He turned out to be a fraud, a pathological liar, cruel, dishonest and self absorbed.
Gerry, belongs in the gall of shame. Well Leslie, you seem to have dodged a big bullet. Count your lucky stars lady. I wouldn't trust him as far as I can throw him. Smh. Thanks for sharing this video!
Correction: I knew Gerry, was too good to be true. He was putting on a facade this whole time. He belongs in the hall of shame. Theresa, is engaged to a fraud. He was dodging a few of Katie Couric questions about his ex girlfriend. I'm sure he didn't tell Theresa, everything. She's so gullible that she believes everything he tells her. Poor lady still have her head in the clouds. Smh.
Leslie dated Prince and she is crying over Gerry 😮 She can do better 🎉
What?…what?! Please elaborate. We need to know more!
Gerry lost out: he made a head over heart decision. Leslie is the Winner ❤️
Although, Theresa is a great catch, he was or is in love with Leslie ❤️
Ladies be careful! Liar from the start😮
I really was duped by him top. But something told me he is too good to be true. What he did to his ex is abusive and a leopard doesn't change his spots! This is so disappointing and disturbing.
Me too, I believed him and fell for it all
LESLIE DODGED A BULLET !!! GOD GOT HIS HAND ON LESLIE'S HEAD. Theresa is so gullible she won't get he's a liar and only into it for her MONEY ONLY. And him being with another woman asap tells me his marriage couldn't have been good. And then he met Carolyn before Toni died??? Fishy ! Then he calls lady in Iowa to get rid of his wife's clothes???? Why didn't he ask his daughters instead of calling someone at his prior work place?? I think they ought to look further into what really happened to his wife??? I wouldn't trust him ....knowing his past has surfaced. It's NEVER RIGHT TO DO WRONG.
Where do you get this info from ???
I'm hoping Theresa walks before that wedding! He's using her. It's not fair to her family. He will take all her money.
I wish she would come forward. Maybe this is why he wants to get married so quickly.
@@vahome3exactly!
My immediate thought also. He wants to lock it down. Just because you "own" a lake house doesn't mean you're financially set. He told Caroline he needed $1000 a month from her! That's a guy who needs money because he's struggling. I've been down a similar path. He was a narcissist user and bamboozled me. And a crier. Theresa won't dump him. She's too googly eyed and obsessed.
It seems suspicious that his wife died of kidney failure and liver failure suddenly and then instead of burying her so he can visit her grave. He had her cremated.This is far fetched but Ethylene Glycol poisoning causes what she died from. I wonder how much life insurance she had. I hope nothing happens suddenly to Theresa Nist because they are already marrying in January. Theresa is a millionaire. I am scared he is using her. He was crazy about Leslie and not at all interested in Theresa until she tells him about her career and his face just lit up. He totally felt different about her. I hope she doesn't end up dead like his wife soon after they get married. If she dies please do an autopsy. He was already flirting with this other woman while he was married. His wife put on a lot of weight and you see how he treated the next girlfriend who only put on ten pounds. I wonder what he said to his wife. This whole thing is a farce!
exactly! I hope Theresa does her due diligence before marrying this guy. At the very least, get a prenup. I got a bad vibe from him at the first episode. Maybe because he reminds me of someone I had a relationship with...two different personas and a user. guess we'll have to wait and see how it plays out.
Oh good grief. Conspiracy theories are outta hand. 🤦🏼♀️ Now, Gerry went from a gold digger to a murderer?!?! C'mon.
Gerry is a gold digger. Theresa you need a serious prenup!!! He didn’t prefer you until he learned about your financial status during the Fantasy Suite!!! Buyer Beware!!!
She needs not to go through with this!!!
There is no coming back from this one! ABC screwed up and I waiting to see the aftermath in the next coming weeks. Crazy Story
She was such a 'pick me girl', just perfect for a gold-digger like him. He is an embarrassing character!
She is no "girl" she is a senior grandma!
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 It is ‘saying’. Parden me, lol
Oh he fell in love with the money not theresa.
Why are we surprised by this? The Bachelor franchise does this all the time. Also, I think we (the viewers) inferred a lot of stuff onto his narrative as well. None of this really bothers me though. I know plenty of people who retired from their "real jobs", but kept working after retirement to supplement their incomes. They just didn't want to be the boss/have the stressful career anymore. It sounds like that's what he did after he sold his restaurant and was waiting for his wife to retire. As for his dating life, he did an interview with People magazine before the show started and said he had dated a little bit since his wife died, but it never worked out. He essentially said he realized he wasn't ready to date, eventhough he thought he was. And I also remember a moment on the show when one of the women was talking to him about dating and asked him if he had signed up for any dating apps and he said he had. And it makes sense - it's a fact that widowers remarry faster and more often than widows, so I'm not surprised he jumped into that first relationship so quickly. Even the sex question, I don't recall him specifically saying he hasn't had sex since his wife died. I recall him saying it had been awhile, and that's subjective. Nevertheless, I'd still get a prenup (and a will) if I was Teresa, just to make sure whatever I was planning to lesve my kids and grand kids gets to them😂😂😂
I knew it. The instant that Theresa told him that she was a Day trader and was successful in what she did on the overnight with her, it was an instant light bulb went off in his head. As if he realized that she has a lot of money and is only choosing her because she had a bigger pocket book than Lealie. Anyone with a brain can see that's the ONLY reason he chose Theresa instead of Leslie.
And now they have set a wedding date for January 4, 2024.... Can't wait to see how this goes
Some of you make me laugh. Why would he want to support a woman financially at this age and stage? Nothing is wrong with choosing someone who will not be solely dependent financially. He’s worked and built a life to be comfortable in his retirement. At 72 would you choose otherwise???
@lp9716 you're not using common sense. Nothing is wrong with it IF he had been honest about that being the reason BUT when you hide that and make the woman think you want her because you love her THAT is wrong, it's called misrepresentation.
Also, I call it like I see it. It's blatantly obvious here. With all do respect.
Wow, I couldn't agree with you more.
Thanks for covering this travesty in depth.
You're welcome. Heck I was watching and actually fell for it all like so many.
@@mvmochannelMe too. I thought oh how glamorous, he owned restaurants ! Oh he’s good looking and sincere ! He’s kinda pure ! 😂😂😂
How'd the wife die? Maybe they need to be looking into that too!😂😳
The way he told the story, I said the same thing! 🤔🤨🧐
@@DaPhlyymamee 😂😂💯💯
Ridiculous!!! Good grief. 🤦🏼♀️
He seemed really creepy to me for some reason, even before I heard all of this......
I believe it
Both his daughters look close to the same age with different moms 😮
Seems like sleazy Gerry was juggling wife with mistress
I would love to see pics of him before the show
Poor Theresa was so desperate the mention of her career made him love her more
At first I thought Theresa was a hustler then I realized it was Gerry was trying to hustle her. I think older women got enough problems than to have them get their hope up. But its okay for the younger people
I think they should continue the show but do better with their vetting. I stopped watching when he started kissing all of them and clearly leading them all on. My gut told me he was a lying playa and turns out I was correct.
@@j.y.3604 it is so nasty!
Gerry went for the Money !! He knew Theresa can very well take care of herself and he can keep his own money !
Dutch treat
Yeah that’s what he is about! Women having their own money! Not using him for his! People might be twisting this! But the way he treated other women is very bad! Red flags! 🚩 he likes to control women! I am not sure about him?? Theresa is going to freak on this guy! I gave them a year!
Those dating sites are absolutely terrible. Not to mention you put yourself in danger. I got off of them. It’s exhausting and you meet people who should not be seeking a relationship.
How much was his deceased wife’s life insurance policy and other financial investments?? Maybe he was set up to have a prosperous future after her death.
Exactly!
Theresa appeared very needy on the show. Easy target. Theresa this is not worth how it will end up. Please run fast
He’s a serial cheater.
He switched to Theresa looking for a 'nurse with a purse'! And now they're DIVORCED AFTER ONLY 3 MONTHS!
@@bjornybjornson6499 He found out Theresa had no plans to be his purse or his nurse. I bet Garry insisted on everything being his way or Theresa was to hit the highway. Garry is into only himself and having sex with as many women as he can. Many men are like this. They always want something different.
You're correct for me anyway, I'm sick of the lies. Gerry did not want her.
He cried because he knew the truth was going to come out
Instead of the Golden Bachelor , it should be the Golden Player! He was too good to be true. This is a reality show but the show as well as Gerry made the world think he was grieving his beloved wife and had been alone since his wife died. He met one of the women only 1 month after Toni died and were living together in I believe a year. Outrageous! I think more is going to come out.
There are two kinds of abusive men, the one that physically, the other a perfect acting male, who will emotionally/mentally abuse. The latter is worst. When one finds out you don’t know what hit you!
His crazy crying to me was mental illness! He is a huge problem! A Manic! And a fraud! Gold digger no doubt son. As he learned Theresa had money! He ignored her at hometowns!
Sadly Gerry seems to be a fraud. I wouldn't want to be with someone with this history. He obviously treated Carolyn horribly. He needs the money.
Hopefully Theresa had a Prenup in place.
He is a joke cancel the show puppy tears
Excellent Video MVMO! Thank you!! Golden Batchelors have to prove they've been vaxxed too! Imagine the stress of 43 years living with Gerry. His wife died. The GF had to have surgery! Something very very shady here. So sad. Ladies! Do not waste ONE day with an evil guy like this. NOT ONE DAY more! She could have died...like his poor wife.
@jsmum196 👍👍
I completely agree with you. My thoughts exactly
Gerry makes the rest of us seniors look bad!
I think they both are weird. Just my opinion
Same thoughts here
He needs to pay back the money that he received for his lies. Jerk
Where was I four months ago. When this story was released. I'm just finding out this mess about Gerry today. No wonder his face lit up like a candle when she said she was an investor.
I give it less than a year!
they need to investigate his wife's death
I have the SAME THOUGHT all along, but afraid to verbalize it. I am glad to know I am not the only one! It is such a sad situation.
Sorry I missed this live. I read about his bs on a thread on reddit which seemed to come from a reliable source. I don't think he is that broken up over his wife. This came from someone that worked with him. While he was married he was let go because he was chasing a woman @ work. Allegedly. This was over the summer on reddit. He likes Theresa for $$$$$.
Why can't women be happy on their own?
I could feel he was telling lies
He is Mr. Phoney Baloney!!!
Gerry's Dad picked Leslie, and said he didn’t care for Theresa. Apparently Theresa rubbed him the wrong. His Dad seemed very sincere! I liked the show until I read the Hollywood Reporter article. I honestly believe that Gerry and Theresa are perfect for each other. Theresa wants a good looking man, because she is physically insecure. She is very smart and savy, which is very appealing to Gerry, who wants a succesful woman with money. They are both legends in their own mind, and milking their 15 minutes of fame for every dime. I don't see love or chemistry here, just two buisness partners reaping the financial rewards of fame. The Golden Bachelor organization, presented a squeaky clean image to the public, which is not the same person in private. I feel people were bamboozled.Yes he looks good, but when you peel the layers, you see something not so nice. He needs to address the allegations of his ex girlfriend's claims, and apologize if true for being a cad.
She rubs me the wrong way too. She’s so unattractive I can’t look at her
This is terrible news. These reality dating programs really need to do a better job of vetting people. Someone might not be your cup of tea but to expose them to a user is not only wrong but bad for the show's image especially when they promoted him as this squeaky clean moral guy.
Gerry did choose Theresa. I've watched the show sporadically, so wasn't aware of all of his crap. ABC knew all about he & his children's bs, but decided to pull the okie doke on viewers.
I hope Teresa has a prenup.
she is a fool if she doesn't ,doubt she does ,she seems so needy clinging to him like a life raft!
I been said all this nobody believed me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Any sort of gold digger is bad , includes women also , both immoral . If she wants to support him forever , her choice , if she doesn't end the relationship , simple solution .
I wonder what his wife did . Did she have a career. Maybe she made more than him . All I can say is shame on him . Good luck to who ever he picks . I wouldn’t blame her if she told him to get lost . Unfortunately this is just coming out and these shows were pre recorded. Lucky for the ones that he didn’t pick .
Sooo disgusting. Can’t believe this show didn’t find out the truth before they hired him! He sure did an acting job! Theresa was too gullible ! I knew it would never last!!! Too bad they messed this up for future shows now…do your homework ABC! This could have been a great Golden Show and now it is considered unbelievable and phony!
I never watched the show, but this is hilarious to me from an entertainment standpoint. But in reality he is a mess and running game at his old age!
Yes. 😂🎉🍿🍿🍿
I bet his wife had the money.
The dating sites are the worst ever and those people are going to regret going there!
After seeing him twice I had a bad feeling 🤦 fake
I don't think they should cancel these shows AT ALL - they are showing themselves to be a great educational tool!
I was duped I guess... Nothing worse than a man who BERATES a women for her weight.....and wont even support her but makes her PAY PAY PAY for most things.....The TRUTH always comes out in time.....Hope he doesnt make Theresa PAY for everything when they pair up... Shes a very small women so he wont be putting her down for her weight....
I was duped too, so many of us were. He had such a sad story.
Good podcast. The show deceitfully packaged this guy. I won't be watching it again. I called him a unicorn from the start. Little did I know he is literally make believe just like a unicorn.
Thank you for the great reporting!
Theresa is used to playing for what she wants. You go girl
I knew he was a fake 😅
He picked who he could manipulate the easiest
Hopefully he doesn't get an expensive life insurance on Theresa!
Ooh. Scary. Would not put it past a sociopath
If what you're saying is true. Teresa
should be told and definitely sign a prenup.She may decide not to marry the so called golden bachelor. I know l wouldn't
Why start a journey as important as marriage with a liar.He may be lying about loving you.Only looking for financial gain.Teresa beware.
I'm so happy the truth about sleazy Gerry, coming out.
Run Teresa run!!!
Now i wonder if he was cheating on his wife and if his wife had an illness that stress probably killed her he's such an heartless man
Sure he was. Any guy who would treat his live in girlfriend like that is a total flake.
His dad said he was a player. So he couldn’t have been playing on anybody but his wife.
I was thinking he might use women for $ ….. smh
He’s a cat fisher
he destroyed the show i enjoyed it until i realized he was looking after his retirement i saw she disclose her wealth and his face changed look for your self on the island he ssked her what does she do She gushed personal consultant ,stock trader his face was like shes the one
Damn. He sounds like a nightmare
I do keep in mind that production does the story spin, so he may have been honest in the beginning??? He always gave me a creep factor though. He wants to travel and I think he wanted her to quit, sell her house and fly off to wherever. 😢
He wears a Rolex watch. Wow this is crazy. ABC should do a background check before signing them up.
I think he had his eyes on her while he was still married and then suddenly his wife dies.
True. They were having an affair
First of all it’s a new show and the producers only put out there what will sell the show. I found it interesting that he hadn’t dated since his wife died. It’s about ratings and believability bring on the viewers. Not surprised at all of the information now coming out. 😮😮😮