Excellent subject. I can connect myself with this as I moved from very small town to Pune in 1987 for further education and settled here. Married with local and happy with 2 sons.
Agree, no one wants to leave Pune City especially when education is completed from this City. Very healthy ecosystem created around it. Not costly like Mumbai and lots of "Sukun" bhari life 😊
I have studied in 9 different schools across 3 different cities and two states My father just shifted us every 1-2 years and its true he hasn't been able to accumulate any wealth. Obviously I will never do this it's a lesson I learned from my father.
What you have said is true...lives in govt jobs are becoming difficult day by day... constantly moving from one place to another does not add any value to one's life. Moreover, you feel alienated without any social network...Your advice to choose karamabhoomi is correct and to the point.
So true, my father was in transferable service and we faced this trouble a lot. My dad ended up leaving his job because of frequent transfer policies and he still regrets that he should have done this earlier so that we could have a settled life. I know how this feels when I had to repeatedly prove myself in every school.
Excellent. Truth. It needs 15-20 years of experience to really get his world. But it's really really important for great life experience. I appriciate it. On this bases you include values like persistence, consistency, condition of workability in every aspect of your life that gives power and prosperity. The compounding effect (By Dyren Hardy) works for you and you become healthy, wealthy and wise based on your Karam Bhumi. Really good work. I strongly appriciate and recommend. Jindgi na milea gi dobara. Life is not dress rehearsal and there is no retake of life.
So true I have lived in bangalore for 22 years and now my children are also wanting to study and have their Karam bhoomi here. So much benefits I must tell you.
Yes this happened with my Grandparents....... My grand mother choosed to stay in Mumbai and my Grand father used to go to different places because he was a government servent and he got transferred every two - three years
@@NinjaNursing He was in a nationalised bank. If we were transferred to bigger cities unwanted guests used to come and my parents used to spend money on them for food, gifts, their stay etc and those non sense people didn't even have kept contact with us.
I am also a govt employee, and only son of parent I too live 600 km away from my house, my wife lastly living with my girl child with her parents, getting govt job is difficult but transfer to home town is much more and near to impossible in govt sector. And my own parents donot want to settle with me.
Hello sir... In which dept are you working..? Recently I got a govt job (Auditor in CAG).. My hometown is kanpur but got location of vijaywada... I'm in similar situation... Don't know how o will manage everything.. I'm 29 and parents want me to get married.. Everything looks so difficult
@@akshaytiwari4858I work in railway, I donot know your job is regular transferable with 2-3 years or not , advice for you - first check if your job or govt dept in your hometown or nearby , if it is then only marry a state govt job doing girl. If you will not do you will roam whole india and atlast your wife will shift to her mother's house with your child and you will be left alone and will roam alone whole India till 60.
@@shrishri8898 my wife has not left me she is fed up of my long distance she cannot manage with the 5 month little kid, as not one was with her in her bad days , she will come again when child will 2-3 years old
@@mad_in_2020 the second best thing to do is to stay in hometown near other relatives. But that would keep them away from children. So they have to choose one thing 🙂
You are right sir. Stability in place is very essential otherwise due to your ghummi ghummi job kids suffer alot. Specially in government job this is very big problem to deal.
Why you have not made such videos 10 years back. I am suffering now because of change of country. It is becoming hell of the life. Parents makes more confused to the kids. They always look for there own comfort. Kids thinks parents needs us but doesn't think what will happen next.
Recently I got a govt job (Auditor in CAG)..My hometown is kanpur.. But got location of vijaywada Andhra.. Although this job is non transferable... But i dnt know how I will manage living in South for my lifetime.... As the culture is totally different... and also marriage is a big aspect..
Brahmins are a pan India community. Brahmins are there in Andhra Pradesh too. Learn Telugu and join Brahmin community organization's in Andhra. Who knows u might end up marrying a Telugu Brahmin.
Very true, a ground reality. Fixing Karm bhoomi makes sense Even our fore fathers moved from village to cities 50 years ago and established themselves there and prospered in Assets growth, Children's education and growth, grand children education and growth, social net work. We further moved to metro cities in search of job. The next generation is out of sync as have grown up in apartment flats and can sustain in flats with organized setup than maintaining bada ghar setup in tier 2/3 cities
Again….sir you made video on very unique & touching topic. 👍👍👍 Sir, I belong from agra, my parents live in agra, my parent’s home is there & I also completed my engg from agra. But I never wanted to live in agra . I married within agra & my wife is government teacher posted in agra, my kids also (1st standard & kg) studying in agra in good school. So as per my situation & your suggestion I can’t & should not move my family from agra bcz ecosystem set ho gaya hai. But…I never feel good living in agra even at my home , jo aapne bola ki Sukun wo nahi milta sir. So to get Sukun for me should I buy a flat in greater noida or in any other big city ?? Kindly suggest sir 🙏
Sir read my comments please This is very nice information. I ex-servicemen, even after retirement i am living in other city because of wife and children education.
Misery of my life…i m a govt employee, my husband is in IT. In 14 yrs of marriage he stayed out of india for around half the time…n i stay with my mil…i m fed up of this arrangement but he is still not decisive. I think we r going towards a divorce…n he dsnt realises that this is even n issue😢
आज से 20-25 साल पहले लोगों की कर्मभूमि कानपुर हुआ करती थी, यहां की टैक्सटाइल, डिफ़ेंस,लैदर सेक्टर की वजह से लेकिन सरकार की बाईं आंख फड़क गई और यहां का सत्यानाश कर दिया। अब यहां सिर्फ 15-20 हजार तनख्वाह के लोग रह गए हैं। इस पर क्या कहेंगे सांगवान जी?
Its like you are talkng about my life in words. I am fed up now. I have said I am not moving anywhere now onwards🙏🏻🙏🏻 Its time for me to focus on my career now. I am 40 year old.
What happens if one member of the family doesn't get a job in the city parents are settled in after multiple attempts, but gets a first job in another city? You can't wait forever especially at the starting of your career
You can always do this: 1. Wait for better opportunities. 2. Take the new job and switch soon. 3. If you get good growth and say earn 50LPA then it's an exception and do the following. 3a) Ask for WFH facility and move back. 3b) Get a home in new city if it's actually good not just a place where you're getting most money, and make parents come along. 4. Go full liberal and dgaf about all this and live as your mood suggests afterall you don't want regrets later on.
Sir I am from a village in Bilaspur, Himachal Pradesh. We have agricultural land in Himachal Pradesh also which needs to be taken care of. Also, I work as a software engineer at Bangalore. Please suggest me where I should get settled and where should I buy property. If possible suggest some solution that I am able to take care of my village land as well as work in Bangalore also.
Shift to NCR when possible, get a job there. That will make things easier, overnight trip to home. Also keep regularly in touch with your land caretakers(family, sajhihaar etc) and visit atleast once every two-three months. I have the same concerns for my village in remote U.P. but active connection is the best way moving forward. Also under that people can capture(kabza) your land so make sure someone's takes care of it at all times, you know better.
Sir,aapka videos bahut accha laga same problem papa ki transfer job ki vajah se face ki hy Me art lover hu aur aapky videos me background ka art piece poora acchy se dekhana chahati hu please please sir
Quick question - you are an astrologer, do you believe that horoscope can control if one has to shift his current location due to movements of grahas and nakshatras ? If yes, how can we avoid shifting to other cities though we don't want to
Bilkul sahi baat kr re h. Mere sath aisa hi ho raha h. M 35. Govt teacher. Husband shifting again and again. Ab kya kare aage uske baare me b bta do plzz
Please make video on teen financial education and finance. I am 18 yr old girl and in semester 1, that’s 1st yr of college. I want to learn knowledge about money. Please make some videoss on it.
From my experience ,don't run behind money, 1st learn a skill in which you are intrested it can be your academic subject or anything else . also side-by-side work on ur whole personality.
Sir main merchant navy officer hu and main 5-6 months ke liye ship pr jaata hu but i was born and brought up in gurgaon so kya koi ladki nhi milegi shaadi ke liye because main nhi rehta . Aapki videos dekh kr life ke truth ko smjhne laga hu but kuch doubts bhi aate hai.
Agree, mere ek mosaji ki transeferable govt job thi, sari jindagi ghumaya, kabhi south, kabhi east, kabhi west, kabhi UP. Jaha jaye wahi kuch na kuch property khareedle. Bachcho ko ghanta nahi pata kyonki unki social life nahi, piche se padhai ka danda baap daal kar rakhta tha. To wo akhir me jaipur aakar shareer chod gaya aur sari jameen swaha. Kayo banks me account aur kisi me 1 lakh kisi me 5 lakh, sare swaha. Bachche bole ki yaar itna paise tha ki ham beth kar kha lete yaha apna bachpan, jawani aur middle ages jala kar kisi ki nokri na karte Na beti shadi kar rahi, na hi bada bhai, bech wala bhai ne shadi kari lekin uski biwi uska khoon pi rahi hai aur ek ek kar ke jameeno ki pehchan kar apne naam karati ja rahi hai baap ke sath mil apne
This uncle's talk matters .
Seedhi baat .. no bakwas ...👍
Excellent subject. I can connect myself with this as I moved from very small town to Pune in 1987 for further education and settled here. Married with local and happy with 2 sons.
Agree, no one wants to leave Pune City especially when education is completed from this City. Very healthy ecosystem created around it. Not costly like Mumbai and lots of "Sukun" bhari life 😊
I have studied in 9 different schools across 3 different cities and two states
My father just shifted us every 1-2 years and its true he hasn't been able to accumulate any wealth. Obviously I will never do this it's a lesson I learned from my father.
What you have said is true...lives in govt jobs are becoming difficult day by day... constantly moving from one place to another does not add any value to one's life. Moreover, you feel alienated without any social network...Your advice to choose karamabhoomi is correct and to the point.
So true, my father was in transferable service and we faced this trouble a lot. My dad ended up leaving his job because of frequent transfer policies and he still regrets that he should have done this earlier so that we could have a settled life. I know how this feels when I had to repeatedly prove myself in every school.
I agree. My family kept on shifting when we were children. I lack long term friendships and a sense of belongingness. Very valuable advice
Excellent. Truth. It needs 15-20 years of experience to really get his world. But it's really really important for great life experience. I appriciate it. On this bases you include values like persistence, consistency, condition of workability in every aspect of your life that gives power and prosperity. The compounding effect (By Dyren Hardy) works for you and you become healthy, wealthy and wise based on your Karam Bhumi. Really good work. I strongly appriciate and recommend. Jindgi na milea gi dobara. Life is not dress rehearsal and there is no retake of life.
Sir, can you please share your wisdom for new parents on how to groom children, how to select school, and school level competitions?
So true I have lived in bangalore for 22 years and now my children are also wanting to study and have their Karam bhoomi here. So much benefits I must tell you.
Yes this happened with my Grandparents....... My grand mother choosed to stay in Mumbai and my Grand father used to go to different places because he was a government servent and he got transferred every two - three years
I was looking for such clarities in life, your content is so practical. You are literally doing a great job....
My father was in transferrable job, I suffered a lot.
very suffered....life bekkar hogayi mere
@@jyotigupta2889 which job
@@NinjaNursing He was in a nationalised bank. If we were transferred to bigger cities unwanted guests used to come and my parents used to spend money on them for food, gifts, their stay etc and those non sense people didn't even have kept contact with us.
Same here ..no frnds are there from childhood.. sab bikhar gaye..my music career also would have been so good had we not moved so many places…
@@shrishri8898 sorry I dint get you??
I am also a govt employee, and only son of parent I too live 600 km away from my house, my wife lastly living with my girl child with her parents, getting govt job is difficult but transfer to home town is much more and near to impossible in govt sector. And my own parents donot want to settle with me.
Hello sir... In which dept are you working..?
Recently I got a govt job (Auditor in CAG).. My hometown is kanpur but got location of vijaywada... I'm in similar situation... Don't know how o will manage everything.. I'm 29 and parents want me to get married.. Everything looks so difficult
@@akshaytiwari4858I work in railway, I donot know your job is regular transferable with 2-3 years or not , advice for you - first check if your job or govt dept in your hometown or nearby , if it is then only marry a state govt job doing girl. If you will not do you will roam whole india and atlast your wife will shift to her mother's house with your child and you will be left alone and will roam alone whole India till 60.
@@shrishri8898 my wife has not left me she is fed up of my long distance she cannot manage with the 5 month little kid, as not one was with her in her bad days , she will come again when child will 2-3 years old
@@erabhinandan5935ok got it sir.....by the way my job is non transferable.. I will remain posted in Andhra for lifetime
I have no words to say, I am speechless. Apne is issue ko from top to bottom khanghal kr rakh diya.. Thank you sir.
Please make a video on parents, whose children have settled abroad permanently.
+1
Parents should go and live near children in abroad in a different flat.
@@tiffgplu2590 yes sometimes answer is simple but not easy 🙂
@@vishalbahl7110 for parents to settle abroad can be difficult because of finances and cultural adjustments.
@@mad_in_2020 the second best thing to do is to stay in hometown near other relatives. But that would keep them away from children. So they have to choose one thing 🙂
I have taken my decision to be at one place basis your video. Fantastic clarity !
You are right sir. Stability in place is very essential otherwise due to your ghummi ghummi job kids suffer alot. Specially in government job this is very big problem to deal.
Absolutely True......You have a real experience of life. Nice to reach you..
Sagwan ji, कोई भी घुमना नहीं चाहता। आप Astrologer भी है, जैसा आप बताते है। यह तो कुंडली है जो stable रखती है या घुमाती है।
Why you have not made such videos 10 years back. I am suffering now because of change of country. It is becoming hell of the life. Parents makes more confused to the kids. They always look for there own comfort. Kids thinks parents needs us but doesn't think what will happen next.
Recently I got a govt job (Auditor in CAG)..My hometown is kanpur.. But got location of vijaywada Andhra.. Although this job is non transferable... But i dnt know how I will manage living in South for my lifetime.... As the culture is totally different... and also marriage is a big aspect..
@@shrishri8898 sorry... Didnt get you
Brahmins are a pan India community. Brahmins are there in Andhra Pradesh too. Learn Telugu and join Brahmin community organization's in Andhra. Who knows u might end up marrying a Telugu Brahmin.
Sir videos k end m cources k bare m bhi mention kr dijiya kre... Ya discription m courses ki detailed summary deke video m bataye akhir m..
You are a very practical person.
Very true, a ground reality.
Fixing Karm bhoomi makes sense
Even our fore fathers moved from village to cities 50 years ago and established themselves there and prospered in Assets growth, Children's education and growth, grand children education and growth, social net work.
We further moved to metro cities in search of job.
The next generation is out of sync as have grown up in apartment flats and can sustain in flats with organized setup than maintaining bada ghar setup in tier 2/3 cities
Original topic, farsighted approach
Sir how will our faujis and people in essential services get married? Girls will not say yes to even eligible bachelors after watching this video!
Very important message...... thank you for giving out such an important msg
Very true. Children suffer as well as parents, as we don't get consistency in life
Again….sir you made video on very unique & touching topic. 👍👍👍
Sir, I belong from agra, my parents live in agra, my parent’s home is there & I also completed my engg from agra. But I never wanted to live in agra . I married within agra & my wife is government teacher posted in agra, my kids also (1st standard & kg) studying in agra in good school. So as per my situation & your suggestion I can’t & should not move my family from agra bcz ecosystem set ho gaya hai.
But…I never feel good living in agra even at my home , jo aapne bola ki Sukun wo nahi milta sir.
So to get Sukun for me should I buy a flat in greater noida or in any other big city ?? Kindly suggest sir 🙏
Sir read my comments please
This is very nice information.
I ex-servicemen, even after retirement i am living in other city because of wife and children education.
Totally true ... damn true...this apply to all govt jobs especially armed forces.
Misery of my life…i m a govt employee, my husband is in IT.
In 14 yrs of marriage he stayed out of india for around half the time…n i stay with my mil…i m fed up of this arrangement but he is still not decisive.
I think we r going towards a divorce…n he dsnt realises that this is even n issue😢
Please make him.realised about your situation by talking to him before divorce 😢😢
Very true lines sir ji I agree with you words sir ji 👌👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏🙏u are great sir ji 👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
आज से 20-25 साल पहले लोगों की कर्मभूमि कानपुर हुआ करती थी, यहां की टैक्सटाइल, डिफ़ेंस,लैदर सेक्टर की वजह से लेकिन सरकार की बाईं आंख फड़क गई और यहां का सत्यानाश कर दिया। अब यहां सिर्फ 15-20 हजार तनख्वाह के लोग रह गए हैं। इस पर क्या कहेंगे सांगवान जी?
Isliye kaha big city Pakdo
Lucknow to badhiya hi hai aaj
Its like you are talkng about my life in words. I am fed up now. I have said I am not moving anywhere now onwards🙏🏻🙏🏻 Its time for me to focus on my career now. I am 40 year old.
Sir, apki the advice achhi hai, aur ham sab ko kafi clarity deti hai.
So nice sir...love this GHOOMI GHOOMI word 😃😃
Sarkari Naukri se pareshan hogyaa. Delhi ka bnda hun gujarat k tier 2 cities mein ghum rha hun
Sir make a video on govt job vs private job ..and wheather moving to big cities for career purpose is good or bad ?
He already made
Sir shop per employees se kaam kaise karwaye...plz vdo banaiye...
Sach main is tarah ke advice koe nahe de raha is samay. Yeh andar se feel to ho raha hai pur bata koe nahe raha. Thanks
Yes, agreed. Transfer for the woman is very disturbing
Thank you for this valuable advice🙏🏼
Sir give us college going students clarity on whether we should join family businesses or work at a job for experience
What happens if one member of the family doesn't get a job in the city parents are settled in after multiple attempts, but gets a first job in another city? You can't wait forever especially at the starting of your career
You can always do this:
1. Wait for better opportunities.
2. Take the new job and switch soon.
3. If you get good growth and say earn 50LPA then it's an exception and do the following.
3a) Ask for WFH facility and move back.
3b) Get a home in new city if it's actually good not just a place where you're getting most money, and make parents come along.
4. Go full liberal and dgaf about all this and live as your mood suggests afterall you don't want regrets later on.
Make that another city ur karam bhoomi. Marry someone from that city, buy properties there n settle there
Sir your guidance is very valuable.... People may disagree with few views but still it is best
Yaa this is true .I was facing the same in my childhood and my education in1999, again the same after marriage with transferring job of my husband
Sir I am from a village in Bilaspur, Himachal Pradesh. We have agricultural land in Himachal Pradesh also which needs to be taken care of. Also, I work as a software engineer at Bangalore. Please suggest me where I should get settled and where should I buy property. If possible suggest some solution that I am able to take care of my village land as well as work in Bangalore also.
Shift to NCR when possible, get a job there. That will make things easier, overnight trip to home. Also keep regularly in touch with your land caretakers(family, sajhihaar etc) and visit atleast once every two-three months.
I have the same concerns for my village in remote U.P. but active connection is the best way moving forward. Also under that people can capture(kabza) your land so make sure someone's takes care of it at all times, you know better.
Bhai ji apni jagha kajo chadni tudsan himachla te pyara kuch ni aai jao aithu he
@@ayutube598 Ara chhadni ni jameen par naukri bhi karni. Eddi padhai kitiri tan naukri keeyan chhadi sakkaan
Ask for work from home
Saaal me 2 baar visit kro...retirement k baad bilaspur shift kr lena.
Pune ❤ 14:37
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You are giving lakh rs of consultancy free of cost
I know of a family, 4 members in 4 cities in the world
I found it very serene and appropriate.
I agree totally 🙃
My whole life has been ruined due to this 😭
Koi ni ab theek kar lo
My dad working in govt job in city A
Mom lives alone in hometown
I m out of my state..
Sir,aapka videos bahut accha laga same problem papa ki transfer job ki vajah se face ki hy
Me art lover hu aur aapky videos me background ka art piece poora acchy se dekhana chahati hu please please sir
Yeh galti hone Wali thi humse but time pe akal aa gayi so we are fixing our mistake now
Your advice is very precious
Yes
I totally agree with you...
Absolutely right. I m identifying 4 places 4 people
Awesome , 100%agree every bit .😇🙏❤️
I moved so many places for job, now in a city for almost 7 year..feeling stability in life
Sir teaching career jo youngsters choose Kar rahe hai us par video plz sir clarity nhi hai
Sir ek video bnao jisme ye btao ke jo log introvert paida hote hai unko kaise success mill skti hai extroverts ki society main
What u said about pune is true. We did same studied here, dad build a house, we settled here
नमस्ते सर
क्या गर्ल्स स्कुल , गर्ल्स कॉलेज में लड़कियों को पढ़ना चाहिए ? की लड़को के साथ पढ़ाना चाहिए ?
Sir what about people with transferable job.
Excellent topic 👍👍
Sir,
Business vs. Service पर भी अपनी राय जाहिर कीजिये.
100% agree
Valuable topic and video
Thank you sir for giving advice that is real indian
Please make a video for people who have a transferable job.
Quick question - you are an astrologer, do you believe that horoscope can control if one has to shift his current location due to movements of grahas and nakshatras ? If yes, how can we avoid shifting to other cities though we don't want to
Please make video on karam bhumi and assets for professionals who have "permanent work from home" or those who are self-employed in home town.
Sir pranam please make video on numerology no 3
Bilkul sahi baat kr re h. Mere sath aisa hi ho raha h. M 35. Govt teacher. Husband shifting again and again. Ab kya kare aage uske baare me b bta do plzz
Always doubt youtubers they make content which may misguided people😢😢😢
Suno sabki karo apni.
Please make video on teen financial education and finance. I am 18 yr old girl and in semester 1, that’s 1st yr of college. I want to learn knowledge about money. Please make some videoss on it.
From my experience ,don't run behind money,
1st learn a skill in which you are intrested it can be your academic subject or anything else .
also side-by-side work on ur whole personality.
While Sunil is right, do try to multiply ur knowledge and try earning more, it only happens if u try!
@@sunilpal3313 Thanku😇
@@nehasrivastava4282 Thank you😇
It is very important to learn about finance management...and upgrade your skills
Sir what a subject Naman aapko
Ye humari family ne bhugta hua hai aur bhot problems ati hain.
very much useful
Aap mujhay 1997 mein mil jate to meri life barbaad na hoti
Very relevant topic
Nice
Sangwan ji work place or residence ka distance kitna hona chahiye pls comment on it
Guru ji aap wala career kaise apnayen wo sikhaiye
Absolutely right
Yes. Got fed up with transfers.
Sir main merchant navy officer hu and main 5-6 months ke liye ship pr jaata hu but i was born and brought up in gurgaon so kya koi ladki nhi milegi shaadi ke liye because main nhi rehta .
Aapki videos dekh kr life ke truth ko smjhne laga hu but kuch doubts bhi aate hai.
Mil jayegi...bss frauds se bachna
Kaisa fraud
Yes absolutely Sir
Superb explanation!
I enjoy all your videos.
Absolutely relatable...
As an army brat i have gone through this sir and yes its very uncomfortable
Agree, mere ek mosaji ki transeferable govt job thi, sari jindagi ghumaya, kabhi south, kabhi east, kabhi west, kabhi UP.
Jaha jaye wahi kuch na kuch property khareedle.
Bachcho ko ghanta nahi pata kyonki unki social life nahi, piche se padhai ka danda baap daal kar rakhta tha.
To wo akhir me jaipur aakar shareer chod gaya aur sari jameen swaha. Kayo banks me account aur kisi me 1 lakh kisi me 5 lakh, sare swaha.
Bachche bole ki yaar itna paise tha ki ham beth kar kha lete yaha apna bachpan, jawani aur middle ages jala kar kisi ki nokri na karte
Na beti shadi kar rahi, na hi bada bhai, bech wala bhai ne shadi kari lekin uski biwi uska khoon pi rahi hai aur ek ek kar ke jameeno ki pehchan kar apne naam karati ja rahi hai baap ke sath mil apne
I had same situation.4 log 4 jagah
Sir please do a analysis of real estate n settling opportunity in dehradun. I stay in Delhi n like to shift.
Thank you sir