Ok since I'm already here binging your videos (and loving every second of it), I have a question! How do we figure out goals? In my past, I've had lots of success with working towards them (including visualisation and manifestation practices) but currently my life feels void, because of the lack of ... well, goals. I don't know what "I want". Could you make a video on how to figure out ones own damn goals? BABES, WHERE WE GOING? P.S.: This might be very normal. I'm probably in a sort of in-between state in my life generally, and maybe midlife crisis just came early? Signed, an exhausted 33 year old.
It IS very normal. What I recommend is start with how you want to feel and work backwards. If you want to feel less restricted, what will help you get there? How can you start experiencing it right now? Most of the time so seemingly “shallow” pursuit such as money or weight loss is actually the pursuit of a very deep and important emotion, such as feeling secure or feeling lovable/worthy/attractive. (Also, craving clarity is a “want”)
The first time I ever heard of Main Character Syndrome it was in a mocking way and I was like, "Why shouldn't they be the main character of their own life?" I get that some people are like that in a """narcissistic""" way, but people mock others who just exist in the world in an abnormal way and then make fun of them for it. It's bullying "weird" people, but repackaged and rebranded; bullying but making it "okay" by calling people's weirdness automatically attention-seeking because THEY paid attention to it. It's so strange. Anyway, great video and tips! ❤
What do you think? Is main character energy helpful?
15:57 needed this today. Thank you for your insightful, intelligent content
Aw I’m glad the video resonated 🫶🏻 Thank you so much for the comment!
Me watching this and having breakfast when suddenly the "do not distract your meals with media" comes up: 👁👄👁
Hahaha I also struggle with this one ngl
Me too 😂
This was an extremely helpful video. Great job and thank you. Subscribed. I hope you succeed massively. The world needs you. ❤️🙏🏼😊🤗
Loooove it ! Great video ❤️
Ok since I'm already here binging your videos (and loving every second of it), I have a question! How do we figure out goals? In my past, I've had lots of success with working towards them (including visualisation and manifestation practices) but currently my life feels void, because of the lack of ... well, goals. I don't know what "I want". Could you make a video on how to figure out ones own damn goals? BABES, WHERE WE GOING?
P.S.: This might be very normal. I'm probably in a sort of in-between state in my life generally, and maybe midlife crisis just came early? Signed, an exhausted 33 year old.
It IS very normal. What I recommend is start with how you want to feel and work backwards. If you want to feel less restricted, what will help you get there? How can you start experiencing it right now? Most of the time so seemingly “shallow” pursuit such as money or weight loss is actually the pursuit of a very deep and important emotion, such as feeling secure or feeling lovable/worthy/attractive. (Also, craving clarity is a “want”)
@@charlottemorabito ooooft, thanks so much! I appreciate you!
The first time I ever heard of Main Character Syndrome it was in a mocking way and I was like, "Why shouldn't they be the main character of their own life?" I get that some people are like that in a """narcissistic""" way, but people mock others who just exist in the world in an abnormal way and then make fun of them for it. It's bullying "weird" people, but repackaged and rebranded; bullying but making it "okay" by calling people's weirdness automatically attention-seeking because THEY paid attention to it. It's so strange.
Anyway, great video and tips! ❤
Needed to hear this🙏
I'm so glad this video found you!
i really needed to hear this! i feel like i’ve been neglecting myself and my wants/goals lately and i need to readjust.
Omg I love that! 🫶🏻 I like to think of goals and self care as waves. They ebb and flow. You were at low tide for a minute. Now it’s high tide time!