How to CHOOSE the RIGHT BRIDESMAIDS in 2020 *Real stories* | 3003Events
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- Hello Darlynssssss!! Through my years as an event planner, I’ve seen my fair share of bridezillas but today I’m addressing the #BridesmaidsHorrorStories Watch this video before you choose your bridal party.
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I got married last month, I didn't go with any bridal train. My sister was my bridesmaid. We didn't have any event planner. My family and my husband's family planned everything and by the grace of God everything went on successfully. The most important thing I was happy about was the fact that I got married to by best friend.
Congratulations!! So happy for you and Thank God everything went well🙏🏾
I had made a list of 28 ladies, now I am just going to reduce it to 4. Thank you for this video.
28!!🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ thank God you reduced it oo
Let the rest wear asoebi🤣🤣
28, its very interesting so many. I dont even have 10
Very true, this is one reason why I’m using my cousins and closest friends as my bridesmaids..All my other friends would wear asoebi…I trust my cousins and close friends to hype me on that day 💃💃 because I’ll definitely need it
Asy... This topic just reminded me of my trad wedding... I know how sad I felt after everything... Like I didn't have friends at aaaalllllllllllll... Some didn't even show up sef... Moral of the story - Invest in quality female friendships as a young girl.
Weddings truly are the true test of friendships...👏👏
My dear!! It’s becoming a big issue by the day. God uses the process to filter your circle, so even in the disappointments, I always tell my brides to be grateful
@@AsyDarlyn I agree. Thank you so much as it is. God bless you
i guess im asking the wrong place but does anybody know a trick to log back into an instagram account..?
I was dumb forgot my account password. I appreciate any tricks you can offer me!
And homelessness.
Like seriously my traditional wedding showed me that I don't have friends, it was the least girl I expected that was so helpful,the girls I thought are real though I've always seen sign showed Me how jealous they've been.
Wedding is the real eye opener!!
Been a bridesmaid n was treated badly both 3 times that I promised myself I will be a good bride on my day, I saw some girls do what you said Asy it's bad n what I learned is that weddings reveal true characters of friends, n will rewatch this videos before my wedding n pick my bridesmaids well, God bless you n you have a beautiful boy 😍 watching from South Africa
Aww thanks a lot ☺️ I truly appreciate 🤗
Funny how I liked this video before even watching.....
Like it's Asy
And she's a Darling😍😘😘😘😂
Lammy Jane that’s right🥰😂😂 thanks a lot dearie
😍😍
People sometimes focus more on the idea instead of their own reality. We can focus on getting the "picture perfect" instead of focusing on true relationships and connections
True
of course what you said is very true. I had been a grooms man and guest what we and the bride maids made the wedding popping. there was time for the bride to dance and i knew she couldn't dance because i was the lead person who taught the chorography humm i just went and stood at one end and she quickly saw me from there i was showing her styles and no one notice because the crowd was focus on her.
Quick thinking!! Amazing👏🏾👏🏾 yes oo, the bridal party is the life line of any event
You are a great person.
That was amazing! 💓
❤️❤️
🙏🥰
You've hit the nail on the head. You should be awarded the best wedding planner, such a beautiful heart you have..for such an advice.
Plus, you very pretty and hardworking.
You must plan my wedding oh
Awww thanks a lot dear. I truly appreciate 🤗🤗
I experienced this first hand. I legit thought something was wrong with me. Everyone kept telling I don't have friends o... You see ehn, i learnt in a very hard way but thank God I "saw" who they were early. May God "safe" us. Well done Asy💋
Eh yaaa. That’s why I always tell my brides that wedding planning will reveal your true friends. It can be hurtful but God would use it to save you from carrying fake friends into your home.
Thanks a lot for commenting 🤗
My sister, some of your friends will deliberately not come because they are not happy with the fact that you are getting married before them.
Wow this is so interesting wished I was able to watch this before my wedding ,my wedding was really terrific all my asoebi girls didn't show up on my wedding day thank God I made option two down which was the asoebi girls and the normal train ,It was the normal train I made use of for the pictures , none of my asoebi girls showed up to even make it worst my chief bridesmaid didn't show up she called and said she can't make it on Friday night ,omo I was so pained that I felt as if my whole world is about crumbling I had to use the only asoebi girl that was able to show up as my chief bridesmaid and she was such a lovely person I actually learnt the hard way it was my husband and family who kept encouraging me it's funny oooooo.
Omo!!😳😳 Thank God for you, this experience us just opened your eyes to see your real friends
@@AsyDarlyn yes ooo I now know better thanks ma for this video ma . your such a blessing in this generation .
@@AsyDarlyn yes ooo I now know better thanks ma for this video ma . your such a blessing in this generation .
Ppl jealousy omg 😳
Event planners are paid but it’s a moment between the friends 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 key takeaway
Thanks for this Asy🤗
Exactly. Friends should more involved ☺️
That Wikes intro though 😂
Not to toot my own horn though but I’ve always been an amazing bridesmaid - all my brides can attest😁.
Yo! It’s crazy how some of these girls act sha. One of my friends needed bridesmaids to
pick money for her, all of them had complains “like oh my dress is tight, my heels are too high, I’m tired”, I was the only person that changed to bathroom slippers & did the work.
Me I already know my bridesmaids, anyone that misbehaves before then too✂️ 🤬
Chantel Anyanwu 😂😂 I Hope I can write a book cos I’ve seen things. It’s just sad and it’s getting worse by the day.
Your day should be about you, select only better people😃
Baby M has the cutest sound of laughter ❤❤with him fine mama
Thanks a lot dearie 🤗🤗
This is so informative and funny I like how real u spell it out 😂😂
Thanks a lot for watching
As a wedding planner and manager in Uganda am hooked here watching ur videos coz it's very interesting how similar our things are
Awww, you baby boy is such a cutie!🥰
Thanks a lot dear 🤗🤗
Nneoma I swear you are very intelligent seriously. I have not wedded but we are still planning it, this has happened to me in my traditional marriage the person that I called my closer's friend is even angry with me. just a girl that I didn't even expect, is the one helping me, giving me some directions.
Thanks a lot dear ☺️😄
Wedding period is always an eye opener.
Am telling you
23secs 😌💃🏾💃🏾....Notification geng🙃💯😊
Natasha Oyindamola Yaaayyy!!! Geng geng💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 thanks a lot dear
Thanks for this thoughtful video ma.💯
You’re welcome ☺️
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Uche Nwezi yaaaassss thanks a lot dearie 💃🏽💃🏽
Sis I wish I saw this video before I got married. I had horrible bridesmaids.. one was complaining about where to seat she came to the car and was complaining..
some even had finer makeup than me 😂😂 I don’t have a problem with that thou.
Stephanie stefinyychez Na dem ooo😂😂😂 This problem is becoming worse by the day. They even want to upstage the bride. It’s not good abeg.
Asy Darlyn it’s not good a lot
Thank you for sharing 😘
We suffered my dear my own girls will even gained up against me
@@auntiettt6617 may be u wronged them there is no way all of them can gang up against you dear
@win purple if u have a friend and she does something wrong to you will you call them to other or u will turn against them?
The people you call friends matters alot in this life. I think I will have to watch this video again and again even before my wedding, so that I can make a right decision in picking my friends as my bridesmaids, you son is cute 😘😘..
Baby M is the cutest 😍😍😘. These girls have shown me pepper 🤦🤦
😞😞As in ehhh!!! It’s us it pains more. They can’t pick money, they can’t help the bride with her dress, they won’t come and catch bouquet.....: then why are you here?!!🤦🏽♀️
Thank you so much Ma'am, this is so important
harry damiete you’re welcome ☺️
I came across your video last year October. I subscribed and been watching your work. I really love enjoy the genuine styles. I look forward booking you in the future. I am proud of you.
Awww thanks a lot, I appreciate
Asy, you are really a darling. Thanks for the profound information.
Please do a collaboration with a Wedding planner on planning a wedding.
Thanks a lot dear 🤗🤗
Lol😂 I am the wedding planner. Or you mean a collaboration with another wedding planner ?
@@AsyDarlyn Yes, i meant a collaboration with another planner. You can discuss a topic together. Maybe the top wedding trends in 2020 or something wedding related sha. I will really anticipate that.
Thanks
U're a darlyn indeed😍😍
Very intelligent young lady
Stuck 2 ur channel henceforth
Thanks a lot dear 🤗 I truly appreciate
You have said it all thanks but that boy is so sweet God bless him
Amen🙏🏾 Thanks a lot
Very beautiful and Nice video Asy, absolutely fantastic advice all through the video.
♥️💕💕.
Chig. Omell thanks a lot🙌🏾🙌🏾 I truly appreciate
Asy just spilled the truth.
Thanks mama
You’re welcome dear🤗🤗
I hand the best bridesmaid ever thank u laddies
That’s great!
Dont have any! My daughter was maid of honor
This video will surely go a long way for me thank you very much ma'am,buh with this video now I'm not seeing my so called friends in Braid maid's ooo, just Aso ebi geng ..
Thanks for watching 😊 It’s better safe than sorry, at least you preserve your friendships rather than have a bad experience. Wishing you all the best.
I was a bridesmaid at a wedding where the maid of honor that is the chief bridesmaid did not come till the couple had said their vows. And she was the sister of the bride o
Winifred Dokubo 😳😳 Are you serious?!! Mehnnnn this issue is getting out of hand. I heard of a chief bridesmaid that hid the couple’s rings🤦🏽♀️ like!!!! Luckily the video guy captured it. May God save us
Wawu
@@AsyDarlyn haaaah....I came back to watch old videos....and wow
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Hey sis your the best wow,small circle goodvybz,less drama jare!!!!!!
Yes oo😄😄
Thanks very much anty asy for this wonderful advice you will plan my wedding for me by God's grace oooo God bless you mighty amen 🙏
Things have changed over the years,35years ago ,you need lady in the wardrobe, Aunty of the day, mother of the day but now you dont do it anymore. You can use your Cousins as your bride maids, your close family children that you grow up together.
Yeah things have changed 😄
Family isn't guaranteed either .put God at the centre, reduce the circle,stay safe.
this video is so important....
You make so good points ❤
Powerful tips. Plus those guys wearing Ebuka kind of suit please don't even showup😂😂
😂😂😂😂
This was EXTREMELY helpful! ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks a lot for watching ☺️🤗🤗
i attended a wedding, where the bridal party were just there for their own selfish reasons
Mehnnn that can be very bad😞 Especially for the bride
Asy is always shaking tables 😃😃😃
🙃🤣🤣
Thank you for this message you passed on
You’re welcome 😊
This is an important video. asy thank you
Thanks a lot for watching ☺️🤗🤗
That wike intro tho😁😁🤣
Ogbenna Mercy chiamaka 😂😂
You're good Asy Darlyn....was one of mmaobama's bridals
Oh really? Nice🤗🤗
Thanks a lot dear.
Asy ur so right if I talk my experience as a bridesmaid and just an asoebi girl that’s just looking at wedding , when I marry I think I will have just 4 people and they are my sisters ,the rest wear asoebi or no come
( I no dey fear anybody 🤣🤣🤣🤣)
Nianu Ntor-ue 😂😂😂 Better to use your sisters and have peace than give yourself any form of stress.
Yes oo!! That’s my new mantra 🤣
You couldn't have said it better 👏👏👏
Bolanle Ekundayo thanks a lot ☺️☺️
your son is so handsome 🥰😍😍
Thanks a lot dear
Hey mama. Since you’re speaking about bridesmaids, who pays for bridesmaids hair, dress and stuff ?
Nice question!! I think I should do a video about this.
Personally I know it differs. Some of my clients foot all the bills. For some, the girls are happy to foot all the bills and for others, it’s split.
I feel it depends on the financial capability of the bride and the closeness between the bride and her friends
**Notification gang**
Thanks for the advice.... I enjoyed watching😊😊
Pls what do you do if you have a good friend you want on your train but she doesn't wear makeup, she doesn't fix weavons and is really specific about clothes style
Do you let her come without the makeup,hair and also let her choose a cloth style she is comfortable in or you just don't add her to your train
Zin nie Very good question. So I’d advice you can make her your matron of honor.
It’s not maid of honor and she must not wear what the bridesmaids are wearing, it can be a different color too.
She’d be the one in charge of your space and your train. That way you won’t inconvenience the entire train for her but you’d have her around.
Another thing is to give her asoebi. Give her a good role so she’s very involved. Either ways, I’m sure you’re asking cos you want all your bridesmaids to wear same outfit, hair and makeup. Following these advice would give you what you want and you can also have your good friend around.
Hope this helps you. Thanks a lot for commenting🤗
Thank you for the detailed response.... I really appreciate it😊
I no dey fear anything 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes oo🤣🤣🤣
I have been a bride's maid once in my 27 years in this life for my sister's wedding and it went down ugly,I wish I watched some of these things before that wedding.
OMG!!
Hello Asy. please what is a good gift to give to bridesmaid and groomsmen? Thank you
i wish i can love this video....
It's not just the bridesmaid alone oo
Even the bride sometimes
I was a train for a wedding being the life of the party
The bride decided to kill the vibe
She was just shouting,screaming and all
Time to take picture she said will you take or we should be going to church
She just dey para
She no even pay for makeup artist na we dey find makeup artist our self
On the wedding day
It was terrible
And we paid good money
The dress unko
Everything just killed my vibe totally
Omo!!! Maybe she was nervous or pregnant. Or na her real character be that😂😂😂 cos I can’t even imagine.
She wasn't pregnant oo
She just dey vex
She was like your makeup should not be finer than mine oo
We should not dance more than her
At the reception we dealt with her we just ignored her and sat in the car
Money we no help her pick we just left her there make she dey do her own thing😂😂
@@janetoluwatoyosi678 lol that serves her right
Your Son is handsome
Thanks a lot 🥰
Dats true Thanks
Thanks a lot for watching
What about people like me that doesn't have friends, how do I go about brides maids talk more or chief brides maid.
Aww don’t worry dear, you must not have bridesmaids. I’ve planned several events where the bride had only chief bridesmaid.
It’s even better. Less headache
Hello, my friend has this worry, she doesn't intend having a bridal party but has about 4 key friends she can count on and intends for them to be her BMs. The challenge now is her husband has a tone of friends he wants to include in the party, how does it go, she's forced to seek to include ple she wouldn't have and doesn't feel close to
I think she should stick to her 4 key friends. It’s always better that way. The biggest wedding video on my channel, there were 13groomsmen and only 6 bridesmaids. It was still mad fun.😁😁
Nice video
Thanks a lot
It looks like it’s only boys that will be my maids because I don’t have strength for rubbish sha🙄
Chidimma Nwaigwe 😂😂😂😂😂dead!!
I can relate, it’s not easy managing bridesmaids cos some are special🤦🏽♀️🤣
That is ehn .. am not married tho but I have been a bridesmaid and I know I did a good job😌 as for me my boys are ready for my big day💪🏽💪🏽
Chidimma Nwaigwe it would actually be nice to see😄😄
I will invite u🙂
As in ehn ,I have plenty guys oh
I don't think I have experience yet
Peace Ibe that’s great😄
Love you girl thank you so much
Hello I am from nelo okekes RUclips
Please can you make a video on how to start planning an event esp bridal showers, small birthday parties
Welcome on board!! 💃🏽💃🏽Please send me a DM on Instagram @3003events
@@AsyDarlyn yes oh we dey wait
My bride's mates almost kill me with stress on my wedding day
😩🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️ kpele ooo. This topic is very important
Sorry dear.
Asy darling can you make use of 1.5 to plan a wedding?
Depending on the guest size. That budget would only work for a very intimate wedding
I like you so much ,did you know that we share the same birth month and date March 30th,but I'm older than you .God bless you.
Oh waohhh amazing
The rest are just acquaintances, so i guess one bridesmaid is okay
😂😂😂
I only have 1 friend that i know😅
Waaayyy too many bridesmaids in that photo. Lol
Some people are blessed with lots of good friends 😁
Hmmmm.... so true
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Hmmm my chief braid maid was hell honestly
Ahhhhh really?!! That must have been horrible
She showed up only the night of my traditional marriage. The drees I made for the braids she refused to wear she went and baught one chines dress and wore oh my God. The thin is she was a vry close friend to me and I'm not the type that keep so many friends that's y she was the only one to fill the gap.
Thanks so much for that topic a least it will help alot of people not to make the wrong choice of braid maid. Love u. Ur cute
So bad
🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
I'm telling you. Till date I keep regretting why I used her as chief braid.