Virtuous women, STOP MAKING MARRIAGE HARD!
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Lol. "Be in pieces before being somebody's peace" lol. I feel this one!
Very important!! Jesus is the builder not me biko😂😂😂
I just started watching but I'm like 'Preach Sis!!'. The only quarrel I will settle is btw my husband and kids. 🤣🤣 Anything outside of that, abeg nobody should call me. I already made up my mind before marriage that I will never attend any meeting called by anyone to settle any case. Thank God my hub and his family no get time as well cos I was ready to be known as the one who will never show up. Settle which fight? Did I call my husband to settle any fight with me and my siblings? Biko I am not among ooo🤣🤣
😂😂😂 @husband and kids.
It’s good you said it oo. Let them not be waiting for you at family meeting to settle quarrel😫🤣🤣
😄😄😄😄very important to protect one's emotional space.
Marriage Is Supposed to be Easy Ooh
Me I want to Enjoy my Marriage till the Very end
Exactly!!😂😂
My own is that i am so happy to see ads back to back on every of your videos. Watching all to the end! Congrats nne.
Aww thanks a lot dearie 🤗🤗 I truly appreciate ☺️
"All power belongs to God" dead 😆 🤣
😂😂😂
I can Relate, I don't know how to Call but I'm always there when People Need me
Very true!! Same with me😄
Yes! Yes!! Yes!! I resonate a lot with your point of view.
You are not the Saviour of any man’s family problem.
Please face your front.
Geng Geng✨✨
Exactly!! Face your front😩😂😂
Before you’d go and and say what you cannot take back🤣☺️
Hahaha 🤣, you are such a darling 😘
Marriage should be fulfilled, enjoyed and not endured or stressed 🙄
You will not be in pieces because you want someone to be in peace
Yes oo!! 🤗🤗Enjoyment not endurance 🤣🤣🤣
Plenty patience and long suffering🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
True talk, young lady. God bless you richly!
Amen!! Thanks a lot
Amen my sis. Preach on! You are talking to me! Thank you!
Thanks a lot for watching dear 🤗🤗
🤣🤣🤣i can't stop laughing ooo. Asy no go kee person oo. The virtuous wives association of Africa will come for u oo🤣🤣Asy abeg dash me ur top wai😍
😂😂😂 At this point, they’d fight me soon🤣
it’s a gown oo.
You hit the nail on the head.
Thanks a lot dear 🤗🤗
God knows I like sleep pass any thing.Lola my sister pls you can't kill your self for person wey no get seans.on behalf of my Igbo sisters, Lola you are Welcome to Umuada forum thanks.
You knowwww!!! Sleep is so enjoyable 🤣🤣🤣 Peace of mind is the real gift.
Abeg let Umuada give Aunty Lola better recognition oo, it’s not easy😂🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Why am i just watching this???? You said it all sis😘
Thanks a lot 😄😄
Very good points on the Lola and Paul issue. As for marriage, the point should be whatever keeps u genuinely happy, some ppl like having control over issues in their life, they want everything to be in place and perfect, not cause they want to use it against anyone but rather to maintain their sanity. There's no 'one size fits all' rule for relationships, families are diff and complicated. As long as its not causing harm to anyone, focus on what works for you and gives u peace.
Exactly. I wish them well
I smiled all through this video. Trying to form James Bond in family matter will just take your peace. You will just end end creating enemies for yourself because your words might be taken out of context.
That your last line ehhh!!!! They can even leave the quarrel and face one word or sentence you made. Funny thing oo😂😂😂
Oh even when they settle with their brother, they’d still be avoiding you🤣
This geh leave me oooo🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ma am glad I came across your channel,I love your energy,
Awww thanks a lot. I truly appreciate 🤗
Asy dishing words of wisdom 🤗🤗
Thanks a lot dearie 🤗
Virtuous women association,Port harcourt branch..
Asy lmao oo
When I saw this title I have been laughing...
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😂😂😂 Our zonal chairman 🙌🏾
@@AsyDarlyn 🤣🤣
I love your sense of reasoning, *Asy* thanks for sharing and I agree. Let me mind my business *ooo!* 😉
😄😄 Yes oo, my dear. Peace of mind is the greatest blessing
This is a very important lesson to me before marriage and ts good I know how to mind my own business
Very very important!! Cos they’d settle and leave you in the center😂😂
Heat of the moment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Asy you are funny oooo, this your video made my day, please women stop making marriage hard for us. I really like to chilled.
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You’re right Asly darling,, some wants to over do do things 👍👍
I just weak😂😂😂
Geng gerereeeeng💃💃
Yes ooo!! Geng geng🥳🥳
Hahahhahah,add work indeed🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Asy o😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Always blowing hot
I couldn't hold my laugh when she said "If our assignment is 10 some people have finished it in year one, what would you do in the remaining years?...spread it out"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 Overzealous students stay stressing us. How can you finish the whole semester assignment in the first week?🤣🤣
Mama the Mama..I love the way you are dishing out the wisdom...Abi marriage should be enjoyed oo..
Yes oo!! Enjoyed not endured📌📌
Oh wow! Asy..lol...true talk
😄Thanks a lot for watching dear 🤗
Geng geng 💃💃
Yes ooo!! Geng geng🥳🥳
One thing you said that I'm so in love with, your children and wife|husband is your first family 👌the two brothers should give themselves sense and stop behaving like kids waiting to be settled by their wives ❤️
Exactly!! That one has now come before the twins relationship because it’s ordained by God that both of you are ONE.
Na the sense we dey wait for them to get😂😂😂
This is I opening Ss. I love your contents 💖💖💖💖
😂😂😂 thanks a lot dearie 🤗
Geng geng!
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Kpos!!! Geng geng Asy Squad
Yes oo💃🏽💃🏽
There are many sides to Lola and her husband's family issues. I don't know what their problem is but, I have dealt with someone whose sole purpose in life is to make others look bad in the eyes of the world. I can't explain how painful it is. It will be just you with a handful of people who cares to look deeply that will see exactly what's happening. I am not of the school of thought that she should settle them o, but if she is really what she is claiming to be, sending a birthday message to his phone or even walking up to him to wish him a happy birthday will be better. As for the wife thing, I take it that people are different and react to things differently. If being oversabi rocks their boat, I wish them a smooth sail. As for me, nobody can put me under pressure, I am a virtous woman in my own right.
True! I’d advice she doesn’t even talk about it all.
It’s not in her place to settle them, she should just focus on her immediate family.
Cos I know some people that don’t like their brother’s wife, would never go to their homes but outside the house, they hang out a lot. So why is their own different? If the wife is at fault, is she his shadow? Can’t you talk to him normally 🤷🏾♀️Cutting ties with your twin brother for 4 years and expecting it to pain another person’s daughter is laughable. Na dem dey lose
Marriage should not be hard. Somethings are better not known. That's what I learnt.
Very true!!
Especially if you’re an emotional person, the husband sef can go and settle with the person but the wife will still be carrying it on her head. 🙆🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣
Asy this video has finished me 🤣🤣🤣 “ I think”...
😂😂😂😂😂
Asy hidden and disclosed 😆 🤣 😂 😹african moms are like that 😆 🤣asy learn to call is assurances. I learnt in my old age.
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I will learn oo. I prefer to even send gifts than call. 🤣
I came to lounge ooo. Gang gang.
Yes ooo!!!🥳🥳
Let me relax and enjoy 🤗🤗
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So true!
Thanks a lot for watching dear 🤗🤗
Well said.
Thanks a lot dearie 🤗🤗
Blessing morning queen
Morning 🤗🤗
My dear we no come this life to suffer our mothers has suffered enough we women need to enjoy
Very true! The struggles of our mothers can repeat in this our generation.🙏🏾
My first time...
You sound like me 😂
Your intro got me 😁
I will watch videos here o
Aww really?😂😂 Thanks a lot dearie
I luv ur personality ma it just the way I do my tins.Marriage should be easy jare.
Aww thanks a lot dear 🤗🤗
Exactly!! Many people make it seem so hard and scary, then we’re wondering why singles are afraid to get married🤦🏽♀️😂😂
Asy nah laugh me they laugh with the way you take they analyse the whole matter. Well, I think I'm the calling or the texting type o!
😂😂😂😂 that’s good oo
Your sunglasses is so beautiful
Thanks a lot 😁
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is funny but so true!
Thanks a lot for watching dear
My favorite thing abt u is the way u make ur mouth wen giving the gist. So funny is like ur hand trouble no easy oh 😂 😂 😂 😂 geng geng
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Chineke m ooo...That mama strategy of getting money is same with mine ooo, chai😂😂
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Gen gen we are here o
Osheyyyy💃🏽💃🏽
Saviours of the world
Na so e dey start🤣🤣
I will nana again🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol@ hidden and disclosed.. LMAO
This!!!📌📌😂😂😂
Elsa Majimb comes to RUclips. Funny video!! lol
You know this!!!!📌📌 I loveee her😂😂😂
You are write sis..... love you 😍
Thanks a lot dear
Can't stop loving you babe💕💕💕,I pray and hope I meet you in person soon,all your point make sense.Geng,geng👍👍👍👍💕💕💕
Osheyyyy 💃🏽💃🏽 Aww thanks a lot dear 🤗🤗
The Way I clicked on the Video ehn, I am Very early today
Osheyyyyyy🥳🥳
I think this is one of your funniest videos!! Tell those our wife colleagues o. For 1st semester of year1 sef, them don finish all the work..Lmao!! I wish the video was about 1hr long.. I didn't want to stop watching and laughing. Well done girl. Patiently waiting for the other igbo video you talked about.
Yes oo!! Over sabi students 😂😂 who sent them now?Doing all the assignments before class even starts🥴🤣🤣🤣
"All power belongs to God"😂😅😂
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣
Have I settle my own case 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂....... I swear I still said this to my husband yst.... I just want to chill and relax Abeg
😂😂😂😂 Yes oo!! Enjoyment Geng💃🏽💃🏽 we don’t want stress🤣
Asy my darling you don come again oh 🤣🤣🤣 ganggang
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Nice topic Assy, they should better quarrel their quarrel and settle in Peace no body should call me for settlement I no be married counsellor na nurse I be. 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂Sis say na nurse she be🤣 Some quarrels sef have put wives in trouble with family members. After the quarrel, they’d forgive their brother but not the wife that interfered. It has happened countless times😩
Lola has really suffered in the hands of her husbands twin brother's hand ooo. i wonder how he will look at her when this whole misunderstanding is over. peter did well denfending his wife and speaking for her.. Nice topic, cos paul last twit on lola's birthday wish was unnecessary..
Exactly!! The insult sef shock me. It’s well oo🙆🏽♀️
The fact that the woman is older isn't even a problem again, they had their expectations that they would be able to control her like they did her husband and e nor work for them.
Exactly!! Age is not the problem. She has given them boy and girl. She is not disturbing their brother, what more do they want?? Na them go marry Peter??
You’d make a good orator/comedian
😂😂😂😂😂
We are here for your rants...matters arising type of.
Ok, I am living under a rock on this one... which Lola settle which case.
Well... Lola has been on the fire fire end of whatever that went wrong in the Okoye camp.
Hello 😆 🤣
Be the peace before I enter oo.
Arrrh...any settle talk wey pass" calm down my husband", and trying to reason it with him alone oo on the matter..., that talk is going to be a tough speech.
Abi Mummy Micah are they going to be sharing money on top who fight husband fight, make I go learn tekwando come quick sign up.
Me I taya oo!! There’s no reward in the fight sef.
That’s the only thing I can say “Calm down, forget it, it’s okay”
but to do meeting?!!🤣🤣🤣 them go wait taya
We are here o. Who took my chair,shift jor
Yes oo🥳🥳 Take better one 🪑😁
Years back, Peter wrote an epistle saying that Lola was there for him when he had nothing. So back then, her age didn’t matter abi? I’m sorry to say, but for his brother, Paul to have the boldness to address Peter’s wife in publicly, e be as e take. Peter needs to reprimand seriously because people will do what you allow.
Thanks for this video. It’s coming in a timely manner. Me wey wan marry. 😘😘
God bless you!! You remember that abi. That it was Lola that was even giving them money that year.
Now he doesn’t like her. Omo!! Na wa oo.
I guess it’s the reprimand that is causing their beef because Peter has told them times without number to respect his family.
@@AsyDarlyn
He needs to tell them wella. That disrespect is too damn much.
Love your videos by the way ☺️
@@crissoa Exactly! I feel so bad for her.
Aww thanks a lot 🤗
Hallo,I'm here ooo
Nma baby🤗🤗
😁😂😂😂😂😂Abeg. I am in my marriage to chill. I may engage in spiritual warfare on my knees but other than that, I am not engaging anyone in any family drama that does not concern me🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂Peace of mind is essential abeg. Let them settle themselves 🤣🤣
🚴♀️Gen gen gen, am the first to comment today
Yes ooo!! Geng geng🥳🥳
Na me sabi call ooooo,hubby no sabi that one
Really? Me I no sabi at all😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 abeg which one is partial madness? You're either mad or you're not 🤣🤣🤣
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We wives honestly need to apply break sometimes in this marriage something. Swallow spit and relax!! It's not always that deep women of God. According to Asy, don't be making us look like we are not trying! All power belongs to God my sister..😂😂.. And between, this calling thing, I think it's a Rivers something. I'm Kalabari and it's thesame in my house. My husband's side is totally different. They gist like crazy.. And I'm like.. "Greet them for me o".. Na my own call be that🚶🚶
My dear, many women are so stressed doing what they’re not supposed to do. All in the name of zealousness.
😂😂😂😂 I swear!!!
Mehnn Na my greeting be that oo🤣🤣 or I’d shout my hailing so they can hear me.
Nice video
Thanks a lot
You are so funny!
😂😂😂 thanks a lot for watching
Gen gen !!!
Yes ooo!! Geng geng🥳🥳
Interesting 😂
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I can relate I don't know how to call too my fiancé family are complaining that I don't check up on them I luv them just dat the calling tin is not for me.
My dear, that’s the guilt I feel daily cos I don’t know how to call at all. But if there’s any issue, I’m the first to respond 😂😂 May God help us🙏🏾
I couldn't stop laughing
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Asy wife material million yards😂😂😂U're crazy and i love u😂😍
💃🏽💃🏽Osheyyyyyy Make virtuous women no come tear this material for me😂😂😂
Some family like you when you never got the ring.
🤔🤔I don’t understand
Geng geng
🤣🤣🤣 i am not even married o but i just know i don't have strength for stress abeg.
Please oo!! Nobody should stress you. Many young people are now having BP because of unnecessary stress
Lol,".......... Have I settled my own case?
Very important 😄
Hmmmmmmm..You just knack the Nail on the Head!!📌
Thanks a lot dearie
True we Lola's do not like stress biko marriage is not that serz
😂😂😂 no time to stress
Thank you for your advice, have been engaged to my fiancé for 2years now, and all the things i told him, he always use it against me during any argument or little quarrel. Am just regretting. I don’t know if I should marry him and end up not having peace in my marriage, or I should just give him back his ring..
My dear, follow your heart and always pray🙏🏾 God will surely guide you
My own slogan in my home is face your warrant o, they are brothers they grew up together so they will know how to settle their differences, It is not my duty as a wife to interfere and I will make sure I am not the cause of their rift, but in the Okoye's case i just think they are not happy about Lola marrying into their family.
You’re very correct!! They know themselves from childhood and how they settle their issues. Why will anyone think that the wife is the best judge??
Of course she’d be bias towards her husband. It’s a no brainer 🤣🤣
Gbam📌📌 They don’t like their brother’s wife but mutual respect can still make them have a relationship.
They must not go to Peter’s house but they can always try to hang out with him. After all there are many families that are like this.
I hate that compare and contrast eh!
Very annoying something
which one be the rest of us .... chaiiii my chest oooo
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“All power belongs God” lol
High service is allowed Aunty!
😂😂😂 For how long can eye service work?? Marriage is forever, one day the real character will come out. That’s why it’s important to marry someone with good character🤣
mami...I tell you, till single and this crap scares me...I no get power ooo.
It’s good to say it early too, cos let them not be imagining things😂😂😂
@@AsyDarlyn yes ooo..
let them not think am super woman. repairer😆
@@ladyauthenticbeauty4160 😂😂😂😂, well, the fixer, the repairer, the this the that.....all will lead to chronic exhaustion 🤭🤭🤭
@@anonnona6433 as in ehne...I no fit ooo.
I will nana🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰🤣🥰🥰
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All power belongs to God ohhhhh I no cokcok get strength 😂😂😂
At all😂😂 let everybody face their work😄
That why l love tell women we leave the work God gave ad add other one tomorrow women will start crying
When they’re stressed they’d start complaining. Do some and leave the rest for tomorrow, work no dey finish😂😂😂😂
All power belongs to God😂😂😂
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