I know how you feel my biological dad left me when I was born and now I’m 23 and successful he wants to come back into my life after he hasn’t seen me since I was a baby I’m 23 now he being a dick bc I want nothing to do with him he mad I won’t let him around my kids I don’t want them to get attached to him then leaves like he did when I was born
I have no memory of him sucked when my other freinds dad came to there football games and awards ceremony but I had no one my mom passed away when I was 16
I dont think you should compare people's pain, it is sad either way. It is sad when you have nothing to remember of them but it is also sad when you can remember some and the memories haunt you and the memories hurt. Either way is indescribably sad.
To all the people without a father I pray for you and plus I do not have a dad bc I was only 5 years old and now I am 13 and I don't need him but I still love him 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My dad signed me over when I was three. I still love him, and forgive him. I forgive my adopted dad for turning me away the first time I asked him to play with me because he was busy. Never taught me anything. I forgive the other three men for not teaching me anything in life. I love them all and forgive them.
He can’t name one reason as to why he did what he did or why he doesn’t want me but I can name 1 million for him and even though I fucking hate him I still love him and I hate that I love him bc all he does is hurt me, no physically but mentally and emotionally.
I have the same problem it got so bad that me and my family had to move out he left me and my sisters and it hurt I still love him but I hate him for the wrong he has done and I hate him for staring at me with hate in his eyes but now he wants me back and I'm going to do what ever I can to stay with my mom and not see my dad all he put me through was mental abuse and now I have depression, racing thoughts, and a bunch of other problems that I have to live with because of him and no other people are not going to help me with my problems because my problems are now part of me I have to find a way to live with them but yeah it's be a tough 7 years for me he started this when I was 6 and now I'm 13 and my mom is trying to free us from him my mom was also mentally abuse but she was blinded by Faith that he would change but now she knows he can't.
I never met my dad...I always thought I could find him but now I know it's useless....I miss him I listen to songs and scream at someone who wasn't there in my life it's been 11 years now and I hate him but I miss him.....
My dad left when I was 2 and I promise myself that I wouldn’t give up on him cause if I give up on him I’m giving up on myself imma keep fight for him cause if he’s able to go see my brother he’ll find his way to me one day I might just run into somewhere
Ya my dad is the same but he had a hard childhood with his family and I'm waiting for him to give me the father love I wanted for 11 years but he didn't get it as a kid so he has a hard time doing it but all my cousins dad come with there kids but mine can't still
It's been 14 years. And it's hurts as ifnit was yesterday. It affects me still, i don't let anyone in. Not even my own mother, i like someone and then they like me back, i get scared and break their heart before they "break" mine. I push my friends away, just in case they leave, it won't hurt as much i think. I feel alone because I'm scared, and it's so hard to not be scared.
Ekaterina baez: I do the same thing to everyone i love even my own kids I'm scared of trusting anyone or getting with anyone because i am scared and that feeling isn't going away so I know exactly how you are feeling and what you're going thru
My dad left me when I was 9 months old I'm 15 now and I still can't forgive him I don't know why maybe because the fake lies he told me when I met him the cold hug he gave me every morning and before bed.I hate how he said the reason he didn't stay was because of my autism and adhd that's out of my control I wish things were different
All I have is memories of my father pushing me aside and leaving to the bar he left his baby girl me and now he wants me back no just no you left me now it's my turn to leave you I was daddy's little girl but now I'm no one's little girl yes I still love my dad and I see my mom was the other parent that care for me but still ever sense the day he pushed me aside and left for the bar I felt all alone even when in a room of 30 people or more I will feel lonely for the rest of my life because of the mental abuse and trust issues I now have I really hope he is happy
It’s sad for me to see all my Friends have dads and have fun with them. My dad left before I was born and he has a new family now and a wife. 😭 I love My mom so much but there is just one missing part of my heart u know 😭 can anyone relate ? 😭😢 it is so hard for my to see My half siblings have a dad and seeing how much fun they have with him 😭😢
My dad abused me for 7 years let others hurt me in unimaginable ways I was assaulted by his step dad told I wants feminine enough didn’t have enough boobs for a bra I walked out in hopes he would try to keep me there it’s been almost a year stopped trying on me has become the best parent to my other sisters just not me and that shit hurts he has forgotten I was ever his kid and only talks to me to argue and I try to spend time with him he is always busy or says it’s cuz I want something I really just want his love no money just memories with him that don’t hurt
My dad never cared about me he always paid attention to his girlfriend and his girlfriend's daughter but when I was younger I used to stay with him all the time and thought that he loved me but once I got older I realized that he is nothing but a piece of shit he doesn't do nothing he doesn't get me presents for my birthday or Christmas or any holiday I used to love my dad when I was younger but I'm 12 now and I realized he doesn't love me he loves his girlfriend and his girlfriend's daughter I always think of him cuz I didn't have a dad and I grew up without a dad my dad hasn't been here for 7 years but that's fine because I have a wonderful stepdad that takes care of me that loves me that cares for me and I am so grateful to have my stepdad here with me and my mom
I used to visit my dad until his mom threatened to kidnap me and my brother so my mom call CPS and the only way to get them put of my life was to tell him I didn't want to see him anymore. I knew deep down he was happy that he didn't have the responsibility of us anymore but I wanted to believe he loved us. I was hoping he would beg for us to stay he didn't.
my dad was very selfish he was abusive for my mom he always drank but before 5 years he knows that he is diabetes but he didn't stop drinking alcohol then 2 year ago the doctor told him his blood pressure was very high and he was in hospital for 3 weeks and after that he start to being nice to us he start to love my mom he stop dinking alcohol and now he give his full time for his family and we just forgive him or his past personality if your father have a personality like my father's past personality i advice you to just pray i know your father don't listen you but remember god listen you he listen me and he solve my problem so trust me he is listing you and he is working in your problem
my dad left out of the blue this march. he said he wanted freedom and to be by himself. he moved in with his new girlfriend, her dogs and kids three weeks ago. he used to be a great dad.
This is so sad because I don't have a dad because he left on Christmas Eve and I miss him I think about him everyday he has never phoned my mom to say happy birthday to me because I haven't seen him for 3 years
I have 2 dads. 1 was married to my mom and when I was going through the toughest time in my life he wasn’t there for me. My Biological dad didn’t under stand what was happening so he didn’t help. I only had my mom at that time. Btw I’m only 15
I still have my dad but since I'm a girl he loves my brother's more since I can't do as much as they can even when I try my hardest to impress him it's always " ok that's nice" but when my brothers need something or do something he's so exsited and happy
My father has been in and out of my life since I was 4 he finally signed his rights away at 10 and now my new father the one adopted me choose drugs over me then choose a women over me and just walked out again last night and I am 16 now
My dad left, he walked out the door and he killed himself. I can’t relate to the people who’s parents left but are alive, but it still hurts all the same cause I’m still wondering if I was ever enough and if I ever could be enough.
It very surprisingly thaf your dad just doesnt want u n he want see see you when your like 13 or 14 and then u don't know if u want to see him or not bc your scared hes gonna break your heart again 😔😭😒 my dad didnt even feed me at once like when i was 2. He was never there for me but my other dad was. Hr told me that it is up to me to see himbor not but it wikk breka him and that im just to scared to see him like just in case he ever hurt me as he did when i was born 😔😔😔 but what the point having a dad when they don't bother it is there duty to stay by there childs side anytime anywhere .there just No point😔😔
My das is the best 😁 he run away when I was born and come back when i was 10 then he run away with my best friend mother and blocked me on every contact we have I bet he has 4 children now and life happy while he left me traumatised and with daddy issues there That’s the best father I ever have
My father chose drugs over me... I hardly remember the last time I saw him... And who needs a father?! Not me! I have a mother who is my father as well! I don't need my dad!
My dad is a great father, not to me but to my older siblings and to his new children…. Why does he hate me so much, What did I DO WRONG!? I WAS 1 WHEN HE LEFT AND WHEN HE CAME BACK HE DEVIDED THAT I WAS HIS PROBLEMS! i was the WORST that ever happend to him… What did i do?….
My father is always back and forth, I hate him so much for him leaving me and my mom and leaving like it was nothing to him but I can't hate him because he's my dad. But I just don't understand why he always chose other things over me, his daughter. A child who needs her father.. to protect me and be there when I get hurt and pick me right back up but no, I had my mother always and forever.. so yeah- father's leave and they come back.. and it hurts Everytime they leave but so happy when they come back and they can try to apologize and we might forgive but we'll never forget that they abandoned us and we'll always have a missing part in our hearts that they took.
When I was little he was in and out of my life. Then when I was six I stopped seeing father altogether. Now my sister hates him and my brother loves him. I don't know who to agree with because I don't know my dad.
My dad left when I was 6 cause he hid a family with another kid my mom couldn’t pay bills cause it was only her and me so we had to live at my grandmas house so we slept in the living room for a year them my mom met my step dad and we bought a house now I am 13 and I forget he exists sometimes but I sometimes cry at night thinking I why did he leave me and my mom
My sister's friend dad went to he army when she was 2..... left her and started new family.. her names chloe.. I feel bad for her because she has mild trauma from it and her sister *(10 y.o)* said one time *(when they were arguing bout whos gonna get it ashes in a joking manner)* And her sister said *(the 10 y.o)* ;*IVE KNOWN HIM LONGER THEN ALL OF YOU*; She had a breakdown.. I wont go in detail thanks for reading
my dad left before ii was born , ii felt so empty w/o him , ii felt incomplete , he came into my life right befote ii graduated high school , he left me again , for his new family.
yeah i mean he‘s there for my older sister and his new family but he isn‘t for me and i hate him for that but i always have hope that he comes back and suddenly wants me as his daughter as well, guess that‘s not gonna happen i just don‘t understand why, i mean i wasn‘t even a year old when he left
My dad came back into my life after we got taken from dcs or cps he said he wanted me and my sister but only toke her and refuses to talk to me doesn't call doesn't answer and yet I still love him no matter how long I'm up every night crying or dreaming of dieing but you know like everyone says it gets better but it hasn't happened so what in the hell do I do
I'm 43 April 30th and, I never had my mom or dad. They Divorced when I was 9 yrs old. My mother abused me mentally and physically and for some reason my sister could do no wrong she's a yr older than me. My mom and, her boyfriend beat me to death and, kicked me out with the clothes on my back in the streets of Cali at the age of 10 lived on that streets till 14. But they were never there for me.mother took care of her as she died of lung cancer spread to brain. Never met my daughters except my oldest daughter. My father is still alive I used to go try to help him and, be there for him. But as we are sitting across from each other close and, he lets me know he never wanted fn kids. I wanted her to abort you. All I care about is my music, smoke,and that's it. I don't fn care. I don't need you. That hurt because the last time I was going down there I got in a severe vehicle accident at 70 miles an hour hit ditch head on and flipped like 7 times was ejected my teeth ripped all up from the glass window I flew out and was knocked out. Flown to trauma center I almost went into a deep coma. He just yelled at me so haven't spoken to him since Sept 26 th I crashed so about 2 weeks or 3 after the accident. And told me I'm an idiot ECT. Women and, children should be seen and not heard. F**k my egg and, sperm donor. Raised myself and, have 5 beautiful daughters and 5 grandchildren. AND THREE WEEKS AGO I FOUND OUT I HAVE CANCER IN MY NECK BESIDES ALL THE RARE CONDITIONS I HAVE. AND NO ONE CARES IM FIXING TO GO TO SURGERY TO GET THIS CANCER REMOVED FROM MY NECK. IT HURTS FOREVER NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU GET. I PRAY NO CHILD EVER HAS PARENTS LIKE MINE.😢
i know how it feels my dad left me befor i was born i know who he is and hes a back stapping tradior and i know who he is i know hes name and every thing iv been seeking for him for so long he has 2 kids and another wife he forgot about me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😞😞😞😞😞😞😟😟😟😟😟😟🥶
I don’t get how my mom has seen so much of him in me. He left before I was even born because she couldn’t be responsible for his mistake. And he’s a full fucking adult yet I was still able to take care of my little brother, which may I add has ADHD and I was fucking 6 when I had to take care of him ALONE. Like are you shitting me? SIC YEARS OLD. and you’re a fully grown adult and couldn’t take responsibility for a single child. What a guy.
You know , to my father i would say , where were you , what happened thay was so important that you couldnt teach to ride the bike , play baseball , and soany other things that i almost founf in someone else . But when you found out my mom was dating someone else you said if it was true that i had found someone else to be my dad , and i couldnt answer . Because it was true , he was never there for 6 years I had met him and he disappeared and if I try to have a relationship with him he pushes me away so f him I can do anything I want without him .
i was trying to look for memes but uhh hi everyone (;< remember Jesus is your heavenly father and will forever be with u and leave leave your side if u think hes not there its bc he’s waiting for u to start talking to him then he will talk back
My mom made me leave my dad for 11 years of my life and he comes back in my life saying he's going to stay my mom and dad were fine but then fighting was happening and more and then she says she's done then they she's says NVM we are still working on our selfs and my dad had a hard childhood and stuff he came around to see me and then he stopped because he's trying to get the money to get a house for us but now I'm stuck thing is his work more important then me while we my dad for 11 years I found out I had 3 half siblings and 2 step siblings and I see that he finds time for them but not me and it's been 2 months sense he came to visit it hurts still mom says give him time how much time do I have to give him until he's ready to fully come to my life mom says as long as it takes and im now stuck with a messed up head
My dad left me for another family he let me go for another daughter for another son and he let me go like a piece of trash I don't forgive him he left and that was his choice
You know divorce does hurt kids. Bad relationships hurt kids, neglectful parents hurt kids, abusive parents hurt kids, over powering parents hurt kids, parents with addictions hurt kids,, many many things hurt BOTH children AND adults, but you can either let it take you down in a pity party, seek revenge causing more heartache and pain for BOTH the vengeful and the victim of revenge and let that hate boil inside causing yourself and the person you hate misery. Or you can let love guide you and remain in your heart realizing that it's not you, it's them. You could say there are two options (for BOTH sides)when it comes to heartache and pain.. You can listen to Jesus' wisdom and forgive yourself, apologize, and ask them for forgiveness and move on (if you were the one that caused the heartache and pain) And if you were the victim of the hurt and pain you can listen to Jesus and forgive them if they apologize or you can keep the hate and misery. Or if you cause someone hurt and pain, you can be like Satan, and laugh about it saying they deserved it and you don't need to apologize and you don't Or if someone caused you hurt and pain and apologized you can ignore the wisdom of Jesus and choose not to forgive them and keep that hate and misery and seek revenge to hurt them back. I am very blessed to have love in my heart, no matter how much pain and hurt I've been dealt by unforgiving VENGEFUL people. I not only feel pain and hurt for causing pain and hurt to others, but I also feel pain and hurt by others who don't know how to forgive and enjoy causing me grief. So I'm doubled down in the den of heartache, pain, and, misery. But I do choose forgiveness and happiness to climb my way out of the dungeon of depression. 🤷 It might trap me for a minute, but I soon Shawshank redemption and dog my ass out of that prison cell back to my freedom and God given rights of agape love. And I thank my God EVERY day for those rights and his wisdom of truth and freedom from the dragons layer, and he helps me be the dragon slayer, and if watching my show doesn't prove what our wonderful heavenly Father, Jehovah, and His son, and their Spirit can do for a person under trials and tribulations then perhaps you should rethink the gods that you love and worship
Then you are cruel and shouldn't be here on this video, Because you are leaving a child that's gonna need their daddy to be there and they'll be broken and it'll be all your fault. So I hope you know you are messing up a little child's life by leaving. You should have used protection if you knew you couldn't be a good father to the baby and was gonna leave. That doesn't make you a man at all or cool.
@@joseespinoza93 my twig is in my pants thats why i dont have a KID my dad made the same mistake u did got my mom pregnant at a young age,he knew what he was doing they werent even married yet. instead of leaving he decided to actually take responsibility. Yes he had to work more but that hard work wont last forever 22 years later my dad and mom married now and have 11 kids and im ONE OF THEM Let Jesus help u in life if u dont believe in that stuff thats fine but u still know what u did. Running away doesnt help just causes more problems, dont be a turtle be the lion and stay with your young
Because I KNOW my God JEHOVAH is real, and His Truth, The Word, and His helper, The Holy Spirit has been my threefold of friends amongst "Satan's" attacks when I have suffered from abuse, neglect, revenge, lies, deceit, and the creepy stranger things, and NOBODY has showed they TRULY care by apologizing and forgiving. 🤷 but it's all good, I'm not seeking revenge, I've already showed I care by saying I'm sorry for MY erring ways, and I've already been forgiven by myself and my God, but I cannot control other people's choices of "To hate or not to hate," that's the questions of self reflection that they must do for themselves
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its sad when you remember all the memories back..
but it’s more sadder when you don’t even has a memories to remember
It's even more sad when it's both...
I know how you feel my biological dad left me when I was born and now I’m 23 and successful he wants to come back into my life after he hasn’t seen me since I was a baby I’m 23 now he being a dick bc I want nothing to do with him he mad I won’t let him around my kids I don’t want them to get attached to him then leaves like he did when I was born
I have no memory of him sucked when my other freinds dad came to there football games and awards ceremony but I had no one my mom passed away when I was 16
Its even more sad when you don't understand this
I dont think you should compare people's pain, it is sad either way. It is sad when you have nothing to remember of them but it is also sad when you can remember some and the memories haunt you and the memories hurt. Either way is indescribably sad.
my dad is a great dad now with his new childrens , i saw the smile
I am so sorry *hugs*
same here hun x
I can relate hope everything gets better
Hugs 🤗
Same
To quote my favorite will smith scene “how come he don’t want me?” I have asked this for the past 17 years…..I haven’t come to any answer yet
tell me when you do and yeah i ask myself that as well
I ask myself the same thing i am 17 also and still ask till this day
It was 12 years ago so why am I still heart broken
To all the people without a father I pray for you and plus I do not have a dad bc I was only 5 years old and now I am 13 and I don't need him but I still love him 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I hear you my dad left when I was 2 he keeps coming back, and I let him because he might have been a bad dad, but I love him.
My dad signed me over when I was three. I still love him, and forgive him. I forgive my adopted dad for turning me away the first time I asked him to play with me because he was busy. Never taught me anything. I forgive the other three men for not teaching me anything in life. I love them all and forgive them.
He can’t name one reason as to why he did what he did or why he doesn’t want me but I can name 1 million for him and even though I fucking hate him I still love him and I hate that I love him bc all he does is hurt me, no physically but mentally and emotionally.
I have the same problem it got so bad that me and my family had to move out he left me and my sisters and it hurt I still love him but I hate him for the wrong he has done and I hate him for staring at me with hate in his eyes but now he wants me back and I'm going to do what ever I can to stay with my mom and not see my dad all he put me through was mental abuse and now I have depression, racing thoughts, and a bunch of other problems that I have to live with because of him and no other people are not going to help me with my problems because my problems are now part of me I have to find a way to live with them but yeah it's be a tough 7 years for me he started this when I was 6 and now I'm 13 and my mom is trying to free us from him my mom was also mentally abuse but she was blinded by Faith that he would change but now she knows he can't.
I feel ur pain
I never met my dad...I always thought I could find him but now I know it's useless....I miss him I listen to songs and scream at someone who wasn't there in my life it's been 11 years now and I hate him but I miss him.....
Same but I got to but I wish he would visit more but he has other kids as in my 3 half siblings and 2 step siblings but still can't find time for me
My dad left when I was 2 and I promise myself that I wouldn’t give up on him cause if I give up on him I’m giving up on myself imma keep fight for him cause if he’s able to go see my brother he’ll find his way to me one day I might just run into somewhere
Ya my dad is the same but he had a hard childhood with his family and I'm waiting for him to give me the father love I wanted for 11 years but he didn't get it as a kid so he has a hard time doing it but all my cousins dad come with there kids but mine can't still
It's been 14 years. And it's hurts as ifnit was yesterday. It affects me still, i don't let anyone in. Not even my own mother, i like someone and then they like me back, i get scared and break their heart before they "break" mine. I push my friends away, just in case they leave, it won't hurt as much i think. I feel alone because I'm scared, and it's so hard to not be scared.
Ekaterina baez: I do the same thing to everyone i love even my own kids I'm scared of trusting anyone or getting with anyone because i am scared and that feeling isn't going away so I know exactly how you are feeling and what you're going thru
My dad left me when I was 9 months old I'm 15 now and I still can't forgive him I don't know why maybe because the fake lies he told me when I met him the cold hug he gave me every morning and before bed.I hate how he said the reason he didn't stay was because of my autism and adhd that's out of my control I wish things were different
All I have is memories of my father pushing me aside and leaving to the bar he left his baby girl me and now he wants me back no just no you left me now it's my turn to leave you I was daddy's little girl but now I'm no one's little girl yes I still love my dad and I see my mom was the other parent that care for me but still ever sense the day he pushed me aside and left for the bar I felt all alone even when in a room of 30 people or more I will feel lonely for the rest of my life because of the mental abuse and trust issues I now have I really hope he is happy
Its been a year since he's talked to me, the longest it's eve been and I know that all he does is hurt me but I still love my dad
This hit really hard
It’s sad for me to see all my
Friends have dads and have fun with them.
My dad left before I was born and he has a new family now and a wife. 😭 I love
My mom so much but there is just one missing part of my heart u know 😭 can anyone relate
? 😭😢 it is so hard for my to see
My half siblings have a dad and seeing how much fun they have with him 😭😢
I’m sorry it’s hard 😢
My dad left me when I was born and it still hurts me because I’m adopted
At least you have an amazing family who love you like there own. They are what matters, not him. X
I’m so sorry it hurts so badly
My dad abused me for 7 years let others hurt me in unimaginable ways I was assaulted by his step dad told I wants feminine enough didn’t have enough boobs for a bra I walked out in hopes he would try to keep me there it’s been almost a year stopped trying on me has become the best parent to my other sisters just not me and that shit hurts he has forgotten I was ever his kid and only talks to me to argue and I try to spend time with him he is always busy or says it’s cuz I want something I really just want his love no money just memories with him that don’t hurt
Hang in there baby just keep prayering your father comes back around. Tell him how you feel truly and honestly.
He loved me once.
the man i would do anything to never talk to again
My dad never cared about me he always paid attention to his girlfriend and his girlfriend's daughter but when I was younger I used to stay with him all the time and thought that he loved me but once I got older I realized that he is nothing but a piece of shit he doesn't do nothing he doesn't get me presents for my birthday or Christmas or any holiday I used to love my dad when I was younger but I'm 12 now and I realized he doesn't love me he loves his girlfriend and his girlfriend's daughter I always think of him cuz I didn't have a dad and I grew up without a dad my dad hasn't been here for 7 years but that's fine because I have a wonderful stepdad that takes care of me that loves me that cares for me and I am so grateful to have my stepdad here with me and my mom
I used to visit my dad until his mom threatened to kidnap me and my brother so my mom call CPS and the only way to get them put of my life was to tell him I didn't want to see him anymore. I knew deep down he was happy that he didn't have the responsibility of us anymore but I wanted to believe he loved us. I was hoping he would beg for us to stay he didn't.
my dad was very selfish he was abusive for my mom he always drank but before 5 years he knows that he is diabetes but he didn't stop drinking alcohol then 2 year ago the doctor told him his blood pressure was very high and he was in hospital for 3 weeks and after that he start to being nice to us he start to love my mom he stop dinking alcohol and now he give his full time for his family and we just forgive him or his past personality
if your father have a personality like my father's past personality i advice you to just pray i know your father don't listen you but remember god listen you he listen me and he solve my problem so trust me he is listing you and he is working in your problem
I’m today years old and I just realized that he wanna leave me since I was a child. Now he left…
my dad left out of the blue this march. he said he wanted freedom and to be by himself. he moved in with his new girlfriend, her dogs and kids three weeks ago.
he used to be a great dad.
This is so sad because I don't have a dad because he left on Christmas Eve and I miss him I think about him everyday he has never phoned my mom to say happy birthday to me because I haven't seen him for 3 years
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I have 2 dads. 1 was married to my mom and when I was going through the toughest time in my life he wasn’t there for me. My Biological dad didn’t under stand what was happening so he didn’t help. I only had my mom at that time. Btw I’m only 15
You know what when I was born my dad was not in home he was out of station he came back after ten years
I still have my dad but since I'm a girl he loves my brother's more since I can't do as much as they can even when I try my hardest to impress him it's always " ok that's nice" but when my brothers need something or do something he's so exsited and happy
🤍 Fuerza, cariño que acompañe y sostenga 🤍
My father has been in and out of my life since I was 4 he finally signed his rights away at 10 and now my new father the one adopted me choose drugs over me then choose a women over me and just walked out again last night and I am 16 now
i miss my dad.
I’m always happy
My dad left, he walked out the door and he killed himself. I can’t relate to the people who’s parents left but are alive, but it still hurts all the same cause I’m still wondering if I was ever enough and if I ever could be enough.
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It very surprisingly thaf your dad just doesnt want u n he want see see you when your like 13 or 14 and then u don't know if u want to see him or not bc your scared hes gonna break your heart again 😔😭😒 my dad didnt even feed me at once like when i was 2. He was never there for me but my other dad was. Hr told me that it is up to me to see himbor not but it wikk breka him and that im just to scared to see him like just in case he ever hurt me as he did when i was born 😔😔😔 but what the point having a dad when they don't bother it is there duty to stay by there childs side anytime anywhere .there just No point😔😔
I miss my dad he left my mom when I was 9❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
My das is the best 😁 he run away when I was born and come back when i was 10 then he run away with my best friend mother and blocked me on every contact we have I bet he has 4 children now and life happy while he left me traumatised and with daddy issues there
That’s the best father I ever have
My father chose drugs over me... I hardly remember the last time I saw him... And who needs a father?! Not me! I have a mother who is my father as well! I don't need my dad!
My dad left me when I was 2 now I’m 7 I love him I miss him
My dad is a great father, not to me but to my older siblings and to his new children…. Why does he hate me so much, What did I DO WRONG!? I WAS 1 WHEN HE LEFT AND WHEN HE CAME BACK HE DEVIDED THAT I WAS HIS PROBLEMS! i was the WORST that ever happend to him… What did i do?….
My father is always back and forth, I hate him so much for him leaving me and my mom and leaving like it was nothing to him but I can't hate him because he's my dad. But I just don't understand why he always chose other things over me, his daughter. A child who needs her father.. to protect me and be there when I get hurt and pick me right back up but no, I had my mother always and forever.. so yeah- father's leave and they come back.. and it hurts Everytime they leave but so happy when they come back and they can try to apologize and we might forgive but we'll never forget that they abandoned us and we'll always have a missing part in our hearts that they took.
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When I was little he was in and out of my life. Then when I was six I stopped seeing father altogether. Now my sister hates him and my brother loves him. I don't know who to agree with because I don't know my dad.
Dad is will forever love you although you left
My dad leaves us
My dad will text me and brother once every few years when he feels like it it’s stupid .
my dad left when I was 4 .he had beaten me and my mother but I still want to get to know him.And I don't understand why tbh
My dad left when I was 6 cause he hid a family with another kid my mom couldn’t pay bills cause it was only her and me so we had to live at my grandmas house so we slept in the living room for a year them my mom met my step dad and we bought a house now I am 13 and I forget he exists sometimes but I sometimes cry at night thinking I why did he leave me and my mom
It's been 7 months, I've lost my father. I'm doing well father. Wish you could see this❤
My dad left me and my 4 siblings and went on to have 8 more kids with 3 different women. It hurts man. Why weren’t me and my siblings enough for him?
My sister's friend dad went to he army when she was 2..... left her and started new family.. her names chloe.. I feel bad for her because she has mild trauma from it and her sister *(10 y.o)* said one time *(when they were arguing bout whos gonna get it ashes in a joking manner)* And her sister said *(the 10 y.o)* ;*IVE KNOWN HIM LONGER THEN ALL OF YOU*; She had a breakdown.. I wont go in detail thanks for reading
my dad left before ii was born , ii felt so empty w/o him , ii felt incomplete , he came into my life right befote ii graduated high school , he left me again , for his new family.
yeah i mean he‘s there for my older sister and his new family but he isn‘t for me and i hate him for that but i always have hope that he comes back and suddenly wants me as his daughter as well, guess that‘s not gonna happen i just don‘t understand why, i mean i wasn‘t even a year old when he left
My dad came back into my life after we got taken from dcs or cps he said he wanted me and my sister but only toke her and refuses to talk to me doesn't call doesn't answer and yet I still love him no matter how long I'm up every night crying or dreaming of dieing but you know like everyone says it gets better but it hasn't happened so what in the hell do I do
All I wanted was a father…..
When I was 6 my dad moved halfway across the world and got banned from my country. I'd rather ot give reasons but yeah, tough.
I'm 43 April 30th and, I never had my mom or dad. They Divorced when I was 9 yrs old. My mother abused me mentally and physically and for some reason my sister could do no wrong she's a yr older than me. My mom and, her boyfriend beat me to death and, kicked me out with the clothes on my back in the streets of Cali at the age of 10 lived on that streets till 14. But they were never there for me.mother took care of her as she died of lung cancer spread to brain. Never met my daughters except my oldest daughter. My father is still alive I used to go try to help him and, be there for him. But as we are sitting across from each other close and, he lets me know he never wanted fn kids. I wanted her to abort you. All I care about is my music, smoke,and that's it. I don't fn care. I don't need you. That hurt because the last time I was going down there I got in a severe vehicle accident at 70 miles an hour hit ditch head on and flipped like 7 times was ejected my teeth ripped all up from the glass window I flew out and was knocked out. Flown to trauma center I almost went into a deep coma. He just yelled at me so haven't spoken to him since Sept 26 th I crashed so about 2 weeks or 3 after the accident. And told me I'm an idiot ECT. Women and, children should be seen and not heard. F**k my egg and, sperm donor. Raised myself and, have 5 beautiful daughters and 5 grandchildren. AND THREE WEEKS AGO I FOUND OUT I HAVE CANCER IN MY NECK BESIDES ALL THE RARE CONDITIONS I HAVE. AND NO ONE CARES IM FIXING TO GO TO SURGERY TO GET THIS CANCER REMOVED FROM MY NECK. IT HURTS FOREVER NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU GET. I PRAY NO CHILD EVER HAS PARENTS LIKE MINE.😢
My dad is in Florida 😢😢😢😢😢
i know how it feels my dad left me befor i was born i know who he is and hes a back stapping tradior and i know who he is i know hes name and every thing iv been seeking for him for so long he has 2 kids and another wife he forgot about me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😞😞😞😞😞😞😟😟😟😟😟😟🥶
my dad left 1 year ago today he’s been an off and on drug addict and he stole almost everything in my house i’ll never forgive him
The thing is my father stayed and my mother left
Fathers leave while their job is to stay
I don’t get how my mom has seen so much of him in me. He left before I was even born because she couldn’t be responsible for his mistake. And he’s a full fucking adult yet I was still able to take care of my little brother, which may I add has ADHD and I was fucking 6 when I had to take care of him ALONE. Like are you shitting me? SIC YEARS OLD. and you’re a fully grown adult and couldn’t take responsibility for a single child. What a guy.
I don't wanna see him again anyway
My dad left me for drugs
I want to forgive my dad but I can’t so I just forget him and laugh through the pain he’s left me
You know , to my father i would say , where were you , what happened thay was so important that you couldnt teach to ride the bike , play baseball , and soany other things that i almost founf in someone else . But when you found out my mom was dating someone else you said if it was true that i had found someone else to be my dad , and i couldnt answer . Because it was true , he was never there for 6 years I had met him and he disappeared and if I try to have a relationship with him he pushes me away so f him I can do anything I want without him .
Well umm my dad well i dont really know him he lifted when i was born so ya i wish i had a dad
i was trying to look for memes but uhh hi everyone
(;< remember Jesus is your heavenly father and will forever be with u and leave leave your side if u think hes not there its bc he’s waiting for u to start talking to him then he will talk back
My mom made me leave my dad for 11 years of my life and he comes back in my life saying he's going to stay my mom and dad were fine but then fighting was happening and more and then she says she's done then they she's says NVM we are still working on our selfs and my dad had a hard childhood and stuff he came around to see me and then he stopped because he's trying to get the money to get a house for us but now I'm stuck thing is his work more important then me while we my dad for 11 years I found out I had 3 half siblings and 2 step siblings and I see that he finds time for them but not me and it's been 2 months sense he came to visit it hurts still mom says give him time how much time do I have to give him until he's ready to fully come to my life mom says as long as it takes and im now stuck with a messed up head
im in care im 16
My dad left me for another family he let me go for another daughter for another son and he let me go like a piece of trash I don't forgive him he left and that was his choice
You know divorce does hurt kids. Bad relationships hurt kids, neglectful parents hurt kids, abusive parents hurt kids, over powering parents hurt kids, parents with addictions hurt kids,, many many things hurt BOTH children AND adults, but you can either let it take you down in a pity party, seek revenge causing more heartache and pain for BOTH the vengeful and the victim of revenge and let that hate boil inside causing yourself and the person you hate misery. Or you can let love guide you and remain in your heart realizing that it's not you, it's them. You could say there are two options (for BOTH sides)when it comes to heartache and pain..
You can listen to Jesus' wisdom and forgive yourself, apologize, and ask them for forgiveness and move on (if you were the one that caused the heartache and pain)
And if you were the victim of the hurt and pain you can listen to Jesus and forgive them if they apologize or you can keep the hate and misery.
Or if you cause someone hurt and pain, you can be like Satan, and laugh about it saying they deserved it and you don't need to apologize and you don't
Or if someone caused you hurt and pain and apologized you can ignore the wisdom of Jesus and choose not to forgive them and keep that hate and misery and seek revenge to hurt them back.
I am very blessed to have love in my heart, no matter how much pain and hurt I've been dealt by unforgiving VENGEFUL people. I not only feel pain and hurt for causing pain and hurt to others, but I also feel pain and hurt by others who don't know how to forgive and enjoy causing me grief. So I'm doubled down in the den of heartache, pain, and, misery. But I do choose forgiveness and happiness to climb my way out of the dungeon of depression. 🤷 It might trap me for a minute, but I soon Shawshank redemption and dog my ass out of that prison cell back to my freedom and God given rights of agape love. And I thank my God EVERY day for those rights and his wisdom of truth and freedom from the dragons layer, and he helps me be the dragon slayer, and if watching my show doesn't prove what our wonderful heavenly Father, Jehovah, and His son, and their Spirit can do for a person under trials and tribulations then perhaps you should rethink the gods that you love and worship
I’m a soon to be father. And I don’t want to be. I want to abandon the girl I don’t love and the pregnancy. This video doesn’t change my mind either.
Then you are cruel and shouldn't be here on this video, Because you are leaving a child that's gonna need their daddy to be there and they'll be broken and it'll be all your fault. So I hope you know you are messing up a little child's life by leaving. You should have used protection if you knew you couldn't be a good father to the baby and was gonna leave. That doesn't make you a man at all or cool.
then keep your twig in your pants 😐 even i know that im still a teenager geez
@@MrLaPrune1337 exactly. Just live life kid. It ain’t as simple and keep your twig in your pants.
@@joseespinoza93 my twig is in my pants thats why i dont have a KID my dad made the same mistake u did got my mom pregnant at a young age,he knew what he was doing they werent even married yet. instead of leaving he decided to actually take responsibility. Yes he had to work more but that hard work wont last forever 22 years later my dad and mom married now and have 11 kids and im ONE OF THEM Let Jesus help u in life if u dont believe in that stuff thats fine but u still know what u did. Running away doesnt help just causes more problems, dont be a turtle be the lion and stay with your young
Because I KNOW my God JEHOVAH is real, and His Truth, The Word, and His helper, The Holy Spirit has been my threefold of friends amongst "Satan's" attacks when I have suffered from abuse, neglect, revenge, lies, deceit, and the creepy stranger things, and NOBODY has showed they TRULY care by apologizing and forgiving. 🤷 but it's all good, I'm not seeking revenge, I've already showed I care by saying I'm sorry for MY erring ways, and I've already been forgiven by myself and my God, but I cannot control other people's choices of "To hate or not to hate," that's the questions of self reflection that they must do for themselves
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