Actually I had never use Instagram Facebook but from last 2 months I'm using it and it makes me depressed, sad without any reason I don't know why maybe I don't know how to use it wisely 😊
@@tejsingh1758Instagram is the worst app I use it’s so bad especially the comments they can’t even write without the N word and they are so ummm addicts so it’s just too bad
They don't, that's why they are busy criticising her when in actual sense she included the words, "nearly impossible for her younger generation including hers. TAKE BREAKS."
@@tokunboadeboboye Not actually. Social media was giving me a lot of stress. My mental health got so much better after leaving everything. Regained my self confidence.
It makes u sad , depressed without any reason u will always start comparing yourself with others like why I'm not like them ...... That's what actually happened with me since past 2 months
@@BananasPogo I bet you don't understand English. She clearly said it's nearly impossible to say it to her younger generation including hers which includes her as well. And she also said take breaks, not entirely but take breaks.
@user-gbfjj5435 RUclips doesn't count for me because I only watch videos 😂and it keeps me busy. I left twitter cuz it's so toxic. Lost interest in Facebook a long time ago, it's actually been 4 years now. And sometimes I feel like giving up on WhatsApp too
I'm 19 years old and I've never installed Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, or Snapchat. Honestly, I think it's a good thing. Although sometimes it can be very lonely, I'm happy. I've seen people who are addicted to Snapchat and Instagram, and upload everything about their lives. I've never felt the need to install those apps.
Heard the best thing, early in the morning. I’m 23 years old and I don’t have a Facebook, Instagram and even a twitter account, it’s been a month now and I’m happy without being active on any of my social accounts. What I feel is, live in the moment, enjoy every moment, there’s nothing to get busy on this devices every single time.
So she says after making her millions. Well let others make their millions too. Social media is far more interesting than real talk with people I think anyways
Is she though? She doesn't even lead by example. She is the most followed woman on instagram. Does she just know the right thing to say? A true mature move would be her actually getting off of social media herself. Its like a cartel telling people not to do drugs when they are providing drugs
@alstroemeriamorada when did she say that she doesn't use social media at all ? Lol . It's just important to know that all we see online isn't 100% true. That's it.
@@alstroemeriamoradashe also said immediately, that that advice would be a nearly impossible thing to do for a generation younger than her or even her own generation. And further said, even if one would use social Media, they should understand that 90% of what they see on Social Media is fake and doesn't define who we are as a person (as stated in the video) She isn't preaching against social Media but against the sensations around it and ensuring we preserve who we are and our identity, rather than letting what we see on social media influence us or make us demean ourselves. She also encouraged us to try to put our device down sometimes so we can enjoy our immediate world "more like we shouldn't loose the joy that comes from our immediate reality for the fancy things we see on social media" That's why someone said she's mature. And of course, she's one of the most followed person on Social Media. That's because her song and the gift she has for the world can be shared on social media, same as you and every other person.... Our gift to the world can be shared to a boarder audience via social media. But then, she is telling younger generations not to get lost in the allure or pressure that comes with using social media. Love and light 💫🌹
I'm 34. I don't have social media. When i was younger, i have some because some of my friends pushed me, but i got bored with it as soon as I tried it. I'm married & i have kids. I'm not always happy. But i'm who i am. I'm not someone else. I'm not popular, but I can feel people around me love me. And the thing is.. my life is real.
JESUS IS THE WAY TO TRUE happiness and true peac. I was on the verge of suicide when I found Jesus. He saved me from an eternity in Hell, which is the eternity of persons who live in sin and forsake Jesus Christ's true Way, and Jesus changed my life, and I have never been the same.
@@cbmorre4909 True though. But it's less personal. I don't follow (subscribe) people in my circle here, and they don't follow me too. In the comment section, people don't know me, and i don't know them. So, when i share thoughts, stories, and ideas here, it's less harmful to me. Also, I don't share videos of my life here, and it's easier to make limitations for my self here, such as i don't watch videos about personal lives, so that I don't need to compare what i have and what people have.
Best advice I’ve heard in awhile. We care so much about things that shouldn’t have so much power over us. Looks are only skin deep, it’s the heart that matters & being present with those who care about you, because our time is precious.❤
@@InderjeetSingh-ui2gk if u are able to control yourself from using FB insta and Twitter than yt shorts is no big problem . And yt short is better than insta atleast
Angelin_Babu yeah so perfect that she's glued to it running around her exes GFS making them a prey for cyberbullying and act like a victim and take 2 mins of social media break🤣🤣😂😂
@@Angelin_Babu she's as shady as celebrity is....she is just good @ playing victim....mocking her exes beauty routine...calling herself ugly and not pretty as her exe's gf and sending her blind fans to harass her exes gfs or wives and stealing organs in the pretext of friendship and then dumping them as they are nothing...what I meant is if for her social media feels soo bad then why not leave it?.....there are a lot of celebs who are not on social media....but no she has to act holier than thou and say it's affecting my mental health and then comes back after a couple of hours? And also you don't have to quit anything just because a celebrity is saying so, you can have a healthy presence and enjoy both the lives.....don't follow any celebrity blindly cos of you quit because she said then the hypocrisy lies in her as she still is on it and crazy active and addicted to it...
@@aryanamboodiri9156yeah yeah!!! she's not like other celebrities.she's humble and kind towards other's.and you know what its my perspective and choice to be not active in Instagram.i don't wanna be like other jelly fishes coz i dont need to showoff in Instagram to value my self-worth and to satisfy everyone.thats y I'm not interested in social media platforms.and in my perspective Instagram is a platform to showcase.There is a huge difference in hooking up and love
@aryanamboodiri9156 you reach so hard, why whenever hailey does something its always a coincidence but when selena does something she meant harm? I'm talking about your claims of her shading hailey, the kidney ordeal which her kidiney donor is still in contact with her and sending her fans to attack her. Many times already she had told her fans before to stop bullying Hailey a little research won't hurt. The problem is you claim to know her as a person but you can't know fs because as she said 90% of things is social media is fake and whatever goes on here does not define onself. tell me have you met her in person to actually know all these things about her is actually true?
Im 17 and happily away from social media site like no instgram no Snapchat no fb no nothing their was this time were i was struggling to lose my addiction to many social media sites but now i can happily say that its worth it staying away from it.
I agree with you on that Selena I love you Selena gomez ❤❤and your songs all of them keep it up the good work you are so beautiful and pretty and gorgeous sweet and kind and lovely caring person 💖
I'm 25 and it's been a year since I have stopped using any social media and I've never felt great.. and now I never want to return to social media ever again
Its been a month without social media . It feels really peaceful, calm and stable. I've learnt this the hard way but not using social media is the best thing ive done to myself.
I have stopped social media. It's been 4 months now and I can't tell you how amazing I feel after doing this. Went through some serious mental trauma because of my boyfriend that I happened to come across on social media itself. That tore me apart into pieces and the very next thing I did was to shut it all down and not see the faces of the people who mean nothing to me. Focused on myself and I feel much much much better now. Always prioritize yourself. Yes 90 percent of the drama u see online is fake so stop wasting your time faking things out to indulge in this gruesome crowd. Be yourself. Be free.
I would give the same advice to her ngl 😂 The amount of time selena has said "im getting off social media" like its not for u, u cannot handle it...just leave.
couldn't agree more 😂 everytime something happens she declares it to the world that she is leaving social media but then just after a few days we get her back doing her usual stuffs
She has aldready achieved a lot if things in life so she is free to post such things She's an artist and enterprenure too bro She just adviced for teenagers and younger generation Just be insecure and find faults on good advices bro that has clearly defined your range for her and your insecurity towards her
and you have account with millions of followers and gaining millions of dollars and now posting your private life with your fiancé in social media !!!!!!!!! Selena stop lying to yourself it's not good
100% true ...i am 20 years and i have 4 years without social media ...and this was my best decision that i ever made in my life . I am focusing only on my life and myself and feel so peace 🤍
This is the best thing I have heard today, I'm 19 years old and I don't have Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter.
And I'm happy without it
Same here
Ah, I used to think I was weird for not using certain apps, but it's nice to know there are still others who don't use them.
But u are addicted to yt
Same here ❤
Same here.... Absolutely I'm soo happy girl🥰
Yes there is so much mental peace without social media 😌
Actually I had never use Instagram Facebook but from last 2 months I'm using it and it makes me depressed, sad without any reason I don't know why maybe I don't know how to use it wisely 😊
Yaa.... I also feel it.. I started using IG now it stopped it... I feel more relaxed and focus on things.
@@tejsingh1758Instagram is the worst app I use it’s so bad especially the comments they can’t even write without the N word and they are so ummm addicts so it’s just too bad
True 😊😍
I get depressed when I use Facebook, so I deleted my account. I don't want to use it anymore and I think I feel better psychologically 😢❤
She is correct. Social media is poison. Enjoy life, real life! It goes by so fast!
RUclips is also social media.
Only when used in a wrong way. Otherwise if we use it as a tool, it is benefitting.
life should be slow :c
Its just as bad in real life lol
💯
without social media is so peaceful. you are correct
“Be a part of the world”!
So powerful words!!
I wish more people understood her words.
Did you?
They don't, that's why they are busy criticising her when in actual sense she included the words, "nearly impossible for her younger generation including hers. TAKE BREAKS."
This is so true!!! I have deleted fb, insta, twitter, Snapchat back in 2019 and it helped me so much in fighting my mental health issues.
Me too 😅 I focused on practicing my religion better. Alhamdulillah I'm feeling a lot better. It's definitely waste of time and energy 😅
Tell me about the experience. It was difficult at first yeah?
@@tokunboadeboboye Not actually. Social media was giving me a lot of stress. My mental health got so much better after leaving everything. Regained my self confidence.
It makes u sad , depressed without any reason u will always start comparing yourself with others like why I'm not like them ...... That's what actually happened with me since past 2 months
Brilliant ...life is to short . Be in the moment ✨️
Best advice from someone in the spotlight
Yet she is chronically online 💀
@@BananasPogo I bet you don't understand English. She clearly said it's nearly impossible to say it to her younger generation including hers which includes her as well. And she also said take breaks, not entirely but take breaks.
Except WhatsApp i do not have any other social media accounts. One of the best decision i have ever made. So peaceful. 😌
@user-gbfjj5435 RUclips doesn't count for me because I only watch videos 😂and it keeps me busy.
I left twitter cuz it's so toxic. Lost interest in Facebook a long time ago, it's actually been 4 years now. And sometimes I feel like giving up on WhatsApp too
😂😂
RUclips is also social media 😅
@@NandiniRam1746 It is
I have only youtube , pinterest and whatsapp
I gave up on these social media and felt the peace. It's unexplainable.
I love Selena and her mind...the way she thinks
she’s pro terrorism
It's 100% true
Im 13 and listening to this changed my whole life. Thank you❤
I can definitely say that leaving social media was the best decision for me and I feel more confident and happy without it.
Me too
Her grace and intelligence blow me away again and again. Such wise words. Appreciate her.
I don't have Facebook Instagram and Twitter account..I'm 25 years now and I'm happy without this social media thing..
Welcome to RUclips
Mee too😊
@@Deepu2994😂
I'm 19 years old and I've never installed Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, or Snapchat. Honestly, I think it's a good thing. Although sometimes it can be very lonely, I'm happy. I've seen people who are addicted to Snapchat and Instagram, and upload everything about their lives. I've never felt the need to install those apps.
I'm 20 ..cheers bro
I came off social media 3 years ago. It’s the best thing I did as I realised people who I thought were my friends are all fake.
It's three months I uninstalled fb and insta only watsapp is there
I have also been off it for 3 years I feel relief
I think for me it has been 8 yrs since I came off fb & best decision as I'm so much happier & present in MY life now
So true
Absolutely true 😢
I agree with her before social media everyone was a social person now with social media everyone is a depressed person 😢
She speaks so true that's why i love her
I highly respect her for that 💯
Heard the best thing, early in the morning. I’m 23 years old and I don’t have a Facebook, Instagram and even a twitter account, it’s been a month now and I’m happy without being active on any of my social accounts. What I feel is, live in the moment, enjoy every moment, there’s nothing to get busy on this devices every single time.
Like me.
Yeah.. she's right.. It’s hard for her to leave social media.. And social media probably brought her more pain than many other people...😢
So she says after making her millions. Well let others make their millions too. Social media is far more interesting than real talk with people I think anyways
Now she is mature
Is she though? She doesn't even lead by example. She is the most followed woman on instagram. Does she just know the right thing to say? A true mature move would be her actually getting off of social media herself. Its like a cartel telling people not to do drugs when they are providing drugs
@alstroemeriamorada when did she say that she doesn't use social media at all ? Lol .
It's just important to know that all we see online isn't 100% true. That's it.
She is old 😕
She is always mature dude😢
@@alstroemeriamoradashe also said immediately, that that advice would be a nearly impossible thing to do for a generation younger than her or even her own generation.
And further said, even if one would use social Media, they should understand that 90% of what they see on Social Media is fake and doesn't define who we are as a person (as stated in the video)
She isn't preaching against social Media but against the sensations around it and ensuring we preserve who we are and our identity, rather than letting what we see on social media influence us or make us demean ourselves.
She also encouraged us to try to put our device down sometimes so we can enjoy our immediate world "more like we shouldn't loose the joy that comes from our immediate reality for the fancy things we see on social media"
That's why someone said she's mature.
And of course, she's one of the most followed person on Social Media. That's because her song and the gift she has for the world can be shared on social media, same as you and every other person.... Our gift to the world can be shared to a boarder audience via social media. But then, she is telling younger generations not to get lost in the allure or pressure that comes with using social media.
Love and light
💫🌹
Almost 2 years without social media and trust her words there is a beauty of life in front of you and peace of mind it’s amazing
It breaks my heart to see people hating on such a lovely, kind , angelic person 💔 😢
I'm 34. I don't have social media. When i was younger, i have some because some of my friends pushed me, but i got bored with it as soon as I tried it. I'm married & i have kids. I'm not always happy. But i'm who i am. I'm not someone else. I'm not popular, but I can feel people around me love me. And the thing is.. my life is real.
👏
JESUS IS THE WAY TO TRUE happiness and true peac. I was on the verge of suicide when I found Jesus. He saved me from an eternity in Hell, which is the eternity of persons who live in sin and forsake Jesus Christ's true Way, and Jesus changed my life, and I have never been the same.
How did you type this comment then? RUclips is a media platform, where you’re socialializing in its comment section.
@@cbmorre4909 True though. But it's less personal. I don't follow (subscribe) people in my circle here, and they don't follow me too. In the comment section, people don't know me, and i don't know them. So, when i share thoughts, stories, and ideas here, it's less harmful to me. Also, I don't share videos of my life here, and it's easier to make limitations for my self here, such as i don't watch videos about personal lives, so that I don't need to compare what i have and what people have.
I’ve said this 100 times and I’ll say it again… she is my favorite celebrity!
I adore her ❤,she is most honest, sincere, pure and smart lady ❤️
I’m 35, around Selena’s age, I haven’t done any social media for the last 13-14 years, it’s become a way of life. Highly recommend
that is the best advice for younger generation😢😢
I love SELENA GOMEZ😊😊❤❤❤
You can't get better advice then this ❤
She's saying the universal truth 😊😊😊
Her voice is psychological comfort ❤❤❤
This girl is so down to earth with what she’s saying in her interviews! She’s right
It is one of the best things to say to a young person. Well done Selina ❤ Thank you! ❤
Such strong words...i just love this woman❤
nah she’s terrible
@@grassdungeon8433 just like your mom 😏
@@Samrawit738 my mom doesn’t support terrorists
@graswjat do u mean by terrorists who are the terrorists sdungeon8433
Best advice I’ve heard in awhile.
We care so much about things that shouldn’t have so much power over us. Looks are only skin deep, it’s the heart that matters & being present with those who care about you, because our time is precious.❤
This is the best speech I have ever heard from celebrities ❤❤❤
100%true .......I love you and appreciate you
Bruuhhhh Mannnn... what a words 👍 In some corner she is best in inspiration
She is 💯 right on this 😊🙌🏻
And that's why we love Selena
She's so real ~~~ she always says about reality ~~That's why I like her a lot ❤️❤️
I love her so much she is so beautiful and deserves the world and more🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
She is beauty with brains......n even downto earth person....rare to see these days...
Her voice is such inspiring ❤
I want youtube to show me this video 1 million times a day !
She became sadder and sadder over the last few years. I with her more joy and happiness ❤
What a beautiful , intelligent, articulate , brave and honest young woman.
True it's peace ❤ you will be more drawn to your real life
Too good, too true, honesty at its best.
As a gen z i don't have Instagram , Facebook, Twitter account and i am so happy about don't fall in social media trap.
Me too
You have you tube shorts 😂
That's what through which we enjoy 🤣@@InderjeetSingh-ui2gk
@@InderjeetSingh-ui2gk if u are able to control yourself from using FB insta and Twitter than yt shorts is no big problem . And yt short is better than insta atleast
Proud of you 👏🏻
Without social media : mental freedom ❤
It's true 😢❤
Even a 100 years to come this statement will live on, so powerful 🎉
Exactly. Love her because she can think deep.
Selena Gomez is always perfect.I used to understand her songs and that's y i quit Instagram and other platforms there she says enough is enough
Angelin_Babu yeah so perfect that she's glued to it running around her exes GFS making them a prey for cyberbullying and act like a victim and take 2 mins of social media break🤣🤣😂😂
@@aryanamboodiri9156Anyway she's not shady as other celebrities and bfs exes tbh atleast she's is living in her own reputation and not a copycat
@@Angelin_Babu she's as shady as celebrity is....she is just good @ playing victim....mocking her exes beauty routine...calling herself ugly and not pretty as her exe's gf and sending her blind fans to harass her exes gfs or wives and stealing organs in the pretext of friendship and then dumping them as they are nothing...what I meant is if for her social media feels soo bad then why not leave it?.....there are a lot of celebs who are not on social media....but no she has to act holier than thou and say it's affecting my mental health and then comes back after a couple of hours? And also you don't have to quit anything just because a celebrity is saying so, you can have a healthy presence and enjoy both the lives.....don't follow any celebrity blindly cos of you quit because she said then the hypocrisy lies in her as she still is on it and crazy active and addicted to it...
@@aryanamboodiri9156yeah yeah!!! she's not like other celebrities.she's humble and kind towards other's.and you know what its my perspective and choice to be not active in Instagram.i don't wanna be like other jelly fishes coz i dont need to showoff in Instagram to value my self-worth and to satisfy everyone.thats y I'm not interested in social media platforms.and in my perspective Instagram is a platform to showcase.There is a huge difference in hooking up and love
@aryanamboodiri9156 you reach so hard, why whenever hailey does something its always a coincidence but when selena does something she meant harm? I'm talking about your claims of her shading hailey, the kidney ordeal which her kidiney donor is still in contact with her and sending her fans to attack her. Many times already she had told her fans before to stop bullying Hailey a little research won't hurt. The problem is you claim to know her as a person but you can't know fs because as she said 90% of things is social media is fake and whatever goes on here does not define onself. tell me have you met her in person to actually know all these things about her is actually true?
Im 17 and happily away from social media site like no instgram no Snapchat no fb no nothing their was this time were i was struggling to lose my addiction to many social media sites but now i can happily say that its worth it staying away from it.
I agree with you on that Selena I love you Selena gomez ❤❤and your songs all of them keep it up the good work you are so beautiful and pretty and gorgeous sweet and kind and lovely caring person 💖
Very important advice❤I like she a lot
So lovely! I wish her well
Recently I am following this keeping away social media.. I am happy and I am connected to nature
Enjoy what is around you❤️🙏
Selena you are the one who explained about truth and fair view of world and i impressed by your speech thank you
In these days , living without social media is a abother kind of luxury ❤
Yes. I agree. I'm 23. And i dont use social media now since more than a year.
I agree with you Selena ❤
I'm 25 and it's been a year since I have stopped using any social media and I've never felt great.. and now I never want to return to social media ever again
What a wise woman. Selena is very special.
Its been a month without social media . It feels really peaceful, calm and stable. I've learnt this the hard way but not using social media is the best thing ive done to myself.
I’m off other social media than RUclips for last 3 years. Very peaceful 😊
She speaks facts!
it's been 7 months that I left social media and I feel so happy now
Most sensible celebrity I saw in my childhood . She is an intelligent woman
I have stopped social media. It's been 4 months now and I can't tell you how amazing I feel after doing this. Went through some serious mental trauma because of my boyfriend that I happened to come across on social media itself. That tore me apart into pieces and the very next thing I did was to shut it all down and not see the faces of the people who mean nothing to me. Focused on myself and I feel much much much better now. Always prioritize yourself. Yes 90 percent of the drama u see online is fake so stop wasting your time faking things out to indulge in this gruesome crowd. Be yourself. Be free.
I am 27 & i currently have no social media accounts. I deactivated all of them & I am at peace now. 😊
Definitely right 🎉❤ always love you ❤❤ Selena
Precious advice ❤
She’s an amazing person, wish people would learn from this amazing young woman.
Simply enjoying yourself with yourself,nature, and genuinely open-minded human beings ❤
Am 22 ❤and I don’t have Facebook , twitter and Instagram ❤am happy abt it
I want to give up phone but I can't cuz everything is on phone today.
Like every services.
But I will give up soon.
So true
Best advice that I've heard for very-very long time!
OMG! Her true & simple words just really shooked me 🥺😲❤️
I would give the same advice to her ngl 😂
The amount of time selena has said "im getting off social media" like its not for u, u cannot handle it...just leave.
couldn't agree more 😂 everytime something happens she declares it to the world that she is leaving social media but then just after a few days we get her back doing her usual stuffs
It means u both follow her 😮🤣😂. By the way call her bhabhi ok next year I m going to marry her 😁.
@@samriddhidutta9016 yes 😂
@@abhijitkalita6938 it's morning, u can wake up from ur dream now 😂😂
@@lavanya_singh_yGud morning my friend 🥱😴😪.
Selena maybe take your own advice.
She is saying get off social media when she posts everyday and every silly thing everyday 😂😂😂😂😂
💯
That’s her job
She is a hypocrite, and she has narcissism written all over her. Plays the innocent card always and that's how her brand works.
@@oo-hy1vkand your job is to defend her? Use ur brain atleast
She has aldready achieved a lot if things in life so she is free to post such things
She's an artist and enterprenure too bro
She just adviced for teenagers and younger generation
Just be insecure and find faults on good advices bro that has clearly defined your range for her and your insecurity towards her
You are correct, social media is poison❤
She just showed us the truth that's why I love her ❤
It's true
Says a girl with an account having lots of followers 😂.u stop first
She talking about herself lol "whatever u see on social media is fake "
You are So Right, So Smart, You are Real, Nothing Fake❤Your Amazing Person ❤
Best advice I ever heard recently.It's touched my bottom of heart.❤
Can SHE do that??? Girl takes 2hours break everyday and comes back to create more drama 😭 BE FOR FCKING REAL RIGHT NOW
True that such a drama Queen
and you have account with millions of followers and gaining millions of dollars and now posting your private life with your fiancé in social media
!!!!!!!!!
Selena stop lying to yourself it's not good
You should follow your advice first before giving 90% fake advice
Wrong one' only guide u becz they have seen everything and felt everything
Selena - I am getting off social media
A few days later- I am back. lol 🤮
100% true ...i am 20 years and i have 4 years without social media ...and this was my best decision that i ever made in my life . I am focusing only on my life and myself and feel so peace 🤍
i love how shes being truthful and honest while at the same also knowing that its easier said than done. Showing that she rlly do care.
I haven't been on social media in over 25 years and I feel great