I'm an INFJ and my best friend is an ENTP. I always admired how he is able to walk through life and express himself so freely without really caring what other people think of him. It's like a super power I wish I had. I remember when we first met. We were in college and I was sitting at a table with him and 4 other people and one of them said a joke and everybody laughed. I thought it was funny, but I kinda just smiled and looked down at the desk in front of me. The guy who told the joke pointed at me and said "You need to lighten up and laugh more!" The table went quiet and before I could respond. The ENTP said "Nah, he thought it was funny, he's just a laugh on the inside kind of person!" I was floored! This guy (having only known me for a couple days) was able to come up with such an articulate and dead on truth about who I was. He's one of the only people who I feel really got me.
Im an ENTP and my best friend's an INFJ. I've always been drawn to her amazing, caring attitude towards other people. She went through some shit in the past, and I can tell she's still a bit messed up by it. No one else seems to notice it and it seems like she ignores in order to put people above herself. I see what's going on and I try to put as much sympathy(even though Im not to good at that) as I can to help her. I also give her a crap ton of logical analytical solutions. It's strange, because somehow, Im the only one that seems to willingly take her back down to earth. As for myself, she seems to have given me a reason to actually care for someone, deeply, in my non emotional life. She has inspired to take care of others in their time of need and Im really thankful that shes in my life.
We're not overrated, we're humans too with feelings. And if you're boasting about making people cry, then perhaps you should evaluate yourself as a human rather than us ENTP types.
So because you don't care what you assume is my worthless existence, then it follows that I shouldn't care nether LOL you're an idiot. No wonder you try to make other people feel bad about themselves. You're an idiot who can't follow basic logic LOL. And what makes you think you have any control over what I call you? O_o LOL. Calm down, mate. You have no control here. stop crying about your lack of intellect. you're not making anyone cry here but yourself, kid.
Very true... we ENTP's truely, really, absolutely *require* honesty. On feelings, emotions, everyting. Full and complete honesty, far more then other types do.. because we have a strong need to understand and then we can empathize. And then we can empathize very deeply. And yes, we are incompatible with xSFJ's.. there is no room for continual growth with them. It just gets stuck at a for ENTPs very unsatisfying point.
Yeah, I saw that with my ENTP ex-girlfriend and INFJs are hardwired to being mysterious, it's not intentional nor malicious, we just can't help it. But it does make it harder for ENTPs to figure us out, and we know ENTPs gets bored easily once they figure someone out.
Im entp and i never had a serious relationship, all of them seem boring and meaningless so i ditched them because i couldnt force myself to pretend being someone else, then i meet a woman at my 24s and damn we were like made for each other, i knew before i was entp, but after a month or so i made her do the test, she was INFJ and then i laughed so hard because i really knew all along she one infj i even joked just before she ended the test remember you are infj
I have a very hard time with relationships because I am an ENTP. No one is prepared to date us. I've had so many say that I'm too truthful and I seem cold. I don't express emotion like everyone else. My independence hinders me. I always tell someone before they get too involved that this is me and I'm not changing that. Not only in love, in work as well. I'm an unconventional thinker, people don't like that.
***** Hi Klae, since I had to learn to create an Ego and not be so selfless and concentrated on others in order to survive maybe it would also be helpful if you change that about yourself a little bit as well. We do live in a society where people need each other in order to get forward in life and where others opinions should also be valued to some degree. I valued them to much, maybe you value them too little? This is just food for thought :)
***** : people skills are important in most areas of life. We can't just go around doing whatever we want and not worry about offending others. I'd suggest to look into researching into what motivates people; at least some of it should be simple fixes for you. "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a good, not-to-long read about the subject. -- XNTP bluntness :-)
So the game plan should be how to, having obtained an appreciation of people, most effectively transmit that truth to them. In the human metric, the shortest distance may not be a straight line.
We infj love entp. I have an entp friend and we have insane chemistry we barely argue we talk about deep things effortlessly. never have I been with someone who gets my sense of humour so much and he reads me so well same time I'm complicated for him he even said Ur annoying but I can't stop taking to you. 😂😂 we visit many deep deep places that I never go with anyone other than myself.
The thing is basically you show people your clown side or your detachment. It takes time to people see more than that. First impressions will suck a lot. But ESFJ and ISFJ really don't mind it as they usually can see more than that or reach further. I don't know really. There are people who really like hear the truth. Clears their mind or something. ENTPs do not enter into personal realm with truths at all which makes it even more stranger to us to comprehend. In general people do not like detachment. If you are looking people at their sheepish states (schools etc) then they wont come out and express it. It takes time for many to outgrow/ditch pack mentality. Sure they can express it when it is not endanger their position in a pack. Like an xSFJ who sees her ENTP uncle. Later you'll hear from people who say that they like strangely thinking types.
I like that you say look if you're upset with an entp, just tell them.Because if you are not, we can see it, maybe not exactly what is bugging you but we notice things very strongly, and if you don't tell us why you are upset with us we ned to guess , or feel sort of "lied to".Whilst, if you tell us exactly you said this, that made me feel like that, because of this reason,it might sting, but we can analyse and if we like you chances are very big we will try to improve that behaviour
So on point me ex infp i was head over heals for 10 months but she couldnt ever speak up and she wanted to guard my feelings and that did = to lying and it drove me be unstable and have mental break downs im so in love still its been a couple days since we talked she let me in to her secret little world and i was fully in she was not life is funny like that sometimes
"He's not an INFJ, he can't have that intution of my feelings and of how my emotional state is" I'm an ENTP (right down to the functions), and what most of my close friends value about me is that I can tell them their exact emotional states with one glance. And often phrase it better than they could. An INFJ I'd known at one point was uncomfortable with how well I read her; saying stuff about her before she figured it out herself. Empathy and theory of mind are basic human qualities; the potential determination to develop them being dependent on the individual.
You could possibly be a very healthy and developed entp, I know that entp certainly feel empathetic, and feel intuitive and entp's do have these capabilities. I feel that entp's in my life either are not developed enough to be empathetic, or ignore it. some things that go into this is that entp's like to ignore their introverted intuition, while you may be using it (which would allow you to read these people). I'd say most importantly is that entp and infj read and empathize differently, so when we look at each other we do not really see that the other is doing that. so if you have an infj observe how they come to conclusions vs how you do, hope this helps
As an ENTP , I want to see people happy while pushing all their buttons. At same time I am thinking about all bad thi gs about world and how life of everyone is meaningless. So yeah we are contradictions.
not a contradiction, we collect shit. we are hoarders of ideas. i can have an ice cube tray collection, and a candle stick collection. they don't mesh well, but they don't contradict. i like knowing all the pros and cons of a thing. a thing isn't just it's majority vote. lotta reasons to love and hate life. lotta reasons to be annoying and helpful to the same person. so many reasons, so little time :-P
how you respond is ultimately your call. entps need to slow down more, and infjs need to stop taking everything personally. they can clash like oil n water, but it's a nice balance if they really try to understand each other.
@@Niveous23 We don't take everything personally. In addition, entps are simply not pleasant for all to deal with. Id prefer to pursue fellow NFs. That's just the way it is. 🙂
@@EH_888 well, i'm an entp. just thought i'd bridge a gap. nothing is set in stone, everyone can take the best parts of another personality type..bla bla bla.
As an entp I gotta say that is not that we don't get people's feeling, sometimes we just don't really care about it(I know that's not something good) and also one thing that take us out of our serious state is any type of emotional bribery. Hope you guys get to understand that we are not only walls of logic, we just think is easier to us and everybody around to hide our own feelings.
I have an ENTP friend. One thing that helps us connect is working on ideas. He helps me with my art and my writing. His Ne sees things that my Ni may have missed. Combine that together and it creates a stronger idea and a fun project we can both work on.
What you said about having to express for entps to understand us was so true! My entp friend can tell I’m upset but he’ll be like “I can wait all day you have to talk I’m not letting this slide” even though I get a lil intimidated but I appreciate how he wants me to be direct and so I say what I gotta say, it’s still a bit difficult to open up quickly especially to a guy I just got used to hiding my emotions since I’ve been shamed for being sensitive since the day I was born
In a non parent-child relationship, my experience dating an ENTP woman (why are they so rare too, bunmer?) a better compatibility than other women I've dated. Metaphorically, it's like (ok simile) we oscillated between her being a three month old Golden Retriever puppy (attention span of a happy puppy) and me being a little innocence kitten traveling on adventures together getting into things/trouble for fun (think Disney cartoon style), following her around the town to oscillating when we are in our mature state, her acting like a cat (cool and sexy) to me being a wolf (exploring on my own my new surrounding, putting on a narcissistic veneer, keeping an eye on her so she's safe, but once approached my INFJ Fe kicks in and leaving people with a friendly and profound impression). I've also noticed that we liked the same things but for different reasons, hers was logic and mine was abstract. For example, she admired the mechanics and craftsmanship of an artwork and I like the energy of the artists, and hidden meaning that they put into their artwork which is reflected back to the viewers. She (ENTP) used her extroverted intuition to cover more ground, while deeply interested in my deciphering on the spot the hidden meanings and symbolism of an artwork (music, paintings, theater plays, movies, architect, etc). She could easily energize me with her extroverted fun, and take my out of my bubble because I love exploring and she loved pulling out hidden gems from around the city to go see. She was disorganized, all over the place with a million and one projects and I helped her laser focus on projects until completion. I like tomboys because their easier to get along with, but behind closed doors, her feminine charms went thru the roof. Not sure if all ENTP women are like that, but definitely can entice the dark side of an INFJ since we are into pleasing others. What's cool about being around the most introverted of the extroverts is there's no static or interference coming from her presence when we just chilled out together, no slow trickle of energy drain. I understood her devil advocate style of debating, while others thought she was argumentative, I enjoyed her ability to shine a new insight that to me was out of the blue profound. My only gripe is I believe an ENTP follows their head while an INFJ mostly follows our hearts, I think ENTPs makes decisions based on their logic, but a few months later their heart finally catches up, and they regret making rash decisions, unfortunately for them, the INFJ door slam and being future oriented thinkers, we hardly look back. It's why, now I'm very curious about ENFP women, that "F" cognitive function seems like a deeper dive with a closer emotional intimacy, combined with that extroverted fun of an ENTP. The biggest growth spurt I ever had with someone was with an ENTP girlfriend, she also improved my social intelligence, social confidence, and expanded out my INFJ's bubble and comfort zone to encompass more territory in Los Angeles, that I can now roam in alone or I can bring someone I like to those cool and exciting places that my ex-ENTP found.
Sweet! Thanks for sharing that! Yeah, us ENTP women like to pull out little gems from all over, whether a dark alley, our imaginations, or a random person who doesn't know who they are. You can always count on us for the experience of your life and to pull up a mirror and show you who you are, for better or worse. .. then off you go, on your way to someone else enjoying our trail of gems. You're welcome 🙂
Wences I respect you for the many years of research and training you put into this research and you have helped so many people. You are a beautiful person both inside and out. Thank you.
As an ENTP, I was happy to give you your 500th like on this video. haha I have a hypothesis that many unhealthy ENTPs become as such because we are prone to Nihilism. Perhaps this stems from a lack of spiritual grounding, or principals. I think a lot of us determine that if no spiritual aspect is real, and nothing matters, then screw it (Nihilism). We base everything off logic and science, yet perceive that spirituality is incompatible with science. I found solace through stoicism and the Baha'i faith as one of its primary teachings is the necessary unity of science with true religion. Just a random Ne-induced thought.
hello, when i clicked the video i first tought you wanted to show yourself as an infj because those people aren't much in society. when i continue to listen i felt like you were doing my speech :) the things that go back and forth in my brain. it helped a lot about feeling understood but still i dont think my father is a good person and he likes to cause suffering in other people. Actually you know that you sometimes even read other's brain. he is a bad person...
hahahahahaha..... I understand your response... "we have a nice relationship" + "time to move on i guess!" kind of... I have learned to be more balanced. I am an ENTP
I realize your comment is five years old, but I still felt like responding. I'm an ENTP who's fairly introverted, and I can channel my inner J in certain contexts. My last girlfriend was an ENFJ. We dated for a year. We were compatible in some ways, but overall not so much. I wonder if you had a similar experience. She generally took my argumentativeness and idea exploration extremely personally. For example, she was genuinely disturbed by the fact that I would often just argue the opposite position from hers just to do it (even though I didn't necessarily agree with the position). She seemed to resent it quite a lot if I found flaws in her reasoning and often criticized me for being too 'cold' and 'analytical' when discussing her problems. I tried to explain that this was just my personality and even introduced her to MBTI to help her understand. She seemed to think that I could change these things that are deeply wired in my brain, as though this was a flaw in my personality that I had to fix. She actually briefly convinced me of this, but I thought about it and concluded that although there may be some flexibility, fundamentally, I would not be able to change in the ways she wanted me to. I'm very much an NT, and I don't see that changing. I'm a bit confused when I see people saying that INFJs are the natural partner for ENTPs, as they have Ni, Fe, Ti, and Se in their cognitive functions stack, just like ENFJs (though in a slightly different order). If I was so incompatible with an ENFJ, why would I be compatible with an INFJ? Anyway, did you guys somehow manage to stay together, or did you have to move on and find someone else?
Thank you! Especially the general advice close to the end of the video, it was a good reality check for me. In spite of the troubles you experience with your father, I'm very glad you shared your revelations with us.
I’ve never even met an ENTP and that makes me kinda sad. I have a well developed Ti for an INFJ and in recent years have learned to be forthcoming with my needs/desires. Does anybody ever get that feeling that they were supposed to meet someone but didn’t?
we don't have strong opinions as an entp. but we vocalize it loudly. lol my opinions are trading cards. i like to collect em', trade em, sell em', throw em' out. it's a game. i'll throw down with ya, and i might even cry a lil' if you tear my favorite card in half...but i'll get a better one later. and yes, tell us how you feel. i get you might be sad and upset, but we are movers and shakers. you gotta let us know it's REALLY got you upset. Otherwise it's just a, 'yea, that is pretty upsetting...like this one time ...' We still think it's a fun conversation if we're in a groove. You gotta not take that personally.
I'm an INFJ and I just got out of a relationship (brief one) with an ENTP. I was really hurt by this bc I liked him bc he was very unique and I felt a strong chemistry with him. But he was somewhat of an unhealthy ENTP he loved to argue with me, and would try to control me, he Was also manipulative very much. So we had to part ways. INFJ's don't like conflict or arguing so it was hard at times. But I really did like him and wanted it to work... But it didn't..
I'm really sorry for the pain he caused you but ENTPs can learn and adapt if you tell them the truth plain and simple. You should have been BLUNT with him and frank but tell him or show him that you don't intend to hurt him by being blunt with him. Believe me he would've listend because I know that he felt the "strong chemistry" with you too... Anyway if he was abusing you then you are right to leave. and on behalf of all ENTPs everywhere who really truely but secretly love you INFJs, I wish you well :)
danielle johnson i apologise for this. i'm an entp myself, and frankly any unhealthy type can be dangerous, but that is something really shitty of him to be. i won't say that there's a similarity from most entps to your entp because even some ENTPs are different (although i like to argue, i don't overdo it unless if the person i'm talking to love the challenge; i have a 'you do you, nobody is truly right or truly wrong' type of thinking so i hate controlling people) i hope you find someone better!
Just reading this makes me sad i know what you mean when you want things to work i would have changed anything and everything to the best of my ability im entp she was an infp we broke up 3 mo ths ago she imediatley got back with her ex the second i left town it killed me but we kept talking for the last three months it seems as though we both didnt know how to live with out each other but she was being manipulative and was giving me the choice to talk or not talk she knew i couldnt say no to her so i finally convinced her to let me leave when all she would have needed to say was i still want to talk to you shit suck its really hard not to contact her its been 4 days i have never felt so loved and i was convinced she would be in my life forever dont know if i can ever let my guard down again
We have no need to feel loved, we seek truth. That’s it. Freedom of speech and tolerance to an open mind is what we need. If you show that you are controlled by feelings rather than logic, we can accept that but we will not have discussions after that. What is the point? The best match for an ENTP is probably another ENTP.
Nathan Gibson tbh i really like your saying 'feelings are prejudice' because that's what i always think as an entp. but others can take that in a negative light when i (since i can't speak for all entps) agree with that ideology. i think feelings give biases, and i hate being biased, because who is to say that one thing is more right than the other unless if it shows no consideration for others?
Hi, I'm a nice ENTP. Sorry he wouldn't listen. I didn't listen because I kept trying to think of something to say while watching. There are ENTP I like and don't like just like how there are INFJ I like and don't like. Hope everything with your dad is good now...ish or whatever
Informative and authentic. I wish I had known more about this when I first moved to the Texas-Mexican border. I worked for an organization headed up by a guy who I think was an ENFP. However, this is useful for the present time. as always, I enjoyed this video, and even though my own father is not an ESTP, I remember what it was like having to relate to him. I think that my father's temperament is more like mine, although he has never taken the Myers Briggs test. Actually, we have seen things a lot the same way, and the extrovert was my mother. Some of the complications that she and I had while I was growing up resembled some of what you talked about with your Dad. "Just like it only different." However, I would probably describe my mother is more of an ENFJ. As we got older, we were able to iron out a lot of differences. Nice video! I enjoyed it.
I go best with intj, we both feel alienated by the world, we get each other, as we support each other.. but thats me. What hurts me is other people's closed mindedness.. I think knowledge is soooo important and I think I don't connect to people like most do. Having a isfp and infp son with dominant Fi has taught me alot over values, but I find it very hard how the fact others stay in an emotional state for too long.
For me as INFJ a relationship with an ENTP, was the worst thing that could ever happen. Okay, she was a narcissist on top, but her with a 90% perceiving way and me with a 90% judgemental trait ended in permanent lies. My knowledge about her feelings and exactly, what you said, that I should explain myself, was ignored and not beliefed, she did not understood, why I knew everything...
both entps and infjs are perceivers. Look at the cognitive functions. Its not that you guys were incompatible, its just that she was damaged and possibly can't hold a relationship with any type.
we can be but there is often an underlying cause for it. we are fun but always serious too... we are always contemplating while trying to be the life of the party. we are living contradictions.
The painful thing about Ni- dom talking to a Ne- dom is that Ne- people perceive us, Ni as arrogant. Like, saying you're "absolutely sure" of something triggers them as prideful, because HOW THE HELL can you be absolutely sure of anything if there are so many options and angles you can look at the problem from? I love talking to my ENTP friend, really. He takes his time thinking things through and allows me to think, too. But I often feel misunderstood and it hurts me being judged as proud just because my brain works in a different way, a way he perceives as arrogant. I'm not sure how to deal with this. It's stuck in my brain and I've been thinking about the nature of pride itself in order to evaluate whether it's objectively true or not, but since NOBODY is objective and we shape reality in our brains based on our own impressions, it's hard to tell at all. What I know for sure is that I've been working on open- mindedness, I try not to judge, genuinely listen to the other person, analyze their words, take interest in how they think and feel. I do not struggle admitting I'm wrong. Sure, it's painful sometimes, when I care a lot, but well, that's life and I've got lots of work to do in order to achieve genuine purity and modesty. I just... I really don't want to be proud. Arrogance is unforgivable from my point of view and being perceived as such, whether it's true or not, hurts. Similar experience, fellow INFJs?
Hey Tailinyan, if you ask me...I LOVE PRIDE and I think it is important to be proud of ourselves so we are eager to move forward...I think if you didn't think of yourself as arrogant but just sure of YOUR path...than it won't bother you anymore that others think you are arrogant...let them think that. They tell you once or twice BUT when you don't react and truely not care they will stop telling you....Maybe your friend has a problem with himself, not allowing himself to be proud of his conclusions...see your conclusions don't have to work for everybody, they have to work for YOU and once you have results, there is no room for debate about it...you're not saying there is no other way...it's just: this is how I decide to look at it and this will open doors for me...we have to narrow down our worldview in order to create something out of it. There are certain topics I just don't discuss with certain friends who don't have the same understanding as me...and there is nothing wrong with that...in the end: your truth has to be more important then other's opinion...follow your truth and everything else will fall into place.
I've come across a curious article which's basic idea was "self- consciousness= shame= pride". I guess that's what he meant, since we'd discussed self- awareness and confidence beforehand. He used the term "pycha", which is the negative kind of pride in Polish language. Not self- confident, healthy pride, but the negative, conceited, judgemental type, the first of the Deadly Sins. That's why it hurt. The way Ni formulates things, the ultimate truths and visions may truly sound arrogant to Ne- doms, but it works both ways. To us, Ni- users, they come across as scatterbrained, people who don't even know what they're looking for and just dance around, unfocused. "Lazy", you may say, unmotivated, childish even. It's all the matter of perception and understanding though, and those differences are easy to overcome. I only wish people were more aware of the differences, so that everyone was interested in getting to know another person's brain in order to be true catalysts in self- development of self and others. But a vast majority of people doesn't even think about it and it sucks.
Did you ever tell him about MBTI?? A big picture objective intro would probably hook him! Then he could figure out how you work for himself. And come to being nice to you in his own way. Otherwise he probably actually doesn't get it.
Silver Rings I've told him...it is not really his thing :) Live and let live. I am happy now having learned that he doesn't need to understand me for me to see sense in what I am doing.
It's not that we entps just dont care. It's that we cant care. Trying to tell me to care about emotions over logic is like telling a bee to stop worrying about honey. NOT POSSIBLE!!!! We dont care about emotions because our emotions are weak. We do however care about people. We just care logically
Hi. thank you for creating this video and sharing your experience and insight. I am an ENTP married to an ESFJ. Interesting how that pair seems to be common. Your dad sounds a lot like me. Respect. Ideas. Despising conventional wisdom and tradition, etc. yep. that's me. I have ideas and I want to give expression and life to them. If you tell me you don't like the way I behave I won't automatically get upset or offended - I first want to dig into that and see what and why. If you can explain yourself well, then I will respect it even if I don't agree. It's just frustrating when people can't explain :) Anyway, thanks again.
Completely understand you Patrick...I have also realized it is when I think my father won't understand me so I don't try to explain myself, is when he gets upset...as soon as I started telling him how I feel and why and I wasn't afraid of rejection anymore...is when our relationship blossomed
As an INFJ, I don't mind explaining why I believe something to be true or why I have my biases, however, I do not feel the need to DEFEND those biases. ENTPs questioning others as if they are always wrong and that there are no absolutes (although in many instances there are) isn't appealing. I'll feel and believe what I like irregardless of their views.
The INFJ person was a great partner to be with. When she got into taken opioid drugs from get mother and daughter she polluted her mind and became a covert Narsacistic person. A bipolar personality can make a relationship so bad. She had 3 men on the internet all the time looking to make a move. I see a lie after a lie that it is painful to see what this person has done to our relationship and self. God will let her punish herself as to where she may have messed up her brain. She has gone into hiding. Because she is an INFJ thinker and she knows all the answers. She needs to carry Narcan but will not do it. So God it is in your hands only you can bring her back to her original personality. Later. Comment if you will.
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Js organize everything. Ps don't. So you may be a little off about your dad's type. You do seem to have a little INFJ bias, but it was interesting to get your take. Though, I don't know if I could go out with someone so sensitive.
Snarky Penname We are ok with that. We'd prefer others who are aware and and respectful of our boundaries/sensitivities. Someone more similar to you may be more suitable as your partner.
Me: Is she an INFJ?
Her: The hidden agenda of the ENTP is they wanna be loved.
Me: Yeah, she's an INFJ
Matthew Potts haha ;)
+INFJ:BelowtheRadar-AbovetheSystem Are you psychic?
hahaha
I had a similar thought. entp here.
+Matthew Potts hahaha, damn! (i am entp)
Replace "INFJ" with "girl", and suddenly your theory makes sense.
I'm an INFJ and my best friend is an ENTP. I always admired how he is able to walk through life and express himself so freely without really caring what other people think of him. It's like a super power I wish I had.
I remember when we first met. We were in college and I was sitting at a table with him and 4 other people and one of them said a joke and everybody laughed. I thought it was funny, but I kinda just smiled and looked down at the desk in front of me. The guy who told the joke pointed at me and said "You need to lighten up and laugh more!" The table went quiet and before I could respond. The ENTP said "Nah, he thought it was funny, he's just a laugh on the inside kind of person!" I was floored! This guy (having only known me for a couple days) was able to come up with such an articulate and dead on truth about who I was. He's one of the only people who I feel really got me.
So outrageously cool, highly intelligent and kooky, ENTPs.
me an infj ## like a super power I wish I had## yessss
Woow
Im an ENTP and my best friend's an INFJ. I've always been drawn to her amazing, caring attitude towards other people. She went through some shit in the past, and I can tell she's still a bit messed up by it. No one else seems to notice it and it seems like she ignores in order to put people above herself. I see what's going on and I try to put as much sympathy(even though Im not to good at that) as I can to help her. I also give her a crap ton of logical analytical solutions. It's strange, because somehow, Im the only one that seems to willingly take her back down to earth. As for myself, she seems to have given me a reason to actually care for someone, deeply, in my non emotional life. She has inspired to take care of others in their time of need and Im really thankful that shes in my life.
How to deal with an ENTP:
Don't panic.
Don't run away.
Your only hope is to play dead.
I made cry my ENTP ex-bestfriend several times. They're so overrated.
We're not overrated, we're humans too with feelings. And if you're boasting about making people cry, then perhaps you should evaluate yourself as a human rather than us ENTP types.
If you say so. But from where I'm, sitting, you wish people to die and want to make people cry. lol. You should check the mirror, mate.
tonkrogerio So what? What's your problem with that? And I'm not your mate.
So because you don't care what you assume is my worthless existence, then it follows that I shouldn't care nether LOL you're an idiot. No wonder you try to make other people feel bad about themselves. You're an idiot who can't follow basic logic LOL.
And what makes you think you have any control over what I call you? O_o
LOL.
Calm down, mate. You have no control here. stop crying about your lack of intellect. you're not making anyone cry here but yourself, kid.
Very true... we ENTP's truely, really, absolutely *require* honesty. On feelings, emotions, everyting. Full and complete honesty, far more then other types do.. because we have a strong need to understand and then we can empathize. And then we can empathize very deeply.
And yes, we are incompatible with xSFJ's.. there is no room for continual growth with them. It just gets stuck at a for ENTPs very unsatisfying point.
Same for us INTPs - honesty and no ESFJs.
Yeah, I saw that with my ENTP ex-girlfriend and INFJs are hardwired to being mysterious, it's not intentional nor malicious, we just can't help it. But it does make it harder for ENTPs to figure us out, and we know ENTPs gets bored easily once they figure someone out.
Im entp and i never had a serious relationship, all of them seem boring and meaningless so i ditched them because i couldnt force myself to pretend being someone else, then i meet a woman at my 24s and damn we were like made for each other, i knew before i was entp, but after a month or so i made her do the test, she was INFJ and then i laughed so hard because i really knew all along she one infj i even joked just before she ended the test remember you are infj
Gaudaloht where'd y'all meet?
I have a very hard time with relationships because I am an ENTP. No one is prepared to date us. I've had so many say that I'm too truthful and I seem cold. I don't express emotion like everyone else. My independence hinders me. I always tell someone before they get too involved that this is me and I'm not changing that. Not only in love, in work as well. I'm an unconventional thinker, people don't like that.
***** Hi Klae, since I had to learn to create an Ego and not be so selfless and concentrated on others in order to survive maybe it would also be helpful if you change that about yourself a little bit as well. We do live in a society where people need each other in order to get forward in life and where others opinions should also be valued to some degree. I valued them to much, maybe you value them too little? This is just food for thought :)
***** : people skills are important in most areas of life. We can't just go around doing whatever we want and not worry about offending others. I'd suggest to look into researching into what motivates people; at least some of it should be simple fixes for you. "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a good, not-to-long read about the subject. -- XNTP bluntness :-)
So the game plan should be how to, having obtained an appreciation of people, most effectively transmit that truth to them.
In the human metric, the shortest distance may not be a straight line.
We infj love entp. I have an entp friend and we have insane chemistry we barely argue we talk about deep things effortlessly. never have I been with someone who gets my sense of humour so much and he reads me so well same time I'm complicated for him he even said Ur annoying but I can't stop taking to you. 😂😂 we visit many deep deep places that I never go with anyone other than myself.
The thing is basically you show people your clown side or your detachment.
It takes time to people see more than that. First impressions will suck a lot.
But ESFJ and ISFJ really don't mind it as they usually can see more than that or reach further. I don't know really. There are people who really like hear the truth. Clears their mind or something. ENTPs do not enter into personal realm with truths at all which makes it even more stranger to us to comprehend. In general people do not like detachment.
If you are looking people at their sheepish states (schools etc) then they wont come out and express it. It takes time for many to outgrow/ditch pack mentality. Sure they can express it when it is not endanger their position in a pack. Like an xSFJ who sees her ENTP uncle.
Later you'll hear from people who say that they like strangely thinking types.
I like that you say look if you're upset with an entp, just tell them.Because if you are not, we can see it, maybe not exactly what is bugging you but we notice things very strongly, and if you don't tell us why you are upset with us we ned to guess , or feel sort of "lied to".Whilst, if you tell us exactly you said this, that made me feel like that, because of this reason,it might sting, but we can analyse and if we like you chances are very big we will try to improve that behaviour
So on point me ex infp i was head over heals for 10 months but she couldnt ever speak up and she wanted to guard my feelings and that did = to lying and it drove me be unstable and have mental break downs im so in love still its been a couple days since we talked she let me in to her secret little world and i was fully in she was not life is funny like that sometimes
ENTPs quick tip: watch at 1.5x speed
Thanks, dawg.
Jesus Christ I nearly chipped my tooth. Thank you
She sounds like she's eating. Good hydration I think
"He's not an INFJ, he can't have that intution of my feelings and of how my emotional state is"
I'm an ENTP (right down to the functions), and what most of my close friends value about me is that I can tell them their exact emotional states with one glance. And often phrase it better than they could. An INFJ I'd known at one point was uncomfortable with how well I read her; saying stuff about her before she figured it out herself.
Empathy and theory of mind are basic human qualities; the potential determination to develop them being dependent on the individual.
You could possibly be a very healthy and developed entp, I know that entp certainly feel empathetic, and feel intuitive and entp's do have these capabilities. I feel that entp's in my life either are not developed enough to be empathetic, or ignore it. some things that go into this is that entp's like to ignore their introverted intuition, while you may be using it (which would allow you to read these people).
I'd say most importantly is that entp and infj read and empathize differently, so when we look at each other we do not really see that the other is doing that. so if you have an infj observe how they come to conclusions vs how you do, hope this helps
Oh yeah and to us empaths, empathy seems automatic but for many people they bury and have weak empathy
This one ☝️ makes us proud to be ENTPs. Nailed! 😊
One of the more accurate entp analyses I've seen. Especially the point about just telling us how you feel!
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As an ENTP , I want to see people happy while pushing all their buttons. At same time I am thinking about all bad thi gs about world and how life of everyone is meaningless. So yeah we are contradictions.
@hithere I am an ENTP and I agree with you.
not a contradiction, we collect shit. we are hoarders of ideas. i can have an ice cube tray collection, and a candle stick collection. they don't mesh well, but they don't contradict. i like knowing all the pros and cons of a thing. a thing isn't just it's majority vote. lotta reasons to love and hate life. lotta reasons to be annoying and helpful to the same person. so many reasons, so little time :-P
INFJ here. It seems like there's a target on my back for ENTPs to get under my skin in the worst way.
Hahaha! I totally get you NB :)
I know 2 INFJs and I love them both. If there is a target on your back, it's only a target of our love.
how you respond is ultimately your call. entps need to slow down more, and infjs need to stop taking everything personally. they can clash like oil n water, but it's a nice balance if they really try to understand each other.
@@Niveous23 We don't take everything personally. In addition, entps are simply not pleasant for all to deal with. Id prefer to pursue fellow NFs. That's just the way it is. 🙂
@@EH_888 well, i'm an entp. just thought i'd bridge a gap. nothing is set in stone, everyone can take the best parts of another personality type..bla bla bla.
As an entp I gotta say that is not that we don't get people's feeling, sometimes we just don't really care about it(I know that's not something good) and also one thing that take us out of our serious state is any type of emotional bribery.
Hope you guys get to understand that we are not only walls of logic, we just think is easier to us and everybody around to hide our own feelings.
I have an ENTP friend. One thing that helps us connect is working on ideas. He helps me with my art and my writing. His Ne sees things that my Ni may have missed. Combine that together and it creates a stronger idea and a fun project we can both work on.
What you said about having to express for entps to understand us was so true! My entp friend can tell I’m upset but he’ll be like “I can wait all day you have to talk I’m not letting this slide” even though I get a lil intimidated but I appreciate how he wants me to be direct and so I say what I gotta say, it’s still a bit difficult to open up quickly especially to a guy I just got used to hiding my emotions since I’ve been shamed for being sensitive since the day I was born
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I loved this!
I'm an infj
Married to entp
This helps
Thanks!
thank you :)
In a non parent-child relationship, my experience dating an ENTP woman (why are they so rare too, bunmer?) a better compatibility than other women I've dated.
Metaphorically, it's like (ok simile) we oscillated between her being a three month old Golden Retriever puppy (attention span of a happy puppy) and me being a little innocence kitten traveling on adventures together getting into things/trouble for fun (think Disney cartoon style), following her around the town to oscillating when we are in our mature state, her acting like a cat (cool and sexy) to me being a wolf (exploring on my own my new surrounding, putting on a narcissistic veneer, keeping an eye on her so she's safe, but once approached my INFJ Fe kicks in and leaving people with a friendly and profound impression).
I've also noticed that we liked the same things but for different reasons, hers was logic and mine was abstract. For example, she admired the mechanics and craftsmanship of an artwork and I like the energy of the artists, and hidden meaning that they put into their artwork which is reflected back to the viewers. She (ENTP) used her extroverted intuition to cover more ground, while deeply interested in my deciphering on the spot the hidden meanings and symbolism of an artwork (music, paintings, theater plays, movies, architect, etc). She could easily energize me with her extroverted fun, and take my out of my bubble because I love exploring and she loved pulling out hidden gems from around the city to go see. She was disorganized, all over the place with a million and one projects and I helped her laser focus on projects until completion.
I like tomboys because their easier to get along with, but behind closed doors, her feminine charms went thru the roof. Not sure if all ENTP women are like that, but definitely can entice the dark side of an INFJ since we are into pleasing others.
What's cool about being around the most introverted of the extroverts is there's no static or interference coming from her presence when we just chilled out together, no slow trickle of energy drain. I understood her devil advocate style of debating, while others thought she was argumentative, I enjoyed her ability to shine a new insight that to me was out of the blue profound.
My only gripe is I believe an ENTP follows their head while an INFJ mostly follows our hearts, I think ENTPs makes decisions based on their logic, but a few months later their heart finally catches up, and they regret making rash decisions, unfortunately for them, the INFJ door slam and being future oriented thinkers, we hardly look back. It's why, now I'm very curious about ENFP women, that "F" cognitive function seems like a deeper dive with a closer emotional intimacy, combined with that extroverted fun of an ENTP.
The biggest growth spurt I ever had with someone was with an ENTP girlfriend, she also improved my social intelligence, social confidence, and expanded out my INFJ's bubble and comfort zone to encompass more territory in Los Angeles, that I can now roam in alone or I can bring someone I like to those cool and exciting places that my ex-ENTP found.
Sweet! Thanks for sharing that!
Yeah, us ENTP women like to pull out little gems from all over, whether a dark alley, our imaginations, or a random person who doesn't know who they are.
You can always count on us for the experience of your life and to pull up a mirror and show you who you are, for better or worse.
.. then off you go, on your way to someone else enjoying our trail of gems. You're welcome 🙂
Wences I respect you for the many years of research and training you put into this research and you have helped so many people. You are a beautiful person both inside and out. Thank you.
I can't even watch this. She lost me at 2:16. Bless. Sweet INFJ.
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As an ENTP, I was happy to give you your 500th like on this video. haha
I have a hypothesis that many unhealthy ENTPs become as such because we are prone to Nihilism. Perhaps this stems from a lack of spiritual grounding, or principals. I think a lot of us determine that if no spiritual aspect is real, and nothing matters, then screw it (Nihilism). We base everything off logic and science, yet perceive that spirituality is incompatible with science. I found solace through stoicism and the Baha'i faith as one of its primary teachings is the necessary unity of science with true religion. Just a random Ne-induced thought.
hello, when i clicked the video i first tought you wanted to show yourself as an infj because those people aren't much in society. when i continue to listen i felt like you were doing my speech :) the things that go back and forth in my brain. it helped a lot about feeling understood but still i dont think my father is a good person and he likes to cause suffering in other people. Actually you know that you sometimes even read other's brain. he is a bad person...
my girlfriend is ENFJ and I am ENTP we have a nice relationship, unfortunate she is moving away...time to move on i guess!
hahahahahaha..... I understand your response... "we have a nice relationship" + "time to move on i guess!" kind of... I have learned to be more balanced.
I am an ENTP
I realize your comment is five years old, but I still felt like responding. I'm an ENTP who's fairly introverted, and I can channel my inner J in certain contexts. My last girlfriend was an ENFJ. We dated for a year. We were compatible in some ways, but overall not so much. I wonder if you had a similar experience.
She generally took my argumentativeness and idea exploration extremely personally. For example, she was genuinely disturbed by the fact that I would often just argue the opposite position from hers just to do it (even though I didn't necessarily agree with the position). She seemed to resent it quite a lot if I found flaws in her reasoning and often criticized me for being too 'cold' and 'analytical' when discussing her problems. I tried to explain that this was just my personality and even introduced her to MBTI to help her understand. She seemed to think that I could change these things that are deeply wired in my brain, as though this was a flaw in my personality that I had to fix. She actually briefly convinced me of this, but I thought about it and concluded that although there may be some flexibility, fundamentally, I would not be able to change in the ways she wanted me to. I'm very much an NT, and I don't see that changing.
I'm a bit confused when I see people saying that INFJs are the natural partner for ENTPs, as they have Ni, Fe, Ti, and Se in their cognitive functions stack, just like ENFJs (though in a slightly different order). If I was so incompatible with an ENFJ, why would I be compatible with an INFJ?
Anyway, did you guys somehow manage to stay together, or did you have to move on and find someone else?
@@lucasfabisiak9586 INFJs aren’t similar to ENFJs at all. Stop jumping to conclusions.
@@t.6071 I don’t think you understand the cognitive functions.
@@lucasfabisiak9586 I understand them very well, thank you.
Thank you! Especially the general advice close to the end of the video, it was a good reality check for me. In spite of the troubles you experience with your father, I'm very glad you shared your revelations with us.
+Jacob Reid thanks for the feedback Jacob :)
I’ve never even met an ENTP and that makes me kinda sad. I have a well developed Ti for an INFJ and in recent years have learned to be forthcoming with my needs/desires. Does anybody ever get that feeling that they were supposed to meet someone but didn’t?
This is an amazing video! thank you so much. I feel connected to EVERYTHING you said. :)
we don't have strong opinions as an entp. but we vocalize it loudly. lol my opinions are trading cards. i like to collect em', trade em, sell em', throw em' out. it's a game. i'll throw down with ya, and i might even cry a lil' if you tear my favorite card in half...but i'll get a better one later. and yes, tell us how you feel. i get you might be sad and upset, but we are movers and shakers. you gotta let us know it's REALLY got you upset. Otherwise it's just a, 'yea, that is pretty upsetting...like this one time ...' We still think it's a fun conversation if we're in a groove. You gotta not take that personally.
I'm an INFJ and I just got out of a relationship (brief one) with an ENTP. I was really hurt by this bc I liked him bc he was very unique and I felt a strong chemistry with him. But he was somewhat of an unhealthy ENTP he loved to argue with me, and would try to control me, he Was also manipulative very much. So we had to part ways. INFJ's don't like conflict or arguing so it was hard at times. But I really did like him and wanted it to work... But it didn't..
I'm really sorry for the pain he caused you but ENTPs can learn and adapt if you tell them the truth plain and simple. You should have been BLUNT with him and frank but tell him or show him that you don't intend to hurt him by being blunt with him. Believe me he would've listend because I know that he felt the "strong chemistry" with you too... Anyway if he was abusing you then you are right to leave. and on behalf of all ENTPs everywhere who really truely but secretly love you INFJs, I wish you well :)
Abdulah S. AlAsiri haha don't speak in all ENTP'S name , she only tell her side of story , and i don't buy half stories
danielle johnson i apologise for this. i'm an entp myself, and frankly any unhealthy type can be dangerous, but that is something really shitty of him to be. i won't say that there's a similarity from most entps to your entp because even some ENTPs are different (although i like to argue, i don't overdo it unless if the person i'm talking to love the challenge; i have a 'you do you, nobody is truly right or truly wrong' type of thinking so i hate controlling people) i hope you find someone better!
Yes married to entp
I'm an infj
The struggle is real
But I'm committed
I'm too far gone : )
Just reading this makes me sad i know what you mean when you want things to work i would have changed anything and everything to the best of my ability im entp she was an infp we broke up 3 mo ths ago she imediatley got back with her ex the second i left town it killed me but we kept talking for the last three months it seems as though we both didnt know how to live with out each other but she was being manipulative and was giving me the choice to talk or not talk she knew i couldnt say no to her so i finally convinced her to let me leave when all she would have needed to say was i still want to talk to you shit suck its really hard not to contact her its been 4 days i have never felt so loved and i was convinced she would be in my life forever dont know if i can ever let my guard down again
I found out that I'm an INFJ after struggling for years if I was INFP or INFJ. I'm an INFJ, I feel like I'm a protector.
Entp advice: watch at 1.5x speed
2x or not at all
We have no need to feel loved, we seek truth. That’s it. Freedom of speech and tolerance to an open mind is what we need. If you show that you are controlled by feelings rather than logic, we can accept that but we will not have discussions after that. What is the point? The best match for an ENTP is probably another ENTP.
Maybe you are right but maybe you are totally wrong. Only facts can prove that
feelings are just prejudice. they aren't real. don't let them shape your reality. love-entp
Nathan Gibson tbh i really like your saying 'feelings are prejudice' because that's what i always think as an entp. but others can take that in a negative light when i (since i can't speak for all entps) agree with that ideology. i think feelings give biases, and i hate being biased, because who is to say that one thing is more right than the other unless if it shows no consideration for others?
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You can really see Wenze's evolution with this video. It's like she's younger now than 7 years ago .
this was incredibly helpful, thank you so so Much. had to subscribe!
Jaztina thank you :)
I am a fenal entp. Most people think I am cold and don't care other people's feelings. Actually, I am just strugg with feelings a lot.
Hi, I'm a nice ENTP. Sorry he wouldn't listen. I didn't listen because I kept trying to think of something to say while watching. There are ENTP I like and don't like just like how there are INFJ I like and don't like. Hope everything with your dad is good now...ish or whatever
Informative and authentic. I wish I had known more about this when I first moved to the Texas-Mexican border. I worked for an organization headed up by a guy who I think was an ENFP.
However, this is useful for the present time. as always, I enjoyed this video, and even though my own father is not an ESTP, I remember what it was like having to relate to him. I think that my father's temperament is more like mine, although he has never taken the Myers Briggs test.
Actually, we have seen things a lot the same way, and the extrovert was my mother. Some of the complications that she and I had while I was growing up resembled some of what you talked about with your Dad. "Just like it only different." However, I would probably describe my mother is more of an ENFJ. As we got older, we were able to iron out a lot of differences.
Nice video! I enjoyed it.
I go best with intj, we both feel alienated by the world, we get each other, as we support each other.. but thats me.
What hurts me is other people's closed mindedness..
I think knowledge is soooo important and I think I don't connect to people like most do.
Having a isfp and infp son with dominant Fi has taught me alot over values, but I find it very hard how the fact others stay in an emotional state for too long.
For me as INFJ a relationship with an ENTP, was the worst thing that could ever happen. Okay, she was a narcissist on top, but her with a 90% perceiving way and me with a 90% judgemental trait ended in permanent lies. My knowledge about her feelings and exactly, what you said, that I should explain myself, was ignored and not beliefed, she did not understood, why I knew everything...
both entps and infjs are perceivers. Look at the cognitive functions. Its not that you guys were incompatible, its just that she was damaged and possibly can't hold a relationship with any type.
@@aladdout9454 THIS
Are most ENTPs really goofy?
we can be but there is often an underlying cause for it. we are fun but always serious too... we are always contemplating while trying to be the life of the party. we are living contradictions.
Yes!!!
Absolutely. And we see no need to hide it.
The painful thing about Ni- dom talking to a Ne- dom is that Ne- people perceive us, Ni as arrogant. Like, saying you're "absolutely sure" of something triggers them as prideful, because HOW THE HELL can you be absolutely sure of anything if there are so many options and angles you can look at the problem from?
I love talking to my ENTP friend, really. He takes his time thinking things through and allows me to think, too. But I often feel misunderstood and it hurts me being judged as proud just because my brain works in a different way, a way he perceives as arrogant.
I'm not sure how to deal with this. It's stuck in my brain and I've been thinking about the nature of pride itself in order to evaluate whether it's objectively true or not, but since NOBODY is objective and we shape reality in our brains based on our own impressions, it's hard to tell at all. What I know for sure is that I've been working on open- mindedness, I try not to judge, genuinely listen to the other person, analyze their words, take interest in how they think and feel. I do not struggle admitting I'm wrong. Sure, it's painful sometimes, when I care a lot, but well, that's life and I've got lots of work to do in order to achieve genuine purity and modesty. I just... I really don't want to be proud. Arrogance is unforgivable from my point of view and being perceived as such, whether it's true or not, hurts.
Similar experience, fellow INFJs?
Hey Tailinyan, if you ask me...I LOVE PRIDE and I think it is important to be proud of ourselves so we are eager to move forward...I think if you didn't think of yourself as arrogant but just sure of YOUR path...than it won't bother you anymore that others think you are arrogant...let them think that. They tell you once or twice BUT when you don't react and truely not care they will stop telling you....Maybe your friend has a problem with himself, not allowing himself to be proud of his conclusions...see your conclusions don't have to work for everybody, they have to work for YOU and once you have results, there is no room for debate about it...you're not saying there is no other way...it's just: this is how I decide to look at it and this will open doors for me...we have to narrow down our worldview in order to create something out of it. There are certain topics I just don't discuss with certain friends who don't have the same understanding as me...and there is nothing wrong with that...in the end: your truth has to be more important then other's opinion...follow your truth and everything else will fall into place.
I've come across a curious article which's basic idea was "self- consciousness= shame= pride". I guess that's what he meant, since we'd discussed self- awareness and confidence beforehand.
He used the term "pycha", which is the negative kind of pride in Polish language. Not self- confident, healthy pride, but the negative, conceited, judgemental type, the first of the Deadly Sins. That's why it hurt.
The way Ni formulates things, the ultimate truths and visions may truly sound arrogant to Ne- doms, but it works both ways. To us, Ni- users, they come across as scatterbrained, people who don't even know what they're looking for and just dance around, unfocused. "Lazy", you may say, unmotivated, childish even. It's all the matter of perception and understanding though, and those differences are easy to overcome.
I only wish people were more aware of the differences, so that everyone was interested in getting to know another person's brain in order to be true catalysts in self- development of self and others. But a vast majority of people doesn't even think about it and it sucks.
INFJ here. I understand your feelings in this situation.
your relationship with your father was very interesting. id love to hear more.
Did you ever tell him about MBTI?? A big picture objective intro would probably hook him! Then he could figure out how you work for himself. And come to being nice to you in his own way. Otherwise he probably actually doesn't get it.
Silver Rings I've told him...it is not really his thing :) Live and let live. I am happy now having learned that he doesn't need to understand me for me to see sense in what I am doing.
It's not that we entps just dont care. It's that we cant care. Trying to tell me to care about emotions over logic is like telling a bee to stop worrying about honey. NOT POSSIBLE!!!! We dont care about emotions because our emotions are weak. We do however care about people. We just care logically
Great video, thanks!!
Thank you for sharing your experience. It really helps.
glad to hear that, thanks
ive been waiting for this one..
thank you great video :)
Isn't a strategy session on how to cope with the opposite sex more of an ENTP thing?
Sister, you get an "amen" from this ENTP!
As an ENTP... I feel exposed.
You're so pretty!
Hi. thank you for creating this video and sharing your experience and insight. I am an ENTP married to an ESFJ. Interesting how that pair seems to be common. Your dad sounds a lot like me. Respect. Ideas. Despising conventional wisdom and tradition, etc. yep. that's me. I have ideas and I want to give expression and life to them. If you tell me you don't like the way I behave I won't automatically get upset or offended - I first want to dig into that and see what and why. If you can explain yourself well, then I will respect it even if I don't agree. It's just frustrating when people can't explain :) Anyway, thanks again.
Completely understand you Patrick...I have also realized it is when I think my father won't understand me so I don't try to explain myself, is when he gets upset...as soon as I started telling him how I feel and why and I wasn't afraid of rejection anymore...is when our relationship blossomed
As an INFJ, I don't mind explaining why I believe something to be true or why I have my biases, however, I do not feel the need to DEFEND those biases. ENTPs questioning others as if they are always wrong and that there are no absolutes (although in many instances there are) isn't appealing. I'll feel and believe what I like irregardless of their views.
The INFJ person was a great partner to be with. When she got into taken opioid drugs from get mother and daughter she polluted her mind and became a covert Narsacistic person. A bipolar personality can make a relationship so bad. She had 3 men on the internet all the time looking to make a move. I see a lie after a lie that it is painful to see what this person has done to our relationship and self. God will let her punish herself as to where she may have messed up her brain. She has gone into hiding. Because she is an INFJ thinker and she knows all the answers. She needs to carry Narcan but will not do it. So God it is in your hands only you can bring her back to her original personality. Later. Comment if you will.
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Js organize everything. Ps don't. So you may be a little off about your dad's type. You do seem to have a little INFJ bias, but it was interesting to get your take. Though, I don't know if I could go out with someone so sensitive.
Snarky Penname We are ok with that. We'd prefer others who are aware and and respectful of our boundaries/sensitivities. Someone more similar to you may be more suitable as your partner.