The Beauty of Assertiveness | Dr. Abby Hamilton | TEDxWestshoreWomen

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  • Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
  • While many people believe that assertiveness is rude and ugly, Dr. Abby presents the beauty of assertiveness as a way to show the world that we are smart, kind, and important. Dr. Abby is a second-generation Filipino American whose research and findings on assertiveness have inspired her to tell the world how to find their voice. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @joshuanun8192
    @joshuanun8192 2 года назад +18

    What a story! "I spoke up!!!" Wow Korean culture is the same way." Focus on respect, obedience, never question to our authority." That is why I tell myself. I am cool. I am amazing. We love you!

  • @gianbrackin
    @gianbrackin 2 года назад +4

    I was elated to see Dr. Abby Hamilton live at TEDX Westshore and proud to see it captured on RUclips for others. 💪🏻👠🌟

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +2

      I felt amazing having all of you there with me that day. I'm so blessed to have you in my life. It was truly magical! Thank you for coming!

  • @DrBooBoo
    @DrBooBoo 2 года назад +9

    You continue to make me proud Dr. Abby. What a wonderful message. Dr. Dan

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +1

      This is the result of our hard work together. Thank you for your continuous inspiration! Let's continue to shine the light, Dr. Dan!

  • @gealdinairvine6125
    @gealdinairvine6125 2 года назад +4

    Abby is a great supporter of our Filipino American organization in Tampa and she’s very inspirational person and a great role model to our community. She reminds me of how Asians are not so assertive based on how we were raised. We have to learn how to be assertive as we grow up if we want to succeed in life.. which I actually did if I want to go up in my clinical ladder. Thanks Abby for inspiring others!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thank you, Gealdina! I am thankful for the Tampa Filipino community to helped to raise me and bring me to where I am today.

  • @westcoastsands
    @westcoastsands 2 года назад +6

    So proud of you Dr. Abby! We love you and I personally learn so much from you!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +1

      Thanks for listening! Let's share the knowledge with everyone.

  • @aureliagrinstead1969
    @aureliagrinstead1969 Год назад +3

    Love this Dr. Abby. Thank for this valuable message.

  • @Francica399
    @Francica399 2 года назад +2

    Very motivated after listening to Dr. Abby. Authentic and inspirational speaker. Thank you!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +1

      Thank you, Sherry! Your words are kind, smart, and important!!! :)

  • @pnatampa9900
    @pnatampa9900 2 года назад +4

    So proud of you Abby! Your message is very inspiring and transformative. Thank you!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thank you for all your support! It is an honor to speak and represent the Filipino-American community!

  • @donnaramira8453
    @donnaramira8453 2 года назад +4

    Thank you. ❤️
    This is beautiful indeed. I come from the Philippines as well and this is such an inspiration to me. I am smart and kind and important!😉🥰

  • @NPk923
    @NPk923 23 дня назад

    Thank you❤

  • @EmmanuelDato
    @EmmanuelDato 2 года назад +2

    Wow! Thank you for this Dr. Abby. I always back and forth when it comes to being assertive and your TED talk gives me certainty of my value.

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      There's more to come, Emman! My next TEDx is in April, and I can't wait to keep the message going. Thank you for your support.

  • @siblingage3596
    @siblingage3596 6 месяцев назад

    This resonates with me and inspires me to keep challenging the tired old stories about how I'm not good enough. I'm the best! ❤

  • @suniljogdeo8345
    @suniljogdeo8345 2 года назад +2

    fabulous ! Abby thank you, YOU ARE THE BEST !!

  • @user-kc4mn4kl7x
    @user-kc4mn4kl7x 8 месяцев назад +2

    So inspiring speech ✨️ 🙌 thank you! I'm just on my way to achieve that beautiful assertiveness ❤ at least just simple assertiveness 😅

  • @ednafaral3930
    @ednafaral3930 2 года назад +10

    The message is very clear, so inspiring. I've learned a lot. Just so proud of you. Wow!👏👏👏

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thanks, Edna! I appreciate your love, support, and prayers! - It's all for God's glory!

  • @gretchenjohns2899
    @gretchenjohns2899 2 года назад +2

    Amazing message Dr. Abby! You are definitely an inspiration!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thanks, Dr. Johns, for always cheering me on. We've got a message for the world, my friend!

  • @victor15121995
    @victor15121995 Год назад +2

    The first 4 minutes describes perfectly what I'm going though this week! Even my boss reaction...

  • @hydeemarie5038
    @hydeemarie5038 2 года назад +2

    Congrats!!! This is amazing! You Dr. Abby is amazing!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thanks, Mama Hydz and to the whole TL gang! I always feel your love and support.

  • @heatherlawton6543
    @heatherlawton6543 2 года назад +2

    You are an inspiration Dr. Abby!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thanks for your support, Heather. We have a world to change, my dear classmate!

  • @eqmatch326
    @eqmatch326 2 года назад +2

    Proud of you, Dr. Abby.

  • @westcoastsands
    @westcoastsands 2 года назад +3

    Loved it Dr. Abby!!

  • @CesarAbuegJr
    @CesarAbuegJr 2 года назад +2

    Great job Dr. Abby - so proud! Keep up the great work...

  • @sandratorreslopez
    @sandratorreslopez 2 года назад +2

    God Bless you Abby, so so Proud of you, Love you in Jesus name , Sandra

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +1

      Thanks Sandra, my sister in Christ! I miss our time of reflecting. Thank you for your support!

  • @suzannechambers6348
    @suzannechambers6348 2 года назад +1

    Super job! I understand this all too well!

  • @SweeneyMae
    @SweeneyMae 2 года назад +2

    So proud of you Dr. Abby! 👏

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +1

      Thank you, Queen Sweeney! You are the powerhouse that serves as a role model for me and many others!

  • @cyrillaanselm5336
    @cyrillaanselm5336 8 месяцев назад

    That was awesome assertiveness 🎉🎉Dr Abby. Great job ( Dr. C.Anselm)

  • @nhickification
    @nhickification 2 года назад +3

    Such a wonderful message!

  • @margaretinnes1911
    @margaretinnes1911 2 года назад +1

    Very insightful. Wonderful presentation!

  • @rtovarstetson
    @rtovarstetson 2 года назад +1

    So proud to know you Dr Abby!!! Thank you for this important message!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thank you, Rina! I can just see your shining smile when I read this comment!

  • @JohannaK26
    @JohannaK26 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Dr. Abby!!!

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      You're very welcome, Johanna! It is my pleasure and honor to share this message.

  • @zoesmiley6903
    @zoesmiley6903 2 года назад +1

    ZLAM!! This is great and definitely something I needed💕

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад

      Thanks Zoe! How cool to get some ZTA love in this forum! ZLAM

  • @jasleenksaluja
    @jasleenksaluja 2 года назад +1

    Such a Beautiful Talk❤️

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words, Jasleen. I am so glad you liked it.

  • @patrickp3828
    @patrickp3828 Год назад +1

    I learned overtime that those same “well behaved” children end up being backstabbers

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 8 месяцев назад

      It's so sad to see when people change from passive to aggressive. The in-between is Assertiveness, and it takes effort. That's why I wrote my book, Speak Up Anak (on Amazon), to teach assertiveness strategies.

  • @amandamngwengwe7164
    @amandamngwengwe7164 Год назад +1

    Love it

  • @DrCalvinTeach
    @DrCalvinTeach 2 года назад +1

    Way to go Dr. Abby, wow

  • @harmonyphsychicmedium4314
    @harmonyphsychicmedium4314 Год назад

    Yeh I'm starting right now

  • @rebeccasbeautybubble
    @rebeccasbeautybubble 2 года назад

    It all makes sense now growing up in a Filipino household 🤣🤣🤣🇵🇭

  • @Kristine_L
    @Kristine_L 2 года назад +1

    Where can i get this dress! 😍🇵🇭

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 8 месяцев назад

      Just seeing this comment now. I removed the bell sleeves from this dress and redesigned them. Trying to create Modern Filipiniana. I'm glad you like it!

  • @alexajulianna2424
    @alexajulianna2424 2 года назад +1

    Me, a Filipina watching this :)

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 8 месяцев назад

      Check out my other two Ted x talks on RUclips. They are also related to the Filipino American experience.

  • @lyndamorphett2896
    @lyndamorphett2896 3 месяца назад

    Sorry didnt do much for me...

  • @shwaq_v
    @shwaq_v Год назад +1

    Oi, LGBTQ PRESIDENT

  • @amyapplegate4356
    @amyapplegate4356 10 месяцев назад

    Way too many mouth noises.

    • @dr.abbyhamilton8579
      @dr.abbyhamilton8579 8 месяцев назад

      What a keen observation! Do you have any pointers?

    • @amyapplegate4356
      @amyapplegate4356 8 месяцев назад

      @@dr.abbyhamilton8579 listen to yourself while speaking